WHY I DRESS THE WAY I DRESS AND HOW I DEVELOPED MY LOOK

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  • @kaylafithen8434
    @kaylafithen8434 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    There is nothing wrong with being yourself. It’s your life live it. So live it in the way that makes you happy!

  • @Darcylou666
    @Darcylou666 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love your style. I used to get so much hassle for looking different but not so much now. But I gave up caring about what other people thought a long time ago 💜

  • @mewnessdarkness5958
    @mewnessdarkness5958 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the Glamvampire look I wanna start getting into it myself

  • @tammykennedy1438
    @tammykennedy1438 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That's why I was into watching you as you gave me the courage to be myself and start doing what I like after I went through a long and bad breakup. I used to worry about what people thought, not any more. Thanks.

  • @kkg5138
    @kkg5138 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Glad your experiences have been mostly positive.

  • @metalmomjudieodell3610
    @metalmomjudieodell3610 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You definitely have Lexi’s hair flip down🤘🏼💜🦇

  • @staceychristian9651
    @staceychristian9651 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congrats Joe! I’m proud of you!!!

  • @Hellcat_2024
    @Hellcat_2024 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for being you. You’re an inspiration.

  • @jeanettemarkley7299
    @jeanettemarkley7299 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My husband wears nail polish. He's straight and we are married 30 years, so he''s not very young. We are both bright people. Bright colors and beautiful dogs, Interesting cooking, a sprinkle of good science and skeptic talks. That's for us.

  • @GrimKat1313
    @GrimKat1313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's nice to hear a little more background on how you got to this point. You are definitely a unique individual. Thanks for sharing. 💜💜

  • @user-us7kf1xg1h
    @user-us7kf1xg1h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations Hyde I'm so proud of you

  • @karlamartin8215
    @karlamartin8215 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Often wonder why too? So enjoy learning your background

  • @sarai72
    @sarai72 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You do you boo! This reminds me of my experimental journey since I was 14!

  • @karlamartin8215
    @karlamartin8215 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nothing but respect for you!! 💜🦇

  • @metalmomjudieodell3610
    @metalmomjudieodell3610 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are the One and Only 🤘🏼💜🦇Hyde

  • @angelamancinelli705
    @angelamancinelli705 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for being real I appreciate you 😊

  • @mariecragle5074
    @mariecragle5074 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm the same, I've never listened to goth music either. I'm actually more contry but I have that dark biker, vampire part of me that loves skulls, bats, witches. You name it! Halloween is my favorite 😀

  • @dianehwetzel-specht397
    @dianehwetzel-specht397 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You be you. Your awesome

  • @Punkie83
    @Punkie83 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jake is awesome! Yawl both are awesome! I credit you both for helping me find the courage, at 40yrs, to be who I am.
    Being an "alt" black/POC woman... Liking what I like whatever tf I like and not caring what society says I SHOULD or am supposed to be or like. And because of that, I've found I'm far from being alone🖤 so thank you 🤘🏾

  • @shannon3263
    @shannon3263 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love style by the way

  • @StellaShadowmoon
    @StellaShadowmoon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Visual Kei is where I started loving the look as well! People used to call me goth and I hated it because that’s really not what I was trying to do.
    For a while I went back to pretty normal style and natural hair colors while trying to hold normal jobs but I’m ready to dye my hair purple (actually doing that in the next few days) and wear only black again and I’m 34 now haha.
    Japan heavily influenced me but also some European bands so I’m a little mix of the 2. I get it, I get the look and the feel and it feels like just being YOU and anything else feels kinda weird almost embarrassing.
    With my brown hair basic clothing for so many years I noticed that around people who dressed more like how I feel inside, I’d feel embarrassed for looking like a basic boring girl.
    The Japanese can really pull off the makeup and dark aesthetic! I love it so much 😍
    Oh and ditto on loving the gazette, they were my first crush

  • @kimberlymoore1524
    @kimberlymoore1524 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My kind of the 80s heavy metal music

  • @brittnyshultz729
    @brittnyshultz729 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your style. I’ve always considered myself to be “Goth” since about 8th or 9th grade but never embraced the style in public due to societal norms. I’m now 36 and I’m finally comfortable and slowly starting to begin changing into who I was meant to be. 💜🖤🦇
    ETA I wanna see a pic of you with short spiky hair!

