dude it's actually very interesting to listen you talk on the topic of dating apps: I think all of the dating apps are bullshit and I think it's better to ignore them completely and try to meet someone offline, but maybe I'm just old-fashioned
I agree actually. Totally agree. I think they suck ass for meeting people but I’m also too introverted to leave my house haha. But you’re totally right
Tinder is ok. I met 4 hookups. Local apps and only met one girl and i had 6 month subscription. Bumble has been the best app. I met tons of girls. Take good photos(professional shots help) don’t cringe and have some style. Women likes a guy that looks good within their genre. Casual dress is my go too for more variety of women
Some Excellent to the point Info, Thanks, and don't let tears ruin your vibe! =] Next video do an interview with one of those phukboys to get some real deal inside info on the trade they are specializing in.
Spot on analysis. Did the bumble tinder thing here while on a Japan/Korea tour to see how I’d fare with women here. 100+ bumble matches in Korea, & 100+ in Japan but tinder numbers were quite low (about 30 real girls, the rest bots giving me a Line App ID or something). I seemed to have gotten way more foreigner likes than actual Japanese women tho. Was curious as to why the women wouldn’t show their faces and did the food + cat thing instead on tinder, yet not so much on bumble.
Great video man. I wish more people would talk about this. I am also somewhat shy at going out to meet people so dating apps like tinder are my friends. Tinder has served me well in many countries like Thailand, Philippines, Mexico, Indonesia but I tinder passport to Japan and suddenly i get near no matches even with boosts and tinder gold. The few matches I do get are like spam bots or some type of working girl. If you know any apps or services that work well here at meeting REAL girls in Japan please let me know. thanks
Tbh bro Japan is just very different from those third world countries. The women here generally aren’t that interested in dating foreigners from my experience. Bumble is a decent but to find semi westernized girls who may be more open to it
You're fucking hilarious dude. Definitely gonna check out some other vids. Why did you move to Japan originally? (I didn't see a video where you talked about it, but maybe I missed it.)
Nobody wants a dating app that you pay for. The men don't want it because of cost/benefit. Women don't want it because men who will pay usually aren't top tier.
The sort of nanpa you talk about is very much frowned upon lol. Just because it happens often doesn't mean it's ok. It's definitely an issue where best case scenario it's cringe and uncomfortable and worst it's literal harassment.
Really useful advice, thanks, Im about to go on a 6 month uni exchange trip to Japan, got any advice? especially for someone who's Japanese is pretty rough.
Yeah man without great Japanese ability it will be nearly impossible to get a non-English speaking Japanese girl who likes you for you (not impossible tho). If you’re tryna hook up you go to the chain bar “HUB” which is an English bar where foreigners and English speakers congregate along with Japanese people who want to meet foreigners. That’s your golden ticket. Otherwise just hit bumble man. Nampa without high Japanese ability is nearly impossible bc even if the girls give you their number, very high odds that they’re just trying to make the interaction as quick as possible so you get away from them. Then they block you as soon as they get away from you
@@yungjamez312 Thanks for the advice. Not really looking to do Nampa just looking to meet people normally haha, not just dating wise but are Japanese people in uni’s eager to make friends? I’m gonna be in Okayama which is a smaller type of city so I’m pretty sure there isn’t a ‘HUB’ , there is other smaller types of alternatives tho
@@museli5106 yeah I’m sure bro. Tbh Tokyo is very different from the rest of Japan from my experience. So I could be giving you shit advice so take it with a grain of salt lol. But definitely the foreigner focused bars are the places to meet people without a doubt
@@yungjamez312 Yeah thanks bruz, there is an Aussie bar, an Irish bar and another one, so that makes it better. But yeah I’m pretty sure Tokyo and Okayama are gonna be crazy different due to the size difference. Nah this channels been pretty helpful tho just found out about the gym thing so I’m gonna have to look for some different alternatives haha.
Bro being too fkn real in these videos lmao like "Take ur kid somewhere" Aha got me dead. Fr tho. I been out the dating game for 7+ Yrs so idk what the fk to go with these girls Alls i know i been mainly messing around with 37-55ers. Wild Game. Hows the Milf hunting game in Japan bro?
I found this video while searching for a dating app in Japan. I feel as if I am listening to advice from a friend. You speak in an honest way. Continue this way on your channel. I expect you great success, brother🤝 I already use Bumble. Are there any tips?
