Finding Light In Our Darkest Time

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  • @docrthe1
    @docrthe1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4412

    Granger and amber, my name is Adam and I know amber is friends with hazel G
    And I work at a local welding shop right by yalls home, and would love to make y’all a 100% custom made cross for riv and your family. Please if y’all can get in touch with me so we can talk about what it looks like. #riverwillliveon

  • @trish1366
    @trish1366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    River lived on this earth for 1116 days. Psalms is always my go to when I am down. Psalms 11:16. “In the Lord put I my trust: how say ye to my soul, Flee as a bird to your mountain?”

  • @Duane_A
    @Duane_A 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1205

    I could never image losing my daughter. I normally don't get emotional about celebrities and their families, but this Marine cried with you. Your strength is a witness to your faith in God.
    I'm sure I speak for 99.9% of your subs....do what you need to do. We'll be here waiting for you. God bless you and your family.

    • @austinlecates1635
      @austinlecates1635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Duane Appleget 3 people put thumbs down and thank you for your service

    • @Duane_A
      @Duane_A 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@austinlecates1635 Some ppl his dislike no matter what.

    • @MichaelSmith-kr9qw
      @MichaelSmith-kr9qw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Duane_A You're not the only Marine that shed a few tears....

    • @raysplace6548
      @raysplace6548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🍻🍻🍻🍻🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸👍👍👍

    • @kwoutdoors1201
      @kwoutdoors1201 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was his son

  • @3535gt
    @3535gt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I’ve been a first responder for most of my adult life. I’ve dealt with this on our end too many times. I find comfort as a dad and as someone who tries to be used by Jesus when the time comes, that your little man no longer will fill any type of pain. That when Jesus held his arms open for him, the joy your little man feels every second of everyday cannot be compared to any joy here on earth. He stepped out of the constraints of time. To him in heaven the very next second, he gets to spend eternity with you and all his family. He won’t know it’s been however many years from that day to the year y’all are old and go to be with our savior. We are the ones still bound by time and waiting for our eternal time with Jesus and with those we love.

    • @Sheila612Miller
      @Sheila612Miller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well said I heard idk how true it is but I heard in heaven time is like fluid.

    • @omni_asian5519
      @omni_asian5519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰😍😘

    • @TheAuntlainie
      @TheAuntlainie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loo

    • @joyce9523
      @joyce9523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Sheila612Miller I've heard you have no memory of anyone on earth😌 When you enter heaven

    • @MeadowsMiniFarm
      @MeadowsMiniFarm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joyce9523how would that make anyone feel better and doesn’t sound true or Christian like

  • @TammyKitti
    @TammyKitti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    For River:
    Eveywhere the river flows there's healing. Everywhere the river flows there's life.
    Dry and thirsty lands are refreshed by its water.
    For everywhere the river flows there's life!
    May God bless your family and hold you in the palm of His Hands until you meet again.

    • @camlee5850
      @camlee5850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wow hes healed

    • @arayofsunshine4556
      @arayofsunshine4556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cam Lee sweetheart, this person is offering kind words to make them feel better after loosing their son. No words can take away the pain they feel or heal them that comes from within them. All you can do is offer kind words. Show love to the world 🌎♥️

    • @machaysmusic
      @machaysmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@arayofsunshine4556

    • @TammyKitti
      @TammyKitti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@camlee5850 I am amazed at how insensitive some people can be!! Please don't disrespect the memory of this precious child, with such evil stupidity!

    • @Simoneoez
      @Simoneoez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Now he is with our Lord at the most beautiful place!! God bless you!

  • @gabassintv4770
    @gabassintv4770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    He is up there playing with God and driving a tractor. YEE YEE

  • @TammyKitti
    @TammyKitti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    I may have only, been three years old,
    But now I walk on the streets of gold.
    And when I look down I can see,
    My sweet family staring back at me.
    Now when you see tractors, you will always think of me,
    For I'm riding mine along the golden streets.
    And I now understand how the sun turns off, And why the clouds are so beautiful and soft.
    I can't believe I live in Heaven, such a beautiful place.
    I get to see miracles, love and grace.
    So mommy and daddy, "please don't be sad."
    You were the best parents I could ever have.
    But God showed me that my life on earth was done.
    He needed me in heaven, just like he needed His own son.
    So please know that I am happy, and everything will be okay.
    And when we meet again it will be a glorious day!
    Now it's time for me go and bring this letter to an end.
    And I will hold you in my heart..until we meet again!!!!

    • @Amanda-ob9jx
      @Amanda-ob9jx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      TL Kitti since nobody else is going to give you recognition for that poem, I just wanted to say that poem really hit me from the bottom of my heart!!!!

    • @necobilambert7822
      @necobilambert7822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      wow beautiful poem and very fitting brought tears to my eyes very awesome

    • @TammyKitti
      @TammyKitti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you!

    • @jodiz4725
      @jodiz4725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This is beautiful!!! It brought tears to my eyes; because I know how happy he is. One day we will be with him. You are very talented; thank you. ❤️

    • @TammyKitti
      @TammyKitti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jodiz4725 Thank you!!!

