"That s how I build my career" he said... Me: by sitting on a couch??? Guy is lazy and no insight. Sis has an 8 year old kid and gonna hook up with a bum like him? Judge Lyn Toler is awesome ! Nah uh. He's got to go.
This woman is desperate. He lied about his job. He bought a fake ring. He probably has kids he hasn't told her about. He just wants to stay with her because she has a job and a place for him to live.
I don't think it's desperate rather than giving too many chances. Sometimes people fluff up, but it's when you keep fluffing up, you need to take steps back and analyze, if your willing to give that person a shot. ME.. that is not for me
Phyllis Russell, I agree with your response. It's just that sometimes, we as women hear certain words someone says and take it as gospel. Like he works at a law firm. We make assumptions and never further analyze what the person is saying because we do not want to come off as intrusive, or we know the guy is not right for us from day one but we still end up trying for nothing. If a man is older than you and you think he is going to change are you are going to change him, you better keep it rolling because a lot of older men are already set in his ways. At the end of the day, the Bible speaks about being of "unequal yolk" as well as "by the sweat of your brow, you shll eat bread". Obviously he wants to eat the bread she has been toiling to make.
“ I didn’t say I was practicing law, I said I worked at a law firm” I hate lies like these. It still a lie. Just like “I didn’t tell you cause you never asked”. Why didn’t you tell me you had kids??? “Well you didn’t ask” 👀 boy boy!
I once met a guy at the gym that told me he was a doctor, specializing in treating patients with Asperger's syndrome...he sounded very convincing, gave me his number, and when I got home I googled it. It was a number to a small handyman business. Would I mind dating a blue collar guy? Absolutely not (especially one that's good at fixing things). But a man that lies to me right from the start? No way, makes me wonder what else he's lying about. I quickly lost his number.
Ugh! Another struggling "musician/manager." When are these dudes going to aspire to be anything else? It's like they'll do anything to avoid doing an actual job. This is so tired.
MartianBlues yesss cant stand the fact some men nowadays want to be a promoter a manager or rapper any thing that has to do with being around singles women so they can cheat and some they wont even make it that far they just want to be taken care of and do what they want to do on the side
me too! i apply sooo, soo much of her advice to my personal life, it's strange. instead of having an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other, i have judge lynne toler's voice in my head always telling me the right decisions to make. lmao!
Why did I already figure out before he opened his mouth that he was trying to be in the music business. He looks like Brian McKnight's brother Claude McKnight
15 bucks for a wedding ring? ROTF. That is the cheapest wedding ring I have ever heard of. Not that it should matter though. It was funny how she mentioned it.
My wedding ring is also a simple stainless steal, "fake" ring. I rather that and have bills paid than a few hundred or even 1k ring and have bills behind. It's worse being dishonest about buying a cheap ring
@@yoh_ii ma’am your ring is still reel. Stainless steel does not fade and actually has value. He bought her ring at Claire’s and wasn’t honest about it.
'Gurl the way u meet him, is the way he's gonna be 100% of the time. If he's in his late 30's, struggling with his employment, he's going to ALWAYS struggle with his employment. People seldom change. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and keep it moving. Raise your standards, sis.'
Myshan Amakisi true but sad as heck, and me and my cousin was just talking bout this exact situation of one of our guy friends, hes the same way in a since. This year hes had at least six different jobs🤷🤦. But "hes such a great catch" so he would lead on
I wish us Black women would aim higher instead of settling for these bums and aspiring rappers. We are such a beautiful race of people, no one has our natural beauty(hips, full lips, slanted eyes, smooth skin, we age well overall), yet, we keep scrapping the bottom of the barrel when it comes to men. SMDH
kesh s I agree, and I love my sister's. But there are alot of good brother's out there. A lot of women just look in the wrong places or settle for mediocrity
Jason Edwards The same can be said about men: but men are worse because they are too focused on physical appearances. If a sister isn't a Instagram model or light skinned, she doesn't stand a chance.
Another episode where a man doesn't want to work a "9-5" job and is working to fulfill his dreams on the dime of a woman. It's a scam. Those men are jobless moochers.
I can see that. Both are gorgeous! I thought she looked a lot like this painting my grandfather did of a Philipino lady during WWII . abig flower in her hair... 🌺
If I cant trust my man and have suspicions all the time, then I'm out. If he aint happy with me then he should go and find someone that does make him happy
In Guyanese term we called it "fall sweet on de man penis" she fell sweet on his penis that is why she is still with him. had he not a good dick she would have gone long and that is woman downfall especially in the black community. also taht is de gateway to poverty!
