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“Do a little bit more than you feel like doing” this is huge. Thank you!
" And if at first you don't succeed, then dust yourself off and try again." -Aaliyah
1. self preservation. don’t pay attention to things that don’t concern you. say no.
2. prioritize & romanticize the mundane (boring human tasks)
3. prioritize self adornment. always do a little bit more than you feel like doing
4. reserve your sexual energy for your creations
5. cycle synch
@@stinathesaturnian exactly.
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GETTING HOTTER
1. self preservation
- your attention and energy are like currency
- budget your energy
- don't spend your energy/attention on things that won't set you up for success/aren't for your own growth
- don't focus on things that don't have to do with you
- don't be invested in stupid things (drama, pop culture)
- don't put yourself in environments that you know will drain you (learn to say 'no')
2. prioritise the mundane
- sleep before 12 am
- exercise
- eating healthy
- good physical hygiene (brush your teeth, shower, etc...)
- "cleanliness is next to godliness"
- go to the dentist (1-2 times a year)
- go to the gynaecologist / get tested
3. prioritise self adornment
- decorate yourself (hair, makeup, jewellery)
- do a little more than you feel like doing (if you feel like doing 25% do 35% or 40%)
- women = yin energy (seductive, drawing in energy)
- pull in energy from your external environment --> more energy to transmute into fuel to feed your desires/goals/motivation
- balancing your mindset
4. sexual discipline - treat your body like a temple
- reserve your sexual energy for your creative endeavours
- don't just expel your sexual energy for other people to take and to use
5. cycle synching
- 4 different phases: follicular, ovulation, luteal, menstrual
- mind > matter (your body)
- learn your body
--- learn what your body needs / your body's habits during each phase so you know how to combat it
- know better --> do better
GETTING SMARTER
1. prioritise your education/business/certification
- you don't have to stick to it (humans = multifaceted)
- try different things
- prioritise education and business > romantic relationships
- no reason to be a bum ... in 2024 ...
- being dumb = not sexy / hot / attractive !!!
2. generate your own income
- multiple strings of income
- invest in yourself and assets (equipment)
- learn how to make money online (copyrighting, drop shipping, digital sales, coding)
- what your partner can bring, should be an ADDITION not what you're relying on
- make sure you can leave a relationship if you have to (have "fuck you money")
- don't be a broke bitch -
3. develop strong discernment
- don't be easily impressed, know how to act, don't be swayed by flattery, don't fall for bullshit
- learn from others / learn from observation / learn from your own experiences
- easily impressed = the worst thing to be as a girl
- know when someone has bad intentions or ill will towards you
- people will say what they need to keep your attention
4. be your own #1 priority
- prioritise your adornment, mental wellness, physical wellness, health, hygiene
- no matter what happens, don't let yourself go (kids, husband, many businesses, etc...)
- it's not selfish it's necessary
- women programmed to always give
--- learn to reserve and preserve your energy and spend it on things that matter
- pay yourself first (give your own self your attention/energy first before you give it to anyone/anything else)
- transmute your energy/emotions
--- use your negative emotions as fuel to set yourself up to do things that prioritise yourself
5. understand the importance in staying selective in everything
- the quality of your relationships, thoughts, possessions, and energy impacts the outcomes she experiences/cultivates
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Thank you beautiful for the lovely summarization ❤
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I appreciate the summary ❤❤
God bless u
Have you ever noticed how someone like Leah just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
Im listening while cooking before I join my study session 😭 and I just found you last month. This just a reminder I’m on my boss shit and I ain’t letting up 🙌🏽✨.
I’m proud of you ❤
This definitely gave me motivation to get out bed and get back to focusing on self!
You ate and left no crumbs. It’s so so so important to have your own of everything. I got my degree back in 2021 and work for the government making really good money all while taking care of myself and being my own cheerleader because yes I’m in a relationship but at times it can be where it’s always my fault and I’m getting called names and there’s good days but at the end of the day you have to think about yourself
Go back, go back, “getting called names”?!? Girl leave!
