I wonder if my dad remembers I'm his little baby girl from all those years ago. It hurts when I wonder if I'm a charity award, like the song says, or if I'm his daughter to him.
my dad left me for drugs to become homeless and be in and out of jail I haven't talked to him in 8 years and the last time I heard him was when he called my mom screaming about her new boyfriend he dosen't even know I have a brother
I really respect and admire Demi for creating such an emotional and personal song that many children of abusive and neglectful parents can relate and heal to, including me. My mother is an abusive narcissist. My dad abandoned me when I was 11. These lyrics really speak deep in me. Thank you, Demi, ever so much.
I grew up the same way. My dad left when I was around 13 though. I may not know you but I understand that pain and you aren't alone. Big hugs XX It changes you growing up like that. It makes all those moments other children had seem so far out of reach. When you talk to partners and friends they don't really understand what you went through
I'm currently going through a rough time. my grandma died when I was 10 and my dad and his roommate are mentally abusive and I had a argument with my mom that broke our bond, so seeing your comment while listening to the song made me start crying. it's good to know I'm not alone. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but just know there are hundreds if not thousands of people who understand your pain and are there for you.😢😭🤗
@@Frookipop no, no one deserves any pain. You are worth the world to someone, even though you dont feel it. Both of my younger brothers were mistakes but, my parents learned to love them slowly but surley. Ok? You or no one deserves any pain.
"put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved". It hurts. The traumatic memories of my abusive narcissist mother abusing me.. These lyrics really speak to me. Thank you, Demi for creating such a personal song.
You instantly cry when you've experienced the meaning of the song. I was 4 years old, My Father and Mom weren't married, My Father cheated on my Mom and when they were on court on who would take custody over me, My Father told the court that I wasn't his daughter and refused to take me so My Mom got custody of me. He also married his side chick and they adopted a child together because the woman was infertile. I was 9 when my Father came back when he and his side chick divorced, The happiness lasted for 1 year then he showed his true colors, he drank every night and would always curse me and my mom... He pushed me to depression, I took pills to end my life and instead of comforting me and helping me... He just called me a disappointment and continued to curse at me and threaten me, There was a moment when he tried to punch me if it weren't for my Mom shielding me, I would've been hit. Still waiting for the moment that my Mom will realize that my Father just pushed me to a worst scenario. I'm even more scared to come out to my Father as Bisexual because he would always tell me that he will kill me if I were to have a relationship with a girl.
Please reach out to someone When your old enough go live somewhere else, and dont let your abusive dad tell you how to live your life when he can barely control his (Sorry was that too much?😬😶) you'll get through this God has plans for all of our futures I wish you the best🙏🏼💖
"please father put the bottle down for the love of a daughter, don't you remember I'm your baby girl", this is exactly how it feels to have an alcoholic father but you still love him no matter what and you can't let him go
My father was an alcoholic too but mostly tried to kill me and my mom, At some point we managed to escape. After the divorce he didn't even try to fight to see me. So now I'm looking for Him now And i wants to show him my love for him By stabing it in the lung Just as he once taught me this on me...
Awwww I’m so sorryyyyy I’m literally crying right now... I miss my father since he died but we do have family problems from my fathers side my moms side are very not like that like they love everyone
Ppl are talking about “don’t you remember I’m your baby girl” but the line that hits me that hardest is “well I can be manipulated, only so many times before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” idk it just kinda speaks to me and reminds me of stuff I’ve been through
Same tbh, it feels so hollow, lonely and depressive to realise that hearing "I love you" or "you're our daughter" from your parents doesn't mean anything anymore, because it's just a comma between arguing and yelling at you for smallest of things. You can say I'm overdramatic cuz I'm a late teenager and it's just my edgy phase, but seriosuly, when you hear that and you don't feel the same warmth as you used to when you were a child, you start feeling desperate to have it back. For me it's like the never-to-happen urge to watch a movie for the first time once again because when you watched it for the first time you were too young to be hit by all the feelings that you later notice should be there, and you just want to know what it would feel like to understand it from the very beggining
@@xiesie_xiesie literally like I don’t know by biological parents and I don’t know what went through beyond what I’ve been told but the woman who had me has only ever sent me one letter and my “father” has sent me none it’s like I was just a page of their life that they never wanted
Damn, this really shows how a child will always try to love their dad or mom no matter what, unconditional love is the love family is suposed to represent.
I agree 💯 bcoz I can never give up on my parents even after many heartbreaking situation.. but I wish the parents realise how much they hurt their child by their actions.. Mentally snd physically.. 💔
I only wish my mom would understand what it's like to be the child, trying her best to ignore the war going on outside her door. Left playing video games, petting the cat and trying to pretend you love your life
I'm 13 now, i remember 7 year old me crying my eyes out to this song sitting under my desk bc my dad was always drunk arguing with my mom. When they got divorced he'd constantly vent to me and made me feel as if it's my fault. I realize I didn't miss the alcoholic him, I missed the Interactive dad side of him I rarely saw. I'm so sorry to everyone who can relate as well, stay strong ml
The fact that I relate to all of this is actually really depressing... “I can be manipulated only so many times, before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” ... That hit me really hard
I can also relate to this because my dad left 7 months before I was susposed to be born and I was so envious that my siblings were able to stay with him for 5-10 years.I also wish you a happy life 😄
My father left when I was 11 or 12 on Christmas. Everytime me and my sister and brother go visit him he is always talking bad about our mom and step dad. I'm 21 and I still suffer from depression because of everything he has done but I'm trying to move on.
Same, i had an abusive father i usally took the hit for my siblings and now im blind in one eye and i have scars all over my face and im fucking nine he did that when i was five
My bio dad left be for i was born. Then cam back to my mum when i was 2. On Christmas he proposed to my mum,at the time she was like 21. She said she was not ready to marry anyone yet. So he left us.and started another family. I did not have a father figher in my life till i was 5. Im now 12 close to being 13. Have a nice life with my mum,dad and 3 sisters. Till this day i wonder what it wold have been like if i was nit born.
My dad stopped drinking for me. He left a horrible women and his drinking problem to raise me and care for me. I feel so lucky... I refuse to forget this song.
When that one sentence hits you: angry crying Demi Lovato is so dope. I can't stop watching this track again and again. I am sure she will be #1 soon due to a u t h e n t I c v i e w s
yet it's relatable and healing to people like me who have abusive and neglectful parents to see someone in the spotlight touch our souls through her own pain that actually is relatable to many of us, sadly.
@@bwingbwinggwiyomi Then why do people keep tearing Demi down? I find it funny how Demi nearly died from that overdose, Thank God she made it out, went through rehab because addiction is really hard to fight and just when it seems like Demi is finding herself again people go back to trashing her. Why? I don't understand. What are we doing as a human species?
“Don’t you remember I’m you’re baby girl” That hit me hard....I don’t have an abusive family and I’m lucky because I feel very bad for the people that do
My dad started hitting me when I was 6. He kept on until I was 11 then hit me with a belt from head to toe. After that it started going down hill. It got to a point where he shattered myself esteem and told me that I was a nobody. He was abusive verbally physically and emotionally. Still is just less on the physical part. I'm still living with him though cause in African culture there's no such thing as moving out unless u get married.
If you have a good job, move out. If you can’t move out, try to keep a distance. Keep busy, don’t say it things that would upset him. Protect your self girl! Study, find a job, learn, save money. You will not be there for too long
Me too. I was so strong because even after a big fight at home I used to fake my smile at school. But my father became sober. I thought everything is alright now and I didn't need to fake smile anymore. Now he's at it again and I have to do it all over again..
