We do the same !!! For more than 10-15 years now. It was mainly because kids refused to go to same places every year. We agreed it was stupid to do that. Now we all look forward to that break. All are relaxed n eat what they want n chat n talk aaram se without neighbours n others relatives dropping in whole day without even informing or calling for tea to their places. That was really boring n stressful earlier.
Every time, your videos give a new perspective, new clarity to most common situations.....Jyadatar gents yahi sochte hai ki aurat ki har baat maan lo, to sar pe chadh jayegi...wo ye samajhte hi nahi, ki ghar ki lady agar khush rahegi, to pura pariwar ko khush rakh payegi .... Par aksar ghar aayi huyi ladki ko log saalo tak paraya hi samjhte hai, jabki wo to sasural me kadam rakhte hi usko apna maan kar har kaam shuru kar deti hai.... Now this time, you again raised a very common situation and awesome solution..... Thank you so much sir
Ladke ke parents jal bhun ke koyla ho jate hain jab ladki ke parents ko ghuma do.. Ur solution is superb but mentality of older generation is so shallow!
Better earn yourself and take our parents on holidays ❤ me khud pese earn karungi to mujhe agar koyi bolega ki apne parents k upar pese kharch mat Karo to me to nhi manungi.
Sir please make a video on issues of 'living with non working single parent i.e. sasu maa after marriage'. We can't leave her alone as she is afraid being lonely at home. It results in sacrificing our personal time and we can't travel as a couple. Please highlight this and provide the solution
Ye ghar ke issues itne common hote hain... Mujhe nahi maloom thaa.... Gyser wala to maine bhi jhela hai.... Dilli ki thand me gyser lagwa diya poora dilli sir pe.... Itna paisa kharch kar diya bahu ne.... My god.... 😂 Naukar bhi nikaal do. Mahmaano ko bula do aur fir thande paani se bartan dhulwaao bahu se..... Itne bedard kyu ho jaate hain log
Aap ne bilkul sahi kaha sir but ek baat bataye ladki k parents vacation pe spend kar sakte hai or karte hai but ladke k parents ke pass kitne bhi paise kyun na ho phir bhi ek bhi paisa nahi kharach karenge. Mere inlaws ne hame kuchh nahi diya even hamari shaadi pe bhi nahi diya. Aisa kyun. This gives an impression j wo bete or bahu k sath relation rakhna hi nahi chahte
Not every woman feels insecure at the thought of keeping a cook. Sometimes the husband forbids the wife from keeping a cook. He only wants food cooked by his wife🙏
It is not only bahu. ..The 70 year old men of that generation ate extreme pampered. Hw wants his wife also to cook to precise taste as he has been eating for last 40 years.Their wives are also old now and want to stop.Moreover, their health doesnt permit to consume those goodies any more but they don't care.😅
You are exactly right sir. I heard this from my patient who was going to meet her beta bahu. She said we went to meet our kids in Bangalore but we booked hotel and had good time, noone had to cook so it was fun time.
Sir bhut se maa baap larke ko sasural nahi jane dete agar har chhuti mein patni us ke mayke le jaye to ma baap bete ko apni property me se bedakhal kar dete hain ma baap yeh chahte mera beta sirf meri betiyan se milne jaye aur baki time hamare sath rahe susral to bilkul hi na jaye tab khush rehte hain aese log ka vi hal bataye 👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻
True..i also face same.. mere husband bas mujhe chhorne aur lene jate hai .mera eklota bhai is dunia se chala gya..still mere in laws mere parents se baat nahi krte .aur mere husband unse haal chal bhi nahi puchate.. aur main unke maa baap ki seva karu bas.. unka beta sasural na jaye .. nafrat ho gyi aise soch se..
