You absolutely nailed. They chase you when you don't really give all the attention that "a so-called good guy" gives. It has worked for me for a decade now 😊
Only if you haven't already fucked it up by showing her too much affection. If a cold bitch has decided you're too beta and not on her level you're almost dead to her lol.
I’ve been saying this to my young homies for years. You must make your women invest in you and never be too predictable. Good perspective from a women’s point of view.
tried to be nice, I was avoided like plaque. Being repulsive, just as bad. Getting it out if my mind, just the same. You just HAVE TO LOOK IN A CERTAIN WAY and/or have a certain social status, there is no way around.
Gentlemen, when a woman really wants you all these games and “tactics” are unnecessary. I have women sending me nudes without asking, paying for their own uber to get piped and asking if they can fold my laundry. Leave all that energy to work on yourself and let them come to you. Stop trying to manipulate people into being with you.
I disagree, it's true that women who think you're hot and just want to smash you will put little to none emphasis to all the masculine-feminine dynamic, but it only gets you so far, women can also use you for sex. To get truly intimate and unravel her deepest submissive nature, thus making her emotionally attached, there's gotta be some thick substance to your demeanor and the way you carry yourself. And that is not manipulation, it's polarity. You're always performing a character whether you want it or not, there's no "true identity" of you, you make it up. Tip: A woman submitting to you during sex is not real submission, they often perform for the pleasure, but as soon as it's done, they go back to their stability, independence and detachment, this is especially true nowadays, where sex is no more serious than having a beer with a friend. Hence it is convenient to aim for the full potential of your manliness, to not just lead in shallow matters, but to lead relentlessly through everything you're engaged in.
These dudes are letting a FISH teach them how to fish instead of asking a professional fisherman. Women know feminism is dead so they tryna jump on the readpill/ guy game road. It's cringe but it's even more cringe when these DUDES take them seriously
And you're right manipulation is a woman's game. Any man that gotta play these goofy lil games is honestly in his feminine. Men don't have to play games.
true that, I have been though that............that is an experience no one wants, it sounds great and flattering to the guys, but that shit is down right scary....there is no telling what she would do. I called the police and they laughed at me...
Sadly you don't really get that too often. Women are clingy and turned on by the feeling that you're getting away. They like the chase to hold onto a man of their desire. So you tend to find girls that aren't really interested or girls that are overly interested/obsessed. There's not much middle ground lol
Damn she articulated this so well. I mean she's logical and feminine which is rare. That being said, investing in someone you're definitely no about to let them waste your time. Yes she will stick to you and find a way to make it work.
I am not going to tell a lie… I only clicked on this because the thumbnail made me lose my mind!! 🔥🔥🔥But when I listen to what she was saying, and how real she was, and said it in a way that I could relate to and understand?!! absolutely positively SUBSCRIBED.
She's spitting facts! Don't you realize the unattainable was more attractive cause you had to work harder but as in not doing so much you wonder why she's with the person that doesn't do anything because they have her hungry for attention!
I had hundreds of girls in my time, I always let a girl know I'm interested in her and then back off totally. She'll wonder if he's not chasing me. The one time I forget this and chase a girl. She messes me up. This girl is telling the truth. Listen up bros
A girl may not obsess over you for treating her like that but … I love you for explaining it like that ….. my next girlfriend after I kick my wife out will be from France
Thank you sister! With my realtionship to my wife, even before we got married, we were just like this. I tell this to my friends (boys), and they wouldn't believe me (that both of us pay for whaterver, food, drinks, room). What you're saying is not only true for women, it's true for both women and men.
Thank you for this knowledge. I'm a caterer and I always end up with women who don't appreciate anything I do. I've lost so much money is crazy. I really needed to hear this. Ty so very much!
Don’t need any $ from a woman but I agree 100% and don’t take them seriously until they spend, make a baddie spend what she worked hard for, then you know it’s real.💯
Hey just wanted to tell you that your advice is really good I learned that in long relationships daily complements, spontaneous exciting bedroom interactions and open communication about problems are all things you talk about in your videos keep up the good work
Great content I wish I had a woman with a brain like yours that’s why I stop doing for some women cause when I’m in need I can’t get not one to do the same for me. Keep up the good work sister!