@@anuabraham8359 Don't worry, no condition is permanent. You Don't need to fake a smile, just talk to someone who you trust. You will get through this. I believe in you
Everybody is sharing their story here. So here I am. I still remember when I was a toddler, my mother and bio father would fight a lot. I would go to bed to screaming and crying. My mother always worked a lot to put food on the table while my father spent it all on alcohol. One day, my parents had a fight of who was picking me up from preschool, and my bio dad hit my mom. I remember, she was laying in the snow, while I was kneeling by her. Now he's wondering why I don't want to call him. My step dad asked me if I ever want to see him. And I said no, because I can't look at a person the same that caused my family pain. Please if anything like this is happening to you. Tell somebody, this is very serious and if you're dealing with abuse. Tell a teacher or any other adult ♡
This is why Demi is my inspiration. She is so honest and pure. She literally pours out her sincere emotions in her songs. I could really imagine what a four year old felt. I know she has an amazing dad(step), but deep down, she really missed her father. I write poetry to express my feelings just like demi writes songs.. If any of you read this comment, please pray so that i can become an established poet and pour out honest emotions just like lovato does.
For anyone going through anything, just know someone will always love you. Someone will always need you, you are strong. Keep fighting! Afterall, you are human. Heal Unity Mighty Awesome iNtelligent
"So Young When The Pain Had Begun... Now Forever Afraid Of Being Alone.." (I Always Use To Hear It As Forever Afraid Of Being Loved So Now I Hear It Both Ways 😍)
This is my story scroll past if you want: I lived with my mom, dad, and brother in a little house. My family was always at war with each other. My mom and dad were always yelling at each other. He always needed money. He stayed in the basement and rarely was seen. Everytime he came inside they would always fight. My grandfather was my father figure. I looked up to him. He was kind, and caring. He was my role model. We moved to a different house. The fighting never stopped I was 7. My father always had strangers around the house when my mom was at work. The cops came around a lot and I didn't understand why. I'll never forget the night I thought that my dad was going to hit my mom. He was angry. She was telling him to leave. He threw her phone. I screamed at him to stop through my tears. The was arrested many times. He was a drug addict and a alcoholic. He skipped all of his court dates and is currently a fugitive. My mom filed for full custody over me. Court came around and he never showed. I felt abandoned. I was never expecting him to show up but I didnt realize how much it would hurt.Was I not a good enough daughter for him? I havent seen him in over 2 years. My grandfather, my father figure, died last May. I went through the loss of our house. I've been diagnosed with 3 different anxiety disorders and depression. I self harm. I struggle with my body image and am currently fight anorexia. For anyone out there who feels like they are worthless. Just know YOU ARE NEEDED IN THIS WORLD. YOU MATTER. Dont let anyone tell you any different. I love❤❤ Stay strong. Keep fighting it will get better.
listen the thing is probably around 1 in 3 people suffer from no father or a father with addictions or issues and remember we are all here for you to talk to
Y'all in the comments. Never forget that you are loved. You are already the person you've been searching for. You are already enough, no matter what your dad did to you. It's not your fault for having a idiot for dad. I have the same situation and I'm here for every single one of you. Take care.
The fact my only father figure/ ‘dad’ betrayed me by SA me. I hate myself for missing what my ‘dad’ use to be before what he did. I miss having a dad who would tell me that no boy could determine my worth, who would pick me up from school when it got too overwhelming. I miss that person. Now the only male I ever trusted, carved out my heart. I miss my ‘dad’ until he become a monster.
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl? How could you push me out of your world? Lie to your flesh and your blood? Put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved?”
Hey this is Ashley Shes 12 years old Her dad left at 6 Her dad was a alcoholic Ashley is hopeless She knows she doesnt have a point in life Ashley decided to end it in her birthday June 28 Ashley knew her mom and brother would be sad if she did tho Ashley has battled through deppresion,anxiety,D.I.D,fake friends, people not accepting her for being aesexual,her dad leaving,and eating disorders, Ashley went through all this and to this day still is Ty
This is my story of me and my father. At a young age I'll always got into a fight that I didn't start but Everytime I went home my father will hurt me physically and emotionally and my mother and my siblings didn't help me. When my sister accidentally broke the mug with hot water and I got burn with it Im expecting that my father will get mad to my sister but it didn't happen I'm one that got scolded and hit again. When my father is telling a joke to my siblings they will Laugh but when my father telling a joke to me it make me cry and I got hurt emotionally and mentally. Growing up I'm expecting that the people around me will help me up but there the one who pushed me down. I thought I found a bestfriend that I can Lean on but she's the reason why I lost my self confidence. I experienced a lot of horrible things in my life but no one believes in me. I got anxiety and depressions bcoz of what I experienced.
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter..." A year and a month ago I didn't even realize that these lyrics related to me. My dad used to drink on a daily basis. He wasn't abusive or anything but he used to say stuff he didn't mean to, to me and my brothers. I used to even be kind of scared to stay home with him and every chance I got I would go with my mom somewhere just to get away from home. We used to complain to our mom begging her to tell him to stop drinking. They used to always fight about my dad's drinking and one day they had a fight in the car(my brothers and I weren't with them) where our mom told him that either he stops drinking or she divorces him. He stopped drinking and one day he was going to visit our neighbor alone and he fainted in front of our house without us knowing. Thankfully someone was driving and saw him laying on the ground and knocked on our door. My mom went outside and called the ambulance while I of course stayed inside and started crying cuz I was afraid of losing him and later my mom comforted me, telling me everything will be okay. He was in the hospital for about 2 weeks. Last month was his one year anniversary, now he is doing great and has stopped drinking and he is the dad and husband me and my mom always wanted. If you read this to the end I just wanted to say thank you for listening to my story and I hope you're doing great. ❤
That is so sad never give up I'm here for you ok just reply anytime😌 thanks for sharing I know how you are my parents are divorced and I'm sad I see my dad 2 days a week but...I don't know where I belong
I managed to get my dad to stop “smoking” but he does it secretly and he doesn’t know I know... I’ve been telling him ever since I was 2 and I’m now 14.. he still drinks and he drinks more than he used to- do you guys have advice on how to stop him?
I don't have a father like this but reading these comments. Made me realize some people do and its hard for them. I cant stop crying though because the meaning of this strong. Everytime i listen to it.
Midnight Gaming if u don’t have a father like this don’t feel sorry for us. We have to deal with it stop crying it’s not u. U have a father that’s there....
3:16 you hear that? That's the pain she's feeling So please Don't ask for likes Don't ask for replys Ask her if she's okay And if she's not Comfort her and numb all the pain
here in 2024 after a lot of healing, my father was an addict and i remember when me and my sister were about 9 and 10 yrs old we sang this song to him as like a karaoke performance lol and after that he decided to get sober and he’s really stepped up and become the man that i never imagined he could be. i really have no words to describe how proud i am and lucky to have the opportunity to mend my relationship with him. it’s just crazy to look back and see how far we’ve come. idk just felt like sharing coz i haven’t heard this since then and it just brought up a lot of feelings lol.
April Rivera ok so I know that this comment has nothing to do with what you said but are you relatives with Naya Rivera or do you just have the same last name as her
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl?” “How could you push me out of your world?” “Lie to your flesh and your blood?” “So young when the pain begun, now forever afraid of being alone” These hit so hard-.. 🥺😭
I see all these comments saying they showed this to their father and their father changed... I could only wish to be able to show this to my father, but he won't give me the time of day.
I'm so sorry it will get better I promise it might take a long time but it will get better it's when u turn 18 that is when it makes or breaks the "relationship" I'm sorry u have to go through it I know it's hard just hold on as tight as u can I know it seems worthless right now but it actually might change the result
Day Dream same... mine would beat me and my mom cuz the voises in his head told him to. he left me and my brother on my moms door steps. people ask me were he is so i have to tell them that he is at work. the last time i saw him he called me ugliy and smacked me. for every one who relates know u r stronger then what ur father says!!!!
my dad is an extreme addict to drinking and when is really drunk he gets really violent. Ive been listening to this song since 2018 and i still cry to this song
"Am I your child or just a charity ward?" That line punched me right in the gut. When I lived with my mom she would take the money that my dad paid her when he paid child support, and she would buy alcohol with it.
