So I watch you, Amanda and Sammy and all 3 of you are such life changers. My SP and I had been together for 4 years and broke up for 6 months then got back together for 3 months and broke up in late June. I felt this sense of hell no like Shelly said and I felt like I needed to set the boundary. I did, which caused us to break up again. It hurt but I followed through and I kept a strict mental diet of what I wanted and what I deserved. Anyways, guess who called me yesterday to say that he wants to do anything I say to keep me in his life? My SP. it’s like he came out of my mind, saying everything I wanted him to say. Affirm and keep that mental diet. Declare the things you want and know you’re worth it.
"When you get clear on what your NO is, then you absolutely get clear on what your YES is" Such wise words Shelly. I learnt about setting my boundaries and being clear on my NO's quite late in my life. But it's never too late to do what's best for you. When I got clear on my YES, I could drastically see the changes in the quality of people I attracted in my reality. It's so imp to practice self love oops, I meannnn Fierce Self Love😁💯💕
I kid you not, I started telling myself how beautiful I am, that men of all ages are attracted to me and bam bam, I am receiving winks and flirts from men even older than my father. I need to tone it down a little bit I guess. Damn!!!
ha yes! I chose to start seeing myself as magnetic and I swear that men who Ive seen in general for the last 3 years and never spoke to, started approaching me way more
Lol same ...I’ve noticed whenever I start practicing self-love I get a lot of unwanted attention too even stalking behavior like men following me home .. @Shelly is that the only way to combat it, turn it off n on?
My favorite message that I take away from this video: I'm absolutely allowed to stand up for myself, I'm allowed to define what I like and DON'T like. (e.g. I don't have to be a Saint who's totally cool with other women hanging out in my man's field because you know, I'm a Saint and not allowed to feel uncomfortable with that 😂) Thank you! 😊💚
Dear Shelly I am spending holidays with my sp I wanted to say every body that every thing is possible I used to think oh does he love me Am I good enough for him but now I am asking my self if he is good enough for me 😁😁😁 I love this video Very powerfull
I’ve been involved with a man for YEARS in a FWB situation to where it’s either been extremely messy boundaries with women while living together to us moving out and now he’s sleeping with me plus two other women who are also exclusive with him. This morning, after yet another vexing conversation with him last night, i finally found my HELL NO and ended it. At this moment I feel mostly sad because I thought I meant more to him that he wouldn’t let me go so easily but also relieved because I’ve been in a state of conflict over this for so long that I didn’t have energy for anything or anyone else. I am enrolled in your most recent course on manifesting your SP but haven’t even started it because my mind has been so confused and caught up over this situation. While I feel mostly despairing right now I know this decision will free up the the energy to start rebuilding myself and delve into this course. I am grateful I found you on TH-cam. I love your videos and the way in which you teach manifesting. Also how you’re so kind, encouraging and thorough while discussing conditions we all struggle with but don’t really talk about. Thank you for all the work you do!
We're here for you (in the Manifest a SP MasterCourse!). I hope you'll watch the replay for the 1st Zoom Call (it's posted in Module 1) because I talked at length about a FWB situation.
My sp was contacting me but it was the kind of contact that didn't feel good to me, i was not feeling it, i knew i deserve better so i told him i cannot be in contact with him if he doesn't want to work things out of atleast try and fight for us, because i was always willing to fight for us no matter what. I was very emotional and said everything that was on my mind, and he got pretty emotional too and cried his eyes out. But i knew that i wanted him to invest in me more than that. I will not choose anything less than what i want and no he's not in control anymore, my heart and my soul is more precious than that. I am a very emotional woman and i truly deeply love him but those are actually my strengths, i am a woman of substance and I have values that i wont compromise on. He will have to bend too and he will because i am worth it in every fucking way or just regret your entire life 😂 (not in a bitter way, but thats just a knowing now because i know that i truly am the best thing for him.)