  • @dnpressley
    @dnpressley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I’m sure this little angel meant something different when he said he wanted to grow up to reach the light in their house but what a sweet innocent thing to say because now everyday they all see him in the light in their house. He is the light that they carry around with them. My heart breaks for you but we serve a caring and loving God. He has a plan. And he loves you as much as we love our children.

  • @coystormo5604
    @coystormo5604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    He laughs, walks, and plays with Jesus now

    • @cherrycam05
      @cherrycam05 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      B.T.B 5.0 your comment made me cry 😢

    • @Tyler.06
      @Tyler.06 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      B.T.B 5.0 amen Brother

    • @cherrycam05
      @cherrycam05 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      catori your so rude, may u go to hell

    • @machaysmusic
      @machaysmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cherrycam05 agreed

    • @cherrycam05
      @cherrycam05 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Henry Dunlap I really don’t care, he/she was being over dramatic and it was rude, you would want to say the same if someone said that to you.🙃

  • @michelleosorio3941
    @michelleosorio3941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I was given 134 days with my son. 4 months and 3 days.
    12/27/18-4/30/19
    He was a warrior. He rocked an extra chromosome and a heart warrior. I truly believe he was sent to me to show me how to be strong. I wish I would have had him longer. I am sorry you have to walk this journey. I continue to pray for your family. May our babies fly high together

    • @1228kba
      @1228kba 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michelle Osorio I am so sorry for your loss

    • @MorrisLawnCareandLandscaping
      @MorrisLawnCareandLandscaping 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Michelle Osorio I’m sorry to hear that, God bless your family

    • @robinthomas3358
      @robinthomas3358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm so sorry. Prayers for you!

    • @motivate4change1
      @motivate4change1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Michelle Osorio-- God bless u!!! PLZ make sure u read the book "Many Lives, Many Masters"!!! I KNOW U WILL LOVE IT AND SEE THE CONNECTION in it to your son!!! God bless u!!

    • @cjpiper2420
      @cjpiper2420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Prayers much🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Ericvelezruiz89
    @Ericvelezruiz89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    When he was standing at the door waiting for “Daddy” I broke, my sons wait for me to get home from work everyday just like that and it really hit home. I pray for you guys and your family.

  • @sandyhayre188
    @sandyhayre188 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    It’s 2023 I came across this video again, it still makes me cry. I love the videos of River. He was so cute and sweet.

  • @jdmusic07
    @jdmusic07 5 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    The amount of days that we spend separated from our deceased loved ones is infinitely less than the eternity we'll spend together with them in Heaven. Prayers for your family.

    • @nicolekatelyn
      @nicolekatelyn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Doesn’t make it suck any less

    • @Marinemom75
      @Marinemom75 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is so beautiful. And it's true!! Losing someone you love is very hard and I can only imagine what you feel when it's your child. Time does not heal all wounds but, it teaches us how to live with it. Praying for this family!!

    • @HeatherLynseyMusic
      @HeatherLynseyMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cran1um92 well I don’t wanna spend it with strangers either lol

  • @IsabellaEvins
    @IsabellaEvins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    When London said “what are you going to see in heaven?” I started crying

    • @SweetMariehoneybee0933
      @SweetMariehoneybee0933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Precious. 💯🙏🏼

    • @DessieEliz
      @DessieEliz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bella E i cried on and off through the whole video i wont lie that part hit me the hardest

    • @jet6110
      @jet6110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't keep it together for 1 second...what a little light...what a personality.

  • @sewingbytheseaside
    @sewingbytheseaside 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    “What would you do if you had a 1000 days?” What an amazing way to view this tragedy. Best wishes to your family.

  • @21elkaholic
    @21elkaholic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    man that hit my heart when he said "that's heaven" God is real your little boy is in amazing hands. God bless..

  • @castingfreak4429
    @castingfreak4429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    Man it hit me hard when River said “I’m gonna see dinosaurs in heaven”😢and I bet he’s riding a T-Rex 🦖 yelling YEE-YEE rn having the time of his life up there.

    • @mf6598
      @mf6598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It also stood out to me that he said he would see the light when he gets bigger

    • @castingfreak4429
      @castingfreak4429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      michael f I know righty..it’s like what Granger said too. That it was Gods mission for him to only live for how long he did and that his time was finally up and God cams back to get him. And it’s crazy to think that River really was sent on a mission here and it’s like he knew that.🤯this world works I’m mysterious ways and I believe that all of that is true and we just have to live our lives and not worry abt how much time we have, we need to live each day as our last.

