I Was Shot By My Boyfriend

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  • @alfred8027
    @alfred8027 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I went to school with this lady... life happens and our decisions we make at an early age go a long way

  • @ownitevents5325
    @ownitevents5325 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm from mpumalanga I'm here in tembisa for teaching job. Yooh! Abantwana be skolo Lana eTembisa. Ayikhona parents do better😩😩😩😖😖😖. Let's help each other alone as teachers we can't but together with you will have better child with good morals

    • @noreenm5018
      @noreenm5018 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @OWN IT EVENTS, Its seems like parents has decided to completely neglect disciplining their children and expect teachers to do so. Its a said situation thats required communities to get together and assist teachers.
      Most parents are busy drowning themselves in alcohol, which is another huge challenge in these communities.
      Teaching is one of the critical professions in society, under circumstances majority of good teachers are giving up and completely discouraged. Its sad.

    • @nenesibanda4171
      @nenesibanda4171 ปีที่แล้ว

      The parents should think clearly what kind of a generation are they raising. Clearly a lost one

  • @nkosingiphiledlamini2960
    @nkosingiphiledlamini2960 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I cannot even explain how I enjoy Listening to these stories ✊big up

  • @HRH_Baron_of_Townships
    @HRH_Baron_of_Townships ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I am glad she survived to tell her story. Again another example of the small things that are destroying our black communities. Alcohol, Illdiscipline in schools, lack of mental health care and awareness.

    • @oK-wc8nj
      @oK-wc8nj ปีที่แล้ว

      Uchwala is the biggest problem in South Africa

    • @kabelomixtelematics6265
      @kabelomixtelematics6265 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your thinking is very one dimensional if you think those "little" things are destroying black communities. You are incredibly off the mark and rather should keep your opinion to yourself rather than spreading non truths... go read a book.

    • @oK-wc8nj
      @oK-wc8nj ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kabelomixtelematics6265 he is absolutely right and you are totally wrong.#FreeomOfSpeech
      his opinion is valid and he has the right to voice it.hence we have a comment section.open your eyes my brother.btw I dnt mean to be rude.

    • @kabelomixtelematics6265
      @kabelomixtelematics6265 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oK-wc8nj One question, Out of all the things listed such as "alcohol"... which one does not plague the other racial groups? Put in another way, which one is unique to black people..?

    • @ludacrees
      @ludacrees ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@kabelomixtelematics6265 GBV and Single parenting is rampant in "Black Communities" more than in any other race. So if you want to dismiss the initial comment then your opinion is actually baseless

  • @knowledge2451
    @knowledge2451 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can see through this lady's eyes she such a calm soul.. God bless her richly

  • @sizwekoomtheMc
    @sizwekoomtheMc ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This lady is beautiful yaz and a good story teller. when u look at her, she doesnt look like her past mistakes.

  • @bonganisiziba6154
    @bonganisiziba6154 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I really hope the producers facilitate counseling for this lady. What she went through was extremely traumatizing and by the sound of it she hasn't dealt with it internally. The suppressed anger and fear she has could manifest in destructive behaviours if she goes on without dealing with what she went through. She's very strong to survive attempted murder and still be able to function. God bless and protect her🙏

  • @nwabisamxobo3400
    @nwabisamxobo3400 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I would love to share my story on this platform and maybe find justice for myself.

    • @zikelokium575
      @zikelokium575 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Woza nazo mzala

    • @nwabisamxobo3400
      @nwabisamxobo3400 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol, how much time do you have ?

    • @zikelokium575
      @zikelokium575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nwabisamxobo3400 khululeka soxoxa off air. DM me

    • @zinnyphenyane1908
      @zinnyphenyane1908 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We would love to hear your story Sisi🌷

    • @nwabisamxobo3400
      @nwabisamxobo3400 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zikelokium575 please DM me

  • @mollypercocet7685
    @mollypercocet7685 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Also dudes need to stop this nonsense of abusing women. Any form of abuse is wrong, i can imagine having to shoot your partner, how sick are you in the head?? ABUSE NEEDS TO STOP FELLAS, ITS NOT IT!

