Sun in Partner's 12th House (only in small doses)

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  • @raulquiroz7492
    @raulquiroz7492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I had an ex-coworker (virgo) and she had her sun in my 12th house. I swear she could read my mind sometimes, but I didn't feel comfortable around her and I always felt she had an ulterior motive for talking to me. Ultimately, I found out that she was conspiring against me with my other co-workers and trying to get me fired. I'm glad I listened to my gut and kept my distance from her. The 12th house also brings people in your life who can be deceptive...it's not called the house of hidden enemies for nothing.

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey Raul, definitely! Yes, it is called for house of hidden enemies and it is usually seen with the sun - 12th house overlays more often than the other 12th house overlays. Thank you for sharing! Happy you trusted your gut!
      The 12th house is all about intuition!

    • @LeahNicoleTarot
      @LeahNicoleTarot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this is what happened with my ex ... check it he was in my 12th and my sun was in 7th house ... its scary as hell .. he can see everything in my subconscious mind ... he was a manipulator and i see why now .. he was Gemini so u can imagine the 7years of living together lol ... very transformative indeed .. it jumpstarted my spiritual journey also and i gained beautiful kids so there beauty behind whats hidden

    • @aminatak1985
      @aminatak1985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LeahNicoleTarot what was the connection like? Where you guys so attached that it was hard to break?

  • @Nkeabands
    @Nkeabands 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    My sun is in my boyfriends 12th house and we’ve had a very positive experience so far. He told me that it was love at first sight. We have an unbreakable bond

  • @moonsofourmother2815
    @moonsofourmother2815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow... you must have strong 3rd house placements... your hands are beautiful ♡

    • @irene4692
      @irene4692 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe gemini rising? Every Gemini rising I know has beautiful hands

  • @taifali8720
    @taifali8720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how you explain aspects from different prescriptive , thanks💕

  • @BB-od9pt
    @BB-od9pt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really appreciate your work. Your explanation makes a lot of sense. I had my sun in Taurus in my ex’s 12th house. I’m a Taurus sun and rising. He’s a Taurus sun and Virgo rising. At the beginning he wanted to spend all his free time with me but then it got too intense, and he wanted to see me sporadically. He once said I was his mirror. Because I guess, like you said, I illuminated some stuff that he wasn’t aware of. And it was painful. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. Bless you.

    • @Konan4400
      @Konan4400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damnn do u think it was a karmic ? I have the exact same but I am a Scorpio sun (12th) and a scorpio rising he is a scorpio sun (rising idk).. Our connection was mysterious, a lot of attraction etc.. but it ended cause it was a bit toxic (too much unhealed trauma from the past..)... but do u still miss him etc.?

    • @BB-od9pt
      @BB-od9pt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Konan4400 it was definitely karmic. our synastry charts indicated it was karmic. Our feelings too. I still miss him. I know he does too. But to make it work it would need too much work and maturity. I don’t know if we could both do that.

  • @amethystflame5619
    @amethystflame5619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My experience with my sun in their 12th house is an immediate connection. We finish each other’s sentences etc or are very much on the same page about many things. Easy to talk with and chill with. It’s natural .. but there’s also a lot of fog that seems to be thickening between us. When you say small doses cause it’s too much what do you mean by too much ? ?

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      thanks for the comment! I had a similar experience! We did indeed finish each other's sentences too.
      Too much means...its too hard to sustain in the world.
      When we met one on one, we could talk for hours.....
      but the experience was different when we were in groups, being around other people, and daily texts ... it didn't work between on on a daily basis...
      we were better one on one, in our own world, meeting each other here and there.

    • @Hippyfishhikes
      @Hippyfishhikes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@simplebalanceastrology This is exactly what i've experienced with a guy who's sun is in my 12th. Our second and third times meeting and we were like magnets talking for hours and hours. We were both astounded by it... now I know why. We are also both introverts and very comfortable around each other, it's like it's effortless. Yet texts can feel weird and different, this is hard to put into words... it's a feeling, a notion. But his Virgo moon seems to make him pull away from overanalyzing. After going silent for 1.5 months, he has come back around and I'm actually very guarded and protective of myself to engage on that same deep level with him again.

