I love this song. I just escaped a very violent abusive relationship of 7 years with a narcissist and barely made it out. It took a lot of courage and fear but I I got away. I definitely have a story to tell and this song is me all the way. Thank you for making this song it touched my soul
Ephesians 2:8-9 (KJV) For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. He DIED FOR YOU
I left a 46 year relationship (42 year marriage) in July last year a month before this song came out. I heard a clip of it and could not wait for August 11th to arrive! I listened to this EMPOWERING song multiple times a day for months! It helped me tremendously to know getting out of the toxic relationship with a major narcissist was the right thing to do!
Thank u, Kelsey!!! This song really hits home 4 me. I had so much of myself to pick up after my husband's suicide. It has been 3 years since his death. I still have a long way to go. I ❤️ this song!!! I listen to it daily.
My fiance took his life last year, and I had to give my grief and pain to God to carry! I have laid on his grave and wept, buried my engagement ring on top of him, but said goodbye. His choice should not be a burden that I carry. Please allow God to carry your burden! He will give you peace, He did for me. I am praying for you!
I feel like I could have written this myself. Waiting on my divorce from my husband of almost 10 years (next February) Loving him, 3 kids, giving it my all, and fighting for him on his worst days wasn't enough. Made me doubt myself and my worth- treated us like we were disposable and unwanted. Put no effort into us (or anything) His mental health can't love us like we deserve to be loved, so i am praying Yah sends someone who will.
Thank you so much for this song. I just got out of a 24 married. And this song couldn't be more perfect. I put myself in a mental hospital for a week because I thought I was actually crazy. I left about 3 weeks after I got home. And things were the same. I realized I wasn't crazy it was my environment that was really the problem. Everyday Is a struggle to be back to the person I was, the one that I lost because of him. I have been in my own place since oct and I'm happier then I have been in at least 10 years. One day I will totally be back to the person I lost and the women I love. It will take some time but I determined to do it
Brought tears to my eyes. I'm on the healing journey so I don't attract anymore toxic relationships. Most who end up in the are people pleasers that's the part we need to fix we should never feel guilt for using the word no. Take care everyone.
I was married 14 years together 18... 2 children and been divorced 13 years. It was hell making that leap but he broke me... and now I am stonger than Ive ever been. This song hit home for me. Loving a Narcissist is the most crippling mentally and emotionally and physically thing to go through bc of all the mind games and constant put down and being man handled. Made to feel like your self worth doesnt matter. Thank you for this song!
Jamie, this song relates to me so deep. I love your voice. Your an amazingly beautiful artist and your voice has so much depth and range. It gives me goosebumps❤
This song has definitely, help to empower me, I know as i read yalls comments, it's definitely like writing my own post here, 16 years and feeling no self-worth, no value, no matter what I did was always wrong, noticed that my two teen daughters were headed the same direction, watched the movie ends with us, definitely a eye opener, this song just helped me get the strength I needed , so thank you this song is helping lots of people like me get the message that we love the women he made us be... an I can definitely live without....
19 yrs and I’ve finally been strong enough to walk away… As hard and at times, so scary, a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I have not been on my own since I was in my 20s so this is definitely a challenge! But I don’t want to ever live my life as depressed and anxious and miserable as I did for so many years,I’m hoping for the next part of my life I can truly find happiness and joy and the meaning of true love❤❤❤❤
I'm not a woman but I feel this song I just got out of a five and half year relationship with a narcissist she would entertain exes she would go through my phone even though she was the one cheating and right now she is keeping our son from me she lost 3500$ the money I had to provide for my family tricked me like she was going for therapy and she would be home in two weeks at first we were still hanging out and she even apologized to me just to start alienating me from our son thank you Kelsey this song gives me strength despite the lies and her keeping our son from me I know the truth will prevail praise God
This song truly enables how I feel. This is exactly how my mother made me feel. Through all her abuse and controlling ways. I had to cut contact with her 7 years ago. I a still working on healing but someday is hard when you want a maternal love that I will never get.
