Hai , I'm 28th week preganant, my placenta position was low lying , that is placenta was posterior, and is 15mm distance from OS , (no bleed)and doctor suggested me that placenta was low lying and suggested me bed rest ... And I felt very horney ... Is it ok to for sexual stimulation and orgasm or cuddling with my hubby instead of having sexual penetration.. Is it ok for orgasm!!
@@priyap.1621 Thanks for the question! Unfortunately, orgasm can cause bleeding because it causes uterine contractions. If your doctor has recommended bed rest with no sexual intercourse, they probably also don't want you to have an orgasm. However, always ask your provider to be sure. They may approve for sexual stimulation as long as there is no penetration. Remember penetration includes penis, fingers and toys! Cuddling is definitely okay. Finally, stimulation of the breasts including touching and suckling can cause uterine contractions. So if your provider says no orgasm, you should avoid this as well.
Hi my period is 20 days late I took a pregnancy test about two weeks ago which came out negative, i had light pinkish see through spotting during that time but twice only and now me and my husband had sex but oral sex after I had an orgasm I started bleeding light red blood but little, what could it be?
Hi, I hope you see this. I am classified as high risk because I have had two mcc due to pcos and now I’m pregnant again. I have totally stopped having sex with my husband but I still orgasm during my sleep which I hate but I don’t think there is a way to stop that. What can I do please, I don’t want to loose this pregnancy again due to wet dreams orgasm. Please help
@@rashidatolajumoke8583 Thanks for asking. Unfortunately, there is no way to stop this from happening. Our dreams are a complex form of our brain processing a large amount of information. That information includes feelings. Sometimes orgasm is our body's way of releasing stress so you can try some stress relieving activities like meditation, massage, or yoga to see if that helps reduce the frequency. I'm sorry I couldn't give you a better suggestion.
This is by far not a video, is a full package of advice feels like it’s tailored specifically to fit everyone’s specific situation. It is very helpful as this topic is very neglected or some people feel shyness to openly talk it out. I can’t thank you enough and I will be coming back here back and forth to learn more
You’re welcome! Glad it helped! I really appreciate the compliments. I agree we need to talk more openly and honestly about sex and other subjects like this.
Thanks for commenting and thank you for respecting her. I would try to have a frank discussion with her about ways you might be able to accomplish having sex. I encourage trying new positions, using toys and plenty of lube. Also, she may start to feel more like it in the 2nd trimester, so be patient with her.
Interesting. Both providers of mine, with my first 2, told me no sex. No real reason, I was low risk for both. Pregnant with my 3rd, and I feel like we're having more sex NOW than before. And it is fantastic! SIDE NOTE: I have a midwife this time around and will also be birthing in a birth center. LOTS of positive changes this time around. Thanks for the informational video!
Thank you so much for this video, wish I had it with our first baby! Im surprised this isn’t talked about more. My husband and I watched it together & it was very insightful for the BOTH of us!
@@TheMaternityMentor I most certainly did & have been binging your videos since! I also shared with my sister who is pregnant! Thanks for spreading info on pregnancy♥️
Thank you for your video mam,i am28 I had sex when I was 12 weeks pregnant after that 2days later at night i had a light bleeding i feel so scary husband and me going to do a checkup my doctor's told me that the featus heartbeat is missed had missed miscarriage need D&C i feel so sad 😭about my 2nd pregnancy. It's so stressful i don't sleep at night i feel so sorry to my second pregnancy i have depression at that moment 21st of June 2022is my D&C day. All mom's have necessary self take care when pregnancy praying for all mommies to have healthy baby❤️ healthy pregnancy🤰
I had sex after my 4weeks pregnancy after that I have light bleeding and go to doctor for check up . doctor advise me to avoid sex for two months so I avoid sex bt nt stoping light bleeding so is it possible to go for check up? Please reply as soon as possible mam
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I am 8 months pregnant and I lost my sex drive plus my partner has been making me feel like it's not normal for that to happen, so I just want to know is it normal to lose my sex interest during pregnancy 🤔
Thanks for asking! Everyone is different but many women do lose their sex drive. This is because the hormones that sustain your pregnancy and allow for the production of breast milk reduce libido. Additionally, if you are feeling depressed, anxious, or are experiencing insomnia, that will make it worse. Feel better!
I've been having a hard time finding any information on sex during pregnancy and how to avoid or reduce diastases recti during orgasm. I know it's probably unavoidable, but wanted a definitive answer. I've been working really hard to minimize my DR so I can recover quicker/better postpartum. But can't find anything about DR and orgasms. TIA!
Thanks for asking! I don't believe there is information regarding this. Unless you have been advised to avoid orgasm, I would enjoy yourself. If you are concerned, get a consult with the surgeon who would repair a DR. They would know for sure. Good luck!