I am sorry to say this since I am in the same situation the only difference being that atleast your man had the balls to contact you mine didn't. But somehow your last sentence bothers me whereby you speak of how you're the best thing for him but what about him is he the best for you? I mean I fucking fail to understand how us women are always out there doing charity thinking how we're good enough for others but what about others reciprocating that. And I'll tell you a little secret now more than you know you're good for him he knows it even better than you're actually too good for him and that is why he's scared because he knows he cannot offer you what you need. Men are naturally meant to be providers and if a man doubts his abilities to provide that is a big big I mean a big red flag there because that means he has already given up on him ever being able to make you happy. Do reconsider your choice waiting for this man to fight for you or for you to wait for him because that's what I'm telling myself too
Self Love is key and I lately realized that I love myself more and back and forth with a man that gave crumbs and the relationship dynamic was when he wanted he wanted and it was just not healthy and hurt and had to let it go as self love is more and the good guy wins!! And that came thru and the old one dropped off!!! Has taken a lot of work and the fierce self love this time was “hell no”
This is such great timing 🥰. Just before your video I sent my ex/SP a message about the way I feel we should continue to interact. I sent it with love and and understanding but asserting what i am comfortable with. It took a lot of courage for me to send that bc before I was afraid of losing him. Your video just assured me I did the right thing in asserting my “hell no” to both myself and to them. I feel proud of myself. Thanks 🙏
Wow!’!! Perfect timing!!! I just had to block SP because of things said to me as well as actions or lack of actions I know circumstances do not matter but I had to completely “block” all of that because of self love, I am completely confident that all is ok and the universe will prove me with the end result marriage which is already done!!!
Shelly, thank you for this message. I have been having a mental battle in my head wether or not I did the right thing by cutting off contact with my SP and refusing to be FWB with him. At that point I was sad, hurt and was questioning if I did the right thing or not. I decided that I wont accept crumbs from him and decided to cut off contact with him, to work on my self and manifest a healthy and loving relationship with him. However, with time I came to wonder if I did the right thing and started to doubt if I could manifest him back, since I was the one who blocked him and cut contact. But with this message I feel at ease that I did the right thing, choosing me and setting boundaries. This is something I was unable to do in the past and even this time around walking away was so difficult, but I was sick and tired of being in this position and knew for once I had to choose me. I believe that in time I will heal from the pain and attract my SP back into my life, if not someone better. Thank you for your lovely videos xx also, I saw you comment on Dylan's video. You handled the situation with so much class and calmness! If anything, that increased the respect I have for you more :)
YESSSSSSS!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you! Such confirmation of holding onto my absolutely HELL NO when it comes to my boundaries especially related to other women. Ahhhhh so good. Thank you! ❤
I’m so grateful for you and your work, Shelly! Your self love techniques are more powerful than anything I’ve ever come across on my manifesting journey. Although it took some work and practice, I finally got there with the fierce self love as you teach it and some self concept teachings from your courses. And that’s when things with my SP really turned around. Once again, thank you for all you do!
omg i needed this. i’ve been in my fierce self love mode for weeks but having trouble letting go of the old story with my sp but i’m learning there has to be balance 🧡
I so appreciate this video and how gently and lovingly you deliver these teachings that can sometimes prompt resistance! I find too often I've gone all-out resisting saying NO to things that I don't want, either terrified of losing something or because I've kinda been taught to allow my boundaries (if I had created any at all) to be trampled all over and that my feelings didn't matter. I'm feel like I'm finally reaching a turning point in my self-worth where I understand that saying no is a beautiful act of love for myself, and not something only ever said out of fear, resistance, or pessimism.
This video was so important for me today! Thank you for your healing videos!!! You're an important part of the life of many people right now; mine included. I find your videos enlightening, helpful, and also healing. Thank you Shelly!
This is perhaps the best advice I've been given! Your most recent breadcrumbs video paired up with this one put into words something I've been feeling lately, thank you so much! i'll be putting this on repeat every morning :)
After finishing watching this video, I realized it corresponded perfectly to my morning tarot reading in which I asked about how to heal my heart and to feel lovable. Both cards, especially the Queen of Swords reflect what you taught here. I see now that the Queen was advising me to practice fierce love!
I really like this and the fact we can think about the No and what we don’t want. I was concerned that paying attention to the negative would produce more negative but doing it in a way that brings the positive end result makes much more sense. It matters what I’m saying to myself!!!
Okay I’m manifesting I’m getting the ebooks this week 😊 I love fierce self love and heard you mention it before... it’s helped me set boundaries already.
Super important topic! And you're absolutely right, figuring out what you will not tolerate from other people makes it very clear to you who you are and what you do want in a relationship.
