@@maryarnold3743 what does being black have to do with kindness? Erica is black and a tutsi. Her family is in tanzania out of hutu reach. Hutu are black too. Were they kinder to Erica than this Chinese elder?
Point of correction, if you are going to be with her. DON'T LIVE IN CHINA!. Boy move to Africa and marry your wife and have your kids; they'll treat you like a king oga. Fortunately and unfortunately for Africa. It has been colonised. They see fairness and whiteness as superior. As an African girl I hate to admit it but people be bleaching their skin😭. Your children will enjoy in Africa because they are HALFCAST😂.☻☻. But if you live in China or Korea or Japan or Taiwan 🙆🏾♀️your children will suffer racism and bullying. If you come and live here in Nigeria 😁... showers of blessings and favouritism because of the colour of your skin unfortunately. A word is enough for the wise
As a black girl, I can relate to Erika though thats so hard to go through. We black girls from African families are so welcoming to foreigners regardless of their culture or where they come from. Our patience and learning different cultures is part of us . But its so sad we struggle to get accepted in different cultures. She needs love and respect because we also do have cultures where we come from but if we can risk it all. we need to be felt loved as people with the same blood but not a thing to be scared of because soemeone will notice a black girl in an asian compound.
You see the majority of his friends and family have no problem with Erica. It is only his dad. That is a small percentage of haters. Im sure there are also a small percentage of Africans who would feel the same when she brought him home. But they are smarter about hiding their feelings.
Nobody really hates nobody, it's just when they have very different cultures they felt annoyed by their inconsiderate behaviors, it doesn't matter which country you are from, but they usually could generalize people with stereotypes.
I'm American. Three years ago, I started watching lots of Asian cinema. Shit like this happened frequently, but I kind of thought it was an exaggeration for dramatic purposes in movies. But shit, this is for real. Asian people, especially men, worry a great deal what others think of them, for all kinds of reasons including horrible ones like this blatant racism and lack of concern for his son's feelings as well as Erica's. But it is one thing to see it in a movie, and another to see it for real like this. My heart is aching for Erica. I have to say, I do not like it that Ziheng has now brought Erica to his home TWICE, and both times she has had to experience this hateful behavior directed right at her. Being white, I cannot imagine what this must be like for her, and it pisses me off that Ziheng has subjected her to this more than once, knowing it would be the same as the first time. Is he using her for good material for the videos? Kind of seems like it.
@@morningsminion3242 I completely agree with you, as a black person who has had racial words thrown at me it's not fun one bit, and if Ziheng know that his father doesn't like her one bit common sense to tell him his father doesn't one her there so why bring her not once but two time to his father's house like he love making her feel embarrassed
When Erica said: "I am sorry" saddens me! She did not do anything wrong! But on the bright side, I am glad that Ziheng finally got to see mom and dad in China after years of being away from home! Hope that Erica can recuperate from these bad experience soon! 当 Erica 说：“对不起”时，我感到很难过！ 她没有做错任何事! 但从好的方面来说，非常高兴子恒在离开多年后终于能回到中国见到爸爸妈妈了, 希望Erica 能够尽快从这些不好的经历中恢复过来!
We call this 'racial discrimination' in US. I feel embarrassed that as advance in technology and industry China is, some of the people are still living in the old culture..
The father obviously cares more about the neighbors opinions than his son. I wouldn't care what people say the love for my son is more important, but then again I'm a mom not a dad. His mom is a lovely caring woman.❤
Sadly yes. Like many parents too. Sometimes father's pride is their family. But when neighbors talk at their back or insulted about family members, fathers really get upset. Zhiheng may explain it well soon when things cool down a little.
IAM sorry for Erica been in this terrible situation. How can you bring her home again when you know the father doesn't like her color or her race? She is a human with feelings and not a experiment.
@@42Laj he wouldn't. Chinese are scrupulous about no malice with food. Thats not the case with other asians or non asians but the chinese are not malicious when it comes to bio terrorism. But I dont trust most non chinese in nyc where the hate for chinese is strong. There r crazy reviews for a flushing Korean restaurant where the diners have found ... metal wire, a coin and a shard of glass. Somebody in the kitchen hates the owner. Chinese wouldn't try to hurt you with food. They went all out with the meal which was not shown so I have no idea what this video was about because he keeps inviting her but I didn't get the vibe that this was romantic interest.
Sometimes parents forget that other people have parents too. I’m speaking as a mother whose child married outside our race. I lost “friends” too but I embraced it because my child is the most important person to me. Friends and neighbors come and go but the happiness of my son is a priority. Having reservations or different opinions on this relationship can be discussed respectfully with your son without hurting the girl and making her feel pathetic. No one chooses which race or skin color to be born and nobody deserves to be harassed, insulted and dehumanized for something beyond their control. It’s okay to have a deep conversation with your son but if you believe that your family is that much better, then know that your behavior reflects nothing but ignorance. Her father showed more class when he met your son regardless of his full opinions, please treat his daughter with the same respect.