    • @estipurwani9246
      @estipurwani9246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I have my husband sun in 12th. 13 years of marriage and still going strong. Its great placement. I feel at home from the first time i meet him.

    • @brittniebelcher3341
      @brittniebelcher3341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@simplebalanceastrology Exactly accurate

    • @Lilfairyxo
      @Lilfairyxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@estipurwani9246 I’m glad to read something positive about this. I was getting kinda scared reading these comments!

  • @VAULTv3
    @VAULTv3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have this with a co-worker. Before I knew his Sun is in my 12th, I felt very uneasy around him. We started off extremely close, almost intuitively connected, but then I found he would over analyse every thing I said. I started to keep quiet around him and that's when he began not trusting me. Months of this went on and we finally blew up at each other. He thinks I'm hiding something and said he cant read me, and I feel like he misconstrues every thing I do and say. It makes me want to be as far away from him as possible. Given that, I feel closer to him than I have with most colleagues I've had. But it's this weird feeling I have like he hates me but is also obsessed with me, like on a romantic level maybe. I am not a fan of this placement cause it's so confusing. I also have this with my mother. I'm the Sun. I can read her like a book and find her irritating. I struggle to be around her more than maybe 5 mins. I always feel like she's full of it and fake. However we have a very ethereal connection. We often dream about each other and finish one another's sentences.

    • @bearsbeetsbattlestargalact3484
      @bearsbeetsbattlestargalact3484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s insane how much I resonate with your situation. I also have a coworker with his sun (and Venus & Mercury) in my 12th and everything you said applies to us too.

    • @jacquelinedesmarais4108
      @jacquelinedesmarais4108 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have the same overlay with my mom that you have with your mom and I feel the EXACT same way.

  • @selestemichael7513
    @selestemichael7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    my sun is in his 12th house and he always comes and then leaves for a little and comes back 🙄

    • @selestemichael7513
      @selestemichael7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ilmari23 watch truth and aspects by jewel she goes more in depth

  • @7forestemail289
    @7forestemail289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I dated someone who's sun was in my 12th house and also had a best friend who's sun was in my 12th house and it was extremely hard, I felt uncomfy sometimes. It's like he wanted to dig into subconscious, I would show him and he wouldn't make an effort to understand it. I tried to end the relationship many times. I also went through an incredibly hard time while dating him, it was the peak of my depression.

  • @rhianalove534
    @rhianalove534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have this, im the sun he is the 12h. I have been trying to understand our relationship its still confused. I will take time.

  • @Hippyfishhikes
    @Hippyfishhikes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As the house person, would this explain why many times I have felt "uncomfortable" around the Sun person? The best way I can explain it is that I often feel like he can "see right through me" when we are together. I sense that he is seeing and analyzing everything about me. Is this aspect the reason why?? We like each other and he is pursuing me again... but is there any way I can stop this vulnerable sensation of feeling "naked" and "exposed" when I'm around him?? I also have no planets in my 12th house and am a very private person. My sun is Pisces and his is Aries... I know 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @kssgpv
      @kssgpv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you just have to accept your vulnerability

  • @JaieElizabeth
    @JaieElizabeth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m a sag rising and I love scorpios 😂
    Not a long term thing but I appreciate what I learned.

  • @narcissismrehabilitation
    @narcissismrehabilitation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s definitely intense for the people I work with. It’s definitely in doses.

  • @im33lap
    @im33lap ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Also north node or south node in other persons 12 house.

  • @AirFire18
    @AirFire18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Jupiter is in virgo, i seem to love a sun in the 12th, especially when it hits my juptier because my jupiter makes really good aspects and so does their sun. Plus, I have a stellium in a water house, I do not mind people exploring my mind. I know it better than anyone else..so them teaching me something- I'm all for it ! This is hard when people don't have good aspects to the 12th house..