I know his feelings were hurt at the end lol. They would be better as a couple if he would grow up and stop trying to take the easy way out all the time. Judge Lynn is right. They shouldn't get married.
This fool said diamonds depreciate... Reallyyyyy?! Smh. I can't! He clearly does not want to do anything with or for himself. He needs to grow up and she needs to leave.
I liked the judge's explanation abt her father who was a lawyer but in order to feed his family, he worked in a linoleum factory until he could do lawyer work.
Brittany Reid yes $15 that's ridiculous. He could have bought her a real small diamond engagement ring and then upgrade as he gets a better job. But he has to stop lying and get a job.
He's that type of guy who's "fun for a date but NOT for a mate." When one of the pretty girl's 3 reasons she loves the guy was "We look great together," I just thought, "Oh lady, you aren't in middle school." She looks good but lacks depth. All about the fluff.
When he said "My Love is real", I flatlined smh Then after receiving sound advice from the judge, she says "I think we should hold back from the wedding and get to know each other better". Hunh? Why even go on the show if you are not going to listen to the judge?
Veda Brown I think she will she just basically broke up with him in a nice way she been with him for 2 years not like she gonna just say fuck that no good bum on television😄😄😄😄
In Guyanese term we called it "fall sweet on de man penis" she fell sweet on his penis that is why she is still with him. had he not a good dick she would have gone long and that is woman downfall especially in the black community. also taht is de gateway to poverty!
OMG...what more does this girl need to know. She still holding on even after the judge told her to run. The guy lied about his job, gave her a fake ring, and is basiclly working for free. Why are these women so silly?! The reasons she said for staying with him are weak too...because you both look good together?? Aggh the heck....he needs you for financial support and a place to stay. Get a clue and let him get his life together , he isn't the end all.
VANITYINSANITY119 .... WHY DO BLACK WOMEN WORSHIP N IDOLIZE WIGS N WEAVES SO MUCH? I SORTA FEEL SORRY AND EMBARRASSED FOR BLACK WOMEN, ITS REALLY TERRIBLE HOW YOU GUYS DISPLAY THAT OBSESSION OF IDOLATRY... READ REVELATION 21: 8 KJV... UNBELIEVERS, MURDERERS, WHOREMONGERS, IDOLATRY, LIARS, COWARDLY, ETC WILL HAVE THEIR PLACE IN THE LAKE OF FIRE WHICH BURNETH WITH FIRE AND BRIM'STONE!
kdiddle .... ITS IDOLATRY AND I DONT THINK BLACK WOMEN UNDERSTAND THAT! ITS LIKE YOU GUYS ARE WORSHIPPING YOUR WIGS/WEAVES LIKE ITS YOUR GOD, YOU GIVE THEM NAMES AND YOUR PERSONALITY CHANGES. LIKE YOU'RE VOO DOO, SMH.... AND LATELY THAT'S ALL YOU SEE AND THAT'S WHAT'S CONSTANTLY STICKS OUT SO MUCH AND ITS DISAPPOINTING TO CONSTANTLY SEE... IT HAS NEVER BEEN LIKE THIS, NOW YOUNG GIRLS AND TEENS ARE GETTING INTO WIGS N WEAVES AND IT RIDICULOUS.... I DON'T SEE LITTLE GIRLS WITH PIG TAILS ANYMORE, ITS WEAVES IN THEIR HAIR DESTROYING THEIR SCALP AND MAKING THEIR OWN HAIR THIN! ANYWAY, YOU WIG/WEAVE WEARERS WOULD LOOK MUCH YOUNGER AND BETTER WITHOUT THE WIGS/WEAVES! LOOK HOW BEAUTIFUL AND FRESH THE JUDGE LOOKS.... AND DON'T TRY TO CONTROL WHAT I COMMENT ON...
I watch these videos just to know what warning signs to look out for in people. Especially me being a black women I want my culture to thrive and we are damning ourselves with dumb decisions. I won't fall for it. I will be a positive example for my people. We all have to do better!!!
Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ loves you so much. He desires you to have a close and personal relationship with Him RIGHT NOW. Come to Jesus and He will give you rest. He is all around you to bless and restore you. Breath Him in with every breath. Lift up your hands of faith to receive His precious Presence. Light, Joy, and Peace flow freely though this gift. When your focus turns away from Jesus, you grasp other things. You drop the glowing gift of Christ Presence as you reach for lifeless ashes. So come into the Presence of Jesus Christ today dear friends and receive the glorious gift of eternal love and salvation. ❤️❤️❤️ (Matthew 11:28; Psalm 16:11; John 15:19; 1 Timothy 2:8)
This broad didn't listen to a damn word the judge said. She's the symptom a problem that a lot of people have, especially women. They get with a person who's not doing a damn thing, but they cling to the promise that they'll make it big and be about something. If a person isn't actively doing something to accomplish the goals they have, they're not doing anything. No amount of talk will change that. I would've left the moment I found out he lied by omission about not being a lawyer and being a janitor instead. Everything about him is surface and nothing else. He's the type of guy you read news headlines about who lives a lie for years and when he's caught will kill his wife and kids and flee or takes his own life. Because he doesn't take responsibility for his actions. Yes, I know what I said is extreme, but those types of guys are extreme when it comes to the way they lie, manipulate to suit a situation for their own selfish purposes.
