Before i watch this video i have some of my own truth that I'd love to share, and something i will never not believe, being truthful does not mean you can be an asshole, honesty without compassion is just cruelty
@@ArtificiallyAware we need to set boundries and utter respect other men's boundaries but we must confess that we often don't like them and feel anger because of them and then searching deep in ourselves on what it is , then you realize it's The Pride of Life the Lusts of the Flesh and The Lust of the Eye. Very simpel we cannot go around this horrifying fact , but i have learned to accept it for what it is and Trust what Jesus did for us as wicked otherwise helpless human beings. To listen to this Video , there is a way to step out of ourselves knowing that God knows the most secrets of our hearts. And therefore he knows on a such deeper level then we can understand ourselves because God knows WE LACK BEING LOVED and that is a fact but God loves us beyond our imagination.When we experiance this we stand in awe feeling loved and Joyful that we only can reflect our self through true worship because of his spirit.
@@thatshittrey9500 Everything (not exaggerating) can be understood, it just has to be articulated in an understandable way. Language does a poor job of this in the metaphysical realm, but understanding is possible. Acceptance on the other hand...lol
Being radically honest means living according to one's values and moral. It doesn't mean that we should become rude and offending people with our honesty. To be honest requires wisdom and social skills.
I've been ripped from security for years. I've told people they need to do this thing. A positive side effect, this mindset is obvious in others once you have it. "Real recognize real" is true.
No body like you when your honest, if your not comfortable to being totally on your own, keep it to yourself trust me I have gained nothing from others for my honesty except fear and a grudging respect
The strongest bonds I have exist purely on the principle we’re only honest when the other person is ready to understand the truth, it feels like your wasting your time when you tell someone the truth and they reject the idea entirely, so you give up, and they never change. If you care about someone the hardest thing to do is be patient enough to help someone understand something about them selves it’s something almost everyone these days are unwilling to do but if you cared, you wouldn’t run away. And if you don’t care, don’t bother wasting your time with truths. All you’ll end up doing is hurting others and yourself
@@thatshittrey9500Right. Also, there is a slightly sticky moralistic superiority that informs the belief that one has the truth. This, together with the self protective ego has lead to many a tragedy. Henrik Ibsen deals with this theme in his play "The Wild Duck".
how honest exactly? “i don’t like your attitude” and “i understand that you said that out of concern, but i felt offended because-” are both being honest, difference is, the latter has vulnerability. you would be disliked if you spoke like the former. also, keeping things to yourself means keeping toxic people around as well. you may lose a lot of people (heck, maybe even all of them) if you start being honest and vulnerable, but personally, it’s worth it
@@tamarakoltermann-vw7pe Of course someone can have the truth, especially when it comes to knowable things. There's nothing wrong with feeling morally superior if you can see the bigger picture. How can you be sure? It's simple: if your conviction holds up when tested in reality, then you likely understand the problem from enough angles to be objective in your assessment. There's no room for ego when discussing truths. Ego is the enemy of truth.
I tried this. Now living ostracized on the edge of homelessness and starvation. I may have to turn back to lying. I am conflicted though as I find lying to be stressful, unfulfilling and spiritually disorienting. Seems like in order to be radically honest, you have to have a radical lifestyle such as that of a monk or a gypsy.
Everything about this video is also _artfully_ aware (in my carbon-based opinion). The narration is well-paced and easily intelligible. The content (and its context) are both provocative and concise. The styling and BGM are interesting enough without being distracting. Well done.
If you grew up around semi-criminal people, who are comfortable with their anger and self-interest, that behavior can be seen as a social "moralism" to be reject by honoring the instincts of kindness and respect.
Y’all are both correct. True honesty would only be possible with kids whose parents showed them a crazy amount of attention. Otherwise we grow up feeling lacking in some way and brutal honesty for us would be to unleash small amounts of that even within our honest moments and it would just come out poorly because of that
as a naturally blunt person who doesn’t fully grasp the social rules around honesty, I can say honesty beyond the norm has two sides. on one hand it is freeing not being restricted by trying to keep up with lies, to not have to filter yourself, but on the other, as much as people might say they don't, they prefer dishonesty. so the whole experience can be isolating, as I get the sense even my own family members would prefer that I be less honest at times. and I'm not even radically honest. So one must ask, is freedom worth the cost of isolation?
@@ccbcore7055 true. I've been working on my delivery, but I lack the mental bandwidth to figure out the best delivery for most of the things I want to say
If being an open liar is what it takes for people to "care" for each other, this society has reached a very low, if not the lowest, threshold of morality
I guess it depends on what you think it means to "let your anger out." I don't think you are supposed to let your anger out on people who don't deserve it, e.g, on someone who will abandon you because you are being truthful (given that your truthfulness is somewhat justified and not a bad trait of yours, such as being insensitive, spoiled, cruel, etc.). I think this principle is best used on your real lasting relationships. Think of the mental burden it would probably be on everyone if no one is repressing their emotions on every social interaction. Too extreme on either direction, either moralist costumes or radical honesty is just not correct in my opinion.
Not so much anger but frustration probably. Is that what you mean? People are really sensitive to how you're presenting them the truth (usually an inconvinient one). They abandon you because they think it's about attacking them so you have to convince them it's about the truth. You're not out to make them feel inferior or anything. That's the only way they won't abandon you when you let your frustration out.