Married 28 year and been separated for a little over a year and it’s been hard and I still have hard days but I love that I can wake up and breathe a sigh of relief knowing I’m better each and every day. I’m not yet done with my journey but I am Enjoying life
12 years dealing with abuse mental physical emotional 5 years off an on me running away to the streets 1 year free 8 months with the new love of my life the man I ask God for
6 yrs and he convinced me to have a child when I didn’t want kids because I never wanted to be responsible for another human being made to feel what I have. No support system. He still has control over us. So we aren’t together but he tortures me mentally and tries emotionally. Thank God I have someone who I can turn to and understands I just can’t with a relationship and accepts me as I am. That sweet sexy man heals me every time he touches me.
I was in an abusive relationship for 21 years(physically, emotionally, verbally and mentally) It was the day that he put a gun to my head in front of our children that I said to God, if you let me out of this, I will come back. God honored my request and I kept my promise. God's grace is why I'm still alive today.
YAY 👏👏👏👏👏 for you ❤ NEVER go back to abuse of any kind…. You are “worthy” of sooooo much more….. always know your “worth” hope you see this comment….. keep looking up and never look back ❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much! I just wish that he could be put away for what he did to me, I just dont understand how its fair that he gets to walk free and I have to live with the trauma, and the PID Disease. :( @@sunset54715
18 years of abuse. Physical, mental and emotional abuse.. I had covid 3 times in 2020 and 2 times on life support gave me the strength to walk away and it's the best thing I did for my kids and now I have 2 amazing grandkids..
I dedicate this song to my daughter Alyssa. Her boyfriend has mentally knocked her down for almost 8 years, trying to convince her that she is the problem, even letting his family talk about her. NO HECTOR IT WAS YOU. I love you Alyssa
I wish this song had been around earlier. I was with a guy for 10 years who was mentally, verbally and mentally abusive and absolute narcissist. So many people tell me that it wasn't "abuse" because it wasn't physical and that I am "lucky" compared to others. Abuse is abuse regardless if its physical or not. NO ONE deserves to be told they don't matter and that they are worthless or pathetic. I am so glad I found a guy who loves me for me, who has been so patient and loving and picking up the pieces WITH me and shows me what genuine love is. My ex kept me from being who I wanted to be to make himself happy, everything was always my fault, if I told him how I felt I was delusional and senile. If I told him how I felt, he would tell me that I was looking for a fight and that I was looking for pity. When my husband and I had our first argument I got quiet because of all the flashbacks, he stopped and looked at me and went "you know I'm not him, we are gonna figure this out together as it's us vs the problem, not me vs you and that's when I finally realized I am safe and can finally be vulnerable when I need to be.
I was in 2 abusive relationship one for 6 years and the second one for two this song really helped me. Another one that was thank you for hating me by citizen soldier
@@filthyphil9276 I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you. It was 25 years for me, and then, like the song says "You made me turn away, you made me slam the door! Still working on my heart being stronger but hopefully, in time, it will be. Narcissists have no care or thought of who they hurt and what they leave behind them when they are finished with us. This song gives me hope that maybe, just maybe there is a way through this to something better.
Just found this song. It hits home. I just got out of a verbally abusive, narcissistic, and controlling relationship. He made me question everything. Told me I cheated, I lied, went through my phone, threw my phone, and left me on the cold hard ground. Got arrested for domestic violence and still blamed me. Made me out to be the crazy one. I loved him so I still went back because I was scared of being heartbroken. I felt like I needed him. He left me for another girl, and told me I didn’t have half of a skull. Yelled at my everyday. I’m glad I no longer have to question my existence, or who I am.
I’m working on getting myself out of a relationship with a narcissistic abusive addict who has taken almost half of my life. I don’t even know who I am anymore. I want to find myself again and have peace. It’s really hard when you don’t have any support or help.
This song is perfect. I'm currently in a bit of toxic relationship with my parents (I'm constantly being the one at fault when whatever they do is "justified"). So tysmm this is really helping me (I'm 13)
10 yrs I gave him. A child I gave him. A nice home I gave him. Put myself out to give him everything. Only to be mentally, emotionally and physically abused. I finally had to get a restraining order last week to get away and to him, it's my fault.