I agree 100%. And those same women will also complain about not being able to find a good man when they do finally become single. I just don't understand it.
i agree i just broke up with a guy for telling a similar lie.. claiming he had a car his own place and was in real estate...he had no job...lived with his parents, brother and grandmother in a small ass niece 2 bedroom apartment ..i hate people like this guy
nothing wrong with aspirations and dreams but aspirations and dreams do not pay the bills!!!!! substance and being employed is necessary while going for your goals
Not... really. Gold digging would be going down to wall street hanging around bars in hopes that you land a financier or accountant or a trust fund baby. Dating a lawyer is nothing and making sure a spouse has a decent job is common sense.
She's a gold digger because she thought she was dating a lawyer but he lied? Lemme guess you're a bum like him who is bitter at the thought that a woman actually thought she was dating a man of some means .What would make you feel better? She didn't even dump him after she found out he was janitor or lied about the ring. You're stupid.
@@TTHeavensent He's obviously insecure or a con artist. Why else would lie about his line of work? He's 36, sitting on the sofa not earning a dime, low-skilled pretending to be a manager. Ten years from now he'll be doing the same thing or working a minimum wage job. Judge Toler hit it on thw head when she said he's going nowhere. That girl is going to waste all her pretty on this bum. UGH
15 bucks!! Look, I don't need a fancy ring but you couldn't spring for a ring that costs 50 bucks at least?? I'm pretty sure Claire's sells rings for more than 15 bucks.
I feel like women seem to be on a clock. Even though they are not compatible. When they should have walked away. They decided to stick it out,for x amount of years. Now that the years have added up. We should get married. Even though you don't trust the your mate. Trust is #1 I'm also tired of women who complain about the man they chose, as if they didn't have a choice
She’s such a beautiful person to me! Judge Lynn is the true definition of a good successful hard working educated Black woman! She is a woman with wisdom.. I wonder is this really who she is. I truly adore her as a person.
That was a red flag when he started off lying by technicalities. Then he had the nerve to cheat on the side. He should be happy that SHE stuck with him after lying about his "career."
Oh what a surprise...another black man who's a BUM has entertained us on Divorce Court. Why oh why is this woman staying with this dude??? Do people really think it's horrible to be single??
what a gorgeous, beautiful, idiotic, silly woman. if a man gives you a fake ring pretending that its real that conveys clearly just how much he thinks of you. he also lied about being an attorney and he's a damn janitor. who knows what else that fool is lying about
a pretty woman blocking her blessings, tying herself to a dreamer. She is the best thing he has ever had, and probably will get on the level of talking about marriage. He is gonna knock her up to keep her.
About 6:50 - 7:14 is spot on. Come on guys. We can't support a family without income. Saying to your woman "You work and get the money and I'll do what I do and SOMEDAY, the money will come." Promises don't pay bills and definitely doesn't allow one to feel secure. If you willing to wait until he has that breakthrough, you gotta flow with the hard knocks that come along with it... otherwise, bounce because you feel that's not the life you want with a person. True the entertainment business is lucrative, but it's going to cost you dearly....
Judge Lynn I have try to watch some of the others judge but find myself coming back to your show you are the best, you make me laugh every day no one can never take your place, you are a wonderful person.
Honest to God, I wouldn't mind getting a fake diamond engagement ring, so long as the words in the proposal are genuine. Diamonds are forever but, so is true love.
The judge gave both of them good advice. "A star that is falling." Wow and Amen. She is too pretty to deal with someone like him who is dreaming a dream which may never come true and most of all no money for now. She is taking care of him which is so sad.
I was under the impression he was practicing law. First question what type of law do you practice? Second. Any interesting cases. Third. How many partners etc etc etc.
8 months later still clueless. What were they paying when you were lying on the couch. The judge ask more relevant questions than the woman he's sleeping with.
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I work at a law firm.... as a janitor lmao that was the funniest shit!
Andy M. When he opened his mouth, she should have known he wasn't an educated man.
Lmao!
