Zita, apart from me seeing the elder sister as someone that's into women and not men, marriage is a different journey in life and it's not for everyone. . There are several men and women who are not ready and will never be ready to settle down with a life partner based on their past experiences and/or their personal decisions. My only advice here to them is to go to the village together and meet the elders or the uncles concerned in the tradition. If the elder sister tells them she doesn't want to get married and for her personal reasons the younger sister can go ahead and get married there's no way the tradition will not allow the younger sister to get married since it has been permitted by the older sister herself. We're Africans with traditions and not religion so there's always an amendment in our traditions. Religion was imposed on us by our colonial masters and there's no amendments in religion. Our traditions always have room for amendments. Much love from Ghanaian brother in the USA 🇺🇸
You are very right she looks so much lesbian, over here when you see a lady dress and stand that way she is lesbian. GOD will touch her. Also jealous of her sister💔💔💔💔🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
She is into girls, her steps, her body moves said it all, she couldn't just say it that she is into girls, even advising her to go to church. Her younger sister should go and marry simple
Are you people acting or what? You cannot keep mentioning tradition without mentioning any state, town or village where such tradition exists. Please even if it's acting, let's follow the rudiments 😂
As long as her elder sister has given her permission to marry she is free and bless to marry, thats how it works. Because its not everyone that is meant to marry, note that.
If she is a lesbian or not, she shouldn't be forced to marry. The younger sister should not be selfish like this. I can't imagine my sibling forcing me to marry a man even when I don't wish to.. Marriage is not for everyone.
What's selfish about this? Very stupid tradition. Very nonsense tradition . Only Nigeria will this happen. Come to Ghana and tell a girl to wait until her elder sister is married before she can marry while she's not even ready. Kaiii. Thank God I'm not a Nigerian 🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏
Her senior sister is something else. There is something behind she not wanting to marry , let her open up. Her junior is not selfish. The senior sister is not saying anything reasonable at her age not getting married. Something is wrong somewhere. The lady is behaving like a man. Na wa oooooooo.This tradition is the worst one in the whole world.
@@paulinaoppongkesewah7384 must u carry your hatred for Nigerians here? Pls allow the Nigerian breath after all your country and Nigeria ain't the same so don't bring up talks like this under my comment. At least it is better than the way Ghanaians embrace dead people's burial but never embrace the living. I am partly a Ghanian, but I don't discriminate other country, tribe or culture. I only said she is selfish, I never said the whole Nigerians are. So think before u type and just respect yourself to avoid unnecessary talks.
Traditional can never be superior to God's word. Let go back God who is greater than every Tradition. Is a pity she doesn't have a relationship with GOD. PLEASE advice to hold on God
What happened is that if she married before her senior sister the senior sister it will be very difficult for her to marry husband would be difficult to get easily
Since the SENIOR SISTER has given her younger sister the PERMISSION, it is settled physically & spiritually. She can go ahead and marry. NOTHING will happen.👍
Exactly ....Even when my own younger sister is about to marry,,she asked me and I told her to go and marry simple....since 2020 now I am about to get my own married too....my younger sister,first married before me too
Looking at the elder sister, it's obvious that she's into girls. She can't be forced into marrying a man. The younger sister can get married as long as the senior sister has given her the permission. That's allowed in Igbo land. I have seen that happen.
Zitachy, advise your client about the stand of her sister - She's a convinced lesbian! She has said it several times that, she WON'T marry a man. To your question if she would marry a woman she answered: "maybe." If she wouldn't marry a woman, then she would have given a clear NO! That's what shows that she has a problem with (African) tradition...Then she advised the younger sister to go and marry in the church, where nobody 😜will ask questions about her not being married. These are 2 worlds apart. Good Luck Lovely Zitachy! Wishing you strength escorting this young lady. This case isn't a child's play🙏🏾❣️TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF❤️❤️❤️ 🇿🇦
I like this big sister, she saidgo church they go breack that aot... The same babalawo go breack your marriage She's wide ooh Waitin she no know no know am😂😂😂..only GOD is great ,babalawo no get power
The younger sister should not waste her time waiting for her to get married. I think her sexual preference is the complete opposite of what you are asking her to do. In other words she’s in that girls thing. Her dressing , talking and actions points to that direction.