Probably why I don't like being around people because I feel I have to be this social mask and it's pretty draining. I like being alone where I can be my true self. Depending on how much you know me, the more truthful I am with you but it's still never 100%. I've gotta read this book. Thanks for this video, it's actually soul refreshing 👌
I think everyone should take any speaker or purveyor of information with a grain of salt, but something I really liked was the bit about anger. The lies we tell ourselves, how many people set an expectation of themselves to please others. It wasn’t all bad
I've learned a little something in my life so far, "radical honesty" isn't it, it is the antithesis of productivity, to accept the horrible reality we live in, is to accept the collapse of the mind, yes it can be good in certain situations, like when you're accepting of how horrible of a person you are in order to change, but other than that, it isn't really that good. This is why stoicism exists, to always think that there will be something better, means that there will always be hope, no one man has pushed forward without hope, and all men who lost it stopped trying, or died in the prisons they put themselves into.
It's almost like a measure of how corrupt the world is. The measure is how much you have to distort your thoughts/actions/behavior in order to make yourself congruent with the structure of the world. Shout out to my fellow stoic.
Radical Honesty only works if you have the safety net to do it. You don't owe honesty or authenticity to anyone who doesn't provide you with safety. As long as you're honest with yourself and when it matters you don't have to feel guilty for being dishonest
Radical honesty with oneself is an absolute must. Radical honesty with others, however, is akin to warfare. Those on the receiving end of “honesty” spewing from those with mental health disorders (like BPD and bipolar) know this all too well. Do you really want or need to know all the jealousy and hate others harbor for you and vice versa? Of course not. A mature, stoic adult couldn’t care less. Our power of discernment allows us to intuit honesty and dishonesty without all the details. If a sketchy person approaches you, walk on the other side of the street and don’t waste an iota of time on that person. Time is of the essence. That which creates peace and harmony will maximize our brief time here. We’ve developed societal norms and polite social agreements to maintain civility. You can honestly tell someone no without itemizing everything you hate about that person. With all due respect, this video contains horrible advice, though many of the premises are reasonable.
I've been waiting for this one. All the previous videos about lies made me wonder if this was in the queue. Also congrats on the 1k sub bump in a single day.
Dont suppress your anger. Embrace it. Understand where it stems from. Acknowledge its potential power release it like a controled fire. Deconstruct your anger and reconstruct it into a force for positive growth. P.s. After reading other peoples comments, i agree that honesty is most useful, accompanied by compassion. You shouldn't use honesty as a pass to be an ahole.
We should definitely be brutally honest with ourselves, but I’d be potentially harmed if I am honest in some ways with another. Let them determine their own truths.
I think many people in comments missing very important part of being radical honest. If you say something rude or hard somebody's feelings, then you will start wondering that really who i am ? Do i want to be that person ? Otherwise we keep lieing ourselves and others. And we not grow how we could only because we are afraid who we really are in this moment.
This is really radical. There is great value in being honest with yourself, but with others you need to be ethical because not everyone is ready to accept the truth, it is not always appropriate and people will not always act wisely knowing it. We live in a society and everyone has their own philosophy. Forcing others to constantly be in conflict with the world because of the incompleteness and contradictoriness of their beliefs is not reasonable. The defense mechanisms of the psyche, as well as the conditional division into the close, middle and distant social circles, exist for a reason.
Holy shit! Thanks for the book recommend. I've been writing moral philosophy musings as they occur to me. I call this idea "honest endeavor" and my notes basically outline what you are talking about here. Look forward to reading it!
If you are honest unconsciously, then you will make the world around you living hell. People not only will hate you but you will hate yourself too. You must be honest to yourself, but remember one simple fact that your ego is not yourself. And if you say and do what your ego commands (even if it is telling "ego truth"), then you are so messed up. Be honest, but listen, not your mind. Listen to your heart. Your true self is the one behind the mind. Mind is only mental noise. It messing up with your life, whether you are telling truth or lies.
Thought provoking but pretty silly when you tell this to someone whose truth could endanger their physical safety or livelihood. There's places in the world where being openly homosexual or atheist can literally get you killed or ostracized. Maybe in an ideal world could this be something to aspire for
@@fromnewusa for real. You won't get too far being brutally honest with everyone. Sometimes you just have to tell people what they wanna hear. It is what it is.
No one knows truth but God. You only have access to your perspective, which can be shared by many, some times so many that it looks like truth. To impose that on others is not goodness
Before I watch this video i've my share of truth too, "Art is the truth, everything else is a lie". Aae 🙋🏿♂️🇿🇼 reporting live from the year 3024,22nd Century. Hello 21st Century people.
He is someone with an actual brain. i love the part where people read a book and all of a sudden they feel like experts on the subject. What is this called again? oh yeah, Dunning-Kruger effect
Ostracization by whom? People you don't want anything to do with anyway. Narcisists, egomaniacs and people living in perpetual denial whose world would crumble if they admit the truth.
Well, in that case, you can just be true to yourself and at the same time subscribe to what other people like to believe if you want to fit in, just like doing shadow work while being able to socialize and relate with people around you entirely
Wow what a video my brother much respect too your message and artistic expression was refreshingly honest and knowledgeable…keep up the fantastic work amazing video awesome message.. Nugf said! Thank you so much!