    • @haydenphillips3238
      @haydenphillips3238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guaranteed

    • @jackflynn1903
      @jackflynn1903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Reckless Savage I don’t understand how some people are just this far from God. I agree with them River was sent to this earth to do a specific mission for a certain amount of time and he completed his mission. I understand the point your trying to make about if only someone was watching river this wouldn’t of happened but things happen for a certain reason at a certain time some good some bad.🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @castingfreak4429
      @castingfreak4429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reckless Savage your skipping the point tho..I get what your saying I totally do. But your also turning it around too. I had a friend shoot himself in his room right next to his parents..his parents knew he had a mental disorder and so they kept check on him everyday. Ik that for a fact bc I’ve been at his house and his parents were extremely stricted on what he could and couldn’t do. They never owned firearms. His parents legally could not possess firearm in the household bc of their son. But yet he still managed to find a way to get one in the house without them knowing! Plus anything can happen at a split second. We as humans get distracted. And we will always make mistakes and slip ups and it just so happened to be then at the wrong place at the wrong time. But I believe everything has a purpose. Everything that happened that day had a purpose. And only God knows that purpose. But it still happened because of God and you have to understand, literally anything can happen whether your there or not. So don’t blame the parents. You know that they take care of their kids and that they care very much abt them..they wouldn’t put their kids in harms way. And it just goes back to us being human. We have instincts. One day you’ll make a mistake and realize that it happened for a reason. And what does disciplining your woman have to do with this?

  • @alexwithanova7886
    @alexwithanova7886 5 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    I swear I was so devastated when I saw the news. This was the only time I cried for someone I didn't know personally. Love you guys stay strong

    • @4Score747
      @4Score747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      AmericanGrizzly same here. I hear of celebrities passing away, but little River really broke my heart. Such a kind loving little caring boy who loved life to the fullest.

    • @younggun5915
      @younggun5915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I said that exact same thing when I started the video.. this is the first time I’ve felt like I wanted to cry over someone that I didn’t even directly know. My heart hurts for the Smiths.

    • @stevenb5027
      @stevenb5027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @stevendudley5687
      @stevendudley5687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My prayers are with you and your family. Craig Morgan and Eddie Montgomery have lost a child, as has King George Strait.

  • @BenNstyle
    @BenNstyle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I cried - I laughed and I laughed until I cried. God Bless the Smith Family.

    • @JamieAmelia84
      @JamieAmelia84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! A video full of emotions!

  • @gwenlaw4644
    @gwenlaw4644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    It’s amazing how often River mentioned Heaven in the video. You can’t help but wonder if he knew what the Lord had in mind for him.
    This precious child was so wise for him to be 3 years old. Such joy he was and these amazing memories you will have forever.

    • @jessicakultti
      @jessicakultti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The day before my niece died, she said she is God’s littlest Angel. She gave everyone a kiss as we were sitting together for Mother’s Day. She was killed in a car accident, but I do believe they know their time is up. What an amazing life.

    • @cocomartin8269
      @cocomartin8269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe he new Jesus was coming for him

  • @texasriggedryan775
    @texasriggedryan775 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    I clicked off this video to tell my wife and kids I love them... just thank you. I pray you find the good...

  • @elindsey2008
    @elindsey2008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    1000 days, great title to a song about him, for him, to remember him!

    • @MaddieBullock
      @MaddieBullock 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow, yes! 😭😭😭

  • @johnmarston5028
    @johnmarston5028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    God Bless You Granger and Your Family.

  • @bighoss7603
    @bighoss7603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I’m a father of two 3 and a 7 year old. The strength you two have is amazing and incredible. Much love

  • @nickolas7136
    @nickolas7136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    The best homily I've heard on the passing of a young child in my 40 yrs as a Catholic Priest. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Keep on, keeping on! God Bless you. Father Mark

  • @jjcmj9955
    @jjcmj9955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Mom- what do you want to be when you get older
    River -I want to reach the light in the house
    God - River you light will shine forever in the stars

  • @blakewaters1995
    @blakewaters1995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Matthew 19:14
    But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”
    I know this probably doesn't mean much, I can't even imagine losing a child, but it is at least comforting knowing he is okay and is with his Savior. It's like that song goes, "In my Father's house, there is a place for me. I am a child of God, Yes I am."

    • @dcm6874
      @dcm6874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen

    • @MrTjar3
      @MrTjar3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blake Amen

    • @braylonwilson219
      @braylonwilson219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I paused the video and read over and over until I fully understood all of it then it hit me. Truly did make me rethink things

    • @stephaniedinaso4259
      @stephaniedinaso4259 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜GOD bless everyone

    • @toreejohns8231
      @toreejohns8231 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen.

  • @AmyMiller-wl4dq
    @AmyMiller-wl4dq ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've literally just found your channel. We lost my nephew at the age of 4 to a severe febrile seizure complicated by his asthma in 1997. He also had strawberry blonde hair. You said it best when you said everyone has a set number of days. I held him the night of his episode. He wasn't feeling well and everyone else was eating dinner. And I knew in that moment to soak it up, but not knowing it would be the last time I held him. But God spoke to me and I knew to just to remember his warm "little"(he was tall for 4!)body, his curly red hair against my cheek, and the blue fuzzy warm pjs he was wearing. My heart goes out to anyone who has ever had to experience the loss of a child. It's a pain unlike any other. God bless you guys!

  • @adamm1902
    @adamm1902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Nothing can stop a River. It's powerful and full of energy to no end. Gives you pleasure on good days and substance on bad but always flowing with power. Thank you Smiths for this video.

