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Just because something is none of your business doesn't mean it's wrong to say something. Sure, there are times when it's not appropriate but when something's clearly wrong it can be worse to not say anything. That husband was being a bully and he needed to be called out.
Yeah, even as an invited guest you come into my house and disgrace another invited guest you lose your privilege to YOUR business in MY house.
@@RayF6126agreed
Last story: How can the husband say “learn to take a joke”, when he can’t handle the same “joke” in return?
My opinion is that it wasn't a "joke" it was straight up bullying, and bullies tend to dish it out, but can't take it.
last story : she isnt at fault...she stood up for her bestfrnd and called him out for his rude behavior
He was the one that brought it up in general conversation in HER home. She had as much a right to respond as he did to say it at that point.
Yes. I agree with her. It is a good respond. People like that need to be slapped in the face with facts, to show them THEY cross the line.
The Last Story Tom the new father, that boy needs an attitude adjustment real quick. So what's his excuse for being an a******. So I wonder if he's been getting some on the side while his wife has been carrying that baby for nine months. That's how those assholes are. He probably puts down his wife to the other one. I get it now he thinks he's a Soprano. His wife needed to hear that from her best friend.
The watch story is something I have to deal with too. I have a best male friend since I was 6. We both like comics and art and his fiancé doesn't, but she pays for part of the gifts I find. It keeps the peace.
Im 32 weeks pregnant and that last story infuriated me. When i first heard it i thought it was OP's bf that said that. But then i realized it was the husband. My husband and i both agree, straight to divorce, no hesitation.
Regarding the first story, I sadly relate to the sister in law. My dad has been an alcoholic since I’ve been in first grade and I, too, get triggered when people I know drink alcohol. I don’t really confront them about it past asking how many drinks they’ve have and things like that. Afterwards I just remove myself from the situation because it makes me uncomfortable. I have gained the ability to pretty much always tell when people are intoxicated even when others can’t tell, so even if they aren’t very drunk I can tell by their tone of voice and body language. So when people who have been drinking talk to me, I become a bit hostile and I try to remove myself from them. It’s not like they’re not allowed to drink in my presence, I just react that way due to trauma. That being said, I do think that the sister in law is in the wrong. I’ve learned that confronting people under the influence isn’t a good thing to do since they aren’t thinking clearly. I think that if she wants to make it a rule that they can’t drink alcohol in her own house or events that she hosts, that’s fine. But it’s her brother’s house and she can’t yell at him for drinking. It’s not something illegal and you can’t control what other people do. If it makes her uncomfortable, she should either avoid him or work through her problems with a therapist.
Sadly I relate to her too but I how to express my points in words and you just did that perfectly
i can relate to both of them and i also think both of them were at fault in some way. it’s not the SIL’s house so she can’t expect her brother not to drink in his own house, but i think throwing the SIL out in the middle of the night when the OP knew there was nowhere for her to go was also a bit extreme. the SIL definitely shouldn’t have yelled and said those things and tried to make the rules when it wasn’t her house, and the OP and her husband should have perhaps kept the noise down since it was late at night and people were sleeping, but there could have been some talking it out and forgiveness since the SIL was obviously hurt, even though she reacted very badly. hopefully a compromise could have been reached.
I'm the same; both parents were alcoholics. But I simply go around them, avoid them or lightly keep the conversation off topics I know they'll start refreshing in their own minds (that's if avoidance isn't possible). Otherwise, I simply don't socialize with people that I know who drink regularly. And I've stone cold dropped anyone when I found out they do drugs recreationally, of any kind. It's their life, their choice, but they don't have to inflict their trauma on me.
1. NTA. That was the husband's last drinking time before becoming a father. I get that OP and the sister has an alcoholic father, but the husband isn't becoming one.
2. NTA. The girlfriend is just as insecure because she didn't get him a watch that OP did. I get OP overstep, bue I don't think OP's wrong, she was did something nice.