Sir ho sakta hai kuch husbands ho jinhein fark nahi parta ki cook khana banaye ya wife lekin zyadatar aadmiyon ki thinking (including many modern men as well) yehi hai ki wife hi cook kare. Meri ek friend hai, usne bht mushkil se ghar me ek cook lagayi, uske ghar me har dusre din kalesh hota hai. Khana aisa banaya vaisa banaya. Khane me koi kami naa dikhe, to is baat pe kalesh ho jaata hai ki khana kadhai se nikalke sahi bartan me nahi daala😂😂 Meri maa ne naukri ke sath sath ghar ka saara kaam kiya hai. Shuru ke kai saal to jhadu poncha bartan bhi. Ab kuch saal pehle maine aur meri behen ne milke ghar me cook rakhi. Usme mere father ki dramon ki wajah se 3 cook change hui. Ab jo finally tiki hai wo itna acha khana banati hai. Uske khane me vaisa taste hai jaisa ghar ki traditional sikhi hui ladies ke hathon me hota hai. Lekin aksar uske khane me bhi nuks nikal dete hain kabhi kabhi. Indian patriarchal men are just too difficult to deal with. Hats off to all these indian women who have taken all these kinds of shit from these good for nothing men. But they didn't deserve it, and they also have set those high expectations from women today - which is impossible now due to change in thinking, education, and also the fact that many of them are working today.
Kaam is not a problem. Meri saas koi kaam nahi na koi kaam kiya usne kabi. Mera sara kaam karti hun. Jharu picha, bartan, kapde, khana. Phir bhi saas taane marti hai. Lakhon rupeesbhi de diye phir bhi tang karti hai. Or sab rishtedaar on ko mere baare mein itna saara jhuth bol rakha hai
Nhi ladke ki zimmedari kyun hai ladki ke parents ke liye ,ladki ke parents ka apna beta to hoga na ,jab ladki apne sas saur ki zimmedari nhi leti to ladka kyun le ladki ke maa baap ki,
Guru Tatva, Good solution. Now good package tours are there by Railways with good food and visit to tourist spots all included. The whole family enjoys and spends time with entertainment and exposure.
Sir mere sas sasur r not ready to come outside with us...unko to bas unke betiyon ke bacche sambhalane me hi Sukh mil Raha hai...they want us to come there n do all household work jab ki holidays me meri teen nand and unke bacche aate h....ek saal sabko manake bahar bhi leke diye but jab kharche ki baat aati hai to Pani ka bottle bhi koi nahi leta...ab kya kare??
Sir sab se jayada jo 80 's 90's Wale pees rahe hai .....pahle Wale isliye adjust kar lete ki unko exposure nahi Mila and parents bhi dominant karte the ..... millennium babies muh fat bol dete .....hum toh badi muskil se job kar sake and job , family ko balance karte karte hum dukhi ho gaye....pati bhi shravan kumar
😂😂😂😂 Sir aap Ekdum correct bolte ho sach bolte ho, sabko pata hota hai,bas no one wants to tie the bell or n the cats neck but you say it straight away no back talks jo hai muhh pe sahiye I guess half of the problems will be solved 🎉😂if everyone thinks this way involve everyone and take everyone together n Enjoy 😅
Parents dont let their son do improvements in the house. I told them lets change out toilet to western. They said no we don’t need. After few months they did it themselves but they did of 1/10th quality. This is just an example. They want me to come to visit, but they dont let me do anything in the house even if its for my comfort
aap sahi ho par mere sas sasur chahate hai ki mai foreign se aake gav mai unako khana khilau ...usaka kya kare? unako 1 din dinner bahar khana acha nahi lagata
@@User6m7-112 exactly same, mere yha bhi yhi rule h k Ghar he aao chuti lekar, upar se mere husband bolte h ye bhi to holiday h , fir isi bat par jhagde bhi hote h
Peheli diwali peheli holi pr ldke ko bula liya dulhan ko akela chod diya jo pregnant thi city ki ldki ho k gaon me gaon k tor tariko se rhi Pr ldke ko ldki k gharwalo se dur rkhte rhe to jo ldki h usko smjh aa gya fir ldki ne sbke sath ghumna band kr diya ki ab tu akela ja fir kya
Agreed have faced the same issues. Sasural mein saree Pahno aur padosiyon ko dikhana aur chai nashta karana. Very stressful.
Same here padosiyo ko dikhna is also an issue
Why you are tolerating such things. No one can make you do anything without your permission.