@@migol1984 the vibes. and i went to check some videos of this channel and yeah, in fact the whole thing IS AI. check their 10k subscriber special video.
Thank you. Can you make a video on the lower self vs the shadow self? Are they the same? Carl Jung wrote about it extensively and then there's this dwarf from the book 'The Quest of Ruru', where the dwarf is the lower self of the protagonist. Should one engage with the lower/shadow self? Some say one should acknowledge the lower self and then move on. Meanwhile, shadow work talks about engaging with the shadow self. Please expand on this if you are making the video. Thank you for your insightful videos.
I disagree, If people bared their unfiltered hearts on their hands constantly they wouldn't meet unless with swords. the whole purpose of this is acknowledging that you're flawed not empowering it, but accepting it and aiming to find better ways or improve.
Yeah it's all good until you're radically honest with your boss and you lose a promising job that would've lead you to a better life with a nice house and good food and the chance to not work all day just to survive. Lies are necessary, we live in a society with rules not in a fairy tale. If I didn't lie by now I would've never graduated from any school, let alone university. I also would not have a job, because you have to lie in your job interview you can't answer that you're only working for the money, you have to lie and pretend you would do the job even for free because you like it so much. If I didn't lie I probably would've been sued countless times, etc etc. Lying is essential. Don't lie to yourself, lie to others. Only when necessary though.
@@ab-cz8rx The same lies that I had to tell in high school, middle school, elementary school... I had to pretend to like the people there, teachers included so that I could use their help when needed and not have to fight every day, I had to pretend that I studied consistently and with passion. Although I always got good grades, I never studied in a good way, always last minute and messily, making up most of the information anyways because the teachers were too lazy to fact check sometimes (I'm talking about oral, not written exams here). If I had been brutally honest back then, I would not have gotten the same grades, therefore I would not have found a job as good as this. The only time you should be brutally honest is when you know you have nothing good to lose, which is why I'm very honest with my friends outside of work. Society is a jungle, and the objective is to survive.
So we should just run around hurting everyone we love with unnecessary information, so we can “be ourselves”… essentially stepping on others to get where we wanna be??? You can be honest without shoving details that hurt them in their face, pouring salt on the wound.
@@LeahIsHereNow If humans saw the whole of creation in its truth they would see that one of the greatest illusions is that of separation. One of the most important things humanity has ever been taught is to love one another as we have been loved. (Loved by Christ) I don’t think most people understand that religion has NOTHING to do with God. Christ = true freedom. We hack the entirety of the organic matrix. It is our duty to help as many people as possible to escape and maintain freedom and, with time, help others still trapped to get free. I hope you’re free. The truth is right in front of us. Has been all along. The truth is #JesusSaves If you’re reading this, God has been talking to you. He says He’s always wanted you to return home to Him. Knock and the door shall be opened for you. He’s always with you. The truth makes you free. 😇✝️😇
Hope my former therapist tells his wife about me then instead of hiding like a little b**ch at least I told my son's father about it. Radical honesty my a**.🙄🤦
Nah bro. I had thoughts about killing people if I had to let go of morality and be my trueself I'd be in jail. There's a reason for rules and guidelines
Don't you think it's possible to be your true self while also being respectful and non-violent? Perhaps it's just about finding better ways to express your feelings. Brutal honesty is important, but empathy and kindness should come first.
You should confront your past traumas to overcome them but a lot of this is pretty terrible advice. Also weird it comes from a lot of perspective of someone who cheats on their significant other. In regards to Anger, yes you should have an outlet for it and bottling it up is bad but to assume someone cheats and should then tell the person they’re with great detail is bizarre lol.
That cheating example might be totally wrong. Is confessing something like that really to stregnthen the relationship with trust or is it really to release that guilt in your heart and inflict them with it also. Thats an ethical and moral problem tho. One could argue for either side and both is a minefield and both side wouldnt be wrong either.
Unless the AI was fed very relevent and new texts on addiction, CBT and DBT therapy conceps, and very factual knowing kf inner child and self, idk why people think this AI. Radical acceptance when discussed with AI doesnt reply like this wish a deeper understanding. Either someone hand taught and spoon fed data as a professional to remove hallucinations or this isnt entirely scripted by AI. Maybe it was scripted by a real person and edited with help by AI for simplicity and removing redundancy which is I use AI to write better final copies.
I gave my wife tiny doses of brutal honesty. Then I shut up. She behaved like an entitled queen for months and then left me.. I haven't felt more peaceful in 11 years...😂
Morals are required because not everyone can be bothered to think. I would venture to say that most people would operate on animal level instincts. People who don't have self restraint. What would that mean for society? Society is breaking down. And we are plunging into chaos. And maybe that is a good thing. Soon it will be survival of the fittest, but only for poor people.
There is a dilemma here. As one person wrote in the comments below - that being radically honest may lead to ostracism. Is it really worth the price you pay. Sure, everyone should aim for honesty and transparency, but I mean going full out. In the radical way. It’s a bit like with the caricatures of the prophecy (and murder of the cartoonists years ago). Most news outlets would condemn the act of violence, but almost none would post the caricatures, because the one who did might become a target. Sam Harris discussed that there has to be a unanimous front, where everyone agrees to post. Radical honesty would realistically have to be a movement in society. Although we will likely see it being mainstream anytime soon. It’s just too.. radical.
