Just did this in 2019 at age 38, I thought i was old until I met some of my class mates age 42-43. Such an amazing experience. One of the best things I ever done for myself.. it changed and healed me completely 🇫🇷 ❤
This is the type of content we need in the world today. A lot of us who are nearing 30 or 30 and up feel so lost and as if time is Running out. It’s never too late my people!
@@lee-13 I feel the same way… It’s like I’m just going through the motions. I have so many plans and working towards some goals. But it just feels like I’m never going to get there. So I understand completely.
Would you mind sharing some of the signs or things you felt that made you end your last engagement? Maybe that's not worth a video; but, seeing how you and Jeannie both ended significant relationships only to find yourselves in new and amazing ones, I think it would be so helpful to hear your thoughts on how you knew to let the old thing go.
I don't think they should do that. It wouldn't be fair cause their exes do not have a similar platform to tell their side. I'm sure you have at least one ex who moved on from you cause they felt you're not the one. How would you like it if they had a video on the net detailing to complete strangers why?🙁
@@omphilemoerane2569 but they don’t have to tell the details they can just share how they felt and the steps they took to end the relationship + move on.
@@sarahjay5484 but they have given details already. Jeannie even showed us the couch where she told Freddie she wanted a divorce and that she told him by basically blurting it out to him. Adrienne has told us about Lenny and the key to his apartment that he didn't want to give her and how she basically had to push for every next step in their relationship. She even told us about the fact that her sister tipped her off that Lenny only planned her proposal on the day he actually proposed to her and that it made her feel very sad and like an afterthought because for everyone else in his life he puts in a lot of effort, time and thought when doing something for them. That's A LOT of information. What more do you want to know?😯😯😯
If this is not gods doing….. At this moment, I was second guessing my decision to move to Korea for a year on my own eat pray love journey, and I opened up TH-cam and saw this video! Thank you for posting this ❤️
Have thee best time Marwa!!! I too was contemplating a solo trip and it absolutely terrifies me but it feels like the right thing to do. Keep listening to that still small voice inside of you🤍
I’m 29 years old and I got married when I was extremely young and we have 2 kids (still together) However, I definitely feel like I need a solo trip to understand and love myself more without being mommy or Wifey! With turning 30 soon this story was extremely inspiring ♥️ I appreciate these kinds of stories so much because young adults need to hear them, it’s a very gray area that is always missed between your late 20’ and early 30’s. I needed this Thanks Adrienne 🥰
I know what you mean I married young and feel like I missed out on my journey in getting to know myself alone. I always followed my husbands advice or did what he said. Now that I’m 31 I see life completely different. I went on my own solo trip to Mexico last month in September. I had anxiety at first because I missed my son. He is 7. But then later felt strange. I went from living with my parents to living with my husband. So that was the first time ever to just walk around with no one to get to or nothing to do. Just like Adrianne said. That she could just walk to wherever and no have a time or place to get to with no one to give her influence on choices. It’s strange but freeing. I only went for 5 days but I’m planning to do it again, I just don’t know when. It’s definitely needed. I lost myself along time ago…. And life just passed me by. Can’t let it pass me by no more and can’t put other people before me. I have to take care of me too.
Hence the reason why adults used to say take your time. But nooo, we grown, we know better 🙄. I don’t think young people should get married before 26yrs, the male brain only fully develop at 26yrs. What’s the rush? Maybe I may treat myself to a weekend get away in the near future
I moved to UK two years ago for university. Being alone and independent, especially during Covid made me grow up and so much braver, and last summer I spent 3 weeks in Scotland. Went to all the major cities, took the bus everywhere and just explored to my hearts content. Doing a major trip like that at 22 was such a privilege and I felt so empowered. Every woman should travel alone at least once in her life, it’s AMAZING 😍😍. Paris is my next solo trip, here’s to me going next summer! ❤️
@@mariaa3547 Hey I usually never leave a comment on TH-cam, however I'm interested to know why do you feel the need to mention skin color? Do you have an issue or a problem with black people or anyone who is not white?
I did my first solo trip 3 years ago at 25 to Thailand. I tell everyone to do it ! I was extremely scared because this was the other part of the world lol but to this day, of all the places I’ve traveled to, this trip will always be my favorite. You learn SOOO much about yourself that u didn’t even know exist.
I went to Berlin a lot on my own and it’s such an amazing feeling being somewhere else on your own - especially if you’ve suffered from anxiety for a large part of your life. Couldn’t recommend travelling alone more! It’s such a freeing experience!
Loved that you shared this story! I also did the Paris school thing in my 30s and I kid you not, it was the best experience of my life. Living in a foreign country on your own and learning to navigate your new environment helps you grow so much and I definitely enjoyed the freedom even through the lonely times. Paris is a dream and the city keeps you company.
All of your ATA videos have helped me get through, heartbreak, career confusion, depression and have helped me through tough times over all. You inspire me everyday
I literally love every episode of All Things Adrienne, but this one is by far my FAVORITE!! THank you so much for this episode. It really spoke to me and has me thinking about a lot right now.
I have traveled alone to Berlin for 3 months and it was by far the most pivotal period for self growth in my life. I have finally met me on that trip.. all of me, unfiltered. As a reference for the sweetness of life and living in the sweet spot, as they say, I always think of those 3 months. Magical🌟
I don’t know why I got a little teary eyed lol 🥺 It takes a lot of courage to sit with yourself and to figure out who you are and who you want to be. You did yourself and your ex fiancé a favor in making sure if felt seamless and organic to get married
Studying abroad at 25 was THE best experience of my life! I am so grateful to have done it and I hope that everyone can do it. Luckily I went when I went back to University. I thought it was too late but this is proof that it is not. Maybe in the future you can have scholarships for people to study abroad as another way to give back with all the other things you do. The Bailon Study Aboard scholarship!