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Thanks for asking! It can be normal because the vaginal tissue becomes thinner during pregnancy. However, you should contact your healthcare provider and let them know so they can assess you. Good luck!
I’m 18 I just had my first baby, my sex drive stopped once I got pregnant basically and has been gone basically ever since it’s been around 5 months since I’ve given birth it’s still gone… 🥺 talk to me about this?
Thanks for asking. I'm sorry to hear this is happening. You should go to your healthcare provider and ask them to run some blood work on you. Specifically, check your thyroid, your hormones and check for anemia. All of these can impact libido (another word for sex drive). It is also important to start asking for and receiving help. Low sex drive is often associated with feeling overwhelmed. I hope you feel better. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Thanks for asking. It can take a woman 9 months to 1 year to fully recover from giving birth. Pregnancy is hard on your body and changes all of your organ systems. Your body is still recovering.
Maam i am 9 weeks pregnant and just this day got intercourse with my husband since we knew i am pregnant. After we intercourse i felt little cramp and heavy in my lower abdomen but only that other symptoms nothing. Should I have to worry and go to my doctor?
Thanks for asking. I would definitely let your healthcare provider know. However, this may simply be some contractions after having an orgasm. It is most likely normal. Feel better!
Hi, I wanted to find out is it normal to have some light bleeding after sex? I had intercourse with my husband and when I went to the toilet and wiped there was some blood on the tissue. I put a panty liner on straight away. When I woke up the following morning there was no blood on my liner. When I wipe there is very tiny brown spotting. I don’t have any cramps or anything. Not sure if it is normal after intercourse? I had a miscarriage 1 year ago and right after having sex so just a bit concerned. Thanks
Thanks for asking. You should always let your healthcare provider know what is going on so they can assess you. It's possible it’s just slight vaginal tearing that caused the drops. The vaginal tissue gets very thin during pregnancy and can tear easily. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
If sperm/semen ripens the cervix, how is it safe to have sex in early pregnancy? Wouldn't cervix ripening mean that sex could induce miscarriage? How does semen ripen a cervix in late pregnancy & not in early pregnancy?
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I'm in my first trimester of my twins, My last check up was 2 weeks ago The last OB that I've been to didn't really discussed stuff maybe it was my fault not asking questions but because I have twins she referred me to a big hospital but I should set an appointment first that would be next week, so I don't know if I can have sex it's gonna be a month without sex. I don't have any advice yet.
Thanks for asking! You should contact your healthcare provider and ask to be sure. It sounds like they are considering your pregnancy high risk which means you may have limits on sex. Good luck!
I'm about 6 weeks and I Easley orgasm. When this happens I feel like my uterus contracts... doesn't hurt during but after orgasms I have to lay down and relax bc it kinda hurts, is this normal?
Thanks for asking! It is actually very common and very normal for you to orgasm easier during the first trimester. All of the pregnancy hormones can rev up your sex drive. Contractions work the uterus which is a muscle, kinda of like exercise. Plus the uterus is getting bigger and heavier every day due to the pregnancy which makes it "a little out of shape". After you uterus is probably sore from that. It is good that you are relaxing. The concern I would have is if the pain is coming and going with the contractions. That is something we don't like to hear as much. I would recommend you check in with your provider and have them check you out. Just to be safe. Again, it's probably just the uterus tired from the wonderful time you had. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
I have light bleeding the day after (comes and goes) no clumps, and mild cramps on my left side next to my hip bone. Earlier it was across my pelvic area. Should I be worried?
Thanks for asking! I would definitely contact your healthcare provider and have this checked out. Light bleeding and cramping can occur after sex however, you don't ever want to ignore it. Orgasms can lead to the release of oxytocin and oxytocin causes contractions that can feel like cramps. This is ok as long as there are no other symptoms of preterm labor. Bleeding can occur after sex because the vaginal tissues are thinner due to pregnancy hormones. No matter what though - you always want to keep your provider in the loop. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Just updating, went in to get checked out and was told that I had some old blood from implantation. But baby was great 👍 Still experiencing bleeding a week later so I will be calling in to make sure everything is still okay.
I'm sorry I am not sure what you are asking. If the baby moves more after sex, that is normal. If your baby moves slower or stops, you need to contact your healthcare provider immediately. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
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I am sorry to hear this. Having sex is normally ok but you need to ask your healthcare provider for sure because there may be a contraindication in your specific pregnancy. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Thanks for asking! You need to contact your healthcare provider and let them know what is going on because they may want to assess you to determine the cause. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
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Wemen help me coze am pregnant but my servix did not go up and hv not yet seen doctor bse ov not hving money.actually l prayed sex with my man but he did it very slowly.l need advice please
how about make sex to have babies ? if you make sex every month and get preganant ever month is not dangerous to the other babies when one will born ? other baby will be still in the development so can kill or be bad for the other babies inside when you get pregnant every month
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Thanks for asking! Sometimes your stomach will ache from the contractions caused by an orgasm. You should always let your healthcare provider know what is going on so they can assess you. Feel better!
