She's Not Feeling it! | Typical Day In My Life | MOM VLOG

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  • Today I decided to just pick up the camera and vlog my day! You guys know the routine, work and motherhood. I struggled with my hair and Ziya started the day out grumpy, but it all worked out in the end. See the photos from our photoshoot and find the outfits here: bit.ly/3alIVfY
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ความคิดเห็น • 896

  • @dlea33
    @dlea33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1712

    I’m absolutely loving the emotional patience, the actual conversation, and the maintaining of discipline! Conscious parenting. Letting her feel her feelings, letting her express herself, talking about it, but still maintaining the punishment!

    • @tashrenee
      @tashrenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      That was my favorite part of the vlog.

    • @AmoreNlove
      @AmoreNlove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this

    • @CO-jz3dh
      @CO-jz3dh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      My favorite part as well. From one mom to another....Raven YOUR AWESOME!!

    • @ClarinetsForever223
      @ClarinetsForever223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My thoughts exactly! This is a great example for other young moms...patience & communication is everything in parenting ✨

    • @tashrenee
      @tashrenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@ClarinetsForever223 this has definitely been my take as a young mom. I don’t want my daughter to think she’s not allowed to express her feelings. I’m 29 and she’s 2,and she come and tell me when she’s sad or mad. And I’m a firm believer in apologizing to her if I get frustrated and raise my tone with her. All of these things help them in the long run.

  • @chelseaacevedo8265
    @chelseaacevedo8265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    “She does not like being corrected” Aries energy 😂😂 I loved when you said the day is not over yet!

    • @renikaofficial
      @renikaofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      literally my niece...she's Aries too, acting absolutely the same loool big Aries energy

    • @merwiza
      @merwiza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'm a proud aries... we r just misunderstood but we really don't mean any harm. But we r Rams and worriors at heart...but we r soft inside...we just need people to be patient...but u can't ask us to be patient...u wanna let us cool off om our own...we shoot 1st and target later..😁😁😁very impulsive....stubborn to death but loyal and loving to death..
      GOD HELP US...💆‍♀️💆‍♀️💆‍♀️💆‍♀️

    • @royaleemilyplays9913
      @royaleemilyplays9913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone does not like begin corrected na

    • @khadijahwashington6880
      @khadijahwashington6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m a Aries and I approve this message 😂😂

    • @TaylorBurl
      @TaylorBurl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ayyyyyeeee ARIES BABY

  • @joeybonavita2739
    @joeybonavita2739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how in the end you gave her the chance to cry, explain why she felt the way she felt, explain to you why she was in trouble and allowed her to fix her actions and put things right. And because she was a good girl at the end of the night you let her have her tablet back, move her name back to the nice list and gave her fruit snacks. Basically showing empathy for her while she was mad but also ignoring the bad behavior and when she was good giving her praise

  • @kimberleyberkhof5274
    @kimberleyberkhof5274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Don’t even have any kids but mom vlogs are my fav 😂😂 anyone else?

  • @imanlelani
    @imanlelani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I really appreciate your respectfulness of everyone Raven ❤️ how you talk to Ziya and consider her feelings while also still being firm with consequences. Also, I love how you are respectful of Maya’s time. A lot of people would’ve said “well she’s my sister so she can just wait” or “I’m paying her so she’s on my time”.

    • @ritas4401
      @ritas4401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I totally agree! I peeped that and thought it was really thoughtful.

  • @Tori.S.
    @Tori.S. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +710

    Ziya looks like a whole 8 year old in the thumbnail 😩😩

  • @w_rav
    @w_rav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Raven I really love how you ALWAYS validate Ziya’s feelings & you tell her it’s ok to be sad, mad, etc. This is so important & I wish I heard this when I was a kid. You’re truly a great mama.

  • @tvbra1nr0t
    @tvbra1nr0t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way Raven was explaining things to Ziya calmly when she was crying and using such reassuring words I loved that ❤️

  • @TarynAsia
    @TarynAsia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    So proud of you for continuing your fitness journey! I know it was on your to-do list, so to see you get to it is super inspiring and exciting!