  • @lavenderlagoons
    @lavenderlagoons 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In my past situationship, I had my sun, venus, and jupiter in his 12th house and he had his moon and rising conjuct my 12th house. It was a constant push-n-pull because we both understood each other yet often had misunderstandings. It was complicated yet passionate.

  • @redfullmoon
    @redfullmoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had this with a karmic connection. His Sun was in my 12th house Gemini. We also had some south node/north node contacts, so I knew it was a past life connection. I also had Chiron in my 12th house, and boy was that a wringer. He illuminated a lot of trauma for me, and he couldn't understand why I would have very turbulent emotional reactions to what he does or says. It also did not help his Mars in Cancer was activating my 1st house, so the more he became aggressive to me, the more I cried. It was horrible, untenuous. In the end, I had to just shield myself away from him and I told him I was lessening interactions because we seemed to be triggering each other, and he agreed but we eventually fought again because I got mad at him for not acknowledging how his petty actions would also hurt me (stonewalling me, ghosting me for an entire month, baiting me when he felt like making contact again, joking about being with other women), and when he eventually blocked me because I wouldn't respond to his last message (never opened it - he gaslighted me a bit before that and I just had enough), all I could do was breathe a sigh of relief. It sucks though that I often dream about him still, that's the part I hate about this placement.

  • @ΕιρηνηΒρ
    @ΕιρηνηΒρ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My Sun and Venus are in my bestie's 12th house. We are very connected and we communicate so well. She is the only one I always want to open up to and feel extremely comfortable with but I often feel that she hides things from me and I sometimes think she doesn't truly love me. I may be wrong but I think I am more sincere with her than she is with me.

  • @catheadu
    @catheadu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just met someone and he does not have his birth time but i am able to "see" it and have an educated guess. I could be wrong but it is looking like his sun in my 12th, my sun in his 1st house, my moon in his 12th house, his moon in my 8th house, his pluto and lilith in my 8th house. I have personally deduced that a lot of what this is about is to for me to heal my past sexual trauma. He has venus/mars in scorpio and i have venus/mars in taurus/cancer so there is something smooth and acceptable about what is going on. I keep hearing that this is something I need but I am scared of it !! He lives 5 hours away so its a great automatic space. Does anyone have any insight? I am Aries sun Pisces moon. He is Sag sun / Virgo moon.

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, there is strong attraction - taurus/scorpio axis. direct opposites. Also, with scorpio, energy there is transformational energy....along with his moon in your 8th house. moon in his 12th is very mystical and CAN be soul mate like (depends on individual charts).

  • @enodia105
    @enodia105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my sun in his 12th house in leo, conjunct his jupiter, who is co-ruler of his 7th house (pisces). i had visions in which i saw that he is not the biological father of his son, whom i never met (neither have i ever met him). he was unaware of this , it turned out to be true. speak of leo ruling children and his foggy perception of his partner... i also saw other secrets he was unaware of concerning his now ex-partner and family (sagittarius ruling his 4th). but i´m a 12th house scorpio moon myself with neptune conjunct my ascendant trining my mercury and sun, so i´m in tune with what´s invisible to the physical eyes. - we share a highly spiritual bond, he´s a lunar scorpio as well, so his moon sits in my 12th, and i´ve never felt so understood by anybody. we communicate telepathically all the time and both know how supernatural this connection is, so we precede with caution and humility, it´s beautiful beyond measures.

  • @onomatoponia1758
    @onomatoponia1758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is really unfortunate I have multiple planets that are in the sign leo and his 12th house is leo with no planets in it. We are on and off but this connection does seem to be important I guess I trigger him too much for it to be romantic......

  • @boostasaurusrex
    @boostasaurusrex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hi there, i have a question...i am a scorpio sun, mars, pluto, juno and my partner is a scorpio sun, mercury, saturn, pluto, south node, juno, sappho...if both of our suns fall within my 12th house, what does that mean exactly??? thx

  • @TheJuiicymelanie
    @TheJuiicymelanie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So if this why I’m attracted to all Taurus’s? I have Taurus in my 12th house and I find myself attracted to a lot of them

  • @234dream_big
    @234dream_big ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is the same with the mars in the 12house?