I had a SCH at 12 weeks and put on pelvic rest, which is now gone but in my last ultrasound they told me I had low-lying placenta which is probably going to move away from my cervix by the time I reach 32weeks I’m 24weeks now but was wondering if sex(anal) would be a good option for me ??
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Thanks for asking! Light masturbation is usually totally safe during pregnancy. What I will tell you is to wash your hands or toys prior to starting to make sure they are clean. You don't want to introduce any bacteria into the vagina that may cause infection. Have fun!
Thanks for asking! Yes it is safe to have sex if you are pregnant. Many women won't even realize they are pregnant until they are almost 8 weeks along. During that time, they will be having sex. Very few pregnancies require a woman to abstain from sex. So enjoy!
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I have a question and i don't mean to offend anyone in the comments so please don't take this the wrong way, but I'm a guy and im pretty much asking if its normal to not want sex at all during this time? My girl is pregnant its been 4 months and her drive is through the roof😂 but i think im just very anxious about it so i just try not to touch her at all. any pointers would be welcome 🙏🏾🙂↕️
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Thanks for asking! Yes - it can be very normal. The hormones required to sustain a pregnancy reduce libido. It is best to try and work together to come up with a plan that meets both of your needs. I suggest possibly a schedule but be sure to spend plenty of time together and don't rush the situation to give her the best chance to get in the mood. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
Thank you so much for this vedio.... I' am 22 weeks pregnacy. I had to turn back while having sex(my belly was shaking).i feel this is make harm to my baby. Please give me a advice for this. Thank you
Thanks for asking! Sex is usually safe during pregnancy. You need to let your healthcare provider know in case they want to assess you. You may have been experiencing some contractions due to oxytocin release that happens during sex, especially during orgasm. Your healthcare provider will let you know if you shouldn't be having sex. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Thanks for asking! You can have an orgasm inside your pregnant partner with no issues. Sperm can ripen the cervix so at the end of pregnancy it can help get a woman ready for labor. Good luck!
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Thanks for asking! There is no reason why sex is contraindicated at 3 weeks unless your healthcare provider has said otherwise. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
iam almost 6 weeks pregnant and had sex with my husband after that i bleed but not too much. do i need to worry or panic? what i need to do? pls. im scared right now.
Thanks for asking! Don't panic but do call your healthcare provider. You need to let them knpow you are bleeding so they can check you out and make sure the baby is ok. Bleeding after sex is common. If your healthcare provider is ok with you having sex, try changing positions which may make the risk of bleeding less. Also, be sure to use plenty of lubricant because vaginal tissues get drier and thinner during pregnancy. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
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So same way you can’t get air in the vagina, what about the possibility of air entering in certain positions? That is sometimes normal and seems concerning
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Hi Ms. Doctor, Im one month pregnant and my husband and i had sex and I walk outside for 2 hours and I'm in my bed I feel and saw have blood what is that mean please?
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Thanks for your comment. You should speak to your healthcare provider so they can check you out but it is probably normal. Some very light bleeding can occur because the vaginal tissues are thinner and more delicate so sex can cause them to tear slightly. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
Thanks for the question. This is a challenging question. I always defer to healthcare providers so if your healthcare provider says sex is safe, it should be safe for you. Placentas can move up or down as the uterus expands. So what often starts as a low-lying placenta can turn into a mid-lying placenta. If your provider has not prohibited sex, you can continue to enjoy it. If you are anxious, foreplay and oral sex can be safer options that allow for intimacy and closeness.
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The next video can you talk about how pregnancy sex is better and why pregnant women actually want to have sex with the sexual pleasure for her as much better please explain your next video. Explain this video three times. I haven’t heard you say I hear the orgasms are bigger stronger she screams louder, sex the chemicals and the hormones sex and sex
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Thanks for asking! As long as your healthcare provider has not told you sex is not allowed, sex is safe for pregnancy including twin pregnancy. Ask your healthcare provider to be sure. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
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Thank for your comment, ultimately you should do what you and your healthcare provider deem is safe for your particular situation. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Thanks for asking. Yes it can be very normal however you always need to call your healthcare provider if you see blood. They need to know what's going on, even if it is nothing. The hormones involved with your pregnancy can make the vaginal tissues dry and that can cause bleeding. Make sure to use lots of lubricant. It helps and it won't hurt your baby. Again, make sure to notify your healthcare provider. If you don't mind, can you please like my video and subscribe to my channel? It really helps me out. Thank you so much!
