GUY TALK: Love, Work, and Toxic Masculinity with 28LABORATORY's Corbyn and LXX | GET REAL Ep. #24
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ธ.ค. 2020
- Insightful artists and dear friends of the hosts, Corbyn and LXX, from 28LABORATORY join the table for some guy talk...with Ashley, too. They reflect on their influences growing up as young men and how if anything, being true to who you really are is the best way to go about life regardless of gender identity.
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I literally love watching you guys I love you guys🔥❤️🔥❤️
I wanna share here this video where a therapist and a filmmaker analyze Non-toxic masculinity through the character of Aragorn. The psychologist says he doesn’t like the term “toxic masculinity”, he prefers “limiting masculinity”. It fits perfectly with this episode. Link: th-cam.com/video/pv_KAnY5XNQ/w-d-xo.html
Thank you, Dive for all the work you do. GET REAL is a need in my life now. The topics you guys speak about definitely _need_ to be shout out. I also appreciate the sense of communication “with friends” and familiarity you’ve built through all these conversations. THANK YOU 🙏🏼❤️
Hell yeah! I did... This is seriously my favorit podcast
After listening to this..i miss all my guy friends... I see myself..can relate to the topic becozz I'm only one girl in the guy gang..🙂🙂🙂...
I likethe look of beard guy
Ashley is one of the boys now
Yup she is one of the bois
No, she’s one of the bois now
Bois sleepover now
she a homie
I want Ashley to be my homegirl
BM: "There's nothing more manly than being a good man to your significant other"
awwww 너무 사랑해요 비엠
I agree! I grew up seeing my older brother treat his wife with such respect and love that it really raised the bar up high for my standards. Especially since he was physically really strong but also found being vulnerable to be a man's biggest strength.
💯
True words. If you KNOW without a doubt you'll be loyal, humble, provider, and face what's required of the wedding oath for her you've got yourself a good foundation!
8:12 "cause you're one of the stronger figures in my life" man that's so sweet
RIGHT??????????? 🥺😭
I was looking for this comment🥺🥺🥺
This conversation should have been like 3hrs long!
I feel you
Like pretty much every episode.
I agree
facts
17:10 BM should've asked,
What's the "Ladies' Code?"
this is genius.
@@power9725 Ty.
ahhh good one
That's exactly what I thought lol
YES
BM is that guy friend everybody needs..like everybody!
Mathew is my last hope in men :)
Facts if I can’t get someone who’s like Mathew my hope is gone
SAME
He sets the standard pretty high tbh
Hahahahahah
Seriously I wish most men could match up to him
HE PANICKED AFTER CURSING OMG HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH
Maureen Liamme what time ?
@@amandalamarche8702 2:57
Haha😀😀😀
@@rahmachairunnisa1935 LMAOO
So your telling me that these handsome guest are over the age of 28...why are hot guys so much older than me😩😩😩
I'm not sure exactly how old they are or you are, but when you get older you'll realize that an 8-10 year (?) difference isn't really that crazy.
@@djokawari1 ********AS LONG AS YOU'RE OF AGE*********
********AS LONG AS YOU'RE OF AGE********
Omg yeah Corbyn is 30
Why are hot guys so far from me 😫😫😫
"start with a handshake" is actually great advice. As a woman, I feel more comfortable if a guy gives me a handshake when we meet for the first time. In my country, it´s also common to greet each other with cheek to cheek greeting. Some men might use it as advantage, but mostly it shows that they were raised good by their parents. But handshake is definitely the best way.
R u french or from a European country ?
@@marieperin96 France is in Europe. But yes I'm european, just not from France
Agreed with the handshakes, with direct friendly and respectful eye contact. I hate when guys are shy and awkward with women because they've never been around them much.
I'm from Chile and when we greet people, regardless of gender, we shake hands. Only when we know each other do we kiss once on the cheek. I think this is something that just Chile does, it seems to be different from other Latino countries.