I’m going through this now I was with a guy for 5 months and I lost my relationship just now and I am so losted without I’m have cry so much missing him 💔😭
This song relates to me I have been in nothing but mentally and physically emotionally abused relationships I just got out of a 4 year relationship very close call but I am out
The hardest thing is being with a narcissist when you are already broken, and they break you down even more. Sadly, at the time you really start to believe he is right. When, your self esteem is beyond low as it is.. and he tells you shit like I like you better the way you used too look. Your stomach is too big. Or tries to make you feel less of a person because u gained weight. Or when you were that thin.. it was because i was in active addiction. So basically the fact that i have 3.5 years sober means nothing because i gained weight! Instead of being proud of you.. he picks apart your physical appearance... and fuckin justifies it. It totally ruins it for sumone who really wants to know you for who you are.. when he tells you this shit constantly you really start to believe it.. its the cycle of abuse. when you have no fkn idea what's it's like to be treated right.. Oh the classic gas lighting you.. and the next minute they start a fight with you.. make you feel like shit.. you react and he really says it's your fault and blames you for the reason... why he acts the way he acts. How do I get out of this cycle? 😫 I know I have to learn how to love myself first. I'm trying.. but it's so hard... 😢 I'm so tired of this. It kills me.
I love this song. I just escaped a very violent abusive relationship of 7 years with a narcissist and barely made it out. It took a lot of courage and fear but I I got away. I definitely have a story to tell and this song is me all the way. Thank you for making this song it touched my soul
Good for you !! Lots of love. You got this
Yessss 🙌🙌🙌made up you're out of it, stay strong, you got this, sending love and hugs xxx
Same here I just took my 3 babies and left a couple days ago and I'm never looking back
This is encouraging words for me
Divorcing My Cheating Narcissist Now after 17 years. Their Monsters.
20 years dealing with his mental abuse breaks you down but this song gives hope😢❤
I hear you.. ❤❤
I hope your still not dealing with it 😢
18 years here girl 😢finally walked away 6 months ago and what a different world it is..
Felt deep in my bones and soul
I fully know the feeling 😢😢 I’m so sorry you had to go through that❤
This should have been played on every radio and been Number One .
Great song
10 years of abuse of every form. I am so free now. This song has helped so much. Anyone who's going through this... get out... it's so worth it.
Ephesians 2:8-9 (KJV) For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Not of works, lest any man should boast.
He DIED FOR YOU
I left a 46 year relationship (42 year marriage) in July last year a month before this song came out. I heard a clip of it and could not wait for August 11th to arrive! I listened to this EMPOWERING song multiple times a day for months! It helped me tremendously to know getting out of the toxic relationship with a major narcissist was the right thing to do!
I wish you all the best for your future and nurture yourself through this. Very hard. Get good legal advice as well. you deserve better.
Thank u, Kelsey!!! This song really hits home 4 me. I had so much of myself to pick up after my husband's suicide. It has been 3 years since his death. I still have a long way to go. I ❤️ this song!!! I listen to it daily.
My fiance took his life last year, and I had to give my grief and pain to God to carry! I have laid on his grave and wept, buried my engagement ring on top of him, but said goodbye. His choice should not be a burden that I carry. Please allow God to carry your burden! He will give you peace, He did for me. I am praying for you!
I have been through this so many times and I finally have had enough of the narcissistic relationships I have been through
I feel like I could have written this myself. Waiting on my divorce from my husband of almost 10 years (next February)
Loving him, 3 kids, giving it my all, and fighting for him on his worst days wasn't enough. Made me doubt myself and my worth- treated us like we were disposable and unwanted. Put no effort into us (or anything)
His mental health can't love us like we deserve to be loved, so i am praying Yah sends someone who will.