Thanks for asking! Not having sex will not negatively affect the baby. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
I'm 14 weeks last week I had a ultrasound at 13 weeks the ultrasound tech mentioned my placenta was 2cm away from my cervix I don't get to see my Dr till end of month my question is is it safe to orgasm if placenta is only 2cm away from cervix
Thanks for asking. Unless your doctor told you otherwise, yes it is safe to have an orgasm. Now, your placenta can move as your pregnancy progresses. It is most likely to move away from the cervix but it can move towards it. If you have an orgasm, it does cause uterine contractions and this may cause spotting if the placenta moves slightly down. However, this is extremely rare. Good luck!
Hi mentor, I always get your response thanks for that 🙂 I’m 19 weeks pregnant. I don’t have sex since 5 weeks of pregnancy. I was little bleeding that’s why the doctor told me to not have sex. Now I’m completely ok. But I don’t feel interested having sex. Is it okay or will I have problem if I don’t have sex throughout the whole pregnancy?
Thanks for asking! It is normal to have less desire due to the hormonal changes that happen during pregnancy. The hormones needed to sustain pregnancy decrease desire. Some women regain desire in the second trimester and some don't until after they give birth. I encourage you to set a date with your partner to have sex. Do lots of fun things that night and make sure there is plenty of foreplay. These things may help you get in the mood. Good luck!
Excuse me did you and your partner have sex and than you noticed you where bleeding cuz that’s what is going on with my wife we are 11 weeks we got scared Saturday night cuz we had sex and she noticed she was bleeding so Sunday morning we went to the er thank god everything was ok heart beat at 165 but she still has a lil bit of blood
@@villagiz2296 I am 10 weeks pregnant and last night after my partner and I had sex we realised I was bleeding!! So scary, talked to my OB Gynae and he said not to worry but abstain from sex a bit.
That really depends on the color and consistency of the discharge. If it smells strongly or is an off color, you should talk to your healthcare provider to make sure it's not an infection or tear.
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I'm in my ovulation day, i.e, 14th day...and we are trying pregnancy...shall we have sex after ovulation which may affect my pregnancy?...please explain... Because somebody says that you should avoid sex after 20 days from the periods...is that true?
Thanks for asking! I am not sure what you are asking. However, let me say this. Sex during pregnancy is safe as long as your healthcare provider has not told you to avoid it. It doesn't matter when you had your period last. Also, you no longer ovulate during pregnancy. Good luck!
Do you have any other tips or questions about sex during pregnancy?
Hai , I'm 28th week preganant, my placenta position was low lying , that is placenta was posterior, and is 15mm distance from OS , (no bleed)and doctor suggested me that placenta was low lying and suggested me bed rest ... And I felt very horney ... Is it ok to for sexual stimulation and orgasm or cuddling with my hubby instead of having sexual penetration.. Is it ok for orgasm!!
@@priyap.1621 Thanks for the question! Unfortunately, orgasm can cause bleeding because it causes uterine contractions. If your doctor has recommended bed rest with no sexual intercourse, they probably also don't want you to have an orgasm. However, always ask your provider to be sure. They may approve for sexual stimulation as long as there is no penetration. Remember penetration includes penis, fingers and toys! Cuddling is definitely okay. Finally, stimulation of the breasts including touching and suckling can cause uterine contractions. So if your provider says no orgasm, you should avoid this as well.
Hi my period is 20 days late I took a pregnancy test about two weeks ago which came out negative, i had light pinkish see through spotting during that time but twice only and now me and my husband had sex but oral sex after I had an orgasm I started bleeding light red blood but little, what could it be?
Hi, I hope you see this. I am classified as high risk because I have had two mcc due to pcos and now I’m pregnant again. I have totally stopped having sex with my husband but I still orgasm during my sleep which I hate but I don’t think there is a way to stop that. What can I do please, I don’t want to loose this pregnancy again due to wet dreams orgasm. Please help
@@rashidatolajumoke8583 Thanks for asking. Unfortunately, there is no way to stop this from happening. Our dreams are a complex form of our brain processing a large amount of information. That information includes feelings. Sometimes orgasm is our body's way of releasing stress so you can try some stress relieving activities like meditation, massage, or yoga to see if that helps reduce the frequency. I'm sorry I couldn't give you a better suggestion.