  • @ItsMona4Me
    @ItsMona4Me 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    When Ziya rolled into the frame when Raven was talking about the sugar...😂😂😂

  • @JessETV
    @JessETV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It’s Raven and Ziya’s relationship for me 😭😍😍😍

  • @keyb131
    @keyb131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    “It’s okay to be sad & angry
    , we just need to learn how to fix it”
    I wish I was told this when I was younger! You’re a great mom!
    Edit: #TeamAries 🤟🏾 lol

  • @coreygrumelot8017
    @coreygrumelot8017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    i luv u so much and ziya is the cutest girl ever seen. she takes after u

  • @angelbaby8877
    @angelbaby8877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a great parent, really and truly ❤️ Could you put out more content on you being one on one with your daughter and your lectures and helping and guiding her ?

  • @bowingtotheancestors2366
    @bowingtotheancestors2366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You better take our Niece off that Naughty List! 😩😂💖

  • @prettyinpink9893
    @prettyinpink9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Glad you have started to take your fitness journey seriously!! You’re going to feel so much better.

  • @justmegan5429
    @justmegan5429 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are setting a great example for your daughter on so many levels. Ziya is surrounded by some strong women to look up to and support her. ✨

  • @xoLia555
    @xoLia555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saving this video for when i become a mother because the way you handled Ziya was excellent so loving yet stern and fair ❤️

  • @justdanimoniquexo
    @justdanimoniquexo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We’ve graduated from Barbie snacks to regular fruit snacks. I’m not crying, you are! 🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @txgirl0512
    @txgirl0512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ziya looks like she’s 9 in the thumbnail, she’s growing so fast!

    • @Alisia_TV
      @Alisia_TV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She really is growing so fast I remember when she was just a little tiny nugget 😂😍❤️

    • @sarawalusimbi133
      @sarawalusimbi133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve been watching them since she was 2 but she seems so grown up for age 4! Like if I didn’t know how old she was I would say age 5 or 6

  • @jayshanayy2358
    @jayshanayy2358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your parenting skills are amazing!!! Being proactive and correcting the situation instead of just being reactive (which I’m sure we’ve all done before ☺️) that’s not an easy thing to do! 🙌🏽💕 I commend your communication skills.

  • @ravenpeavy9900
    @ravenpeavy9900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    MOM goals! Such good content and a reminder that it’s much better to just talk through how your kids are feeling and give them the opportunity to understand that their feelings are valid. Trying to do the same with my baby girl.

  • @victoriap6463
    @victoriap6463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Taking notes on how you speak to Ziya. My son is currently 1 and I’m unlearning a lot of things being a mom now. Appreciate seeing this type of parenting ❤️.

  • @madisonscott451
    @madisonscott451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    she is such a good mom. i know so many people who just yell at there kids for being upset like that. she is so patient and calm. and of course raven is allowed to have her moments but right in that time, she was perfect.

  • @camilleloveschris
    @camilleloveschris 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know this is an old video..and I never really comment on your videos, but I definitely needed to do so today. Your videos bring me so much joy! You are an incredible Mom, and to see your strength and patience and love towards her despite the challenges of doing this on your own while still having a full-time job is inspirational. Honestly, you are phenomenal and you're doing an amazing job! Just wanted to send you positive vibes - I'm a long time subscriber, even though I'm usually silent lol

  • @nashelerawls564
    @nashelerawls564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG Ziya is growing up so fast and Raven is looking good in her blonde hair!!!

  • @alexisbermudez242
    @alexisbermudez242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’ve been an inspiration to me for the many years I’ve been watching you. I can’t wait to be a successful mom like you and I’m happy to say I found out I’m pregnant. I can’t wait to go on this journey and be able to learn from you.

  • @PAHGirly
    @PAHGirly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am totally here for the glimpse into ravens parenting style! Love it! “It is ok to feel how you feel” 🙌🏽

  • @princess_tamia_25
    @princess_tamia_25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way Raven was talking to Ziya was everything! I wish my mom did that when I was younger. 🥺❤️

  • @dleisha1
    @dleisha1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwww I almost cried watching Raven have a reflection moment with Ziya. Come on momma with the patience.

  • @shameakahvantassel6515
    @shameakahvantassel6515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seeing ziya cry broke my heart 😩raven you’re such a good momma I love how you communicate ❤️

  • @user-em5mz3om1x
    @user-em5mz3om1x 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ray you need to add your new Blog URL in your info list also. And nice job with raising Ziya. "Single parent doing Sensational" And I know your family is also the village and it's great to see this bond. You GO GIRL!!!!

