LANY - 'Cause You Have To (Official Lyric Video)

Lyrics:
chasing a heart is like chasing a ghost
you can’t make somebody you love feel the same if they don’t
it doesn’t matter the words that you say
‘cause just like the seasons you can’t stop the way people change
i’d drive thru the night, walk a thousand miles
to feel your head on my chest
i’d give anything, that’s what’s killing me,
‘cause you won’t even reach across the bed
the silence is getting too cold
we stopped fighting ‘cause deep down inside we both know
just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
all of your friends now were all of mine first
your mom and your dad they were both there for me when mine weren’t
i can’t see tomorrow without you today
i’d rather let you go than make you feel like you’ve gotta stay
i’d drive thru the night, walk a thousand miles
to feel your head on my chest
i’d give anything, that’s what’s killing me,
‘cause you won’t even reach across the bed
the silence is getting too cold
we stopped fighting ‘cause deep down inside we both know
just for once, what do you want baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
so come on, don’t be afraid to break my heart
it only gets worse if you wait
just for once, what do you want, baby tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
i’m so sorry, i wish i could be the one to love you more
i hope you find somebody who’s got everything you’re searching for
the silence is getting too cold
we stopped fighting ‘cause deep down inside we both know
just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
#LANY #abeautifulblur

[@reyswift5779]

"i'm so sorry, i wish i could be the one to love you more. I hope you find somebody who's got everything your searching for" THIS HITS SO HARD

[@jenielyncanadalla2773]

🥹🥹😭

[@Fae-qu3wl]

😭😭😭😭

[@sugarskull289]

I cry everytime I hear it 😢

[@clouddrakefynx1416]

This is probably the most painful song on your new album. Yes, nothing hurts more if you see the person you love only forcing himself/herself to love you, 'cause she/he have to.

[@kheicee]

2:37-3:49 - I cant even describe how beautiful this part is.. Its just... WHY IS THIS SO PERFECT??!! I CAN'T

[@tanzu7]

real

[@ajjj1962]

True

[@sh0ryualfa393]

That part is why I still listen to LANY. PJK knows how to put into songs every heartbreak. T_T

[@Greninj999]

THIS

[@tintinbeldua11]

like a movie soundtrack🥹

[@ericwertz9448]

this is the best song since the malibu era imo. the honest and vulnerable lyrics, the certain maturity it takes to reach these feelings towards someone you think the world of, the gradual buildup to the bridge and the emotions induced from the guitar.
so many insane elements, i’m blown away, absolute masterpiece

[@asyaandat_]

U should listen to mama's boy album....

[@andrewn621_2]

This what hit the most out of the entire album. Lany you never disappoint me and you always relate to me.

[@hmonenathar444]

Just like the seasons you can’t stop the way people change

[@jozehidalgo4518]

Yes. Change is constant and necessary 🙂

[@triogobs]

😢

[@jameschriscanape267]

i agree with you

[@CarmelKazadi-kn4oz]

@@jozehidalgo4518 gg

[@DudeMan-xs3db]

Yes those are the lyrics of the song

[@keithantoinettetarcena991]

LANY’s songs are like words in my heart. Thank you for always making me feel that I have someone who understands me.

[@cristianrashidsardillo4799]

real

[@AntediluvianDream35]

This song makes me remember and realise how beautiful we were with my greatest love. We passed so many challenges together and reached the end but somehow, one didn't feel the same anymore. Despite everything, "I really wish I could be the one to love you more, I hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for". I still love you the same way like I promised, farewell..

[@ohmykimchaewon]

what a transition, he gave us love song and a broken song. NO will melt your heart, Cause you have to will melt your soul. i love this band sm

[@_SemestaTualangCahaya]

that's it... this song is the closure.
Goodluck for her and hope she got anything she wanted.

[@user-qy8ri7uv1y]

the art of letting someone go because they have to :(

[@sptymm7175]

this song gives you the courage to move on and let go of something you love so much

[@juzzeepy]

I'm getting tired of him, forgetting me when everybody, or literally anyone is around. We were in a long distance, so we seldom had time. I noticed the difference in how we treat each other. The many times I have voiced out my concerns, he promises to change but still does the same thing I was concerned about. I got tired and slowly tried to live like a single person even when I was tied to him. If he wants distance so much, I'll give it. Even when I don't go out much often, I'll pretend we never exist. One of my friends commented he doesn't look like he's committed. We had plans but it will be changing soon unannounced by me. This song passed my feeds, and it hit me. Hence I am here. I hope everyone finds the person who reciprocates their love too. ❤
Edit: I wrote this comment 2 months ago, fast forward as I type this he cheated on me and broke up with me on April 8, 2024. I'm glad. I'm doing fine. May everyone have a happy year!

[@vicly7446]

going through a separation, and was going through everything described in this song. thank you for this, lany.

[@tabtimthong4884]

This song takes me back when I broke up with my ex. I love him but I have got to let him go because I wanted the best for him 🥹❤️ Love you Lany! You're my true love!!!!