Was so excited to hear about this topic after you mentioned “fierce self love” in your live the other day. As usual Shelly, you didn’t disappoint! Wonderfully helpful insights 🙏🏻❤️
Shelly you are a blessing! I’m watching tons of your videos, and I really like your energy. You seem so centered, so confident, but still so sweet. You are helping me so much, I can’t tell! Thank you so much, greetings and blessings from Italy!
One of your best videos Shelly! I loved your course on self-love and relationships and would recommend that and other paid content to anyone who wants to know more about your work and benefit from it.
Such an important video, even brave in regards to Law of Attraction. Healthy boundaries is still such an important aspect in loving relationships. Thank you 💕
We missed you so much yesterday. Beautiful video. You are so right. Peace in our soul is so important and if it doesn’t feel good for us inside, no use staying or excepting their behavior. Someone who is right for us will make sure we feel good about their behavior. Thank you so much🌹
Mhmmm. Yes Shelly. I would truly enjoy this video as it is all about Self-Love and self appreciation. I was wondering, where you were yesterday as you did not make a video yesterday!!! Thank you for being back. I appreciate it
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Hey Shelly, I need your help about my specific person...so he's been with his ex for 1 year and 6 months, and only a little over 3 months later, he went to me. And him and I were a thing for only 5 months. I feel like he would go back to his ex because they were together longer, and I was too insecure and accusing. I was toxic, but their relationship was toxic too and he had baggage because of it. Please, any advice? I was doing fine but this randomly popped up in my head and I'm a little insecure because they have more history and he's been texting me less
Thank you Shelly! 🙏 💜 If someone is not showing up how how I want in the early stages of talking and dating I think I will start to think of them as a partial manifestation, and turn my attention back within!
I've been doing a social media cleanse and dedicating my days to prioritizing myself through art therapy. I took a mental vacation from thinking of my SP. It's the most self-love I've done in my life and this video was so divinely timed I have goosebumps! Thank you Shelly! 🌟💗🔮 Ps. Shelly this color is STUNNING on you!!!
I have started applying this since you talked about it a few weeks ago. It s really an eye opening for me, a real new way of perceiving my behavior facing others. Thank youuuuuuu
Thank you Shelly for making this video.😁 I think some of us (including me) are accepting bad behavior from our specific person because we love them and we care about them so will put up with bad behavior. It really is important for everyone to be clear about how they want to be treated not just by specific person but from everyone in their life. We really do have to respect ourselves in order for others to respect us. Thank you again this was a helpful reminder.❤️❤️❤️
Just made a list of things I absolutely DONT want. And things I do. I feel so good! ❤️ it feels good knowing I can stop myself from experiencing pain just by saying no to certain things. I never really had boundaries. Thanks so much
So Shelly I did this last night! and it felt great! it was a awww hell nah moment but I was so cool calm and collected. it is was great. Thank you for sharing your gift.
I am going to be enbodying what my boundaries are and live by it! And my sp and all the people in my 3d ARE GOING TO BE ABIDING BY WHAT I WANT, DESIRE AND DESERVE! I intend and expect that sp has come in my reality with the standard that I uphold for myself!😍♥️ This is so powerful ♥️
yes girl exactly what I am doing, everyone I desire in my reality is currently conforming their lives to my desires. My man that I love is now coming to me and 3rd parties are never again happening till death do us apart. Not only will he never even think of cheating, in addition to that our love is so strong that it repels anyone from approaching him romantically. I am the only one. And today I feel I shifted in the perfect state before my manifestation arrives.
Another thing I’ve struggled with in my life. Being a people pleaser for most of my life hasn’t helped. For me it’s a fear of setting that boundary and then having the person leave my life. However, I’ve grown so much stronger and wiser with age and your videos are such a great help. You always communicate the point so well in your videos. I never feel like ‘huh?’’ when your videos end 😀. Truly appreciate you.
This is really important. To say "no and to understand that if it's not working for you then it doesn't deserve you." What Shelly mentioned is accurate. I have been doing it lately where I say "I refuse to be treated this way and I won't tolerate it" and a couple of days later the person who wasn't treating me well somehow showed me more respect.