Imagine how he treat his son like that he should welcome him fully be happy for seeing him after years m the call him privet talk to him now our girl thinks it's because of her 😂😂😂 papa is mad shish
Am crying see erica i can feel see have affraid heart 😢😢😢😢😢😢 dont worry this my words erica verry good girl how erica talk everything just out of she mouth not have anything else think just naturale she talk am crying my eyes swollen, i verry like see erica thats i chooise chanel youtube ziheng my favourite because have erica both of them so sweet eachother
This is very sad that the father is so close-minded. Erika is a beautiful and sweet girl, I hope that one day he will see that she is making his son happy.
As an African who has a brother in china he spoke of how friendly y’all are and how homey and nice people treat him seeing the matured and nice comments from some of the Chinese makes my heart beam with joy.
Is all about bringing up traditional values and most Chinese in the Mainland still prefer the same colour to be son or daughter in law but in Singapore...it does not matter so much
I cannot say it enough. You are a beautiful couple. Handsome and beautiful. She is like a fashion model. Please love and protect each other. You are the future all mankind has been praying and working for. World unity, peace and harmony. Please take care of each other. God bless you both. God bless you. God bless you.
Don't worry too much about your dad. As an Asian man, i can understand how traditional parents can be. They worry too much about how they look and do not want to lose face. In the end, its your life. Love who you love. You guys make a great couple!
shes so beutiful and polite , , well done young man , i wish the best for both of you , honestly she is stunning , and well reserved dont loose her mate who cares about gossipers
Avec le temps, ça va aller , tant que tu es heureux avec Érika, elle commence à parler chinois et est très respectueuse envers ta famille. Moi aussi je suis un chinois, j'ai connu ce problème mais j'ai résisté et je suis heureux avec mon épouse qui est noire et ça fait déjà 47 ans . Nos enfants sont très beaux.
Wooooooow .........!!!!!!!!mes félicitations. L amour n a pas des couleurs. C est juste un sentiment. Ce sentiment lá est inexplicable. J ai vraiment pitié de la fille. J ai des larmes aux yeux pour elle.
Erica is a very beautiful, smart and sociable young lady from Tanzania, visiting and enjoying China; very lucky indeed! It is unfortunate that the father's old fashion and uncalled for inclination to disliking Erica were not representing the majority of Chinese people who are welcoming, complimenting Erica frequently in public. The Father's attitude need to changing like modern outreaching China. Erica is a beauty from Tanzania. In many ways she is like an ambassador representing the African Union Continent! I compliment the friendly courtesy of the mother who likes and treats Erica very well.
Erica’s father and family showed more class and respect to Ziheng when she took him home. They treated both of them as adults and had intelligent conversation. In African culture how you treat and receive strangers and visitors into your home says a lot about your character. You never walk away from your guests, speak badly about them in their presence. Your character and standing in the community will fall. Also, I would never humiliate my son in front of his friends. As a mother, that would make me sad. Deep thoughts and feelings can be discussed later with your son in private. Of course your son shouldn’t record and publish humiliating experiences that are hurtful to her and family as well. How will Erica’s family react and feel if they see these videos after he promised to take care of her in China?
black people don't hate , black people accept all races of people in the family, it's the racism and the weak mindset of white supremacy that they are following, its brainwashed 😮.
African/black families will accept other races alot quickly than other races accept African/blacks. That is really putting down Africa/blacks as lower than the others. African/ blacks try too hard to get accepted.SMH😦
Yay, ice is broken, at least Ziheng stands firm, only the father is worried about the neighbours' talk. Slowly, the tide is turning and warmth is imminent!! Stay cool guys, Ziheng's mum is giving great morale support!!!❤❤❤💪💪
Ziheng is a good guy. A Chinese with the value of Filial Piety. He has been well brought up by his parents. I like the way he handled his dad. Erica herself is a gem of a girl. Both of them are made for one another. It will turn out alright in the long run.
It's hard for her too, just like it's hard for your dad to accept her... Wow you are brave person and respect for trying. I can see pain on her face, I when she said 'I'm sorry'. 😞... thanks for sharing your video.
Ziheng welcome back to Tanzania 🇹🇿 we will be happy to see your father and mother having the experience of Tanzania with kindness people and non will judge about other people life. I think even his mind Will change and not to care about what other people think of his beautiful family. The day of today for your son to bring a girl at home you have to thank God.
Loved the video. I am a black man married to a filipina and now have been living in the Philippines for 2 years now. Her family has made me feel very welcomed.
You are a beautiful Queen there are so many who don't understand for they have no peace in their heart. Blessings to you young lady may God give you those who respect and see your shine.
Ziheng should come clean on his intentions with erica. The dad is as confused as we are. Does ziheng sincerely want to marry erica or its just for making an interesting videos for views and more money???
His Dad is wasted his time, bothering himself with what people say and he is more concerned with it. He has a a very liberal intelligent son, Ziheng is so admirable not to give in, but respect his father’s feeling towards this issue for now. I get emotional seeing Erica so sad even putting herself to be blamed, as the cause of the argument. Poor Ziheng, his plans to give Erica a great time in China ended with heartbreak. He is so hurt to see Erica in her pitiful state, trying his very best to make her change her mind. Erica in her own sensible character, knows she is doing the right thing Erica made the right decision to just leave them in peace and be a family for the remaining days of his holidaying, his Dad must be very delighted, he can be with son for a while
dam Ziheng, I thought you came from a very rich family. I'm honestly glad you're a common person like most of us around the world. Erica is gorgeous as always and she still have family values. It was nice of her to offer your mom help with washing the dish. Ziheng is "da man", he didn't blame his dad/mom. He didn't Erica. He blamed himself.
