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Sofi Talks All: Toxic Parent Relationship, Getting Kicked Out At 18, Self Love, CHISME & MORE!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ม.ค. 2024
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“i would go through it all over again if it means that my sisters still get my dad” 🙁🙁 she literally deserves the world
Literal 😭
Frr🥺
She is the sweetest ❤❤
🥺🥺
no matter what her mom put her through, she still spoke of her mom in a respectful way, she’s so mature for that cs i could NEVER😭
I saw a clip that her mom cut her off after this interview. Her mom doesn’t deserve a daughter like her. 😢
I could never 🤣
Disrespectfully I'm sorry but her mom doesn't respect her I had a mother like that and fuck it!! Do you live your Life and enjoy it!!@@AlexisV57
It always trips me out when a parent prefers their new partner over their kids
My mom is just like that.
I know right 😢
@@Jefer.1030soon she will regret it
My mom is just like that and i feel am going to have that trauma 😢
Yeah that’s how my mum is
Her story was so touching and relatable 🥲
HEAVY on the relatable!
Literally everything she said🥲
I’m so sorry that it was a relatable story.. too bad she lies about it 🤦🏻♀️
@@user-jx9nv5bu2ugirl ur doing way too much if this is her tia or mom like it just shows what kind of family you guys are no one believes you guys
@@user-jx9nv5bu2uhow is she lying about it dummy
This made me full on cry. She's so strong. She found a way to heal herself after all the trauma, respect!🥺💘
I cried so many times watching this. She’s so beautiful and well spoken!
Her mom is crying too...not in a good way...
@@riosrios4384she never spoke bad about anybody she just spoke her truth.
@@riosrios4384la tia chismosa ya llego huh 🙄
@@riosrios4384lmaooo Fr well that’s her mom fault
literally!
This was HER PODCAST. Therefore she told her side of the story no one else’s . This is her point of view of how she lives her life .The people in her “family” commenting bad things about Sofia and bashing her just proves her point. My family would never talk down on me even if i was or not in the wrong it goes to show how you guys commenting are hurt this does not revolve around yall . THE SPARK IS ON SOFIA . And we all love and support her 💜
omg wait what did her “family” comment???
@@user-oo8uo6yw2xher mom cut her off after she heard the podcast
@@mayisdelanocheher mom fr cut her off ?!? How yall yk ?!? Please tell I barely discovered her today lmao
@@simply7teen_495 the day after the podcast came out Sofi posted on her IG story that her mom told her she wanted no contact with her ever again
@@simply7teen_495she posted about it on her tiktok, it’s like 8 videos down from her most recent one
pops to sofis suegra for stepping in and being the missing comfort in her life 🥹 how beautiful
Aww thank you for acknowledging me.. 🙏She has gained new family that will never treat her like her M🥹
Stepdad will get his karma for being a piece of trash and the mom for not defending her daughter !!!
I didn’t know who this young woman was before now and I genuinely pray for her healing. As a mother of a teen daughter this really opened my eyes to how important even the smallest of things matter. I’m blessed to have a strong bond with my daughter I can only do my best to protect her and build our relationship to avoid trauma for her as an adult. May God continue to bless Sophia and her journey. Stay strong young princess warrior ✨
I love her! She gained a new follower today. Her story is so relatable and a lot of people don’t publicly talk about how for many girls within the Latino community this is their reality growing up. I’m so so proud of her for over coming and never giving up on her self despite the odds ❤
So true!
damn, her still apologizing to her mom and breaking the silence, when she was just a young girl. reminds me of that quote everyone deserves a parent but not many people deserve their children. growing up with a narcissistic parent has to be so hard.
that part stood out to me as well… it’s so sad.
@@SC-ih6df super sad. she had to mature very young.
Exactly 💯
Sofia’s DAD reminds me of my dad so much I cried like a baby !