  • @lisaray101
    @lisaray101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your bond with your daughter is so beautiful
    ✨💐✨

  • @nikoun6020
    @nikoun6020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The spontaneous videos are always so much better

  • @preddieahmayzinq418
    @preddieahmayzinq418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are literally the best mom ever OMG 🥲 I love to see health black mom & daughter relationships 💖

  • @tashrenee
    @tashrenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The pep talk with Ziya. And Raven tone with her.
    Raven is such a good mom!!

  • @jaerella
    @jaerella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You were such a good mom. The way you were talking to her about the good or naughty list. ❤️❤️❤️ so patient, comforting and real

  • @kush225
    @kush225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, the PARENTING skills in this video are immaculate. Pleasantly surprised by that.

  • @superawesomeangel7531
    @superawesomeangel7531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that Ziya is her own person. It’s just age appropriate. You and Ziyas outfits are cute!!! When my mom was working out from home she would used jars of peanut butter or canned goods

  • @chenellebrown9839
    @chenellebrown9839 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved seeing you with Ziya and helping her with her emotions

  • @jzinaejackson7067
    @jzinaejackson7067 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Raven you are such a good mother!

  • @DajahArceo
    @DajahArceo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get busy sometimes, so I'm sometimes late to watch a video or I pick up at the most recent video uploaded. But can I sayyyy... I LOVE how you reference previous videos when you're talking. In case I missed something I can go back & watch the old videos too lol!

  • @kayahcuthbertson4853
    @kayahcuthbertson4853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never knowing how much time has passed when your focused on making it perfect is a Virgo thing I do it all the time

  • @addisonedwards5139
    @addisonedwards5139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a good MOM

  • @abhaysinhkheradia5145
    @abhaysinhkheradia5145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The best mom daughter relationship between you and ziya🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @anchinalusiefu5844
    @anchinalusiefu5844 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy Thanksgiving Ziya and Raven

  • @ingridchung4911
    @ingridchung4911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a good influencer for single moms and so independent and this just shows girls can do anything yes keep doing you boo....❤️❤️❤️

  • @aesthetic_alex4387
    @aesthetic_alex4387 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way bougie was lying on the table while they where on the spiral stairs lollll

  • @amycrumedy6586
    @amycrumedy6586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Raven and Ziya , you both get more beautiful and prettier every day .

  • @iamtavia6637
    @iamtavia6637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PLEASE go back to posting twice a week. I LOVE your vlogs. Give us a weekly vlog on Thursdays!

  • @ayannahhicks3337
    @ayannahhicks3337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Raven is me when it comes to fitness. I have zero desire to work at all but I really want to, I'm 125lbs (5'9")

  • @Princess_kamora
    @Princess_kamora ปีที่แล้ว

    0:01 “I know my form is probably horrible, don’t judge me I’m new” 😂😂

  • @Jaimeeslife
    @Jaimeeslife 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmaoooooo the zoom in of Ziya rolling around and hitting the wall has me weeeeak! 😩😩😂😂😂 I love the zoom ins. 💀💀💀

  • @kayajackson50
    @kayajackson50 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mom vlogs are my favorite!!

  • @towannamclaurin3072
    @towannamclaurin3072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW!!!!I'm always amazed at you too . Beautiful Mother and Daughter 👑👑🤗🤗.

  • @jeresspace6551
    @jeresspace6551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl...the struggle..my son is Ziya's age and my daughter is 2...I love the mom blogs. Such an inspiration😊

  • @NobodyButGod_Podcast
    @NobodyButGod_Podcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these non traditional RavenElyse videos. Some youtubers always try to make it seem as if their lives are always together.

  • @radsworld613
    @radsworld613 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember seeing those pictures thinking damn they look so cute, but I love that she showed us how hard it was to get those pictures ! This is the raven I rock with

  • @goldengirl617
    @goldengirl617 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was just looking at one of your videos of when you made ziya a frappuccino costume she was just a baby now shes a big girl time flies..😫

  • @MomsMoneyMindset
    @MomsMoneyMindset 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    FINALLY! A mom vlogger who shows how challenging it can be to do some of the basic things with the kiddos... still worked out in the end. Nice chart here we come! LOL

  • @illreel5169
    @illreel5169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Possibly the best parenting style on the planet, hands down!!! #GreatVidRaven&Ziya... #🎄🎁🎄

  • @BeyonKasual
    @BeyonKasual 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG!! Ziya's face at 15:06 is a WHOLE mood! 😭😅😅😂

  • @aliyahdeane
    @aliyahdeane 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guuuurl you’re hair is * chef kiss *

  • @DanielleLaShawn
    @DanielleLaShawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm here for the mom vlog!!