  • @laoisemeehan
    @laoisemeehan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My natal sun is in the 8th ruling the 12th. ♈☀️🐏🐑🐉
    With his sun in my 12th- We connected instantly because of our occult interests. I might have asked him uncomfortable questions unintentionally🤔
    He told me he felt I was a twin flame, but then ghosted.
    It is painful, I must say. I also felt he was manipulative and might have lied about the twin stuff. Sometimes it feels like the universe bitch slaps you, and that's pretty much how I'd sum up our connection. A kick in the stomach. Sigh... Good ole sun in 12th synastry, eh?

  • @916bigAl
    @916bigAl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My partner has 12th house cusp at 22 degrees leo. My sun is at 18 degrees cancer. Is my sun affecting her 11th or 12th house?

  • @im33lap
    @im33lap ปีที่แล้ว

    How about Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune to other person’s 12 house especially Jupiter?

  • @brittniebelcher3341
    @brittniebelcher3341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me and my crush have this (i’m the Sun.) But his IC is in Gemini trine my IC in Aquarius so we are super comfortable at home but so comfortable that it makes us uncomfortable (him mainly but I totally understand why.) We have composite Scorpio placements so our connection is deep and uncomfortable for us both. Moving through this carefully and as grounded as possible (neptune in Capricorn) 😅 oh lord help us

  • @leticiamacena628
    @leticiamacena628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t have any 12th placements in my natal chart, however this guy and i have moon (me - pisces) conjunct jupiter (he - pisces 12th) and i can definitely understand him and feel his pain. The funny thing is that our moons square each other (saggy and pisces), and we were supposed to argue and fight all the time but that is not the case. My guess is that we also have his moon conjunct my venus and maybe due to this aspect it softens a little bit of the tension. What do you think? Very cool video btw!

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is very interesting! I think if any planets should be in the 12th house, jupiter would work best as an outer planet.
      Yes, the moon conjunct venus is one of the best synastry aspects to have!!! I love to see this in relationships.
      I want to know where is his moon is on your chart and where your venus is on his.

    • @leticiamacena628
      @leticiamacena628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Simple Balance Astrology woow!! Now i’m a little bit more optimistic because of your feedback. Ok, so my moon(pisces/5th) falls in his 12th house and my venus (sagittarius/2nd) falls exactly in his 9th house. His moon (Sagittarius/9th) falls in my second house. I am late libra ascendant, almost scorpio and he’s ascendant is aries. The only thing i know is that we laugh A LOT!!! It’s so funny when we are together that ours ribs get tough!!! Lol

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@leticiamacena628 interesting synastry! Air/fire ascendant mix is good.
      Although you def supporting him more in the chart, Its a bit unbalanced - more support emotionally for him and stimulating his need to learn new things.
      What about his venus on your chart?

    • @leticiamacena628
      @leticiamacena628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Simple Balance Astrology his taurus (2nd house) venus falls in my 7th house, trines my sun and mercury in capricorn, conjuncts my saturn and quincunxes my venus.
      I’m sad about the quincux however i think we kinda get each other in terms of tastes and beauty ‘cause in our natal charts our venus lands in the 2nd house. Also, he has sun, mercury and mars in gemini all opposing my venus and pluto.
      Do you think he could become jealous and obsessive in this relationship?
      Nataly, i am very plutonic. For example i have venus conjunct pluto, mars and moon squaring pluto and the list goes on...
      But he is not plutonic. Not at all. Neptunian? Definitely. Jupiterian? YES.
      So our house overlays (his gemini landing in my 8th house, taurus in my 7th...) i am very afraid of becoming super obsessed (I generally tend to... a lot haha) about him and he doesn’t reciprocate the intensity. I MEAN, I really like plutonic relationships. A lot. It hurts but i think it’s awesome to regenerate and grow up.
      Me and gemini dude met 2 weeks ago and everything is doing fine between us so far 😅

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leticiamacena628 His venus in your 7th house is perfect - best place for venus for marriage/partnership.
      With the second house, you guys will share the same values and tastes! Mhm, anything 8th house synastry will be intense both ways, except when jupiter is there (mostly positive effects). Mars oppose venus/pluto is not bad (square is the ones you should avoid) - I do like oppositions, opposites attract kind of thing as long as you guys recognize eachother's difference which cannot be done with Squares.
      Also, how long have u guys met?