Thanks for watching, man. Idk tbh I’m not the guy to ask as I don’t have much patience with the apps. I don’t use them too much. Buttt maybe just try to have pics of yourself doing “Japanese” things or being with your Japanese friends. It will make you seem less different or scary
Wow I thought Tinder in Japan was really popping off lol. Back when I was still single I set the passport feature to Japan to practice Japanese and meet people and got a ton of real matches. I only did it for like a week before I realized it was really pointless though. It’s been a few years so maybe it’s gotten really shitty recently. I’m not even like crazy handsome so idk what the deal was. Regardless lmao it’s good to hear other people’s experiences
most of the boys in my high school class were fuck boys we went to Disneyland and they turn up in their best clothes attracting way too much attention 🙄 I did win a snoopy plushy so I’m glad 😊 and yes nobody knows how to use tinder or dating apps yet…is better to just meet in real life
I’m assuming you’re talking about Japanese guys? Didn’t think Japanese people watched my channel. Yeah I agree, dating apps suck for many reasons. But I’m too introverted to go outside and meet people lol
@@yungjamez312 yes in my class 😂 Yes Japanese ppl do not understand tinder yet a lot of them just use pictures of flowers, or stuff associated with their hobbies as profile pictures like nooo you are supposed to use your face and body photo 😭 I am Japanese and Jewish and I grew up in England mostly and moved to Japan almost 2 years ago now, so dating and social interaction is quite different. I did find a small Jewish community here in Tokyo so I pretty much found everything that I had back in England over in Japan. Your gym video showed in my recommended section and I liked it a lot it’s true; since my apartment had space I set up a home gym to get away from the nonsense before I was using Golds.
Brother, tall on a guy is like ass or tits on a woman, it's so highly sought for that pretty much 99.9% of people want it to some extent on potential partners. There isn't a population of women on the planet that sees a tall man and says "Damn I sure wish he was the size of a school child, he'd be perfect"
@@phalanx8437 I'm 6'3" and I see it working on girls daily... But then it's fucking irritating for me when I hear all this entitled girls just seeking tall guys and dehumanizing rest of men. Not even because that's what they are attracted to. Not even because it's their fetish. They often don't want a relatively "taller guy than them". Nah, some of them want a tall guy as a status symbol, so it fits their perfect lifestyle picture. I'm not naive, attraction is not a choice, you can't change what people like. But western culture, even 10 years ago, was still trying to carry a message of "at least try to see past the appearances, because it's personality that's important". Current social media culture is - get the best possible model to fit your lifestyle.
Cool video and channel- I lived in Japan 2005-2008, way before dating apps, but f those. Of course they’re pointless. Japan is 100% nampa. It’s pretty easy and fun. Of course you’ll get so much more out of it if you’re fluent in Japanese. Are you?
Not fluent but working on it! I personally don’t feel that my Japanese is good enough to casually pick up girls on the street, although i may just be being hard on myself. That def seems like the move though
For sure. I’d say regardless of women/nampa (though that’s a big motivator) investing in yourself by taking Japanese language seriously is huge. Don’t be afraid of studying for JLPT at whatever level- even if you don’t pass, it’s a good structure to tackle grammar and kanji.
@@haraldodunkirk1432 never lived in Japan, but did live in Mexico City for 6 months, Oaxaca for another 3 months. Knowing the language (at least semi-fluently, easy to play off spanish illiteracy in some "cute" way) went a very long way. Unbelievable amount of solid matches on Bumble, much like Japan. Tinder was all workers lmao. Cultural curiosity was enough to get dates regularly. Eventually got in a long-term relationship, long story. Regardless, Bumble was the move, and understanding the local language, culture, dating traditions, formalities/mannerisms/slang, was essential to dating a local in Mexico. I never went on tours around town- women from Bumble would just pull up in their car and show me around. It was pretty rad. And I ain't some PUA "passport bro" type by any stretch of imagination. Just an average, physically fit, decently dressed engineering student from the states traveling on a shoestring budget. Huge shout out to Bumble for the free spanish lessons and tours, I owe 'em.
