3 ways to avoid divorce

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  • Psychiatrist George Blair-West shares three strategies for success in romantic partnerships. This talk was filmed at TEDxBrisbane.
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  • @Nenblackheart
    @Nenblackheart ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Communication, acertive communication, that's all. Values, honesty, loyalty, Respect!

  • @MetalHendrix.
    @MetalHendrix. ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Other Six ways, Don’t cheat, don’t Cheat, don’t cheat, Don’t Cheat, Be Loyal and Love Unconditionally. You are Welcome.

  • @garycard1456
    @garycard1456 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    One tip to avoid divorce: maintain healthy intimate functions and'lovemakinglife' (not just penetrativelovemaking, but also other expressions of physicalintimacy,such as kissing, hand-holding, snuggling up together). Men: seek medical investigations if you suspect low testosterone.

  • @vikas_bharatvanshi
    @vikas_bharatvanshi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How many peoples are knowing that it's platform is the biggest motivational platform.

  • @rainman2543
    @rainman2543 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Avoid getting married

  • @GeslerDavidAvalo
    @GeslerDavidAvalo ปีที่แล้ว +9

    First, not getting married…

  • @FreeLance_60
    @FreeLance_60 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you want to hurtle through this life on your own -- feel free. If you want some meaning in your life -- get married and have a kid or two.

  • @williamspear7803
    @williamspear7803 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Marry the person I dearly ❤️ and trust YOURSELF !!!! so yesss this is most definitely the best way to avoid the nightmare thats exist that is called DIVORCE.

    • @Marta-to1mf
      @Marta-to1mf ปีที่แล้ว

      Thar would work only if living with a monster is a lesser nightmare than divorce that gives you a chance for a happier life.

  • @giftedgreen2152
    @giftedgreen2152 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I retired from dating at 40.
    Trust and believe dating is the hardest thing you don't have to do.

  • @plugin25
    @plugin25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @flyme2009
      @flyme2009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      outstanding comment i have ever read in my short life short comment

    • @joeletienne3455
      @joeletienne3455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣

    • @plugin25
      @plugin25 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@flyme2009🤗

  • @LogicalQ
    @LogicalQ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Easiest way to avoid divorce… Don’t get married

  • @mrneoneil999
    @mrneoneil999 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Only need one don't get married in the first place lol

  • @divagirl10
    @divagirl10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Married at 39

  • @rainbowgirl4795
    @rainbowgirl4795 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just decided, that I will divorce..that was a long deciscion. I should have know your advices 12 years ago..yes, i was too young. No, my husband didn't get me feel carefull as I was sick..a I don't know, what does it mean to be kissed and to get a hug. I don't know, whats his problem...but I can't help him and that situation make me sick..i love myself and I have to go. I don't want to, but if you have no reason to stay, you should go..

    • @TheCommunicationCoach
      @TheCommunicationCoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You'd still have done it probably, the young think they know everything already.

  • @isaacbottrell6730
    @isaacbottrell6730 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One tip to avoid divorce, don't get married 🙃

    • @michael2275
      @michael2275 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And avoid liberal women if you do.

    • @bananawammabama
      @bananawammabama ปีที่แล้ว

      I really thought this was going to be one of the tips. Divorce is one of the main reasons I won't get married.

    • @bananawammabama
      @bananawammabama ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michael2275 It's not the fault of one gender in particular 🙄

    • @michael2275
      @michael2275 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bananawammabama Liberal women have an expectations mismatch with reality that leads to very high divorce rates...look into, it's backed by data.

  • @88Nieznany88
    @88Nieznany88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn I don't think divorce is a risk for me considering I don't have significant other.

  • @freesk8
    @freesk8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Divorce sucks. It should be avoided. And it wrecks kids. Commit to your spouse.

  • @flyme2009
    @flyme2009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i never understand why people marrying in first place. is it because of children ? companionship ? singles always mingles 👍

  • @jerrymiller9039
    @jerrymiller9039 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don't get married

  • @pattyr.248
    @pattyr.248 ปีที่แล้ว

    Edit: “How Complacency is the Key to Avoiding Divorce”. Next videoooo lol

  • @thirdeye100
    @thirdeye100 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am happy after divorce and giv advice to all women love urself

    • @giftedgreen2152
      @giftedgreen2152 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best thing I ever did was retire from dating.

  • @mac2658
    @mac2658 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This TED came only 25 years to late for me lol.

  • @peaceoflife8372
    @peaceoflife8372 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great...👍

  • @raxitkaria
    @raxitkaria ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't marry

  • @amyndavis839
    @amyndavis839 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I believe in therapy and prayer 🙏.

  • @FreeLance_60
    @FreeLance_60 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate the shorter version of TedX Talks.

  • @markad1998
    @markad1998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Divorce is like Thanos if u know what I mean...