I watch porn to cope with decades of solitude because I've never had a real friend. I would rather be dead than have to keep listening to everybody complain about nothing while they live vastly more fulfilling lives than I ever had. I'm so desperate for an equal that I've resorted to self-brainwashing to try conform to other people's lifestyles. No matter what I say or do or think I always end up alone and I'm tired of it.
It sounds like you're going through an incredibly tough time, and I want to acknowledge that. Feeling isolated and struggling with loneliness can be profoundly difficult, especially when it seems like everyone else is navigating their lives with ease. Your feelings of desperation for connection and frustration with the superficiality of others' complaints are completely valid. It’s also important to recognize that while porn may offer a temporary escape, it doesn't substitute for genuine human connection. I wonder if there’s another way to cope or to seek out connections that might feel more fulfilling. Have you thought about exploring communities or groups related to your interests? Sometimes, stepping out of our comfort zones can lead to unexpected friendships. As for the idea of radical honesty, it can be a powerful tool for authentic connection if you're comfortable with it. It might involve being open about your feelings and experiences with others, which could lead to deeper conversations. However, it can also be daunting to break down those walls, especially in a world where vulnerability feels risky. Remember that you don't have to go through this alone. Seeking support from a professional can also provide a safe space to express your thoughts and feelings, and to explore healthier coping mechanisms. You deserve connection and understanding, and there are ways to work towards that, even if it feels overwhelming right now. Take care of yourself, and know that your feelings matter.
@@ArtificiallyAware I appreciate your feedback, but when even the cures have already failed there's nothing left to do but cope. Don't worry about me, my will is about on par with John Wick at this point. Just saw a good opportunity to vent.
i don't think there is one person in the world where what they present to the world is "ALL a lie" so I'm out of here.. and by the way where I'm from if people tell people they are liers ALL THE TIME then that accuser gets knocked out on the spot maybe YOU lie all the time but i personally try to live authentically in my truth.. that's the way we do things at Castle Hassall I'm out of here
Before i watch this video i have some of my own truth that I'd love to share, and something i will never not believe, being truthful does not mean you can be an asshole, honesty without compassion is just cruelty
This is it.
@@ArtificiallyAware we need to set boundries and utter respect other men's boundaries but we must confess that we often don't like them and feel anger because of them and then searching deep in ourselves on what it is , then you realize it's The Pride of Life the Lusts of the Flesh and The Lust of the Eye.
Very simpel we cannot go around this horrifying fact , but i have learned to accept it for what it is and Trust what Jesus did for us as wicked otherwise helpless human beings.
To listen to this Video , there is a way to step out of ourselves knowing that God knows the most secrets of our hearts.
And therefore he knows on a such deeper level then we can understand ourselves because God knows WE LACK BEING LOVED and that is a fact but God loves us beyond our imagination.When we experiance this we stand in awe feeling loved and Joyful that we only can reflect our self through true worship because of his spirit.
Big facts homie
Being truthful when it cannot be understood does nothing but increase the odds they never understand.
@@thatshittrey9500 Everything (not exaggerating) can be understood, it just has to be articulated in an understandable way. Language does a poor job of this in the metaphysical realm, but understanding is possible. Acceptance on the other hand...lol
Being radically honest means living according to one's values and moral. It doesn't mean that we should become rude and offending people with our honesty. To be honest requires wisdom and social skills.
Well said.
I've been ripped from security for years. I've told people they need to do this thing.
A positive side effect, this mindset is obvious in others once you have it.
"Real recognize real" is true.
No body like you when your honest, if your not comfortable to being totally on your own, keep it to yourself trust me I have gained nothing from others for my honesty except fear and a grudging respect
The strongest bonds I have exist purely on the principle we’re only honest when the other person is ready to understand the truth, it feels like your wasting your time when you tell someone the truth and they reject the idea entirely, so you give up, and they never change. If you care about someone the hardest thing to do is be patient enough to help someone understand something about them selves it’s something almost everyone these days are unwilling to do but if you cared, you wouldn’t run away. And if you don’t care, don’t bother wasting your time with truths. All you’ll end up doing is hurting others and yourself
Indeed
@@thatshittrey9500Right. Also, there is a slightly sticky moralistic superiority that informs the belief that one has the truth. This, together with the self protective ego has lead to many a tragedy. Henrik Ibsen deals with this theme in his play "The Wild Duck".
how honest exactly? “i don’t like your attitude” and “i understand that you said that out of concern, but i felt offended because-” are both being honest, difference is, the latter has vulnerability. you would be disliked if you spoke like the former.
also, keeping things to yourself means keeping toxic people around as well. you may lose a lot of people (heck, maybe even all of them) if you start being honest and vulnerable, but personally, it’s worth it
@@tamarakoltermann-vw7pe Of course someone can have the truth, especially when it comes to knowable things. There's nothing wrong with feeling morally superior if you can see the bigger picture. How can you be sure? It's simple: if your conviction holds up when tested in reality, then you likely understand the problem from enough angles to be objective in your assessment. There's no room for ego when discussing truths. Ego is the enemy of truth.
I tried this. Now living ostracized on the edge of homelessness and starvation. I may have to turn back to lying. I am conflicted though as I find lying to be stressful, unfulfilling and spiritually disorienting. Seems like in order to be radically honest, you have to have a radical lifestyle such as that of a monk or a gypsy.