Thank goodness for mom, she’s adorable and kindhearted. Dad needs to chill out and stop worrying about what neighbors think! He didn’t even confirm if it’s girlfriend ‘yet’ 😊! Dad’s ignorance could cost him not seeing his son, that’s crazy. One Love y’all!🙏🏽
Yea, I hope while he has some time to think he'll have a change of heart. So much of what we do as humans is so selfish.... When you really think about it.
Your mum is a very lovely woman ❤God bless her for you. You have a beautiful and a good woman with a good heart as a mother. My brother follow your heart ❤️
Erica and Ziheng, you are not the problem. Hopefully open and honest communication with kindness will eventually change Ziheng’s Father’s feelings towards Erica or anyone that is not Chinese. Ziheng’s mom is very kind and received Erica well. The heart chooses love.
I'm so sorry for you Erika. I can feel your pain. Jis parents all the time figthing about you. I was in tears, when you say ,i want to go back in Tanzania. Be strong Erika. Quem ama sofre. I ❤ u.
I really wish we get to a world where people cant stop hating\judging people because of their skin color. People are passing up moments to meet new people or even learning about different culture..
Your father needs to understand how we treat you in Africa. We love you as we love ourselves in Africa and we expect that same love when we we visit you. But i think its not his fault , its the society that speaks bad . I love your mother. And i pray that your father will understand that Blacks are people too.
Haha, its not about the Black people. I think it is a cultural shock. Maybe this is Ziheng's dad first impression about his son's girlfriend in question.
But they don’t treat him that well in Africa. People in Africa try to make Chinese people pay high prices for things and some times trouble him to make him pay. I think Chinese people are much friendlier to Africans.
In the end result, the happiness of the son should be more important to his father than the approval of his neighbours, but this takes time to fully understand
This girl is beautiful, kind hearted and from an amazing family❤What more do people want?! Damn! I hope she finds who values her traits and loves her whole heartedly 😢
Son will make sure that the father accepts it. That's how Asian parents are. Girl you don't have to think too much about what his father thinks, everything is fair in love. You two should live up your life the way you want.
He needs to show his father the video he took with Erica’s family and let him know how welcoming and nice they were to him.
They are Rwandan in tanzania. When the agit prop begins to justify atrocities of Chinese, the videos won't mean anything.
If his father sees the videos of how the girls parents responded to his son I am not sure it would change the father’s mind much.
His family should learn to be kind. As a black woman, I would never treat another human so unkind. So shocked to see this behavior.
@@maryarnold3743 what does being black have to do with kindness? Erica is black and a tutsi. Her family is in tanzania out of hutu reach. Hutu are black too. Were they kinder to Erica than this Chinese elder?
@@batmanvsupermanyoutube925 but did you have to bring up tribe shit though
She's too beautiful for this. If you're going to be with her, then you must be able to brave the storm. If you're not ready, then leave her alone.
I agree
@@cecib2055 It's just a show, don't be too serious. This girl is just a hired actress.
@@howietang1878 I can BE whatever way I like. Thank you very much.
Point of correction, if you are going to be with her. DON'T LIVE IN CHINA!. Boy move to Africa and marry your wife and have your kids; they'll treat you like a king oga. Fortunately and unfortunately for Africa. It has been colonised. They see fairness and whiteness as superior. As an African girl I hate to admit it but people be bleaching their skin😭. Your children will enjoy in Africa because they are HALFCAST😂.☻☻. But if you live in China or Korea or Japan or Taiwan 🙆🏾♀️your children will suffer racism and bullying. If you come and live here in Nigeria 😁... showers of blessings and favouritism because of the colour of your skin unfortunately. A word is enough for the wise
@howietang1878 You're stupid to think it's "just a show". Taking a child to bully her is awful.
As a black girl, I can relate to Erika though thats so hard to go through. We black girls from African families are so welcoming to foreigners regardless of their culture or where they come from. Our patience and learning different cultures is part of us . But its so sad we struggle to get accepted in different cultures. She needs love and respect because we also do have cultures where we come from but if we can risk it all. we need to be felt loved as people with the same blood but not a thing to be scared of because soemeone will notice a black girl in an asian compound.
not always,maybe 10% or more african they live with hate for no reason
i would get disowned if i married a Chinese men..we are welcoming but its also hard for us to marry out in many cases
this father is quite stupid， it's abnomal , insane and very impolite , I feel shame about this as a Chinese.
You see the majority of his friends and family have no problem with Erica. It is only his dad. That is a small percentage of haters. Im sure there are also a small percentage of Africans who would feel the same when she brought him home. But they are smarter about hiding their feelings.
Nobody really hates nobody, it's just when they have very different cultures they felt annoyed by their inconsiderate behaviors, it doesn't matter which country you are from, but they usually could generalize people with stereotypes.
I'm proud of your mother 👩 very much she is great mother ❤🎉❤let God bless your mother 👩
It's like Zheng's father cares more about what the neighbors say about him then his own son happiness
Yes the father does seem a bit selfish and childish.