I have a guy that’s been trying so hard to get me to go out with him (not my sp). I’ve told him no! I actually t told him that I have a list and he doesn’t fit it (I said this in a nice way of course). He said, well, good luck with that list bc he felt it was far fetched! I didn’t tell him everything on it. Anyway, I gave a hell yes!!! I will get EVERYTHING that I want! Lol 😂. One of things one my list is that they won’t have Any “girl friends!” So I’m with you on that one Shelly! Great video! 😊💜
Wow🤯 Was trying to figure out how to respond to a series of unfortunate events with my SP, and here you are with the answers! ❤ It may be an unknown SP that the Universe has been waiting for me to finally be healthy enough to reveal. Excellent!!
Shelly I have to say you’re my absolute favourite LOA teacher! You’ve helped me make so many changes in my life and I’ve just met a new guy all through the teachings from your videos! Who I was 8 months ago to who I am today are 2 different people and I cannot thank you enough!! X
I don't know how it happened but the sun, the moon, and the universe presented your channel to me in the last few weeks. Your words have helped me so much and I thank you for that. XOXO
"Oh hell no" such a nice phrase..In your story you are so clear n bold..loved that👍strong woman😊..U raised confidence in us n fierce self love is an intense feeling.. Wonderful Shelly💙😍..Wish I would become the same person like u🤗🤗
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So I watch you, Amanda and Sammy and all 3 of you are such life changers. My SP and I had been together for 4 years and broke up for 6 months then got back together for 3 months and broke up in late June. I felt this sense of hell no like Shelly said and I felt like I needed to set the boundary. I did, which caused us to break up again. It hurt but I followed through and I kept a strict mental diet of what I wanted and what I deserved. Anyways, guess who called me yesterday to say that he wants to do anything I say to keep me in his life? My SP. it’s like he came out of my mind, saying everything I wanted him to say. Affirm and keep that mental diet. Declare the things you want and know you’re worth it.
Love it!
Can you please tell me what did you affirm
I'm no longer a person that accepts crumbs, ghosting or flakey behaviour! Hell no H20! Come correct or not at all! 🤣💪
Love it!
This is my story as well lol
"When you get clear on what your NO is, then you absolutely get clear on what your YES is" Such wise words Shelly. I learnt about setting my boundaries and being clear on my NO's quite late in my life. But it's never too late to do what's best for you. When I got clear on my YES, I could drastically see the changes in the quality of people I attracted in my reality. It's so imp to practice self love oops, I meannnn Fierce Self Love😁💯💕
Loooove this❤️
I want your absolutely no verse for my sp? Can you share it Shelly !
I kid you not, I started telling myself how beautiful I am, that men of all ages are attracted to me and bam bam, I am receiving winks and flirts from men even older than my father. I need to tone it down a little bit I guess. Damn!!!
ha yes! I chose to start seeing myself as magnetic and I swear that men who Ive seen in general for the last 3 years and never spoke to, started approaching me way more
YESSSSS... it's so potent!! I know exactly what you're talking about and I also "turn it on and off" as desired. :) Enjoy!
Lol same ...I’ve noticed whenever I start practicing self-love I get a lot of unwanted attention too even stalking behavior like men following me home .. @Shelly is that the only way to combat it, turn it off n on?
HeyMiiAmor i include in my knowing/affirmations that: “I only receive attention that feels good to me... I always feel safe and respected, etc”
Shelly Bullard ...Thank you!🙏🏾✨🌺🌼 I will add that to my intentions
Yes fierce self is not necessarily loud, BUT it’s bold! Everyone need to cultivate it 🙌🏼
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My favorite message that I take away from this video:
I'm absolutely allowed to stand up for myself, I'm allowed to define what I like and DON'T like. (e.g. I don't have to be a Saint who's totally cool with other women hanging out in my man's field because you know, I'm a Saint and not allowed to feel uncomfortable with that 😂)
Thank you! 😊💚
YES YES YES YESSSSS. Such an important understanding to have.