Your super real, with your words. You absolutely sweet as hell. I’m looking for a real woman, and none of that fake shit to be with. I need a girl to ride with me the whole way through. I’ll ride with them. I’m tired of being hurt all the damn time. That’s why I don’t trust shit. I’m not a simp either.
I spent lots of money on my ex and her son and mine u I have full custody of my sons And no baby momma at all in picture When I cut the money tree short She broke up with me while I was out of town working She paid for a few small things But furniture Bills Photo shoots Hair I invested in her and gave her son a male to look at and say damn u gotta get up n go work Some things are priceless Definitely learned that she wasn’t the one for me As I eat my lunch in the middle of this double working these telephone poles I can say that I see that a female will do everything for a bum But not much for a man Idk Some people have a high ego value Versus a natural balance and happiness with one’s self Self Love baby Love ur vids keep ‘em coming queen 👑
Right women don’t appreciate a good man. I was in love with a woman an I did everything to please her because that’s how it’s supposed to be. She wants to be treated like a Queen but when you treat her like a Queen they say you too nice !!! Well go mess with a bum that you have to let lay on your couch an play video games all day
This content is so accurate👌 I'm from South Africa women out here are exactly like this I don't know in other places but in my area, gents you need to step up period!
Women from France are built different 😍 I’m dating this girl from France right now and she got a similar vibe and demeanor as Melli. Bouts to get me a passport and hop on the first flight to France ASAP. ❤❤
Hi Melli, you are a wonderful women psychologist, your words about the bad bishes and good women are 99..9% real👍. Good job!!! Keep dem words coming, alot of guys are in serious problem, in their relationship, trying to fuel and maintain the relationship.
Bruh you really think she be speaking da truth. Bruh how old are you. And you must be in a city where there aren't that many black women I jus moved from Virginia to Atlanta and these women are completely opposite of what malli is putting out
Ok you would like for me to elaborate....well. I'm originally from Alabama. So I grew up all my life around southern hospitality..and I have dated young girls and grown women and the stuff she putting out is gonna get a brother in the friend zone and that's It
Hair ,nails ,toes ,clothes . I have a backbone Melli I’ve done my thang! Life is phases & often times We all phase out of people lives I enjoy your commentary, God Bless your path always.
I needed to see this video to be able to know what decision to take on what I am currently living thank you very much🔥 Melli you are doing a huge job🙏 keep going🎯💫
It's easy to see life as about power and controlling others all the time until you regret not just having being true to yourself and your feelings when things you cannot reverse eventually happen. A ton of women will eventually circle back to the nice guys they took for granted only to find them completely unavailable, uninterested and unattainable - I. E beyond their league . But you don't want to hurt a woman or keep her insecure just so that you can be in control of the situation. That is not love that is just a conquest spree. Be genuine. If someone does not appreciate you for being nice that that's someone you should let go. Find someone who will appreciate your kindness and niceness. They will be so glad someone else foolishly let you go. Such women are there, they are beautiful and they are amazing.
@@gkimunge Women are not an achievement. Be a king in your mind and focus on building your kingdom and you will not have to worry little things like if you are getting the women you want or not. Some things will be automatic.
@@MichaelMulela I don't know about you, but women and sex play an intergral role in men's life and well being..women want to be chased and conquered by men, then they will submit to your will...not controlled..they also hate nice guys coz they are boring and predictable..
@@gkimungeIs Elon musk not nice? Jeff Bezos? Bill gates? Mark Zuckerberg? These are the quintessential definition of nice men. What you confuse with nice is simply lack of ambition. Men with nothing better to do with their time. And whose existence is validated only by if a woman likes him or not.
@@MichaelMulela ...dont be impressed by the rich and powerful..what you see is not what you get..these are the most deviant men out there..think epstein, Clinton, trump and also Gates who had a mistress all his married life..most men of all status, religion, race, nationality etc have similar sexual desires..you can pursue wealth, hobbies and charity, and still pursue your god given desires..
Good tips! This is how you learn more about her level of cooperation. It doesn't even have to be a hard "test," it just lets her intentions shine through
I've listened to this for a minute and a half and what youve said rings so true. im an older guy. im 45 and because of circumstances in my life i dont get out much. So im forced to try and meet women online. It's fucking awful. It's all about them. Im thinking to myself like hey girl im online dating here too. Wondering what kind of person you are too. It aint all about you. So because of that it hasnt worked out for me because i just got out of an 18 year relationship where it wasnt ever about me. It's going to be about me sometimes from now on. Thanks for this. Gives me hope.