    • @lildevild3b
      @lildevild3b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He showed a pic of him with short spiky hair while he spoke about it in this video 🎉.

  • @DianaDivine7
    @DianaDivine7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So amazing !!
    Genuine beauty inside an’ out !! Thank you !! You are a masterpiece guitarist musician 🩷

  • @clarisse_eurydice
    @clarisse_eurydice 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🥀🧛🏻‍♀️🦇we love you, Our Favorite Glampire 🖤💜🦇

  • @alainaanderson3408
    @alainaanderson3408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It's really awesome learning more. I grew up on hair metal so it's cool to know that. I have always had a dark look and love that. I recently checked out X Japan and totally love it. You're very inspirational and appreciate everything you do. 💜

  • @rebeccagarcia89
    @rebeccagarcia89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing this with us! I feel like I can relate to you a bit. Being the same age as you I too grew up around a lot of the same 80s rock bands as you did...also my father played guitar and was lead singer in a group so rock music is my roots. It's in my DNA. Altho I dabbled a bit into the emo/goth scene...I've always been into the dark look. Nowadays I bounce around different looks depending on how I feel but that dark side of me never leaves. I'm drawn and attracted to it. I enjoy your content Hyde! This was fun to watch thank you for letting us get to know some fun facts about you! 💜

  • @AuroraRose_Andromeda
    @AuroraRose_Andromeda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Hyde. I needed to hear all of what you said. I've never been comfortable in my own skin, or be who I want to be within myself. I use a wheelchair and due to a disability. I don't let that stop me far from it. But society has kept me in this "box" and not being able to express how i want to be for myself. I'm 49 and still trying to find my path/direction. I write paranormal romance as my love/passion. Nothing published of yet. You have opened my eyes and my mind to do what I feel and want in my life. Thank you for sharing with us.

    • @NikkiSixxIsMyGod
      @NikkiSixxIsMyGod 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please do follow your passions...life is just too short not to. I have a wonderful friend that is wheelchair bound due to cerebral palsy. He is a sweetheart and has gained lots of friends because of his personality...he goes to the bars and supports local bands...friends with so many of them. He likes to sing and sometimes the and will lift him and his heavy wheelchair onstage to sing. Nobody takes pity on him and as he says Ability is in Disability. He truly is an inspiration in being positive. Take care, Cas in ON, Canada 💖

    • @AuroraRose_Andromeda
      @AuroraRose_Andromeda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@NikkiSixxIsMyGod Thank you I appreciate it and the support. I am alone mostly. It can be hard at times. I'm so glad your friend is as outgoing as he is and doesn't let anything get in his way. I wish I had friends like he does. Mine mostly live too far, or mostly too busy to hang out. Thank you. From NJ

  • @passionjackey2600
    @passionjackey2600 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this and I didn't think it was possible, but you inspire me more and more everyday!!!

  • @tinacarriere5130
    @tinacarriere5130 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely love you and your message in this video! Thank you Hyde! You are amazing, unique, beautiful, talented etc!!! Keep doing what you’re doing! 💜🦇💜

  • @cosetterolfes4100
    @cosetterolfes4100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you, Hyde. Thank you for showing us more of YOU.. I am addicted to your look, and everything else about you too!! 💜💜💜

  • @amandajarrard1333
    @amandajarrard1333 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really like this video It explains a lot like how people put a stereotype on you. By the way, you look. I was in my 30s before. I really liked the way that I feel inside show on the outside and really be myself. And not give a s*** about what other people think of me. But it's people like us that really enjoy like the things that we like in the way we look in the way other people are allowed to look what they're artists. Artistic abilities, keep Up all the hard work
    We love you