This is by far not a video, is a full package of advice feels like it’s tailored specifically to fit everyone’s specific situation. It is very helpful as this topic is very neglected or some people feel shyness to openly talk it out. I can’t thank you enough and I will be coming back here back and forth to learn more
You’re welcome! Glad it helped! I really appreciate the compliments. I agree we need to talk more openly and honestly about sex and other subjects like this.
My girlfriend is nearing end of her first trimester and I asked for sex . She told me everything hurts lol . I just respected it & said ok
Thanks for commenting and thank you for respecting her. I would try to have a frank discussion with her about ways you might be able to accomplish having sex. I encourage trying new positions, using toys and plenty of lube. Also, she may start to feel more like it in the 2nd trimester, so be patient with her.
@@TheMaternityMentor thank you for getting bac to me. Yea I just was like ok I'll respect it.
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Interesting. Both providers of mine, with my first 2, told me no sex. No real reason, I was low risk for both. Pregnant with my 3rd, and I feel like we're having more sex NOW than before. And it is fantastic! SIDE NOTE: I have a midwife this time around and will also be birthing in a birth center. LOTS of positive changes this time around.
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This was very educational to me and my husband..frist time parents ❤❤thank u so much
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Thank you so much for this video, wish I had it with our first baby! Im surprised this isn’t talked about more. My husband and I watched it together & it was very insightful for the BOTH of us!
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@@TheMaternityMentor I most certainly did & have been binging your videos since! I also shared with my sister who is pregnant! Thanks for spreading info on pregnancy♥️
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I’m 17 weeks and haven’t been interested in sex at all so far in my pregnancy (except for rare occasions). I hope I don’t stay like this forever
I don't think it will! Many women's interest picks up in the second trimester. Feel better!
Thank you. This was very detailed and helpful. First time viewer.
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Thank you your videos are very helpful, first time mom going to my 9 week and I like your guidelines
Good luck on your journey and thanks for reaching out.
Thank you for your video mam,i am28 I had sex when I was 12 weeks pregnant after that 2days later at night i had a light bleeding i feel so scary husband and me going to do a checkup my doctor's told me that the featus heartbeat is missed had missed miscarriage need D&C i feel so sad 😭about my 2nd pregnancy. It's so stressful i don't sleep at night i feel so sorry to my second pregnancy i have depression at that moment 21st of June 2022is my D&C day. All mom's have necessary self take care when pregnancy praying for all mommies to have healthy baby❤️ healthy pregnancy🤰
I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
I had sex after my 4weeks pregnancy after that I have light bleeding and go to doctor for check up . doctor advise me to avoid sex for two months so I avoid sex bt nt stoping light bleeding so is it possible to go for check up? Please reply as soon as possible mam
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I am 8 months pregnant and I lost my sex drive plus my partner has been making me feel like it's not normal for that to happen, so I just want to know is it normal to lose my sex interest during pregnancy 🤔
Thanks for asking! Everyone is different but many women do lose their sex drive. This is because the hormones that sustain your pregnancy and allow for the production of breast milk reduce libido. Additionally, if you are feeling depressed, anxious, or are experiencing insomnia, that will make it worse. Feel better!
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I've been having a hard time finding any information on sex during pregnancy and how to avoid or reduce diastases recti during orgasm. I know it's probably unavoidable, but wanted a definitive answer. I've been working really hard to minimize my DR so I can recover quicker/better postpartum. But can't find anything about DR and orgasms. TIA!
Thanks for asking! I don't believe there is information regarding this. Unless you have been advised to avoid orgasm, I would enjoy yourself. If you are concerned, get a consult with the surgeon who would repair a DR. They would know for sure. Good luck!
Good information thank you🤝🤝
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I'm in my second trimester and I'm dry no matter how much partner stimulates me
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I have high sex drive now that im 8 weeks pregnant..we have sex every after 2-3 days..i dont have bleeding after each sex.is this too much?
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Ma'am I am 7 week pregnant, and today I noticed that light bloody discharge occurs after orgasm. Is it normal?
Thanks for asking! It can be normal because the vaginal tissue becomes thinner during pregnancy. However, you should contact your healthcare provider and let them know so they can assess you. Good luck!
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It is safe to have sex. While Pregnant 2weeks, I still haven't to see a doctor
Thanks for asking. I replied on your previous post but yes it is as long as your healthcare provider has not said otherwise.
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I’m 18 I just had my first baby, my sex drive stopped once I got pregnant basically and has been gone basically ever since it’s been around 5 months since I’ve given birth it’s still gone… 🥺 talk to me about this?
Also when will my sex drive go back to normal on its own?