@@Jack14432 I’ve worn it plenty of times and had no issues. I’ve also been around people plenty of times who have made comments about foreigners wearing it and said it’s so gross. I figure it can only help your chances to stick with your natural scent
Hey bro thanks for watching. No not anymore. I went through a small part where I was bummed that I didn’t have any really close friends here but I got over it in a month or so. I’d rather be alone 90% of the time so I’m chillin
@@yungjamez312 Yeah, i understand that feeling and im that way even in my mother country. It could be interesting to see how you dodge that loneliness in a country that is not familiar to you (i went to japan when i was 15, now im 20-21, but i can tell that how easy was to always found a way to feel better or ignore your loneliness) I really like your videos talking, i like to hear them, keep doing them :)
It's crazy to think that the only reason the dating apps charge that much is because dudes are willing to pay. Sad state
i dont, cuz i am not gonna let myself get scammed, and Japan wonders why they lack children.
3:31 "As a student, bro, that's out of my pri--I mean--as a MAN with RESPECT FOR MYSELF" 🤣That shit killed me, dude
I cooked
"This kid over here is fucking crying its fucking up my vibe"-
You earned a new sub sir
😆😆
Thanks for watching homie
introverted my ass 😂😂
dude it's actually very interesting to listen you talk
on the topic of dating apps: I think all of the dating apps are bullshit and I think it's better to ignore them completely and try to meet someone offline, but maybe I'm just old-fashioned
I agree actually. Totally agree. I think they suck ass for meeting people but I’m also too introverted to leave my house haha. But you’re totally right
Dating apps are soul cancer. Avoid at all costs.
Bro your videos are funny as shit lol! I don’t follow many vlogs, but yours are extremely entertaining to watch. Keep up the great work bro!
Thanks for watching king!
😂😂😂 the three pictures described it perfectly
Yes! 😂
That had me dead, literally seen it so many times
Exactly
Ong!!!
Hitting truth bombs every second - I laughed about that back of the head bit- true
Tinder is ok. I met 4 hookups. Local apps and only met one girl and i had 6 month subscription. Bumble has been the best app. I met tons of girls. Take good photos(professional shots help) don’t cringe and have some style. Women likes a guy that looks good within their genre. Casual dress is my go too for more variety of women
Some Excellent to the point Info, Thanks, and don't let tears ruin your vibe! =]
Next video do an interview with one of those phukboys to get some real deal inside info on the trade they are specializing in.
Haha that’s a great idea man
Spot on analysis. Did the bumble tinder thing here while on a Japan/Korea tour to see how I’d fare with women here. 100+ bumble matches in Korea, & 100+ in Japan but tinder numbers were quite low (about 30 real girls, the rest bots giving me a Line App ID or something). I seemed to have gotten way more foreigner likes than actual Japanese women tho.
Was curious as to why the women wouldn’t show their faces and did the food + cat thing instead on tinder, yet not so much on bumble.
I like This channel. I just watched 2 whole ads for you after hearing u say your a broke college student. Hope u prosper man, good luck
Legend af
thanks for sharing your insights and experience, I'm researching on the dating situation around the world
"Scientists are doing everything they can to figure out what's going on up there" 😂
Great video man. I wish more people would talk about this. I am also somewhat shy at going out to meet people so dating apps like tinder are my friends. Tinder has served me well in many countries like Thailand, Philippines, Mexico, Indonesia but I tinder passport to Japan and suddenly i get near no matches even with boosts and tinder gold. The few matches I do get are like spam bots or some type of working girl. If you know any apps or services that work well here at meeting REAL girls in Japan please let me know. thanks
Tbh bro Japan is just very different from those third world countries. The women here generally aren’t that interested in dating foreigners from my experience. Bumble is a decent but to find semi westernized girls who may be more open to it
What camera or like camera set up do you have? It looks really cool.
Thanks bro just a GoPro with the basic Rode mic nothing special
You're fucking hilarious dude. Definitely gonna check out some other vids. Why did you move to Japan originally? (I didn't see a video where you talked about it, but maybe I missed it.)
Thanks for watching man! I was planning to make that video this week but got Covid :/. Will post asap!
0:28 what the local cuisine tastes like :D lol
Nobody wants a dating app that you pay for.
The men don't want it because of cost/benefit.
Women don't want it because men who will pay usually aren't top tier.
The sort of nanpa you talk about is very much frowned upon lol. Just because it happens often doesn't mean it's ok. It's definitely an issue where best case scenario it's cringe and uncomfortable and worst it's literal harassment.