Thank you so much for this song. I just got out of a 24 married. And this song couldn't be more perfect. I put myself in a mental hospital for a week because I thought I was actually crazy. I left about 3 weeks after I got home. And things were the same. I realized I wasn't crazy it was my environment that was really the problem. Everyday Is a struggle to be back to the person I was, the one that I lost because of him. I have been in my own place since oct and I'm happier then I have been in at least 10 years. One day I will totally be back to the person I lost and the women I love. It will take some time but I determined to do it
Brought tears to my eyes. I'm on the healing journey so I don't attract anymore toxic relationships. Most who end up in the are people pleasers that's the part we need to fix we should never feel guilt for using the word no. Take care everyone.
I was married 14 years together 18... 2 children and been divorced 13 years. It was hell making that leap but he broke me... and now I am stonger than Ive ever been. This song hit home for me. Loving a Narcissist is the most crippling mentally and emotionally and physically thing to go through bc of all the mind games and constant put down and being man handled. Made to feel like your self worth doesnt matter. Thank you for this song!
Jamie, this song relates to me so deep. I love your voice. Your an amazingly beautiful artist and your voice has so much depth and range. It gives me goosebumps❤
This song has definitely, help to empower me, I know as i read yalls comments, it's definitely like writing my own post here, 16 years and feeling no self-worth, no value, no matter what I did was always wrong, noticed that my two teen daughters were headed the same direction, watched the movie ends with us, definitely a eye opener, this song just helped me get the strength I needed , so thank you this song is helping lots of people like me get the message that we love the women he made us be... an I can definitely live without....
19 yrs and I’ve finally been strong enough to walk away… As hard and at times, so scary, a huge weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I have not been on my own since I was in my 20s so this is definitely a challenge! But I don’t want to ever live my life as depressed and anxious and miserable as I did for so many years,I’m hoping for the next part of my life I can truly find happiness and joy and the meaning of true love❤❤❤❤
I'm not a woman but I feel this song I just got out of a five and half year relationship with a narcissist she would entertain exes she would go through my phone even though she was the one cheating and right now she is keeping our son from me she lost 3500$ the money I had to provide for my family tricked me like she was going for therapy and she would be home in two weeks at first we were still hanging out and she even apologized to me just to start alienating me from our son thank you Kelsey this song gives me strength despite the lies and her keeping our son from me I know the truth will prevail praise God
This song truly enables how I feel. This is exactly how my mother made me feel. Through all her abuse and controlling ways. I had to cut contact with her 7 years ago. I a still working on healing but someday is hard when you want a maternal love that I will never get.
Over here bawling my eyes out😭😭😭
😢😢😢😢😢
Same
Beautiful song it made me cry but I loved it.
This song makes me think of my mom and what she put me through tell I said enough was enough
Same situation 40,5 years long…. Broke the contract since 2 weeks…. 🎉but I face a lot of shit now….but I’m so free now❤
EVER REACHING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT TO THOSE WITH EARS / AS SUCH A TIME AS THIS / UPLIFTING WORDS SOAR TO THE HEAVENLY RELMS 💚💚💚
Love this song and the one she sings about Second chances
I really needed this. I love this and this shows me that us woman we are powerful and strong in heart at all things. ❤
Married 28 year and been separated for a little over a year and it’s been hard and I still have hard days but I love that I can wake up and breathe a sigh of relief knowing I’m better each and every day. I’m not yet done with my journey but I am Enjoying life
Thank you for bringing this out it help me through hard times your amazing singer and amazing voice love your ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐❤
Beautiful song,
Beautiful video! This song hits home. Love it!
Best song ever been waiting all day for the keep up the great work ❤
Move over Lainey Wilson. What a beautiful voice and song!🔥🔥🔥🩷
This song is so true about a lot of peoples life’s. I live with this everyday. Thanks for this song.