3. NTA. "Tom" literally comments on Jenny's body after pregnancy when he is not even fit. Such a hypocrite.
SIL. Not OP'S sister
@@nancyomalley6286still a sister by law though, hence Sister In Law, they're sisters nonbiologically
@@nancyomalley6286 They didn't say it was OP's sister, they said THE sister which refers to a sister nonrelated unless by law to OP.
1: Besides, he seems like a sweet drunk, not a mean drunk.
2: Insecure and controlling, I think.
Oh girl if someone ever called me fat after having a baby I would absolutely go feral on them
the last story is carzy, he has the audacity to talk about her weight after having a baby when he's nowhere near his own standard maybe he should fix his belly and double chin before even thinking of commenting on her weight.
Yeah how hypocritical and kinda ironic
Tom sounds like the guy to divorce her after she has a kid or two and overall only gained 15 pound in total
Can we normalize women that don’t have supermodel bodies wearing bikinis please? Cause you should’ve have to have a flat stomach to wear a bikini, wear it because you want to-I’m recently trying to wear some to feel better and more comfortable in my body. Plus the woman just had a baby-I CANNOT STAND THESE KINDS OF MEN! TF?! THIS IS REAL LIFE! THE FACT THAT YOU THINK HER BODY IS GONNA START LOOKING LIKE A SUPERMODEL AFTER SHE HAS A BABY IS RIDICULOUS! DON’T EXPECT HER BODY TO LOOK FLAT AND CURVY OR THE WAY IT WAS BEFORE SHE GOT PREGNANT
No cause Tom can’t get defensive about his own weight, but then bully his wife about hers-clearing he’s insensitive about his own weight and is taking that out on his wife or whatever, don’t dish it out if you can’t take it-so many husbands say shit like this but don’t even Have an INKLING!! Of what it’s like to carry a child! ESPECIALLY FOR 9 MONTHS!
And Tim better get on somewhere! First let her go! 2nd watch that tone! Cause it IS her business not only did you make that comment OUT LOUD for EVERYONE TO HEAR! But you said it in HER house, so YES! You made it her business!
As someone who has always been super skinny, one piece bathing suits are uncomfortable and tight and are not made for all bodies; two piece suits are much more comfortable and body inclusive.
@@gaxalee7392for me i prefer one piece’s. I like showing as little skin as possible. Thats also why I always wear long pants and sweaters
Last story: mom didnt just 'carry' the baby like a piece of luggage that can be put down when one gets tired. She built that baby, from the ground up as they say. Every atom, every cell. All dad did was give five minutes and a small 'donation' and then he (obviously) rocked off to the pub for 9 months to boast. 😂😂😂 And then they have the nerve to criticise. 😂😂😂
Five whole minutes? Apparently the male "donation" time is now 4 minutes and 37 seconds, in it's entirety. Blink and you'll miss it.
Ok first story, I can understand that if someone has a trauma from their past such as death that other people especially family should be more sensitive and considerate when approaching those topics.
But at the same time, you can't expect everyone to change for you and there's just certain places and times when you either need to bite your tongue, remove yourself from the situation or quietly express how it made you feel at a later time. You can't demand what people do in their own house.
Second story, If i were the girlfriend I probably would've felt a little awkward as well and probably feel a little inadequate compared to OP. And if it really bothered me that much I would've ranted about it to other friends who aren't too connected with my bf or OP, because at the end of the day it's his special day and sometimes all you need is to let it out of your system and move on.
Third story, thats her friend and sometimes all you need brilliant one liners to put someone back in their place for a while. But wouldn't recommend this approach every time.
Husband in the first story was drunk n sil happen to come out her room n seen him drunk. He wasn’t drinking in front of her
story one oh ffs, can you imagine if I acted like her towards people that smoked around me (for context I lost my dad to lung cancer for smoking) so SIL is totally in the wrong
As someone who lost my dad to smoking, I personally know that I will never smoke/vape etc but if I see someone else doing it, it’s their life and it’s not my business what they do. I may not like it but it’s not my problem to change
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Someone once jeered at my belly (I was pregnant but just showing); I stared at his ginormous beer belly and said "I'll lose mine in 9 months, will you lose yours?" Don't dish it out if you can't take it. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. There's absolutely no way I'd have stayed silent if my friend's husband had said anything about her appearance at any time, let alone after giving birth. In fact, guys, stop commenting on women's appearance, regardless of your own. I don't care if you think you're Brad Pittworthy, a woman's appearance is her business, just as your character is yours.