This lady should not be forced to marry against her wish, just bcos of tradition. The elder sister has right to say she doesn’t want to marry. No be force to marry, irrespective of her sexual orientation. She’s standing in her right!
Zitach, this is also in my tradition, Since the elder sister says go and marry I give you permission, she's free to marry because the elders don't want to marry. Honestly. It's as simple as that. 🤷♂️.
Yes in my village we use to have it. But now is not working anymore. Ask her to go to her village with her senior to meet there elders explain to them believe me they will see give her go ahead to marry
This is absurd that in this age of salvation & redemption of mankind, there are many out there that is Stil in Egypt, intentionally deriving pleasure in remaining in captivity. So sad
Yes, you are right, but even the bible recognised the traditional marriage, which is the family right and any living church will always ask you before the wedding both of them in church, if the family rights have been done, that is the traditional marriage ,please tell people that truth The only thing I see here is that the family has a way of dealing with this kind of issue for the young sister to get married, not bypass the family right (traditional marriage)
@@osaroizedonmwen5962 See I haven't talk against tradition but in a situation like this where by the traditionals can't reverse some tradition like this then what will be your option if not Church.
That tradition is primarily meant to preserve the respect of seniors and not necessarily tied to spirituality. But in this kind of situation where the senior chose a path, it is no longer binding on her younger sister. Sometimes too village people use those so-called tradition to hold people down out of jealousy. Her sister made a lot of sense and I don't think that she has to be grounded because of traditions of men. My father refused my elder sister's husband until the day I introduced mine. He had to ask my sister to go ahead and bring him because he felt he can't stop me nor allow me marry before my sister who has been waiting for his approval, so we got wedded a month apart. I don't see anything difficult here, alternatively go through your church who will now break into your uncles and village people. To every rule, there's always an exception.
Thank God where i am from we dont need no traditions or elders permission to get us marred if the young or old wanna get married so be it all we need is our parents and God's blessing 🙌 🙏
In this case the elders must understand that the younger sister should marry because the big Sis wants to remain single, maybe she wants to be a Rev sister. It is her choice she cant be forced. You can be married in church
Yes, you are right, but even the bible recognised the traditional marriage,which is the family right and any living church will always ask you before the wedding both of them in church, if the family rights have been done, that is the traditional marriage
The fact that the elder sister don’t want to marry shouldn’t stop her younger sister to get married, had it been her elder sister want to marry but hasn’t find one makes it different. The younger one can get married bcos of the decision of the elderly one
Since she rejected the offer she can go ahead to marry. It's just a protocol, it doesn't carry a curse. It a form of orderliness, respect for the elder sister. When the junior Mary first it will complicate the seniority thing among the in-laws.
Does she believe in God? If yes, that is the solution. If she doesn't believe in God, she should run to the village and ask people to help her. The sister is in love with women
When it’s come to tradition some times is spiritual, but with God all things are possible, I pray that God we touched the heart of the elder sis to change her mind, it’s well
It's true that she can ignore the tradition, but I want you guys to know that the elders will not arrange the marriage for her.Secondly,that tradition is dedicated to the idol/the devil,and the devil don't like to leave what's put in his care. I know that God is greater than the devil,but that will be a big fight for her.
What kind of tradition is this, ah beg. Then big sis you better go marry, and allow your younger sister to go ahead with her life, if that’s the tradition
She can go get married on the side of Christ and all will be fine. But if she has taken an Oath in the village when she was living in the village then, that may be the reason why she do not want to marry in the church.
No tradition can stop her. She should go ahead and get married. Nothing will happen. She should go ahead. If she is an igbo lady nothing stops her from getting married. It is ideal for the senior one to get married but not a tradition. If she is not responsible no one waits for her.
You don’t have to accept every assignment. You just embarrassed this woman in front of the whole world. You and the younger sister are lucky she didn’t beat both of you up.