Adrienne is so sweet, you can just tell from her storytelling and her experiences. I feel her. Many people say 2020 has been such a terrible year. I however, had a different experience…….I loved it. I completely relate to her story ❤️.
Strangers are always gracious enough to take a photos of you in Europe and other parts of the world in-fact. The only time I didn’t feel comfortable to ask a stranger was in the US, I was in Northern California a few times because of work and l had the feeling I’d be bothering people if I asked them to take a photo of me :) Americans were always looking mad 😡 😂
@@swaziM10 Californians don’t seem too friendly, but if you’re ever in TN someone will gladly take your photo. Maybe even all angles and tell you to have a blessed life 🤣😭
I was asking myself the same question! Hmm from my experience, Parisians specially in rush hour don't usually stop much ... I am thinking since she took photography classes maybe she used a tripod, or maybe she asked some of her teammates and friends she made there ?
I just moved to NYC by myself and this is exactly what I needed. I haven't been alone in a looooooooooooooooooong while. Thank you for this! Perfect timing.
I’ve wanted to go to Barcelona ever since I saw Cheetah Girls 2 😭❤️! Im in college and I was literally JUST debating whether I should still go abroad 😭 (I had every intention before - then COVID hit 🙃) Paris, Barcelona, Santorini, and Tuscany are on my travel 🧳 list!
My cousin studied abroad in Spain. It was a really wonderful experience for her and her Mom came to visit also. She stayed with host families one in Barcelona and another I don't remember where, lol. Do it, you are only young once! Also, YOLO if older. I like her message about going out there at any age.
Italy for me. You actually brought me to tears thinking about my own life and the lost opportunities I let pass me by. This is why I encourage my kids to get out there and explore and get out of their bubble. Thank you, I'm glad I found this video.
I did a solo trip to Italy a couple of years ago. It was during a really difficult time in my life, and I can say that trip changed me forever. It helped me fall in love with myself too. I think I am more me now than I’ve ever been, and that solo trip had a a lot to do with it. I wish I could do a whole study abroad trip there. Your story is awesome!
@@mariaa3547 lol who said europe is filled with white ppl only?? i have been to paris and lots of africans from francophonne countres were there literally saw more black ppl then white lol
I love this video. I’ve never been by myself. I got married early and three years later started having children. Now, I just love the days when the kids are at school and my husband is at work. You don’t realize how much you need time to yourself until you get to spend time alone.
I have just randomly stumbled acrosss on this video and have been following her journey for such a long time now. Traveling abroad and studying in Europe has been one of my biggest and greatest desires for such a long time now. Watching this video was so sweet and inspirational. I am so thankful that I watched this & I am so grateful for the authenticity that Adrienne carries herself with no matter where she is or what she does.
Thank You Adrian❤️ Today would’ve been my Mom‘s 95th Birthday she passed away when she was 78 from Alzheimer’s. I just had to tell you that because I think watching your video today was a gift from her to me. I enjoyed your Paris experience so much. Im very grateful to be able to see everything you went through as you soul searched and fell in love with your unique self. And to go after what you really wanted in life. My children are grown now and i’m beginning to search myself to find my deepest desire and to basically go for it. I’m getting closer and closer every day. Even the part about the age difference with yourself and the other students touched me because sometimes I feel like I should’ve done more at a younger age.i know it’s never too late💃🏿 Your experience just lifted me like wings😍 Thank you for being so REAL and for sharing your experience.I’m a Scorpio too and I really feel where you’re coming from. Happy Birthday Young Scorpio✨🎈🥰 God Bless You & Your Family 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
I LOVE THIS - it really is hard in your 30s because it seems time for change is dwindling. My Fiancé and I have just decided to put a pause on building a house to have a great adventure. We are in our early 30s and thought lets just do it. Moving to Dubai from Dublin next year. Everything will work out in the long run! Just taking a new route.
Honestly every since I saw cheetah girls 2, I have always wanted to go to Spain. Loved this. Definitely gave me comfort knowing that me questioning everything isn’t wrong. People tell you how life should be and you see others doing the things that are expected, it’s nice to know that it’s okay to question and choose differently if it’s what’s best for you!
I’m here crying 🥺 I’ve been in such a funk for over a week. Watching your video helped. It’s crazy because my sisters have recently been telling me I need time for myself but, I don’t know how. I depend on my loved ones for happiness and don’t even realize it. I do now but, it’s so hard to figure it out on my own. I have a son and this morning he was having a rough time getting up to go to school. As I’m helping him get ready I just wanted to cry because I had to find the words to get me up and going. To motivate him. ♥️Why’s it so hard to do it for myself 🥺 Thanks Adrienne 🙏🏼
I've been waiting for you to drop this video/story for the past 4 years since you did the interview with Elle! Great to hear what you learnt and why you took the trip💛
Omg, girl I am American and live in France and the way you are describing it is perfect. One of my favorite activities is walking the streets with nowhere to go. IT is relaxing, peaceful and can get emotional because the streets and everyone in it are so beautiful
I'm one year away from finishing high school and I really want to travel alone and study by myself.So thank you my cheetah sister for telling this story 🐆❤️much love from SA 🇿🇦❤️
Literally my dream to study in Paris …this is so helpful especially I’m not in college it’s time to save up and make that happen …..Adrienne girl you are chefs kiss 😂😂😂😂
I think it’s amazing of how your life story played out once you decided to put yourself first and making sure it was in tune to what God wants for you. I’m a little jelly bc I’m 41 and haven’t felt real love in years but I have God… Keep uplifting on your channel and The Real!! ❤️❤️❤️ All you guys. 😘🙌🏽
I've never traveled alone but this year was the first time I've ever heard of that. Now I keep hearing about it and it makes me want to travel somewhere before I turn 30 early next year. I want to discover myself. Listening to you talk is giving me all these emotions. I love your videos so much.