  • @mistycroley2825
    @mistycroley2825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    “We are going to constantly search for the meaning behind all this, NOT the reason.” ❤️WOW... GAVE ME CHILLS
    Prayers to you and your family!

  • @cruhl888
    @cruhl888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    So many prayers coming in from myself and my family..God bless stay strong

  • @jacklynbustamante5613
    @jacklynbustamante5613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    He was such a pure soul❤️ she asked how he was going to pay for Walmart with no money, and he says, “I have poop 💩” is the most child like thing to say. Praying for you guys❤️ 🎈 ❤️

  • @katyrichie9118
    @katyrichie9118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    when the tears of pain and heartache
    Are pouring down my face
    I find my peace in Jesus' name
    In the eye of the storm
    You remain in control
    In the middle of the war
    You guard my soul
    You alone are the anchor
    When my sails are torn
    Your love surrounds me
    In the eye of the storm
    -Ryan Stevenson

    • @courtneydykes434
      @courtneydykes434 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this song!!!!

    • @pineapplecheese7281
      @pineapplecheese7281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s my favorite song!!!

    • @herefishyfishy6907
      @herefishyfishy6907 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ryan's great. My wife has been friends with him since elementary.

    • @stephaniedinaso4259
      @stephaniedinaso4259 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is beautiful!!

    • @stephaniedinaso4259
      @stephaniedinaso4259 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Will someone please give me the name of this song?I'd love to have it on hand to listen to

  • @maq637
    @maq637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    RIP little River. You guys are such amazing parents and I love watching the vlogs. Keep your heads up!

  • @caitlinmariek
    @caitlinmariek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    #LiveLikeRiv is my new motto. What a blessing that you guys have all of these videos of your hilarious, care-free little man! He always made my heart want to explode, and I truly do feel blessed to have gotten to know his personality through your TH-cam channel and insta stories. ❤️❤️ God Bless the Smiths, and let’s all LIVE LIKE RIV!

    • @MattMetalbelly
      @MattMetalbelly 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      God's plan is hard to see. But it *is* there. What was a horrific tragedy for one family, as awful as it was, may end up being a life lesson for another family. The knowledge that was gained from this will not be wasted.

    • @zanexzavierrodrigo6479
      @zanexzavierrodrigo6479 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been waiting for you guys to go back posting, my heart broke also when you posted on IG about Riv, I have also a little guy same age as him, same birth month also and watching Rivs vid and hearing you talk about him and about your faith is so amazing, you are so lucky having Riv and he is so lucky also to have you as parents, continue to be strong in faith guys and have Riv always in your hearts. GOD BLESS.

  • @melanierasmussen3374
    @melanierasmussen3374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Sorry for your loss Granger and Amber. River was a very cute kiddo!

  • @xBryan
    @xBryan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I was so worried that we would never see you guys again... stay strong and know we love you.

  • @northcakoutdoors9091
    @northcakoutdoors9091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Almost feel like I know y’all from watching The Smiths, Yee Yee life, your music, IG. You’re in our prayers! #yeeyeenation

  • @lorraineslife
    @lorraineslife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    The fact that 208 people disliked this video is hurtful.. people can be so heartless 😢... blessings to your family

    • @intentionallymade
      @intentionallymade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Lor Nicola maybe they don’t understand the thumbs up/down thing. They may have done it because it was a sad topic.

    • @mandiemag
      @mandiemag 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@intentionallymade ditto...that's what I was going to say. WE all know that "like" doesn't necessarily mean LIKE like, but some people may not.

    • @tracywhited
      @tracywhited 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Sometimes I think people dislike because they are trying to say they don’t like that they suffered this loss. It’s hard to like a video this sad if you can understand what I’m trying to say. At least I hope that’s the message they meant. 💖

    • @mandiemag
      @mandiemag 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@tracywhited I'm going to say that's definitely what they meant. This kind of loss...there's not one person out there that would feel any less than awful about this. So in that light, hitting dislike makes sense. I'm with ya.

    • @tracywhited
      @tracywhited 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miranda yes. I think so ! 💖🙏

  • @dianastephany2374
    @dianastephany2374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Granger and Amber, I’m watching this again on Christmas Eve of 2021. I’m trying to gain strength. My husband has fought cancer for four years and is now in hospice care. This year he was diagnosed with a blood cancer on top of the esophageal cancer he was diagnosed with in 2018. I love your family. You are so strong and faithful. I’ve lost all my faith. I grew up in a Pentecostal church..very religious…and watching the suffering my husband has gone through for four years has taken its toll. I’ve lost contact with many of your videos because of illness on his part. But today I wanted to see this again to feel the faith that your family has. Thank you, thank you.

  • @Ridingwithrob
    @Ridingwithrob 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    From this day forward its river nation
    God put all of us here for a reason
    Love you all

  • @JustEmilyyy
    @JustEmilyyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Rest in peace sweet River 💙 Praying for your family 🙏❤🙏 #LiveLikeRiv

  • @adirondackhunter7501
    @adirondackhunter7501 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The way Amber looks at Granger throughout the video is pure love!

