As an older woman, I don't suggest bars. For me, It was full of funtional alcohol abusers, divorced with traumas, etc. Better get into hobbies and church activities (if you are christian). Art classes, pickelball, running club, etc. It is also about the lifestyle that you want. I often see that after being in a relationship, the man doesn't want to stop going to the bar, and the woman doesn't want to continue going. Even after marriage.
Ladies! Ashley is telling the truth. If you don’t know what makeup to purchase, there are a ton of people on TH-cam to teach you. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune in the beginning. ELF is a great place to start then work your way up to Danessa Myricks. Juvia’s place is another lower-mid price cosmetic brands. Putting a little bit of effort with makeup is fun and you feel better about you.
@@chrisharris2367exactly. I don’t know any wealthy men who marry women who wear a lot of make up and weaves down their back. To smash, yes, to take serious? I don’t see it.
I met my guy at 38 years old on a somewhat of a bummy looking day for me... At the hair store picking up rubberbands. He also said he was dressed bummy that day. We both typically dont step out the way we did when we met. Time and chance❤ He is wealthy also in mind and money.
Volunteer during NAACP events as well as other high profile events of your interest. There are usually golf events in summer, galas in the fall and winter. Great places to meet men. Happy Hour at high end restaurants. Go alone! It’s less intimidating for men to approach you. Smile at people, especially men!
Nijhla is too adorable! Enjoy your youth girl and have fun! I’ve always been an old soul and home body and now that I’m in my early thirties, I regret not having fun. Enjoy your life and don’t waste time on anyone who isn’t pouring into you. Love will find you just trust and believe.❤
13:02 environments like clubs and bars may not always attract the type of partner someone is looking for, especially if they’re seeking a deep, meaningful relationship. Focusing on shared interests, like joining a running club or a hobby group, can be a much more natural way to meet people with similar values and lifestyles. It's also a good reminder that the energy we put out often influences the type of people we attract. Reflecting on past experiences, understanding personal patterns, and seeking guidance from a counselor or therapist can be very helpful for personal growth. Taking this journey can bring clarity, and even open doors to healthier relationships.
I’m dying at OG Instagram with the back to back photos and the coffee cups. 😂😂 What a time! Yes Ashley you are so right, so glad we had it for artistic self expression purposes. FIT alum here class of 2014!
I do disagree with telling the third young lady to go to the bar for mingling if she stated she’s looking for a man of God/ Christian man. That’s not where those particular men are. Start doing hobbies where those types of men would be.
@AshleyMartinez_ Almost all men are looking for a good time. If you choose a high-level place, dress and act like a lady, the man will understand what kind of a woman you are. You set the tone with your boundaries and behavior. Be charming though. You could even just go and have conversations without giving your number for practice. If you go out, meet in public and don’t be alone with them. Don’t tell them where you live.
21:04 get out of Blackistan, go visit a multicultural church To date different type of men Also stop being an overgiver She seems real cool though Hope she finds a good dude It’s rough out here esp to find a solid guy (integrity, provider, Christian)as a black woman but it’s possible
Why come on the show and never listen to the advice? It’s simply a waste of time. Just listen to what Ashley has to say or move on. If you come on the show looking like you didn’t put for effort and you’re trying to level up, Ashley is going to say something about the way you look there is no need for extensive commentary when you presented yourself in an appearance that requires attention. Let’s get it together.
As an older woman, I don't suggest bars. For me, It was full of funtional alcohol abusers, divorced with traumas, etc. Better get into hobbies and church activities (if you are christian). Art classes, pickelball, running club, etc. It is also about the lifestyle that you want. I often see that after being in a relationship, the man doesn't want to stop going to the bar, and the woman doesn't want to continue going. Even after marriage.
Ladies! Ashley is telling the truth. If you don’t know what makeup to purchase, there are a ton of people on TH-cam to teach you. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune in the beginning. ELF is a great place to start then work your way up to Danessa Myricks. Juvia’s place is another lower-mid price cosmetic brands. Putting a little bit of effort with makeup is fun and you feel better about you.
Yes💯💯
But when you take it all off the man feels like he got finessed
How can a woman grapple w that
I say light makeup
@@chrisharris2367exactly. I don’t know any wealthy men who marry women who wear a lot of make up and weaves down their back. To smash, yes, to take serious? I don’t see it.
I met my guy at 38 years old on a somewhat of a bummy looking day for me... At the hair store picking up rubberbands. He also said he was dressed bummy that day. We both typically dont step out the way we did when we met. Time and chance❤ He is wealthy also in mind and money.
You met your millionaire at the hair store? Wow! I need to start shopping at the hair store more frequently.