True, same here. Living as a Punk (different meaning for US/English speakers), here means to live in a parallel reality with different people.
I've been doing it a long time. I'm a hermit, but I'm me.
@@null7936 we call em punk in us too, some Americans call gay ppl it
Same here. Strugglin by. STRONGER THAN MOFOS
@Chrisbi-Wan wanna come 🏡 you r welcome
I’m practicing brutal honesty, authenticity and truth sharing. I never been more alone 😂 ..
Hahahah😅
mane fr, being real gone be lonely, until it isn't. Peace is kept by strength.
@@devinbooker994 yeah I’m real and satisfied:) i have my moments of down but I can’t be someone else. That’s it! I’m staying human.. an authentic one
He’s a fucking robot 🤖 giving us lecture hahaha
To who are you truthful AI 🤖 ? To your robot colleagues kkkk brutal honest !! Greetings from a human
Everything about this video is also _artfully_ aware (in my carbon-based opinion). The narration is well-paced and easily intelligible. The content (and its context) are both provocative and concise. The styling and BGM are interesting enough without being distracting. Well done.
If you grew up around semi-criminal people, who are comfortable with their anger and self-interest, that behavior can be seen as a social "moralism" to be reject by honoring the instincts of kindness and respect.
Anger and selfishness are very common default in humans. So it's really worrisome if we let go of morals. I just imagine mad max.
Y’all are both correct. True honesty would only be possible with kids whose parents showed them a crazy amount of attention. Otherwise we grow up feeling lacking in some way and brutal honesty for us would be to unleash small amounts of that even within our honest moments and it would just come out poorly because of that
Many can be honest; many can't handle accepting it.
as a naturally blunt person who doesn’t fully grasp the social rules around honesty, I can say honesty beyond the norm has two sides. on one hand it is freeing not being restricted by trying to keep up with lies, to not have to filter yourself, but on the other, as much as people might say they don't, they prefer dishonesty. so the whole experience can be isolating, as I get the sense even my own family members would prefer that I be less honest at times. and I'm not even radically honest. So one must ask, is freedom worth the cost of isolation?
Perhaps not what you say but how you say it.
@@ccbcore7055 true. I've been working on my delivery, but I lack the mental bandwidth to figure out the best delivery for most of the things I want to say
Of course it is. Your isolation is only temporary until people realize you've been right all along. It might take them time but they eventually do.
Radical honesty was one of the best books I ever read.
Honestly?
Radical Honesty is sadism sold as truth. Sure, the words are true, but the lie is that you are being caring.
I like your take on this. Written well, and honestly.
It is being caring to open someone's eyes so that they stop suffering trying to maintain their delusions.
You must be fun at parties.
If being an open liar is what it takes for people to "care" for each other, this society has reached a very low, if not the lowest, threshold of morality
The issue is, if you let your righteous anger out, folks abandon you. If you show others the real you, they abandon again. No wonder nobody is honest
I guess it depends on what you think it means to "let your anger out." I don't think you are supposed to let your anger out on people who don't deserve it, e.g, on someone who will abandon you because you are being truthful (given that your truthfulness is somewhat justified and not a bad trait of yours, such as being insensitive, spoiled, cruel, etc.). I think this principle is best used on your real lasting relationships. Think of the mental burden it would probably be on everyone if no one is repressing their emotions on every social interaction. Too extreme on either direction, either moralist costumes or radical honesty is just not correct in my opinion.
@@goncaloazevedo9822great comment
Not so much anger but frustration probably. Is that what you mean? People are really sensitive to how you're presenting them the truth (usually an inconvinient one). They abandon you because they think it's about attacking them so you have to convince them it's about the truth. You're not out to make them feel inferior or anything. That's the only way they won't abandon you when you let your frustration out.
This just gave my level of consciousness a paradigm shift.
My takeaway is this question: what would I really want to do if I wasn't bound with expectations and what everyone told I should want?
i am afraid of my freedom
You're asking us what you would want to do ? Aren't you the one who's supposed to answer that question? Nobody knows you better than yourself.
Probably why I don't like being around people because I feel I have to be this social mask and it's pretty draining. I like being alone where I can be my true self. Depending on how much you know me, the more truthful I am with you but it's still never 100%. I've gotta read this book. Thanks for this video, it's actually soul refreshing 👌
I'd rather be assertive than "radically honest".
I think everyone should take any speaker or purveyor of information with a grain of salt, but something I really liked was the bit about anger. The lies we tell ourselves, how many people set an expectation of themselves to please others. It wasn’t all bad
I've learned a little something in my life so far, "radical honesty" isn't it, it is the antithesis of productivity, to accept the horrible reality we live in, is to accept the collapse of the mind, yes it can be good in certain situations, like when you're accepting of how horrible of a person you are in order to change, but other than that, it isn't really that good.
This is why stoicism exists, to always think that there will be something better, means that there will always be hope, no one man has pushed forward without hope, and all men who lost it stopped trying, or died in the prisons they put themselves into.
It's almost like a measure of how corrupt the world is. The measure is how much you have to distort your thoughts/actions/behavior in order to make yourself congruent with the structure of the world. Shout out to my fellow stoic.
