YOU CAN'T SAY THAT | What NOT to Say to a Paraplegic |

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  • @yourgrumpyunclefishing
    @yourgrumpyunclefishing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I dated a paraplegic once, she passed away two years ago (murdered) but one of my fondest memories of her is one night, she called me at 2am and told me she wanted a coke.... so I got up and drove an hour to her house, and instead of loading her wheelchair to go to a convenience store, I just picked her up and carried her to the car, when we got to the store, I again carried her around in the store, and she put her items in her lap as we went down isles.... when we got to the counter to pay, I just kinda leaned her forward and let the stuff roll onto the counter, she was laughing the entire time... so we paid, and the cashier commented on how cute we were... but the funniest part was when I sat her back down in the car, her legs were outside the car, and she looked at me with a straight face and told me “Baby just leave those here, I don’t need them anyway!” She had such a great sense of humor about her disability, I loved her so much.... she was left on a mountain dirt road two years ago by an X boyfriend of hers, he beat her and stole her wheelchair and left her to die in 15 degree weather... they found her body the next day... and nobody has been arrested or charges as of yet

    • @markwh60
      @markwh60 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Take this for what it is worth from an old guy. You are one of the most naturally beautiful young women out there. I wish you well with your future career choices. Trust me. Hollywood will come calling. Do not let them steal who you are.

    • @robertpilkington8968
      @robertpilkington8968 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s screwed up

  • @DammitKriss
    @DammitKriss 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife is in a wheelchair AND deaf, so a lot of what you mentioned in this video she can relate to, especially the condescending talking and being an inspiration. One of her complaints is when people will just come up behind her and start pushing her around, so we kind of wanted to do a comedy video on what things like that would be for walking people (I.e. just picking up some stranger and carrying them somewhere when they ask for directions). We both love your videos, and I hope you make it big in Hollywood!

  • @dominic.h.3363
    @dominic.h.3363 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    "I can relate to you because I was once in a wheelchair"... I wouldn't even believe that from someone who was born disabled like me, and said that sitting in their wheelchair in front of me. My also wheelchair user ex had a major surgery 200 miles and a country border away. I traveled alone by train 15 hours to visit her for like two and a half. I was so sore and hurting when I finally returned home and laid in a bed after a day of sitting with a fucked up spine that normally needs rest every 8-10 hours, I legit cried. That was the last time I've seen her before she dumped me. To have so little appreciation for the things people do for you is a completely shitty attitude to have, and one further reason why I will never EVER date anyone who is disabled ever again! Instead of relating to you, they feel entitled to the effort people are going through for them regardless of your own circumstances and show absolutely zero appreciation for it!
    I should be glad she broke up with me, it was so physically and emotionally exhausting to be with her I'm still very obviously salty about it.

  • @ryanwright8476
    @ryanwright8476 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your amazing your sarcasm towards ignorance had me cracking up

  • @johnwebb4215
    @johnwebb4215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I'm out and about in my chair, my biggest problem is people staring at their phones. When they land in my lap I say, "Next time you drop in bring your folks". I told one lady that the city pays me a bounty for every phone zombie I take out. She looked at me in horror and ran off.

  • @davidcarson9125
    @davidcarson9125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recently started to follow you on TikTok. I fell for your humor and hit follow to make it easier to look at all of your videos. Only after a few did I notice you had the chair. You were awesome before I knew your mode of transportation and of course you are still awesome now that I have seen it many times. You do make me smile and flat out crack the hell up laughing at times. None of that has to do with your wheels. Come to think of it, the only times that I even think of your chair is when it is purposeful used as a prop or as part of the gag in one of your videos. That said, I am glad to find that you do your best to be patient and tolerant of us that say the wrong thing from time to time. I can not understand what it is to have the need of a wheelchair. I have other goofy things that irritate me sometimes but it's not the same. All I really should be saying is thanks for being you, because you spread joy. But, like I said, I almost always say too much. Keep the fun stuff coming. You're awesome kiddo. 👍

  • @fdhicks69
    @fdhicks69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You do not have a raspy voice...@7:00+. I love it... that was grrreat! all of it... it is exactly how I feel with stupid questions and comments that are sooo annoying. How do you go to the bathroom, That chair looks really fun, must be nice to get good parking and board the plane first (I’m last off and everyone stares at me like I’m some exhibit, so NO!) Do you know so and so as they are paraplegic too. NO, we don’t all know each other and don’t all hang out in some secret club... (my rant for the week, sorry). Your work invigorated me.