My parents used the money that was supposed to support me for drugs and alcohol and then abused me and my younger brothers. I tried so hard to save them
"i can be manipulated only so many times before even i love you starts to sound like a lie" hits home my broken home haha gotta love using humour to hide the pain haha..
I used to relate to this song 5 years ago. My dad had a serious drinking problem and did things I wont ever forgive him for. The past years he quit drinking altogether and his relationship with my mother and the rest of my family has gotten better. It was hard waiting for him to change. My heart is with all of you who will relate to this song. One day you'll be happy, may it be with or without him
"Dont you remember I'm your baby girl? how could you throw me right out of your world so young when the pain had begone now forever afraid of being loved" These lines hit me the hardest
“Now forever afraid of being loved” Yeah, and no one even realizes it. I love who i choose to love, because I’ve been forced so many times, and broken too many of those times. Too scared to let myself be loved ever again, because of the pain I’ll feel again when they give up on me when I need them most.
I went through this… I know other people who go through this I’m praying for all and I promise it gets better it’s hard to forgive my father though he’s changed a lot but it still hurts. And on top of it I have a twin sister who hits me almost every day and nobody does anything about it. Everything will get better. Thanks for making the song. I’m praying for anyone Else going through tgis
@@gamer_2255 it’s alright. I made this a year ago. And everything is getting better day by day! Not quickly, but slowly. But throughout a year it’s been so much better! I do appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
This reminds me of my own life, my dad raped my mom and that's how I was born. He left us after he was reported and sent to mexico. My mom raised me all alone and he killed my twin sister when he was abusing my mom. She wasn't even born yet. Now I'm an activist, fighting with passion. I'm glad the school allows me to make speeches at the assemblys. Honestly, I am so happy at the moment
"How could you throw me right out of your world? So young when the pain had begun Now forever afraid of being loved" "Am I your child or just a charity ward?"
When that one sentence hits you: angry crying what a music right here a u t h e n t I c v i e w s dun took Demi Lovato oFf 2 da big leagues and fo dat I will always be super grateful
This song describes my life perfectly I first heard it today and I’m literally crying right now my father has hurt me so many times that I can’t form relationships with people anymore because I’m afraid of what might happen if they get mad at me. I get angry often instead of being sad because I was always taught not to show my emotions. And I know most of you guys don’t care about what I’m saying but I just felt like I had to comment it.
I literally can never listen to this without crying... It hurts much so sing. The memories and the feelings...so much pain. I'm so sorry for anyone who also went through abuse. You don't deserve it and you never did.
The last thing my father said to me and my siblings is that he is getting married and he will finally have kids that love him. We loved our father until he decided that he would rather lie about working and be in a bar drinking, talk bad about our mom, and stalk our family every time he found out where we live.
My dad abandoned me a month befor my 14th birthday... he dient break my heart first but it hurt worse... he told me I was his "baby girl" his " princess" and that he promised he would never leave me but he did and it breaks me everytime I here this song
Honestly reading these comments makes me feel less alone I didn't realize this many ppl have went through almost the exact same thing as me and I just want to say I'm enjoying life now and it's gotten much easier and for all of you who are struggling keep praying and being kind and let karma catch up on the ones who deserve it
When I was 15 my father abandoned my 13 year old brother& I. He got remarried,& had 3 new kids. I remember feeling alone & unwanted… I’m 24 now it still hurts but Ik now that I am lovable & so are all of you!! Iloveyou all Godspeed friends
this is ruby she’s 13 her dad left when she was 7 and chose alcohol over her. she has gone through multiple eating disorders and self harming, has anxiety depression and ptsd and doesn’t know what to do, she’s alone, she has lost all of her friendships and has been left to fight for myself and she’s still fighting.
Hey, it’s been a year..i’m not sure if you’re still here, but I promise that it will get better, you are so strong and i’m proud of you for that, stay safe out there! 💕
Hey daily my Bello I love you you are great Ben of the essence Bailey saying you are great of everything you are in the Great Hall of the standing in you're a father who died Factor your baby girl Demi Lovato
*Don't You Remember? I'm Your Baby Girl!How Could You Push Me Out Of Your World?!Lie To Ur Flesh And Blood! DON'T YOU REMEMBER?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!I'M YOUR BABY GIRL~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HOW COULD U YOU THROW ME RIGHT OUT OF UR WORLD?!?!?!?!???!?!?!?!!!!!Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,I'd Love To Leave You Alone But I Can't Let You Go..Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,Put The Bottle Down For The Love Of A Daughter...I Can Be Manipulated,ONLY SO MANY TIMESSSSSSSSS*
I personally can't relate to this song because I was blessed with wonderful and loving parents, but after reading a few comments it really does make me want to become the best parent I can be for my future kids
Thank you that's all I needed to hear right now my dad treats me like a charity ward he is an alcoholic and hurts my mom I stand up for her but I have to deal with this for a few more years before I can buy my own house and live happy again I can't wait for the future but patience is the key and it hurts to still be with him I did self harm for 4 years and Im on holiday rn so I'm glad he is not here but Ik he will always be with me
Mine doesn't drink either. He's devoted to my mother in an emotional dependant (and very toxic) relationship to the point he started to ignore his 2 daughters when we were teenagers. My mother is an abusive bitch but my father doesn't see it, and instead of protecting us from her, he defends her when she plays victim and push us away saying we're awful people. I used to be a daddy's girl, playing with him, making up stories, having fun, being loved... Now I just feel abandoned even if he's sitting next to me.
My dad was exactly like this when I was a child I never grew up with a father my mom raised me by herself my dad never cared, never bonded or anything with me, he didn’t understand me and my mom was left to cope with me as I was hyper active and etc etc and always ran off or miss behaved and because my dad never understood my ways he bassically left my mom get on with me and raise me alone. When I was 4 the earliest time I can remember I would be lonely and longed for a friend or at least a little sibling to play with because I was always alone and one day my wish came true and my mom got pregnant with my brother, when he was finally born I finally had company and wasn’t alone anymore and didn’t have to fear being an only child anymore when he was born I was 7 and I finally had someone to spend all my time with. My dad and I never bonded or went anywhere when I was young he literally doesn’t even know me now or what I like and I’m his own daughter he didn’t understand the stuff that made me me. I remember my dad used to hit me when I was misbehaving when I was 6 and he used to hit my mom too when she would stand up for me and try and explain that it was the way I am but he would shout and they’d argue and he’d hit her most from what I can remember anyway. When I was 12 my parents got a divorce, we wasn’t all that sad to see him go and to be honest we were glad to see him go as we were all find it hard and then it was just the four of us me, my mom and my 2 younger brothers. Right now my dad’s engaged to his new girlfriend who he’s marrying in 2 years and is gonna have a new family and hasn’t once gave me a second thought so I guess we’ve just kinda ignored and avoided seeing each other I’m 19 now we haven’t seen each other in like a year but I honestly don’t care because we never really had that close bond but I realised growing up that I never needed a father because I have both a mother and a father in my mom. That’s why this song reminds me of my dad because iDemi’s life is similar to mine growing up with a father who never cared I sometimes wonder and question to myself “did he ever love me?” So every time I listen to this song it reminds me of my dad.
My life is a little bit hard but i can understood even if i have a step mother and a Step sister and a step brother its ok for me but i wish one day i wana see them im only 9. Years old some times its hard and some times i cry 😭 but its ok for me when im in school i always get bullied i. Dont want to tell my dady and some times i go to my room and get a knife but i cant kill myself the one day i tell my dad that i get bulied so dont be sad or lonley
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} you made me cry I'm sorry you had to go threw all of that I understand how it feels I at least get to see my dad thank you for showing that I should be glad for the father I have.