@@ChineduOpara To visit i would. I was with someone for 19 years. Coincidentally was Puerto Rican. LoL. a few years ago it ended. I just hadnt had to kick it with anyone in so long. Now my life is very different. I care for my grandmother who is 94 and sick. She would go to a nursing home if i didnt care for her and stay home with her everyday all day. I just dont have opportunity to leave the house and do anything . Meeting people in my home isnt going to happen. No one is going to knock at my door to be with me. lol Until i have my life back and the ability to leave the house for longer than an hour or 2 i will probably be alone. But id love to go to Dominican Republic. Or PR. So many countries in SA id love to visit. They all look so beautiful. I also love absolutely love latin women. Thats why i was with my ex for so long. But enjoy yourself. At least someone in this world is. lol Happy Holidays man.
She is telling the truth when a women invest in you you have her full attention this is 1 of many ways to know if she for you or not the point is to see if she has your back.of course once you find this out your free too spend anything on her and let her keep hers it's honestly just a test
This is one of the best dating videos for men on the internet, she Must invest in you, the entire strength of the dynamic depends on this, thanks Melli
Do you know what would be a fun thing to do? I think Mel should do a pole and ask everyone that turns in does Mel have hair down there? But a big ass? There brother now what do you think? Does mail have any
I was scrolling while watching this video and then a saw a picture of you. I said "Rrrrrrrr* challenging. Then you immediately mention "be challenging" 🤭😄..I always love challenge and being a challenge and a woman that's a challenge in a good way..not toxic...a fun challenge 💞 . Also alot of women say I am mysterious and even one have me the nickname "Mystery" ..now I understand from you that it's something women actually love🌞😇
Melli, I do not know from what answer to prayers you were sent, but please keep speaking Facts!!! You are like a cheat code to the game. Fellas... listen and learn
Beautiful analogies I really appreciate that so much. Appreciate women like you shining light on true facts, there are some really good men like myself who are now hesitant of every woman I meet because of certain factors now I have learned how to be independent and still stay on my grind and sex does not run me. Thank you for this video
The truth and nothing but the truth! Guys hold too much on what is not real. Don't force yourself on any lady. What is yours will definitely stay without you running bankrupt to keep her... Melli, much 💕
You absolutely nailed. They chase you when you don't really give all the attention that "a so-called good guy" gives. It has worked for me for a decade now 😊
I understand the point. But I am curious: in this period, were you looking for a long term relationship?
*It’s not about playing games or trying to manipulate her; it’s about being confident, emotionally available, and creating a sense of mystery.*
U wanna make a girl obsessive. Become busy, and get money. The more you dont want them, the more they wonder why and will chase u
Super factz
Yeah that's so true🤗👍🏽👍🏽
Only if you haven't already fucked it up by showing her too much affection.
If a cold bitch has decided you're too beta and not on her level you're almost dead to her lol.
You’re 🅿️
MF facts!!!! Especially when you get with someone. They keep trying to see what they could have done to make you chose them.
FELLAS, THIS QUEEN MUST BE PROTECTED AT ALL COSTS!! THANKS FOR KEEPING IT REAL MELI!! 🙏
In agreement 100%
😂😂😂You are right Bro
Yeah she telling all the secrets the women going to come and get her😂
Bro, stop calling women queens. What's wrong with you
He only called Melli a queen, not to all women. That's why he wrote "queen" in singular, not in plural
Someone please protect this woman at all COST 🙌
🤣 🤣 🤣 For sure
😍Yep!😊
I’ve been saying this to my young homies for years. You must make your women invest in you and never be too predictable. Good perspective from a women’s point of view.
This is too true! The nicer you are, the more they run away
tried to be nice, I was avoided like plaque. Being repulsive, just as bad. Getting it out if my mind, just the same. You just HAVE TO LOOK IN A CERTAIN WAY and/or have a certain social status, there is no way around.
Wow. I’m young but seeing a woman like yourself grounded in reality gives me hope for my love life.