ONG same, had to pause the episode at work a few times 😂😂
@@Wyoming11022 🥹 blessed to have our dad’s fr. This brought back so many memories no doubt my dad has always being my #1 hype man supporter and he always tells me how beautiful and much how much im worth even when I didn’t 🥹 thanks Sofi for sharing this with us. Why I love podcast we get to see a different personal side from them
literally
bro samee
literally
Prepared to be sick of me watching this mutiple times. Can’t express the excitement and proud moment of Sofi coming this far. She deserves this & much more 😭💕
Yeah so she can seduce you with her lies
so sad how so many of us can relate to her, I hope we all heal from things we don’t speak about
literally
Alannized is a literal therapist to people😭😭
Her story touched me in many ways knowing I was in her place before so glad she found her peace with her lover🩷
WE NEED A DAD REVEAL 🥹❤️ he sounds so sweet. I wish I had a dad like that 😞
He showed a pic of him kinda towards the beginning
10:05
I didn’t know who Sofi was until now.. girl you’ve gained a follower you are such a sweet soul and I’m sorry for everything you went through 😢
I didn’t know her before today, but I hope she continues to shine and thrive. She is a sweet soul ✨
this made me love her. you see influencers but like now i know her and it makes me relate and feel different
Never cried more watching a podcast 💔. She deserves so much, such a bright & inspiring soul. 🥺
This literally breaks my heart because it was EXACTLY the same for me. Like I honestly cannot stop crying because I’m in the current position of always getting kicked out
I hope everything gets better for you gorgeous 💗
Watching this, every thing Sophie would say about her mom I would immediately be surprised at the fact that I feel exactly the way she did, and have gone thru very similar situations. It feels better knowing I’m not alone and other girls have similar situations because I tend to blame myself a lot and hate feeling like I’m the only one without a good relationship with my mom.
Girl yessss I relate to you as well!!! You’re not alone
Its sad that we all have the same childhood 😭. My mom was always a women before a mother she always chose her bfs over her kids. I never had a good relationship with her & I never had my dad in my life either because she was so bitter that he left her 😭. So I grew up alone. & now I have no contact with her.
Yeah it’s even more sad that she lied about the whole situation
@@user-jx9nv5bu2umira, you replying to every comment isn’t gonna help people believe you , it’s obvious ur one of the family members making fake accounts, you should’ve known what sofia was gonna speak about, did you expect to act like her life was fully perfect ?! that’s just sad how her mom is getting mad at HER for that when it’s her moms fault for what had happened in the past, her mom really needs to do a better job because it’s just proving sofia’s point in this video
@@yamii-lx1cb obviously it is since you replied lol & who tf said that??? Twisting my words, Stfu you don’t know shit especially of the person your “ supporting”
I hope her mom sees this and realizes the damage she's doing to HER daughter. I'm sure she would cause some trouble, but to completely disregard her feelings and point of view is bs and sad.
she went live earlier and said her mom saw the podcast and cut her off :(
@@lizbvthwtf 😭
@@lizbvthtruth hurts. Hate when ppl diagnose others but she def gives me narcissistic vibes. Like she doesn’t take her own flesh and blood feelings into consideration. It’s only hers.
@@valentinazam7494seems like it’s one of her family members saying shit we all know it’s true you don’t just make anything up out of nowhere
@@lizbvthdamn instead of feeling bad about how her daughter felt growing up she preferred to cut her off.. she’s not a mom at all she’s a hater to her own daughter 😥
I’ve followed Sofi for a little while now but watching her share so much about her life I never could have imagined she went through in her life has made me respect her and admire her so much more!! I cried a few times with her and felt all her emotions. So proud of her for sharing her life ❤ one of the best episodes I have watched ❤
For being the age she is , she gave really great advice!
You can tell she’s been through hell and back and Survived ❤️ love it!!!!
Her brother was such an ass talking to her like that i couldddddd never 😭😭😭😭 she’s so strong
Me da un gustaso que la mamá haya visto esto porque es bueno que sepan nuestro punto de vista como hijos 😢😢😢
Si que triste que la mama prefiere ser mujer antes que ser mama😢
Así ay mujeres y al escuchar parece que la mamá asta celos le tiene 😢
Como saves k lo bio??? Si la Verda’s es difficil creser con una mama asi k no se da querer, te insulta Cual do tiene la oportunidad por el simple echo k te mira y como k le caes mal oh no se k onda oh k le moleste. pero Busca oportunidad para faltarte Al respeto y buscar como una racion mala de ti, te ignora aveses, te manipula, piensa k Estas Chiquita y puede hacer lo k Ella quiera contigo y te dise k eres bocona pork ya no eres esa niña inutil k Al Berte te callabas oh te Daba un pelliscon para k lo hicieras y ayi donde te ponia te quedabas. Me Allegra k Sofia pudiera salir, yo pues cresi con mi ama y siento k no puedo deharla pork seria una hija mala pork ya esta envejesiendo pero digo yo cuando enpiesan con tus nietos hacerle lo mismo. yo digo ayi si no, has todo lo q quieras conmigo pero Ami nina no. Por favor mamas k son asi Tengan consiencia y no Les apagen la luz a sus hijos porfavor no esta bien. Amenlos pork Al ultimo ellos son los k estan ayi Siempre creo k las mamas mayores Suellen hacer esta mucho por el simple echo de k uno Los tiene k respetar por ser mayores y si lo comprendo, pero Al igual Los hijos sufren mucho y se quedan con ese dolor para siempre
@@Griseldagg87cierto. Pero yo entendería que el wey que tiene la tratara como reina como dijo Alan pero ni eso. Eso si es tener poco amor propio.