Andy M. I wanted to high 5 that nigga for that 😂
😂😂😂😂
He got the drawers off that line. Can’t hate...🤣😂🤣😂
What were they paying you when you were laying on the couch? lol
Maritha Hill I could have died when she asked him that! Too funny!
She dont hold her words back and she is all about money and having a job.
❤️
"That s how I build my career" he said...
Me: by sitting on a couch??? Guy is lazy and no insight.
Sis has an 8 year old kid and gonna hook up with a bum like him? Judge Lyn Toler is awesome !
Nah uh. He's got to go.
This woman is desperate. He lied about his job. He bought a fake ring. He probably has kids he hasn't told her about. He just wants to stay with her because she has a job and a place for him to live.
she is too beautiful for him
he is a loser
I don't think it's desperate rather than giving too many chances. Sometimes people fluff up, but it's when you keep fluffing up, you need to take steps back and analyze, if your willing to give that person a shot. ME.. that is not for me
Phyllis Russell, I agree with your response. It's just that sometimes, we as women hear certain words someone says and take it as gospel. Like he works at a law firm. We make assumptions and never further analyze what the person is saying because we do not want to come off as intrusive, or we know the guy is not right for us from day one but we still end up trying for nothing. If a man is older than you and you think he is going to change are you are going to change him, you better keep it rolling because a lot of older men are already set in his ways. At the end of the day, the Bible speaks about being of "unequal yolk" as well as "by the sweat of your brow, you shll eat bread". Obviously he wants to eat the bread she has been toiling to make.
Yeah, moved in too quick, judge is beautiful.
This lady is very attractive , Take Judge Lynn advice leave him . I wish you well on whatever you do .
Lol no.No she's not
if "we look cute together" is one of the 3 things you love most about your partner, reconsider.
A. Nicole Love That was one of the most immature statements I've ever heard coming from a 32yr old. She must not have it all upstairs?
I’m so weak 😂😂😂
This while generation is superficial, they care about who is a "good look" versus who is good for them.
BIG TIME!!
“ I didn’t say I was practicing law, I said I worked at a law firm” I hate lies like these. It still a lie.
Just like “I didn’t tell you cause you never asked”.
Why didn’t you tell me you had kids??? “Well you didn’t ask” 👀 boy boy!
Girl why you trying to hang unto this loser please make it make sense because have not heard one good thing about him. Period
Lie by omission
@Blue Exactly, and they play word games. Bottom line, it's a lie.
I once met a guy at the gym that told me he was a doctor, specializing in treating patients with Asperger's syndrome...he sounded very convincing, gave me his number, and when I got home I googled it. It was a number to a small handyman business. Would I mind dating a blue collar guy? Absolutely not (especially one that's good at fixing things). But a man that lies to me right from the start? No way, makes me wonder what else he's lying about. I quickly lost his number.
Elizabeth S yes he could have also fixed other things if his hands was handy. I guess he ain't fixing that. He's stupid a complete idiot
TRU
Smart👏👏👏
@3165dwayne you sound like a guy who lies as well.
😭😭😭
Don't hook yourself to a star that is falling - Toler
Nic Chole original
Nic Chole 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol fr tho..I will always remember this..quote of da day😊
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Remind me of what I use to be saying. "I'm not hitching my 🌟 to your wagon" folks be willing to take you nowhere real fast.
My Brother you cant stop working and hustling because you have a dream.
She's not in love with him..she desperately wants to be a wife.
I bet those two earings in his ears are worth more than her engagement ring🤣
Are the earrings in his ears real? Bet they're worth more than her ring.
OoOoo Lala... that blue dress looks absolutely BREATHTAKING on her! It compliments her so nicely. Such a gorgeous young woman! ✨💙
you are a pretty lady yourself! such a sweet & positive comment ❤️
This dude is the original Tommy Strong..."You ain't got no job, man!!!!"
Bloombaby99 🤷😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😔🤦
Good one!!!
" You at got no job man" !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
Tommy worked at the boys and girls club
ON POINT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ugh! Another struggling "musician/manager."
When are these dudes going to aspire to be anything else? It's like they'll do anything to avoid doing an actual job.
This is so tired.
MartianBlues yesss cant stand the fact some men nowadays want to be a promoter a manager or rapper any thing that has to do with being around singles women so they can cheat and some they wont even make it that far they just want to be taken care of and do what they want to do on the side
MartianBlues y'all just don't understand how lucrative the music business is that's all
Adrian Beal exactly
"It's like they'll do anything to avoid doing an actual job."
THIS!!!!!!!!!!
Kristin Roberts it's worth the chance cause who really wanna work a 9 to 5 they whole life
I can't believe she is considering marrying this guy. He's too trifling.