That may be but his total and complete lack of manners is abominable!
He's like an insecure little girl who only lives his life after other's opinions. Extremely ill-mannered on top of that. Embarrassing.
I'm American. Three years ago, I started watching lots of Asian cinema. Shit like this happened frequently, but I kind of thought it was an exaggeration for dramatic purposes in movies. But shit, this is for real. Asian people, especially men, worry a great deal what others think of them, for all kinds of reasons including horrible ones like this blatant racism and lack of concern for his son's feelings as well as Erica's. But it is one thing to see it in a movie, and another to see it for real like this. My heart is aching for Erica.
I have to say, I do not like it that Ziheng has now brought Erica to his home TWICE, and both times she has had to experience this hateful behavior directed right at her. Being white, I cannot imagine what this must be like for her, and it pisses me off that Ziheng has subjected her to this more than once, knowing it would be the same as the first time. Is he using her for good material for the videos? Kind of seems like it.
@@morningsminion3242 I completely agree with you, as a black person who has had racial words thrown at me it's not fun one bit, and if Ziheng know that his father doesn't like her one bit common sense to tell him his father doesn't one her there so why bring her not once but two time to his father's house like he love making her feel embarrassed
Look at how her parents treated him. Look at how his parents treated her. It's sad what beautiful black people go through all over the world
Black killed and raped us first and is still doing it all over tye west.
When Erica said: "I am sorry" saddens me! She did not do anything wrong! But on the bright side, I am glad that Ziheng finally got to see mom and dad in China after years of being away from home! Hope that Erica can recuperate from these bad experience soon!
当 Erica 说：“对不起”时，我感到很难过！ 她没有做错任何事!
但从好的方面来说，非常高兴子恒在离开多年后终于能回到中国见到爸爸妈妈了, 希望Erica 能够尽快从这些不好的经历中恢复过来!
We call this 'racial discrimination' in US. I feel embarrassed that as advance in technology and industry China is, some of the people are still living in the old culture..
WRONG. She did so much wrong indirectly because she's black😂
@@paulhu9193this is the same usa where Chinese strangers are attacked on a weekly basis by black ppl.
@@michaelmarama-de4gx She's a goddess and she's doing him a favor to even consider him..in time you will see who The Most High people are!!!
@@mrvx1867 I am one of the most high
The father obviously cares more about the neighbors opinions than his son. I wouldn't care what people say the love for my son is more important, but then again I'm a mom not a dad. His mom is a lovely caring woman.❤
Sadly yes. Like many parents too. Sometimes father's pride is their family. But when neighbors talk at their back or insulted about family members, fathers really get upset. Zhiheng may explain it well soon when things cool down a little.
IAM sorry for Erica been in this terrible situation. How can you bring her home again when you know the father doesn't like her color or her race? She is a human with feelings and not a experiment.
I think it's his father don't like Erica not the neighbours.
@@yewliegoh3896 you may be right, and he's using the neighbors as an excuse. It's sad, but at least his mother is sweet.
Chinese people have tendency to live their lives based on their neighbors opinions, not the way they want to live.
Dad cooks so well. Those crabs are super delicious!!!!
He cooked the most expensive possible delicacy for someone he claims to reject?
@@HouseOod He probably put something in her food. I would not trust him at all.
@@42Laj he wouldn't. Chinese are scrupulous about no malice with food. Thats not the case with other asians or non asians but the chinese are not malicious when it comes to bio terrorism. But I dont trust most non chinese in nyc where the hate for chinese is strong. There r crazy reviews for a flushing Korean restaurant where the diners have found ... metal wire, a coin and a shard of glass. Somebody in the kitchen hates the owner.
Chinese wouldn't try to hurt you with food. They went all out with the meal which was not shown so I have no idea what this video was about because he keeps inviting her but I didn't get the vibe that this was romantic interest.
@@42Laj 😁 come on man
@@kingjames846 😆
She is so cute. He like her. Dad is crazy
Sometimes parents forget that other people have parents too. I’m speaking as a mother whose child married outside our race. I lost “friends” too but I embraced it because my child is the most important person to me. Friends and neighbors come and go but the happiness of my son is a priority. Having reservations or different opinions on this relationship can be discussed respectfully with your son without hurting the girl and making her feel pathetic. No one chooses which race or skin color to be born and nobody deserves to be harassed, insulted and dehumanized for something beyond their control. It’s okay to have a deep conversation with your son but if you believe that your family is that much better, then know that your behavior reflects nothing but ignorance. Her father showed more class when he met your son regardless of his full opinions, please treat his daughter with the same respect.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Totally agree with you👍🏽👍🏽
Facts👌
Imagine how he treat his son like that he should welcome him fully be happy for seeing him after years m the call him privet talk to him now our girl thinks it's because of her 😂😂😂 papa is mad shish
你站着说话不腰疼，很多地方不是你想象的那样，虽然是现代化，但是还是有很多根深蒂固的思想和意愿，如果是我的家庭可以接受
子恆媽媽很賢惠，人美心也美
Very true 👌❤️
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！
子恆的媽媽好溫暖.. 感動到快哭了...😭😭😭😭
他是去非洲志愿和亲！就应该留在那里不要再回来！中国古代就有和亲！现在是志愿的！😮😢😢
If I didn't bring my friends from another place to meet my family, I would get scolded! Erica is so lovely, and respectful.
