This scene is an honest depiction of how some many adults sabotage themselves and then blame others or feel someone else wronged them due to their own actions.
@@taetm8868 Blanca knows her own mistakes. The point of being a mother is to make sure her children don't go down the same path. She did right by kicking papi out. You create a house with rules in order to maintain order otherwise you just running a low budget half-way home. That's not what houses are for.
I don't think Blanca was bad. Blanca was a new house mother trying to give her children a sense of stability they'd never known. Her rules made 100% sense. Papi didn't want to hurt Blanca. He just didn't know how to trust people, still trying to hustle to survive. In the end, Blanca did the only thing she could. As we saw later, Papi wound up being treated like a doormat by Candy and Lulu when they started the house of ferocity. And he was more than happy to go back to Blanca and endeavor to live a more honest life, and learn to trust others enough to do what he knew was the best thing.
Blanca was never painted as the "bad one", she told all of her children the rules. Papi knew the rules he was even warned by Damon before everything happened.
they never painted blanca as the bad one? blanca just realized how the decision to kick papi out affected everybody else. she just has extreme compassion and realized it's not worth breaking apart a bond so clearly strong. it's not "they made her out to be a bad person for this" more so "she started feeling bad after realizing how bad it will be for papi" nobody helped her think about papi it just means she clearly cared for him
Papi was a hurt puppy who didn't trust yet. I think when he saw the depth of how much Blanca truly cared for him, and how hurt she was when he acted so selfish, he realized he did her dirty.
@@Andregrindle He saw how brown the supposedly green grass was in another house. Candy and Lulu had no business being mothers, but then again, they had such a poor example in Elektra. Sure, they could provide for their children financially, but they treated their kids like shit. Papi was not accustomed to being seen as a servant, constantly belittled, and made to feel insignificant by his "mothers."
Blanca's eyes told it all she had compassion and won until she felt the iciness of his contempt and is it disrespect and lack of reference for what she gave to him in the face of that Blanca turned into ice and cut him off in Paradise
Exactly! Just own up to a mistake and ask for grace. Blanca would have been tough on him but likely she would not have thrown him out. Being slick in the mouth when you have done wrong and do not have a pot to piss in nor a window to throw it out of is insane.
don't blame Ricky. Papi was the one doing drugs. Hood culture always wanna focus on the squealer but never the one doing the actual crime... so backwards.
@@ninibugg6203 It's like what Angel says later on. He didn't even hesitate to rat Papi out. Not a moment of contemplation or anything. I don't blame him for snitching, I just hate the timing/swiftness he did it. And the fact that he did it as revenge for Papi telling Damon something that ended up being true (he's the hit it & quit it type) just makes him extra shitty.
@@SoldierOfLoveForNow and that's why Angel and Papi were perfect for each other. They both grew up thinking because of what and who they are to they only had one option to possibly advance, and they grew out of that mindset together.
usually those with limited education resort to what comes easy.... they just need guidance to show them there are better avenues to go down. Unfortunately, alot of them don't want guidance. They'd rather just stick to what's easy. Even if it's bad.
@@taetm8868 How would you have felt if the police busted down Blanca's door and trashed her place and took all of them to jail for possession? Or worse, if they had shot somebody during the raid because it looked like "they had a weapon"? Sometimes, y'all have to see the forest, not one individual tree called "snitching."
I still wonder what Papi was doing going to Balls if he's straight. Or was he questioning at the time? I found it unusual for a straight guy to be there for fun when compared to how the other straight guys in the show behaved while watching the balls
There’s this part where he says he’s an equal opportunity lover, which I think implies that he’s bi, other than that his sexuality isn’t really talked about
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This scene is an honest depiction of how some many adults sabotage themselves and then blame others or feel someone else wronged them due to their own actions.
Yasss !!!! Blanca is a very good mother.
@@taetm8868 Blanca knows her own mistakes. The point of being a mother is to make sure her children don't go down the same path. She did right by kicking papi out. You create a house with rules in order to maintain order otherwise you just running a low budget half-way home. That's not what houses are for.
5:01 was the moment he messed up real bad
pissed me off that the show painted blanca as the bad one after this, but she had every right to do what she did
It never. You decided to add her that way
I don't think Blanca was bad. Blanca was a new house mother trying to give her children a sense of stability they'd never known. Her rules made 100% sense. Papi didn't want to hurt Blanca. He just didn't know how to trust people, still trying to hustle to survive. In the end, Blanca did the only thing she could. As we saw later, Papi wound up being treated like a doormat by Candy and Lulu when they started the house of ferocity. And he was more than happy to go back to Blanca and endeavor to live a more honest life, and learn to trust others enough to do what he knew was the best thing.
While Blanca was right to have strict rules, the last thing Papi needed was to be thrown back on the street. He needed love and care, badly.
