I once told my wife when we were still dating that if she ever so much as mentions the possibility of an open relationship / open marriage, we will be over. Just suggesting it will break my trust in her, and that’s game over.
OG is a real one and he made her into an incredible woman with true character. l can only hope to be in the same vein as this man(his father). thats how you do it gentleman.
Kids have to make their own mistakes regardless of their parents. That's just how life is. We just have to hope we did a decent job and that there mistakes aren't too big.
I knew she was cheating when she brought up the open marriage, then she started projecting. I'm glad you handled it properly. Even virgins will answer when the streets call
No one is saying women can't work outside the home. Many men would rather marry traditional women because they offer something suitable in return for the risks involved in being married. And yes, if a woman wants to be something great then she should, but being a wife and mother is something great in and of itself. OP's wife probably got exposed in part to the idea of an open marriage through her co-workers. Instead of focusing on the work itself, she was socializing with people who did not respect marriage. That is something you need to be careful about if your spouse is spending a lot of time with others, like in a workplace. It's no excuse, but it is very common. Open marriage means that someone wants their spouse to keep providing the obligations of a marriage without any of the benefits. When it gets to that point, they are just using you. It's not a marriage. It's just an alternative living arrangement. Best to cut ties and move on.
Due to the fact that he took women too seriously, this happened all his life on the sly. After the first woman, he should have met several more in order to understand where their red flags were buried. That’s why it happened that he met these shy virgins and got caught up in this whole story. Nowadays, virginity is an indicator that a person has many questions, including psychological ones. As the ending of the story showed, his wife never loved him. He was comfortable and that's it. The way she jumped on the train in the direction of “open marriage” only showed her attitude towards him as a husband and a man in general. Another 304 and as it turns out, virginity and religiosity will not protect you from defeat. If you’ve already decided to jump into marriage, then: A prenuptial agreement, open shared devices (phones, computers, etc.), no unknown “friends” and “colleagues” that appear out of nowhere, and also watch for red flags (which are already replete with the Internet and even the laziest already knows).
I would have pretended reconciliation. Make her end the affair, quit her job and make her find another job. Force her to do all sorts of requests. Then divorce her.
My dad never told me he was proud of me. I've only found out in the last few years that I'm not alone in that. Not by a long shot. And maybe that was why he was able to recover his self-respect at his age. Took me until my late 30s.
Odds are her affair partner is the one that told her to watch the show and use it as a way to bring up the topic of open marriages and hopefully get permission for the cheating, that is already going on. I wrote the first part of my comment without listening to much of the video, but it seems I was correct. You can tell by his occupation that she was already seeing him and either already having sex with him, or had it all lined up and ready to go.
She cheated on him before she even asked him about it so now guys know already when they ask its already been done. He proved and provided the info like most other guys have. All the other talking points is to cover up the cheating she already has done
As soon as a woman mentions an open marriage, you know she has already cheated or has someone in mind or is emotionally involved with someone, she is not satisfied with her marriage so get the proof and file for divorce. When you open the marriage it ceases to exist, it is violated. This idea never ends well.
Open marriage... as soon as she brings it up, it's time to terminate the marriage with extreme prejudice. She doesn't love you anymore. You are just an atm
I like how Chelsea tried to one-up him. "I slept with him before I asked you." Oops, you just confessed to lying and premeditated breaking of vows. OP then realized what was really going on and served her the divorce she deserved. Suddenly she wasn't so high and mighty anymore, wanting to reconcile. Just another 304 proving if she brings up open relationships, she's at least got someone in mind if not already doing him - either way, vows are broken; cut your losses and run!
2 min in, wow your mum not tolerating the so called friend, saying no to what would be girls night and then calmly saying goodbye after the ultimatum, wow. Spending times and doing things with kids is infinitely better for them and the parents than just letting them spend all free time gaming. Gaming isn't bad it just needs to be managed.
I'm happily unattached at present, but if a girlfriend or wife broached the topic of open relationships, I'm going to assume one of 3 things. 1) She's already done something. 2) She's planning to do something. 3) She's already done something and if you agree to do it, she'll be guilt-free.
20:34 Smack, smack, smack! 21:39 Smack! Why does keep caving in to her demands? Gents, stand your ground. Always be intolerant of the rubbish this guy allowed. He knew it was wrong from the beginning. When she first mentioned it, he should have initiated divorce proceedings. When she brings up an open marriage, that's when you end the marriage.
If she watches “Open Marriage” you watch “Divorce Court”.
Exactly...
This!!!
Watch True Story
I once told my wife when we were still dating that if she ever so much as mentions the possibility of an open relationship / open marriage, we will be over. Just suggesting it will break my trust in her, and that’s game over.
The friends name was Lilith thats all I need to know 😂😂
Damn True ! I had to stop and take in what OP's mum said. I love you, but do not speak ill of my husband in his own home leave!!! Wowee wow wow!!!!
OG is a real one and he made her into an incredible woman with true character. l can only hope to be in the same vein as this man(his father). thats how you do it gentleman.
Op's mom is gem of wife.
It sounded like she only wanted a 1 sided open relationship and got pissed that op found someone who's prettier than the ex 😂
Kids have to make their own mistakes regardless of their parents. That's just how life is. We just have to hope we did a decent job and that there mistakes aren't too big.
He obviously didn't learn anything from his father what a damn shame this weakness is just sad. Actions always speak louder than words always PERIOD.