  • @CynCity669
    @CynCity669 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I completely agree about the lack of labels. I just call myself eclectic, because my styles has bits and pieces of so many different elements. Why limit yourself to one element when there is a world full of wonders out there to discover and absorb.💜💜💜
    Thanks for once again letting us see the real Hyde😊

  • @amandaoconnor9671
    @amandaoconnor9671 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I loved this it was very informative & very interesting. It inspires people like myself to not be afraid & to just keep being ourselves. 😘💜🌹🦇

  • @samwinchester6811
    @samwinchester6811 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this! Such a great message. Thank you for sharing. :)

  • @Aywills62
    @Aywills62 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you for you, you are unique!! 💜💜💜

  • @kerryjeckeln7880
    @kerryjeckeln7880 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    U are amazing Hyde love your style 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @revabrontiu3794
    @revabrontiu3794 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very Kool video ty for enlightening us

  • @hopesanddreams5808
    @hopesanddreams5808 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for doing this and giving the encouragement to all of us... I have always been the "weird" one... with purple or black or blue hair with spikes and leather and stuff... I grew up on hair bands and never "fit in" with most... this makes me smile and being part of the baby bat family has really showed me that there are others like me and we are a big happy family... 💜🖤💜🖤

  • @karlamartin8215
    @karlamartin8215 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So interesting

  • @sunandmoonlight8306
    @sunandmoonlight8306 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes love the 80’s hair metal. Love love Lexxi! 💜

  • @alexis-su6tz
    @alexis-su6tz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i really love watching this video and i love how someone is not Scared to talk about themselfs and i really love watching all of your videos so much and always be yourself and never be scared to be yourself and always keep your head up and always keep on fighting and always stay strong and always love yourself and never give up on yourself and never back down and always pick yourself up and always have faith in yourself and always believe in yourself and always love your friends and family and when ever i watch your videos you Inspiring in me and one time i was working at a elementary school and i was wearing dark makeup look and wearing dark outfits and a little kid came up to me and said to me she loved my makeup look and that little girl made my day and she also made me feel really good about myself

  • @kelseyrosecrans7750
    @kelseyrosecrans7750 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hyde I really love your eyes

  • @caitlinphillips
    @caitlinphillips 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your Awesome man 😊😊

  • @julieg8228
    @julieg8228 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve followed you for years. Never thought of your look as girly 🔥. A few of us hairdressers have evolved our looks similarly. We make the magic happen ✨

  • @crystalleonard9310
    @crystalleonard9310 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wa not into heavier metal un I listened to No Silence. Even at first I thought that Betrayed was too intense for me. Now, I scream along with Darby 😂 😂😂

  • @happykerebungu132
    @happykerebungu132 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i wanna have make up like u

  • @lesleylynne9801
    @lesleylynne9801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💜💜💜

  • @user-is4bm7uk1v
    @user-is4bm7uk1v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am obsessed with your look I love you❤ you so pwetty😘

  • @sherylwortmann8068
    @sherylwortmann8068 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So loved this so inspiring to help others be who they want to be and not give a crap, you do you and be happy 💜💜 I love your look so gorgeous 😍🔥

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Lucy_f831
    @Lucy_f831 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💜💜💜💜

  • @Tamara389
    @Tamara389 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @katyabaluk9628
    @katyabaluk9628 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My first inspiration was Marilyn Manson when I was in school. And I can tell you that you are not him))))) And you know, I face this problem all the time - people want to classify you. What are you listening to? What songs? Why is everything black? why in flowers, you're a metalhead :) But I'm just who I am :) Metal + rock + punk + hippie + nerd + mathematician + sunshine :) something like that. I love my flowers and very heavy music. I only like some of X Japan songs, but I adore Yoshiki's piano and he has become a more adult inspiration for me than Marilyn Manson :) I love rock and motorcycles, as well as books, a blanket and tea by the fireplace. I just want to be me and be happy on my way :)

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sempre estarei com vc meu amor te amo muito meu bebê ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vc não está sozinho eu estou aqui com vc até o fim nunca duvides que vc e importante pra mim e sempre vai ser meu porto seguro minha base te amo muito meu amor