I wish she was my aunt. Judge Lynn Toler gives the best advice ever!
me too! i apply sooo, soo much of her advice to my personal life, it's strange. instead of having an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other, i have judge lynne toler's voice in my head always telling me the right decisions to make. lmao!
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Author Janae Marie omg that's so true!!!
Completely agree
Why did I already figure out before he opened his mouth that he was trying to be in the music business. He looks like Brian McKnight's brother Claude McKnight
Spicy Creole Lady LMAO I'M HOLLERING LOL.....SMITTY MCKNIGHT......LOL (THAT'S MINE LOL)
Spicy Creole Lady 😂😂😂😂HILARIOUS. I'm done 👏
Spicy Creole Lady LMAO!!!!!!! I love it
LMAO!!! Y'all funny as hell
Spicy Creole Lady 😂😂😂😂😂 #weak
she can do sooooooooo much better, but unfortunately i doubt very highly that she will leave him ,SMDH
kenn Blover - Miss Hicks.... RUN THE FUCK, RUN!
She won't
kenn Blover Right
"Don't hook yourself to a star that's falling" 😂😂😂
My favorite part of the show
15 bucks for a wedding ring? ROTF. That is the cheapest wedding ring I have ever heard of. Not that it should matter though. It was funny how she mentioned it.
My wedding ring is also a simple stainless steal, "fake" ring. I rather that and have bills paid than a few hundred or even 1k ring and have bills behind. It's worse being dishonest about buying a cheap ring
Drop that fool..is this the man you want raising your son? A liar, cheater and fraud?
@@yoh_ii ma’am your ring is still reel. Stainless steel does not fade and actually has value. He bought her ring at Claire’s and wasn’t honest about it.
'Gurl the way u meet him, is the way he's gonna be 100% of the time. If he's in his late 30's, struggling with his employment, he's going to ALWAYS struggle with his employment. People seldom change. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and keep it moving. Raise your standards, sis.'
Myshan Amakisi 💯
Myshan Amakisi
Myshan Amakisi true but sad as heck, and me and my cousin was just talking bout this exact situation of one of our guy friends, hes the same way in a since. This year hes had at least six different jobs🤷🤦. But "hes such a great catch" so he would lead on
@ron stetz um, lol lmao.
If someone told me they worked at a law firm or hospital etc., my next question would be "doing what?" That's a natural response.
Exactly
🤓 thank you n u don't have a college education to work there either speaks values ok
Exactly!!! It really is.
He can start a janitorial business....working for himself. Some ppl are so one sided.
Of course he's one sided smh, lol
Entrepreneurship is a blessing in this tough North American economy.
Everybody hung up on hitting the lotto
Nah he's building a brand like Puff Daddy. At 34. 💀
💯💯💯
I wish us Black women would aim higher instead of settling for these bums and aspiring rappers. We are such a beautiful race of people, no one has our natural beauty(hips, full lips, slanted eyes, smooth skin, we age well overall), yet, we keep scrapping the bottom of the barrel when it comes to men. SMDH
👌🏼👍 Amen
This is the perilous option for the black woman: settle for less than your worth so you won't be alone.
kesh s I agree, and I love my sister's. But there are alot of good brother's out there. A lot of women just look in the wrong places or settle for mediocrity
Jason Edwards The same can be said about men: but men are worse because they are too focused on physical appearances. If a sister isn't a Instagram model or light skinned, she doesn't stand a chance.
Jason Edwards Same thing with men. If you're not a booty model, you don't get a chance.
Here we have a wonderful female. Who can have almost any Crayon in the box. But fell for the first clown.
Au Di It SUCKS ! 😕
stop referring to black women as "females" you sounds dusty otherwise
I’m sure this wasn’t the first
I bet $100 dollars he wasn't the first. She is on about the 30th. You take the first or the last. You still taking a change.
Lol he got her with the law firm job lol
Matrix Theory lmao exactly
You remember that Chappelle show skit with the nigga who work at "WacDonalds" ...That's this nigga Frfr .. This nigga was the janitor bro hahahahahaha
he got her ass good
Matrix Theory lol by the way that's what most girls out there wants to hear 😂😂
fuck that I'm Asian give me a doctor!
he's a con artist get rid of him once a liar always a liar.
I work at the Law Firm 😅
#RIP TOMMY (Martin)
+WMaintain COLD!!!! LMAO!!!!!
This dude could actually be a comedian. He's funny.
You.................are...............too................much 😂✌🏿️😘
LMAO at these comments.