Thanks for asking. I'm sorry to hear this is happening. You should go to your healthcare provider and ask them to run some blood work on you. Specifically, check your thyroid, your hormones and check for anemia. All of these can impact libido (another word for sex drive). It is also important to start asking for and receiving help. Low sex drive is often associated with feeling overwhelmed. I hope you feel better. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Thanks for asking. It can take a woman 9 months to 1 year to fully recover from giving birth. Pregnancy is hard on your body and changes all of your organ systems. Your body is still recovering.
Maam i am 9 weeks pregnant and just this day got intercourse with my husband since we knew i am pregnant. After we intercourse i felt little cramp and heavy in my lower abdomen but only that other symptoms nothing. Should I have to worry and go to my doctor?
Thanks for asking. I would definitely let your healthcare provider know. However, this may simply be some contractions after having an orgasm. It is most likely normal. Feel better!
Hi, I wanted to find out is it normal to have some light bleeding after sex? I had intercourse with my husband and when I went to the toilet and wiped there was some blood on the tissue. I put a panty liner on straight away. When I woke up the following morning there was no blood on my liner. When I wipe there is very tiny brown spotting. I don’t have any cramps or anything. Not sure if it is normal after intercourse? I had a miscarriage 1 year ago and right after having sex so just a bit concerned.
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Thanks for asking. You should always let your healthcare provider know what is going on so they can assess you. It's possible it’s just slight vaginal tearing that caused the drops. The vaginal tissue gets very thin during pregnancy and can tear easily. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
If sperm/semen ripens the cervix, how is it safe to have sex in early pregnancy? Wouldn't cervix ripening mean that sex could induce miscarriage? How does semen ripen a cervix in late pregnancy & not in early pregnancy?
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Im 22 weeks pregnant and i sleep with another man..im so worried because we had unprotected sex.what will happen to my baby and the man
Thanks for asking! Having sex will not affect the baby or the other man unless you have a sexually transmitted infection or the man has one.
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I'm in my first trimester of my twins,
My last check up was 2 weeks ago
The last OB that I've been to didn't really discussed stuff maybe it was my fault not asking questions but because I have twins she referred me to a big hospital but I should set an appointment first that would be next week, so I don't know if I can have sex it's gonna be a month without sex. I don't have any advice yet.
Thanks for asking! You should contact your healthcare provider and ask to be sure. It sounds like they are considering your pregnancy high risk which means you may have limits on sex. Good luck!
I'm about 6 weeks and I Easley orgasm. When this happens I feel like my uterus contracts... doesn't hurt during but after orgasms I have to lay down and relax bc it kinda hurts, is this normal?
Thanks for asking! It is actually very common and very normal for you to orgasm easier during the first trimester. All of the pregnancy hormones can rev up your sex drive. Contractions work the uterus which is a muscle, kinda of like exercise. Plus the uterus is getting bigger and heavier every day due to the pregnancy which makes it "a little out of shape". After you uterus is probably sore from that. It is good that you are relaxing. The concern I would have is if the pain is coming and going with the contractions. That is something we don't like to hear as much. I would recommend you check in with your provider and have them check you out. Just to be safe. Again, it's probably just the uterus tired from the wonderful time you had. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
I have light bleeding the day after (comes and goes) no clumps, and mild cramps on my left side next to my hip bone. Earlier it was across my pelvic area. Should I be worried?
Thanks for asking! I would definitely contact your healthcare provider and have this checked out. Light bleeding and cramping can occur after sex however, you don't ever want to ignore it. Orgasms can lead to the release of oxytocin and oxytocin causes contractions that can feel like cramps. This is ok as long as there are no other symptoms of preterm labor. Bleeding can occur after sex because the vaginal tissues are thinner due to pregnancy hormones. No matter what though - you always want to keep your provider in the loop. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Just updating, went in to get checked out and was told that I had some old blood from implantation. But baby was great 👍 Still experiencing bleeding a week later so I will be calling in to make sure everything is still okay.
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@@mondayswithsharon how’s everything i had the same thing happen today and i would like to know how u are doing
Im 8 months pregnant now wen were in , after that my baby movement stp till mrg or 3 hours
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I'm sorry I am not sure what you are asking. If the baby moves more after sex, that is normal. If your baby moves slower or stops, you need to contact your healthcare provider immediately. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
I’m in my early second trimester but I’m still scared of having sex especially when I feel pain in the bottom of my belly
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Pls ma'am, is there any danger of not having sex till delivery due date? Because I lost my partner
I am sorry to hear this. Having sex is normally ok but you need to ask your healthcare provider for sure because there may be a contraindication in your specific pregnancy. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
Hi ..I'm 28 weeks pregnant and I had sex yesterday, now I have pelvic pains please help.and pressure on my pelvic
Thanks for asking! You need to contact your healthcare provider and let them know what is going on because they may want to assess you to determine the cause. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
I'm 11 weeks pregnant Can I ask what is the best way we can do while where in contact is it safe if withdrawal.? Hoping you will reply 😊
Thanks for asking! Not sure exactly what your asking but all positions are usually safe during pregnancy.