And you are saying this as a westerner 🤷♂️
"They want you to take them out to eat and spend money on on them to hang out"
So like all women everywhere for any type of male/female relationship 😂
Really useful advice, thanks, Im about to go on a 6 month uni exchange trip to Japan, got any advice? especially for someone who's Japanese is pretty rough.
Yeah man without great Japanese ability it will be nearly impossible to get a non-English speaking Japanese girl who likes you for you (not impossible tho). If you’re tryna hook up you go to the chain bar “HUB” which is an English bar where foreigners and English speakers congregate along with Japanese people who want to meet foreigners. That’s your golden ticket. Otherwise just hit bumble man. Nampa without high Japanese ability is nearly impossible bc even if the girls give you their number, very high odds that they’re just trying to make the interaction as quick as possible so you get away from them. Then they block you as soon as they get away from you
@@yungjamez312 Thanks for the advice. Not really looking to do Nampa just looking to meet people normally haha, not just dating wise but are Japanese people in uni’s eager to make friends? I’m gonna be in Okayama which is a smaller type of city so I’m pretty sure there isn’t a ‘HUB’ , there is other smaller types of alternatives tho
@@museli5106 yeah I’m sure bro. Tbh Tokyo is very different from the rest of Japan from my experience. So I could be giving you shit advice so take it with a grain of salt lol. But definitely the foreigner focused bars are the places to meet people without a doubt
@@yungjamez312 Yeah thanks bruz, there is an Aussie bar, an Irish bar and another one, so that makes it better. But yeah I’m pretty sure Tokyo and Okayama are gonna be crazy different due to the size difference. Nah this channels been pretty helpful tho just found out about the gym thing so I’m gonna have to look for some different alternatives haha.
@@museli5106 hahaha hey man the gym situation could be different as well but regardless I hope you can find something decent!
Bro being too fkn real in these videos lmao like "Take ur kid somewhere" Aha got me dead. Fr tho. I been out the dating game for 7+ Yrs so idk what the fk to go with these girls Alls i know i been mainly messing around with 37-55ers. Wild Game. Hows the Milf hunting game in Japan bro?
I found this video while searching for a dating app in Japan. I feel as if I am listening to advice from a friend. You speak in an honest way. Continue this way on your channel. I expect you great success, brother🤝
I already use Bumble. Are there any tips?
Thanks for watching, man. Idk tbh I’m not the guy to ask as I don’t have much patience with the apps. I don’t use them too much. Buttt maybe just try to have pics of yourself doing “Japanese” things or being with your Japanese friends. It will make you seem less different or scary
@@yungjamez312 good, thank you . I will try this
@@yungjamez312 good ,thank you . I will try this
*The apps and the parent companies are experiencing massive stock devaluations currently.*
REAL AS FUCK
Real ones only
Wow I thought Tinder in Japan was really popping off lol. Back when I was still single I set the passport feature to Japan to practice Japanese and meet people and got a ton of real matches. I only did it for like a week before I realized it was really pointless though. It’s been a few years so maybe it’s gotten really shitty recently.
I’m not even like crazy handsome so idk what the deal was. Regardless lmao it’s good to hear other people’s experiences
Those dudes at the stations are recruiting models/ sex workers
what are you studying brosasaurus?
Fuck dude you crack me up, sending thoughts and prayers for u to bag a worthwhile cutie
most of the boys in my high school class were fuck boys we went to Disneyland and they turn up in their best clothes attracting way too much attention 🙄 I did win a snoopy plushy so I’m glad 😊 and yes nobody knows how to use tinder or dating apps yet…is better to just meet in real life
I’m assuming you’re talking about Japanese guys? Didn’t think Japanese people watched my channel. Yeah I agree, dating apps suck for many reasons. But I’m too introverted to go outside and meet people lol
@@yungjamez312 yes in my class 😂 Yes Japanese ppl do not understand tinder yet a lot of them just use pictures of flowers, or stuff associated with their hobbies as profile pictures like nooo you are supposed to use your face and body photo 😭
I am Japanese and Jewish and I grew up in England mostly and moved to Japan almost 2 years ago now, so dating and social interaction is quite different. I did find a small Jewish community here in Tokyo so I pretty much found everything that I had back in England over in Japan.
Your gym video showed in my recommended section and I liked it a lot it’s true; since my apartment had space I set up a home gym to get away from the nonsense before I was using Golds.