Loved what you did! Made me emotional a bit because a lot of us go so long without getting to know the true us, but once we take the time to be alone and like you, go to restaurants alone or even movies, journal etc. you realize just how great you are. It’s been a while since I’ve gone out on a date with myself, not counting the trips to run errands for the kids, and without the Hubby etc., and you’ve inspired me to make a reservation at a nice restaurant and do so. I’m so happy for you and the life you created for yourself post-Paris. You chose you! ♥️
Ive been waiting on this story since you announced everything on the real back in 2016 , Thank you so much for being transparent, and helping give us words of wisdom as we guide through these ghetto late 20's .
I LOVED THIS STORY! So glad that you decided to share this with us. It’s nice to get to know more little pieces of you Adrianne. I’m glad you had an amazing time, it definitely seemed like it helped shaped who you are today 🙏🏾❤️
Loved the video. I’m currently 26 and have the opportunity to do a study abroad program in the UK this summer for a month. I’ve really been on the fence about going because of the cost as well as being there alone, but this video help put things into perspective. Thank you ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing A. I'm 27 and I'm at a point in my life where I need to rediscover myself. I've made some really bad decisions in life and this is the inspiration I needed. Your paris story as touched me personally on another level. Bless you always
I absolutely love this. Paris was my first study abroad experience circa 2019, and I definitely came back Gabby 2.0 and am still on the self-discovery journey!! Love this so much...
I love this so much, I’m 21 and still trying to build/find myself. This really resonated with me because I know that I want to travel in the near future, and a lot of people really do say how nice it is and the experience you get is great, it’s good to experience a world outside of your own too and explore the culture, love ya! 🤍
Doing things alone really helps you find yourself and find your own interests. I love how you mentioned watching movies by yourself cause I wanna start doing it! I’m going to look into traveling abroad 🤩 ily
Awesome video. Travelled to Europe during high school. However in my twenties, after college, I lived in my own apartment for 5 years, which is how I learned to love 💕 myself. My family was near but living by yourself can be enlightening. I remember coming home after work and not watching TV just sitting in silence. I felt like I grew up. I got married at 30 and had children.
I have had the eat pray book on my desk for almost two years…unread. the movie inspired me to travel solo for the first time and have self discovery . And now I’m thinking of doing a few days in Paris and Venice on my own. I feel bored in my current city and life and want to come out of my comfort zone and do something for me!
I love this! I travelled alone throughout my late teens to early 20s. My first international trip alone was when I was 22 - I travelled to the country side of France. I remember leaving my sister in Paris after had travelled together to go on this trip. I bawled my eyes out on the train, but it was the most incredible experience I've ever gone through and I am so glad my heart led me to there.
I love this video! It's so refreshing to see you talk about doing something like this a bit later in life. I've lived in New Zealand and in different countries in Asia, as well as the U.S. but I've always had a fantasy to live abroad in Europe for a bit. Every time I visit Europe I don't want to leave.
There is something valuable that comes from traveling by yourself. I did it twice, Paris, being the first place I went on my own. I spent only 6 days there and fantasized relocating there, but there was no way my entire family would follow along. There is something indescribably beautiful in the air and a sudden confidence that seems to overcome oneself traveling alone...everything is just so much more wholesome and sweeter. This memory of yours evoked that amazing feeling and memory I had when I experienced Paris. Thank you Adrienne for that trip back. xoxo
This is making me feel so much better. I'm about to go to college at 24 and know everyone is going to be so much younger than me but I could also never afford the experience and really feel like I need it. xx
I really, really, really love that you did not put a limit on yourself in studying abroad. I studied abroad in 2015 with my bestie. I was 21 and we went together in the summer. Actually, I studied abroad in Spain after watching you in The Cheetah Girls 2 , and decided that that’s where I wanted to study Spanish and it was the BEST decision I ever made. I got my minor after completing my study abroad program and if it wasn’t for watching you in the Cheetah Girls movie I wouldn’t have had the courage to take the step to fly across and just go for it.
Adrienne this is so inspiring!! I had to quit collage to support my family economically and even that now I have a well pay job without having my title I felt sad for missing that "university season". Hope to have the opportunity again and do this the best experience ever with only me and God ❤️
I love that you made this Adrienne. Everything stated is 💯. I took a solo trip to Thailand in 2017 as my ‘Eat Pray Love’ moment & agree, every woman should take at least 1 solo trip to find yourself. 💖
I can totally relate. I went to Ghana alone to visit a long time pen pal for my 34th birthday two years ago and it was the most enlightening experience of my life in the best way possible.
So inspiring, really letting go of the timeline attached to life. Its really inspiring to see your journey of indepence before getting with your husband.
I am 35, and I feel like I am stuck, overwhelmed, and I feel like I still have my mother in my head telling me what not to do, and I feel scared of trying out new things/career. I have woken up in the mornings dreading what I do for a living. I recently saw the movie "Eat, Pray, Love" and I finally understood the protagonist. I have told my family I would love to take a year off to Europe living two months in Italy, two in Greene, two in France, two in Norway, and so on. I have worked so hard taking care of everyone else in my family, I feel it is time I take care of myself. ❤
You are so relatable on so many levels Adrienne! This experience revealed to me why I love doing solo trips. I'm also in my early 30s and a scorpio (like u!), and everything you explained resonated with me. From walking the streets for hours, listening to your own music and just basically beinf yourself and loving yourself. I just truly hope to have a full circle moment one day, like you did 🙏🏽 this was beautiful, thanks for sharing ❤
This is incredible! I am also a proponent for a traveling alone I definitely want to have the courage to go out of the country but I have gone on two trips by myself and I’m going to continue that tradition!
I love this video! Thank you for sharing and inspiring us to find our happiness. Thank you for showing us the courage we all can find within ourselves.
This is great. I think people don't do it enough. I didn't do it abroad, but i've moved to a city i've never even visited... twice. It was amazing. To build a life gettin scratch in a completely new place, exploring, working..... it's amazing! So glad i did it.