  • @tario45
    @tario45 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 5’11 too and lost a lot of weight after I had my daughter. I felt too skinny. I started working out in my 30’s and gained 10lbs like I wanted to. Only took 6 months. Highly recommend high intensity work outs and eating more. I don’t life heavy but it’s so important to strengthen muscles to handle our own body weight.

  • @autrishadavis1969
    @autrishadavis1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved your parenting techniques in this video

  • @dyshaescott9660
    @dyshaescott9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zaya has such great communication skills ❤️

  • @sierrahellen1094
    @sierrahellen1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m absolutely in love with Y’all’s.and I can absolutely say that y’all are Absolute my favorite TH-cam channel

  • @enibabyslife
    @enibabyslife 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ziya following raven around the house gives me very much mommy and me vibes. i can't wait to have a daugher

  • @naishagates8823
    @naishagates8823 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww Ziya don’t cry !!! I have some grumpy days sometimes

  • @tiarapayton7088
    @tiarapayton7088 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ziya is too adorable and you do a great job with parenting her 😊❤️

  • @deleongrant
    @deleongrant 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an amazing Mama Raven!! 🙏🏽💜✨

  • @candicesmith8208
    @candicesmith8208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Raven you’re awesome with Ziya!

  • @ShanTasiaAlexis
    @ShanTasiaAlexis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ziya is a mood! 🤣

  • @LifewithPB
    @LifewithPB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ziya is literally me. So when you said Aries energy i was like BOOM, ME TOO! LOL

  • @liaprexx6028
    @liaprexx6028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes

  • @keimoneykiara
    @keimoneykiara 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this vlog!!!! This was so realistic and just shows that everything isn't perfect

  • @angelicasaine5117
    @angelicasaine5117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i kinda like the way u cutn your hair

  • @malyiahjohnson7670
    @malyiahjohnson7670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Normally I exercise every wednesday finish off Thursday

  • @dosesofjas1000
    @dosesofjas1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay! I've been patiently waiting for you to get into fitness lol! I've been in and out of being fit and I'm sure you'll be a motivating factor for me!

  • @ishacastillo8384
    @ishacastillo8384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Raven! Missed you guys!! Glad you uploaded!!

  • @LakeishaSantasha
    @LakeishaSantasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your parenting style

  • @jaynie4406
    @jaynie4406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ziya is the cuuutest! 🥺

  • @sski5155
    @sski5155 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair blonde looks the best!!!

  • @Trigvein
    @Trigvein 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly, I also get that excited over fruit snacks.

  • @JessicaBeee
    @JessicaBeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    *The Ziya closeup shade had me WEEEEEAK 😂😂😂 It's so cute to see randomness. My 6 year old does the same thing.*

  • @maddisondonovan3179
    @maddisondonovan3179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your video so much

  • @Mmakwena_
    @Mmakwena_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're an awesome mom!

  • @TharolloMakgareetse
    @TharolloMakgareetse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this raven elyse and ziya channel

  • @tjiarrikapayne2251
    @tjiarrikapayne2251 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are literally an inspiration to me I love your channel 💕

  • @heidy_dariana
    @heidy_dariana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re such a good mom😭

  • @khyacharee
    @khyacharee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are sooo cuuuttteee!!! omg wow. Very inspiring

  • @washingtongroup1625
    @washingtongroup1625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love you Raven Elyse and Ziya

  • @meadowsmichelle
    @meadowsmichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your shirt says it all

  • @brittb8250
    @brittb8250 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You motivate me to be a better mom thank you!

  • @savage.allure
    @savage.allure 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The look on Ziya face when you woke her up and said "you should be well rested and ready to pose." Thats that " you gotta be sh.... me face"... 😂😂😂

  • @Antoinetteelean
    @Antoinetteelean 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just started my fitness journey last month after a year and a half of having my baby. wish you luck!

  • @cealisejackson5175
    @cealisejackson5175 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite part of this vlog is this mommy daughter moment like wow. What a beautiful way that you handled that & your pep talk made me feel better. Shit Lol
    Love the shirts as well 💛

  • @faith_morgan4326
    @faith_morgan4326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We have not seen ziya in a long time !!

  • @ashleypottinger4817
    @ashleypottinger4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Raven you are definitely a Super Mom!! 😁 Love the vlogs as always!!