    • @hannahrussell2880
      @hannahrussell2880 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jesslabrunetteyou weren't there you don't know what happened keep your comments to yourself it's uncalled for and they don't need it

    • @adirondackhunter7501
      @adirondackhunter7501 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I must have missed a bad comment within mine.

    • @hannahrussell2880
      @hannahrussell2880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@adirondackhunter7501 someone with hate in their heart is all but I agree you can see the love they have for each other and their kids

    • @adirondackhunter7501
      @adirondackhunter7501 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad I don't see it then.

    • @hannahrussell2880
      @hannahrussell2880 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adirondackhunter7501 indeed

  • @kristinakupiec1182
    @kristinakupiec1182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I have a daughter that is going to pass away. One of the things I try to remember is of the love that she teaches me.

    • @kristinakupiec1182
      @kristinakupiec1182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@michealterry9038 she has Ewing Sarcoma and there is nothing more the doctors can do

    • @Hannah-ig7th
      @Hannah-ig7th 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Those who have the shortest lives teach us the most. Cherish every little moment with your precious baby. I hope you and your family find peace and strength, my heart goes out to you.

    • @angelmomma15
      @angelmomma15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michealterry9038 kind of a rude question to ask a mother.. and if you ask how its rude.'don't bother

    • @бабушка-е2о
      @бабушка-е2о 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope your doing well.

    • @garyb4929
      @garyb4929 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏

  • @KTBStudios
    @KTBStudios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    God bless y’all I’m so sorry it still doesn’t feel real...

  • @clarissak4519
    @clarissak4519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    I don't even know who's theses people are and I'm sobbing 😭💔 I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @Zagarspupil
      @Zagarspupil 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Clarissa K Granger Smith is a country singer.

    • @samanthakelley1299
      @samanthakelley1299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Zagarspupil HOLY SHIT I DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE IT WAS HIM

    • @clarissak4519
      @clarissak4519 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kolbe Disselkamp I know but until I saw someone post about them I didn't know them and just one video of there's changed my day and I felt for them 😭❤️

  • @SW-hy3cw
    @SW-hy3cw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I can really see the pain in the eyes.. Take care guys, you’ll get through it. He may be gone, but his soul will live forever 👼🏼❤️

    • @beardog5714
      @beardog5714 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly what I was gonna comment, a light has dimmed in their eyes..

  • @diesel7903
    @diesel7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It made me tearup when he said “flying around on your go kart and tractor”

  • @chasewarner9946
    @chasewarner9946 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    God needed River to keep heaven a paradise. He made a bigger impact in three years than most people make in a lifetime. God bless y'all! #LiveLikeRiv

  • @sharileas8265
    @sharileas8265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    ~~ i Love how he lived those 1000 days, Like you said, 1000 days of no worries, no stress, all love and happiness. you are all so blessed.

  • @Off-Road10
    @Off-Road10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss.

  • @marikiemarie7622
    @marikiemarie7622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    How wonderful it is to have known such a beautiful soul.

  • @calvinh.8882
    @calvinh.8882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been in this same place. There are no words. Some may think what I'm about to say is me overstepping a line, but I just have to say it.
    Please, whatever you two do, do not blame each other. It's nobodies fault. I've been there and the human mind can get a bit mixed up when dealing with something like this, and it can and has destroyed couples. So please just hold each other and never allow unwelcome thoughts to control your way of thinking.
    Much love to all of you! River is a beautiful spirit that will live on in a lot of us, his smile and laughter will never be forgotten, and thank you both for sharing such a blessing with the world. May he R.I.P.

  • @jaeh2650
    @jaeh2650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I always use the phrase “I’m not crying, soldiers don’t cry, their eyeballs sweat” but I certainly cried. I cried and I laughed. We will never forget you Riv. You were such an amazing young man! Thank you for making your family and Yee Yee Nation smile all the time!

  • @azmtngirl69
    @azmtngirl69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just discovered you guys for the first time today. I am so sorry for your loss of River. He was a very sweet, funny, and active little boy. I can't in million years imagine what you all are going thru, but I can imagine it is horrible. No matter who you are, when you lose a child in a tragic accident it is horrible. My thoughts and prayers go out today for you and your family. RIP River Kelly Smith

  • @Lediardcrew
    @Lediardcrew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I usually can’t watch tribute videos of children because I get very emotional. I watched River’s right to the end. He reminds me of my 5 year old when he was 2-3 years old. I could see what a joy River was. So much life and love in his eyes. I could see he lived life to the fullest. I believe as well that our time here is our time. River definitely made the best of his! My deepest condolences on your loss and thank you sharing his life with us. It was an honour to watch. RIP River ❤️

  • @paytonmarrison1295
    @paytonmarrison1295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    this breaks my heart. just seeing your faces i break. i love you guys so much. yee yee nation loves you. i can’t wait to see you soon.

  • @blakemiller4904
    @blakemiller4904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Your Fans have your backs. Keep your heads up. Never loose sight of your path in life.