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！
Beautiful couple !! All happiness & love
艾瑞卡超级可爱，很讨人喜欢，我看您非州的视频中，她收拾行李非常完美，也会做菜。小伙子，如果您真心的一心一意地对待和艾瑞卡之间的爱情，我们中国人大都喜欢看到有好的爱情结果！邻居也会停住嘴，邻居的说三道四会自然消失，反而支持您！主要是取决于您自己，加油！因为您的视频中出现了艾瑞卡，让我们一直坚持热切关注艾瑞卡和您之间的发展关系。祝福您们哦！（您的爸爸的心情，能理解！）
我也是天津人，我在加拿大认识很多老乡其实天津人最不够揍啦（自大看不起人吹牛大男子主义……）主播完全是跟非洲小五学的，相比之下我最喜欢小五的视频，木头头、马提亚斯有意思😅
沒辦法主要是現在還是有些父母的思想還比較保守😅
如果是白人肯定沒意見 問題是黑人😂
@@cindyheartful Why?
@@melloyello5390 以前歷史遺留下來的問題及種族歧視 白人=經濟發達國家 黑人= 經濟落後國家
在4:55 看到Erica 恐懼又欲哭無淚的樣子😩真的是十分可憐，平時美麗活潑的神彩全消失了，真的是惹人憐愛，子恆你要好好安慰及補償這女孩啊 ❤❤❤
😢😢
还要说对不起
Am crying see erica i can feel see have affraid heart 😢😢😢😢😢😢 dont worry this my words erica verry good girl how erica talk everything just out of she mouth not have anything else think just naturale she talk am crying my eyes swollen, i verry like see erica thats i chooise chanel youtube ziheng my favourite because have erica both of them so sweet eachother
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
She is such a beautiful soul
This is very sad that the father is so close-minded. Erika is a beautiful and sweet girl, I hope that one day he will see that she is making his son happy.
Run Erica 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️ Dont Ever Settle For Nonsense. You Are Beautiful 😍 You Deserve Better Treatment. You are Better Off With Your Life.
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！
As an African who has a brother in china he spoke of how friendly y’all are and how homey and nice people treat him seeing the matured and nice comments from some of the Chinese makes my heart beam with joy.
👏🙏🇹🇿 KARIBU TANZANIA
都是剧本，不要认为是真的
@@janetdundul38582:15 2:33
Is all about bringing up traditional values and most Chinese in the Mainland still prefer the same colour to be son or daughter in law but in Singapore...it does not matter so much
老兄弟咱俩岁数差不多，我也是天津人，你的儿子非常优秀，希望你尊重他的选择，爱情无国界。不要管外人胡说八道，因为你的孩子不是为别人而活。希望你的一家因为有了儿媳而开启新的生活。人生短暂。开心祝福下一代。支持他们。
人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
這個顏色走到頭就是西方的零元購世界 放火燒殺 社會成本太大
I cannot say it enough. You are a beautiful couple. Handsome and beautiful. She is like a fashion model. Please love and protect each other. You are the future all mankind has been praying and working for. World unity, peace and harmony. Please take care of each other. God bless you both. God bless you. God bless you.
这个女孩非常漂亮呀，身材也挺好，你们邻居少见多怪
少見多怪 ！
You two are so well together and your mother is very kind and understanding.
Ziheng, I will always support your channel because you are really a good person. You truly treat all people equally no matter their colors.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😻😻😻😻😻😻😻
老爸太兇了！ 非待客之道！
She's beautiful, be happy together 🥰
Don't worry too much about your dad. As an Asian man, i can understand how traditional parents can be. They worry too much about how they look and do not want to lose face. In the end, its your life. Love who you love. You guys make a great couple!
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
Your mother is really nice! She is really a wonderful mum. My warm greetings to her from madrid
Erica is a beautiful sweet lady. She will make a good wife. Just give her a chance. Wishing both of you the best.
看過幾個中國人在非洲及非洲人在中國的頻道， 最喜歡你這裏， 生活化得來生動有趣， 内容多樣化。好不容易經營一個受歡迎受關注的頻道，正面形象建立了，帶著 Erica 拍攝取材話題會較多，內容會更有趣，然而這種工作方式未必是每個長輩都能理解，你已經做得很好很成功， 繼續努力！
I can see he got the good looks fr both parents, dad especially is very handsome.
shes so beutiful and polite , , well done young man , i wish the best for both of you , honestly she is stunning , and well reserved dont loose her mate
who cares about gossipers
Your mother is a rare germ. Good mother ❤❤❤
Avec le temps, ça va aller , tant que tu es heureux avec Érika, elle commence à parler chinois et est très respectueuse envers ta famille. Moi aussi je suis un chinois, j'ai connu ce problème mais j'ai résisté et je suis heureux avec mon épouse qui est noire et ça fait déjà 47 ans . Nos enfants sont très beaux.
Wooooooow .........!!!!!!!!mes félicitations. L amour n a pas des couleurs. C est juste un sentiment. Ce sentiment lá est inexplicable. J ai vraiment pitié de la fille. J ai des larmes aux yeux pour elle.
