i have this with my sister-in-law. she hates me i dont know why since she got with my brother and i hate her because she hates me and because me and my brother never got the chance to get closer after we were over our teenage idiocy. but we can also have big laughs and joking around sometimes depends on her mood, she is very moody around us (my parents, me) and i feel contempt and a huge distance and i f-ing hate walking on eggshells and be the one always who initiates any talks. all this is making me very tired emotionally and mentally and big time has affected my relationship with my nephew. so basically my brother, his wife, my nephew doesn't like me and my parents but they're keeping the usual family obligations... i have the feeling as soon as my parents die they will openly cut me off
@@sodapop83 are you houser or Mars? The main issue when people in this synastry don’t get along is definitely due to projection. And from your story and my awareness of this synastry is that your brother has been saying bad stuff about you. She is acting on the assumption of what she heard about you. Your brother is not innocent. Are you close to your parents or does your brother help you with anything? I’m asking this because this synastry makes it that people hold grudges then act passive aggressive. If you are getting help from your brother or your parents it’s possible that she or your brother are jealous of that or resent you. Mars is also the active self so they could be mad that they can’t flat out say what they want to say to you so they act shady. The 12th house will drown the Mars energy here. Therefore, they know if they say what they really want to say , that you will also be able to call out their hypocrisy. If you have a better life situation than the sister in law is possible that she is jealous that you have a better life or even take care of your nephew better than her. She could be feeling judged by you by her own insecurities.
4:13 did you say they go to the Sikh religion to stay together? If so how did you discover that? Also I have this with my current partner, his Mars in my 12th and it’s really not pleasant. Online people really down play the interpretation of this but it’s pretty messed up. It’s in cancer so maybe being in its fall doesn’t help however he will use things against me that I have told him (in confidence) at any point throughout our relationship. It’s so disturbing to me that he does this and truthfully has contributed to me wanting to end the relationship because I can not stand him and his taunts anymore. Good video, you know what you are talking about
i have this with my sister-in-law. she hates me i dont know why since she got with my brother and i hate her because she hates me and because me and my brother never got the chance to get closer after we were over our teenage idiocy. but we can also have big laughs and joking around sometimes depends on her mood, she is very moody around us (my parents, me) and i feel contempt and a huge distance and i f-ing hate walking on eggshells and be the one always who initiates any talks. all this is making me very tired emotionally and mentally and big time has affected my relationship with my nephew. so basically my brother, his wife, my nephew doesn't like me and my parents but they're keeping the usual family obligations... i have the feeling as soon as my parents die they will openly cut me off
@@sodapop83 are you houser or Mars? The main issue when people in this synastry don’t get along is definitely due to projection. And from your story and my awareness of this synastry is that your brother has been saying bad stuff about you. She is acting on the assumption of what she heard about you. Your brother is not innocent. Are you close to your parents or does your brother help you with anything? I’m asking this because this synastry makes it that people hold grudges then act passive aggressive. If you are getting help from your brother or your parents it’s possible that she or your brother are jealous of that or resent you. Mars is also the active self so they could be mad that they can’t flat out say what they want to say to you so they act shady. The 12th house will drown the Mars energy here. Therefore, they know if they say what they really want to say , that you will also be able to call out their hypocrisy. If you have a better life situation than the sister in law is possible that she is jealous that you have a better life or even take care of your nephew better than her. She could be feeling judged by you by her own insecurities.
4:13 did you say they go to the Sikh religion to stay together? If so how did you discover that? Also I have this with my current partner, his Mars in my 12th and it’s really not pleasant. Online people really down play the interpretation of this but it’s pretty messed up. It’s in cancer so maybe being in its fall doesn’t help however he will use things against me that I have told him (in confidence) at any point throughout our relationship. It’s so disturbing to me that he does this and truthfully has contributed to me wanting to end the relationship because I can not stand him and his taunts anymore. Good video, you know what you are talking about
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