Volunteer during NAACP events as well as other high profile events of your interest. There are usually golf events in summer, galas in the fall and winter. Great places to meet men. Happy Hour at high end restaurants. Go alone! It’s less intimidating for men to approach you. Smile at people, especially men!
Me personally Weight loss would level me up
Nijhla painting her nails before the live is so cute😂😂😂😂
Yesss😂
Nijhla is too adorable! Enjoy your youth girl and have fun! I’ve always been an old soul and home body and now that I’m in my early thirties, I regret not having fun. Enjoy your life and don’t waste time on anyone who isn’t pouring into you. Love will find you just trust and believe.❤
The last girl is so adorable 😍😍😍 she so pure I love it! At 20 that’s rare
Those 20yr olds r such babies!!❤❤ Enjoy ur life ladies! Don't get preggers and like Ash say stay out ur head. What a Time to Be Alive!
Martel Jackson is beautiful too 😍
13:02 environments like clubs and bars may not always attract the type of partner someone is looking for, especially if they’re seeking a deep, meaningful relationship. Focusing on shared interests, like joining a running club or a hobby group, can be a much more natural way to meet people with similar values and lifestyles.
It's also a good reminder that the energy we put out often influences the type of people we attract. Reflecting on past experiences, understanding personal patterns, and seeking guidance from a counselor or therapist can be very helpful for personal growth. Taking this journey can bring clarity, and even open doors to healthier relationships.
I’m dying at OG Instagram with the back to back photos and the coffee cups. 😂😂
What a time! Yes Ashley you are so right, so glad we had it for artistic self expression purposes. FIT alum here class of 2014!
Ashley gives the truth with love. Beautiful advice💕
Awww Jasmine is adorable❤ continue being you and don’t allow anyone to make you feel less than. You’re beautiful 😻
I do disagree with telling the third young lady to go to the bar for mingling if she stated she’s looking for a man of God/ Christian man. That’s not where those particular men are. Start doing hobbies where those types of men would be.
May you give suggestions 😊
Correct . Men in bars are looking for a good time
Yep and they think you’re “freestyling” if you’re all dressed up in the bar smh.
agree
@AshleyMartinez_ Almost all men are looking for a good time. If you choose a high-level place, dress and act like a lady, the man will understand what kind of a woman you are. You set the tone with your boundaries and behavior. Be charming though. You could even just go and have conversations without giving your number for practice. If you go out, meet in public and don’t be alone with them. Don’t tell them where you live.
Thank you for posting on TH-cam!!!! Keep em coming!!!! ❤️
Martel is so pretty
MARTEL AND JASMINE!! It is "HBCU Homecoming Season October /November 2024" ....so men are out everywhere, go outside!!! 💗💚#AKA1908
21:04 get out of Blackistan, go visit a multicultural church
To date different type of men
Also stop being an overgiver
She seems real cool though
Hope she finds a good dude
It’s rough out here esp to find a solid guy (integrity, provider, Christian)as a black woman but it’s possible
I always say that. Open your options. Date other races.
Ladies any recommendations on sites to purchase Good bundles? Please drop some links😩 trying be HER this year😊
Wow Martel looks younger than her age. She’s beautiful also❤
31 is not old
@ Never said it was.
Love the hair girly❤
Great as always. Hope to catch a live soon.
LOVE U ASHLEY. NOTHING BUT LOVE
Why come on the show and never listen to the advice? It’s simply a waste of time. Just listen to what Ashley has to say or move on. If you come on the show looking like you didn’t put for effort and you’re trying to level up, Ashley is going to say something about the way you look there is no need for extensive commentary when you presented yourself in an appearance that requires attention. Let’s get it together.
40:53 nah Ashley is spitting
Awwh, Jasmine reminds me of myself in college. 😄
Hello Ashley, new subbie; ❤from California!
Martell is beautiful
Why did Dani call into the show??
People really dont listen. 👂
Dani looks nice with her hair down.
39:11 Jasmine ❤
Ash you look so good 💕
39:40 step #1, move out of Nashville
There is no excuse not to know how to do your makeup in 2024… there are millions of tutorials. If you want to, you would. Stop being lazy!
Yes! I bought an affordable course from Kkao beauty. Worth every penny
Ure screaming at me… thank u 🫶🏾
Does anybody know how to request when she’s live?
When she is live, she posts a link in the comments.
On TH-cam or ?
@@prettypri1740 Yes
Eagle Pride all day.
You have perfect skin Martel. U look good honey.
Nijhla can find those women at women conferences and other events like that.
How do you request to come up?
While she is live, she posts a link in the comments.