  • @markboucher8275
    @markboucher8275 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I discovered you on tik tok. I became an instant fan. Now I've found your TH-cam channel. Now I get double the entertainment. Thank you for being you. Love your content.

  • @afdvaughn
    @afdvaughn 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a beautiful young woman. I love your delivery and sense of humor.
    It’s refreshing to hear a realist speak.

  • @alfonsonavarro1806
    @alfonsonavarro1806 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I first saw you on Tic Tok and the first thing that I said to myself was, she is so beautiful, then wondered why you were in a wheelchair. I never again thought about the chair again, I just focused on you and your personality. Young lady you rock! I really like the story about how your father would sneak with you to do different things that your mom wouldn't let you do, that would have been me, mom would have stayed mad at us lol - 1LOVE goes out to you. Keep doing what you do, you are very entertaining

  • @rickrodgers7805
    @rickrodgers7805 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOU GO GIRL! Tell people you make being in a wheelchair sexy or hot! That should shut them up. Love your channel!!!! Rick

  • @denisha7277
    @denisha7277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Girl your voice is so cute!

  • @TheOklahomabourne
    @TheOklahomabourne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I still say things like I gotta walk over there. My brother says Oh yeah that would be cool.

  • @wallacehegel7069
    @wallacehegel7069 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are very talented young lady and wish you all the success you deserve in your career

  • @Scruffyone77
    @Scruffyone77 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your rant, wit and humor. Good points you bring out.

  • @freddyarch3178
    @freddyarch3178 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know I’m old... not a creeper... but I’m looking forward to seeing you on tv or movie!

  • @brianarndt250
    @brianarndt250 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm truly honored to know you and I am truly inspired by your story it gives me strength knowing that with all that has been thrown at you you have stayed strong strong I'm even more honored to have called you friend i hope you consider me a friend as well .im honestly astonished by everything you have accomplished and are. God bless you and hopefully we can get back in touch ?

    • @LolitaMilena
      @LolitaMilena  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brian Arndt the name is familiar. We attend school together yes?

  • @mikei959
    @mikei959 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos !
    You are a very positive tone in my days !
    Hope to see more in to what you will evolve this in to !

  • @dalehammonds9494
    @dalehammonds9494 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I follow you on tik Tok and here on utub at you don't fell sorry for your self you make me laugh because funny and smart you don't let your handicap get in your way you know what you want out of life follow your dreams that what makes you happy in life

  • @birdieperchy4501
    @birdieperchy4501 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your voice is so soothing.
    I use a mobility scooter bc of my heart condition and people are so annoying. I've had someone tell me "hope you feel better." I have hypoplastic left heart stroke the only thing fixing that is a heart transplant and I don't NEED a heart transplant to live my life so like no thank you?

  • @terryparker1012
    @terryparker1012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lolita you're such a beautiful human being!
    If you can't love yourself who can you love?😉💗💗💗💗

  • @pepelepew2142
    @pepelepew2142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    gosh you look different there!!! but still love ya you have the "Winona Ryder look when she was young!

  • @douglasdavidson4599
    @douglasdavidson4599 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    No "I understand" story... my mom was in a chair for her last years. I'm 6'6" with rather long legs. She frequently would remind me of speed limits. I didn't notice your chair until I found a Q&A video about it. Best of luck with college and acting.

  • @shyshy2184
    @shyshy2184 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love youuuu!!!! You're greatttt!!!!