He really should consider. When he imitated her club moves, I died! LOL
he's a walking joke smh
He is actually a comedian, you can search him (Donte Barret) up on TH-cam I find 2 pieces of his comedy that are dated back to 2012 and 2013.
Judge Toyler is gorgeous
FancyDancey
Yeah break up! Please. Horrible relationship.
The guy laughing in the audience is winning at life... 😂😂😂😂
And the nigga gave that poor woman a fake ring??? Oh Lord i just cant 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Andy M. 😂😂😂😂😂
Her hair is THE BOMB!!
you mean: her WIG
Not really
Never happy about weave but her hair is worth the installation
Nah she said her hair sis
If you knew anything you would clearly realise it’s a sew in
bakari Fuller so ture 🤣
Another episode where a man doesn't want to work a "9-5" job and is working to fulfill his dreams on the dime of a woman. It's a scam. Those men are jobless moochers.
What about women who do the same?
@@SynterraSteen You are so right. It goes both ways. I should've said when a person.
she looks exactly like a dark skinned blu cantrell. very pretty
True
She is pretty
Are you here for the beauty or to listen to the issues? Smh
@@5822huron Why you mad cause she stated her opinion of the video 🤔
I can see that. Both are gorgeous! I thought she looked a lot like this painting my grandfather did of a Philipino lady during WWII . abig flower in her hair... 🌺
Dear loud laughing guy in audience:
Relax, it’s not that serious or funny.
Thanks
OMG, u soooo 100% correct. LOL!
If I cant trust my man and have suspicions all the time, then I'm out. If he aint happy with me then he should go and find someone that does make him happy
In Guyanese term we called it "fall sweet on de man penis" she fell sweet on his penis that is why she is still with him. had he not a good dick she would have gone long and that is woman downfall especially in the black community. also taht is de gateway to poverty!
I know his feelings were hurt at the end lol. They would be better as a couple if he would grow up and stop trying to take the easy way out all the time. Judge Lynn is right. They shouldn't get married.
So he has moral standards for the class of woman he wants but NONE WHATSOEVER for the business he’s trying to build. Smh! He’s a joke! 😂
Get a CAREER dude. 1st learn to manage your own self
This fool said diamonds depreciate... Reallyyyyy?! Smh. I can't! He clearly does not want to do anything with or for himself. He needs to grow up and she needs to leave.
Diamonds depreciate 🤦🤦🤦
He gave her plastic from Barbie accessories
I liked the judge's explanation abt her father who was a lawyer but in order to feed his family, he worked in a linoleum factory until he could do lawyer work.
yo look like lamar odom!...
He wants her to work for somebody else while he plays around on her dime. BUM!!!!
he is soooo wrong for buying her a fake ring 😂😂😂😂
I know right. A inexpensive ring is at least better than a fake one lol
Brittany Reid yes $15 that's ridiculous. He could have bought her a real small diamond engagement ring and then upgrade as he gets a better job. But he has to stop lying and get a job.
Brittany Reid I wonder did he get it from the beauty supply, 🤦🤷😂😂😂 like my co-worker "husband" did🤦
@@hotandspicy1227 lmaooooo😂😂😂😂
He used what he earned from his managing job to buy it, $1 from a vending machine😂
People always want to pursue their dreams while someone else supports them and struggles. Pursue your dreams alone and not at the expense of others.
He's that type of guy who's "fun for a date but NOT for a mate."
When one of the pretty girl's 3 reasons she loves the guy was "We look great together," I
just thought, "Oh lady, you aren't in middle school." She looks good but lacks depth. All about the fluff.
Plot twist: The guy laughing hysterically in the background at 14:39 is the guy that sold the ring to him.
When he said "My Love is real", I flatlined smh
Then after receiving sound advice from the judge, she says "I think we should hold back from the wedding and get to know each other better". Hunh? Why even go on the show if you are not going to listen to the judge?
Veda Brown I think she will she just basically broke up with him in a nice way she been with him for 2 years not like she gonna just say fuck that no good bum on television😄😄😄😄
Naytasha Hahahaha, true, true
DNA= Dick n Attention. They just want notoriety.
In Guyanese term we called it "fall sweet on de man penis" she fell sweet on his penis that is why she is still with him. had he not a good dick she would have gone long and that is woman downfall especially in the black community. also taht is de gateway to poverty!
It was like Def Comedy Jam in that court room. The gallery was cracking up!.
OMG...what more does this girl need to know. She still holding on even after the judge told her to run. The guy lied about his job, gave her a fake ring, and is basiclly working for free. Why are these women so silly?! The reasons she said for staying with him are weak too...because you both look good together?? Aggh the heck....he needs you for financial support and a place to stay. Get a clue and let him get his life together , he isn't the end all.