  • @jackflynn1903
    @jackflynn1903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    Granger you need to make a song titled 1,000 days in remembrance of River. I am very sorry for you loss. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @brittneyb.williams1520
      @brittneyb.williams1520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That would be an amazing title to a song!

    • @mandiemag
      @mandiemag 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #livelikeRiv #1000days

    • @Boymomx3
      @Boymomx3 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES AGREE 💯. Needs to be s little while I feel tho...,🙏💔😭💚💙❤💛

    • @amayaraeshelle6250
      @amayaraeshelle6250 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Theres a song by tool called 1,000 days and it really touches my heart

    • @flamingdelta9853
      @flamingdelta9853 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did he die

  • @colene1635
    @colene1635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sweet River. Rest with Jesus Beautiful Boy. I Too know what it is like to lose a child. The journey is a Hard one. May God Comfort All of You. Much Love.😭💝

  • @theleefamily6821
    @theleefamily6821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Our heart absolutely breaks for you, god bless your family and we will continue to pray for you.

  • @Cinni11
    @Cinni11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    River drove that go cart like an expert lol! Thank you for sharing his silly ways.

  • @benbaker321
    @benbaker321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I can't imagine how much fun he's having up there in heaven playing in the dirt and driving the gocarts. I miss you River but I'll get to meet you some day in heaven.

  • @jayneholmes5704
    @jayneholmes5704 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just watched this again, what a joy River was and always will be, forever in our hearts.

  • @alexwithrow8770
    @alexwithrow8770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I cried all the way through the video this has changed my look on life.

    • @RachelEvolve
      @RachelEvolve 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your racist profile picture is offensive in this community!

    • @lukejohnson7404
      @lukejohnson7404 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rachel Evolve it’s not a fucking racist flag do ur fuckin research! Dumb fuck

    • @falynnworld2084
      @falynnworld2084 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      New look on life, change your profile picture.

    • @RachelEvolve
      @RachelEvolve 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Luke Johnson keep making excuses for your ignorance.. let me school you on history, asshole.. the flag was used by the confederate army in the south because they wanted to preserve slavery. This is a FACT! So when you fly the flag you’re representing those who wanted to keep slaves. Tell me how you’re going to spin factual historical details..

    • @happyllama4466
      @happyllama4466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rachel Evolve what does his profile picture have anything to do with the fact that this family just lost their son and all that you care about is some flag. Maybe you haven’t experienced what there going through but losing a loved one happens to everyone so you maybe careless now but when you lose someone you care deeply about then you won’t be so careless because you will be in pain like this family is and they don’t need you hating on this video about some flag that has nothing to do with the video or anything in general so keep your comments to yourself

  • @McmLady
    @McmLady 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    RIP sweet little Angel River ♥️ love and hugs from Germany - God bless you and your family ♥️

  • @chrisreeves1547
    @chrisreeves1547 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I found this plaque at a yard sale,
    Yesterday is a memory,
    Tomorrow is a mystery,
    Today, is a gift,
    that's why it''s called the present
    With River, those are precious and sweet memories that will live on in your hearts.
    Prayers and love for yous.

    • @adamjames9266
      @adamjames9266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      chris reeves bruh that’s from Kung fu panda

    • @chrisreeves1547
      @chrisreeves1547 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adamjames9266 It sure is an encouragement and reminder to live each day fully; treasure the moments, as we aren't promised length of years.

  • @maggicarmichael2926
    @maggicarmichael2926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Decided to watch this again today remembering the last time I watched my heart broke into a million pieces - happy and sad tears. No parent should EVER go through this pain. Today, my heart truly smiled. Amber and Granger, you both have come so far and have become so strong together over this last year. God has a plan and y'all will only continue to grow stronger. Riv's legacy is very powerful due to the consistent, dedicated, hard work y'all have put in to your family and educating/share your story with people. Praying hard for your hearts today. THANK YOU for not running, thank you for not hiding. Your work in this unforeseen path in life is helping someone out there. As always lots of love, hugs, and prayers.

  • @apecora3444
    @apecora3444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The bird started chirping so loud when he said “he will always be in our hearts” 😭❤️

  • @justoneoftheboyz7360
    @justoneoftheboyz7360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's impossible to watch this without crying. So much love to you all. Prayers of healing and may Gods grace be with you. We'll wear our shirts with pride to keep Riv's memory alive.

    • @artgal9945
      @artgal9945 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same bout the crying😥💔

    • @rhondastrait2982
      @rhondastrait2982 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wearing my shirt to all my concerts this summer 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Cuzifarm
    @Cuzifarm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    who ever disliked this video has no heart.... We love the SMITHS!!

    • @KatieGrady1997
      @KatieGrady1997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cuzifarm They’re probably disliking the situation

    • @user-A244F
      @user-A244F 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KatieGrady1997 let's hope that's why

    • @egomaniac247
      @egomaniac247 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KatieGrady1997 I sure hope that's why, even though that doesn't make sense.....I can't imagine someone being so cynical and jaded in life so as to do that.