tom in the last story is a literal piece of garbage and it was beyond messed up for him to make those disgusting comments about his wife's body. SHE LITERALLY GAVE BIRTH TO THEIR CHILD!! shame on tom for making those disgusting comments about her like that. also, op was NOT in the wrong for defending their friend!! 😒
The thumbnail made me so mad😤
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For the last story-- Jenny is OP's friend and they're going to defend her no matter who is bullying her! "Business", really? The whole situation had nothing to do with whose "business" it was. Smh
first story husband is so cute wtf hes so goofy and just cries when getting yelled at 😭😭
Story one the sil probably need therapy. She’s clearly associating drinking to a bad time in her life.. but she can’t make everyone around her stop to make her feel better. Not alway but a lot of the times alcoholics are pos human even when sober so there’s still that
Drunk words are sober thoughts.
Tom sounds like a really “nice guy”...
Way to destroy his wife’s self esteem!!!
Been there done that not doing it anymore!!!
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The thumbnail is so messed up! Women of all sizes are beautiful😡
And the fact he said "mind your own business"?! I
There is no excuse to insulting your own wife, She just gave life to your child and then you're going to ruin her confidence and embarrass her in front of everyone? Plus, he was not in shape himself. There's a million reasons why he's wrong and it makes me so angry 🤬👊
I heard the story about the watch & Tom & it seems like his friends usually buy him expensive gifts. I'm guessing his gf isn't as fortunate as his friends so she can't spend on luxury gifts like everyone else. Although i feel like the girl did no wrong in buying tom the watch. Tom was in the wrong of how he reacted to it because the gf might've felt that he didn't care about her gift. Tom just needs to ensure his girl that he still loves her.
Story 2 Ma’am is your boyfriend single? 😂
Right 😂
The fact that she "needs" to lose weight to be attractive to him 🤮. And hes not even doing anything to be attractive to her. How can ppl shame someone for their looks, especially after a pregnancy smh
okay but op's bf is awesome too, like?? he just agreed that tom's gf's issues are her own problem🤷🏾♀️ love that for op, and she has an amazing friend too :)
More and more I find that Ellen's reactions and my reactions to these stories are very similar. Were we raised by the same parents? Naaahhh! I'm OLDER than her parents.
About the second story I don't think the friend was in the wrong but the boyfriend was. You don't just disregard your partner's birthday present just because a friend has gifted you something you really wanted
It's not even that he disregarded it. It's just that he liked one gift a bit more because he wasn't expecting it because again, the watch was expensive, so he wasn't expecting ANYONE to get him that watch. (Again, OP said he made the off handed comment that he would love to own it one day. That's normal). So he was just really happy that his best friend got him such an expected gift. That's normal. It's not that he said "Oh, f my partner's gift, I like yours better!". The only reason the GF has an issue, is because OP is a woman. I've seen men react the same way when their guy friends give them stuff and I see the spouses laughing at the joy because it's cute. But when it's another woman, it's suddenly a problem. I get that when you get someone a gift, you wanna feel appreciated that you got them a gift, so receivers have to be very careful with how they react as to not offended. But come on, you can't tell the BF he's not allowed to like one gift a bit more then the others when that's a perfectly normal response.