When you are having sex for the first time after 6 months of your pregnancy with it be painful or will it cause any damage in your body
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Wemen help me coze am pregnant but my servix did not go up and hv not yet seen doctor bse ov not hving money.actually l prayed sex with my man but he did it very slowly.l need advice please
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how about make sex to have babies ? if you make sex every month and get preganant ever month is not dangerous to the other babies when one will born ? other baby will be still in the development so can kill or be bad for the other babies inside when you get pregnant every month
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If you get sex during pregnancy and your stomach ache it's normal
Thanks for asking! Sometimes your stomach will ache from the contractions caused by an orgasm. You should always let your healthcare provider know what is going on so they can assess you. Feel better!
I had a SCH at 12 weeks and put on pelvic rest, which is now gone but in my last ultrasound they told me I had low-lying placenta which is probably going to move away from my cervix by the time I reach 32weeks I’m 24weeks now but was wondering if sex(anal) would be a good option for me ??
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I mom am six weeks pregnant and i had sex i bleeded what can i do?🙏
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Thanks , My wife got baby in the wumb ,but got injackson 3 times
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Is it safe to do light mansturbation, i’m currently 3 weeks pregnant and haven’t seen my doctor (first ultrasound will be in 1 week)?
Thanks for asking! Light masturbation is usually totally safe during pregnancy. What I will tell you is to wash your hands or toys prior to starting to make sure they are clean. You don't want to introduce any bacteria into the vagina that may cause infection. Have fun!
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I am waiting to get pregnent…my periods was 1st of last month…its 30 days now…is it safe to have sex now??while waiting for pregnency
Thanks for asking! Yes it is safe to have sex if you are pregnant. Many women won't even realize they are pregnant until they are almost 8 weeks along. During that time, they will be having sex. Very few pregnancies require a woman to abstain from sex. So enjoy!
Am 2months and sometimes i have cramps after have sex especially when we do dogstyle what cause that
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I have a question and i don't mean to offend anyone in the comments so please don't take this the wrong way, but I'm a guy and im pretty much asking if its normal to not want sex at all during this time? My girl is pregnant its been 4 months and her drive is through the roof😂 but i think im just very anxious about it so i just try not to touch her at all. any pointers would be welcome 🙏🏾🙂↕️
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My fiancee is 6 1/2 months pregnant and has no sex drive. Is this normal? She has no interest
Thanks for asking! Yes - it can be very normal. The hormones required to sustain a pregnancy reduce libido. It is best to try and work together to come up with a plan that meets both of your needs. I suggest possibly a schedule but be sure to spend plenty of time together and don't rush the situation to give her the best chance to get in the mood. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
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I' am 22 weeks pregnacy. I had to turn back while having sex(my belly was shaking).i feel this is make harm to my baby. Please give me a advice for this. Thank you
Thanks for asking! Sex is usually safe during pregnancy. You need to let your healthcare provider know in case they want to assess you. You may have been experiencing some contractions due to oxytocin release that happens during sex, especially during orgasm. Your healthcare provider will let you know if you shouldn't be having sex. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
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How about during sex your partner come inside while pregnant ? Does it have any effect on the pregnancy ?
Thanks for asking! You can have an orgasm inside your pregnant partner with no issues. Sperm can ripen the cervix so at the end of pregnancy it can help get a woman ready for labor. Good luck!
Thank you very much. But if your husband have the long,thick and big size it not easy to do it.
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Is it safe to have sex during 3 weeks of pregnancy?
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iam almost 6 weeks pregnant and had sex with my husband after that i bleed but not too much.
do i need to worry or panic?
what i need to do?
pls. im scared right now.
Thanks for asking! Don't panic but do call your healthcare provider. You need to let them knpow you are bleeding so they can check you out and make sure the baby is ok. Bleeding after sex is common. If your healthcare provider is ok with you having sex, try changing positions which may make the risk of bleeding less. Also, be sure to use plenty of lubricant because vaginal tissues get drier and thinner during pregnancy. I am sending you love and light and healing thoughts.
What about after a vaginal birth? does the vagina get "loose", as in never the same tightness?
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So same way you can’t get air in the vagina, what about the possibility of air entering in certain positions? That is sometimes normal and seems concerning
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Hi Ms. Doctor, Im one month pregnant and my husband and i had sex and I walk outside for 2 hours and I'm in my bed I feel and saw have blood what is that mean please?