It’s interesting to hear about what people from other cultures feel is the most comfortable way of greeting. Coming from an East Asian country, I feel like non-physical greetings are the most natural and comfortable for me. Unless I’m at a business conference or something of that nature, I won’t default to shaking hands
hope we can see Corbyn again but on HDIGH next time, since he’s personal friends with AleXa. I’ve been waiting to see AleXa and Corbyn together again since her debut
Oh I didn't know ! Since when do they know each others?
@@varia2xg since around 2015-ish. I don’t remember exactly when but he was still in 24K at the time
@@very_cherryx Corbyn is from 24K? 😱
@@beishere6261 yes. he used to go by Cory and he was the leader of 24K
corbyn is so chill and laidback, i could listen to him talking for 6 hours straight
i feel like he's way more relaxed than when he was with 24k
right! he needs a podcast or something 😩
what's 24k
@@ardencho662 it was the kpop group name he was apart of
omg that's cory from 24k??? i didn't know he left.in 2016 i was big fan of them.what happened to the group?
@@abug- nearly every original member left 24k besides changsun (who wasn't an original member either but he was the only one left + kiyong who was added shortly before the other members left) and now there's another 3 new members added. So 5 in total. They go under the group name 24k also but kinda rebranded with new logo and stuff.
This convo was great. The respect they have for strong independent women and single moms. Feel so related to Ashley. When you hang with the girls but you also have your group of guy friends. It's a good balance.
Also ashley talking about her father crying in the shower was so cute :(
I didn't know that Alex finished his military service
I really like how everyone is being honest!
when did he talk about it?
Corbyn after swearing, he goes Oop- 😳
Lxx forgetting his song's name. Lol 🤣
"What challenges you faced as a dude, Ashley?" 👀
"I like had that some feminine in me too." No wonder he is so sweet. 🥺
The podcast is so adorable. God. 😍🥺
I am so proud of my 28 laboratory boys getting the recognition they really deserve all the love. 💓🥰
Can I get more info on them? It’s the first time I hear about 28 labs
@@karlarios232 Sure, you can ask me anything you like to know. Or go to IG follow their IG handles. And lot of their fans have '28lab' added to their IG username so, you can start a conversation with anyone in the comments section. 😍
@@hohosbae2954 are both of them 24k members??
@@sionropheca6473 No no. Only Corbyn was a 24K member, whereas Lxx was a High4 member.
I'm a single mom of 3 boys & this episode really help give me a second pov about how boys think. Thanks guys & Ashley. Love this podcast ❤
i hope we get to see ph-1 back here again
he's coming back :)
@@user-tn8kp6uf9k Not soon enough
They already confirmed in instagram he'll be back
yes omg i miss ph1
@@almariaghern1876 seriously? who posted?
The lesbian in me fades away with Matthew :') and comes again with Ashley :)
sounds confusing
hmm.. now that's a mood😂😂
@@kean6577 it is :')
The great thing about being bi is just getting to enjoy the view xD
@@wluna6455 THE WAY YOU WORDED IT IS ON POINTTTTTT
Around the 33:00 mark, where he talks about his aunties being strong& manly I think in the same way men don't want to feel pressured into being overtly masculine. Women who are considered independent or "strong" don't want to be seen as masculine because they can hold their own. Not sure if I'm voicing this out properly
Ps I already listened to it on Spotify
Your right!!
I totally get what you mean. It's this whole "Superwoman/Superman" complex that we have adopted these days. And Hollywood likes to push on us especially on black women. The way I see it is at some point you have no choice but to be that
" Superwoman/Superman " especially when you have nobody to count on but yourself & be considered as strong because you managed not to "kill yourself" and equating that with being strong/manly cause men are strong even thou you don't feel like taking up all that burden on yourself but if not you then who will.
Hope I'm making sense.
@@sailorfan86 you're definitely making sense. Thanks for clarifying that for me
@@ThePammyone OK GREAT
why the ps? is the content different on spotify?