    • @ludacrees
      @ludacrees ปีที่แล้ว

      Date an illegal gun carrying men and claim it's love and then believe that he will only harass and hurt others but not you! womens thinking at work.

  • @theboomletgroup8436
    @theboomletgroup8436 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Abusive Gents must be dealt with seriously

  • @snaramaviji470
    @snaramaviji470 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Its good you also interview victims of crime as well, not only the criminals.

  • @pumeza_ndzobongo
    @pumeza_ndzobongo ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm also a Tembisan,and so I know all these places. Good story telling skills girl.

  • @Glm8
    @Glm8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am sorry for what happened to you and your boyfriend
    God protected you for a reason, I pray you get to discover God's purpose about your life 🙏🏾

  • @maqhawepreyer709
    @maqhawepreyer709 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wish this channel can grow bigger than this

    • @theglen85
      @theglen85 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sure it will once they become more inclusive

    • @ludacrees
      @ludacrees ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@theglen85 Could you elaborate what you mean by inclusive?

    • @gugukhumalo9313
      @gugukhumalo9313 ปีที่แล้ว

      Inclusive in languages

  • @khotsoratau9965
    @khotsoratau9965 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's so sad and painful as I grew up ko Tembisa and I know of this story.... Magents can we please do better as we do not own women.... We have no right to want our sisters to be objects or items we buy..... the Township will either Build or Destroy you....

  • @portiakeswa600
    @portiakeswa600 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yoh aaaai ziyabuya. I'm just wondering when are we gonna start expressing our feelings as gents.

  • @noluthandoxhaka3148
    @noluthandoxhaka3148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bengiphila njengawe i end up being totally blind until I accept Jesus I failed my matric 10 times cos I have to complete it and I was blind I passed my matric certificate and I blind that time now I m raising two children alone, but I thank God today I m studying teaching at Unisa

  • @atlegangntoane9367
    @atlegangntoane9367 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Can you please add subtitles some of us don’t understand IsiZulu

  • @Jackson11326
    @Jackson11326 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The trauma that this lady went through is hectic

  • @InfoHubZA
    @InfoHubZA ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Your videos are cool but freaking random!!!

  • @basheerahjongweni6458
    @basheerahjongweni6458 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    5mins into the story & wondering why now as an adult she thinks all the naughty things that she did when she was younger are funny... Anyway I'm still listening on.

    • @maafricamthethwa1811
      @maafricamthethwa1811 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Girl, same. I cringed everytime she laughed, nothing is funny in her story. I think she needs counselling though

    • @basheerahjongweni6458
      @basheerahjongweni6458 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maafricamthethwa1811 I totally agree with you.

    • @pasekamakgwale4069
      @pasekamakgwale4069 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️cause they're funny for her

    • @basheerahjongweni6458
      @basheerahjongweni6458 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pasekamakgwale4069 lol hai then her sense of humour is horrific.

    • @aubreyleteane9295
      @aubreyleteane9295 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Some people cry when reliving their traumas, others laugh it off as sense of keeping it together

  • @ubuhlebethongotv5347
    @ubuhlebethongotv5347 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sad story but you tell us friendly, although you're asking yourself some questions about his decision, but he will answer you in heaven
    Strength is very important sorry girl I feel that pain

  • @LoversWalk-k11
    @LoversWalk-k11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel like ndingakubamba sandla madame cz uphume'zintweni ezinzima joe but bonge nkulunkulu & amadlozi akini 👍 mojo

  • @nldm6201
    @nldm6201 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry you had to go through that mama🤍

  • @Dr_V5_ZiK5_li5.
    @Dr_V5_ZiK5_li5. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Esh nawe Jabu you are so beautiful lady yaz and a good story teller, when I looK at her she doesn't looK liKe her past mistaKes. 😢😢❤❤

  • @asiphileni8949
    @asiphileni8949 ปีที่แล้ว

    People run away from bad boys and bad girls. A bad boy controls meaning the lady was not supposed to go when to family. I know many who have encountered this. Especially someone who will make you not to respect your family.