🤣
@@CURTISAY lmao
I swear to God everything this woman just said is pure facts.
The part is mystery is spot on, I’ve had women I’ve met in dating apps try to find me on social media prior to meeting up.
This was truly enlightening. Not just to get what you want, but to gauge how she really feels about you. Thank you for this.
100%
Gentlemen, when a woman really wants you all these games and “tactics” are unnecessary. I have women sending me nudes without asking, paying for their own uber to get piped and asking if they can fold my laundry. Leave all that energy to work on yourself and let them come to you. Stop trying to manipulate people into being with you.
You’re probably unconsciously manipulating them. Why do you think they just want to commit to you for no reason?
Understood 💯
I disagree, it's true that women who think you're hot and just want to smash you will put little to none emphasis to all the masculine-feminine dynamic, but it only gets you so far, women can also use you for sex. To get truly intimate and unravel her deepest submissive nature, thus making her emotionally attached, there's gotta be some thick substance to your demeanor and the way you carry yourself. And that is not manipulation, it's polarity. You're always performing a character whether you want it or not, there's no "true identity" of you, you make it up.
Tip: A woman submitting to you during sex is not real submission, they often perform for the pleasure, but as soon as it's done, they go back to their stability, independence and detachment, this is especially true nowadays, where sex is no more serious than having a beer with a friend. Hence it is convenient to aim for the full potential of your manliness, to not just lead in shallow matters, but to lead relentlessly through everything you're engaged in.
These dudes are letting a FISH teach them how to fish instead of asking a professional fisherman. Women know feminism is dead so they tryna jump on the readpill/ guy game road. It's cringe but it's even more cringe when these DUDES take them seriously
And you're right manipulation is a woman's game. Any man that gotta play these goofy lil games is honestly in his feminine. Men don't have to play games.
An Obessed woman is a dangerous woman. I don't want obsession, just respect and give me what I give you.
true that, I have been though that............that is an experience no one wants, it sounds great and flattering to the guys, but that shit is down right scary....there is no telling what she would do.
I called the police and they laughed at me...
TELESCOPE MIND... YOU SEE CLEARLY MY BROTHA .....
Sadly you don't really get that too often. Women are clingy and turned on by the feeling that you're getting away. They like the chase to hold onto a man of their desire. So you tend to find girls that aren't really interested or girls that are overly interested/obsessed. There's not much middle ground lol
@@DirtyJamesUK lol yup
So true I’ve been there obsessed is dangerous
U r a really queen . A woman told me that I was too nice to her. She could not date me for real. I was so surprised.
This girl is a genius. She knows how to start a content
I needed this 5 years ago. Now I no longer care. I care only about peace of mind....that means solitude 😁
Word ,men shouldn't chase to much .
@@m.a1075 at all dude,not chase at all.u trippin
A whole mood…
Chase your dreams instead
Facts💯
1. MAKE HER INVEST IN YOU.
2. STAY MYSTERIOUS .
✌️🇵🇷👋
Facts
For 12 minutes.
It took me a few years but I finally realized this and it couldn’t be better
I fuck with dat Alot 😂😂😂
@@tonnious lol,rt
She left out number 3. (The most important of all) become the best version of yourself!
Should you become the best version of yourself because of women, be the best version of yourself for yourself
We need more women like Melli in our world it’s getting too cold 🥶 outside.
Damn she articulated this so well. I mean she's logical and feminine which is rare. That being said, investing in someone you're definitely no about to let them waste your time. Yes she will stick to you and find a way to make it work.
I am not going to tell a lie…
I only clicked on this because the thumbnail made me lose my mind!! 🔥🔥🔥But when I listen to what she was saying, and how real she was, and said it in a way that I could relate to and understand?!!
absolutely positively SUBSCRIBED.
She's spitting facts! Don't you realize the unattainable was more attractive cause you had to work harder but as in not doing so much you wonder why she's with the person that doesn't do anything because they have her hungry for attention!
“Let the bitch pay”
Lmao This killed me
Balance and teamwork!!! It's so refreshing to hear someone talk about just being balanced in a relationship!