Our man here had a traditional, patriarchic childhood and family and everyone knew their place. They were happy and respected in the community.
Open marriages NEVER end well. 99% of the time the partner asking to open the marriage is already cheating or definitely has someone lined up.
* woman - not “partner” its women overwhelmingly asking for this not men & women. and its not “partner” its wife husband spouse.
@@associatealpha1166it’s happening in normal relationships and marriages
I knew she was cheating when she brought up the open marriage, then she started projecting. I'm glad you handled it properly. Even virgins will answer when the streets call
they do not have a conscience the way men do. its unfortunate most men do not know or understand this fact.
That woman asked for an open marriage to clear her conscience.
they do not have a conscience the way we do but l get what you’re saying
Can we have an Open marriage?
A: Yes, love we can just sign these Divorce papers and we can have a lot of open marriage....
The Open Marriage is always for the Wife's Benefit not for the Husband..
Great story. It had all the elements that show open marriages don't work.
No one is saying women can't work outside the home. Many men would rather marry traditional women because they offer something suitable in return for the risks involved in being married. And yes, if a woman wants to be something great then she should, but being a wife and mother is something great in and of itself.
OP's wife probably got exposed in part to the idea of an open marriage through her co-workers. Instead of focusing on the work itself, she was socializing with people who did not respect marriage. That is something you need to be careful about if your spouse is spending a lot of time with others, like in a workplace. It's no excuse, but it is very common.
Open marriage means that someone wants their spouse to keep providing the obligations of a marriage without any of the benefits. When it gets to that point, they are just using you. It's not a marriage. It's just an alternative living arrangement. Best to cut ties and move on.
Due to the fact that he took women too seriously, this happened all his life on the sly. After the first woman, he should have met several more in order to understand where their red flags were buried. That’s why it happened that he met these shy virgins and got caught up in this whole story. Nowadays, virginity is an indicator that a person has many questions, including psychological ones.
As the ending of the story showed, his wife never loved him. He was comfortable and that's it. The way she jumped on the train in the direction of “open marriage” only showed her attitude towards him as a husband and a man in general. Another 304 and as it turns out, virginity and religiosity will not protect you from defeat.
If you’ve already decided to jump into marriage, then: A prenuptial agreement, open shared devices (phones, computers, etc.), no unknown “friends” and “colleagues” that appear out of nowhere, and also watch for red flags (which are already replete with the Internet and even the laziest already knows).
Guys remember
If they ask
They are already cheating
I would have pretended reconciliation. Make her end the affair, quit her job and make her find another job. Force her to do all sorts of requests. Then divorce her.
My dad never told me he was proud of me.
I've only found out in the last few years that I'm not alone in that. Not by a long shot. And maybe that was why he was able to recover his self-respect at his age. Took me until my late 30s.
Finally he learned
Odds are her affair partner is the one that told her to watch the show and use it as a way to bring up the topic of open marriages and hopefully get permission for the cheating, that is already going on.
I wrote the first part of my comment without listening to much of the video, but it seems I was correct. You can tell by his occupation that she was already seeing him and either already having sex with him, or had it all lined up and ready to go.
He needs a DNA test, according to his story, he doesn’t sounds he’s his father son,
She cheated on him before she even asked him about it so now guys know already when they ask its already been done.
He proved and provided the info like most other guys have.
All the other talking points is to cover up the cheating she already has done
Yeah she had this guy lined up ready to go, you gave a free pass to cheat.
Context overload with this one.
As soon as a woman mentions an open marriage, you know she has already cheated or has someone in mind or is emotionally involved with someone, she is not satisfied with her marriage so get the proof and file for divorce. When you open the marriage it ceases to exist, it is violated.
This idea never ends well.
Open marriage... as soon as she brings it up, it's time to terminate the marriage with extreme prejudice. She doesn't love you anymore. You are just an atm
I like how Chelsea tried to one-up him. "I slept with him before I asked you." Oops, you just confessed to lying and premeditated breaking of vows. OP then realized what was really going on and served her the divorce she deserved. Suddenly she wasn't so high and mighty anymore, wanting to reconcile.
Just another 304 proving if she brings up open relationships, she's at least got someone in mind if not already doing him - either way, vows are broken; cut your losses and run!
Cedar point is way better than Disney in every way
I seen that movie on Netflix, he ends up losing the girl in the end
2 min in, wow your mum not tolerating the so called friend, saying no to what would be girls night and then calmly saying goodbye after the ultimatum, wow. Spending times and doing things with kids is infinitely better for them and the parents than just letting them spend all free time gaming. Gaming isn't bad it just needs to be managed.
This guy 🙄
This poor dude.
Yesterday story made me sick 🤢
Thank God for today's story
Both OP and his cheating spouse are scumbags.
I'm happily unattached at present, but if a girlfriend or wife broached the topic of open relationships, I'm going to assume one of 3 things.
1) She's already done something.
2) She's planning
to do something.
3) She's already done something and if you agree to do it, she'll be guilt-free.
Good video
Glad you enjoyed
Go Black and never go back,it true.
20:34 Smack, smack, smack!
21:39 Smack! Why does keep caving in to her demands?
Gents, stand your ground. Always be intolerant of the rubbish this guy allowed. He knew it was wrong from the beginning. When she first mentioned it, he should have initiated divorce proceedings. When she brings up an open marriage, that's when you end the marriage.
@@danieljones173 God bless SSM, folks like him and true story are out here saving mens lives.