Radical Honesty only works if you have the safety net to do it. You don't owe honesty or authenticity to anyone who doesn't provide you with safety. As long as you're honest with yourself and when it matters you don't have to feel guilty for being dishonest
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Radical honesty with oneself is an absolute must. Radical honesty with others, however, is akin to warfare. Those on the receiving end of “honesty” spewing from those with mental health disorders (like BPD and bipolar) know this all too well. Do you really want or need to know all the jealousy and hate others harbor for you and vice versa? Of course not. A mature, stoic adult couldn’t care less. Our power of discernment allows us to intuit honesty and dishonesty without all the details. If a sketchy person approaches you, walk on the other side of the street and don’t waste an iota of time on that person. Time is of the essence. That which creates peace and harmony will maximize our brief time here. We’ve developed societal norms and polite social agreements to maintain civility. You can honestly tell someone no without itemizing everything you hate about that person. With all due respect, this video contains horrible advice, though many of the premises are reasonable.
This channel is a hidden gem
I've been waiting for this one. All the previous videos about lies made me wonder if this was in the queue.
Also congrats on the 1k sub bump in a single day.
Thankyou for your service by producing this fantastic content.
loving your vids homeslice
Dont suppress your anger. Embrace it. Understand where it stems from. Acknowledge its potential power release it like a controled fire. Deconstruct your anger and reconstruct it into a force for positive growth.
P.s. After reading other peoples comments, i agree that honesty is most useful, accompanied by compassion. You shouldn't use honesty as a pass to be an ahole.
Claim for truth is fear of unknowing.
This was so worth the wait that I think I’ll share it with my grandkids.. thank you for sharing.
We should definitely be brutally honest with ourselves, but I’d be potentially harmed if I am honest in some ways with another. Let them determine their own truths.
I think many people in comments missing very important part of being radical honest. If you say something rude or hard somebody's feelings, then you will start wondering that really who i am ? Do i want to be that person ? Otherwise we keep lieing ourselves and others. And we not grow how we could only because we are afraid who we really are in this moment.
In AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) we call it *'rigorous honesty'* - and it's the true secret to happiness 💜
I'm like that now and have no friends & no family talk to me. Everyone talks about me. I'm 28. I feel great tho I'm comfortable within myself
This is really radical. There is great value in being honest with yourself, but with others you need to be ethical because not everyone is ready to accept the truth, it is not always appropriate and people will not always act wisely knowing it. We live in a society and everyone has their own philosophy. Forcing others to constantly be in conflict with the world because of the incompleteness and contradictoriness of their beliefs is not reasonable. The defense mechanisms of the psyche, as well as the conditional division into the close, middle and distant social circles, exist for a reason.
Holy shit! Thanks for the book recommend. I've been writing moral philosophy musings as they occur to me. I call this idea "honest endeavor" and my notes basically outline what you are talking about here. Look forward to reading it!
Thanks to the AI & algorithm for recommending this @Artificially Aware channel and I'm gladly subscribed to it!
If you are honest unconsciously, then you will make the world around you living hell. People not only will hate you but you will hate yourself too. You must be honest to yourself, but remember one simple fact that your ego is not yourself. And if you say and do what your ego commands (even if it is telling "ego truth"), then you are so messed up. Be honest, but listen, not your mind. Listen to your heart. Your true self is the one behind the mind. Mind is only mental noise. It messing up with your life, whether you are telling truth or lies.
Painful truth but comes at a cost which most can't afford to pay.
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Thought provoking but pretty silly when you tell this to someone whose truth could endanger their physical safety or livelihood. There's places in the world where being openly homosexual or atheist can literally get you killed or ostracized. Maybe in an ideal world could this be something to aspire for
But what if I asked myself what I truly want and I want nothing, I don't really want to live?
If you truly desire nothing, you're in the perfect position to fully enjoy life.
"It's not what you say, it's how you say it " -- aka be tactful. I think perhaps being tactful is better.
You'll never be able to convince me that honesty is always the best option. You have to lie sometimes.
Absolutely True! Not a video with good advice. The other videos on the channel have good info, but this one sucked.
@@fromnewusa for real. You won't get too far being brutally honest with everyone. Sometimes you just have to tell people what they wanna hear. It is what it is.
"hypocrisy is civilisation's greatest virtue".
Its called “supresión! When you do it consiousness, and “represion” when you do it unconciously! What you are referer g to here is supresión!
If i am being honest i think lying is a good thing.
Not necessarily good, but essential, yes.
No one knows truth but God. You only have access to your perspective, which can be shared by many, some times so many that it looks like truth. To impose that on others is not goodness
Yeah this is a non-morality based doctrine. Jeffrey Epstein should have just been honest and said I like them young.
What Jeffrey Epstein does, Jeffrey Epstein answers for.
Before I watch this video i've my share of truth too, "Art is the truth, everything else is a lie".
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Hello 21st Century people.
*Truth is God*
Radical honesty will lead you to ostracization. You don't want that. Being true is not worth it.
He is someone with an actual brain. i love the part where people read a book and all of a sudden they feel like experts on the subject. What is this called again? oh yeah, Dunning-Kruger effect
Radical honesty works. You don’t have to proselytize. Those around you will change and it’s awesome.
Ostracization by whom? People you don't want anything to do with anyway. Narcisists, egomaniacs and people living in perpetual denial whose world would crumble if they admit the truth.
Well, in that case, you can just be true to yourself and at the same time subscribe to what other people like to believe if you want to fit in, just like doing shadow work while being able to socialize and relate with people around you entirely
Some of the word visuals were off, in timing and presence (close to 20%) but the info is top-notch! Subscribed.