We need to protect Melli at all cost
I had hundreds of girls in my time, I always let a girl know I'm interested in her and then back off totally. She'll wonder if he's not chasing me. The one time I forget this and chase a girl. She messes me up. This girl is telling the truth. Listen up bros
Stop the cap
She makes so much sense . And she’s truthful
And she is speaking the clean Truth and she is Beautiful also!!
@@danyboymascorro4043she's hot 🔥 AF
The truth unfiltered... Thank you for your honesty this is underrated. Society has been fooling men all along
this hit home!
last date girl said i was too nice and a too good of a person.
next date this week girl says i need to talk to more girls 🤦♂️
I'm 53 and divorced 8 months, I look young for my age, been out of the game for a minute, thank you for the realness Melli!
A girl may not obsess over you for treating her like that but … I love you for explaining it like that ….. my next girlfriend after I kick my wife out will be from France
Lml love the last sentence
😂💔
The last sentence though is a killer 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You two have similar a sense of humour! Love it.
You're speaking nothing but fact's.... I really appreciate your honesty
Girl, you one in a million
No joke fam
There’s something so unique about Melli Monaco, I love her…
OMG this woman speaks the absolute truth and the whole truth! Thank you Melli!!
Thank you sister! With my realtionship to my wife, even before we got married, we were just like this. I tell this to my friends (boys), and they wouldn't believe me (that both of us pay for whaterver, food, drinks, room). What you're saying is not only true for women, it's true for both women and men.
❤
Girl, you're hardcore!!! Thumbs up for the truth and the stand-up attitude💪
Got me at "come on now we're pushing it" 😂😂😂😂😂. You're hilarious melli
YOU THE ISH!!! PREACH QUEEN !! THEY ARE GOING TO BE MAD AT YOU FOR THE TRUTH!!!
She is funny, but she is telling the truth. Listen up!!!! Melli, you are a real one.
Melli spitting gems right now facts!.
Thank you for this knowledge. I'm a caterer and I always end up with women who don't appreciate anything I do. I've lost so much money is crazy. I really needed to hear this. Ty so very much!
First step is waking up. Congrats brother!
A good woman is hard to find ⚡︎
Don’t need any $ from a woman but I agree 100% and don’t take them seriously until they spend, make a baddie spend what she worked hard for, then you know it’s real.💯
She speaking 100 percent facts. Not a single lie was told in this video.
She knows 💡 I’ll protect this Goddess for eternity
I love her! She keeps it so real!!
I love this woman! Thank you for putting us guys on game!
🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Brotherly
It's all common sense lol
No hope for some simps
Never tell her how u feel my guy 😂😭
Hey just wanted to tell you that your advice is really good I learned that in long relationships daily complements, spontaneous exciting bedroom interactions and open communication about problems are all things you talk about in your videos keep up the good work
I need to hear this many times. Thousand times is not enough. Thank you
This woman is 1 in a million
She's not American, there many like her outside USA..get a passport and you'll get 10 her
Well said. This is soooooooooo true, and right on point.
But then if every man watches this video and the application becomes common, you guys will be back to square one.
Obsession is utterly toxic! Anyone that has ever been in this position wouldn’t want it!
yep
No cap having an obsessive obnoxious ass girl is scary wouldn’t want it I like my bitches a lil toxic
Bs I’ll take it. Never have I to date had a woman obsessed over me nor clingy. I’ll take it. Where she at n she has to meet my standards, etc.
💯 percent
Great stuff Melli! I look forward to using these methods.
Great content I wish I had a woman with a brain like yours that’s why I stop doing for some women cause when I’m in need I can’t get not one to do the same for me. Keep up the good work sister!
This woman is completely accurate
Focus on your purpose and women will come simple. All for purpose, honor, discipline, and respect. Stay focus and things will align
I needed this in April but now I am fully in love with myself. Thanks for the advice though!
Your super real, with your words. You absolutely sweet as hell. I’m looking for a real woman, and none of that fake shit to be with. I need a girl to ride with me the whole way through. I’ll ride with them. I’m tired of being hurt all the damn time. That’s why I don’t trust shit. I’m not a simp either.
Thanks the technic of blocking a women worked... keeps coming back.