People always tell me studying abroad is a must, and I want to do this so bag in college, time is ticking and hopefully I find the opportunity. Financial hardships are always the problem but videos like this keep me hopeful. Thank you for this beautiful story and thank you for sharing, god bless🤍
I relate to this so much. I had the opportunity to move to London for law school when I was 35. So the story you shared in feeling old and “what am I doing here” really hit home. It was the adventure of a lifetime and I still sometimes wonder if it was all a dream
I felt this episode. Im so grateful to God that you were able to do this and found yourself and the person you are because of it. I had a similar experience on my study abroad program, I went to Valenica, Spain for an academic year by myself and the person I was going there was not the same person when I left. It took me on a journey or rediscovering myself, my likes, dislikes, my weaknesses, strengths and really just who God had called me to be and not be. It was very hard at times but I wouldnt be where I am now without it. ♥♥
My sister moved away and lived in an apartment for college and I wish I would’ve done the same! At least you got to experience somewhat what it felt like.
None of the things you said that were "weird" were that. It was all a beautiful story to tell, thank you for sharing your journey of self-discovery in a rough time of your life. Definately took me back to all the times my mom told me to: listen to myself and do things for myself. Nobody is better than yourself to tell you what you truly need. Spending time on our own is crucial to develop character and get to know ourselves better❤😊
I’m 31 and I’m moving to Indonesia for a year. I’ve also been going through a tricky time. Feeling lost, not knowing what to do with my life and just feeling stuck. I’m excited to be my myself and go through this journey
13:09 THIS right here; there's literally a German philosopher called Friedrich Nietzsche (butchered his last name, sorry 😂) that wrote extensively on this! The need for solitude to learn and reconnect with one's true self. He argued that learning to be comfortable in solitude, and ultimately enjoying it allows someone to truly enjoy life as they overcome the fear of being alone, really powerful vid Adrienne 😊
I have travelled all my life since I am 17 and now I am 51- Visited the 5 continents, lived and worked in several countries from Australia, Thaliand, Middle East, Mexico, Panama, USA, Canada, etc...... my best year in my entire life was in Portland Maine in 1996. Sydney 2000 and Brooklyn NYC in 2013. My heart belongs to the Estates and I will not give up with my dream to come back soon. Thank you Adrienne for sharing your experience! Much appreciated
Have you ever traveled alone?
Yet to. This year. Does going to another town in your country count 🤦♀️😁💃
Yeah on a bus to a different province when I was 12 hi from South Africa 🌍🇿🇦
Your such an amazing person love it ❤
Not yet and love you
Never in my life! 😞💔💔✈
The fact that you went to Paris to find yourself then Israel proposed in Paris! We love a full circle moment!
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Why does roaming the streets of Paris crying still sound so beautiful 😭😭😭. The photos were amazing!!
That’s so beautiful 😭
And she even got married there !
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Just did this in 2019 at age 38, I thought i was old until I met some of my class mates age 42-43. Such an amazing experience. One of the best things I ever done for myself.. it changed and healed me completely 🇫🇷 ❤
I did it at 41
It's cool to do it especially when you are already established and well off like Adrienne.
Can u share info on the programs abroad u went on? I need to do this.
@@MsMed80 Le Cordon Bleu Paris.
I did it at 33
This is the type of content we need in the world today. A lot of us who are nearing 30 or 30 and up feel so lost and as if time is Running out. It’s never too late my people!
It's never too late
Absolutely…this was so inspiring
Thank you! I feel like I’m doing nothing right!
@@lee-13 I feel the same way… It’s like I’m just going through the motions. I have so many plans and working towards some goals. But it just feels like I’m never going to get there. So I understand completely.
Exactly how I feel sometimes.
Would you mind sharing some of the signs or things you felt that made you end your last engagement? Maybe that's not worth a video; but, seeing how you and Jeannie both ended significant relationships only to find yourselves in new and amazing ones, I think it would be so helpful to hear your thoughts on how you knew to let the old thing go.
Yh that would be a great video, it would be nice if they do a video on it together
Yea ! All Things Adrienne and Hello Hunnay should do a collab 😍
I don't think they should do that. It wouldn't be fair cause their exes do not have a similar platform to tell their side. I'm sure you have at least one ex who moved on from you cause they felt you're not the one. How would you like it if they had a video on the net detailing to complete strangers why?🙁
@@omphilemoerane2569 but they don’t have to tell the details they can just share how they felt and the steps they took to end the relationship + move on.
@@sarahjay5484 but they have given details already. Jeannie even showed us the couch where she told Freddie she wanted a divorce and that she told him by basically blurting it out to him.
Adrienne has told us about Lenny and the key to his apartment that he didn't want to give her and how she basically had to push for every next step in their relationship. She even told us about the fact that her sister tipped her off that Lenny only planned her proposal on the day he actually proposed to her and that it made her feel very sad and like an afterthought because for everyone else in his life he puts in a lot of effort, time and thought when doing something for them.
That's A LOT of information. What more do you want to know?😯😯😯
I’m 29 and feel like I need a solo trip to find myself.. this was inspiring ❤️
Do it girl!
Me too
@@DyaniMR thank you girl, I think I will ❤️
I feel the same way honestly I’m 29 as well and 30 is knocking on my door.
Girl I took a solo trip to Italy 🇮🇹 in 2015 until this day I’m have been traveling solo it’s sooooooo good.
If this is not gods doing….. At this moment, I was second guessing my decision to move to Korea for a year on my own eat pray love journey, and I opened up TH-cam and saw this video! Thank you for posting this ❤️
Do it!! You got this sis.
Sounds fun! I can see my daughter doing something like this in the future. She is totally in love with Korean culture.
Marwa, my daughter is a sophomore in college right now and she wants to study abroad in Korea.