Emoji Girl thank you and you’re welcome lots of people are lucky to have a dad who cares about them I wish I’d had that be great full for your dad who cares and loves you 😊
my dad acts like he made me who I was, when he was never here for me , pills were more important than the tiny little girl crying for her father every night wondering where he went , to this day he still never came around , my mother played both mother and father roles , and she is my rock ❤️
I’m 18 now and my mom is exactly like the song. I’m sorry I know it hurts, you’re mom is the person who’s supposed to be there the most for you. Everything gets better as time goes on. When I was younger I was suicidal and I am so happy to be alive today. You’ll be okay, you have the strength within you.
damn I remember when I was younger I always listened to those songs and then I forgot about them but now every song I heard when I was a kid is coming now back, even in year 2022 I will hear this song. The old songs are the best
My dad wasn't an alcoholic but instead of spending his money buying me and my sister clothing, shoes, etc. He bought weed. He loved weed more than he loved us. Instead of providing us the life we should've had he decided to neglect us. He also turned a blind eye to his family that was emotionally, and mentally abusing us.
Demi Lovatos life is so sad. No wonder she takes drugs. I love her no matter what. And if someone is fighting this just like Demi, pleas know that it will be ok. And If he ever sais he loves you and dont know what to say and what to believe just say " How am I to know that your saying the truth?". I love you people!😭❤ (Black or White people!👧🏿👧🏾👧🏽👧🏼👧🏻and Yelow people 👧👦🏿👦🏾👦🏽👦🏼👦🏻👦❤)
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"Don't you remeber I'm your baby girl?" I can't stop crying to this part
@Margaret HudgensIkr
I wonder if my dad remembers I'm his little baby girl from all those years ago. It hurts when I wonder if I'm a charity award, like the song says, or if I'm his daughter to him.
@@shadowkatsukibakugo4891 bruh that's deep
@@samo_glupa_cura7 it's true though. Those thoughts keep me awake at night silently crying.
@@shadowkatsukibakugo4891 Oh…it sucks to hear that
"Don't you remember I'm your babygirl"
Ouch. Hits hard, my Dad left me for Drugs, Alcohol, and a terrible woman 😔
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Ha what are we twins?
Same.. that stings man. I feel bad for you.
That do sad
my dad left me for drugs to become homeless and be in and out of jail I haven't talked to him in 8 years and the last time I heard him was when he called my mom screaming about her new boyfriend
he dosen't even know I have a brother
shoutout to the girls who’s father broke their hearts before any teenage boys ever could
My cheated 3 times then lied also drinks and lies about not bringing any in when we smell and hes always arguing and never there for me
Mine
@@x_callmeamber_x85 my dad wasnt in my life
My dad died when i was one😄😃😄😃
@@lillymarmoljeo223 my brother marty died when he was 1
I really respect and admire Demi for creating such an emotional and personal song that many children of abusive and neglectful parents can relate and heal to, including me. My mother is an abusive narcissist. My dad abandoned me when I was 11.
These lyrics really speak deep in me. Thank you, Demi, ever so much.
My dad is abusive so yeah…
agreed this hits so hard to home with both of my parents being abusive..
I grew up the same way. My dad left when I was around 13 though.
I may not know you but I understand that pain and you aren't alone. Big hugs XX
It changes you growing up like that. It makes all those moments other children had seem so far out of reach. When you talk to partners and friends they don't really understand what you went through
Same just my dad left when I was 2 and he knew what my mom was doing but said it was my fault plus he's a alcoholic so this song hit home 😢
I'm currently going through a rough time. my grandma died when I was 10 and my dad and his roommate are mentally abusive and I had a argument with my mom that broke our bond, so seeing your comment while listening to the song made me start crying. it's good to know I'm not alone. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but just know there are hundreds if not thousands of people who understand your pain and are there for you.😢😭🤗
When that one sentence hits you: *angry crying*
Yup...
@@Frookipop no, no one deserves any pain. You are worth the world to someone, even though you dont feel it. Both of my younger brothers were mistakes but, my parents learned to love them slowly but surley. Ok? You or no one deserves any pain.
Angery
@@imjustchilling4477 The man😅. Really needed that
@@Frookipop anytime..
*”So young when the pain had begun, now forever afraid of being alone”* hit different 🙂💔
😀💔
It does
It really does I have separation anxiety, and insomnia, thx to my mother
It's actually forever afraid of being loved
@@lilymikaelson671 It is-
"put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved". It hurts. The traumatic memories of my abusive narcissist mother abusing me.. These lyrics really speak to me. Thank you, Demi for creating such a personal song.
_Put your hands on the one you swore you loved_
Like that fucking hurt.
Same, at the chorus I always sing: oh mother, please mother, put your hand down for the love of a daughter...
Same all is hear is mother in replace
I HAVE THE SAME KIND OF MOTHER LOL
You tried the song "older" yet? I find this song just as relatable to the video im commenting on!
You instantly cry when you've experienced the meaning of the song. I was 4 years old, My Father and Mom weren't married, My Father cheated on my Mom and when they were on court on who would take custody over me, My Father told the court that I wasn't his daughter and refused to take me so My Mom got custody of me. He also married his side chick and they adopted a child together because the woman was infertile. I was 9 when my Father came back when he and his side chick divorced, The happiness lasted for 1 year then he showed his true colors, he drank every night and would always curse me and my mom... He pushed me to depression, I took pills to end my life and instead of comforting me and helping me... He just called me a disappointment and continued to curse at me and threaten me, There was a moment when he tried to punch me if it weren't for my Mom shielding me, I would've been hit. Still waiting for the moment that my Mom will realize that my Father just pushed me to a worst scenario. I'm even more scared to come out to my Father as Bisexual because he would always tell me that he will kill me if I were to have a relationship with a girl.
I'm sorry.. Keep living for you and your mother, I'm sure your mother will come to her senses and realize what's best for you and here.
Please reach out to someone
When your old enough go live somewhere else, and dont let your abusive dad tell you how to live your life when he can barely control his
(Sorry was that too much?😬😶) you'll get through this God has plans for all of our futures I wish you the best🙏🏼💖
I was scared to tell my dad the same thing
Wow..
I've lived this song except it's "MOTHER PUT THE PILLS DOWN FOR THE LOVE OF A DAUGHTER"
"please father put the bottle down for the love of a daughter, don't you remember I'm your baby girl", this is exactly how it feels to have an alcoholic father but you still love him no matter what and you can't let him go
Exactly,even if he falls off the wagon multiple times,you still love him.
And It hurts more than you want it to...
My father was an alcoholic too but mostly tried to kill me and my mom, At some point we managed to escape. After the divorce he didn't even try to fight to see me. So now I'm looking for Him now And i wants to show him my love for him By stabing it in the lung Just as he once taught me this on me...
I know 😖😖😖. Sending love too everyone with the pain of seeing there fathers go.❤
This is so true thats me and my dad
it sucks that the first and only man that broke my heart was my father.
Awwww I’m so sorryyyyy
I’m literally crying right now...
I miss my father since he died but we do have family problems from my fathers side my moms side are very not like that like they love everyone
@@sozoling4653 im so sorry !
Aw, that is so sad. I'm sorry, and I can relate.
Same...
Same😥
Ppl are talking about “don’t you remember I’m your baby girl” but the line that hits me that hardest is “well I can be manipulated, only so many times before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” idk it just kinda speaks to me and reminds me of stuff I’ve been through
SAMEEE THAT LINE HITS ME MOST 😭😭😭
Same tbh, it feels so hollow, lonely and depressive to realise that hearing "I love you" or "you're our daughter" from your parents doesn't mean anything anymore, because it's just a comma between arguing and yelling at you for smallest of things.