子恒搁这儿演戏呢，我不太相信他对这女孩是真心的
@akamoshee I feel the same way. I think he's using her for views...
@@akamosheeI agree. YOu can tell he is not. Glad someone said it.
@@pr2281 that's true. He is user. You can see, since Erica left him, he is an unable to make video.
She's gorgeous! Love who you love! :)
She's a keeper what a lovely couple.
The girl is a model for sure. She's so pretty.
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
Erica is a very beautiful, smart and sociable young lady from Tanzania, visiting and enjoying China; very lucky indeed! It is unfortunate that the father's old fashion and uncalled for inclination to disliking Erica were not representing the majority of Chinese people who are welcoming, complimenting Erica frequently in public. The Father's attitude need to changing like modern outreaching China. Erica is a beauty from Tanzania. In many ways she is like an ambassador representing the African Union Continent! I compliment the friendly courtesy of the mother who likes and treats Erica very well.
Erica’s father and family showed more class and respect to Ziheng when she took him home. They treated both of them as adults and had intelligent conversation. In African culture how you treat and receive strangers and visitors into your home says a lot about your character. You never walk away from your guests, speak badly about them in their presence. Your character and standing in the community will fall. Also, I would never humiliate my son in front of his friends. As a mother, that would make me sad. Deep thoughts and feelings can be discussed later with your son in private. Of course your son shouldn’t record and publish humiliating experiences that are hurtful to her and family as well. How will Erica’s family react and feel if they see these videos after he promised to take care of her in China?
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You are very correct, although zehengs father is an elderly man but he lack manner big time
black people don't hate , black people accept all races of people in the family, it's the racism and the weak mindset of white supremacy that they are following, its brainwashed 😮.
African/black families will accept other races alot quickly than other races accept African/blacks.
That is really putting down Africa/blacks as lower than the others. African/ blacks try too hard to get accepted.SMH😦
I think ziheng also wants the views to go high. Controversial videos and headings brings traffic to a video hence more money.
没事的子恒! 你们愛怎么演我们就怎样看. 皆大欢喜对不?
You are the bravest man I have seen in recent times now. ❤
She's such a sweetheart! It's unfortunate she has to feel guilty.
爸爸可以下厨做饭给你们吃，而且大家同桌一起吃饭，说明他已经默认了Erica。现在只是好像在邻居朋友那里面子上过不去，没事的，我也感觉是演的强加的戏。不过子恒对爸爸说“一家人一起多好”，让我听出来他承认Erica是家庭一员了。子恒，虽然你从来没有承认跟Erica的关系，但我们观众特别希望你们在一起。加油子恒💪💪💪，喜欢Erica善良及对爸爸的理解❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹。
可别！我可不同意他们在一起
子恒，你己是成年人己走出父母保護的舒適圈，奔向放飛自我的地方，但也要尊重父母體諒他們的良苦用心，你的言行很皧昧，你和艾瑞卡己同居生活數月，你其它房客妹也離開合租房，你的生活方式無人質評，既呈於人前就顯示你的决心，因生活不容易！但婚姻大事非皃戏，勿短視更要前瞻作父母能真為你自豪的天津爺們被人羨！祝平安！
鄰居家的背後議論，你爸爸怎麼就這麼無腦？多少羨慕嫉妒恨？對你們甚至你爸個人的羨慕嫉妒恨呢？你爸的生活這麼大程度的依賴別人的言語和看法？艾瑞卡開始我也不太喜歡她，認為她太懶太虛榮。正所謂人不可貌相，看多了幾集後才發覺她真的十分的自然真實單純無心機的小女孩。外表甜美也耐看，越看越可愛，絕對非洲一流美女。原以為配不上子恆，現在覺得子恆要加油。子恆的語言表達能力還要加強。子恆的媽媽真要向她豎大拇指。子恆的爸太丟中國父親們的臉了。象子恆爸這樣，中國能算禮儀之幫？連待客的基本禮貌也沒有。太不如他老婆了。醜陋的中國老男人！
@@pierrekast-w2x 为什么你不同意他们在一起？
都是戏😂说的天津跟农村一样 没见世面 没见过黑人一样😂什么年代了 都是戏，邻居才没那闲工夫搭理他们家 来了谁呢😂
I can't believe how beautiful and humble she is. That Chinese guy is so overly lucky and blessed
Yay, ice is broken, at least Ziheng stands firm, only the father is worried about the neighbours' talk. Slowly, the tide is turning and warmth is imminent!! Stay cool guys, Ziheng's mum is giving great morale support!!!❤❤❤💪💪
Ziheng is a good guy. A Chinese with the value of Filial Piety. He has been well brought up by his parents. I like the way he handled his dad. Erica herself is a gem of a girl. Both of them are made for one another. It will turn out alright in the long run.
艾瑞卡好美好漂亮，儀態也很好很乖巧阿！這麼完美的媳婦要珍惜！真的很美呢！😊
來者是客，以禮相待即可!
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！
上面这位张姓的朋友，我非常同意您的观点，一直没找到合适的词
@@AA-mj7uc 中国不需要黑色的！他们的小孩将会受到歧视！社会成本不断增加！
共三小@@MsBoliu
YOUR MOTHER IS SO KIND AND OPEN. SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL SOUL.
