My older sister hipped me to coffee dates, she said don't take these chicks to dinner, take em out for coffee to get to know them. If a chick scoffs about you being cheap it means she's not really into you and just wanted to use you to stuff her face at a fancy restaurant! Dudes have caught on and are fed up!!
She says “I don’t know who you are so why would I come into your house on a first date” but then says men who don’t want to spend $100+ on a first date are “cheap” when I literally don’t know you 😐 Walking contradiction…
A man not spending money on them is like rejection. It tells them that they’re not worth more than a cup of coffee. They know they’re not so they’ll shame and complain,
Agreed….. no one basically wants to get played nowadays, especially with the help of the internet. Women don’t want cheap dates and men don’t want to waste time & money 💰 so it’s all bad frfr unless y’all make some serious connections fr to make y’all wanna do for EACH OTHER!!!
Pro Tip: The man she likes, gets free box and is the winner, but the man she doesn’t pays for her time and dinner. These women are in business while the men are hoping for the Disney dream.
Free box bro. Hes got abs so hes getting bjs and skeeting on her face and chest. You Capitol grill and ruth chris bros cant even get a kiss on the cheek!!!! Im hollering out in pain because I was that brotha!
As a man in my 50s who's made many mistakes involving them, I just have so much disdain for them. I don't want to be around them. I don't open doors. I don't ever let them catch me looking at them. If they drop a personal item by accident I would just step over it. I don't try to make small talk. Nothing. I feel for them the same way they feel about me. Just disgusting, immature, evil, and manipulative FeFails.
Facts. But don't have disdain for them what thats doing is living in your head rent-free. It's a creature you must understand, not hate. Wmn will disappoint you they only hurt you when your expectations are high and your emotions are in the driver's seat of your decision-making. If you've been bitten by a couple of dogs in the neighborhood, that means you have a disdain for all dogs or understand it?
@@baruch12dta-xt2gp Brother I don't have any relationship with the FeFails that are "related" to me. This includes the males in that family with effiminate/ b*tchy behavior.
I've never taken a woman out on a coffee date. But this has always worked for me, take a woman to a pool hall and you pay for the drinks. Beat her in a few games of pool and maybe darts. Flirt, crack jokes, competitive trash talk her...Have her play music on the jukebox of the place. I guarantee you are going to clap the first or second night. This worked for me at least 10 times.
Nothing wrong with a coffee date. If you are dating, it's up to you. Especially if you're inviting her and getting to know her. It's not her pursuing you, she doesn't get to say what gets done. And if she makes it through the 1st date then MAYBE you'll consider something for her next time.
Don't worry about it. It's no difference from highschool when the girls would have their any women meetings in class, trying to persuade the masses that theyre somehow victims. Just keep it moving.
I invited a girl over she bleeed in my bed I think she did it on purpose but anyhow she need everything she even took my favorite cup, I feel they are here to take break & shake shake that booty and shake and move 😂
What's up Opinion Seeker's,I notice that a lot to of guy's don't even consider what type of spiritual atmosphere he really want to be in taking on all female demons because because he want to be laid easily he'll sacrifice his soul.a woman of a good spiritual nature she'll know when a man of God would sit his butt down once he get the woman that wants to see him with his crown. only ignorant female try to tear a good man down.
So we don't know each other "well enough" for you to invite me to your place or you to mine, but DO know each other enough for me to part with my time and money enough to feed you well? The hamster wheel never stops gentlemen.....
Imagine marrying them. All she'll do is sit on the couch all day and zap through channels, suck up all the air and run up your amex business card while she saves her money
When I flew to bogota Colombian to meet my black Colombian la dy for the first time, (we met via a reputable romance agency) she arrived at el dorado intl airport 2 hours before I arrived and in the taxi she said to me. We both like coffee, yes? Let’s get to know each over delicious Colombian coffee at juan Valdez coffee shop. And that was our first date and it lasted 3 hours and many cups of coffee. Did you notice that she suggested coffee? This is the difference between the “in your pocket modern American hyena “ nand a sweet and modest Latina. Get your passports and leave these hyenas to deal with the Ps and Rs! They are meant for each other!!!
Men should be prudent with how they spend their money. If you give a woman too much in the beginning, she's going to expect you to spend as much or more each time. Better to deal only with women who can deal with you not spending too much on them.