You can say I'm overdramatic cuz I'm a late teenager and it's just my edgy phase, but seriosuly, when you hear that and you don't feel the same warmth as you used to when you were a child, you start feeling desperate to have it back. For me it's like the never-to-happen urge to watch a movie for the first time once again because when you watched it for the first time you were too young to be hit by all the feelings that you later notice should be there, and you just want to know what it would feel like to understand it from the very beggining
@@xiesie_xiesie literally like I don’t know by biological parents and I don’t know what went through beyond what I’ve been told but the woman who had me has only ever sent me one letter and my “father” has sent me none it’s like I was just a page of their life that they never wanted
I cant even describe how this song hits, the lyrics alone just make me cry every time. I'm so sorry for anyone else that had to go through this
Damn, this really shows how a child will always try to love their dad or mom no matter what, unconditional love is the love family is suposed to represent.
yeeeppp
I agree 💯 bcoz I can never give up on my parents even after many heartbreaking situation.. but I wish the parents realise how much they hurt their child by their actions.. Mentally snd physically.. 💔
I only wish my mom would understand what it's like to be the child, trying her best to ignore the war going on outside her door. Left playing video games, petting the cat and trying to pretend you love your life
I had shit done to me by my father at 6 then again at 8 until I called the cops on him...
This song describes my twin brother and me I love him unconditionally❤️❤️
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl how could throw me right out world 💔” that hits in the heart so hard
same i start crying so much when that verse comes
ik TwT
Annie Carlston as soon as I read this that part came on
Same I feel that way
Same it reminds me not only my dad but my mom. My grandma raised me :(
"oh father, please father, I'd love to leave you alone but i can't let you go" has me in tears everytime i listen to this song.
I'm 13 now, i remember 7 year old me crying my eyes out to this song sitting under my desk bc my dad was always drunk arguing with my mom. When they got divorced he'd constantly vent to me and made me feel as if it's my fault. I realize I didn't miss the alcoholic him, I missed the Interactive dad side of him I rarely saw. I'm so sorry to everyone who can relate as well, stay strong ml
Stay strong guys, when I was 13 I thought I wouldn’t make it to 18, I’m 24 in a week and it does get better ❤❤
Girl same thing to and I'm also your age too😢😢
The fact that I relate to all of this is actually really depressing...
“I can be manipulated only so many times, before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” ...
That hit me really hard
I can also relate to this because my dad left 7 months before I was susposed to be born and I was so envious that my siblings were able to stay with him for 5-10 years.I also wish you a happy life 😄
My father left when I was 11 or 12 on Christmas. Everytime me and my sister and brother go visit him he is always talking bad about our mom and step dad. I'm 21 and I still suffer from depression because of everything he has done but I'm trying to move on.
Same
Me too
Same, i had an abusive father i usally took the hit for my siblings and now im blind in one eye and i have scars all over my face and im fucking nine he did that when i was five
Can I get a like from all the girl that went through this
That how my father is too
My bio dad left be for i was born. Then cam back to my mum when i was 2. On Christmas he proposed to my mum,at the time she was like 21. She said she was not ready to marry anyone yet. So he left us.and started another family. I did not have a father figher in my life till i was 5. Im now 12 close to being 13. Have a nice life with my mum,dad and 3 sisters. Till this day i wonder what it wold have been like if i was nit born.
My dad left me when I was a baby literally when I was 1 years old
okay i'm a girl but using another account
I kinda did
My dad stopped drinking for me. He left a horrible women and his drinking problem to raise me and care for me. I feel so lucky... I refuse to forget this song.
I’m so sorry 😕 I hope you guys feel better forever❤
You really are so lucky. I may not know you, but I am so happy for you! ❤
When that one sentence hits you: angry crying
Demi Lovato is so dope. I can't stop watching this track again and again. I am sure she will be #1 soon due to a u t h e n t I c v i e w s
me with daddy issues: crying
dad walks by :
also me : starts to freak out
are you okay? :(
X_seemeinacrown_X yes thank you for asking
Omg I can relate so much
ok
@Billie Jenkins omg im so sorry about that
"put the bottle down for the love of a daughter"😳😭 she know just how to touch my heart.
Yeah i can feel it
This is something that actually happen to her whenever she was little and she decided to write a song about it.
I cry😭
Me too 😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
😭😞😞
I'm gonna say forever that this song is the best by Demi Lovato. It's so well done and so emotional.
2023 and still hitting me 😭
this song helps me cry myself to sleep
You can actually feel the pain in her voice it’s so sad
yet it's relatable and healing to people like me who have abusive and neglectful parents to see someone in the spotlight touch our souls through her own pain that actually is relatable to many of us, sadly.
Ik it's sad
@@bwingbwinggwiyomi Then why do people keep tearing Demi down? I find it funny how Demi nearly died from that overdose, Thank God she made it out, went through rehab because addiction is really hard to fight and just when it seems like Demi is finding herself again people go back to trashing her. Why? I don't understand. What are we doing as a human species?
Ikr
I can sing very well with my voice i made
It hurt so much i sang to my entire family and my only friend i lost!
“Don’t you remember I’m you’re baby girl” That hit me hard....I don’t have an abusive family and I’m lucky because I feel very bad for the people that do
Clouds Sky I’m always there if you need someone to talk to
@@heyasimp5321 that's so sadddd I'll be your online best friend because you deserve a friend
AB Gacha That would mean a lot to me tbh
Gacha Skies Thank you a lot..
Clouds Sky Of course😊
My dad started hitting me when I was 6. He kept on until I was 11 then hit me with a belt from head to toe. After that it started going down hill. It got to a point where he shattered myself esteem and told me that I was a nobody. He was abusive verbally physically and emotionally. Still is just less on the physical part. I'm still living with him though cause in African culture there's no such thing as moving out unless u get married.
I hope you are okay🥺❤️, love you.
Thanks I love u too.
Hopefully things will get better
Although no offense I think that's bullshit given the situation
All children Deserve a parent but not all parents Deserves a child.😢 I really hope you are okay.❤❤❤
If you have a good job, move out. If you can’t move out, try to keep a distance. Keep busy, don’t say it things that would upset him. Protect your self girl! Study, find a job, learn, save money. You will not be there for too long
I just realised how many times I've been faking my smile .😭
Same
I do it every time I'm sadq
you will be alright. NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT. Have faith...i promise
Me too. I was so strong because even after a big fight at home I used to fake my smile at school. But my father became sober. I thought everything is alright now and I didn't need to fake smile anymore. Now he's at it again and I have to do it all over again..
@@anuabraham8359 Don't worry, no condition is permanent. You Don't need to fake a smile, just talk to someone who you trust. You will get through this. I believe in you
“oh father, please father, put the bottle down for the love of a daughter” hit harddddd
Same
Me too☹️
Yep
Hi my name is Ella to
Same legit all the words hurt me
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter..." we all have that one memory that will be in all our nightmares...
Yea i have low PTSD
Yeah..*i have been betraid..sometimes..😔*
I can relate
Ya
Mine more like put the phone down for a love pd a daughter
Everybody is sharing their story here. So here I am. I still remember when I was a toddler, my mother and bio father would fight a lot. I would go to bed to screaming and crying. My mother always worked a lot to put food on the table while my father spent it all on alcohol. One day, my parents had a fight of who was picking me up from preschool, and my bio dad hit my mom. I remember, she was laying in the snow, while I was kneeling by her. Now he's wondering why I don't want to call him. My step dad asked me if I ever want to see him. And I said no, because I can't look at a person the same that caused my family pain.
Please if anything like this is happening to you. Tell somebody, this is very serious and if you're dealing with abuse. Tell a teacher or any other adult ♡
listening to this on repeat on father’s day:)
@Benardisheadelf it’s not Father’s Day yet though🤨
I will be doing the same! ❤
This is why Demi is my inspiration. She is so honest and pure. She literally pours out her sincere emotions in her songs. I could really imagine what a four year old felt. I know she has an amazing dad(step), but deep down, she really missed her father. I write poetry to express my feelings just like demi writes songs..
If any of you read this comment, please pray so that i can become an established poet and pour out honest emotions just like lovato does.
I hope that your prayers come true of being a great poet.
Praying for ur dream to happen! Would love to hear one if u like to share!!
U got this!❤️🙏
ok i try praying but i just dont have time but ill try
I will i write and i give out my feelings really well and how I feel about them as well
3:32 s “father” hits different the way her voice transitions as a crack is wild and I feel like it shows the pain
For anyone going through anything, just know someone will always love you. Someone will always need you, you are strong. Keep fighting!