Please do it ! I am about to make the decision of going on my first alone trip and its scary but we can only grow from it ! Take care Marwa !
Have thee best time Marwa!!! I too was contemplating a solo trip and it absolutely terrifies me but it feels like the right thing to do. Keep listening to that still small voice inside of you🤍
This would make for a cute movie 🥺. The message behind your journey is beautiful. All about self love and self discovery! ♥️
You know what I sooooooooo agree. It would be a great idea actually
Totally agree
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I’m 29 years old and I got married when I was extremely young and we have 2 kids (still together) However, I definitely feel like I need a solo trip to understand and love myself more without being mommy or Wifey! With turning 30 soon this story was extremely inspiring ♥️ I appreciate these kinds of stories so much because young adults need to hear them, it’s a very gray area that is always missed between your late 20’ and early 30’s. I needed this Thanks Adrienne 🥰
I know what you mean I married young and feel like I missed out on my journey in getting to know myself alone. I always followed my husbands advice or did what he said. Now that I’m 31 I see life completely different. I went on my own solo trip to Mexico last month in September. I had anxiety at first because I missed my son. He is 7. But then later felt strange. I went from living with my parents to living with my husband. So that was the first time ever to just walk around with no one to get to or nothing to do. Just like Adrianne said. That she could just walk to wherever and no have a time or place to get to with no one to give her influence on choices. It’s strange but freeing. I only went for 5 days but I’m planning to do it again, I just don’t know when. It’s definitely needed. I lost myself along time ago…. And life just passed me by. Can’t let it pass me by no more and can’t put other people before me. I have to take care of me too.
Hence the reason why adults used to say take your time. But nooo, we grown, we know better 🙄. I don’t think young people should get married before 26yrs, the male brain only fully develop at 26yrs. What’s the rush? Maybe I may treat myself to a weekend get away in the near future
How old were you when you got married and had your first kid? I am 27 and i feel like i should’ve been married with my first baby now. 😔
I moved to UK two years ago for university. Being alone and independent, especially during Covid made me grow up and so much braver, and last summer I spent 3 weeks in Scotland. Went to all the major cities, took the bus everywhere and just explored to my hearts content. Doing a major trip like that at 22 was such a privilege and I felt so empowered. Every woman should travel alone at least once in her life, it’s AMAZING 😍😍. Paris is my next solo trip, here’s to me going next summer! ❤️
This just confirms how much I want to travel alone and find myself through new experiences !!
Traveled for 11 years by myself and I must say it was magic even when I felt lonely you learn a lot about yourself and your strengths 🤗🤗🤗
Wow that sounds amazing!!!! I wanna do that once!
“How I fell is love with myself in the City of Love” was beautifully said. ❤️
I am studying abroad next semester in Paris, you have no idea how much this video blessed and encouraged me. I am super excited for it now! Love you
I studied abroad in Paris in fall 2018! Truly a wonderful place to visit! Bonne chance!
@@cobaltblue26 yah because Europe is the best continent in the world and everyone wants to live amongst white people
@@mariaa3547 Hey I usually never leave a comment on TH-cam, however I'm interested to know why do you feel the need to mention skin color? Do you have an issue or a problem with black people or anyone who is not white?
Good luck girl make lots of memories 🌸
I did my first solo trip 3 years ago at 25 to Thailand. I tell everyone to do it ! I was extremely scared because this was the other part of the world lol but to this day, of all the places I’ve traveled to, this trip will always be my favorite. You learn SOOO much about yourself that u didn’t even know exist.
I went to Thailand alone just before covid in March 2020 and it was amazing
I went to Berlin a lot on my own and it’s such an amazing feeling being somewhere else on your own - especially if you’ve suffered from anxiety for a large part of your life. Couldn’t recommend travelling alone more! It’s such a freeing experience!
Loved that you shared this story! I also did the Paris school thing in my 30s and I kid you not, it was the best experience of my life. Living in a foreign country on your own and learning to navigate your new environment helps you grow so much and I definitely enjoyed the freedom even through the lonely times. Paris is a dream and the city keeps you company.
All of your ATA videos have helped me get through, heartbreak, career confusion, depression and have helped me through tough times over all. You inspire me everyday
I literally love every episode of All Things Adrienne, but this one is by far my FAVORITE!! THank you so much for this episode. It really spoke to me and has me thinking about a lot right now.
I have traveled alone to Berlin for 3 months and it was by far the most pivotal period for self growth in my life.
I have finally met me on that trip.. all of me, unfiltered.
As a reference for the sweetness of life and living in the sweet spot, as they say, I always think of those 3 months.
Magical🌟
I don’t know why I got a little teary eyed lol 🥺 It takes a lot of courage to sit with yourself and to figure out who you are and who you want to be. You did yourself and your ex fiancé a favor in making sure if felt seamless and organic to get married
Studying abroad at 25 was THE best experience of my life! I am so grateful to have done it and I hope that everyone can do it. Luckily I went when I went back to University. I thought it was too late but this is proof that it is not.
Maybe in the future you can have scholarships for people to study abroad as another way to give back with all the other things you do. The Bailon Study Aboard scholarship!
wow nice i just turned 20 and it feels like tht even tho ppl still think i am 16 lolz
Wow as a 30 year old studying abroad right now this video really resonates with me. Thank you for posting ❤️
I loveeed back to school stationary shopping, I still love all things stationary. 🤎🤎🤎🤎
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Me too!
Adrienne is so sweet, you can just tell from her storytelling and her experiences. I feel her. Many people say 2020 has been such a terrible year. I however, had a different experience…….I loved it. I completely relate to her story ❤️.