  • @maire510
    @maire510 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤟🤟

  • @Bex1991
    @Bex1991 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ah I loved this. When I was an alternative 13 year old who didn't really know if she was goth, metal...or whatever I totally vibed with this. I was also the only kid in my school who was into the 80s hair metal bands and V kei bands so I was bullied hard for how xI looked back in those days. 20 years later and I couldn't care less what ppl think. I rock out the house with a leopard print dress and fishnets in with my massive green hair and red lippie and I get called a hooker all the time 😂 do I care tho? Do I f### 😁🤘

    • @Bex1991
      @Bex1991 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *For how I looked I mean

  • @beverlymccoy3368
    @beverlymccoy3368 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm Goth love your look you're better looking than Manson

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Minha alma meu espírito sempre será seu meu joseph zuzula te amo muito meu bebê lindo ❤️🖤❤️ te adoro

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Meu morceguinho lindo seus olhos brancos mi deixa louca por vc ,vc e e sempre vai ser a minha vida te amo com todas as forças da minha alma

  • @yulianipratiwi-wz9yc
    @yulianipratiwi-wz9yc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😅😅🎉🎉

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Te adoro muito meu anjinho do submundo te amo muito meu bebê

  • @user-tk3vx8ng5m
    @user-tk3vx8ng5m 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My lovely Hydeboy 💋
    From the first Moment I saw you, I was falling in Love with you, with your smile, your style, your voice and your talent.
    You are sooo amazing and interesting and so powerful.
    You don't see Like M. Manson, He is not Like you my sexy Hyde.
    Joseph, yor are a you and that is sooo nice.
    In and out you are so wonderful.
    In love Eileen 💋❤️🫦

  • @danielamelo2139
    @danielamelo2139 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @NikkiSixxIsMyGod
    @NikkiSixxIsMyGod 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG...Marilyn Manson...GROSS! Nope! I never liked him/his look at all or his music. YOU on the other hand, I drool over...I think a BIG reason why is your inner beauty, kindness shines through as well and it's liquid gold baby! Seriously! Keep being your sweet self! 💖💜💖💜💖 Hair bands, Motley (hello my TH-cam name), poison, VH, checking off all the boxes. Hanoi Rocks was the only band I knew from "elsewhere" and loved them. RIP Razzle. I like all genres of music though, even some of the scream stuff...not all but some really does sound good. OVERALL MESSAGE TO EVERYONE: Life is too short to not follow your passion in letting yourself be your true self inside and outside! Love this video so much! Thank you for all you do! Much love, Cas in ON, Canada 💖💜💖💜💖

  • @ariannawiniarski5889
    @ariannawiniarski5889 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m surprised you love 80s metal. Now it’s great music and I love it. You seem very young to even know those bands, (but I realize you’re a glampire and I have no clue what your actual age is, nor does it matter). I really need to check out your makeup. I love new makeup palettes! Also, I think you look divine and nothing like Marilyn Manson. I like the band, Marilyn Manson and their music, but you do not resemble him at all. And while you seem to have a feminine side, so to speak, in my humble opinion, you do not look like a female/girl at all. This was interesting so thank you!

  • @rachelcrowley-spak2282
    @rachelcrowley-spak2282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A Jake Munro shout out!? Seriously!? He is NOT a good person and very narcissistic!!! So yeah if you wanna encourage people to follow a guy like that, who by the way also has anger issues, is abusive and also threw his ex out after cheating on her while steadily threatening her as she was living in a glorified storage unit, then yeah go right on ahead.
    I respect you for everything except for that. Your aesthetic is very cool.

  • @Princess.50
    @Princess.50 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your look and everything else about you!! I LOVE looking at you and listening to you! My eyes were glued to the screen this whole time. 😁 Most of all, it's your unique personality that has me hooked. 🪝💜🖤❤️

  • @user-rf8tt3zv1u
    @user-rf8tt3zv1u 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💜💜💜💜