Afterall, you are human.
Heal
Unity
Mighty
Awesome
iNtelligent
Thank you so much. ❤
"So Young When The Pain Had Begun...
Now Forever Afraid Of Being Alone.."
(I Always Use To Hear It As Forever Afraid Of Being Loved So Now I Hear It Both
Ways 😍)
This is my story scroll past if you want:
I lived with my mom, dad, and brother in a little house. My family was always at war with each other. My mom and dad were always yelling at each other. He always needed money. He stayed in the basement and rarely was seen. Everytime he came inside they would always fight. My grandfather was my father figure. I looked up to him. He was kind, and caring. He was my role model. We moved to a different house. The fighting never stopped I was 7. My father always had strangers around the house when my mom was at work. The cops came around a lot and I didn't understand why. I'll never forget the night I thought that my dad was going to hit my mom. He was angry. She was telling him to leave. He threw her phone. I screamed at him to stop through my tears. The was arrested many times. He was a drug addict and a alcoholic. He skipped all of his court dates and is currently a fugitive. My mom filed for full custody over me. Court came around and he never showed. I felt abandoned. I was never expecting him to show up but I didnt realize how much it would hurt.Was I not a good enough daughter for him? I havent seen him in over 2 years. My grandfather, my father figure, died last May. I went through the loss of our house. I've been diagnosed with 3 different anxiety disorders and depression. I self harm. I struggle with my body image and am currently fight anorexia.
For anyone out there who feels like they are worthless. Just know YOU ARE NEEDED IN THIS WORLD. YOU MATTER. Dont let anyone tell you any different. I love❤❤ Stay strong. Keep fighting it will get better.
@@zeynepozsurekcigil7696 I'm fine I've gotten out of it I suffer with depression and anxiety but I'm fighting it Thank you for caring though
Don’t worry I’m here my discord name is: FNAFfan 123 and my number is:
#7126
@Megan Loxton thank you
@@Scrambledomlet thank you
listen the thing is probably around 1 in 3 people suffer from no father or a father with addictions or issues and remember we are all here for you to talk to
Y'all in the comments. Never forget that you are loved. You are already the person you've been searching for. You are already enough, no matter what your dad did to you. It's not your fault for having a idiot for dad. I have the same situation and I'm here for every single one of you. Take care.
thank you ✌️
@Moon Riddle I'm sorry that's A BIG OOOOF
Thank you 😭
Min_yoongi_lover_and Mark_lee_lover you’re welcome
Min_yoongi_lover_and Mark_lee_lover hi army, I hope your doing ok😭
8 years later and I still cry to this song
The fact my only father figure/ ‘dad’ betrayed me by SA me. I hate myself for missing what my ‘dad’ use to be before what he did. I miss having a dad who would tell me that no boy could determine my worth, who would pick me up from school when it got too overwhelming. I miss that person.
Now the only male I ever trusted, carved out my heart. I miss my ‘dad’ until he become a monster.
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl?
How could you push me out of your world?
Lie to your flesh and your blood?
Put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved?”
💔
My dad did the same thing saying he’s gonna kill me 😔😔go check out my sad life story on Official_Werewolf/crazy lunatic kinda wolf
Im cryin bc of that line even tho i dont relate
💔
I read this at the exact time it was in the song
Hey this is Ashley
Shes 12 years old
Her dad left at 6
Her dad was a alcoholic
Ashley is hopeless
She knows she doesnt have a point in life
Ashley decided to end it in her birthday June 28
Ashley knew her mom and brother would be sad if she did tho
Ashley has battled through deppresion,anxiety,D.I.D,fake friends, people not accepting her for being aesexual,her dad leaving,and eating disorders, Ashley went through all this and to this day still is
Ty
I feel so sorry for her...
Well this Ashley that you are talking about is one of the strongest people on this earth.
Awwwwww I SUPORTE LGBTQ STANDS FOR LESBIN,GAY,BISEXUAL,TRANSGENDER.I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT THE Q STANDS FOR IM STRAIGHT BUT I SUPPORT STAY STRONG.
Ashley reminds me of myself
@Riley Strohm I live with my mum
This is my story of me and my father.
At a young age I'll always got into a fight that I didn't start but Everytime I went home my father will hurt me physically and emotionally and my mother and my siblings didn't help me. When my sister accidentally broke the mug with hot water and I got burn with it Im expecting that my father will get mad to my sister but it didn't happen I'm one that got scolded and hit again. When my father is telling a joke to my siblings they will Laugh but when my father telling a joke to me it make me cry and I got hurt emotionally and mentally. Growing up I'm expecting that the people around me will help me up but there the one who pushed me down. I thought I found a bestfriend that I can Lean on but she's the reason why I lost my self confidence. I experienced a lot of horrible things in my life but no one believes in me. I got anxiety and depressions bcoz of what I experienced.
you can hear the pain in their voice, the way they gulped multiple times clearly holding back tears.
It's feels like she is singing my story💔
Same.
Ikr my dad left before I was born
Aww that's sad😭🥺
Same here :/
@Savoca Criddle with me both parents
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter..."
A year and a month ago I didn't even realize that these lyrics related to me.
My dad used to drink on a daily basis. He wasn't abusive or anything but he used to say stuff he didn't mean to, to me and my brothers. I used to even be kind of scared to stay home with him and every chance I got I would go with my mom somewhere just to get away from home. We used to complain to our mom begging her to tell him to stop drinking. They used to always fight about my dad's drinking and one day they had a fight in the car(my brothers and I weren't with them) where our mom told him that either he stops drinking or she divorces him. He stopped drinking and one day he was going to visit our neighbor alone and he fainted in front of our house without us knowing. Thankfully someone was driving and saw him laying on the ground and knocked on our door. My mom went outside and called the ambulance while I of course stayed inside and started crying cuz I was afraid of losing him and later my mom comforted me, telling me everything will be okay. He was in the hospital for about 2 weeks. Last month was his one year anniversary, now he is doing great and has stopped drinking and he is the dad and husband me and my mom always wanted.
If you read this to the end I just wanted to say thank you for listening to my story and I hope you're doing great. ❤
That is so sad never give up I'm here for you ok just reply anytime😌 thanks for sharing I know how you are my parents are divorced and I'm sad I see my dad 2 days a week but...I don't know where I belong
@@jadecofey7936 Thank you so much!😊
And I'm so sorry to hear about that😔
This is exactly like my life... I am so happy that I am not the only one that this relates to...
I managed to get my dad to stop “smoking” but he does it secretly and he doesn’t know I know... I’ve been telling him ever since I was 2 and I’m now 14.. he still drinks and he drinks more than he used to- do you guys have advice on how to stop him?
@@axellion6940 I'm really sorry to hear that but does anyone else know he's still smoking asside from you?
if you have ever gone through this situation. i am actually genuinely so sorry. and i hope you heal from that.
Thank you. ❤
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter," My most relatable part
I don't have a father like this but reading these comments. Made me realize some people do and its hard for them. I cant stop crying though because the meaning of this strong. Everytime i listen to it.
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Midnight Gaming if u don’t have a father like this don’t feel sorry for us. We have to deal with it stop crying it’s not u. U have a father that’s there....
Midnight Gaming i have a dad that does drugs and im 9
Midnight Gaming :( sad
Midnight Gaming i havent seen my dad since i was 2 and im 11 now
3:16 you hear that?
That's the pain she's feeling
So please
Don't ask for likes
Don't ask for replys
Ask her if she's okay
And if she's not
Comfort her and numb all the pain
I love this song sooooo match💖💖
Yass I agree
Now this person is smart
@@chaos8105 Thank you, I think you are a smart person aswell
@@778hm thank you
I’m sorry I can’t relate to this but it hurts me that others go through this.