[@asecbnyu12]

i’m so sorry, i wish i could be the one to love you more
i hope you find somebody who’s got everything you’re searching for
beautiful melody. This part killing me

[@huzzah....6831]

"do u only love me 'cause you have to."
My heart hurts so good but I love this song so bad .

[@adiconcepts]

This reminds of old LANY. I love it

[@DudeMan-xs3db]

They have literally written the same song since 2015

[@bitsofgissy2097]

this album is going to rip me up and I love it 🩵🩵🩵

[@nicolasramirez9944]

Goosebumps ! 🥺 LANY YOURE SO TENDERLY MY FAVE BAND FOR ETERNITY ❤️❤️

[@prakashperera77]

This reminds me of the mistakes I had made in the past, and I can not bear the pain of losing a loved one forever .....

[@akicakes]

This hits different if you really love the person and you’re not in good terms.

[@bumzxd]

This is the best song from the album. Related to this one on a personal level.

[@daisbrigati]

songs like this makes me wonder if i have really moved on or i am just not thinking about it

[@mykasobrevilla8537]

Same

[@ericramirez4963]

Thank you LANY. 😊.. your songs help me make it through tough times. This one hits different. The art of letting someone you love go because you know it's not you who they love anymore, no matter how much it hurts you just have to. Wish her all the best. Still love her with all my heart but it's time to let go. I love you so much Donna. ❤😊

[@fluffy_yoonji]

GONNA LOVE LANY FOR ETERNITY!!

[@nilaauliairac6920]

dear my love if u ever find this, i hope u find someone that u're looking for, sure i hope she is me. but if she's not me, i hope ure always happy. U know i loved u most, but i can't say anything to u rn, i loved u

[@princess014438]

This is one of the ignored songs in “a beautiful blur” album. I thought XXL was the best song, then I went to their concert and man the feeling of this song just hits different live. Reminds me of the times I was so inlove, flew across the world and the person wouldn’t even take a step for me. Honestly I don’t even know why I’m crying, It’s been 4 years, we both moved on. Lany was my sanctuary at that time, I remember sneaking to drive my mom’s car in the middle of the night just so I can cry out loud without being heard, I played Lany’s songs out so loud in the car and sobbed so hard. That was the time I lost myself. It took a year to recover me again, it was hard and such a painful process. While playing this song at lany’s concert they had a background of driving at night and that just reminded me of that time.

[@mahub5602]

LANY didn't fail us, Great Music!, I wish they make a music video of this, this song makes me cry asf❤

[@exxevixve]

It feels like I have heard this song before 2018, it sounds so nostalgic.

[@ratnadyah9874]

If u find somebody who's got everything you're searching for, i hope she was me.

[@arnelbryanmerin9623]

*I Hope You Find Somebody Who's Got Everything You're Searching For* truth hurts but these words hits me very hard

[@daisyiracheta6020]

Finally I hear this song live 😭😭😭😭😭

[@amilanafilah1688]

Chasin' a heart is like chasin' a ghost
You can't make somebody you love feel the same
If they don't
It doesn't matter the words that you say
Cause just like the seasons, you can't stop the way
People change
[Pre-Chorus]
I'd drive through the night
Walk a thousand miles
To feel your head on my chest
I'd give anythin'
That's what's killin' me
Cause you won't even reach across the bed
[Chorus]
The silence is gettin' too cold
We stop fightin'
Cause deep down inside, we both know
Just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
Do you only love me 'cause you have to?
[Verse 2]
All of your friends now were all of mine first
Your mom and your dad, they were both there for me when mine weren't
I can't see tomorrow without you today
But I'd rather let you go than make you feel like you've gotta stay
[Pre-Chorus]
I'd drive through the night
Walk a thousand miles
To feel your head on my chest
I'd give anythin'
That's what's killin' me
Cause you won't even reach across the bed
[Chorus]
The silence is gettin' too cold
We stop fightin'
Cause deep down inside, we both know
Just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
Do you only love me 'cause you have to?
So come on, don't be afraid to break my heart
It only gets worse if you wait
Just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
Do you only love me 'cause you have to?
[Bridge]
I'm so sorry, I wish I could be
The one to love you more
I hope you find somebody
Who's got everythin' you're searchin' for

[@fyanabi]

❤

[@lejeandenarvaez6824]

"I'd rather let you go than make you feel like you've gotta stay" 😩💔💔

[@vanessaeusebio552]

My new favorite song from LANY. I truly love your songs, Paul. Your voice is so amazing :)

[@ae2773]

can't imagine how much this song hurts when they perform this on live

[@GGplays3156]

I will add this to my favorite songs ❤, there's so much meaning on it💕

[@prakashperera77]

beautiful melody and stunning lyrics ....⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@sooxwon]

Idk how much I spend my time to listen this song

[@sugarskull289]

Same, guaranteed it will be my most played song on Spotify this year, its made me cry so many times but I cant stop listening because I just describes all the feelings of one sided love too perfectly 💔

[@Lyricandlevi]

This is my favorite on the album

[@pepper_min8814]

❤ LANY never fails me..