You are beautiful and educated you don’t deserved to be called names
@@DjenicaJacquesright..?
@@DjenicaJacquesexpeditiously!!!
u are an inspiration! good job girl👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😍
Your face card is insane girl
Be smart enough and know when to play dumb ❤
Girl I REALLY needed to listen to that, specially the part that you mention that we need to fuck around and find out, I am starting to slowly break up this barrier that I have and it is being an amazing experience, doing it for me.
Had this video playing in the back while I study for my pre-law mid semesters! You are on point!
@@Dashofsunshine123 queennnn , cmon pre-law 💘💘
That logo comment is hilarious… like do not piss me off!! lol 😅
The more energy you put into yourself the more energy you attract. So be intentional.
“Bitch the logo??” You really gathered me omg😭
Your voice is sooo needed! Very refreshing to hear your take on embracing getting hotter and a go-getter mindset ♥️
Giiirl I am sooooo happy to be in this stage of my life 🙌🏼 may your video reach many many women ✨
preach girl - you are IT honey. found your chanel today. love EVERYTHING about it. keep it going. you are a true inspiration ❤️
i’ve been wanting to start a boutique for yearsssss, thank you so much for this video!
do it ma u got dis 🫶🫶
I love you soooooo much. A lot of the stuff you talk about making sure you’re doing in this is really hard for me because I’ve struggled a lot with depression and anxiety since I was like eight 😭 I really love how you put punctuality in your statements to make sure you know! This videos really mean a lot to me because my mom never really taught me anything about anything really lol so watching these always mean so much to me:)
Idk where you’ve been all my life, but you’re officially my new virtual bestie. No more time for lazy folk
I absolutely loved this video. The cycle synching is definitely something I'm looking to learn more of. Thank you so much for this❤
TAKE CARE OF YOUR TEETH
Thank you for this reminder seriously
OMG❤ yesssssss!!!! Exactly Dr. Appt. Dental appointments Well Women Check-Ups every 1 or 6 months… 100% on point!!! Hygiene please talk MORE on it…. Wish I could send this video to a co worker 😬
would love a cycle synching guide !! thx for the motivation girl
You MUST have fire specially Sagittarius in your chart. It bleeds thru the screen I love ur bluntness
it her rising sign
i am new here and i loveeee leahlations smm. I feel so motivated and inspired! Tysm girl!
Love having you here! 💖
girl your makeup looks so pretty
you are literally my kind of person. Everything you said, you said with value. love it❤
The way I HOLLERED when you dragged me about a logo hahahahahaha omg read me!! I’m not going to let 3 more years pass by, getting it going now! This was confirmation 😂❤
i love how cut throat the advice is! i needed this lmao❤️❤️❤️
Every time you cuss it cracks me tf up your hilarious 😂 love the information your putting out and how honest and straight up you are 💯🌹🥰
i just got recommended this playlist by youtube , youtube was like here you go change your life
I hate you but I love you at the same times😩 this is the type of motivation that I need😢
This video was enlightening. Thank you for this discplined message 💗!!
who else is from the snippet we got from tiktok?😁
sidenote: Leah guurl, may i kindly ask what's your star sign ( or big 3).✨️
please the hygiene video will be highly appreciated.🙏🏾
Here!
Me lol
The way I subscribed before watching anything bc of that
Me
@@jounerie_ cancer sun & moon , sag rising
This was a breath of fresh air! Very succinct and gave me so much confirmation that I’ve always been on the right path and am still on the right track, despite some hiccups. It reiterated my self-belief & concept. I struggled being in environments and around others way past the expiration date and it contributed to (knowing myself because I did these things innately yet not knowing myself due to being around the wrong people/places that couldn’t pour back into me like I deserved). Great video and I look forward to seeing more! 🦋🦋🦋
People think it’s strange that I get tested twice a year even tho I’m married. My answer is always “I did this before him so I will continue to do it”
Smart! These men cheat without a condom.