Thank you. ❤
here in 2024 after a lot of healing, my father was an addict and i remember when me and my sister were about 9 and 10 yrs old we sang this song to him as like a karaoke performance lol and after that he decided to get sober and he’s really stepped up and become the man that i never imagined he could be. i really have no words to describe how proud i am and lucky to have the opportunity to mend my relationship with him. it’s just crazy to look back and see how far we’ve come. idk just felt like sharing coz i haven’t heard this since then and it just brought up a lot of feelings lol.
I'm so so sorry. ❤😢
How did this girl manage to sing this without breaking down? I always start cracking when I try to sing it man.. Demi is so strong
April Rivera I tried singing it but broke down at "How could you push me out of your world?!"
April Rivera ok so I know that this comment has nothing to do with what you said but are you relatives with Naya Rivera or do you just have the same last name as her
Bailey Snyder maybe she just has the same last name as her
April Rivera
IKR
I was the same way for the first 3 times but after that i stopped crying and sang the entire thing i feel like crying
" lied to your flesh and your blood "
And
"Put your hands on the ones ,you swore you loved "
Hits so hard bro
Same
It tells my story right there💔
It really does
@@cosmickinnly hi
oh gosh yes.. Those are some that cut the deepest. Relating to my father and my abusive narcissist mother inflicting those onto me.
"For the love of a daughter" i can not stop crying i just have so many memories of my step dad that died
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl?”
“How could you push me out of your world?”
“Lie to your flesh and your blood?”
“So young when the pain begun, now forever afraid of being alone”
These hit so hard-.. 🥺😭
“I can be manipulated only so many times. Before even ‘I love you’ starts to sound like a lie.”
Kayla Richard this is the line that sticks out to me too. Praying for you and whatever you had to go through/ are going through
Kayla Richard it does sound like a lie
Kayla Richard I hate my real dad HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I WANNA STOP EVERYTHING AND NOT EVEN SPEAK
Hits harrdf
Kayla Richard most relatable line ever. This hit me deeply.
I see all these comments saying they showed this to their father and their father changed... I could only wish to be able to show this to my father, but he won't give me the time of day.
I'm so sorry it will get better I promise it might take a long time but it will get better it's when u turn 18 that is when it makes or breaks the "relationship" I'm sorry u have to go through it I know it's hard just hold on as tight as u can I know it seems worthless right now but it actually might change the result
Day Dream same
Day Dream right
Mine too
Day Dream same... mine would beat me and my mom cuz the voises in his head told him to. he left me and my brother on my moms door steps. people ask me were he is so i have to tell them that he is at work. the last time i saw him he called me ugliy and smacked me. for every one who relates know u r stronger then what ur father says!!!!
my dad is an extreme addict to drinking and when is really drunk he gets really violent. Ive been listening to this song since 2018 and i still cry to this song
My father broke my heart before any teenage boys ever could.
“Soo young when the pain had begun” this one hits hard 😩💔
Thisssssss. So sorry ❤😢
"Am I your child or just a charity ward?"
That line punched me right in the gut. When I lived with my mom she would take the money that my dad paid her when he paid child support, and she would buy alcohol with it.
That's just AWFUL!
Aww that's so sad!
Thats what happened with my mom. Her mom would do the same thing. Dont worry, my mother is ok now
I feel bad for you 😭
My parents used the money that was supposed to support me for drugs and alcohol and then abused me and my younger brothers. I tried so hard to save them
I’m crying because I need
Love from a dad
Who else
me
@@EMBYRR wait are you serious???
Hey if you want you can Text me i give you the love (017674602311) i always be there ~jasmin♥️
@@themanbehindtheslaughter8569 who were you talking about
@@faythblount6744 if someone need Help i will here for him or she
"Now forever afraid of being loved"
that part hits me so hard
"i can be manipulated only so many times before even i love you starts to sound like a lie" hits home my broken home haha gotta love using humour to hide the pain haha..
I used to relate to this song 5 years ago. My dad had a serious drinking problem and did things I wont ever forgive him for. The past years he quit drinking altogether and his relationship with my mother and the rest of my family has gotten better. It was hard waiting for him to change. My heart is with all of you who will relate to this song. One day you'll be happy, may it be with or without him
Same.My dad quitted too 3 years ago. But he started again😢
"Dont you remember I'm your baby girl? how could you throw me right out of your world so young when the pain had begone now forever afraid of being loved"
These lines hit me the hardest
Me too 😪😢😭
I know right
Same..
Me too
“Now forever afraid of being loved”
Yeah, and no one even realizes it. I love who i choose to love, because I’ve been forced so many times, and broken too many of those times. Too scared to let myself be loved ever again, because of the pain I’ll feel again when they give up on me when I need them most.
I went through this… I know other people who go through this I’m praying for all and I promise it gets better it’s hard to forgive my father though he’s changed a lot but it still hurts. And on top of it I have a twin sister who hits me almost every day and nobody does anything about it. Everything will get better. Thanks for making the song. I’m praying for anyone Else going through tgis
I'm so so so sorry. 😢
@@gamer_2255 it’s alright. I made this a year ago. And everything is getting better day by day! Not quickly, but slowly. But throughout a year it’s been so much better! I do appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
Iv listened to this to many times in a row.... Im bawling my eyes out to this
This comment hits different. 😢😭😭😭
This reminds me of my own life, my dad raped my mom and that's how I was born. He left us after he was reported and sent to mexico. My mom raised me all alone and he killed my twin sister when he was abusing my mom. She wasn't even born yet.
Now I'm an activist, fighting with passion. I'm glad the school allows me to make speeches at the assemblys. Honestly, I am so happy at the moment
Wow
This literally happened to my bestfriend
Hey you should check out the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I love you and so does god. God bless
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HE KILLED YOUR SISTER?!?!?!?! IS HE CRAZY?!?!?!?!
"How could you throw me right out of your world?
So young when the pain had begun
Now forever afraid of being loved" "Am I your child or just a charity ward?"
When that one sentence hits you: angry crying
what a music right here a u t h e n t I c v i e w s dun took Demi Lovato oFf 2 da big leagues and fo dat I will always be super grateful
This song describes my life perfectly I first heard it today and I’m literally crying right now my father has hurt me so many times that I can’t form relationships with people anymore because I’m afraid of what might happen if they get mad at me. I get angry often instead of being sad because I was always taught not to show my emotions. And I know most of you guys don’t care about what I’m saying but I just felt like I had to comment it.
Hey I care and I hope your doin OK
Thisssss 😢
I literally can never listen to this without crying... It hurts much so sing. The memories and the feelings...so much pain.
I'm so sorry for anyone who also went through abuse. You don't deserve it and you never did.
I'm here to talk if u need it
The line "how could you push me out of your world?" Kills me bc it's damn accurate
The last thing my father said to me and my siblings is that he is getting married and he will finally have kids that love him. We loved our father until he decided that he would rather lie about working and be in a bar drinking, talk bad about our mom, and stalk our family every time he found out where we live.
Sabrina Pascua 100% I started crying 😭
@@honeybunny3365 Know that what he said is a lie. You loved, but he was undeserving of it.
And he will go on to harm his future children too.
My dad abandoned me a month befor my 14th birthday... he dient break my heart first but it hurt worse... he told me I was his "baby girl" his " princess" and that he promised he would never leave me but he did and it breaks me everytime I here this song
"Put the bottle down for your own daughter" that reminds me of me and my dad😔
Me: *screaming this song out*
My dad passes by:
Me: *pauses music*
Yep
@@duhmadi wow you are truly lucky
Felt
@@duhmadi lucky I have to horrible fathers one is my stepdad in the other one is my real "father"
My dad cried so much when he heard this song
Am i your child, or just a charity ward?