    • @LolitaMilena
      @LolitaMilena  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      OQ Forever I LOVE YOU TOO

  • @makemefamousfornoreason8402
    @makemefamousfornoreason8402 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    From now on you'll have a friend in Romania... Greetings from Transylvania ...

  • @TheOklahomabourne
    @TheOklahomabourne 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can pop a wheelie.. trying holding one with no hands that's tricky

  • @ChrisPage68
    @ChrisPage68 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If people say "Walk this way" I say "If I could walk that way I wouldn't need my wheelchair". 🤣

    • @dominic.h.3363
      @dominic.h.3363 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's just being nitpicky. I don't mind able-bodied terms used in conversation with me. I don't roll over, I step out of the way. I also don't mind GOING to the grocery store, or GOING for a WALK. We all know what those words stand for, no need to be a dick about it and argue semantics.

  • @Gdeleon86
    @Gdeleon86 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think people think you are an inspiration because despite the wheelchair you have so many talents. Also have you ever imagined having cybernetic legs. Technology is not there yet but exoskeletons are becoming a thing.

  • @seanphelan7271
    @seanphelan7271 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome and beautiful and funny. Please stay that way. You and Orange_Hat_Girl (aka: Queen of the Spoon Army) are the best two people on Tik Tok!

  • @shaylynnseaman2995
    @shaylynnseaman2995 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got the bathroom question one time and I was having a very bad day. I spun around on this girl and glared at her and said “ same way you do honey, I sit on a toilet” and left her there with her mouth hanging open. I felt so bad for that afterwards. I could’ve handled that better.

  • @casplay4538
    @casplay4538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1) very helpful, always wonder about this 2) awesome eyeshadow 3) agree you should include or not include in your wheelchair in your media however/whenever you damn want :-)

  • @B17MIKE
    @B17MIKE 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a C5 quad. A friend called with some weird news. With a straight face he asked "are you sitting down?" She never got it.. 😉

  • @agneshausiku5555
    @agneshausiku5555 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally love this, new sub here

  • @bradleylogan2176
    @bradleylogan2176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It use to bother me when someone under 5 would say momma WTS wrong with him🙄 I grew out of that

  • @bradleylogan2176
    @bradleylogan2176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to deal with something so long it just doesn't matter it's like I don't care I'll make fun of myself do stupid stuff 😏

  • @terryparker1012
    @terryparker1012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video 🤣🤣🤣💗💗💗💗

  • @brianarndt250
    @brianarndt250 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Regal sisters yes Mr burgners class first though I'm sorry the last. Time we saw eachother at school I was acting a fool of myself i pray that it can be forgiven and forgotten

    • @LolitaMilena
      @LolitaMilena  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brian Arndt no harm done

  • @robertpilkington8968
    @robertpilkington8968 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You a hoot

  • @sigsimsxo3559
    @sigsimsxo3559 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I NEED TO READ UR NOVEL

  • @josegamez250
    @josegamez250 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I make a lot of wheelchair jokes too 😂😂

  • @davidnhc
    @davidnhc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you thought of getting a PMD wheelchair for certain occasion....

  • @davidbarker5941
    @davidbarker5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you’d turned off that muzak in the background.

  • @Running4urLife365
    @Running4urLife365 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    45👍

  • @peterschmalz2382
    @peterschmalz2382 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I might have a bit of a crush on you

  • @alexvargas5424
    @alexvargas5424 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did u become paralyzed?

    • @LolitaMilena
      @LolitaMilena  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alex Vargas child abuse in a previous home when I was 2

    • @alexvargas5424
      @alexvargas5424 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Regal Sisters sorry to hear that
      I became paralyzed from the waist down last year from a work accident

    • @dalewhitehead8837
      @dalewhitehead8837 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      look up her video about it ....

  • @bradleylogan2176
    @bradleylogan2176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I should send x Ray of mine🙄

  • @MoisesMartinez-dw6yb
    @MoisesMartinez-dw6yb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you ask me your voice sounds hot. 😎🤙

  • @shereva14
    @shereva14 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    White scars on the back of your ankles. I say I'll take your ankles off