Zitachy is like you sef na native person wey no believe God. The woman say she never ready for marriage and even direct her to God, you still dey pressurize her to get marry. Abi their uncle don do the small girl. Abi ma by force
The senior sister is very sensible to me here by giving her the best advise to go to church, trust GOD, I support that, there is no tradition greater than A believer in JESUS, she should open her heart to jESUS and open up to him, I believe that is where her solution is
Papa and Mama wey get work to do ooo. Street sister wey get brain,am with you to an extent. Different ideaology,belief, perception, upbringing, enlightenment, knowledge etc
I love this Elder sis She so bliv in God despite her lesbianism act That’s very nice The younger sis never ready sha wen she’s ready no b person go tell her to marry
The elder sister made a lot of sense by suggesting that the younger sis should go to church and pray
Traditional marriage comes first Boss
Amen
True
Zita, apart from me seeing the elder sister as someone that's into women and not men, marriage is a different journey in life and it's not for everyone. . There are several men and women who are not ready and will never be ready to settle down with a life partner based on their past experiences and/or their personal decisions. My only advice here to them is to go to the village together and meet the elders or the uncles concerned in the tradition. If the elder sister tells them she doesn't want to get married and for her personal reasons the younger sister can go ahead and get married there's no way the tradition will not allow the younger sister to get married since it has been permitted by the older sister herself. We're Africans with traditions and not religion so there's always an amendment in our traditions. Religion was imposed on us by our colonial masters and there's no amendments in religion. Our traditions always have room for amendments.
Much love from Ghanaian brother in the USA 🇺🇸
Fact!!!
Well said
You are right.
What kind of useless tradition is that? A beg go marry young lady. Go to church find a good one that will break you from that wicked tradition
The elder sister has said it all...,. and she has given her the permission
The elder sister said several times😎she's not going to marry a man..that means she's into girl. Leave her alone
Let her marry a gal😅😅
She is original MAN LESBIAN
She's not a girl ooo
My lady,pls try to go for serious prayer nd deliverance for u nd u will marry for good. If u know ibadan, try to go nd see prophet Abel Taiwo Ojo.
You are very right she looks so much lesbian, over here when you see a lady dress and stand that way she is lesbian. GOD will touch her. Also jealous of her sister💔💔💔💔🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
She is into girls, her steps, her body moves said it all, she couldn't just say it that she is into girls, even advising her to go to church. Her younger sister should go and marry simple
That lady is onto something else lezbo
Everything about her sister na tomboy
It's truth
Are you people acting or what? You cannot keep mentioning tradition without mentioning any state, town or village where such tradition exists. Please even if it's acting, let's follow the rudiments 😂
Rest, marriage isn't for everyone
Tradition is confusion while God is Light and peace. Thanks
Hello Zita, I can't stop saying this oooo honestly am so proud of you in everything, more wisdom and Grace of God Amen.
Omo this girl na man oo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can't force someone to marry she is happy with what she is doing
DIS one na man oooo 😂😂😂
As long as her elder sister has given her permission to marry she is free and bless to marry, thats how it works. Because its not everyone that is meant to marry, note that.
True 👍🏽
Sincere question: What tradition is this? Never heard of this before.
true
You are right
Absolutely right
“Come rain come sun come evrytin I no wan marry “😂
😂😂😂😂
If she is a lesbian or not, she shouldn't be forced to marry. The younger sister should not be selfish like this. I can't imagine my sibling forcing me to marry a man even when I don't wish to.. Marriage is not for everyone.
Exactly this is it..the young girl is selfish
What's selfish about this? Very stupid tradition. Very nonsense tradition . Only Nigeria will this happen. Come to Ghana and tell a girl to wait until her elder sister is married before she can marry while she's not even ready. Kaiii. Thank God I'm not a Nigerian 🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏
Her senior sister is something else. There is something behind she not wanting to marry , let her open up. Her junior is not selfish. The senior sister is not saying anything reasonable at her age not getting married. Something is wrong somewhere. The lady is behaving like a man. Na wa oooooooo.This tradition is the worst one in the whole world.