THANK YOU FOR TELLING THE TRUTH QUEEN 👑
That’s right. They value their money more than they value their 😿
I spent lots of money on my ex and her son and mine u I have full custody of my sons
And no baby momma at all in picture
When I cut the money tree short
She broke up with me while I was out of town working
She paid for a few small things
But furniture
Bills
Photo shoots
Hair
I invested in her and gave her son a male to look at and say damn u gotta get up n go work
Some things are priceless
Definitely learned that she wasn’t the one for me
As I eat my lunch in the middle of this double working these telephone poles
I can say that I see that a female will do everything for a bum
But not much for a man
Idk
Some people have a high ego value
Versus a natural balance and happiness with one’s self
Self Love baby
Love ur vids keep ‘em coming queen 👑
Right women don’t appreciate a good man. I was in love with a woman an I did everything to please her because that’s how it’s supposed to be. She wants to be treated like a Queen but when you treat her like a Queen they say you too nice !!! Well go mess with a bum that you have to let lay on your couch an play video games all day
This content is so accurate👌 I'm from South Africa women out here are exactly like this I don't know in other places but in my area, gents you need to step up period!
Women from France are built different 😍
I’m dating this girl from France right now and she got a similar vibe and demeanor as Melli.
Bouts to get me a passport and hop on the first flight to France ASAP. ❤❤
The best feeling is when she knows why she’s paying
Hi Melli, you are a wonderful women psychologist, your words about the bad bishes and good women are 99..9% real👍. Good job!!! Keep dem words coming, alot of guys are in serious problem, in their relationship, trying to fuel and maintain the relationship.
Bruh you really think she be speaking da truth. Bruh how old are you. And you must be in a city where there aren't that many black women I jus moved from Virginia to Atlanta and these women are completely opposite of what malli is putting out
@@mrfeelgood757 elaborate ? Granted southern hospitality might be a thing there- what do u think she has Wrong?
Ok you would like for me to elaborate....well. I'm originally from Alabama. So I grew up all my life around southern hospitality..and I have dated young girls and grown women and the stuff she putting out is gonna get a brother in the friend zone and that's It
Hair ,nails ,toes ,clothes .
I have a backbone Melli
I’ve done my thang!
Life is phases & often times
We all phase out of people lives
I enjoy your commentary,
God Bless your path always.
I did everything you said, two gun shots & 4 surgeries later iam finally out of ICU thanks Cece
Wow, This pretty mama is very truthful and she is right! It is about time for a good hearted lady to be on the side of men!
I needed to see this video to be able to know what decision to take on what I am currently living thank you very much🔥 Melli you are doing a huge job🙏 keep going🎯💫
You did a good job of sharing how women think.
you are saving relationship ...great work
Omg this is so true. We call this free game. Some of y’all still gonna mess up the assignment
Self perception / motives / manipulation vs true intent / morals / sincerity
What a battle
Lols spot on
U hit the Nail on the head we are being used and being made to believe it's love
Not we, you.
It's easy to see life as about power and controlling others all the time until you regret not just having being true to yourself and your feelings when things you cannot reverse eventually happen.
A ton of women will eventually circle back to the nice guys they took for granted only to find them completely unavailable, uninterested and unattainable - I. E beyond their league .
But you don't want to hurt a woman or keep her insecure just so that you can be in control of the situation. That is not love that is just a conquest spree.
Be genuine. If someone does not appreciate you for being nice that that's someone you should let go. Find someone who will appreciate your kindness and niceness. They will be so glad someone else foolishly let you go. Such women are there, they are beautiful and they are amazing.
Nice guys finish last..always remember that.
@@gkimunge Women are not an achievement. Be a king in your mind and focus on building your kingdom and you will not have to worry little things like if you are getting the women you want or not. Some things will be automatic.
@@MichaelMulela I don't know about you, but women and sex play an intergral role in men's life and well being..women want to be chased and conquered by men, then they will submit to your will...not controlled..they also hate nice guys coz they are boring and predictable..
@@gkimungeIs Elon musk not nice? Jeff Bezos? Bill gates? Mark Zuckerberg? These are the quintessential definition of nice men. What you confuse with nice is simply lack of ambition. Men with nothing better to do with their time. And whose existence is validated only by if a woman likes him or not.
@@MichaelMulela ...dont be impressed by the rich and powerful..what you see is not what you get..these are the most deviant men out there..think epstein, Clinton, trump and also Gates who had a mistress all his married life..most men of all status, religion, race, nationality etc have similar sexual desires..you can pursue wealth, hobbies and charity, and still pursue your god given desires..