  • @ChynaJ90
    @ChynaJ90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi, just watched the video, it was great. Quick question. I was wondering, how does this overlay play out with the sun in each other’s 12th houses? I usually hear it from one angle. How does it work when it comes from both sides?

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey, thank you for comment and great question, a lot of people have asked about this. 12th house synastry is always strange and the best way to go about it is intuition/instinct (go with the flow like the fish - pisces). The more we think about it, the more we get lost. Thus, if we are open to this kind of connection depends on the individual's chart (heavy 12th house? pisces energy? neptune?)
      Having the sun in eachother's 12th house.... you see each other's subconciously, there's no hiding for both of you ---- initially this could be uncomfortable/annoying, but I think it is nice that you guys know each other deeply and can sense each other. Having both sides, I believe, is better than one side --- you can understand why they do what they do because you naturally respond the same way as well.

  • @lucindasamira8351
    @lucindasamira8351 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does it help / is slightly easier when the sun is 1-2 degrees away from the ascendant? Ive heard that some astrologers read that as of the planet falls into the next house? 🙏🏻

  • @emmafleming3051
    @emmafleming3051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We both have our sun in each other’s 12 house

    • @jademong418
      @jademong418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how long have you been together, my sun is in his 12.

  • @rafaela1poa
    @rafaela1poa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn! My Sun, Venus and Saturn are in his 12th house, and all of them conjunct his Saturn so I have no idea what to make of it haha do you think this other planets make it easier for them not to feel so uncomfortable?

  • @unbalancedlibra9788
    @unbalancedlibra9788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sun in 12th moon in 1st Triple Libra

    • @unbalancedlibra9788
      @unbalancedlibra9788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sun also represents father which I never met. I am ultra spiritual/occultist. I question everything and trust no one

  • @popadoodledoo8913
    @popadoodledoo8913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lovely explanation. How does the sun person feel in this connection? And what if there are multiple planets in your 12th house in the synastry chart? :/

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Its hard to interpret... but more often than not..there is actually multiple planets in the synastry chart... (I had a friend with sun, mercury, venus, mars...all in my 12th house)
      However, since you know its 12th house related...then you already know what to expect. Unless you have planets in the 12th house in your own chart, these synastries are difficult to handle
      It is very much karmic... a lot of spiritual growth.
      To answer your question, generally ...
      The sun person sees the house person ...as very mysterious... fascinating...difficult to understand -out of this world.
      You can't resist... because you are curious... they are a mystery to you....
      It's no surprise that there is a lot of misunderstandings that can take place ---- this relationship requires a lot of patient if you do pursue it.

    • @popadoodledoo8913
      @popadoodledoo8913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@simplebalanceastrology yeah so many misunderstandings. I wonder if that is exacerbated during mercury retrograde 🤔 thanks again :) I wonder if you could do a video on north node in partners 12th house? And then north node in partners 1st house?

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@popadoodledoo8913
      Yeah it does unless u both are merc R babies then no.
      Good question,
      Interesting.... i have the same node placements in synastry with someone. I will look into it!

    • @popadoodledoo8913
      @popadoodledoo8913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@simplebalanceastrology wow how cool :) I also forgot moon in 12th house synastry too. I've had a couple of times..really tough

    • @simplebalanceastrology
      @simplebalanceastrology  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@popadoodledoo8913 moon in 12 house synastry.... is one of the hardest synastries.
      This is tough. Moon in someone's 12th house is not good because...the moon (feelings, security) does not understand 12th house - subconcious, mystery...
      the moon person cannot fully trust the 12th house person ---- this is not easy.
      Personally, I would not dig any deeper in this synastry... . similarly to other 12th house synastries unless you have many planets in your own 12th house.