I want to hug her inner child :( im a young mom I would break if this was my daughter she's so brave this was by far my fav episode she deserves nothing but success.
Girl she’s good, she’s just faking it
@@user-jx9nv5bu2ulmfao you’re her brother huh
@@user-jx9nv5bu2uFake account lol
@@user-jx9nv5bu2utrue haha she just talk about the things that suits her
@@kqueen0226 are you her mom brother step dad or something😂😂😂
Im so excited for this one 💕 she has showed us that we definitely CAN go after our dreams working hard for it 💖🤞🏻 so proud of everything she’s achieving so inspiring.
literallyyy, I love sofi sm
Can you please tell me who is her?
@@irmamireyacastellanosceja2073 hace videos maquilándose y muchas cosas más en TikTok 💕🫶🏻 vlogs de su vida etc
I honestly cried watching this not only did we experience the same things with our parents but we moved out to our own place for the same reason at the same time … never thought I could relate to someone , she’s so sweet and kind for all the things we’ve been through and still have that love and spark in our eye ❤️ no matter what we went through were still strong and moving forward
this girl always inspires me to go through the process , i meet her 2 times and the 2 times i met her she always gave me a good vibes she’s the most beautiful good heart girl . i love her she’s so sweet ❤
Alan you asked all the right questions in this interview. Thank you for these types of interviews that show us the different types of things people go through. I’m sure we all can’t relate to everyone but I’m also sure there are many who no longer feel alone.❤
Awww 😢 so heart warming and relatable to hear the way she loves her little sisters. Despite of her disfuncional relationship with her mom/brother and stepdad sounds like she has an other loving good family. Her dad her boyfriend her mother-in-law ,stepmom , and her precious younger siblings 🫶🏻💞
I had no idea who she was before this podcast but I just subscribed to her on IG & TikTok . For some reason shes SO relatable and im happy she slowly found her peace. 🥺♥️
I always had a good and positive feeling about sofi but never knew she went through all this 😕 I just want to hug her and tell her how happy and proud I am of how far she’s come. I never comment under any youtube videos or social media post in general but this podcast really touched my heart in so many ways sofi you deserve the world and never forget how precious you are ❤️
You just know when someone has a good heart, and spirit that would be Sofi💕
The fact that she never once said a bad word about her mom & stepdad. & the mom just decided to cut her off for telling her story .. smh. Wouldn’t doubt if the Stepdad is forcing her to do it since they’re known for being toxic . He’s most likely an abusive narcissist.He has manipulated his son & wife against her . May he live the life he deserves.
im so proud of her and the fact she inspired me so much with her story knowing im not just the only one that been in that stage but she opened my soul i love her sm 💝.
literally my inspiration can’t wait to see her story 🥹🥹
I love Sofi 🎀 she’s so humble and loving, so proud of her!
Stop I actually cried with her omg I love her so much she’s the sweetest soul🩷
this healed so many different traumas... understand we are all not alone.
These are the content creators I call influencers ❤💯
her story is so relatable and touching and this made me so emotional. She seems like she has a kind soul, God bless her🤍
I don’t know who this young lady is. But hearing her story, I wish her nothing but the best. I’m glad she’s overcome so much.
The fact that a lot of us Hispanic kids growing up go through this is sad 😞!
It’s so inspiring to see how far she’s gone knowing in currently going through a similar situation! Literally cried every 5 min of the vid!
I can honestly say this has been by far my favorite episode! It touched home in so many ways. She is such a beautiful soul and I can totally relate with her. So happy for what's to come for her. I wish her all the best ❤
aw sofi, I remember I started watching her lives last year & always loved her vibes. she deserves this & more!💓
I have never seen her until I saw a clip of her from this podcast and it touched me and knew I had to come watch. 🥺I just want to give her a hug
I hope she continues to grow & makes it even bigger !!!