Alex is trying his hardest not make eye contact with Ashley 🤣
Ikr I noticed it too lol
😂
PLEASE CALL WOOSUNG FROM THE ROSE
I second this! 👋
Ikr and the fact that he’s friends with everyone of them
YASSS PLEASE
PLEAAASSSEEEEE
YES
Hope we can see AB6IX's Daehwi on Get Real one day. Daehwi has outstanding speaking talent and i believe that he can do well in English, too (he lived in LA for 6 years)
Woah for real though, if they can get to invite Daehwi here it would be amazing, their vibes would be so synchronizing
Yeah
Damn I can hear all about them all day long. Corbyn is so chill and fun, I likes the way he talks. And Alex seems to be a sweet guy, he has a really nice voice.
I remember that BM once said this during pH-1 session together with Get Real but didn't expect that they brought this topic up with 28Lab. This is cool. Good job guys!
It seems like Corbyn and Ashley are really close. :) it’s good to have friendships like this.
Oh god I died when Corbyn said "where the suga mommas at?" lmfao
What time?
@@nainasingh2863 I know it’s late but here 10:56
Ashley is so luckyyy. I wish i have a guy friends like this 😩🤍
Me too
Matthew kinda reminds me of Will Smith. Something in the way he talks, his mimics and behaviour.
Lol I was going to write that down after watching a few videos. Matthew does remind me of will smith, voice, 😂, etc.
We all need a homeboy like Matthew. 👌❤️
Amazing conversation, I was tuned in thee entire time lol **ashley, you have some handsome friends gurl lol!!
I wish this podcast was longer! Please bring back Alex and Corbyn as guests again 😊🙌
BM and Ashley are so real in talking about any topic! Love love this podcast! Peace ✌🏻
Alex' smile is EVERYTHING ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
7:57 Oh my, Ashley's laugh is too cute. I love her
BMs laugh gives me so much joy in life honestly
I think Alex understood the topic really well!
Alex has a voice made for podcast, it’s really drawing you in
8:50 - 10:26
learning about ashley's family is one of my favorite things about her.
This podcast makes me feel less lonely in my first year of college at home.
Same 😭
28:20 that "oops" cracked me up
Its so addictive lol
the ice cube convo nonsense got me 💀💀💀 we need more guys like them to exist :)) I hope Corbyn and LXX comes back for another podcast they seem chill and good at talkin
I remember the first time I fully realized the danger of toxic masculinity was when I was 13 years old and a friend of mine was mad or sad (I don’t really remember why) and so I told him “go cry about it and then feel better” and he said “hell nah I aint a bitch and crying makes sh*t worse” and then proceeded to punch a hole in his wall and really mess up his hand destroying his closet doors in an extrem rage. I remember in my head just being like “damn, yeah, that’s not it.” He was also super abusive, no surprise really seeing his behavior and we don’t talk anymore.
Omg I fell in love with this guys, I so wanna be Ashley to have such great guy friends!!! I love how Dive listened to us and did this topic, so cute🤧🤧🤧🤧💖
I really love it whenever the guest is their close friend. They’re all so chill. 🥺
I need a home girl like Ashley.
*Please have them back, i really love them. Pretty chill and funny with substance too. Corbyn is pretty dope too. Love them. Ashley has pretty dope friends, waiting for the day my bias rosé appears here cos she's pretty close with her too. Fighting,!!*
i lowkey get giggly when corbyn talks and looks at ashley ;)
BM : I had a little feminine in me too
Me : 👁️👄👁️
Here I am laughing at this at 3 am and watching Ashley be like a 4 wheel in man talk
LOVE this convo! please have a part 2 with corbyn & LXX they good GOOD 👏🏼
Thanks for this convo, Dive!! Much needed!! 🙏🏼🙋🏼♀️👑😻
Really enjoyed this episode a lot! It's good to hear the perspectives from all sides!
Love the Get Real podcasts! This was a super interesting topic! I'm looking forward to the next one 😊
this is like subsequently one of my top favorites podcasts.