  • @everythingme23
    @everythingme23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have watched this 1000 times. yall please understand yall are speaking of parents both alive and well.. Please stay strong in Jesus. YOU ARE A LIGHTHOUSE

  • @laurenhartshorn5397
    @laurenhartshorn5397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    26:35 River is playing with all the nice T-Rex’s in heaven now.💙

  • @aarrkk6
    @aarrkk6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Granger, Amber, London, and Lincoln: I continue to pray that each of you feel our glorious Lord's loving arms around you during this season. Sending my love and prayers to all.

  • @HalfNHalf.
    @HalfNHalf. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    The gift of a thousand days really got me. You guys are so strong. RIP River, sweet angel baby😇❤️

  • @Mama_Bear88
    @Mama_Bear88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "I want to hold you, I want to hold you to." Made my heart happy.

  • @sianlewis992
    @sianlewis992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I wish when i lost two of my brothers, at different times, i had the strength to have the outlook that your family has. He can play with Jesus, but here he will always be remembered for those happy times.

  • @Amyco3167
    @Amyco3167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    God bless your family. Amen. With love, Amy-Greenville, SC

    • @ZachAttack-tp7eo
      @ZachAttack-tp7eo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey I'm from the Greenville that just got hit by a tornado.

    • @alwaysjeffsbabygirl
      @alwaysjeffsbabygirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im soo soo sorry for your loss
      Prayers From SC

  • @joybane7536
    @joybane7536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    His giggle is infectious🧡
    You can tell he lived wide open. A lesson for us all. Don't let life weigh you down.
    That is a great life lesson. What a teacher.
    My heart goes out to yall.

  • @candyforbes8579
    @candyforbes8579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just came across your channel, I don't know what it feels like to have a child much less lose one, but just watching this video touch my heart and made me cry. Everytime I see a clip of River, he's always smiling, happy and energetic, it's sad to see him gone so soon 😔. I know it's been a few years since it happened, but I'm praying for you and your family 🤗

  • @alyssagraham1144
    @alyssagraham1144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I feel like a song called “1000 days” is coming.
    Fly high Sweet river!

    • @Anakin-Skywalker.
      @Anakin-Skywalker. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alyssa Graham stolen comment

    • @alyssagraham1144
      @alyssagraham1144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Anakin Skywalker ??? Or we had the same thought...

    • @Anakin-Skywalker.
      @Anakin-Skywalker. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alyssa Graham idk about that

    • @alyssagraham1144
      @alyssagraham1144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anakin Skywalker well considering i wrote the comment myself... im telling you 🤣

    • @Anakin-Skywalker.
      @Anakin-Skywalker. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alyssa Graham or you stole it

  • @thegreat8982
    @thegreat8982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You guys are having the best attitude about this whole thing, and I respect y’all for it. RIP Little Riv♥️

  • @larasweird1298
    @larasweird1298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The dislikes are the people who where crying so hard they couldn’t see

    • @plucky2297
      @plucky2297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or their phone was upside down

  • @barbarayorkwoodside3716
    @barbarayorkwoodside3716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I dont know how I landed here, on this one. I work in organ donation... on the donor side. God bless you for having the courage to let River leave a legacy of unknowing love and generosity. I hope, by now, you know some details or even have corresponded with his recipients. I can, with 100% guaranteed assurance, say that he touched many lives that you aren't even aware of. I remember every single donor and their family that I ever met... never mind the hospital staff, doctors or even the hospital support staff. I lost my brother in a farm tractor accident when he was 13... my parents were never the same, but I see that you are working hard on holding your life together as it is rather than sink into the abyss Thank you, on behalf of the recipients, for your gift.

  • @MsWDWFAN1
    @MsWDWFAN1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I bawled! 😭
    River was so precious and funny! 👼🏻
    Continued prayers to the entire Smith family. 🙏🏻
    May God continue to give you strength and shower you with love. 😔
    Angel River is looking down on you and he will always be with you. 🕊️
    Stay close to the ones you love. Tell them how much you mean to them. Tell your loved ones you love them everyday. ❤️

  • @THAchosin1
    @THAchosin1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Many tears have fallen from my eyes,the Smith's are amazing.

  • @SweetMelin213
    @SweetMelin213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Oh my God. It’s hard to smile when you’re heart is breaking for y’all. May God shine light on your family through River’s eyes in heaven as he watches over you now and forevermore.

  • @smillaa0811
    @smillaa0811 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My son is 3 now. Our second on the way next month. He started swimming last summer without floaties and I just have to say this is my worse fear. I truly truly will pray for y’all every single time Riv comes across my mind. You coming out bringing more awareness to this is strength I truly don’t know how you found. I am sitting here thinking about what you’ve gone through and go through everyday. And that’s where I’m left speechless. Thank you for your strength and love for your kids. For raising amazing Godly children that we need here especially in todays world. Thank you for being so vulnerable. Thank you for it all. You have all taught me so much today and I just found you yesterday. 🤍 Jesus loves you so much. xoxx

  • @USCgurl4life
    @USCgurl4life 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My cousin drowned during a summer camp. He was only 3 years old. The employees didn’t put a life jacket on him and let him wander to the pool. He was found floating face in the water because one of the employees told a kid to go check on him. It was one of the hardest days for my family and for our community. I pray for you and your family.