Good tips! This is how you learn more about her level of cooperation. It doesn't even have to be a hard "test," it just lets her intentions shine through
This is the most true advice iv ever heard online about women.
When you validate women you give them the power in a relationship
You're good in these topics
I've listened to this for a minute and a half and what youve said rings so true. im an older guy. im 45 and because of circumstances in my life i dont get out much. So im forced to try and meet women online. It's fucking awful. It's all about them. Im thinking to myself like hey girl im online dating here too. Wondering what kind of person you are too. It aint all about you. So because of that it hasnt worked out for me because i just got out of an 18 year relationship where it wasnt ever about me. It's going to be about me sometimes from now on. Thanks for this. Gives me hope.
Hi bro help me with those dating site names please I need one
Thanks for sharing the experience. Do you know any good dating sites?
@@mevio4665 no bro you know
Would you consider leaving the USA and coming to Latin America? Dating and getting laid is soooooo much easier here, bro
@@ChineduOpara To visit i would. I was with someone for 19 years. Coincidentally was Puerto Rican. LoL. a few years ago it ended. I just hadnt had to kick it with anyone in so long. Now my life is very different. I care for my grandmother who is 94 and sick. She would go to a nursing home if i didnt care for her and stay home with her everyday all day. I just dont have opportunity to leave the house and do anything . Meeting people in my home isnt going to happen. No one is going to knock at my door to be with me. lol Until i have my life back and the ability to leave the house for longer than an hour or 2 i will probably be alone. But id love to go to Dominican Republic. Or PR. So many countries in SA id love to visit. They all look so beautiful. I also love absolutely love latin women. Thats why i was with my ex for so long. But enjoy yourself. At least someone in this world is. lol Happy Holidays man.
Melli is a natural treasure! ⭐
She is telling the truth when a women invest in you you have her full attention this is 1 of many ways to know if she for you or not the point is to see if she has your back.of course once you find this out your free too spend anything on her and let her keep hers it's honestly just a test
This is one of the best dating videos for men on the internet, she Must invest in you, the entire strength of the dynamic depends on this, thanks Melli
One minute in and speaking facts
I just subscribed to your channel ! U keep it so real boo !
I love your realness !
Do you know what would be a fun thing to do? I think Mel should do a pole and ask everyone that turns in does Mel have hair down there? But a big ass? There brother now what do you think? Does mail have any
How much fun how much fun could a man have if he was on dressing and dressing mouth and then you know how much money that's question brother
This woman is a gift from God 💜💜💜
I was scrolling while watching this video and then a saw a picture of you. I said "Rrrrrrrr* challenging. Then you immediately mention "be challenging" 🤭😄..I always love challenge and being a challenge and a woman that's a challenge in a good way..not toxic...a fun challenge 💞 . Also alot of women say I am mysterious and even one have me the nickname "Mystery" ..now I understand from you that it's something women actually love🌞😇
Spot on. Flip the script. You have to do it slowly but it works.
A real man doesn't need validation from a woman. Just handle your business and the best you can be. Everything else in life will come.😎💪
I love how real she keeps it! She’s telling the truth. Let these bitches pay and learn some balance in life with men.
Why so m8 profanity
Who are you,what's the purpose of this video?
This advice is so ON POINT!
Melli, I do not know from what answer to prayers you were sent, but please keep speaking Facts!!! You are like a cheat code to the game. Fellas... listen and learn
Trust me you don't want a woman obsessed over you... I love my peace of mind...thank you
Beautiful analogies I really appreciate that so much. Appreciate women like you shining light on true facts, there are some really good men like myself who are now hesitant of every woman I meet because of certain factors now I have learned how to be independent and still stay on my grind and sex does not run me. Thank you for this video
The truth and nothing but the truth! Guys hold too much on what is not real. Don't force yourself on any lady. What is yours will definitely stay without you running bankrupt to keep her... Melli, much 💕
Melli this was top notch info, you a real ☝🏾
You are da truth bomb about women and dating ! Thank you Melli .
😂I love it?! My name is Jamal?! But to hear HER say my name I almost melted, I had to subscribe!! Your content is amazing by the way😎👍🏾