We do the same !!! For more than 10-15 years now. It was mainly because kids refused to go to same places every year. We agreed it was stupid to do that. Now we all look forward to that break. All are relaxed n eat what they want n chat n talk aaram se without neighbours n others relatives dropping in whole day without even informing or calling for tea to their places. That was really boring n stressful earlier.
pehli baar all rounder mila jo 360° se har parkar ki problems ko solv karta hai. Thankyou 🎉
Every time, your videos give a new perspective, new clarity to most common situations.....Jyadatar gents yahi sochte hai ki aurat ki har baat maan lo, to sar pe chadh jayegi...wo ye samajhte hi nahi, ki ghar ki lady agar khush rahegi, to pura pariwar ko khush rakh payegi .... Par aksar ghar aayi huyi ladki ko log saalo tak paraya hi samjhte hai, jabki wo to sasural me kadam rakhte hi usko apna maan kar har kaam shuru kar deti hai.... Now this time, you again raised a very common situation and awesome solution..... Thank you so much sir
Ladke ke parents jal bhun ke koyla ho jate hain jab ladki ke parents ko ghuma do.. Ur solution is superb but mentality of older generation is so shallow!
Kuch bhi
it’s not truth at all!
@@shauryakavishorts truth seeker shi keh rhe h
Better earn yourself and take our parents on holidays ❤ me khud pese earn karungi to mujhe agar koyi bolega ki apne parents k upar pese kharch mat Karo to me to nhi manungi.
😂✌🏻
Sir please make a video on issues of 'living with non working single parent i.e. sasu maa after marriage'. We can't leave her alone as she is afraid being lonely at home. It results in sacrificing our personal time and we can't travel as a couple. Please highlight this and provide the solution
Ye ghar ke issues itne common hote hain... Mujhe nahi maloom thaa.... Gyser wala to maine bhi jhela hai.... Dilli ki thand me gyser lagwa diya poora dilli sir pe.... Itna paisa kharch kar diya bahu ne.... My god.... 😂
Naukar bhi nikaal do. Mahmaano ko bula do aur fir thande paani se bartan dhulwaao bahu se.....
Itne bedard kyu ho jaate hain log
Aap ne bilkul sahi kaha sir but ek baat bataye ladki k parents vacation pe spend kar sakte hai or karte hai but ladke k parents ke pass kitne bhi paise kyun na ho phir bhi ek bhi paisa nahi kharach karenge. Mere inlaws ne hame kuchh nahi diya even hamari shaadi pe bhi nahi diya. Aisa kyun. This gives an impression j wo bete or bahu k sath relation rakhna hi nahi chahte
Most underrated channel. Guru ji you have all solutions.
Not every woman feels insecure at the thought of keeping a cook. Sometimes the husband forbids the wife from keeping a cook. He only wants food cooked by his wife🙏
Sahi kah rahe ho, husband nd in laws chahte h ki khana to bahu k haath ka hi khana h
If the wife can earn 70-80% or even more than the man, no man in his right mind can *forbid* the wife to do *anything*.
@@Anant.Bhatia.Antz_Bin तू abhi bacha hai to ja kae khel . Don't give ur unrealistic gyaan.
@@PS-oy1el I guess you are new to this channel. Yahi soch to badalni hai. :)
It is not only bahu. ..The 70 year old men of that generation ate extreme pampered. Hw wants his wife also to cook to precise taste as he has been eating for last 40 years.Their wives are also old now and want to stop.Moreover, their health doesnt permit to consume those goodies any more but they don't care.😅
even though i am not married but still learning for future scenarios
Aisa solution bilkul nahi soch pata Mai to, bilkul hatke solutions dete ho app to sir ji 🙏
Sir desh prem waali baat bahot bahot achchi lagi. Dhanyawaad aapko.
Sirjee, alag hi level hai aapka.. shat shat Naman hai...
You are exactly right sir. I heard this from my patient who was going to meet her beta bahu. She said we went to meet our kids in Bangalore but we booked hotel and had good time, noone had to cook so it was fun time.
Very true and 100% agree with each and every word we have to change .......
Very interesting case study. Please bring more . We love case studies.
Sir 2 video me aapki fan ban gayi. Thanks so much.
I also did the same last time. It was a great experience for everyone in the family.
Sir bahut hi practical solution hai apke pass😊😊🎉
Sir bhut se maa baap larke ko sasural nahi jane dete agar har chhuti mein patni us ke mayke le jaye to ma baap bete ko apni property me se bedakhal kar dete hain ma baap yeh chahte mera beta sirf meri betiyan se milne jaye aur baki time hamare sath rahe susral to bilkul hi na jaye tab khush rehte hain aese log ka vi hal bataye 👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Property distribution rule fix ho jana chahiye, wasiyat banaane ko limit kar dena chahiye
True..i also face same.. mere husband bas mujhe chhorne aur lene jate hai .mera eklota bhai is dunia se chala gya..still mere in laws mere parents se baat nahi krte .aur mere husband unse haal chal bhi nahi puchate.. aur main unke maa baap ki seva karu bas.. unka beta sasural na jaye .. nafrat ho gyi aise soch se..
