Excellent overview of ALL the mistakes I’ve made at times. The wrong size shoes and outerwear fit points were For Me! Great photo/video examples. Concise! Thank you.
4:06 #7 IS SUCH GOOD ADVICE! I had a very traumatic incident that directly revolved around one of my favorite jackets and wearing it was a huge trigger for me. My therapist recommended that I give it away to someone I never see so that I'm not reminded of the incident affiliated with it, so I mailed it to an old friend from college who lives on the other side of the country. Now, she can have happy memories of me affiliated with a garment that otherwise only brought pain for me.
Also, I would add “things you have duplicates/too much choice in that category”. I’ve just decluttered some of my scarves (could easily declutter more), and I’m finding that I don’t need so many duplicates of my basic black work trousers. Also, I kept some more summery pieces thinking I could use them as light layers in October/spring (I only have 2 seasons for my wardrobe capsules) but didn’t wear them in October so now I’m less confident about using them in spring. I won’t get rid of them completely, but like you say, they could’ve gone into storage. Maybe I’ll put them in the loft when we get the Christmas decorations down.
I don’t 100% love every item in my closet… I’ve come to learn, after purchasing several blue tops (not navy, but cobalt-ish), that I don’t actually love wearing blue on top. I’m not decluttering. The items are still in perfect condition, and get worn regularly. I’ve just decided not to purchase any more blue after these.
@@danielleg1504 that's such a great reflection and realisation! I had a similar one with colourful bottoms for the winter - I don't enjoy wearing them as much, but if I love the item and it's in a great shape, I'm keeping it - it's rhe more sustainable way!
I disagree on the items I take off before leaving the house. I have some things that I am comfortable to wear at home, or with close family, but not in public.
@@happytofu5 totally understand, I think you're still wearing them around other people and in some situations, so you're making a use out of them! Probably the way I should have phrased it as "the items you always take off after a few mins" because if something is super casual and comfy,I'll wear it at home, but even if it's beautiful and uncomfortable, I won't wear it even for a few mins :) hope that makes sense!
@@MiliVelikova The moment I wrote it, I wondered if what I was talking about was basically what you mean with loungewear. I am a big fan of "using up" clothes and am comfortable to wear old things at home. By the way, the blue loungewear you showed looked absolutely great!
@@happytofu5 Thank you, I absolutely LOVE it, it's 100% cashmere and definitely was a bit out there for me (got it at TK Maxx) - but absolutely no regrets, it makes me feel amazing every time I wear it!
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Do you have any of these 25 items? I have to admit there are 2-3 that I need to declutter myself!
At least 10!
Excellent overview of ALL the mistakes I’ve made at times. The wrong size shoes and outerwear fit points were For Me! Great photo/video examples. Concise! Thank you.
4:06 #7 IS SUCH GOOD ADVICE! I had a very traumatic incident that directly revolved around one of my favorite jackets and wearing it was a huge trigger for me. My therapist recommended that I give it away to someone I never see so that I'm not reminded of the incident affiliated with it, so I mailed it to an old friend from college who lives on the other side of the country. Now, she can have happy memories of me affiliated with a garment that otherwise only brought pain for me.
Aw so glad that you've found a great way to say farewell to the jacket! Definitely not worth keeping it if it evokes such strong emotions!
Very useful tips.
thanks for the part about underwear, I actually needed that one
Haha you're welcome! I needed it myself - definitely got rid of a few items!
Trying not to shout “yes!” as I agree with every point you make in this video has been a struggle! 😂 Another great one, well done Mili.
Also, I would add “things you have duplicates/too much choice in that category”. I’ve just decluttered some of my scarves (could easily declutter more), and I’m finding that I don’t need so many duplicates of my basic black work trousers. Also, I kept some more summery pieces thinking I could use them as light layers in October/spring (I only have 2 seasons for my wardrobe capsules) but didn’t wear them in October so now I’m less confident about using them in spring. I won’t get rid of them completely, but like you say, they could’ve gone into storage. Maybe I’ll put them in the loft when we get the Christmas decorations down.
@@GCBookworm aw thank you so much, I'm glad this resonated! And yes - duplicates are definitely something to add to the list!
Nice practical tips!
@@once_upon_a_time__ thank you for watching! ❤️
Great video! The "clothes you always put on and then take off" felt like a personal attack 😅
Hahaha I'm speaking from experience! Glad this resonated!
Thank you very much, it was very usefull !
@@TheLolodu50 you're welcome! Thanks for watching ❤️
I am guilty of alot of these. Such a good concept.❤
@@Daisy_Anne thank you for watching ❤️
New subscriber here... cam on chat to say I love your voice!! Looking forward to watching the rest of this video!! xoxo Thank you Mili
@@soulieobelissevan aw thank you! Welcome to the channel ❤️
Love your vids. I have at least one piece in every category. Thanks for your insight as always 😊
Aw thank you so much for watching! I'm glad this resonated 😊
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I don’t 100% love every item in my closet… I’ve come to learn, after purchasing several blue tops (not navy, but cobalt-ish), that I don’t actually love wearing blue on top. I’m not decluttering. The items are still in perfect condition, and get worn regularly. I’ve just decided not to purchase any more blue after these.
@@danielleg1504 that's such a great reflection and realisation! I had a similar one with colourful bottoms for the winter - I don't enjoy wearing them as much, but if I love the item and it's in a great shape, I'm keeping it - it's rhe more sustainable way!
I disagree on the items I take off before leaving the house. I have some things that I am comfortable to wear at home, or with close family, but not in public.
@@happytofu5 totally understand, I think you're still wearing them around other people and in some situations, so you're making a use out of them! Probably the way I should have phrased it as "the items you always take off after a few mins" because if something is super casual and comfy,I'll wear it at home, but even if it's beautiful and uncomfortable, I won't wear it even for a few mins :) hope that makes sense!
@@MiliVelikova The moment I wrote it, I wondered if what I was talking about was basically what you mean with loungewear. I am a big fan of "using up" clothes and am comfortable to wear old things at home. By the way, the blue loungewear you showed looked absolutely great!
@@happytofu5 Thank you, I absolutely LOVE it, it's 100% cashmere and definitely was a bit out there for me (got it at TK Maxx) - but absolutely no regrets, it makes me feel amazing every time I wear it!