It's hard for her too, just like it's hard for your dad to accept her... Wow you are brave person and respect for trying.
I can see pain on her face, I when she said 'I'm sorry'. 😞... thanks for sharing your video.
😢.
❤❤ 真漂亮！ 帅哥 人都很正直 和坦荡，女孩子也很善良。我们一辈子活一次，快乐 就值得活！ love the Chanel !
Ziheng welcome back to Tanzania 🇹🇿 we will be happy to see your father and mother having the experience of Tanzania with kindness people and non will judge about other people life. I think even his mind Will change and not to care about what other people think of his beautiful family. The day of today for your son to bring a girl at home you have to thank God.
Loved the video. I am a black man married to a filipina and now have been living in the Philippines for 2 years now. Her family has made me feel very welcomed.
His father is so stubborn and holding on to old traditions. Mother on the other hand, is so friendly and warm.
I wish the couple a lot of luck ❤🙌😢
You are a beautiful Queen there are so many who don't understand for they have no peace in their heart. Blessings to you young lady may God give you those who respect and see your shine.
不需要怕別人怎么說，重點是要讓自己開心...別人什么話都能說，好話都不會說只會說壞話及謊話...Poor Erica...很喜歡母親很喜歡Erica 的態度，喜歡Erica 跟自己的女兒一樣!!!❤❤加油!!!❤❤
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
我兒子也剛結婚，他喜歡誰是他的人生。我非常支持。
願您父親能想通。
Awesome 👍
汝懂啥?這叫夷夏之防
Adorable young lady
She seems very kind. Good pick!
Wow! She is gorgeous, beautiful super cute, all in one! Her natural beauty just knocked me out!
Is so sad but I like how you’re comforting her.we Africans welcome people all over the world but is not same with us
Chinese don't massacre and rape black people or bully them in school. The reverse cannot be said.
Erica進門前把鼻環去下來，是有禮貌的，另一方面也希望得到子恒爸爸的認可，這一點很棒！🤗子恒也高EQ跟爸爸溝通讚！故事怎發展...只願皆大歡喜！😺
按照欧美媒体的尿性 这种涉及种族主义的 在视频推荐算法里应该是很优先的。看浏览和评论就知道了。但是这种东西很难把握，拍这类视频简直是在走钢丝，如果走过去可能是获得一堆掌声，没走过去就摔死了。。。
Ziheng should come clean on his intentions with erica. The dad is as confused as we are. Does ziheng sincerely want to marry erica or its just for making an interesting videos for views and more money???
不应该沟通时拍视频。他老爸觉得这不是沟通，心情会不好。
His Dad is wasted his time, bothering himself with what people say and he is more concerned with it. He has a a very liberal intelligent son, Ziheng is so admirable not to give in, but respect his father’s feeling towards this issue for now. I get emotional seeing Erica so sad even putting herself to be blamed, as the cause of the argument. Poor Ziheng, his plans to give Erica a great time in China ended with heartbreak. He is so hurt to see Erica in her pitiful state, trying his very best to make her change her mind. Erica in her own sensible character, knows she is doing the right thing
Erica made the right decision to just leave them in peace and be a family for the remaining days of his holidaying, his Dad must be very delighted, he can be with son for a while
看戲的傻，看看就好，沒演沒流量
She is very pretty and smart, very mellow
Erica is such a beautiful soul!
Erica, we love you .❤❤❤❤❤❤iam sorry for whatever you are going through right now in china, 😢😢😢😢😢😢
當一位旁觀者很容易客觀看一件事最讓人佩服的是子恆媽媽不能去怪爸爸。顏色沒有對錯只要彼此情投意合就給予祝福兒孫自有兒孫福祝安康
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
ERICA have good EQ. You can decide it is worth or not. You are intelligent beautiful and mature. You deserve the best.😇
As a father myself , I rather see my kids happy then worry about someone opinions .. I can care less , as long my kids are happy , I’m happy !!
Normal reaction from the father , but he will change . Be brave adorable couple .
dam Ziheng, I thought you came from a very rich family. I'm honestly glad you're a common person like most of us around the world. Erica is gorgeous as always and she still have family values. It was nice of her to offer your mom help with washing the dish. Ziheng is "da man", he didn't blame his dad/mom. He didn't Erica. He blamed himself.
Thank goodness for mom, she’s adorable and kindhearted. Dad needs to chill out and stop worrying about what neighbors think! He didn’t even confirm if it’s girlfriend ‘yet’ 😊! Dad’s ignorance could cost him not seeing his son, that’s crazy. One Love y’all!🙏🏽
Yea, I hope while he has some time to think he'll have a change of heart. So much of what we do as humans is so selfish.... When you really think about it.
Sometimes people need time to adjust and change. It's not easy for everybody
It’s just an excuse for him. He’s ashamed tht shes black!
She’s so beautiful and a sweet girl how can dad not like her just because her skin color?
We have to paint her a new
Your mum is a very lovely woman ❤God bless her for you. You have a beautiful and a good woman with a good heart as a mother. My brother follow your heart ❤️
Going back to this and seeing you guy planning to get married am so happy dad and family are now accepting God bless them
Erica and Ziheng, you are not the problem. Hopefully open and honest communication with kindness will eventually change Ziheng’s Father’s feelings towards Erica or anyone that is not Chinese. Ziheng’s mom is very kind and received Erica well. The heart chooses love.