  • @lebzamodiakgotla7593
    @lebzamodiakgotla7593 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yes kusasa high school and jiyana high school those time their were so corrupt ppl may think that is a lies i experience that also at jiyana

  • @sibusisoshandu9082
    @sibusisoshandu9082 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ungikhulumela kamnandi losisi ngathi ngingalokhu ngimlalele sibonga ukuthi wahlengeka

  • @hrhprincessfifymo9037
    @hrhprincessfifymo9037 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was suppose to be in Channel 157 dstv ufelani

  • @sphosethusbukosethupamla8084
    @sphosethusbukosethupamla8084 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the fact that ukwazile to get over it sisi😍🤟
    Your story touches alot

  • @tuceymalatji135
    @tuceymalatji135 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your beauty though🙌

  • @LPK1994
    @LPK1994 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I clicked "👍🏾" before I started watching.

  • @thembindlela9678
    @thembindlela9678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds so exciting! But where is the future? Hillarious!

  • @ba-kasbongiseninombalizabayeki
    @ba-kasbongiseninombalizabayeki ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lo girl kuyamchaza ukti babengafundii 😂😂isilima nje Lento mina angi entertain udoti nje

  • @mrrkwezulu1728
    @mrrkwezulu1728 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You date abo bad boy you pay with.your life thats simple. This story doesn't sound truthful. It doesn't make proper sense

    • @shebs2207
      @shebs2207 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bad boys and bad girls mingles together

    • @philazikalala9964
      @philazikalala9964 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got that as well brother. Those tiny tiny questions. I even found myself suspecting that maybe, just maybe this woman killed the guy but then had to rebuke myself again.

    • @allthingsinteresting7563
      @allthingsinteresting7563 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm thinking she cheated and when th guy found out he lost it 🤔

    • @malebtop9720
      @malebtop9720 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Huuuu a bo Judge Judy 😏

    • @sepekomohololephalo2591
      @sepekomohololephalo2591 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@malebtop9720 ba nyontsha vuil, bo mr & mrs know it all. nxa.

  • @johannesphalatse9339
    @johannesphalatse9339 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    M young mara I heard this all stories about the School...
    Eish thanks Sister's to tell about ur story I hope youngsters they learn

  • @thabisomosala4722
    @thabisomosala4722 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every HS has that Sun City

  • @trickerafrican2632
    @trickerafrican2632 ปีที่แล้ว

    This kind of behavior by school learners reminds of one Dlamvuzo high school back then at eSikhawini... I was young then but it was a notorious school.

  • @sphamandlandlangisa4625
    @sphamandlandlangisa4625 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    waze wafana noMaMkhize

  • @theboomletgroup8436
    @theboomletgroup8436 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    eCaptain Park 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @deborahramaphala9056
    @deborahramaphala9056 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not a laughing matter post traumatic stress that is why we have so many problems as the nation .After this you need to do a bideo how can you heal

  • @keneilwemotiang5075
    @keneilwemotiang5075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even Boitumelong was one of the most corrupt schools in Tembisa

  • @kimberlybobotha5991
    @kimberlybobotha5991 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How old was this boy ?Haibo ,I am struggling to feel sorry for him .

  • @halala44
    @halala44 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    100k 😉God bless you.

  • @mphorikhotso3970
    @mphorikhotso3970 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am here to mark Th Agenda Network Register

  • @akon9819
    @akon9819 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jabu vuka!

  • @zizibaby100
    @zizibaby100 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You still need time to heal. I think there is something spiritual there. No need for sangoma but go straight to your lineage. phahla and thank the voice that kept on waking you up. And ask your ancestors to introduce you to that voice. Yekela uJesu for now. Its GOD and your angels(ancestors). My story is the same. To me the gun did not shoot when it when it was placed on my forehead. But when i moved away it shot.