Also, sorry for the long paragraph-
@cindypicadomolina7814 Ah yeah no I don't think OPs gender is the issue. Just because it's an issue for you doesn't mean it's an issue for the girlfriend. For the girlfriend it seemed like OP was trying to interfere with their relationship but only because her boyfriend made that comment and disregarded his girlfriend's gift and appreciated how much time and effort she put into her gift. Seriously how would you feel if you gave someone a handmade gift and they would completely disregard your present and how much time and effort you put into it? It's obvious you were never in such a situation or else you wouldn't defend the boyfriend in this situation. Yes OP didn't do anything wrong but her friend definitely did
@@kaneki18-d1t4 I disagree. While the boyfriend maybe should have said it was the best gift ever, the girlfriend is absolutely insecure. She accuses OP of purposefully outshining her (which is not the case) and bans OP from giving her friend good gifts instead of suggesting they work together to get the gift next time because her being a good girlfriend is more important to her than her boyfriends joy as evident by her response to OP. There have been times when I couldn’t get as good a gift as others to someone important to me because I simply didn’t have the funds but their happiness was more important to me than their recognition of my effort. It still hurt but this isn’t about me it’s about them and their happiness. That’s love. What the girlfriend is doing is making this a competition. She sees OP as a rival and feels threatened by her ability to make her boyfriend happy.
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I agree but am I the only one thinks it's weird she SPECIFICALLY asked him to open hers last? If the gf knew about that, then the whole outshining thing makes sense. IDK I feel like some parts of the story were not fully put to perspective.
That last one makes me so mad. Pregnancy and childbirth is a sacred state. WOmen make HUGE sacrifices and suffer physically and emotionally for the sake of people they love. A husband should be PROUD of however a woman looks during and after childbirth because she looks like that because she was bearing HIS CHILD. It’s Inexcusable and disgusting and an afront to nature to say such things! ESPECIALLY IF YOU’RE MORBIDLY OBESE!!!!
I’m sorry but that last story, is nobody gonna talk about what the boyfriend said? “Stay out of other peoples business.” First of all, it was in her house when she invited them over. Second of all, that’s her close friend who talked to her about gaining weight. And third of all, would YOU be okay saying that to your girlfriend!? Telling her to stay out of their business sounds like a red flag, especially with something like that!?
Girllll i just gotta say you’re looking gorgeous lately I don’t know if it’s something with your makeup,hair or your cute cheeks but you’re so beautiful
There have always been people who want the world to conform to their view, their perspective, their way of thinking. Some of those people are rightly confined in mental hospitals but there are still plenty of them left in society to tell us how we should behave, who we should vote for, what color to paint our house, etc. We called them "bossy" when we were all kids but now we have much more colorful names for them.
In the very first story, she literally gave her husband who barely drinks the heads up that it was okay for him to go out and have one last hooray before officially becoming a daddy. I am glad that he enjoyed himself, I am sure that he's very much looking forward to fatherhood, and he even came home at an early time too. The wife did the right thing by kicking the sister in law out. How in the world is the sister in law going to say something like that knowing that her half brother has a completely different dad? If the sister in law didn't want to see him intoxicated then she could've just went to another room. They can do whatever they want because they are at their own house, and the sister in law is just a guest. Next time, why doesn't the sister in law just stay with some of those in laws then. In the second story, Tom's girlfriend is a complete lame because she is basically jealous for nothing. Tom is the protagonist's best friend, and plus the protagonist is already in a very happy relationship. I would have done the exact same thing for my best female friend too, and I dare her boyfriend the gift that I got for her. In the third story, Tom is a straight up Awhole because how is he going to talk about his wife's body like that when she has just given him the most precious thing in the world, a child? Tom is a skuzzbucket. Much love my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
last story : gurl if you really say that to my bestie in front of me out of all people... I ain't talking no more I'm slapping the big head of yours for being insensitive to YOUR OWN WIFE and MY BESTIE specifically.
You're lucky my bestie love you or else I'm telling her to get a divorce ASAP 😌
I totally disagree with you about story 2. "Tom's" girlfriend spent time & effort lovingly creating a sweater and getting a book that he wanted, OP just saw the watch and bought it. It took no effort to buy the watch, the girlfriend created the gift herself with love, then "Tom" says another person's gift is the best gift. I don't think that the girlfriend is insecure as much as she is disappointed that her unique, personalised gift didn't seem to be appreciated at all.