  • @celestialcircledance
    @celestialcircledance ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The elephant in the room is that a woman's biological clock doesn't wait for maturity to catch up and it is harder to give birth in your 30's than your 20's .

    • @divagirl10
      @divagirl10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ridiculous too

    • @faithlike
      @faithlike ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish y’all would stop saying this. No it’s not

  • @AadarshSharma.
    @AadarshSharma. ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good

    • @Gg-ij7li
      @Gg-ij7li ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus loves you!
      Believe in His death and resurrection and repent of your sins and be saved!
      Remember that He died and rose up again for you to be in heaven with Him!
      Have an amazing day ❤️❤😊❤

    • @shalabhpareek
      @shalabhpareek ปีที่แล้ว

      9 min video.. uploaded 3 min back ..ur comment at 2 min ..

  • @yowwwwie
    @yowwwwie ปีที่แล้ว

    YES
    יוי

  • @wilsonsmart4398
    @wilsonsmart4398 ปีที่แล้ว +34

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    • @ambrociochiyo2094
      @ambrociochiyo2094 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @andrescox2329
      @andrescox2329 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rich people stay rich by spending less and investing more while the poor remain poor by spending much yet with no investment

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      @mariamike4159 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @dominicmiles3417 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @austinpeter6116 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @squirrelcovers6340
    @squirrelcovers6340 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #1. DON'T GET MARRIED
    #2. DON'T GET MARRIED
    #3. DON'T GET MARRIED

  • @jockaud
    @jockaud ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quickest way is not to get married!

  • @herrdirektor1969
    @herrdirektor1969 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is only one way. Marry the right woman by recognizing the known red flags. End of story.

  • @KingOsirismindprogramming8888
    @KingOsirismindprogramming8888 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A LIFE WITHOUT A WIFE IS A HAPPY LIFE

  • @SokemRokemRobot
    @SokemRokemRobot 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ***************************************************************************
    *"You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit*
    *adultery.’ But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her*
    *has already committed adultery with her in his heart."* -Matthew 5:27,28
    ***************************************************************************

  • @Sanjitmisra_069
    @Sanjitmisra_069 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😇🙏❤🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏❤
    In India we don't talk about divorce much as the cases are negligible.

    • @Keepskatin
      @Keepskatin ปีที่แล้ว

      Indians have true love and their women submit

  • @jakobthealien
    @jakobthealien ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Avoid divorce by having healthy committed relationships without the invasive harmful institution of marriage. So much focus on marriage and not enough focus on healthy interpersonal relationships. Marriage is the problem; not divorce.

  • @mikedelferro
    @mikedelferro ปีที่แล้ว

    Don’t get married.

  • @Marta-to1mf
    @Marta-to1mf ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you think how to avoid a divorce it means you should already be divorced, move on and make the most of years you have left of your life. Period.

  • @NYtoNC
    @NYtoNC ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bad advice.

  • @davanmani556
    @davanmani556 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think you should embrace divorce.

    • @Gg-ij7li
      @Gg-ij7li ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus loves you!
      Believe in His death and resurrection and repent of your sins and be saved!
      Remember that He died and rose up again for you to be in heaven with Him!
      Have an amazing day ❤️❤😊❤

  • @CHRISTALMOUNTAIN
    @CHRISTALMOUNTAIN ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very bad

    • @CHRISTALMOUNTAIN
      @CHRISTALMOUNTAIN ปีที่แล้ว

      Your brain is developing All Life Long. That’s why people are silly not focusing towards brain health. This speaker is empty stop for me.

  • @Gg-ij7li
    @Gg-ij7li ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jesus loves you all and is coming back soon!
    Believe in His death and resurrection and repent of your sins and be saved!
    Remember that He died and rose up again for you to be in heaven with Him!
    Have an amazing day ❤️❤😊❤

  • @Keepskatin
    @Keepskatin ปีที่แล้ว

    Simple, don't marry people who have been married already, unless their spouse died and was not murdered. Don't marry someone with kids, unless you have kids too. Don't marry someone who is not a devoted Christian. Don't marry someone with tattoos.

    • @Ben-dk9sk
      @Ben-dk9sk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      While I am a Christian aswell, I will say this is a bit strict. Certain circumstances will change who people are and their availability to others. I have heard a saying once that the average person will go through 7 relationships before they find their lifelong partner, and that seems accurate. Its ok to fail in a relationship, even if it’s not something to strive for. Its ok to make mistakes. Just have an open heart to those you carry about and move on. Rarely will people go through life with their first partner, so denying these people the chance to love is just plain restrictive of one man’s freedom in the love Market. If thats what you choose to do, go ahead. But this was just my opinion on the matter, have a great day.

  • @TheCommunicationCoach
    @TheCommunicationCoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simple beyond words: learn and use proper Communication; or don't get married!! I'll be happy to teach you how for free!