Sir ho sakta hai kuch husbands ho jinhein fark nahi parta ki cook khana banaye ya wife lekin zyadatar aadmiyon ki thinking (including many modern men as well) yehi hai ki wife hi cook kare. Meri ek friend hai, usne bht mushkil se ghar me ek cook lagayi, uske ghar me har dusre din kalesh hota hai. Khana aisa banaya vaisa banaya. Khane me koi kami naa dikhe, to is baat pe kalesh ho jaata hai ki khana kadhai se nikalke sahi bartan me nahi daala😂😂
Meri maa ne naukri ke sath sath ghar ka saara kaam kiya hai. Shuru ke kai saal to jhadu poncha bartan bhi. Ab kuch saal pehle maine aur meri behen ne milke ghar me cook rakhi. Usme mere father ki dramon ki wajah se 3 cook change hui. Ab jo finally tiki hai wo itna acha khana banati hai. Uske khane me vaisa taste hai jaisa ghar ki traditional sikhi hui ladies ke hathon me hota hai. Lekin aksar uske khane me bhi nuks nikal dete hain kabhi kabhi. Indian patriarchal men are just too difficult to deal with. Hats off to all these indian women who have taken all these kinds of shit from these good for nothing men. But they didn't deserve it, and they also have set those high expectations from women today - which is impossible now due to change in thinking, education, and also the fact that many of them are working today.
Real Practical Issue. Thanks for Guidance.
100 % identify for modern couples.
Kaam is not a problem. Meri saas koi kaam nahi na koi kaam kiya usne kabi. Mera sara kaam karti hun. Jharu picha, bartan, kapde, khana. Phir bhi saas taane marti hai. Lakhon rupeesbhi de diye phir bhi tang karti hai. Or sab rishtedaar on ko mere baare mein itna saara jhuth bol rakha hai
Gazabbbbbb Mazzaaaaa Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🔥💫🔥
Please keep on sharing and making such insightful practical Case Studies video series ♥️💯♥️
Tu bhai hai apna
Family is smallest unit. Well explained. Head soft to you
Nhi ladke ki zimmedari kyun hai ladki ke parents ke liye ,ladki ke parents ka apna beta to hoga na ,jab ladki apne sas saur ki zimmedari nhi leti to ladka kyun le ladki ke maa baap ki,
मजा आ गया आप के विडियो वास्तव मे मजेदार ओर सीखने वाले
Great sir!!!! Sab kuch hai hamare pass...
Sir. its very interesting. - addressing the problem in a different way.
Sir you have hit the nail
Totally agree chutti should be like chutti .
Vrindavan jao guys or stay karo kuch din...magan ho jaoge aane ka man hi ni karega
Best place for shanti
Sir ...😂aapke Charan Kamal kaha he...😂..koti koti pranaam..❤
Shi m 😂😂😂
Really very practical approach and in a very interesting way❤❤
Very innovative n progressive idea🎉
Excellent solution 🥳🥳😊🌸
👌👌 excellent and pragmatic content!
Good n practical advice fr working couples to enjoy holidays wth grand parents/parents.
You are hundred percent correct Sir
Sir this is best till date🙏
Maza aa gaya sir
Very practical advice indeed :)
Guru Tatva,
Good solution. Now good package tours are there by Railways with good food and visit to tourist spots all included.
The whole family enjoys and spends time with entertainment and exposure.
You really are a Guruji..🙏🙏
Too good Sir... this is family happiness enlightenment 😊
What an idea sirji. !
Best solution sir
Really nice content useful applicable practical never discussed but real content
MORE videos.
Sir kabhi plz templates bhi btao kya hota hai.
Sir mere sas sasur r not ready to come outside with us...unko to bas unke betiyon ke bacche sambhalane me hi Sukh mil Raha hai...they want us to come there n do all household work jab ki holidays me meri teen nand and unke bacche aate h....ek saal sabko manake bahar bhi leke diye but jab kharche ki baat aati hai to Pani ka bottle bhi koi nahi leta...ab kya kare??
bahut dukh dekh rahi ho!