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Thank you @Thandi, hope you enjoy 🌸
Anyone else curious who took all her pictures?! Like a random stranger, friend or tripod 😂 you look so gorg in all adrienne!😍
This was my exact thought through all of this! Like how is she getting such model quality photos on her own?? Show us your ways haha! Beautiful! 😍
Ah found this comment...I was looking for it bc I wondering the same lol
Strangers are always gracious enough to take a photos of you in Europe and other parts of the world in-fact. The only time I didn’t feel comfortable to ask a stranger was in the US, I was in Northern California a few times because of work and l had the feeling I’d be bothering people if I asked them to take a photo of me :) Americans were always looking mad 😡 😂
@@swaziM10 Californians don’t seem too friendly, but if you’re ever in TN someone will gladly take your photo. Maybe even all angles and tell you to have a blessed life 🤣😭
I was asking myself the same question! Hmm from my experience, Parisians specially in rush hour don't usually stop much ... I am thinking since she took photography classes maybe she used a tripod, or maybe she asked some of her teammates and friends she made there ?
I just moved to NYC by myself and this is exactly what I needed. I haven't been alone in a looooooooooooooooooong while. Thank you for this! Perfect timing.
Hey, how's it going?
I’ve wanted to go to Barcelona ever since I saw Cheetah Girls 2 😭❤️! Im in college and I was literally JUST debating whether I should still go abroad 😭 (I had every intention before - then COVID hit 🙃) Paris, Barcelona, Santorini, and Tuscany are on my travel 🧳 list!
OMG!!! you definitely should! i studied abroad in Spain & it was amazing!!!!
Omg I have to watch that movie again. I love the first one too but the second one just hit me different. I love it.
My cousin studied abroad in Spain. It was a really wonderful experience for her and her Mom came to visit also. She stayed with host families one in Barcelona and another I don't remember where, lol. Do it, you are only young once! Also, YOLO if older. I like her message about going out there at any age.
Cheetah Girls 2 is the best one ! Omg Spain looks like heaven
Do it. You have 4 years make use of them
Italy for me. You actually brought me to tears thinking about my own life and the lost opportunities I let pass me by. This is why I encourage my kids to get out there and explore and get out of their bubble. Thank you, I'm glad I found this video.
Jewelry, makeup, outfit, hair as always on point!! 😍
I did a solo trip to Italy a couple of years ago.
It was during a really difficult time in my life, and I can say that trip changed me forever. It helped me fall in love with myself too.
I think I am more me now than I’ve ever been, and that solo trip had a a lot to do with it.
I wish I could do a whole study abroad trip there. Your story is awesome!
I loved this story! I would go to France, Italy, or even a Caribbean location.
Same
People in america love talking shit about whites but don’t mind living in Europe or travelling here
i have been to europe but with family i would love to go to america tho like LA and NYC is a dreammmm
@@mariaa3547 lol who said europe is filled with white ppl only?? i have been to paris and lots of africans from francophonne countres were there literally saw more black ppl then white lol
@@mariaa3547 lol that feels so uncalled for
I would cry on the streets - “you don’t know me” LOL. Love this energy and needed this videos
I haven’t started the episode yet but I’ve been waiting for years to hear more about this trip! So excited to hear all about it
I find peace being by myself and it's refreshing to do things by yourself because you get to know yourself 100% 😇😊
I love hearing this because I just turned thirty two and thinking of traveling again. Gives me hope and making dreams come true.
Omg this explains your style so much !! Finding happiness and peace in your solitude is so powerful and it’s never too late ✨such an inspiration
I love this video. I’ve never been by myself. I got married early and three years later started having children. Now, I just love the days when the kids are at school and my husband is at work. You don’t realize how much you need time to yourself until you get to spend time alone.
I have just randomly stumbled acrosss on this video and have been following her journey for such a long time now. Traveling abroad and studying in Europe has been one of my biggest and greatest desires for such a long time now. Watching this video was so sweet and inspirational. I am so thankful that I watched this & I am so grateful for the authenticity that Adrienne carries herself with no matter where she is or what she does.
Thank You Adrian❤️ Today would’ve been my Mom‘s 95th Birthday she passed away when she was 78 from Alzheimer’s. I just had to tell you that because I think watching your video today was a gift from her to me. I enjoyed your Paris experience so much. Im very grateful to be able to see everything you went through as you soul searched and fell in love with your unique self. And to go after what you really wanted in life. My children are grown now and i’m beginning to search myself to find my deepest desire and to basically go for it. I’m getting closer and closer every day. Even the part about the age difference with yourself and the other students touched me because sometimes I feel like I should’ve done more at a younger age.i know it’s never too late💃🏿 Your experience just lifted me like wings😍 Thank you for being so REAL and for sharing your experience.I’m a Scorpio too and I really feel where you’re coming from. Happy Birthday Young Scorpio✨🎈🥰
God Bless You & Your Family
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Yesssss! Freedom is amazing 🤩!!!!!! We all need that freedom and to be ok being alone with ourselves and being our own best friends!
I LOVE THIS - it really is hard in your 30s because it seems time for change is dwindling. My Fiancé and I have just decided to put a pause on building a house to have a great adventure. We are in our early 30s and thought lets just do it. Moving to Dubai from Dublin next year. Everything will work out in the long run! Just taking a new route.
Honestly every since I saw cheetah girls 2, I have always wanted to go to Spain. Loved this. Definitely gave me comfort knowing that me questioning everything isn’t wrong. People tell you how life should be and you see others doing the things that are expected, it’s nice to know that it’s okay to question and choose differently if it’s what’s best for you!
WoW, Adrienne went all in! I didn't think she took 4 classes. I thought she was just taking 1, LOL!