Brother Black Ram, and the Brethren! These Broads continue to believe they are entitled to a man’s resources no matter how entitled and repugnant her behavior. The absolute nerve of these female 🥷! 💪🏾👊🏾👍🏾
they took busy sleeping with Pokey being an independent hot girl" I offer this girl a ride she said im not pressed I can call a Uber ' I said okay Ms independent 😭🤣 she took it a compliment Lol
The coffee date is a part of the vetting process and they don't want you to vet them. They want you chasing and spending wild and declaring undying love with wild gestures, then you're a stalker and a creep to the others ladies at their job, so their self esteem is built at your expense. Don't let their demands take you down that road. Oh and BlackRam, I'm just waiting on that next episode of "No wife, no kids, no problems" 👍👍
THANK YOU. Was about to type the same thing. Men have adapted. We've heard stories about being used for "foodie dates" and have adapted. I don't understand why they don't have the men they truly "desire" ie sexually attracted to - take them out on expensive dates.
The funny thing is that a lot of chicks want dudes to be a "tabula rasa" ...........just sitting around waiting for the next person to use him as she sees fit.
If you go back 75 years you’ll barely find a song performed by a woman declaring her love for a man, however you’ll find hundreds if not thousands of songs where men profess their deep love for a woman.
I’m 56 years old. My family members try to shame me for not wanting to get married. Men should either be celibate or smash multiple fefails. Fefails are a liability, not an asset.
Buying her some Rally's or Popeyes, a dime bag and her alcoholic beverage of choice is about as romantic as I'm gonna get when I'm coming through for the Friday or Saturday night bussdown session 😅😅
“Don’t know you well enough to come over” well sweetheart I don’t know you well enough to buy you coffee bye ✌🏾. Don’t spend a penny on these jezebels, stay cold brothers
All brothers of all ages need to hear this!I would love my widowed father to hear this but he won't listen to this.he still listens to 70s R&B and still tries to teach me how to date these "creatures" and I'm 46 yo😅.been telling him since mom passed in 2020 the dating game is completely different than those days.Watched him make a fool of himself for them for 2 yrs but I have noticed he doesn't go out anymore for the last few months.I think he threw in the towel but won't admit it due to his pride.i support him either way but he needs to hear and understand this for his own sanity.I've accepted it and have never been happier!SYSBM!!!
I’m surprise men still date in the US lol.. just date overseas for relationships and marriage and in the US just keep it transactional and everyone gets what they want
Brothers keep your heart in your chest and your money in your wallet. Work on yourself love yourself brother. Endgame this shit a wrap Just let them be. To Black Ram keep bringing the heat.
Next= "Butta Love," Keith Sweat= "I'm not ready" Avant= "Don't say No" Jodeci= "You and I" BBD= "I Want U, I Need U" R. Kelly= "Half on a B..." Although I love my Greats; I've grown pass.the Delusion of heart & soul, and been accepted Reality for what it is. "Real Pill!"😎
It's a glutton for punishment dealing with these dysfunctional and corrupted 304s and defeats the purpose of be more peaceful and dealing with no f*ckery & foolery. The end
7:51 - from a moralistic standpoint, it is not evolution but de-evolution. By taking the aspect of romanticism, you remove the part of the relationship in which both the man and the woman live for the union. By caring only about the superficiality, a woman is nothing more than a 1980’s corporate raider who buys a company, pockets the pension funds, sells of a company into little pieces then parties with the money in the DR. As a matter of practicality then, if a man evokes or devolves along those same lines, then he just pumps and dumps. As a result, relationships are dead and sex becomes nothing more than a bowel movement.
If you're a working woman then you don't qualify for a provider. You ARE a provider. Some women still don't realize that working for money is the modern version of hunting and gathering, bartering, and every preceding form of procuring resources. It's not just some self-indulgent hobby meant to bring you mental fulfilment. It's meant to be used to generate the means to trade, first and foremost.
Men need to STOP interacting with these broads completely. As long as men continue to entertain these creatures, nothing will change. They should be grateful a man invites them anywhere today. The entitlement is off the charts. They expect the most, just for existing. I'm completely turned off by the mindset of today's women.
BW truly have an issue with anything regarding frugality. It stands to reason that they have the highest consumer debt when measured against other groups
RAM...I was just thinking a couple of weeks ago...I can't name NOT ONE female Music Composer, who write music talking about their LOVE for Men. but you can find infinite male Composers talking about their love for a woman/or women.
Whitney Houston Toni Braxton Anita Baker Janet Jackson............lol I mean wtf are we talking about here??? But yet again these female artists were runner ups in the 90s scene.
My vow to myself when I was 17 " Love doesn't exist in this world so metaphorical I will turn what I keep precious into greed" Now that Im 31 the only thing that changed is my patients to deal with this bs.
Love the title Ram and have been saying this!! Us as men shouldn't already moved past all this lovey dovey stuff. More hos than housewives out here, IF any. Im not sure why men are even still looking and talking about it. You hit 🎯 today, it's NOTHING there. A walking talking empty endless hole. Fye convo today!🔥🔥🔥
I think this was always how women were and the romantic stuff was essentially pushed onto them. They care about looks, resources, and status. They never cared about matters of the heart.