12 years dealing with abuse mental physical emotional 5 years off an on me running away to the streets 1 year free 8 months with the new love of my life the man I ask God for
love this song so much, resonates in every way❤
6 yrs and he convinced me to have a child when I didn’t want kids because I never wanted to be responsible for another human being made to feel what I have. No support system. He still has control over us. So we aren’t together but he tortures me mentally and tries emotionally. Thank God I have someone who I can turn to and understands I just can’t with a relationship and accepts me as I am. That sweet sexy man heals me every time he touches me.
you got a voice of an angel kels
I was in an abusive relationship for 21 years(physically, emotionally, verbally and mentally) It was the day that he put a gun to my head in front of our children that I said to God, if you let me out of this, I will come back. God honored my request and I kept my promise. God's grace is why I'm still alive today.
I'm only listening to this song because some told me a story similar to these comments and told me this song helped her❤
heartbreak hits us all .....if we are human
I left my husband of 30 years and I'm just 9 months separated but I'm learning to love myself
Awesome 👏 Thanks for sharing your journey with us,, resinates all too well!!! Peace, Love, Prayers!✌️🫶🙏!
The pain in her voice you can just feel and hear it in the song
This song has me crying!!!!!
Thankyou, u put to words what I’ve been feeling! Thankyou
i was abused for years and finally got out, what a powerful song. i think ive hit my breaking point
YAY 👏👏👏👏👏 for you ❤ NEVER go back to abuse of any kind…. You are “worthy” of sooooo much more….. always know your “worth” hope you see this comment….. keep looking up and never look back ❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much! I just wish that he could be put away for what he did to me, I just dont understand how its fair that he gets to walk free and I have to live with the trauma, and the PID Disease. :(
@@sunset54715
My new favorite song. Love this. They don’t realize we are strong street we get away ❤
This song is saving me daily.
18 years of abuse. Physical, mental and emotional abuse.. I had covid 3 times in 2020 and 2 times on life support gave me the strength to walk away and it's the best thing I did for my kids and now I have 2 amazing grandkids..
I don't like this comment
I live only for my 14 autistic son. I love you Cody.. someone loves me
I dedicate this song to my daughter Alyssa. Her boyfriend has mentally knocked her down for almost 8 years, trying to convince her that she is the problem, even letting his family talk about her. NO HECTOR IT WAS YOU. I love you Alyssa
This song is 🔥. Keep making more ❤
Six years without being in narcissistic relationship. I got strong and nothing stands in my way . ❤
I wish this song had been around earlier. I was with a guy for 10 years who was mentally, verbally and mentally abusive and absolute narcissist. So many people tell me that it wasn't "abuse" because it wasn't physical and that I am "lucky" compared to others. Abuse is abuse regardless if its physical or not. NO ONE deserves to be told they don't matter and that they are worthless or pathetic. I am so glad I found a guy who loves me for me, who has been so patient and loving and picking up the pieces WITH me and shows me what genuine love is. My ex kept me from being who I wanted to be to make himself happy, everything was always my fault, if I told him how I felt I was delusional and senile. If I told him how I felt, he would tell me that I was looking for a fight and that I was looking for pity. When my husband and I had our first argument I got quiet because of all the flashbacks, he stopped and looked at me and went "you know I'm not him, we are gonna figure this out together as it's us vs the problem, not me vs you and that's when I finally realized I am safe and can finally be vulnerable when I need to be.
I love this. Happy for you both. This is what I hope to find myself.
Amazing Song thank you 🤠🤠🤠
Amazing song...❤
Amazing song ❤
Love it helped me get through a tough breakup
❤❤❤LOVE THIS SONG ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL HEARTS 💕
I love this song. I try left toxic man for 2 years but iam done 🖤💪
He kick me down but I am stonger then before ❤
Awesome song
The song 🎵 is very nice.
Nice song.
I love this song and music video there awesome.
Beautiful song ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Great song
Love the song, and love the video!
I was in 2 abusive relationship one for 6 years and the second one for two this song really helped me. Another one that was thank you for hating me by citizen soldier
Beautiful voice. 💜❤
Love this song so much ❤
I'm stronger than ever
Thank you for this song... Even though I am a guy, it still applies (with pronoun changes) to my situation too.