She’s so good at expressing herself and speaking omg
Worth watching this shows she doesn’t come from money she’s humble and came along way with struggles we love you sofi 💗
Sofi made me tear up so many times during this podcast. Love her!! Im from the PNW and I’m so proud to see her grow 🩷🩷
she's so sweet! she spoke for so many who have gone through the same thing, she deserves the world. I hope she succeeds in life even more!
She seems like she has such a pure heart even thought she went through so much! I’m so proud of her she has a new fan🩷
i cant believe i relate to her so so much shes so strong this made me tear up 🥹
the way i kept crying every time i heard one of her breaking points, she’s beautiful, so caring, so respectful.. her self-care journey is truly inspiring 🩷
You can tell how sweet Sofi is. Despite all of the circumstances she’s remained strong. She deserves all the success and great things 🩵
she seems so genuine and kind, this is my first time encountering her so i’m definitely following her!!
this made me cry, she's so beautiful i'm so glad she has a much better life
It’s crazy how even tho her dad showed her. Love. Respect and attention. She wanted to go with her. Her mom was toxic but and she loved her anyway
All the way around. Her mom still loves her after talking all this BS...do you know her parents? Well, I do...
@@riosrios4384 hii I’m sorry. Did I @ you????
@@riosrios4384girl bye
@@riosrios4384 I’m sorry lady. But you’re attacking the wrong person. And you’re telling information I don’t need to know. That is personal!! All I said is it’s crazy how ONE parent showed her love and she still choose to go with the toxic one. Because that’s human nature. All kids are hard to raise. As a “TIA” you should be talking to ur niece and not a stranger on the internet.
@@wendybabes317for real I’m so confused rn she’s replying to comments when it’s none of her business sharing stuff like that
I love Sofi on here, she is the sweetest person to exist. She's so inspiring💕
I always loved sofi but this interview made me relate to the t with her. First influencer I’ve connected to with life experiences.
i remember watching one of her lives way before she became a big influencer, she mentioned how she grew up in a toxic household and now i know more about that and it is so fascinating.
i cried throughout this entire episode because her story resinates so much with me.she’s such a beautiful strong person ♡
Been following Sofi for a while but I never knew about all of the things she spoke about in this podcast ☹️ definitely learned so much about her and how strong she is ❤️
This is the only episode I’ve watched Alan and I loved it!!!! Made me cry 😢
i’ve watched sofi since the beginning and i’m so proud of her
Sofi is so sweet and so strong I love her, I love hearing her story. Made me cry so much 🩷🥹
Ya mero me tenia llorando la Sofia😭 been watching her videos for a while now so proud of her loved this episode and Alan you’re a GREAT host 🩷
I have cried so much through out this podcast, I’m so grateful with god that Alexis and his family are a part of our amiga sofias life.
I related to a huge portion of Sofis story y me agüite.
Something I did want to share was that I was in a two year relationship that came to an end and there was this girl who was my best friend so I invited her over to my house and I was going THROUGH IT so I looked super fodonga and she goes and tells me that I looked like a dyke, now I have absolutely nothing against that seriously but at that point in time a really pretty girl telling me that took me downhill I couldn’t believe what I thought was a best friend had told me something like that and it took a lot of humiliation to finally kick that person out of my life, and believe me instead of being sad afterwards all I could feel was relief.
Came from watching a video on Tiktok & am literally in tears. This young lady is beautiful and will continue to be successful! May God continue to bless you Sofia! 🤍
omg Sofiaaa your story was so heartbreaking😭 I am so happy you’re healing and becoming successful💕
She’s such an inspiration and role model. I definitely look up to her and have so much respect. Her strength is truly so inspiring. Wishing her nothing but the best with lots of happiness! 💕💕
How is she an inspiration? By lying ?