Y to galat h
Ltakna kisi k upar galat h
Jab ladki ko property m hissa nhi doge to wo to latkegi hi
Maaza aa gaya.....
I am 71 and non religious.. believe in super power but no bhakti...like to visit histoeic temples..but purely tourism .
Roj ek case study pe daily ek video banaye please
Sir sab se jayada jo 80 's 90's Wale pees rahe hai .....pahle Wale isliye adjust kar lete ki unko exposure nahi Mila and parents bhi dominant karte the ..... millennium babies muh fat bol dete .....hum toh badi muskil se job kar sake and job , family ko balance karte karte hum dukhi ho gaye....pati bhi shravan kumar
Wah sir gajab
Sir kamal hai same holiday yahi hota hai
😂😂😂😂 Sir aap Ekdum correct bolte ho sach bolte ho, sabko pata hota hai,bas no one wants to tie the bell or n the cats neck but you say it straight away no back talks jo hai muhh pe sahiye I guess half of the problems will be solved 🎉😂if everyone thinks this way involve everyone and take everyone together n Enjoy 😅
Thankyou Sir Valuable advice
Never ever wasted my time on IPL, daily soap, big boss. Literally waste of time.
Parents dont let their son do improvements in the house. I told them lets change out toilet to western. They said no we don’t need. After few months they did it themselves but they did of 1/10th quality. This is just an example. They want me to come to visit, but they dont let me do anything in the house even if its for my comfort
Good advices.
Great ideas sir💐💐💐💐
totally agree with him
Nice
Congratulations i wish you same energy and enthusiasm for future success🎉❤
Aap jo bol rhe ho wo idea bahut sahi hai . But isme kharcha bahut hai😂
Great suggestion, 👍
He goes to his home and i go to my place
Sir please do more case studies 🙏
Best thing is 3 days dada ka house 3 days Nani ka Ghar and baki days domestic ya international holidays done...
Bahut mast
Last one was too good😂
Last few minutes are awesome 😂😂
Air bnb point is so true .
Namaskar sir 🙏 Thank you for this video
Guruji IPL bole or according to algorithms IPL ki add aa rahi hai 😂
Thank you so much for this content
Yei meri problem hei .. holi diwali b apne sasural jana padta hei aur kaam karo
Deepawali kahan manae
Off season yatra with family 👪 feel good factory for rondumals👌
Sir ap savi ka jindegi ma khusali layega
Excellent
Nice hai
Sir aajkal haldwani kathgodam wale Bareilly se flight kr le. Direct hai aur only 2 hours. Delhi se 7 8 hours ho jata h
Thank you Sir!
Ye bahut sahi tha. Unko Pata bhi nahi hai aur aapas me lad rahe ho. Actually it happens
RO wala sahi hai.. tanki k pani pe lgta hai is the reason of nahi lagana
Superb video sir . 👏
Super Idea
aap sahi ho par mere sas sasur chahate hai ki mai foreign se aake gav mai unako khana khilau ...usaka kya kare? unako 1 din dinner bahar khana acha nahi lagata
yes..these problems are there
Yes you are right
Some people are like that
No matter what we do they went bahu to do seva, cook , entertain relatives.
@@Hetal28 same here
@@User6m7-112 exactly same, mere yha bhi yhi rule h k Ghar he aao chuti lekar, upar se mere husband bolte h ye bhi to holiday h , fir isi bat par jhagde bhi hote h
@@User6m7-112 bilkul sahi baat 👍👍 totally agree
Sir ji agar parents aged hojaye to kya karna chaiye
Peheli diwali peheli holi pr ldke ko bula liya dulhan ko akela chod diya jo pregnant thi city ki ldki ho k gaon me gaon k tor tariko se rhi Pr ldke ko ldki k gharwalo se dur rkhte rhe to jo ldki h usko smjh aa gya fir ldki ne sbke sath ghumna band kr diya ki ab tu akela ja fir kya
Pl keep adding such videos
Kathgodam aur Haldwani k beech m kaunsi location hain? M toh idhar se hi hu😅
Topic dekh ke he like kardo 😂
😂❤
Ek number video
Ekdum maza agaya😅
Solution to bahut badiya hai par itna easy bhi nahi hai maa baap na khud paise kharchte hai na kharchane dete hai
Good