Dear Shelly
I am spending holidays with my sp I wanted to say every body that every thing is possible
I used to think oh does he love me Am I good enough for him but now I am asking my self if he is good enough for me 😁😁😁
I love this video
Very powerfull
Yes!! Good that you're evaluating all that. Enjoy your holiday. :)
@@ShellyBullard thank you Shelly
I’ve been involved with a man for YEARS in a FWB situation to where it’s either been extremely messy boundaries with women while living together to us moving out and now he’s sleeping with me plus two other women who are also exclusive with him. This morning, after yet another vexing conversation with him last night, i finally found my HELL NO and ended it. At this moment I feel mostly sad because I thought I meant more to him that he wouldn’t let me go so easily but also relieved because I’ve been in a state of conflict over this for so long that I didn’t have energy for anything or anyone else. I am enrolled in your most recent course on manifesting your SP but haven’t even started it because my mind has been so confused and caught up over this situation. While I feel mostly despairing right now I know this decision will free up the the energy to start rebuilding myself and delve into this course. I am grateful I found you on TH-cam. I love your videos and the way in which you teach manifesting. Also how you’re so kind, encouraging and thorough while discussing conditions we all struggle with but don’t really talk about. Thank you for all the work you do!
We're here for you (in the Manifest a SP MasterCourse!). I hope you'll watch the replay for the 1st Zoom Call (it's posted in Module 1) because I talked at length about a FWB situation.
@@ShellyBullard I just finished watching it has tons of good info
My sp was contacting me but it was the kind of contact that didn't feel good to me, i was not feeling it, i knew i deserve better so i told him i cannot be in contact with him if he doesn't want to work things out of atleast try and fight for us, because i was always willing to fight for us no matter what. I was very emotional and said everything that was on my mind, and he got pretty emotional too and cried his eyes out. But i knew that i wanted him to invest in me more than that. I will not choose anything less than what i want and no he's not in control anymore, my heart and my soul is more precious than that. I am a very emotional woman and i truly deeply love him but those are actually my strengths, i am a woman of substance and I have values that i wont compromise on. He will have to bend too and he will because i am worth it in every fucking way or just regret your entire life 😂 (not in a bitter way, but thats just a knowing now because i know that i truly am the best thing for him.)
I love this ❤️
Yes girl we won't settle for less
I am sorry to say this since I am in the same situation the only difference being that atleast your man had the balls to contact you mine didn't. But somehow your last sentence bothers me whereby you speak of how you're the best thing for him but what about him is he the best for you? I mean I fucking fail to understand how us women are always out there doing charity thinking how we're good enough for others but what about others reciprocating that. And I'll tell you a little secret now more than you know you're good for him he knows it even better than you're actually too good for him and that is why he's scared because he knows he cannot offer you what you need. Men are naturally meant to be providers and if a man doubts his abilities to provide that is a big big I mean a big red flag there because that means he has already given up on him ever being able to make you happy. Do reconsider your choice waiting for this man to fight for you or for you to wait for him because that's what I'm telling myself too
Girrrrl!! ❤️
so did u get ur man sis?
I really liked this version of self love.
Glad you liked it ❤️
Self Love is key and I lately realized that I love myself more and back and forth with a man that gave crumbs and the relationship dynamic was when he wanted he wanted and it was just not healthy and hurt and had to let it go as self love is more and the good guy wins!! And that came thru and the old one dropped off!!! Has taken a lot of work and the fierce self love this time was “hell no”
good for you
Amazing and beautiful. So happy for you.
This is such great timing 🥰. Just before your video I sent my ex/SP a message about the way I feel we should continue to interact. I sent it with love and and understanding but asserting what i am comfortable with. It took a lot of courage for me to send that bc before I was afraid of losing him. Your video just assured me I did the right thing in asserting my “hell no” to both myself and to them. I feel proud of myself. Thanks 🙏
Nice girl!
Wow!’!! Perfect timing!!! I just had to block SP because of things said to me as well as actions or lack of actions I know circumstances do not matter but I had to completely “block” all of that because of self love, I am completely confident that all is ok and the universe will prove me with the end result marriage which is already done!!!
I literally had this realization last week with boundaries and inner no..especially when it comes me chasing vs being pursued etc..
Beautiful! Feels good, right?