I’m here crying 🥺 I’ve been in such a funk for over a week. Watching your video helped. It’s crazy because my sisters have recently been telling me I need time for myself but, I don’t know how. I depend on my loved ones for happiness and don’t even realize it. I do now but, it’s so hard to figure it out on my own. I have a son and this morning he was having a rough time getting up to go to school. As I’m helping him get ready I just wanted to cry because I had to find the words to get me up and going. To motivate him. ♥️Why’s it so hard to do it for myself 🥺 Thanks Adrienne 🙏🏼
I've been waiting for you to drop this video/story for the past 4 years since you did the interview with Elle! Great to hear what you learnt and why you took the trip💛
Omg, girl I am American and live in France and the way you are describing it is perfect. One of my favorite activities is walking the streets with nowhere to go. IT is relaxing, peaceful and can get emotional because the streets and everyone in it are so beautiful
I'm one year away from finishing high school and I really want to travel alone and study by myself.So thank you my cheetah sister for telling this story 🐆❤️much love from SA 🇿🇦❤️
Studying abroad in Paris was also the best thing I’ve ever done. I loved it there. I got to go back again a few times, I still love it.
Literally my dream to study in Paris …this is so helpful especially I’m not in college it’s time to save up and make that happen …..Adrienne girl you are chefs kiss 😂😂😂😂
English teacher "Mother tongue" Can always find work in Europe!!
Love that comment “chefs kiss”!
I think it’s amazing of how your life story played out once you decided to put yourself first and making sure it was in tune to what God wants for you. I’m a little jelly bc I’m 41 and haven’t felt real love in years but I have God… Keep uplifting on your channel and The Real!! ❤️❤️❤️ All you guys. 😘🙌🏽
I've never traveled alone but this year was the first time I've ever heard of that. Now I keep hearing about it and it makes me want to travel somewhere before I turn 30 early next year. I want to discover myself. Listening to you talk is giving me all these emotions. I love your videos so much.
Loved what you did! Made me emotional a bit because a lot of us go so long without getting to know the true us, but once we take the time to be alone and like you, go to restaurants alone or even movies, journal etc. you realize just how great you are. It’s been a while since I’ve gone out on a date with myself, not counting the trips to run errands for the kids, and without the Hubby etc., and you’ve inspired me to make a reservation at a nice restaurant and do so.
I’m so happy for you and the life you created for yourself post-Paris. You chose you! ♥️
Ive been waiting on this story since you announced everything on the real back in 2016 , Thank you so much for being transparent, and helping give us words of wisdom as we guide through these ghetto late 20's .
Lol @ghetto late 20s 🤣
I LOVED THIS STORY! So glad that you decided to share this with us. It’s nice to get to know more little pieces of you Adrianne. I’m glad you had an amazing time, it definitely seemed like it helped shaped who you are today 🙏🏾❤️
Loved the video. I’m currently 26 and have the opportunity to do a study abroad program in the UK this summer for a month. I’ve really been on the fence about going because of the cost as well as being there alone, but this video help put things into perspective. Thank you ❤️
Go I’m 26 now and this is my dream go love
Do it! Im 30 and wish i had the opportunity.
I’m from the Uk. The education system is amazing. Come over!
Thank you so much for sharing A. I'm 27 and I'm at a point in my life where I need to rediscover myself. I've made some really bad decisions in life and this is the inspiration I needed. Your paris story as touched me personally on another level. Bless you always
From this video I learned the importance of financial independence. What I appreciate from the video is the honesty.
I absolutely love this. Paris was my first study abroad experience circa 2019, and I definitely came back Gabby 2.0 and am still on the self-discovery journey!! Love this so much...
I love this so much, I’m 21 and still trying to build/find myself. This really resonated with me because I know that I want to travel in the near future, and a lot of people really do say how nice it is and the experience you get is great, it’s good to experience a world outside of your own too and explore the culture, love ya! 🤍
Doing things alone really helps you find yourself and find your own interests. I love how you mentioned watching movies by yourself cause I wanna start doing it! I’m going to look into traveling abroad 🤩 ily
Awesome video. Travelled to Europe during high school. However in my twenties, after college, I lived in my own apartment for 5 years, which is how I learned to love 💕 myself. My family was near but living by yourself can be enlightening. I remember coming home after work and not watching TV just sitting in silence. I felt like I grew up. I got married at 30 and had children.
This episode was so beautiful 🥺♥
I have had the eat pray book on my desk for almost two years…unread. the movie inspired me to travel solo for the first time and have self discovery . And now I’m thinking of doing a few days in Paris and Venice on my own. I feel bored in my current city and life and want to come out of my comfort zone and do something for me!
was always looking forward to when you would share this story! such a beautiful journey
I love this! I travelled alone throughout my late teens to early 20s. My first international trip alone was when I was 22 - I travelled to the country side of France. I remember leaving my sister in Paris after had travelled together to go on this trip. I bawled my eyes out on the train, but it was the most incredible experience I've ever gone through and I am so glad my heart led me to there.
I love this video! It's so refreshing to see you talk about doing something like this a bit later in life. I've lived in New Zealand and in different countries in Asia, as well as the U.S. but I've always had a fantasy to live abroad in Europe for a bit. Every time I visit Europe I don't want to leave.
There is something valuable that comes from traveling by yourself. I did it twice, Paris, being the first place I went on my own. I spent only 6 days there and fantasized relocating there, but there was no way my entire family would follow along. There is something indescribably beautiful in the air and a sudden confidence that seems to overcome oneself traveling alone...everything is just so much more wholesome and sweeter. This memory of yours evoked that amazing feeling and memory I had when I experienced Paris. Thank you Adrienne for that trip back. xoxo
This is making me feel so much better. I'm about to go to college at 24 and know everyone is going to be so much younger than me but I could also never afford the experience and really feel like I need it. xx
I really, really, really love that you did not put a limit on yourself in studying abroad. I studied abroad in 2015 with my bestie. I was 21 and we went together in the summer. Actually, I studied abroad in Spain after watching you in The Cheetah Girls 2 , and decided that that’s where I wanted to study Spanish and it was the BEST decision I ever made. I got my minor after completing my study abroad program and if it wasn’t for watching you in the Cheetah Girls movie I wouldn’t have had the courage to take the step to fly across and just go for it.