I think tom didn't put down the handmade gifts by his girlfriend. But think about it if you absolutely love a thing and want to buy it but are not able to find it but then someone gifts you that hell I would be grateful to that person for my whole life and i would be super happy so Tom's happiness is quite justifies however I agree saying that it was the best gift ever was not such a good choice but srsly the op's and the girlfriend's gifts cant be compared one side there is something he really wanted nd on the other something that his so gave to him
I think he was just caught up in the moment because he wasn't expecting anyone to give him such an expensive gift (because not every one expects that). So I think when he said "This is the bestets gift I've ever gotten", it was because he just really happy. But that doesn't mean he didn't loved his GF's gift as the story was for context as to WHY the GF is now telling the OP to not get him things he really wants, which is super stupid
He can't force himself to like something if he just doesn't like it. It is what it is.
First story: I understand the sister in law’s opinion but it’s not her house. She really should have kept her mouth shut. Being kicked out after midnight was harsh, however. Although the sister in law deserved it, her daughter didn’t. But now that they’re gone, good riddance. Second story: girlfriend is jealous and probably sees the poster as a rival for Tom’s attention. Third story: This Tom is a real gem. He is a lard@$$ but thinks his wife, who just had a baby, needs to lose weight. Total jerk.
1. Story: it wasn't the nicest move to kick the sil out. The sil was triggered, who knows what she went through with her alcoholic dad. The reaction was out of place for mentally stable people but she obviously is not a mentally stable person. She needs help and kicking her out wasn't the best reaction this.
2. Story: why didn't she just split the bill with others for this watch? 2500 is a huge amount of money for most people and i can understand why the girlfriend reacted like she did.
3. Story: wtf ist the problem with those husbands? She was damn right to defend her friend.
For number one, I can under the trauma and like you said, we don't know what she went through. But if SIL has SUCH a problem with others drinking (even when it was NOTHING to do with her), I'm just wondering WHY she hasn't gotten therapy then?? To help her process the trauma so she can better except it. Not getting therapy just makes the trauma worse because there's nothing helping you. Did no one help her with it?? She couldn't afford it?? I disagree and think that while it's okay she doesn't like drinking, she can't just go ahead and demand others in their own house that they're not allowed to be drunk in front of her (the husband wasn't even drinking in front of her, he LEFT to go drink and came back to spend time with his wife. She's the only who walked in on them for no reason). And her telling her brother he'd be a deadbeat like HER dad, not even his dad, was unacceptable. As for the second story, why should she have to share the gift?? It was her money, she just wanted to get her friend a gift he really wanted, never done that before?? However, had she asked the gf if she'd LIKED to be apart of the gift, that was a different story and would have been nice, but I don't think she was in the wrong. The GF, however, telling the OP that she wasn't allowed to get her BF gifts her really wanted in the future was stupid. She knows OP isn't the only one who would do that, right?? As for story three, f that husband. Divorce
The OP in the 3rd story wasn't wrong for sticking up for her friend, but her bf had a point. Sometimes, certain things just aren't your business.
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I get that the GF felt she was 'outshined' during the birthday party of 'her' bf. Maybe if the OP wasn't a girl...maybe she wouldn't feel like a competition? I couldn't think of a better way to put it.. But imagine a close friend of your SO with the opposite gender gave a gift that your SO wanted for so long... wouldn't you feel bad that you couldn't make them happy and others can? It must just be my insecurity speaking but still, I kinda feel bad for her.
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Last story: it's OP's business too if she and her friend talked about her weight gain before she gave birth. Even if it wasn't, Tom had no right to insult his wife and affect her self-esteem. And comments like that pisses me off, like dude she carried your baby for 9 months and you complain about her weight gain? How about you look down and see if your following your own standards?