[@mca1052]

“baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to” It hurts so good

[@catme.7]

We need this kind of honesty

[@marknoeldaras446]

"Do you only love me cause you have to" Damn I felt that 😭

[@denisjonathan9991]

i hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for.

[@khristinecarisseantonio]

I love the album. I love you lany. You remind me of her. She loves your songs

[@bankyoshi9512]

Thanks you for your songs. They really help me for healing my mind.

[@user-bh6sb4tc7x]

🖤💙 for every person who's hurt today, i wish for your healing

[@user-tu1qm2yi1o]

I hope you find somebody
Who's got everything you're searching for

[@JuiceNoodles7]

definitely the best song from the album

[@sachikim9454]

I always cry myself to sleep listening to this since its release

[@marcusbravo1212]

My favorite song of the album

[@manishagurou2809]

All the emotions that are bundled in heart flow this song❤

[@Eva._.94]

Favourite song of the album ❤

[@dijosheng9978]

"i’d rather let you go than make you feel like you’ve gotta stay" - screams 'loving them harder won't change anything.'

[@JasonUceda]

“I’d rather let you go than make you feel like you gotta stay”

[@yinghou2427]

发现了个小秘密，she's out of my league的前奏和这首cause‘ u have to几乎一样，不一样的节奏 全然不同的的感受～ 太爱了🫶🏽💙🖤

[@zeiviramasriinayah9935]

NEVER FAIL ❤

[@weltzdc8004]

LANY, love this song ❤

[@pudsyes3697]

kung di ka lang talaga gumawa ng katarantaduhan sana ikaw lagi pang 10pm ko

[@firmenramadhani]

thank u my J. for now, u have somebody who's got everything u're searching for. congrats

[@jazzlegendtv8103]

we will be fine... eventually we will be. 😊

[@oldwornjacket]

43 year old mostly into punk rock shit. XXL sucked me in while eating lunch one day at a restaurant a couple months ago. Not this huge fan, but holy fuck, this track...someone's cutting onions.

[@tan_a006]

You can't make somebody you love feel the same if they don't . HITS HARD

[@chloievictoria8371]

loving this era, let's keep moving forward please

[@zenitsukun4987]

Lany's songs hit different at night❤

[@duniaparijah]

i will come to you and i hope by that time, you will forgive me and accept me one more time.. i will make thing right as long as you will stay with me till the end because my life is so miserable without you.. i miss u so much, my lovely 🌻.. **hoping my love one will read this comment..

[@fairytail4457]

i cant see tommorrow without you here today :((

[@fforrespect9676]

my fav song from this album

[@alvinmampusti1981]

'Cause you can't change the way another person feels inside. The way the pain comes in small, unexpected ways, not necessarily all at once. Lyrics of this song 'CAUSE YOU HAVE TO will literally stuck your ribs and reduce you to tears.

[@GreatyMatt]

Chasing rainbows can be frustrating. Hats off to LANY for this

[@LemuelChua]

This part really hits me differently 3:12 , really the most painful part of this song

[@darioduarte3115]

2:49 sounds and vibes like Malibu Nights

[@user-ot7md7xb1g]

This song doesn't say much, yet it mirrors everything a shattered heart could convey.

[@jamgementiza7426]

"i hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for." and yep, you found her.

[@___skrz___]

damn, this song hits haaard 😶 I understand it so clearly...

[@divineremembrance]

God this song is so good

[@kalanirivera9215]

I Want To See This Live…! 😭

[@tristanreyes7274]

Thanks for this, lany.

[@user-xc4vd1zl8i]

i love this song sm 😕💙

[@allypark6801]

I think I'm obsessed to this song now😭

[@jamaicamacalalad2011]

Here kasi ito yung song sa wattpad story that I recently finished reading. Ang ganda ng song 🥺 ❤

[@rosellefaithmagpantay768]

New song for that person who i treasured but can't give me the same.

[@kuromi159]

Adoro 🥺

[@wyrzx]

i miss him :(

[@user-hn8mm8ih8j]

AAAAA ILOVEYOU LANY

[@dacudaoromanchristians.373]

thru these tears pt. 2💙🖤

[@patrickabando2615]

I feel lost since the day you leave even though im moved on there's still emptiness on my heart 😕

[@albaroxc7451]

Damn this jam hits hard ☹️
Just for once, what do you want, mami tell me the truth. Do you only love me cause you have to!! 😞

[@diahdarmayani9689]

Damn lany.. this is hurts so good

[@ancaramessi5130]

i hope u find somebody who's got evrything u searching for

[@alyssabacatano]

LANY, I love you, always. 💙

[@ssifaily]

the most beautiful song with painful lyrics in this album

[@azuriteuniverse19]

My favorite from the album 🥹💛

[@JamaeMwah]

“Do you only love me ‘cause you have to.” 😮‍💨
Ooooffff

[@fluffy_yoonji]

GRRRR LANY ON TOP!!

[@vaneshaedln]

awesome song ❤️

[@nenkonixxx3276]

Thank you for the almost 4 years of happiness, Nicole. I hope you found the one to love you more. I still miss you.

[@edny.zacharias]

I love this song😭

[@donnamaecasabar264]

Aw my heart 🥺