@@user-jx9nv5bu2uFakeee accountttt😭L
Her voice is so soft you can tell how nice she is😞😢
I truly love this podcast I feel like I can relate with the toxic family
First time listening to this podcast while making breakfast and I’m crying!!!! This episode hit home. This young lady is so well spoken! Reminder that it gets better ♥️
Aww Sofie 🥺💕 she’s so cute in TikTok! Who would have thought she’s gone through SO much! Sending you so much love Sofie girl 🫶🏼
this made me ball🥹 i’m so proud of sofi and how far along she’s gotten💖
I absolutely loved this episode! She had me crying 😭
this podcast made my heart break for her. all the things she went through makes me feel so bad for her she seems so sweet and she deserves the world. i really hope she gets all the things she’s ever dreamed for ☹️
Such a journey you’ve been through and overcame💗 we believe in you sofi your only beginning 🫶🏼 the future holds so much for you amiga💗
This video caught my attention from tiktok, & led me to watch the whole podcast. I went through the same my mom disregarding my feelings over a man. Other things happened to me as well… & it’s just an off balance relationship with my mom, she helps me out alot with watching my daughter while I’m working since she’s kind of the only family member I can count on, bc I pay the light bill. But it’s just doesn’t feel like home .. & I can’t wait for god to bless me with my own happy home 🙏🏽❤️
Didn’t know who she was cause I don’t have TikTok ! However I can feel her sincerity and her hurt. I know she might not want to say the full on story for the internet. The time lines of events don’t connect in her story that’s just something I picked up on might be her nerves or trauma . Love her message with self love and forgiving your parents and stop holding grudges cause they have their own traumas sometime you just have to sit down and lay the cards down now as adults and let them know how you feel or felt growing up
it was so hard to explain everything in order because i tried to go in detail the best i could when he would ask me the questions 🥹
@@Sofia.Arrayales I figured 💗 Sending you love in your healing journey hope your words inspire and encourage others to heal from past traumas …
Crying because I can relate to this from the childhood to toxic mom always kicking me out 🥺😭 loved sofi since the beginning and I love her even more now for her story 🫶🏼
This podcast hit different I totally can relate to her childhood situation 😢 so happy you are in such a better place 🩷
she’s super cute!! you can tell how strong she is especially her trying to hold her tears in, many blessings to her 🩷 these are the INFLUENCERS we want to see!!
I remember the 1st time I saw of her on tik tok. I just started following her beginning of January. But the first live was her living with her mom and having to whisper the live, so glad she's out of a space where she can't be herself. Good luck to her!
One of the few I’m ACTUALLY excited about. I’ve been following Sofi for awhile now & I’m proud to see her growth, Ik she’s gonna be huge one day & I’ll be lucky to say I’ve been there from the start! 🫶🏼🤍
Omg I’m crying🥺we love you Sofi🫶
felt this soooo much i love her sm 🤍
Sofi what what’s her name
literally
@@wendymadrigal5720 sofi is her nickname
I am so proud of you!!! Amiga thank you for sharing I loved hearing more about you and it makes me admire and love you even more!! 💗💕
I’ve cried so much in this podcast! I have so much respect for sofi, this is like my third time watching her, I relate so much with her on opposite parents tho, i have daddy issues with my birth father and my mom is my WORLD, my #1 supporter & my mom & dad figure, and i also have the best stepdad a girl could wish for🥹
Never heard of this girlie before but I hope one day she is able to heal ❤ I hope I can one day be a great parent to my future child so they don’t have to go through this. What a strong strong girl 🫶
I fucking LOVEEEE SOFIAAA SOO MUCH!! When she mentioned a podcast I was praying it would be Alan’s. I never knew about her upbringing, I keep up w her on tiktok this podcast def let me get to know her more. I also grew up w divorced parents & grew up fast bc of the life I had w my mom, we argued a lot growing up & now I’m the same I try to let her be bc it’s her first life but man my mom doesn’t realize her life has me traumatized 🥲🥺
I cried sooo much listening to this! Love Sofi 💕
i loveee sofi💗💗she’s literally the sweetest soul, i wish you her the besttt in life i know she’ll get very far
I love Sofia!! Hearing her story and all the trauma she’s been through and still being so positive makes me love her so much more 💖
i related so much to this, i literally feel for her, i cried so much watching this. she’s such a beautiful soul and i wish the best for her 🫂
Alan you are an absolute amazing host! Sofia I’m literally in love with your hair, you makeup, the way you speak. You’re so pretty ❤❤❤
This really has me feeling like all of us going thru this can make it out. Even when everyone is doubting is dont giveeee uppp. I literally watched every min of this crying because i can relate on so many levels. Im so proud of sofia for how far shes come. Many more blessings to come🙏🏼 definitely my favorite influencer after this video!!!!!!.