Adrienne this is so inspiring!! I had to quit collage to support my family economically and even that now I have a well pay job without having my title I felt sad for missing that "university season". Hope to have the opportunity again and do this the best experience ever with only me and God ❤️
I'm 30, will be studying and working in the States soon, I feel like I needed to watch this, crying in the streets and not caring who sees is so me.
I love that you made this Adrienne. Everything stated is 💯. I took a solo trip to Thailand in 2017 as my ‘Eat Pray Love’ moment & agree, every woman should take at least 1 solo trip to find yourself. 💖
I can totally relate. I went to Ghana alone to visit a long time pen pal for my 34th birthday two years ago and it was the most enlightening experience of my life in the best way possible.
So inspiring, really letting go of the timeline attached to life. Its really inspiring to see your journey of indepence before getting with your husband.
I am 35, and I feel like I am stuck, overwhelmed, and I feel like I still have my mother in my head telling me what not to do, and I feel scared of trying out new things/career. I have woken up in the mornings dreading what I do for a living. I recently saw the movie "Eat, Pray, Love" and I finally understood the protagonist. I have told my family I would love to take a year off to Europe living two months in Italy, two in Greene, two in France, two in Norway, and so on. I have worked so hard taking care of everyone else in my family, I feel it is time I take care of myself. ❤
I've never traveled alone. I'd really love to go to Amsterdam
It is very affordable really!
You are so relatable on so many levels Adrienne! This experience revealed to me why I love doing solo trips. I'm also in my early 30s and a scorpio (like u!), and everything you explained resonated with me. From walking the streets for hours, listening to your own music and just basically beinf yourself and loving yourself. I just truly hope to have a full circle moment one day, like you did 🙏🏽 this was beautiful, thanks for sharing ❤
This is incredible! I am also a proponent for a traveling alone I definitely want to have the courage to go out of the country but I have gone on two trips by myself and I’m going to continue that tradition!
Where did you go
@@tiffanyc8307 I went to Granby, CO and Keystone, CO
One of my greatest experiences was studying abroad in Switzerland. So many things you said resonated with me deeply. Thank you for sharing!
Thankyou so much for the video Adrienne, I’m moving to Paris next year to study fashion, this video made me even more excited ❤️
I recently started living alone and I'm starting to be comfortable around my own space and growing as an individual and its really therapeutic. ❤❤
Your story is amazing, LOVED this story time. I’m 39, and it spoke to my heart and soul!😘🙏
Love how authentic, warm and smart A. is and the best story teller for sure! Bless you 💖
I love this video! Thank you for sharing and inspiring us to find our happiness. Thank you for showing us the courage we all can find within ourselves.
This is great. I think people don't do it enough. I didn't do it abroad, but i've moved to a city i've never even visited... twice. It was amazing. To build a life gettin scratch in a completely new place, exploring, working..... it's amazing! So glad i did it.
This video was so inspirational! Now I’m trying to figure out how I can do something like this after having 5 kids and a husband! 😩🤣
Same!!
People always tell me studying abroad is a must, and I want to do this so bag in college, time is ticking and hopefully I find the opportunity. Financial hardships are always the problem but videos like this keep me hopeful. Thank you for this beautiful story and thank you for sharing, god bless🤍
During my second year in college I traveled to Europe for 2 weeks & it was amazing💕for my next trip I hope to go to NYC❤️
I relate to this so much. I had the opportunity to move to London for law school when I was 35. So the story you shared in feeling old and “what am I doing here” really hit home. It was the adventure of a lifetime and I still sometimes wonder if it was all a dream
Studying fashion must have been so much fun! 😍
I felt this episode. Im so grateful to God that you were able to do this and found yourself and the person you are because of it. I had a similar experience on my study abroad program, I went to Valenica, Spain for an academic year by myself and the person I was going there was not the same person when I left. It took me on a journey or rediscovering myself, my likes, dislikes, my weaknesses, strengths and really just who God had called me to be and not be. It was very hard at times but I wouldnt be where I am now without it. ♥♥
My sister moved away and lived in an apartment for college and I wish I would’ve done the same! At least you got to experience somewhat what it felt like.
None of the things you said that were "weird" were that. It was all a beautiful story to tell, thank you for sharing your journey of self-discovery in a rough time of your life. Definately took me back to all the times my mom told me to: listen to myself and do things for myself. Nobody is better than yourself to tell you what you truly need. Spending time on our own is crucial to develop character and get to know ourselves better❤😊
We love you Adrienne ! (And you are right Paris isnt overrated 😅)
Bisous de Paris 😘🇫🇷
I’m 31 and I’m moving to Indonesia for a year. I’ve also been going through a tricky time. Feeling lost, not knowing what to do with my life and just feeling stuck. I’m excited to be my myself and go through this journey
This was so inspiring. I’ve always wanted a eat, pray love phase in my life. I’m glad you found yourself. Thank you for sharing💖
My favorite video from all things Adrienne! This inspires me to find myself and be reborn I guess. Thanks for sharing!
13:09 THIS right here; there's literally a German philosopher called Friedrich Nietzsche (butchered his last name, sorry 😂) that wrote extensively on this! The need for solitude to learn and reconnect with one's true self. He argued that learning to be comfortable in solitude, and ultimately enjoying it allows someone to truly enjoy life as they overcome the fear of being alone, really powerful vid Adrienne 😊
I know that man!
I have travelled all my life since I am 17 and now I am 51- Visited the 5 continents, lived and worked in several countries from Australia, Thaliand, Middle East, Mexico, Panama, USA, Canada, etc...... my best year in my entire life was in Portland Maine in 1996. Sydney 2000 and Brooklyn NYC in 2013. My heart belongs to the Estates and I will not give up with my dream to come back soon. Thank you Adrienne for sharing your experience! Much appreciated