Dude is a straight bum. There is NO "on the fence" position about this one. Girl RUN!!!
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VANITYINSANITY119 .... WHY DO BLACK WOMEN WORSHIP N IDOLIZE WIGS N WEAVES SO MUCH? I SORTA FEEL SORRY AND EMBARRASSED FOR BLACK WOMEN, ITS REALLY TERRIBLE HOW YOU GUYS DISPLAY THAT OBSESSION OF IDOLATRY... READ REVELATION 21: 8 KJV... UNBELIEVERS, MURDERERS, WHOREMONGERS, IDOLATRY, LIARS, COWARDLY, ETC WILL HAVE THEIR PLACE IN THE LAKE OF FIRE WHICH BURNETH WITH FIRE AND BRIM'STONE!
kdiddle .... ITS IDOLATRY AND I DONT THINK BLACK WOMEN UNDERSTAND THAT! ITS LIKE YOU GUYS ARE WORSHIPPING YOUR WIGS/WEAVES LIKE ITS YOUR GOD, YOU GIVE THEM NAMES AND YOUR PERSONALITY CHANGES. LIKE YOU'RE VOO DOO, SMH.... AND LATELY THAT'S ALL YOU SEE AND THAT'S WHAT'S CONSTANTLY STICKS OUT SO MUCH AND ITS DISAPPOINTING TO CONSTANTLY SEE... IT HAS NEVER BEEN LIKE THIS, NOW YOUNG GIRLS AND TEENS ARE GETTING INTO WIGS N WEAVES AND IT RIDICULOUS.... I DON'T SEE LITTLE GIRLS WITH PIG TAILS ANYMORE, ITS WEAVES IN THEIR HAIR DESTROYING THEIR SCALP AND MAKING THEIR OWN HAIR THIN! ANYWAY, YOU WIG/WEAVE WEARERS WOULD LOOK MUCH YOUNGER AND BETTER WITHOUT THE WIGS/WEAVES! LOOK HOW BEAUTIFUL AND FRESH THE JUDGE LOOKS.... AND DON'T TRY TO CONTROL WHAT I COMMENT ON...
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He is a liar !!
I watch these videos just to know what warning signs to look out for in people. Especially me being a black women I want my culture to thrive and we are damning ourselves with dumb decisions. I won't fall for it. I will be a positive example for my people. We all have to do better!!!
Amen sis 👏🏾. Hope you’ve been good since this comment .
@@chanoy._v8758 yes I am doing very well. thank you love!
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This broad didn't listen to a damn word the judge said. She's the symptom a problem that a lot of people have, especially women. They get with a person who's not doing a damn thing, but they cling to the promise that they'll make it big and be about something. If a person isn't actively doing something to accomplish the goals they have, they're not doing anything. No amount of talk will change that. I would've left the moment I found out he lied by omission about not being a lawyer and being a janitor instead. Everything about him is surface and nothing else. He's the type of guy you read news headlines about who lives a lie for years and when he's caught will kill his wife and kids and flee or takes his own life. Because he doesn't take responsibility for his actions. Yes, I know what I said is extreme, but those types of guys are extreme when it comes to the way they lie, manipulate to suit a situation for their own selfish purposes.
I agree 100%. And those same women will also complain about not being able to find a good man when they do finally become single. I just don't understand it.
Right on!!!!
i agree i just broke up with a guy for telling a similar lie.. claiming he had a car his own place and was in real estate...he had no job...lived with his parents, brother and grandmother in a small ass niece 2 bedroom apartment ..i hate people like this guy
"They don't depreciate and they don't go down to $15" 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
Don't hook up to a star that is falling. What a statement! Judge Lynn is just so wise.
Another woman supporting some guy just
To say they are married- wow.
So many BUMS out there
nothing wrong with aspirations and dreams but aspirations and dreams do not pay the bills!!!!! substance and being employed is necessary while going for your goals
She was Gold digging and he sold her a dream. Another case of Swag over character lol
Not... really. Gold digging would be going down to wall street hanging around bars in hopes that you land a financier or accountant or a trust fund baby. Dating a lawyer is nothing and making sure a spouse has a decent job is common sense.
She's a gold digger because she thought she was dating a lawyer but he lied? Lemme guess you're a bum like him who is bitter at the thought that a woman actually thought she was dating a man of some means .What would make you feel better? She didn't even dump him after she found out he was janitor or lied about the ring. You're stupid.