Story 4: This one was so wholesome ;--;
Although I can understand Tom's GF's feelings. Like i get why you may feel jealous but it isnt your fault and she shouldn't target you for something nice you did for him. Also don't gatekeep your boyfriend's happiness to only yourself and him, that's controlling and he'll eventually come to resent you.
mixed feelings on the watch story, i think she's nta but could have gone about that in a much better way. u have to be a bit more sensitive as the female friend of a guy with a gf and vice versa, idk how she wouldnt have seen that that reaction coming since its such an expensive gift. imo to keep the peace she should have approached the gf first and they could have split it, then op still gets to take some credit for finding it, less money spent and the gf doesnt totally despise her lol. good on her bf though for taking her side
Absolutely agree
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Story one - people like that need help because why are you slapping your horrible experience with a situation on to other people
Like really a whole family of people have to be mindful of one person because they should know better than to drink around her what even is that
Family gatherings that SIL go to must not have alcohol, celebrating a success no alcohol, cookout nope SIL is here 🙄
I wouldn’t invite her to anything it’s not people’s responsibility to manage your trauma
And it’s not fair for SIL
Or anyone that random family members was an alcoholic to police people
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Omg i read the watch one on Reddit the other day 😂 and the people there didn’t hold back on her, telling her that she’s an AH and an attention seeker and what not. So seeing you siding with her made me laugh.
Also she gave more context on Reddit and it’s not looking good for her
What was the context abt , tell me more
Ya I need more context cause was she a attention seeker or was she just a really great best friend who just want to get her friend something he really like
I found it suspicious how she used by chance and coincidentally often
She basically kept contradicting herself through out the comments, saying that the gf could’ve afforded it if she wanted to buy the gift for him, and then in another comment saying that the gf income is lower than theirs *since they graduated from an Ivy League while she didn’t*, when people asked her why she didn’t at least consult the gf or if she wanted to chip in with her for the gift.
Oh yes I almost forget that she mentioned that Tom used to have feeling for her or something, and that she friend zoned him a long time ago (which was unnecessary to say imo) which makes me think that she has feelings for him.
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Tbh honest I as a dude would make a fairly innocuous comment about my so's weight but be all because between the two of us your the more attractive and somehow get beaten to a pulp... by friends.
I disagree with you about the 1st story. I feel like if someone has problem with others drinking for good reasons, than people should not drink around them. Literally just being considerate of others. Like if someone is an alcoholic others should not drink around them. If people have stress about drinking than others should be more considerate of it.
Except the husband WASN'T drinking in front of his sister, he left the HOUSE to drink with his friends and he doesn't even drink. He just did this once to celebrate being a dad, that's normal. I don't get what the problem is. I get trauma and everything, I can understand as my family (the men especially) have had a bad history of drinking and being abusive, my own stepdad was an abusive alcoholic but I wasn't traumatized by his drinking. I was traumatized how he ACTED. The yelling, the screaming, etc. THAT'S what effect me and I'm now very sensitive to people even scolding at me gently because of it. I know drinking was the problem, but everyone acts different when drunk. Some act aggressive, silly, loopy, crazy. I believe drinking brings out the side of someone they don't like others see. I get trauma works in different ways and I can see that, but SIL has NO right to yell at her brother in HIS house that he's was gonna end up like dad. Oh wait, not dad, HER dad. They don't HAVE the same dad! Who does she think she is that she has the right to tell him that he'll be like HER deadbeat father on the ONLY time he drank and it wasn't even in front of her, he was with friends and then his wife. SHE'S the one who walked in on them. All I can say for her is that she needs MASSIVE therapy. If she doesn't like drinking, that's completely fine. I don't like drinking (because I'm not of age and I won't ever try it either), but she can't just FORCE people to NOT drink or be drunk around her. Don't like it? Leave. Erase yourself from the situation, it's that simple if she had a problem. Or, she could have just NOT walked in one the husband and wife having a fun time. No one told her to stick her nose in their business
@cindypicadomolina7814 Are you seriously picking a fight with everyone in the comments just because they don't agree with you? You already looked for a fight with me and now you're looking for a fight with someone else? Seriously get a life instead of looking for fights just because you're bored
@@kaneki18-d1t4 At the end of the day, your problems aren't everyone else's. The SIL should've been in therapy like YESTERDAY.
@rachelmartin5187 That's her choice not yours. Still both OP and the husband are just pos. Just because someone has a trauma doesn't give other people the right to be rude to them. You've got no actual valid arguments
@@kaneki18-d1t4 Bruh. I'm literally sticking up for the OP and her husband. Having trauma and unresolved issues is terrible, but it doesn't give you an excuse to dictate how others live. That being said, I think OP kicking them out was harsh and not called for and i do hope they work it out, but still. No one should have to walk on eggshells in their own house.