Shelly, thank you for this message. I have been having a mental battle in my head wether or not I did the right thing by cutting off contact with my SP and refusing to be FWB with him. At that point I was sad, hurt and was questioning if I did the right thing or not. I decided that I wont accept crumbs from him and decided to cut off contact with him, to work on my self and manifest a healthy and loving relationship with him. However, with time I came to wonder if I did the right thing and started to doubt if I could manifest him back, since I was the one who blocked him and cut contact. But with this message I feel at ease that I did the right thing, choosing me and setting boundaries. This is something I was unable to do in the past and even this time around walking away was so difficult, but I was sick and tired of being in this position and knew for once I had to choose me. I believe that in time I will heal from the pain and attract my SP back into my life, if not someone better. Thank you for your lovely videos xx
also, I saw you comment on Dylan's video. You handled the situation with so much class and calmness! If anything, that increased the respect I have for you more :)
I do hope he came back xx
YES!!! This is golden!! 🧘🏼♀️💖
You are glowing Shelley! I am fiercely self loving.💜
YESSSSSSS!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you! Such confirmation of holding onto my absolutely HELL NO when it comes to my boundaries especially related to other women. Ahhhhh so good. Thank you! ❤
OMG!!! I love this video!!! Totally needed to heart it now, going through the exact same experience!!! ❤
Love it Shelly! I’ve never seen someone explain self love in a fierce aspect/Avenue! 💯
So glad you liked it!
Thanks Caleb!! 🙌🏼
I’m so grateful for you and your work, Shelly! Your self love techniques are more powerful than anything I’ve ever come across on my manifesting journey. Although it took some work and practice, I finally got there with the fierce self love as you teach it and some self concept teachings from your courses. And that’s when things with my SP really turned around. Once again, thank you for all you do!
omg i needed this. i’ve been in my fierce self love mode for weeks but having trouble letting go of the old story with my sp but i’m learning there has to be balance 🧡
I so appreciate this video and how gently and lovingly you deliver these teachings that can sometimes prompt resistance! I find too often I've gone all-out resisting saying NO to things that I don't want, either terrified of losing something or because I've kinda been taught to allow my boundaries (if I had created any at all) to be trampled all over and that my feelings didn't matter. I'm feel like I'm finally reaching a turning point in my self-worth where I understand that saying no is a beautiful act of love for myself, and not something only ever said out of fear, resistance, or pessimism.
This video was so important for me today! Thank you for your healing videos!!! You're an important part of the life of many people right now; mine included. I find your videos enlightening, helpful, and also healing. Thank you Shelly!
Ughh yes thank you shelly💛 all starts and stays with me🥰🥰
Yesss
The most beautuful and important video! Thank you 💖
I love your concept of fierce self love!! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you, Shelly!!
You're so welcome.
Hey shelly thanks for explaining self love..as nobody can really touch that subject..thank you.♥️🌷🍫
shelly this video made me feel empowered! love love love ❤️
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just had this experience, so powerful and sacred. Thank you for sharing this
Gorgeous earrings, Shelly! I tune in for both your advice and your fashion statements!
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Always on point with what I need to hear!
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This is perhaps the best advice I've been given! Your most recent breadcrumbs video paired up with this one put into words something I've been feeling lately, thank you so much! i'll be putting this on repeat every morning :)
You’re welcome 🤍🙏
Yehhh so tonight m going to see ur episode yesterday there was no episode missed ur voice 😍
After finishing watching this video, I realized it corresponded perfectly to my morning tarot reading in which I asked about how to heal my heart and to feel lovable. Both cards, especially the Queen of Swords reflect what you taught here. I see now that the Queen was advising me to practice fierce love!
Thank you Shelly for this wonderful video♥️♥️
I really like this and the fact we can think about the No and what we don’t want. I was concerned that paying attention to the negative would produce more negative but doing it in a way that brings the positive end result makes much more sense. It matters what I’m saying to myself!!!
Shelly Bullard ......this video gives out such a strong message.....thank u so much......the message to " Choose oneself " and say " No"
Love this topic
Thank you Shelly! Perfect timing to watch this for my situation ❤️ thank you thank you.
You’re welcome ❤️
Fierce self love! Love this video. Thank you!
Great to have you on the call today! xo
Hi Shelly this is a must see video everyday !!!🙏
Okay I’m manifesting I’m getting the ebooks this week 😊 I love fierce self love and heard you mention it before... it’s helped me set boundaries already.
Awesome!
Super important topic! And you're absolutely right, figuring out what you will not tolerate from other people makes it very clear to you who you are and what you do want in a relationship.
YES!
You’re backkkk!! Whooohoo just noticed x
I'm baaaackkkkk!