I’m very happy with the energy created in this video
i hope they can come again! this was a great conversation, very chill, intelligent, and great to listen to. i'd love to hear more from them! (of course ash and bm too!)
i was in peace, but the title OMG- I LOVE IT IN HERE
thanks to DIVE discovered new artists!!!!
What an amazing episode! 😀 a much-needed conversation!
Wait isn’t that Alex from High4? Omg I haven’t kept up with them in so long. I used to listen to their songs in the past. What a nice surprise 💚
this is ma fav episode they all so comfortable and cheerful together
Why do get real eps end so fast 😭 I love this podcast
Yooo Alex representing Rockland County!! I was like " Ayoo what he say?? Did he deadass say Nyack!? NOBODY knows about Nyack! "
I KNOW
I can't help but notice that Corbyn's outfit is fitting the background. Cool episode btw.
this is SERIOUSLY one of the best pods episode ever!!!!
the way these guys express their respect for women is something else!!!!
omg I like this ep sooooo much, the atmosphere is super chill and fun and comfortable and I'd like to hear this for hours. wish peniel could be here too it would be so good
Absolutely LOVED this Episode!! I LAUGHED so much!!
Thank you for making me laugh so much! I loved the topics and talks! I’m excited for more ☺️
I wish this was longer😩🔥❤️ it was really good
BM’s advice to the guy looking for female friends “Start with a 🤝”.....COVID looking around like 😈😂😂jk.
Congrats for talking about these topics!
This episode is sooo interesting I didn't even notice how quick the time went by❤️
thankssss. for another episode, keep em cominggg
Ayyyyeee they be getting sponsors now! Wohoo yes get that coin! yall deserve it for the amazing content ❤️
"It's hard to deal with people" hell yeah...
LOVED this episode would love to have these two back
i laughed so much and really enjoyed this episode. this topic is soooo INTERESTING. thank you guys i love you.
2:57 corbyn can't stop cursing even for 3 minutes i live for that
I've bee curious about these stuffs and topics but don't have close guy friends to talk to. Hahaha enjoyed this topic so much. 😊
It was such a good episode!!! Why is it so short😭😭😭give us more❤️❤️❤️❤️
Meaningful discussion, loved it ❤️❤️❤️
I love seeing more members of the gyopo line lol, hope you bring back both of them in the future!
I actually started liking podcasts like I always thought they're boring but dude the issues and topics you discuss are entertaining and interesting af somehow they're educational too for a 14 y.o homan💛🥺
i really love their group of friends, along with peniel, joan, tina, coco, jae, bernard, etc. i wish there more male-female friendships like theirs in the korean entertainment industry.
Dude Portland here! I was so happy I’m definitely gonna check him out soon
yayyyyy people finally having this conversation>>>
10:29 True ! My sister and I were only raised my our mother and she did everything and worked so hard for us. I'm so thanful I grew up with such a strong female model
I truly enjoyed this pod 🙌
Lxx is so cute. And corbyn is so cool always engaging Ashley asking her opinions haha
BM's giggle is the best thing in this existence
This was so interesting!! I’d like to suggest u guys talking about being Korean American and maybe the racism that u may have faced in America or the differences and cultural barriers u felt in Korea esp to do with like pale skin being preferred in Korea versus America preferring tan skin.
I feel like that 'testosterone' excuse gets used a lot when it's convenient for the guy though. I get it, but even if it's true, I think we've evolved enough to know when to separate unhealthy and healthy competition.
Where can i get myself a Mathew in my life i need a guy like him so bad, lover or just friend doesn't matter i neeeeeedddd a human being like him!!
I loved this episode so muchhh !
thanks for introducing me to so many great artists
aye the pod is sponsored! lets goooo 🎉🎉
Best episode everrrr!!! The coolest kids in town 😎😎 I love you guys wish you all the best ❤️❤️❤️
THIS EP SHOULD BE ENTITLED " 41 MINS OF CORBYN BEING SO FUCKING HOT "
he's so cool!!!!
I totally love your show! Greetings from Chile 🥰