Hell yeah bro. My wife after 9 years of marriage and two beautiful daughters left my back in October. This song hits hard.
@@filthyphil9276 I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you. It was 25 years for me, and then, like the song says "You made me turn away, you made me slam the door! Still working on my heart being stronger but hopefully, in time, it will be. Narcissists have no care or thought of who they hurt and what they leave behind them when they are finished with us. This song gives me hope that maybe, just maybe there is a way through this to something better.
Best song I love it❤
Thank you so much 4 this song it's 4 my ex you ha e made me become me again it's my ringtone thank you God Bless you❤
I’m so sorry you had to go through that ❤😂
Thank you
Just found this song. It hits home. I just got out of a verbally abusive, narcissistic, and controlling relationship. He made me question everything. Told me I cheated, I lied, went through my phone, threw my phone, and left me on the cold hard ground. Got arrested for domestic violence and still blamed me. Made me out to be the crazy one. I loved him so I still went back because I was scared of being heartbroken. I felt like I needed him. He left me for another girl, and told me I didn’t have half of a skull. Yelled at my everyday. I’m glad I no longer have to question my existence, or who I am.
Love this song ❤
Love this song
I’m working on getting myself out of a relationship with a narcissistic abusive addict who has taken almost half of my life. I don’t even know who I am anymore. I want to find myself again and have peace. It’s really hard when you don’t have any support or help.
i love your songs can you keep makeing more pls i love them
This song is perfect. I'm currently in a bit of toxic relationship with my parents (I'm constantly being the one at fault when whatever they do is "justified"). So tysmm this is really helping me (I'm 13)
🙏🏻❤️ God please help me
❤❤ love this song
Beautiful ❤
Good song 🎵
Anyone else kinda hear the base of tear drops on my guitar a bit but this is like the grown version reality of leaving a narcissist
Being in a two year marriage with a narcissist it’s the worst. But seeking help is what makes you smile and happy again 😊
BeautiFull💖🎶💖🎶🎶💖
My own biological mother is a narcissist first time I heard this on a Facebook short I cried it's so true
Same 😢
Same
You made me❤
Everyone I ever knew made me feel like this. Now I am going to go alone
I love you Danielle Wooten ❤
10 yrs I gave him. A child I gave him. A nice home I gave him. Put myself out to give him everything. Only to be mentally, emotionally and physically abused. I finally had to get a restraining order last week to get away and to him, it's my fault.
25 years of abuse this song help save me survivor not victim
Amen we are SURVIVORS sister
❤❤❤
Just got divorced and this song has helped me!
18th year with a Covert Narc, divorced tomorrow. Hell will get easier now.
I’m going through this now I was with a guy for 5 months and I lost my relationship just now and I am so losted without I’m have cry so much missing him 💔😭
I just got out of an abusive relationship also. Years of it
This song relates to me I have been in nothing but mentally and physically emotionally abused relationships I just got out of a 4 year relationship very close call but I am out
I heard the Lord telling me that he is raising me up. And you will sit a high above. Not sure what it meant. This was in 2020.
The hardest thing is being with a narcissist when you are already broken, and they break you down even more. Sadly, at the time you really start to believe he is right. When, your self esteem is beyond low as it is.. and he tells you shit like I like you better the way you used too look. Your stomach is too big. Or tries to make you feel less of a person because u gained weight. Or when you were that thin.. it was because i was in active addiction. So basically the fact that i have 3.5 years sober means nothing because i gained weight! Instead of being proud of you.. he picks apart your physical appearance... and fuckin justifies it. It totally ruins it for sumone who really wants to know you for who you are.. when he tells you this shit constantly you really start to believe it.. its the cycle of abuse. when you have no fkn idea what's it's like to be treated right.. Oh the classic gas lighting you.. and the next minute they start a fight with you.. make you feel like shit.. you react and he really says it's your fault and blames you for the reason... why he acts the way he acts. How do I get out of this cycle? 😫 I know I have to learn how to love myself first. I'm trying.. but it's so hard... 😢 I'm so tired of this. It kills me.