@@paulinaoppongkesewah7384 must u carry your hatred for Nigerians here? Pls allow the Nigerian breath after all your country and Nigeria ain't the same so don't bring up talks like this under my comment. At least it is better than the way Ghanaians embrace dead people's burial but never embrace the living. I am partly a Ghanian, but I don't discriminate other country, tribe or culture. I only said she is selfish, I never said the whole Nigerians are. So think before u type and just respect yourself to avoid unnecessary talks.
@@obikegertrude3710 madam if u no get talk, carry your talks out of my comment abeg. Are u any better?
If you believe the tradition.. things will happen, forgot the tradition and go marry the person you love instead of giving you elder sister headache
Forget tradition Kwa
Traditional can never be superior to God's word. Let go back God who is greater than every Tradition. Is a pity she doesn't have a relationship with GOD. PLEASE advice to hold on God
What happened is that if she married before her senior sister the senior sister it will be very difficult for her to marry husband would be difficult to get easily
this is the most funniest video i have ever watch chaii hahahaha God.
Since the SENIOR SISTER has given her younger sister the PERMISSION, it is settled physically & spiritually. She can go ahead and marry. NOTHING will happen.👍
Exactly ....Even when my own younger sister is about to marry,,she asked me and I told her to go and marry simple....since 2020 now I am about to get my own married too....my younger sister,first married before me too
Zii this matter tire you oooo as you dey so ooo. De matter de make you catch cold. So sorry Zii.
This is ridiculous ! Its her right not to marry. Its her life!! Simple!
This one na wahalaoooo please go see a man of God
For sure your right ..she can't force someone to marry when she is not ready..now her young sister looking for man for her sister ..it's not right
Hi Zit this is your fun Josephine from Uganda
Looking at the elder sister, it's obvious that she's into girls. She can't be forced into marrying a man. The younger sister can get married as long as the senior sister has given her the permission. That's allowed in Igbo land. I have seen that happen.
💯💯 she's a lesbian I don't know how the sis is not aware
Of course she is a lesbian
That one self they sha
Yeah.... she's a confirm stud!
You dey tell leasban to marry 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not everyone like marriage, pls leave her alone
Zitachy, advise your client about the stand of her sister - She's a convinced lesbian! She has said it several times that, she WON'T marry a man. To your question if she would marry a woman she answered: "maybe." If she wouldn't marry a woman, then she would have given a clear NO! That's what shows that she has a problem with (African) tradition...Then she advised the younger sister to go and marry in the church, where nobody 😜will ask questions about her not being married. These are 2 worlds apart. Good Luck Lovely Zitachy! Wishing you strength escorting this young lady. This case isn't a child's play🙏🏾❣️TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF❤️❤️❤️ 🇿🇦
Elder sister is talking lots of sense
I like this big sister, she saidgo church they go breack that aot...
The same babalawo go breack your marriage
She's wide ooh
Waitin she no know no know am😂😂😂..only GOD is great ,babalawo no get power
The younger sister should not waste her time waiting for her to get married. I think her sexual preference is the complete opposite of what you are asking her to do. In other words she’s in that girls thing.
Her dressing , talking and actions points to that direction.
I just saw the way how she puts her hands into the pockets. It's says it more than the words themselves...
Una dey fear to talk am ahe bi lesbian
She LGBTQ+
Wetin i no know no go know me😂😂😂😂😂
This lady should not be forced to marry against her wish, just bcos of tradition. The elder sister has right to say she doesn’t want to marry. No be force to marry, irrespective of her sexual orientation. She’s standing in her right!
You're mad
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I feel for you Zitachi.
Zitach, this is also in my tradition, Since the elder sister says go and marry I give you permission, she's free to marry because the elders don't want to marry. Honestly. It's as simple as that. 🤷♂️.
This one na man oooh 😂😂
Yes in my village we use to have it. But now is not working anymore. Ask her to go to her village with her senior to meet there elders explain to them believe me they will see give her go ahead to marry
Omo the elder sister look like man sef. Omo the way she dey talk sef the tin dey fear me
This is absurd that in this age of salvation & redemption of mankind, there are many out there that is Stil in Egypt, intentionally deriving pleasure in remaining in captivity. So sad
Why dont you speak plainly
Wahala no dey finish oo
Even if they check very well there might be a few elders who will accept to change that tradition.