So relatable
@@miriamklaschen3765 no she has it right
So relatable
I love that part
That hit me so hard, I lost my breath for a sec
Honestly reading these comments makes me feel less alone I didn't realize this many ppl have went through almost the exact same thing as me and I just want to say I'm enjoying life now and it's gotten much easier and for all of you who are struggling keep praying and being kind and let karma catch up on the ones who deserve it
Sameeeee 😢❤
When I was 15 my father abandoned my 13 year old brother& I. He got remarried,& had 3 new kids. I remember feeling alone & unwanted… I’m 24 now it still hurts but Ik now that I am lovable & so are all of you!! Iloveyou all Godspeed friends
Thank you so much. ❤
this is ruby
she’s 13
her dad left when she was 7 and chose alcohol over her. she has gone through multiple eating disorders and self harming, has anxiety depression and ptsd and doesn’t know what to do, she’s alone, she has lost all of her friendships and has been left to fight for myself and she’s still fighting.
You're SO strong!💓
Please never stop trying
Hey, it’s been a year..i’m not sure if you’re still here, but I promise that it will get better, you are so strong and i’m proud of you for that, stay safe out there! 💕
I hope your ok ❓
"Oh father please father put the bottle down for the love of a daughter"
Hey daily my Bello I love you you are great Ben of the essence Bailey saying you are great of everything you are in the Great Hall of the standing in you're a father who died Factor your baby girl Demi Lovato
I can relate to that
Agreed
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*Don't You Remember? I'm Your Baby Girl!How Could You Push Me Out Of Your World?!Lie To Ur Flesh And Blood! DON'T YOU REMEMBER?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!I'M YOUR BABY GIRL~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HOW COULD U YOU THROW ME RIGHT OUT OF UR WORLD?!?!?!?!???!?!?!?!!!!!Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,I'd Love To Leave You Alone But I Can't Let You Go..Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,Put The Bottle Down For The Love Of A Daughter...I Can Be Manipulated,ONLY SO MANY TIMESSSSSSSSS*
I personally can't relate to this song because I was blessed with wonderful and loving parents, but after reading a few comments it really does make me want to become the best parent I can be for my future kids
Pls pls do. 🙏
"Before even I love you starts to sound like a lie" hits different
"Oh father, please father, put the bottle down for the love of a daughter"
I've never thought some lyrics could make me cry
Some gacha life videos made me cry
yeah..
:For the love of a daughter:If anyone has to deal with a father like this then I'm sooooo sorry about that,NO ONE should have to deal with that 😞😢
Thank you that's all I needed to hear right now my dad treats me like a charity ward he is an alcoholic and hurts my mom I stand up for her but I have to deal with this for a few more years before I can buy my own house and live happy again I can't wait for the future but patience is the key and it hurts to still be with him I did self harm for 4 years and Im on holiday rn so I'm glad he is not here but Ik he will always be with me
It hurts my father don't put the bottle down
thank you
@Emily Betzold I'm so sorry to hear that😟😢😥😭
That used to be me..
She’s describing my whole life 💔
I started crying on how much I relate to this song
I can't relate to the bottle part but everything else hits hard. My dad doesn't drink, he consciously chooses to beat and hurt his supposed family.
Mine doesn't drink either. He's devoted to my mother in an emotional dependant (and very toxic) relationship to the point he started to ignore his 2 daughters when we were teenagers. My mother is an abusive bitch but my father doesn't see it, and instead of protecting us from her, he defends her when she plays victim and push us away saying we're awful people. I used to be a daddy's girl, playing with him, making up stories, having fun, being loved... Now I just feel abandoned even if he's sitting next to me.
I'm here to talk if u need it
im srry u have/are going through i hope things get better soon
My dad was exactly like this when I was a child I never grew up with a father my mom raised me by herself my dad never cared, never bonded or anything with me, he didn’t understand me and my mom was left to cope with me as I was hyper active and etc etc and always ran off or miss behaved and because my dad never understood my ways he bassically left my mom get on with me and raise me alone. When I was 4 the earliest time I can remember I would be lonely and longed for a friend or at least a little sibling to play with because I was always alone and one day my wish came true and my mom got pregnant with my brother, when he was finally born I finally had company and wasn’t alone anymore and didn’t have to fear being an only child anymore when he was born I was 7 and I finally had someone to spend all my time with. My dad and I never bonded or went anywhere when I was young he literally doesn’t even know me now or what I like and I’m his own daughter he didn’t understand the stuff that made me me. I remember my dad used to hit me when I was misbehaving when I was 6 and he used to hit my mom too when she would stand up for me and try and explain that it was the way I am but he would shout and they’d argue and he’d hit her most from what I can remember anyway. When I was 12 my parents got a divorce, we wasn’t all that sad to see him go and to be honest we were glad to see him go as we were all find it hard and then it was just the four of us me, my mom and my 2 younger brothers. Right now my dad’s engaged to his new girlfriend who he’s marrying in 2 years and is gonna have a new family and hasn’t once gave me a second thought so I guess we’ve just kinda ignored and avoided seeing each other I’m 19 now we haven’t seen each other in like a year but I honestly don’t care because we never really had that close bond but I realised growing up that I never needed a father because I have both a mother and a father in my mom.
That’s why this song reminds me of my dad because iDemi’s life is similar to mine growing up with a father who never cared I sometimes wonder and question to myself “did he ever love me?” So every time I listen to this song it reminds me of my dad.
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} look like we have the same life
My life is a little bit hard but i can understood even if i have a step mother and a
Step sister and a step brother its ok for me but i wish one day i wana see them im only
9. Years old some times its hard and some times i cry 😭 but its ok for me when im in school i always get bullied i. Dont want to tell my dady and some times i go to my room and get a knife but i cant kill myself the one day i tell my dad that i get bulied so dont be sad or lonley
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} you made me cry I'm sorry you had to go threw all of that I understand how it feels I at least get to see my dad thank you for showing that I should be glad for the father I have.
Emoji Girl thank you and you’re welcome lots of people are lucky to have a dad who cares about them I wish I’d had that be great full for your dad who cares and loves you 😊
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} thanks 😭😃👍
As sad as this may sound I can really relate to this my mama and dada fought a lot
my dad acts like he made me who I was, when he was never here for me , pills were more important than the tiny little girl crying for her father every night wondering where he went , to this day he still never came around , my mother played both mother and father roles , and she is my rock ❤️
I replaced the word "Father" with the word "Mother" because my mother is being extremely like the song explains
Damn.
I’m 18 now and my mom is exactly like the song. I’m sorry I know it hurts, you’re mom is the person who’s supposed to be there the most for you. Everything gets better as time goes on. When I was younger I was suicidal and I am so happy to be alive today. You’ll be okay, you have the strength within you.
same...
Catty Randoms mine to hang in there my mom yelled at me today
*We Can't Hide,My Demon Inside,.....*
When a song explains your life completely
yup
yeah
So true
yeah my dad walked out on me and my sister when i was 8-9 im now 13 and could care less about us
Karlee Cox my dad walked out on me when I was born and then had two other kids then walked out on them as well
damn I remember when I was younger I always listened to those songs and then I forgot about them but now every song I heard when I was a kid is coming now back, even in year 2022 I will hear this song.
The old songs are the best
My dad wasn't an alcoholic but instead of spending his money buying me and my sister clothing, shoes, etc. He bought weed. He loved weed more than he loved us. Instead of providing us the life we should've had he decided to neglect us. He also turned a blind eye to his family that was emotionally, and mentally abusing us.
Poor Demi with an overdose she didn't deserve this she's so amazing and talented.This song makes me cry for her😘😢
Demi Lovatos life is so sad. No wonder she takes drugs. I love her no matter what. And if someone is fighting this just like Demi, pleas know that it will be ok. And If he ever sais he loves you and dont know what to say and what to believe just say " How am I to know that your saying the truth?". I love you people!😭❤ (Black or White people!👧🏿👧🏾👧🏽👧🏼👧🏻and Yelow people 👧👦🏿👦🏾👦🏽👦🏼👦🏻👦❤)
Same
😊😭
😭😭😭
Yes this is sad....A lot of kids have this story,and im there too.My father do not drink,(well he drink but not always) he..leave me and my mom
The lyrics and the power in her voice make this song so deep and meaningful. Her voice is so incredible in this song
Hit me hard when she said, "your selfish hands always expecting more".
i can't help but break into tears everytime i hear this song