I disagree with you a lot. That watch story was shameful.
About the first story. It's the husband's and wife's fault it was the choice of both of them to get the husband drunk even though a child was around. If I was a mom I wouldn't want drunk people around me too. The sister in law was in the right to confront the husband about the irresponsible behavior. Just because it's his home doesn't mean he can do whatever he wants when he has guests over. Also it's outright cruel to throw the husband's sister out for being reminded of something traumatic. She should immediately apologize and offer some kind of accommodation. She was absolutely in the wrong and seriously deserves to be shunned. Seriously what a disgusting human being to disregard people's traumas and taking advantage of that 🤢🤮
Totally disagree. Do you really expect everyone around you, either family or friends, to just reorganize their life and decisions so that they can accomodate you everytime you're near them because of your trauma ? Sorry but if so, you're being deluded, selfish and entitled and so is the sister in law because that's not how the world works and should work. The husband has the right to celebrate his future child by drinking with his buddies if he wants to as long as it doesn't make him violent, dangerous or abusive and it clearly didn't. Irresponsible ? He didn't drive home and once he came back, he just sang and danced with his wife, jeez ! Sister in law had not right to chastise him for it, especially in his own house. Imagine if that sister in law's trauma was losing a baby and she went to OP's and husband's house after the kid was born, do you think she would also be entitled to demand the kid stays away from her sight because she/he would remind her of her trauma ? Absolutely not. If I'm uncomfortable with how people behave in their own homes then I leave from there and stay away. I'm sorry that she had to go through it but people around her don't have to change their lifestyle or ways of celebrating because of HER traumatic experience.
@Olimpina Dude just agree to disagree instead of insulting people just because they don't agree with you
@@kaneki18-d1t4 So it's OK for you to call OP and her husband irresponsible, cruel and disgusting but it's not OK to say that the sister in law's and you are deluded, selfish and entitled in the expectations/demands regarding how people should act around you ? Well, I guess I can add hypocrite then. If you can't handle your opinion being judged maybe don't judge others in your opinion.
@Olimpina Sorry but I have no reason to talk to someone who insults me just because I don't agree with them. Grow up kid and leave me alone
@@kaneki18-d1t4 Again, you're judging and insulting someone in your comment but can't handle being judged in return, can you really not see the hypocrisy there ? You can't even understand that but I'm the one who should grow up ? Sure... Also calling me "kid" when you don't even know my age ? Yeah, infantilizing someone who confronts you about your double standards, that's really mature of you... Bye, have a nice day.
Glad the degenerates in these stories are being put in there place. Op’s sister (1st story) was completely out of order. And 4/5 story..? Was just not it. As for thumbnail story, the husband should’ve gotten slapped for not only embarrassing his wife, but also making her feel insecure about herself. Props to the friend. Can’t imagine having to deal with such ignorance
I relate to the sister in law. I Don't like people who get drunk. Sorry.
1st story is so stupid. The woman is saying I only told her to get out of the house not the whole family. Lmao such a lame excuse for being rude to someone going through a trauma response.
As someone with alcohol related trauma, no one’s trauma response should be to treat others like shit. If it is, you don’t need to be around people because you are a trauma cycle continuer.
@@gaxalee7392 all she was doing was to prevent her brother from becoming alcoholic. The fact the wife told her to go away and then later made an excuse that she wasn't talking about the whole family? Is the wife for real? And the audacity of mentioning the fact that their fathers are different and the alcoholic father isn't related to his husband. If someone was being rude it was the wife.
@@ButterflySUB Screaming at people and treating them like shit doesn’t prevent alcoholics; it creates them. It’s not rude or bad to defend yourself or a loved one from someone taking out their bad feelings on other people.
@@gaxalee7392 obviously the sister of law shouldn't have shouted but the wife explaining herself through excuses isn't gonna work for me. She sounds full of b*llcrap. I hope we could've heard both sides of the story. :/