Was so excited to hear about this topic after you mentioned “fierce self love” in your live the other day. As usual Shelly, you didn’t disappoint! Wonderfully helpful insights 🙏🏻❤️
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Sometimes I just sit and go through a round of your videos ( kind of like a series on Netflix) then realise I've been watching for hours. 🙂❤❤❤❤
Awesome content! Thank you so much! 💕🙏🙏🙏
Glad you liked it!
Sooooooo important! Shelley these days, I feel like you are talking directly to me.....I really appreciate it! Lots of love!
Aww I love this so much girl.
I need all the help I can get. Your videos have really been helping me to love myself and let go and heal my inner child. So thank you very much!!
So glad to hear this!
Shelly you are a blessing! I’m watching tons of your videos, and I really like your energy. You seem so centered, so confident, but still so sweet. You are helping me so much, I can’t tell! Thank you so much, greetings and blessings from Italy!
Aww thank you!
I love your top. Your shoulder structure and earrings too❤❤❤🌟
Thank you!
Self love is something I'm needing so deeply right now. Thank you.
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Fierrrrrrce 😻 that s a great new concept
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I guess this is the topic I was looking for. Just can't wait 💕
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Yess.. I feel like I need more practice of these like setting boundaries and standing up for myself. Thanks Shelly🤍💖
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One of your best videos Shelly! I loved your course on self-love and relationships and would recommend that and other paid content to anyone who wants to know more about your work and benefit from it.
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it
Such an important video, even brave in regards to Law of Attraction. Healthy boundaries is still such an important aspect in loving relationships. Thank you 💕
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Love this! Thank you!
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Super helpful and you look fantastic and the room behind you is so beautiful.
Yessss! I honestly missed your daily videos 😅
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We missed you so much yesterday.
Beautiful video. You are so right.
Peace in our soul is so important and if it doesn’t feel good for us inside, no use staying or excepting their behavior. Someone who is right for us will make sure we feel good about their behavior.
Thank you so much🌹
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So needed to hear this!
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Mhmmm. Yes Shelly. I would truly enjoy this video as it is all about Self-Love and self appreciation. I was wondering, where you were yesterday as you did not make a video yesterday!!! Thank you for being back. I appreciate it
Self appreciation - great idea for a video. My laptop was in the shop, getting fixed. So I didn't have a computer. All good now. :)
Thank you for bringing this forward Goddess 🔥
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Hey Shelly, I need your help about my specific person...so he's been with his ex for 1 year and 6 months, and only a little over 3 months later, he went to me. And him and I were a thing for only 5 months. I feel like he would go back to his ex because they were together longer, and I was too insecure and accusing. I was toxic, but their relationship was toxic too and he had baggage because of it. Please, any advice? I was doing fine but this randomly popped up in my head and I'm a little insecure because they have more history and he's been texting me less
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Love this video! - fan from Philippines
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Beautiful as always 🌻
I have loved this content. All i am doing these days is focusing on self love. It has been so eye opening!
Beautiful.
🤩🤩😍😍💜💜❤️💞💞❤️ Thought of self love and taking back my power again and here is Shelly on exactly how to do it
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Brilliant. Fierce self love. I'm respected. Cherished. Loved.
awesome . thank you Shelly
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Thank you Shelly! 🙏 💜 If someone is not showing up how how I want in the early stages of talking and dating I think I will start to think of them as a partial manifestation, and turn my attention back within!
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I've been doing a social media cleanse and dedicating my days to prioritizing myself through art therapy. I took a mental vacation from thinking of my SP. It's the most self-love I've done in my life and this video was so divinely timed I have goosebumps! Thank you Shelly! 🌟💗🔮 Ps. Shelly this color is STUNNING on you!!!
Amazing!! This is wonderful!
I have started applying this since you talked about it a few weeks ago. It s really an eye opening for me, a real new way of perceiving my behavior facing others. Thank youuuuuuu
Beautiful!
Self love- self worth!! Know you are worth getting what you desire!! Thanks for the video!
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Wooo! Back in business! 😀👍💖
hahah! Yes!
Great video, thank you!