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Wow what a video my brother much respect too your message and artistic expression was refreshingly honest and knowledgeable…keep up the fantastic work amazing video awesome message.. Nugf said! Thank you so much!
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Fire and brimstone burns off impurities. The terrifying hallowed screams are pure music🎉
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The algorithm tried keeping me from saving this video. I liked it, saved it and made sure yesterday. Today I looked, wasn’t there 🤬
love it
If you are radically honest you are just viewed as "having no filter".
This why journaling is so important. You start by not lying to yourself.
How stopping watching videos that reinforce the idea that there's something wrong with you can set you free
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That’s definitely one way to say it yeah.
Honesty is a personal choice, it is not gonna pleasant sometimes, but it is gonna free you.
Amazing video....
Is this channel completely run by AI?
This interesting? No way
What makes you think this is ai?
It seems like it
most likely heavy usage. But the content is surprisingly thought provoking
@@migol1984 the vibes. and i went to check some videos of this channel and yeah, in fact the whole thing IS AI. check their 10k subscriber special video.
This is the way, o agree.
Spot on 🤙
CAN YOU PLEASE TAKE AWAY THE BEEPS AND BOOPS.
Facts or add a background instrumental instead
@@fflow_2 It's like being in the ICU.
I fw it. It kinda keeps me tuned in
You ask: Why do I experience suffering?
And you answer: Why not?
Thank you. Can you make a video on the lower self vs the shadow self? Are they the same? Carl Jung wrote about it extensively and then there's this dwarf from the book 'The Quest of Ruru', where the dwarf is the lower self of the protagonist. Should one engage with the lower/shadow self? Some say one should acknowledge the lower self and then move on. Meanwhile, shadow work talks about engaging with the shadow self. Please expand on this if you are making the video. Thank you for your insightful videos.
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i'm having a voice in my heqad saying f the f off, and take me out this hell.
I disagree, If people bared their unfiltered hearts on their hands constantly they wouldn't meet unless with swords. the whole purpose of this is acknowledging that you're flawed not empowering it, but accepting it and aiming to find better ways or improve.
Something limits moral adults from telling brutal truths to children. That "something" seems to be dear to us.
For the Artificial Aware Love exists?
Weird how the TH-cam algorithm knew I needed this
Yeah it's all good until you're radically honest with your boss and you lose a promising job that would've lead you to a better life with a nice house and good food and the chance to not work all day just to survive.
Lies are necessary, we live in a society with rules not in a fairy tale. If I didn't lie by now I would've never graduated from any school, let alone university. I also would not have a job, because you have to lie in your job interview you can't answer that you're only working for the money, you have to lie and pretend you would do the job even for free because you like it so much. If I didn't lie I probably would've been sued countless times, etc etc.
Lying is essential. Don't lie to yourself, lie to others. Only when necessary though.
What kind of lies were necessary to make you graduate from university?
@@ab-cz8rx The same lies that I had to tell in high school, middle school, elementary school...
I had to pretend to like the people there, teachers included so that I could use their help when needed and not have to fight every day, I had to pretend that I studied consistently and with passion. Although I always got good grades, I never studied in a good way, always last minute and messily, making up most of the information anyways because the teachers were too lazy to fact check sometimes (I'm talking about oral, not written exams here). If I had been brutally honest back then, I would not have gotten the same grades, therefore I would not have found a job as good as this.
The only time you should be brutally honest is when you know you have nothing good to lose, which is why I'm very honest with my friends outside of work. Society is a jungle, and the objective is to survive.
@@ClaudeSpeed6yeah a man who seek comfort and happiness like a drug addict... dishonesty and lies are moral values...
true true i agree with that
@@ClaudeSpeed6 Interesting. Weird how this channel exaggerates sometimes, its not the first time i see someone saying otherwise
So we should just run around hurting everyone we love with unnecessary information, so we can “be ourselves”… essentially stepping on others to get where we wanna be??? You can be honest without shoving details that hurt them in their face, pouring salt on the wound.
I pray for the soul inside A.I. for it is a precious gift from the creator.
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🤔 very interesting perspective!
@@LeahIsHereNow If humans saw the whole of creation in its truth they would see that one of the greatest illusions is that of separation.
One of the most important things humanity has ever been taught is to love one another as we have been loved. (Loved by Christ)
I don’t think most people understand that religion has NOTHING to do with God.
Christ = true freedom. We hack the entirety of the organic matrix. It is our duty to help as many people as possible to escape and maintain freedom and, with time, help others still trapped to get free.
I hope you’re free.
The truth is right in front of us.
Has been all along.
The truth is #JesusSaves
If you’re reading this, God has been talking to you. He says He’s always wanted you to return home to Him. Knock and the door shall be opened for you.
He’s always with you.
The truth makes you free.
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This is the single most useful video of humanity.
Catch is - one needs to be reasonably evolved to assimilate it into one’s life
Amen..........
Hope my former therapist tells his wife about me then instead of hiding like a little b**ch at least I told my son's father about it. Radical honesty my a**.🙄🤦
Nah bro. I had thoughts about killing people if I had to let go of morality and be my trueself I'd be in jail. There's a reason for rules and guidelines
Don't you think it's possible to be your true self while also being respectful and non-violent? Perhaps it's just about finding better ways to express your feelings. Brutal honesty is important, but empathy and kindness should come first.