    • @ab_reffak
      @ab_reffak ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea maybe visit Cofimvaba for some fresh air

  • @charlottenkosi2730
    @charlottenkosi2730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    are the subtitles not on on this epi

  • @KatlegoMac
    @KatlegoMac ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn. What a story.

  • @djstumzasa_
    @djstumzasa_ ปีที่แล้ว

    eTembisa they would say ugirl umshaye ngomuthi

  • @davidart3514
    @davidart3514 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I miss Tony Montana

  • @sithandiweozzy6119
    @sithandiweozzy6119 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He shot you because ufike ungekho uthunyiwe wabuya 6PM so I think wayecabanga ukuthi uyojola

  • @miss_yolzz
    @miss_yolzz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm addicted to these story and i have listened to thousands. But here ayi something doesn't add up I'm sorry! If she doesn't have a low iq level and if she's not psychologically impacted than ayi

  • @koketsomokoena5982
    @koketsomokoena5982 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tembisa ✊

  • @ManDownSA
    @ManDownSA ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Someone new okay okay

  • @sinethembamagasela1833
    @sinethembamagasela1833 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm enjoying this laddy's story telling, however her laughter somehow it's disturbing me, every 2seconds she's laughing I can't focus

  • @user-lv4yf1jw3g
    @user-lv4yf1jw3g 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢

  • @nyeleticecilia1152
    @nyeleticecilia1152 ปีที่แล้ว

    He shot u b4 you got arrested?

  • @edition_subject
    @edition_subject ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Online

  • @clivemchunu528
    @clivemchunu528 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Are you dating now?

    • @vuvuleem_2219
      @vuvuleem_2219 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂

    • @clivemchunu528
      @clivemchunu528 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vuvuleem_2219 🤗 come on talk to me

  • @thatomofokeng316
    @thatomofokeng316 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahle nothing is adding up here.o Maka girl

  • @TheKing-hp7mh
    @TheKing-hp7mh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ngicathi niyabonake girls ukuthi indoda enentombi eyodwa it's a red flag🚩🚩🚩🚩, niyoze nife ngenxa yezishimane

    • @thipimotsoare4228
      @thipimotsoare4228 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 And a girl with one boyfriend 🚩🚩🚩

    • @TheKing-hp7mh
      @TheKing-hp7mh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thipimotsoare4228 hhayi vele kumele nibe Na 1 boyfriend angithi nibaningi kunathi, Kantike futhi akaze sibe khona isithembu samadoda

  • @samukelosmangaliso2104
    @samukelosmangaliso2104 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lesi Story asiyenzi i sense,akekho umuntu ongak'dubula nje ungenzanga lutho futhi boyfriend yakho ay ngeke

    • @murielchauke4181
      @murielchauke4181 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Man still beat you when you confront him about his wrong doings like asking if he’s cheating so please don’t think it doesn’t happen coz it does

    • @sinothandomhlamvu3763
      @sinothandomhlamvu3763 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indoda can kill you for being 5 minutes late endlini niyakwaz loko

  • @vusimthalane9299
    @vusimthalane9299 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow wamuhle what's her name?

  • @ZoeJack451
    @ZoeJack451 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤🕯

  • @vikriah527
    @vikriah527 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subtitles

  • @bahangwelenekhumbe5281
    @bahangwelenekhumbe5281 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jabu vuka 😂

  • @nombusodladla7672
    @nombusodladla7672 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mmmm😢😢😢

  • @sphamandlazungu2159
    @sphamandlazungu2159 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jabu ❤

  • @teechuene7297
    @teechuene7297 ปีที่แล้ว

    My school bathong

  • @m2discoveredmortal689
    @m2discoveredmortal689 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This story gives me cringes-
    How far do we know this one is a legit story..the problem that the guy was having to have to commit suicide. And kill his love of his life. I sense loop holes.

  • @teechuene7297
    @teechuene7297 ปีที่แล้ว

    My school bathong