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Am 19 weeks and 6 day pregnant but notice light bleeding after sex
Thanks for your comment. You should speak to your healthcare provider so they can check you out but it is probably normal. Some very light bleeding can occur because the vaginal tissues are thinner and more delicate so sex can cause them to tear slightly. If you can, please like my video and subscribe to my channel. It really helps me out! Thanks!
Hi I’m 21weeks pregnant with anterior low placenta
Is sex is safe for me ? Please answer
Thanks for the question. This is a challenging question. I always defer to healthcare providers so if your healthcare provider says sex is safe, it should be safe for you. Placentas can move up or down as the uterus expands. So what often starts as a low-lying placenta can turn into a mid-lying placenta. If your provider has not prohibited sex, you can continue to enjoy it. If you are anxious, foreplay and oral sex can be safer options that allow for intimacy and closeness.
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Am 7 weeks pregnant when having sex my husband says am too hot ad he fails to have sex coz of the hotness is it normal to be this hot
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The next video can you talk about how pregnancy sex is better and why pregnant women actually want to have sex with the sexual pleasure for her as much better please explain your next video. Explain this video three times. I haven’t heard you say I hear the orgasms are bigger stronger she screams louder, sex the chemicals and the hormones sex and sex
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I'm 6 month wit twin baby it's save or not to having sex
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A woman who's cervix is not opening after nine months, can sex help
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am 5 weeks and 5 days pregnant i done have sex till in my four months of pregnancy
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I had some little amount of blood stains a day after sex..is it normal??
Thanks for asking. Yes it can be very normal however you always need to call your healthcare provider if you see blood. They need to know what's going on, even if it is nothing. The hormones involved with your pregnancy can make the vaginal tissues dry and that can cause bleeding. Make sure to use lots of lubricant. It helps and it won't hurt your baby. Again, make sure to notify your healthcare provider. If you don't mind, can you please like my video and subscribe to my channel? It really helps me out. Thank you so much!
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Not having sex at all during pregnancy will it have any effect on the baby or during the labour
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I'm 14 weeks last week I had a ultrasound at 13 weeks the ultrasound tech mentioned my placenta was 2cm away from my cervix I don't get to see my Dr till end of month my question is is it safe to orgasm if placenta is only 2cm away from cervix
Thanks for asking. Unless your doctor told you otherwise, yes it is safe to have an orgasm. Now, your placenta can move as your pregnancy progresses. It is most likely to move away from the cervix but it can move towards it. If you have an orgasm, it does cause uterine contractions and this may cause spotting if the placenta moves slightly down. However, this is extremely rare. Good luck!
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Hi mentor, I always get your response thanks for that 🙂 I’m 19 weeks pregnant. I don’t have sex since 5 weeks of pregnancy. I was little bleeding that’s why the doctor told me to not have sex. Now I’m completely ok. But I don’t feel interested having sex. Is it okay or will I have problem if I don’t have sex throughout the whole pregnancy?
Thanks for asking! It is normal to have less desire due to the hormonal changes that happen during pregnancy. The hormones needed to sustain pregnancy decrease desire. Some women regain desire in the second trimester and some don't until after they give birth. I encourage you to set a date with your partner to have sex. Do lots of fun things that night and make sure there is plenty of foreplay. These things may help you get in the mood. Good luck!
Excuse me did you and your partner have sex and than you noticed you where bleeding cuz that’s what is going on with my wife we are 11 weeks we got scared Saturday night cuz we had sex and she noticed she was bleeding so Sunday morning we went to the er thank god everything was ok heart beat at 165 but she still has a lil bit of blood
@@villagiz2296 I am 10 weeks pregnant and last night after my partner and I had sex we realised I was bleeding!! So scary, talked to my OB Gynae and he said not to worry but abstain from sex a bit.
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Is it normal to have discharge after intercourse in pregnancy
That really depends on the color and consistency of the discharge. If it smells strongly or is an off color, you should talk to your healthcare provider to make sure it's not an infection or tear.
Can a 5 month pregnant women have sex
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What happened?If your girlfriend cheat on you become pregcan you sleep with that girlfrland why does pregnant anyone with the answer please
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My fiancé is 27 weeks, her clitoris is now overly sensitive and she has to work very hard to orgasm. Any advice on sensitivity?
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I'm in my ovulation day, i.e, 14th day...and we are trying pregnancy...shall we have sex after ovulation which may affect my pregnancy?...please explain...
Because somebody says that you should avoid sex after 20 days from the periods...is that true?
Thanks for asking! I am not sure what you are asking. However, let me say this. Sex during pregnancy is safe as long as your healthcare provider has not told you to avoid it. It doesn't matter when you had your period last. Also, you no longer ovulate during pregnancy. Good luck!
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