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Thank you Shelly for making this video.😁 I think some of us (including me) are accepting bad behavior from our specific person because we love them and we care about them so will put up with bad behavior. It really is important for everyone to be clear about how they want to be treated not just by specific person but from everyone in their life. We really do have to respect ourselves in order for others to respect us. Thank you again this was a helpful reminder.❤️❤️❤️
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Just made a list of things I absolutely DONT want. And things I do. I feel so good! ❤️ it feels good knowing I can stop myself from experiencing pain just by saying no to certain things. I never really had boundaries. Thanks so much
This is exactly what I needed to see tonight. Thankyou you beautiful human ❤ 💗 😘 xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Shelly you're amazing. I found you at the precise time In my life that I needed to find you. Thank you
So glad you’re here, Paul!
So Shelly I did this last night! and it felt great! it was a awww hell nah moment but I was so cool calm and collected. it is was great. Thank you for sharing your gift.
I’m glad you liked it!
I love this video. It's very important and so valuable. Thank you so much for sharing your amazing experience. 🙋💐❤️💞🤸♂️
So glad you liked it❤️
Shelly your skin is looking extraaaaa beautiful and flawless 😍😍😍
Aww thank you!
Thank you. Wonderful video
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This is the perfect video for today...thank you so much...💕
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I missed you yesterday so much because I am addicted to ur videos 😇
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cant wait for this!!!!
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Glad to have you back ❤
So glad to be back 🥰
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it’s really all about self love and reaching our highest potential. we have to shift the energy back on ourselves. 👑
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I am going to be enbodying what my boundaries are and live by it!
And my sp and all the people in my 3d ARE GOING TO BE ABIDING BY WHAT I WANT, DESIRE AND DESERVE!
I intend and expect that sp has come in my reality with the standard that I uphold for myself!😍♥️
This is so powerful ♥️
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yes girl exactly what I am doing, everyone I desire in my reality is currently conforming their lives to my desires. My man that I love is now coming to me and 3rd parties are never again happening till death do us apart. Not only will he never even think of cheating, in addition to that our love is so strong that it repels anyone from approaching him romantically. I am the only one. And today I feel I shifted in the perfect state before my manifestation arrives.
Another thing I’ve struggled with in my life. Being a people pleaser for most of my life hasn’t helped. For me it’s a fear of setting that boundary and then having the person leave my life. However, I’ve grown so much stronger and wiser with age and your videos are such a great help. You always communicate the point so well in your videos. I never feel like ‘huh?’’ when your videos end 😀. Truly appreciate you.
So glad you enjoy them💙
Here for this message 👏🏾
That's right girl.
Thank you so much Shelly💜
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This is really important. To say "no and to understand that if it's not working for you then it doesn't deserve you." What Shelly mentioned is accurate. I have been doing it lately where I say "I refuse to be treated this way and I won't tolerate it" and a couple of days later the person who wasn't treating me well somehow showed me more respect.
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I have a guy that’s been trying so hard to get me to go out with him (not my sp). I’ve told him no! I actually t told him that I have a list and he doesn’t fit it (I said this in a nice way of course). He said, well, good luck with that list bc he felt it was far fetched! I didn’t tell him everything on it. Anyway, I gave a hell yes!!! I will get EVERYTHING that I want! Lol 😂. One of things one my list is that they won’t have Any “girl friends!” So I’m with you on that one Shelly! Great video! 😊💜
Glad you liked it!
Wow🤯
Was trying to figure out how to respond to a series of unfortunate events with my SP, and here you are with the answers! ❤
It may be an unknown SP that the Universe has been waiting for me to finally be healthy enough to reveal. Excellent!!
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Shelly I have to say you’re my absolute favourite LOA teacher! You’ve helped me make so many changes in my life and I’ve just met a new guy all through the teachings from your videos! Who I was 8 months ago to who I am today are 2 different people and I cannot thank you enough!! X
Wonderful!
Sunny Sunshine that is so inspiring!!!!
Thanks much Shelly. ☺️🌹🙏🏽
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I don't know how it happened but the sun, the moon, and the universe presented your channel to me in the last few weeks. Your words have helped me so much and I thank you for that. XOXO
So glad to hear this❤️
"Oh hell no" such a nice phrase..In your story you are so clear n bold..loved that👍strong woman😊..U raised confidence in us n fierce self love is an intense feeling.. Wonderful Shelly💙😍..Wish I would become the same person like u🤗🤗
Thank you 🥰