I first noted this/these actions with family. So much so that when I started pulling back they started shaming me as a technique to get me to submit... Then, is when I realized I needed to cut them off permanently. Next was so called friends. When they noticed my backing off they too started to shame me (actually call me names). Then and only then did I realize what a waste in the way of time associations with people was even detrimental to my being... In short I was not going to be a lay down anymore... Since I greatly gained peace within my self. I've ruled out everything that comes against that peace, then it's much more easily recognized
I first noted this/these actions with family. So much so that when I started pulling back they started shaming me as a technique to get me to submit... Then, is when I realized I needed to cut them off permanently.
Next was so called friends. When they noticed my backing off they too started to shame me (actually call me names). Then and only then did I realize what a waste in the way of time associations with people was even detrimental to my being...
In short I was not going to be a lay down anymore...
Since I greatly gained peace within my self. I've ruled out everything that comes against that peace, then it's much more easily recognized