Plenty self
Which village dey give that rule
If you don't want to go to Church to break the traditional covenant then remain single because you can't force someone to get married period.
Yes, you are right, but even
the bible recognised the
traditional marriage, which is
the family right and any
living church will always ask
you before the wedding both
of them in church, if the
family rights have been
done, that is the traditional
marriage ,please tell people that truth
The only thing I see here is that the family has a way of dealing with this kind of issue for the young sister to get married, not bypass the family right (traditional marriage)
@@osaroizedonmwen5962 See I haven't talk against tradition but in a situation like this where by the traditionals can't reverse some tradition like this then what will be your option if not Church.
Very hard thing to break. What would Jacob in the Bible do. Read the marital story of Jacob and you will come to your senses
I wonder she don't believe in God her sister is good one
And u support the lesbian abi
Let the junior sister go ahead n marry ,since the elder sister don't believe in tradition. Thks. Celine from Cameroon 🇨🇲
That tradition is primarily meant to preserve the respect of seniors and not necessarily tied to spirituality. But in this kind of situation where the senior chose a path, it is no longer binding on her younger sister. Sometimes too village people use those so-called tradition to hold people down out of jealousy. Her sister made a lot of sense and I don't think that she has to be grounded because of traditions of men. My father refused my elder sister's husband until the day I introduced mine. He had to ask my sister to go ahead and bring him because he felt he can't stop me nor allow me marry before my sister who has been waiting for his approval, so we got wedded a month apart. I don't see anything difficult here, alternatively go through your church who will now break into your uncles and village people. To every rule, there's always an exception.
Let the big sister marry so that the small sister will marry, because tradition work o o o
Zita you have a lovely voice, i like your voice
Let the junior sister go marry nah Abi momma, as far she no go die or anything it’s never a bad thing coz the senior no fit marry ohhh 😊
This babe na tomboy o😀. It will take prayers o
It's only God that can intervene in this case
Just go to church look for a genuine man of God pray fast everything will be fine love from Ghana 🇬🇭 🇬🇭
Whether it be a man or woman of interest, she has a right when she want to get married. In this case the tradition want fit this case.😢😢
This elder sister don turn man finished oooo😅
I think she is making a point here and we should all remember everyone has his or her own opinion happiness is free
This one na man oh 😅 😂
Let her go to church, pls respect one's decision 🙏🙏
Are you not an African man don't you understand what is tradition
wahala dey like wetin.abeg the elder sister should beg the elders for her sake for the sake of sisterly love
Marriage is not by force.
From which village??
Thank God where i am from we dont need no traditions or elders permission to get us marred if the young or old wanna get married so be it all we need is our parents and God's blessing 🙌 🙏
Shine your eyes to see who that lady is oohhhh. Watching from USA.we know them
I just like her ways for not believing yeye traditions 😅
This lady na Tom boy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
In this case the elders must understand that the younger sister should marry because the big Sis wants to remain single, maybe she wants to be a Rev sister. It is her choice she cant be forced. You can be married in church
She is a lesbian
Yes, you are right, but even the bible recognised the traditional marriage,which is the family right and any living church will always ask you before the wedding both of them in church, if the family rights have been done, that is the traditional marriage
Just quietly go to the registry and get married and leave out the traditional
Mama dey into women, 😂😂😂
They should go to the village elders to find the way out of this situation
See as she dey waka like man🤧
Even a Tom boy sister knows better than her younger sister that is living a normal female life style.
🤨 She no won marry ma nah by force? Abeg leave her cause I like her, make I marry her make she dey come 🇬🇧 ❤😍❤ Shout out to me!!!
She is passing as a tomboy
She's passing as a stud
She's a real tomboy just like a man.