How tall are you? As I heard Japanese woman like tall foreigners.😭😭
I’m 6ft. It’s true for the ones that are open to dating foreigners….I’ll just say that haha
Brother, tall on a guy is like ass or tits on a woman, it's so highly sought for that pretty much 99.9% of people want it to some extent on potential partners. There isn't a population of women on the planet that sees a tall man and says "Damn I sure wish he was the size of a school child, he'd be perfect"
@@phalanx8437 I'm 6'3" and I see it working on girls daily... But then it's fucking irritating for me when I hear all this entitled girls just seeking tall guys and dehumanizing rest of men. Not even because that's what they are attracted to. Not even because it's their fetish. They often don't want a relatively "taller guy than them". Nah, some of them want a tall guy as a status symbol, so it fits their perfect lifestyle picture. I'm not naive, attraction is not a choice, you can't change what people like. But western culture, even 10 years ago, was still trying to carry a message of "at least try to see past the appearances, because it's personality that's important". Current social media culture is - get the best possible model to fit your lifestyle.
5:59 i noticed this on travel mode, why is it like this
Cool video and channel- I lived in Japan 2005-2008, way before dating apps, but f those. Of course they’re pointless. Japan is 100% nampa. It’s pretty easy and fun. Of course you’ll get so much more out of it if you’re fluent in Japanese. Are you?
Not fluent but working on it! I personally don’t feel that my Japanese is good enough to casually pick up girls on the street, although i may just be being hard on myself. That def seems like the move though
For sure. I’d say regardless of women/nampa (though that’s a big motivator) investing in yourself by taking Japanese language seriously is huge. Don’t be afraid of studying for JLPT at whatever level- even if you don’t pass, it’s a good structure to tackle grammar and kanji.
@@haraldodunkirk1432 thanks man lol I’m currently in language school and taking the N1 soon
@@haraldodunkirk1432 totally agree with that tho!
@@haraldodunkirk1432 never lived in Japan, but did live in Mexico City for 6 months, Oaxaca for another 3 months. Knowing the language (at least semi-fluently, easy to play off spanish illiteracy in some "cute" way) went a very long way. Unbelievable amount of solid matches on Bumble, much like Japan. Tinder was all workers lmao. Cultural curiosity was enough to get dates regularly. Eventually got in a long-term relationship, long story. Regardless, Bumble was the move, and understanding the local language, culture, dating traditions, formalities/mannerisms/slang, was essential to dating a local in Mexico.
I never went on tours around town- women from Bumble would just pull up in their car and show me around. It was pretty rad. And I ain't some PUA "passport bro" type by any stretch of imagination. Just an average, physically fit, decently dressed engineering student from the states traveling on a shoestring budget. Huge shout out to Bumble for the free spanish lessons and tours, I owe 'em.
How about the one who don’t know Japanese bro?
Bumble should work fine. A lot of girls on there that like foreigners and speak English
@@yungjamez312thx for the great information you putting out. I am a perfume guy and I was amazed about how Japanese think 😅.
@@Jack14432 I’ve worn it plenty of times and had no issues. I’ve also been around people plenty of times who have made comments about foreigners wearing it and said it’s so gross. I figure it can only help your chances to stick with your natural scent
@@yungjamez312 good to know thx bro!
lol five matches a day, I get one match every 3 months,
Nanpa is against the law in some areas today so watch out.
Do you often feel lonely in japan?
Hey bro thanks for watching. No not anymore. I went through a small part where I was bummed that I didn’t have any really close friends here but I got over it in a month or so. I’d rather be alone 90% of the time so I’m chillin
@@yungjamez312 Yeah, i understand that feeling and im that way even in my mother country. It could be interesting to see how you dodge that loneliness in a country that is not familiar to you (i went to japan when i was 15, now im 20-21, but i can tell that how easy was to always found a way to feel better or ignore your loneliness)
I really like your videos talking, i like to hear them, keep doing them :)
You are either on a bridge or under a bridge.
$30 is nothing, it's worth it to pay for the apps no matter where you are.
oooh tinderu
Tindaa *
do they always yell yameru and yamete kudasai?
On bumble in Japan I had over 1000 girls wanting to match from 21-30 years of age after 1 week there.
Based on your looks on your videos id assume you'd get way way more matches. Maybe you chose bad photos. HAHAH I wrote this before 7min lmao