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No swag!!! Pitiful girl !!!!😱😱
@@TTHeavensent He's obviously insecure or a con artist. Why else would lie about his line of work? He's 36, sitting on the sofa not earning a dime, low-skilled pretending to be a manager. Ten years from now he'll be doing the same thing or working a minimum wage job. Judge Toler hit it on thw head when she said he's going nowhere. That girl is going to waste all her pretty on this bum. UGH
The man has nothing to offer, so how is she digging for gold? He could not afford a ring.
She is absolutely gorgeous!!!!
15 bucks!! Look, I don't need a fancy ring but you couldn't spring for a ring that costs 50 bucks at least?? I'm pretty sure Claire's sells rings for more than 15 bucks.
99.99% a cheater? So does the cheating at the 1% don't count? :/
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Latrice Johnson LOL
My question to you is "What are you doing with him". I swear this lady is the truth
Judge Lynn toler is just gorgeous, fine as hell, I’m lusting GOD FORGIVE ME......😂😂😂
Black women with the weave smh ITS NOT YOUR HAIR
He's hilarious lol
I feel like women seem to be on a clock. Even though they are not compatible. When they should have walked away. They decided to stick it out,for x amount of years. Now that the years have added up. We should get married. Even though you don't trust the your mate. Trust is #1
I'm also tired of women who complain about the man they chose, as if they didn't have a choice
She’s such a beautiful person to me! Judge Lynn is the true definition of a good successful hard working educated Black woman! She is a woman with wisdom.. I wonder is this really who she is. I truly adore her as a person.
That was a red flag when he started off lying by technicalities. Then he had the nerve to cheat on the side. He should be happy that SHE stuck with him after lying about his "career."
Oh what a surprise...another black man who's a BUM has entertained us on Divorce Court. Why oh why is this woman staying with this dude??? Do people really think it's horrible to be single??
James Gibson so true lol
don't hook yourself on a star that is falling.. thanks judge!
what a gorgeous, beautiful, idiotic, silly woman. if a man gives you a fake ring pretending that its real that conveys clearly just how much he thinks of you. he also lied about being an attorney and he's a damn janitor. who knows what else that fool is lying about
naturalnubianprncess Truth!
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Now I don't know why she needs a judge to tell her to RUN. He's a joker, and she has become his joke.
"She said there are lots of things I love about my fiancé". Girl I wouldn't even call him my fiancé if he proposed with that bullshit ring.
Holy shit, the ring that he proposed to her is worth 15 bux...I'm dying rn
a pretty woman blocking her blessings, tying herself to a dreamer. She is the best thing he has ever had, and probably will get on the level of talking about marriage. He is gonna knock her up to keep her.
He is desperate and the woman is too blind to see it. The judge knew the deal in the first few minutes..
"I don't plan long term" and you want to marry him. FOR WHAT???!!!!!
If they allowed cussin', these episodes would be off the chain hilarious!
About 6:50 - 7:14 is spot on. Come on guys. We can't support a family without income. Saying to your woman "You work and get the money and I'll do what I do and SOMEDAY, the money will come." Promises don't pay bills and definitely doesn't allow one to feel secure. If you willing to wait until he has that breakthrough, you gotta flow with the hard knocks that come along with it... otherwise, bounce because you feel that's not the life you want with a person. True the entertainment business is lucrative, but it's going to cost you dearly....
That background laugh and owww from the audience 😆
being successful is easy, get a low paying job, save some money and then go back to school and get a law or business degree. simple
that guy has to go.
did he say "she can't cook that good" ...? lmbo what? lol wow
Judge Lynn I have try to watch some of the others judge but find myself coming back to your show you are the best, you make me laugh every day no one can never take your place, you are a wonderful person.
After the fake ring situation it would be over.
Honestly speaking.... ladies have to ask detailed questions before getting invested in a relationship or a guy.
Honest to God, I wouldn't mind getting a fake diamond engagement ring, so long as the words in the proposal are genuine. Diamonds are forever but, so is true love.
WHY DO PEOPLE LIVE TOGETHER SOON???? I DON'T UNDERSTAND!
He was mad at my baby Judge Lynn with her ending advice 😂😩🤣
The judge gave both of them good advice. "A star that is falling." Wow and Amen. She is too pretty to deal with someone like him who is dreaming a dream which may never come true and most of all no money for now. She is taking care of him which is so sad.
I was under the impression he was practicing law. First question what type of law do you practice? Second. Any interesting cases. Third. How many partners etc etc etc.
"i dont plan long-term and hell.....thats about it" LMFAO im fucking dying.....
8 months later still clueless. What were they paying when you were lying on the couch. The judge ask more relevant questions than the woman he's sleeping with.
She's not going anywhere. He's not going anywhere either.
THE RING IS FAKE, BUT THE LOVE IS REAL!😁🤣😂
Sure, so are the lies ...