I'm so sorry for you Erika. I can feel your pain. Jis parents all the time figthing about you. I was in tears, when you say ,i want to go back in Tanzania. Be strong Erika. Quem ama sofre. I ❤ u.
They are beautiful couple. Stick together and fight it through! Love conquers all
شاب لديه شخصية قوية .و الام ذكية تساعد ابنها و الاب يفكر بكلام الناس عليهم و كانه من مجتمع عربي !!!!!
Diverse but but love unites. Love must not have boundaries. He is a true man. 👍
Wow she’s stunning and her voice’s so sweet…hope all is okay. She’s very brave to get herself into that. Take good care of her!
Zihang, you are managing a very difficult situation well. One can see your pain. Hang in there...❤
艾瑞卡很貼心很溫柔，希望爸爸可以接納她
他是去非洲志愿和亲！就应该留在那里不要再回来！中国古代就有和亲！现在是志愿的！😮😢😢
思想不要停在封閉的古代。要進化自己才會快樂
@@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！
@@MsBoliu 結婚不是為了別人，思想封建會活的很辛苦
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！不要污染中国人口
I really wish we get to a world where people cant stop hating\judging people because of their skin color. People are passing up moments to meet new people or even learning about different culture..
Agreed.
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@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
To my sister
We are enough, more than enough. Don't let anyone make you feel less than. Sending love and blessings 🇬🇧🇯🇲
The mum is so sweet and accommodating.
子恒希望你身体健康，幸福安康，事业会越来越好，人员也会越来越来越好。加油加油哦
Your father needs to understand how we treat you in Africa. We love you as we love ourselves in Africa and we expect that same love when we we visit you. But i think its not his fault , its the society that speaks bad . I love your mother. And i pray that your father will understand that Blacks are people too.
Haha, its not about the Black people. I think it is a cultural shock. Maybe this is Ziheng's dad first impression about his son's girlfriend in question.
All kinds of different Chinese also exists,not everyone the same, population too huge
But they don’t treat him that well in Africa. People in Africa try to make Chinese people pay high prices for things and some times trouble him to make him pay. I think Chinese people are much friendlier to Africans.
The overreaction from ziheng's dad makes me believe the story is made up.
@@DZ-bz1ww Ziheng is a brilliant guy, he knows how to manipulate the viewers, I believe this is another episode of the made-up.
I'm American, I love seeing this. It is beautiful. Don't worry what people say, you be blessed. Stay strong and care for and love each other.
My heart is breaking for Erica and Ziheng. I hope they can both find happiness, love and acceptance.
Ziheng got his good looks from his father . They are both very handsome 😊😁
Umm. They average looking barely
爸爸為什麼只在意別人的說法，不在意兒子的想法。我快60歲了，反倒是覺得你老爸交的都是老古板的朋友，中國文化是勸和不勸離。人家女生又沒有做錯什麼事。媽媽很棒，
活在国内以不在意别人的说法吗？没有发生在自己身上是感受不到的。我相信百分之九十的父母都不想自己帅气的儿子找一个黑人，不管长的多漂亮。如果你有儿子你希望自己以后抱着一个黑呼呼的孙子吗。
你让他换个肤色试试。😂 歧视她黑人呗！ 如果是印度裔 估计也没那么重要 如果是俄罗斯乌克兰 估计开心死了😂。
确实是大实话 @@余安迪-w3t
风凉说话，人人会、针刺到别人，又不是你…谁管？谁痛？
In the end result, the happiness of the son should be more important to his father than the approval of his neighbours, but this takes time to fully understand
女主人，善良而有礼貌的母亲像一个真正的中国人一样热情地欢迎和对待来自坦桑尼亚的艾丽卡。 父亲粗鲁、不友善、举止不符合中国人的方式； 不像一个人。 艾丽卡（Erica）是一位来自坦桑尼亚的美女。 欢迎来到中国！
You have kind thoughts and a good ❤ heart
@@ScriptInque that’s so true😊
@Miball520 人活在世界上不是为了自己一个人！周围的人大多数都不同意！中国人口不需要黑的颜色！去看看欧洲现在还有美国黑的颜色种族矛盾的开始！还有他们的下一代！矛盾会越来越多永不安宁！社会成本会增加！
喜欢艾瑞卡🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉支持！
媳婦長的不錯啊，
This girl is beautiful, kind hearted and from an amazing family❤What more do people want?! Damn! I hope she finds who values her traits and loves her whole heartedly 😢
I'm cheering for you. It will be ok. Sometimes people just need a moment. Erica you are so sweet. Don't be sad.
Son will make sure that the father accepts it. That's how Asian parents are. Girl you don't have to think too much about what his father thinks, everything is fair in love. You two should live up your life the way you want.
我最受不了的就是在乎鄰居誰如何如何....真想問句:為誰而活?你受難時鄰居會幫忙嗎?你發達時...鄰居真心祝福嗎? ( 為自己而活!家人開心最重要)!!!
对 我觉得你说的非常有道理