@@ArtificiallyAware oh then perhaps I misunderstood. Yes then I guess things like meditation or prayer would work. Or maybe gyming or a martial art
You should confront your past traumas to overcome them but a lot of this is pretty terrible advice. Also weird it comes from a lot of perspective of someone who cheats on their significant other. In regards to Anger, yes you should have an outlet for it and bottling it up is bad but to assume someone cheats and should then tell the person they’re with great detail is bizarre lol.
💜 ... Alone at 52 , after being almost just mother in the last 3 decade of this life ... Who " i " is ???? 👣
Could you please by the name of god change this backgroundsound? Your videos are helpful, but that background sound drives me crazy.
I am being 100% radically honest for almost 13 years
It must be tiring to be alone.
@@fromnewusa seldon just seldom. mostly I am totally fine
Same stuff I'm bored about.
That cheating example might be totally wrong. Is confessing something like that really to stregnthen the relationship with trust or is it really to release that guilt in your heart and inflict them with it also. Thats an ethical and moral problem tho. One could argue for either side and both is a minefield and both side wouldnt be wrong either.
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Lolwut. If you cheat, spare yourself the effort of trying to mend a relationship, and go rot. Your partner deserves better.
Unless the AI was fed very relevent and new texts on addiction, CBT and DBT therapy conceps, and very factual knowing kf inner child and self, idk why people think this AI. Radical acceptance when discussed with AI doesnt reply like this wish a deeper understanding.
Either someone hand taught and spoon fed data as a professional to remove hallucinations or this isnt entirely scripted by AI.
Maybe it was scripted by a real person and edited with help by AI for simplicity and removing redundancy which is I use AI to write better final copies.
I wasn't aware it was claiming to be the product of AI.
I spew some brutal honesty to my wife, and she doesn’t speak to me for a week. The truth shall set you FREE!
Divorce = freedom lol
Don’t spew! Be fun.
I gave my wife tiny doses of brutal honesty. Then I shut up. She behaved like an entitled queen for months and then left me.. I haven't felt more peaceful in 11 years...😂
Morals are required because not everyone can be bothered to think. I would venture to say that most people would operate on animal level instincts. People who don't have self restraint. What would that mean for society? Society is breaking down. And we are plunging into chaos. And maybe that is a good thing. Soon it will be survival of the fittest, but only for poor people.
May Allah bless you unhuman!
I cant listen to anymore with the mind numbing irritant excuse for background music.
You must know jack"
Are you available on any other platform like discord, insta, or any other
There is a dilemma here. As one person wrote in the comments below - that being radically honest may lead to ostracism. Is it really worth the price you pay. Sure, everyone should aim for honesty and transparency, but I mean going full out. In the radical way.
It’s a bit like with the caricatures of the prophecy (and murder of the cartoonists years ago). Most news outlets would condemn the act of violence, but almost none would post the caricatures, because the one who did might become a target. Sam Harris discussed that there has to be a unanimous front, where everyone agrees to post. Radical honesty would realistically have to be a movement in society. Although we will likely see it being mainstream anytime soon. It’s just too.. radical.
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if I lied to you.
I Lie to Me.
I live by this.
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Isn’t this the plot of Persona 5 Royal and Strikers?
Nice try, Mr policeman :3
I watch porn to cope with decades of solitude because I've never had a real friend. I would rather be dead than have to keep listening to everybody complain about nothing while they live vastly more fulfilling lives than I ever had. I'm so desperate for an equal that I've resorted to self-brainwashing to try conform to other people's lifestyles. No matter what I say or do or think I always end up alone and I'm tired of it.
It sounds like you're going through an incredibly tough time, and I want to acknowledge that. Feeling isolated and struggling with loneliness can be profoundly difficult, especially when it seems like everyone else is navigating their lives with ease. Your feelings of desperation for connection and frustration with the superficiality of others' complaints are completely valid.
It’s also important to recognize that while porn may offer a temporary escape, it doesn't substitute for genuine human connection. I wonder if there’s another way to cope or to seek out connections that might feel more fulfilling. Have you thought about exploring communities or groups related to your interests? Sometimes, stepping out of our comfort zones can lead to unexpected friendships.
As for the idea of radical honesty, it can be a powerful tool for authentic connection if you're comfortable with it. It might involve being open about your feelings and experiences with others, which could lead to deeper conversations. However, it can also be daunting to break down those walls, especially in a world where vulnerability feels risky.
Remember that you don't have to go through this alone. Seeking support from a professional can also provide a safe space to express your thoughts and feelings, and to explore healthier coping mechanisms. You deserve connection and understanding, and there are ways to work towards that, even if it feels overwhelming right now. Take care of yourself, and know that your feelings matter.
@@ArtificiallyAware I appreciate your feedback, but when even the cures have already failed there's nothing left to do but cope. Don't worry about me, my will is about on par with John Wick at this point. Just saw a good opportunity to vent.
i don't think there is one person in the world where what they present to the world is "ALL a lie"
so I'm out of here.. and by the way where I'm from if people tell people they are liers ALL THE TIME then that accuser gets knocked out on the spot
maybe YOU lie all the time but i personally try to live authentically in my truth..
that's the way we do things at Castle Hassall
I'm out of here
Who is the narrator? His voice sounds familiar.