Blanca was never painted as the "bad one", she told all of her children the rules. Papi knew the rules he was even warned by Damon before everything happened.
they never painted blanca as the bad one? blanca just realized how the decision to kick papi out affected everybody else. she just has extreme compassion and realized it's not worth breaking apart a bond so clearly strong. it's not "they made her out to be a bad person for this" more so "she started feeling bad after realizing how bad it will be for papi" nobody helped her think about papi it just means she clearly cared for him
Such a groundbreaking show with great actors and actresses‼️
Blanca is a good mother. I do not understand what Papi ruined it.
Papi was a hurt puppy who didn't trust yet. I think when he saw the depth of how much Blanca truly cared for him, and how hurt she was when he acted so selfish, he realized he did her dirty.
@@Andregrindle He saw how brown the supposedly green grass was in another house. Candy and Lulu had no business being mothers, but then again, they had such a poor example in Elektra. Sure, they could provide for their children financially, but they treated their kids like shit. Papi was not accustomed to being seen as a servant, constantly belittled, and made to feel insignificant by his "mothers."
@@lecuyerdooley1084 true!
I go back to season 1 and feel surprised, there was insane character growth for everyone in Pose
Blanca's eyes told it all she had compassion and won until she felt the iciness of his contempt and is it disrespect and lack of reference for what she gave to him in the face of that Blanca turned into ice and cut him off in Paradise
You can't just say that you didn't mean it after you've said it. She gave him the biggest chance he was probably going to get and he threw it away.
Exactly! Just own up to a mistake and ask for grace. Blanca would have been tough on him but likely she would not have thrown him out. Being slick in the mouth when you have done wrong and do not have a pot to piss in nor a window to throw it out of is insane.
Ricky definitely folded too easily.
Ricky is a very sneaky character, I never liked him from the start. I only gained a little sympathy for him when pray tell died.
Fr almost like he wanted Papi to leave
don't blame Ricky. Papi was the one doing drugs. Hood culture always wanna focus on the squealer but never the one doing the actual crime... so backwards.
What was he supposed to do😂? He didn't wanna disrespect Blanca, and she made her rules VERY CLEAR btw. I felt bad for Papi, but this is on him.
@@ninibugg6203
It's like what Angel says later on. He didn't even hesitate to rat Papi out. Not a moment of contemplation or anything. I don't blame him for snitching, I just hate the timing/swiftness he did it.
And the fact that he did it as revenge for Papi telling Damon something that ended up being true (he's the hit it & quit it type) just makes him extra shitty.
I'm rooting for Papi!
I hate when mamas do this 🤣 like leave me out of it find out yourself damn ☠️🤣
Right!! I’m not about to rat out my siblings.
They have to. They can't be having things like that going on with the people in their house, it can affect everyone.
@@supershepherd yes true but why threaten me 🤣 when I ain’t did shit but knew 🤣
Just wait til you’re a mother , u definitely will be doing the same 😂 my house my rules and zero disrespect ❤
Lmfao right! I didn't do a damn thing. Leave me out of it.
YOU WOULDN’T HAVE SAID IT IF YOU DIDN’T MEAN IT PAPI!!! YOU WOULDN’T HAVE SAID IT IF YOU DIDN’T MEAN IT!!!!
Hes an Amazing actor!!!!
This
this is such a great show!!!
dana t
I know this was hard for Blanca
yes I live all the characters and live pose!
People act like selling drugs is the one and only option lol
um angel acted like sex work was the only option cause she didn't want to "Bust tables"
@@SoldierOfLoveForNow and that's why Angel and Papi were perfect for each other. They both grew up thinking because of what and who they are to they only had one option to possibly advance, and they grew out of that mindset together.
usually those with limited education resort to what comes easy.... they just need guidance to show them there are better avenues to go down. Unfortunately, alot of them don't want guidance. They'd rather just stick to what's easy. Even if it's bad.
That scece made me cry
I found it weird how blanca use psychology on Ricky
I hate how ricky was only worried for himself I wouldve never snitched
@@taetm8868 How would you have felt if the police busted down Blanca's door and trashed her place and took all of them to jail for possession? Or worse, if they had shot somebody during the raid because it looked like "they had a weapon"? Sometimes, y'all have to see the forest, not one individual tree called "snitching."
Ohhkey im sold gonna watch this
I didn't mean it! 😢
What season and episode is this?
1x07
@@amandaljohnson thanks
I still wonder what Papi was doing going to Balls if he's straight. Or was he questioning at the time? I found it unusual for a straight guy to be there for fun when compared to how the other straight guys in the show behaved while watching the balls
Balls aren't just for gay pple
There’s this part where he says he’s an equal opportunity lover, which I think implies that he’s bi, other than that his sexuality isn’t really talked about
I don't think he ever said that he was straight.
He said it the episode when the boys when the boys were talking about getting tested for hiv. Episode 4: the fever
@@Seahawk302 but in that same episode, he said he used to let an older guy suck him off in exchange for money.
I never liked Ricky
Same
Yaw don't like him bc he told?
I didn’t like him until he got with Pray Tell. He seemed more humble. I’m sure finding out his status had something to do with it.
I feel like only shady ppl like Rickey
@Lee Brown if you are shady just say that sis...