  • @fall2011lma
    @fall2011lma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My thought's and prayers with you guy's. My heart aches and I truly know how you feel. I lost my daughter a year ago and she was only 1 years old. Still trying to find the light to my dark days. Stay strong❤

  • @tjsalka
    @tjsalka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Riv sure knew the meaning of YEE YEE! so much joy in that boy's life. Bless y'all. hard not to smile watching that youngin doin donuts on his tractor.

  • @Sunset4476
    @Sunset4476 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    RIP you sweet angel, soar like no other has ever done! You’re young, strong, and fast.
    He’s earned his burnt orange in color wings, and you’ll all know when he’s soaring to heights that nobody has ever reached, because he’s going to be the one that helps everyone of you achieve anything and everything in your lives!!!!!

  • @codyoslin6594
    @codyoslin6594 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God called for another angel to come home. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless.

  • @samantharowan2956
    @samantharowan2956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I wish I had words to help ease your pain. I want to thank you for sharing your most precious gifts, River, Lincoln and London with us. As I sit here with tears for your family, I will continue to pray for you all. God Bless!

    • @johnpaulk994
      @johnpaulk994 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      FOM FamilyOverMoney and he would of not been near as happy of a kid too if you were his parents even if that’s all that he did live

    • @johnpaulk994
      @johnpaulk994 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      FOM FamilyOverMoney how do you know y’all wouldn’t of got in a wreck on the same day and still passed away l, you can’t say anything about the future for sure because you never really know what will happen

    • @happyllama4466
      @happyllama4466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FOM FamilyOverMoney were you there when it happened no you weren’t so don’t jump to conclusions because you have no idea how he drowned. They wouldn’t have left him by himself in the pool especially if it was deep enough for him to drown. You have no clue how deep the pool was and who was with him. So instead of hating on people and being so immature and selfish how about you think about things before you hate on people because you have reason to hate on them. And you have no clue how much pain they are in because if you knew how it felt to lose someone you care about then you wouldn’t question it or be so rude about it and you would be sensitive about things like this because it’s not hard for accidents to happen. Anything can happen in the blink of an eye and for you to be so careless about this and what there going through well then you should start caring because hating is going to get you any where because heaven is a place of happiness and positivity and hell is a place of hate and negativity and it’s not a place you want to be. People take death seriously. Losing a loved one isn’t a thing to joke around about. Losing someone isn’t a fantasy it’s real life and it’s very very painful especially for little kids not everyone understands that and it’s not okay for you to question there parenting because you have no clue what goes on in there life or how they raise their kids.

    • @user-A244F
      @user-A244F 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @FOM FamilyOverMoney Granger and Amber were great parents they let River play have fun and be a kid. No offense here but you sound like a helicopter parent and hover over your kid every second and those kids will then depend on their parents for every choice they make in life

    • @user-A244F
      @user-A244F 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @FOM FamilyOverMoney You think they LET River die??? That they threw him in the pool on purpose to watch him drown! NO!!

  • @obey6s
    @obey6s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    R.I.P. River. Fly high sweet angel. You may play with all the nice T-Rexes all the way up in heaven. Sweet little angel. 😇

  • @corbentx
    @corbentx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is a beautiful tribute for River. I don't know you personally...My dance partner and I love your talent. My whole heart and soul feel for your family. You have great faith and relationship with God. And the amazing parenting love...I would have loved to have ya'll as parents. Hugs

  • @jessecrandall4932
    @jessecrandall4932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Honestly I loved Riv y'all were great role models to him. I think you should make a song about Riv

    • @kaidencutlip4108
      @kaidencutlip4108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesse Crandall I agree

    • @vincentfarms7358
      @vincentfarms7358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Make a song about riv we all love him very much

    • @landonblake962
      @landonblake962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jesse Crandall totally agree, much love for the smith family stay strong you guys

    • @deecates7715
      @deecates7715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I couldn't agree more with you Jesse Crandall.

    • @TheGamer-ui9rq
      @TheGamer-ui9rq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whats the matter with you benzie

  • @SarahNoelN
    @SarahNoelN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Through it all, through it all, my eyes are on you. Through it all, through it all it is well. So let go my soul and trust in him, the waves and wind still know his name.” How blessed to have that sweet angel for 3 years. May God’s love and shelter be over your family. Show the devil who is stronger 💪🏼 we will all sing it is well with our soul ❤️

  • @joshrebel00
    @joshrebel00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Thank you for sharing, you made a grown man just cry at work

  • @bridgettmoody1475
    @bridgettmoody1475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you for sharing him with the world. What a fun, sweet, and spunky little guy. The love you all have for him is so clear in every video and picture and it’s a reminder for me to make sure I show my kids the same. I have 7 young kids, who I will make certain, know about River and his legacy. ❤️❤️❤️