The senior sister no be girl ooo
The fact that the elder sister don’t want to marry shouldn’t stop her younger sister to get married, had it been her elder sister want to marry but hasn’t find one makes it different. The younger one can get married bcos of the decision of the elderly one
Wahala dey o
Since she rejected the offer she can go ahead to marry. It's just a protocol, it doesn't carry a curse. It a form of orderliness, respect for the elder sister. When the junior Mary first it will complicate the seniority thing among the in-laws.
Thank you
Where is she from?
Does she believe in God? If yes, that is the solution. If she doesn't believe in God, she should run to the village and ask people to help her. The sister is in love with women
This sisters are so funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She is in to girls 👧 I guess 😢
Yes she is into girls
So happy I'm not the only one who can see she is clearly into girls
Exactly
Yea she is a stud so she doesn’t like men
When it’s come to tradition some times is spiritual, but with God all things are possible, I pray that God we touched the heart of the elder sis to change her mind, it’s well
Omo leave tradition and trust on God
Do your marriage nothing go happen if u believe in The lord
You still don't get it. Who will give her hand out in marriage?
Where is she from
Elder sister is LGBTQ 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she is not gonna married 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
I was saying that too
The junior sister is very selfish. Why is she trying to force her sister against her wish.
Na God go collect dowry?hmmmm, wahala dey like bicycle.
It's true that she can ignore the tradition, but I want you guys to know that the elders will not arrange the marriage for her.Secondly,that tradition is dedicated to the idol/the devil,and the devil don't like to leave what's put in his care. I know that God is greater than the devil,but that will be a big fight for her.
What kind of tradition is this, ah beg. Then big sis you better go marry, and allow your younger sister to go ahead with her life, if that’s the tradition
She can go get married on the side of Christ and all will be fine.
But if she has taken an Oath in the village when she was living in the village then, that may be the reason why she do not want to marry in the church.
She should go to God and forget tradition. She can only be free in christ.
Zi, advise the senior sister to marry on contract then divorce the man so that her junior sister can get married if truly she cares.
No tradition can stop her. She should go ahead and get married. Nothing will happen. She should go ahead. If she is an igbo lady nothing stops her from getting married. It is ideal for the senior one to get married but not a tradition. If she is not responsible no one waits for her.
😂😂😂😂😂Realzitachy so funny 😂😂😂😂
You don’t have to accept every assignment. You just embarrassed this woman in front of the whole world. You and the younger sister are lucky she didn’t beat both of you up.
Nonsense
Zitachy is like you sef na native person wey no believe God. The woman say she never ready for marriage and even direct her to God, you still dey pressurize her to get marry. Abi their uncle don do the small girl. Abi ma by force
Are you sure she's not a lesbian,in fact, she is....
I think she is
Yeah she is😅😅😅😅
Her sister is a lesbian and marrying a woman will not be allowed.
What does that have to do with it?
She is a lesbian
The senior sister is very sensible to me here by giving her the best advise to go to church, trust GOD, I support that, there is no tradition greater than A believer in JESUS, she should open her heart to jESUS and open up to him, I believe that is where her solution is
Na waaar things dey happen
I just like the way they speak 😂😂😂😂
Let the Junior Sister just forget about her Elder Sister. Go and Marry . Forget your Elder Sister.
Na wa ooh I nor wan marry man God abeg ooh 😢
Bring both of them to me and I'll settle the matter amicably. No fees, it's gonna be gratis. Dr. S. Ekatah.
Make she no go baba side ooo make she go church na
Which kind tradition this one na him be?
Abeg how Unna come want make girl-boy marry
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Papa and Mama wey get work to do ooo.
Street sister wey get brain,am with you to an extent.
Different ideaology,belief, perception, upbringing, enlightenment, knowledge etc
Chai she needs deliverance, bad spirit has possessed her, God have mercy
Babe that's traditional but with proper arrangements she will marry, it's just respect for seniors
Hi Zita tell her to marry for her sister is already clear
She should go and marry happily finish
Which tradition be that one
Which state are they from?
I love this Elder sis
She so bliv in God despite her lesbianism act
That’s very nice
The younger sis never ready sha wen she’s ready no b person go tell her to marry
Antty get married ooh let us marry our wife oooh
Which kind tradition be that for Nigeria. Never heard of that ooo