That's smart. My aunt passed from AIDS in the '90s because her husband was on the DL. Always get tested if you are sexually active. You might be monogamous but there's no guaranteeing anyone else is
Thank you for this video!!! I hope you are extremely proud of the woman you are and the one you are yet to become. Keep up the good work x
Girl you be cussing our black asses out in these videos LMAOO. But no I love these videos ❤❤
Before this video I wasn’t educated about the mental cycle phases 😳 and how much it has an impact on us. Def would love a video guide about cycle sync! 28:02 I felt that😂😂‼️ #YOUKNOWBETTERSOYOUDOBETTER!
Girl I needed this fr thank you
I deal with procrastination and is very difficult for me to stay focused and motivated. All love from Suriname 🇸🇷
Leah you was dropping alot of gems
Needed this advice. Thank you Leah ❤
I’m glad I stumbled upon this video. Thank you sis
TY sis! Your tangent was needed! I'm getting my life together!
I am interested! Because during those bad points in my cycle I’m so down. And I used to really think it was only me who felt like that
Babyyyy when I tell you I got tf up!!😂 love u girl needed the tough love
just found you and your vibe is exactly what i needed today THANK YOU GREAT VIDEO!!
Amen 💯💯💯. You are definitely right. Keep preaching dear.
i am SO happy i found you , you are exaclty what ive been looking for ugh love you💕💕💕💕
Baby please stay who you are!! I love the realness, and cursing 😆
Def just subscribed!
You always clocking it girl I love it 😂❤️
Liv im begging you to update the self improvement playlist🙏🙏😭😭😭
I watched this while getting ready for work & whew. I will definitely be rewatching! Love seeing your growth 🤍
I needed this! you are amazing
Love all of this! Such good advice ❤
@@AngwiTacho 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Thank you for the “bring me back to realization” pep talk
Love the hair 😍
guuuurl u talked to my soul
New subscriber. I love it here. Very much classy but will use profanity when it’s NEEDED😭❤️🎉
pls upload a makeup tut with all the products you use
When I say I NEEDED this ❤❤
Hygiene tips plus cycle one please 🥺. Btw u rock Leah ❤
I love you yo 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you’re literally so gorgeous & wise
I absolutely loved this video
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
your soo prettyyy
You're the first person to ever explain that your body is the matter that your mind has to control.❤
Im in love with the whole Video. You explained it so well❤️
omg, i learned soooo much more, thanks❤️❤️
Great advice, taking all of it ✍️
As someone who has a child, business, school AND needy ahh husband…I needed to hear this. Thank you.
Girl, I had to subscribe! After that, the logo reads LIKE HELLO Bytch, I'm talking to you! You smack me because I'm that girl! I founded my sunglasses Store in 2021 and have been stuck on the Logo😭🫠 I have over ten logos because I can't take one!! I needed this! Thanks for the smack😭
Omg i love you & your videos literally the perfect video for me in 2025
leah!!! please do a cycle syncing video, I honestly thought it was just me feeling like a big ole oger every once in a while!
Thanks so much Leah!
Thank you I needed this
this is the video that put me out of my comfort! 2025 I’m ready.
I needed to be checked like this so thank you sis!
ThAT LOGO comment alone has me subscribed 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are so ethereal I can't focus!
first time watching you & i love this video smmm. definitely will watching your vids pretty!!!
Love all of this content ❤
Like I love this so much, you ate this sis! New subbie❤
Thankyou for this ✨
I love your talking videos ❤️ make more!
would love to see you do a vlogmas🤭🤭
@@misssydneeee I ammmm doing vlogmas 🤭
you are my mother,😘 i luv you and keep going i just found you last month and life is going Great !!
Spoke nothing but facts! You are wise beyond your years because….. I be tryna tell my girls these things! 😭
love your videos!!! Missss mam❤
You’re the best❤
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
This video just confirmed that I’m on the right path🥹😇
Oooo I saw the thumbnail and I was just like yes!! Lemme do my hw rn
Ou baby I needed this! ❤❤❤❤
Please make a video on the menstrual cycle !
Thank u so much I appreciate u for sharing 💕
GOOD talk! Thank you!