"Youre My Everything" "I Could Never Love Another" "I Wish it Would Rain" "Save Me From This Misery" All written by Rodger Penzabene. The record (I Wish It Would Rain) was released in late December of 1967. A week later, on New Year’s Eve, Rodger Penzabene committed suicide at the age of 22 over a woman who cheated on him and left him.
@@Dreweybaby they are def aren't worth it. I've been heart broken before but never suicidal. So many men past and present have deleted themselves over 304 but not too many cases like that on flip. In fact they would off the man instead of themselves. Just think this guy and several others gave us some of the most beautiful music ever written due to heart break. In contrast they give us "Before He Cheats" -Carrie Underwood, "These Boots are Made For Walking"-Nancy Sinatra, "Bust Your Windows"-Jazzy Sullivan, "Irreplaceable" - Beyonce, "Bad Blood"-Taylor Swift, "I Should of Cheated"-Keisha Cole. The majority are violent or about getting revenge not so much about love.
Marvin Gaye! I'm 63 in two days.And after going around the world in 1981I said I would never Chase a American woman in my life.Even now I still haven't.
In some countries, offering coffee is a romantic gesture ... there are better women without hood dramatizations (that won't try to twist everything men do into malice) in other countries. Passports are important. Black women are only entitled to what they physically earn, everything else deserves gratitude from them (which is something they are devoid of) ...
Men have to evolve to understand we were trained back in the day to chase the Box. We gave them value of the BOX. They want the Pipe just like we chased the Box. Once we flip the script to valuing our Pipe like they value their Box. That's the only way things will change. Self Discipline is the Key. After you hit a few Boxes. Stop Chasin and work on your Personal Goals for the Future. Small Business, ect. Believe me they want the Pipe more than you Think.
I am cheap while also very generous, you (ladies) have to be vetted and or put through your paces, "do or do not there is no try " master yoda 👍🏿 these new millennium women get new millennium rules. I do not actively date, i also have a modest stable that knows me, what im about that i do not mind counseling and coupling with, wasnt easy I'm who i am with everyone, not just someone. 👍🏿🍻
Her: “we don’t even know each other why would I come into your home?” Umm ma’am, that same attitude you have about coming over is the same attitude I have about your hand in my pocket
If you notice, all the great 70s 80s 90s soul/rnb music wasnt about how much money or flashy things one had..It was situational, relatable and realistic. Rnb artist now sing like trap rappers..
Bro that’s a fact. I never thought about it that way. I have slept with over 100 women based on my looks. I’m only 5’9 and have a bald head, but I have a handsome face and dress well. So that’s what got me the ladies. But even with me being a player I always wanted that deep connection. I thought women wanted that too. Back in the days they just dealt with it because of the attention and mainly because they needed us to survive. Now that they can support themselves, is when they are showing their true colors. I’m glad I dogged out most of them when I was doing me
Last note my current women bought my flowers as to say in her words. "NO one appreciates black men and gives them flowers until they are gone and i wanted to say thank you and give you these tears in her eyes. She also got some flower for her father and told him the same thing. Get out of America fellas. Its over for them.
My older sister hipped me to coffee dates, she said don't take these chicks to dinner, take em out for coffee to get to know them. If a chick scoffs about you being cheap it means she's not really into you and just wanted to use you to stuff her face at a fancy restaurant! Dudes have caught on and are fed up!!
Kudos to yo sister you gotta ❤ her
Lmao the Jig is up 😂
I knew dinner dates were a scam but once she’s my gf that’s when it’s harder to tell.
That's right I don't care if you got millions of dollars you have to take your time with women
I couldn’t have said it better
She says “I don’t know who you are so why would I come into your house on a first date” but then says men who don’t want to spend $100+ on a first date are “cheap” when I literally don’t know you 😐 Walking contradiction…
A man not spending money on them is like rejection. It tells them that they’re not worth more than a cup of coffee. They know they’re not so they’ll shame and complain,
This same fefail has probably had one-night-stands……THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!😂
Agreed….. no one basically wants to get played nowadays, especially with the help of the internet. Women don’t want cheap dates and men don’t want to waste time & money 💰 so it’s all bad frfr unless y’all make some serious connections fr to make y’all wanna do for EACH OTHER!!!
Facts 💯
They love financially irresponsible men. That's why they date street dudes and prefer men with no kids
"Men are in love, women are in business" Coach Greg Adams
Nah son...fkdeez304s
@@rodneyharvey8938 🤣factz!
Men want sex as easy as possible
Who TF really cares do what you gotta do
Pro Tip: The man she likes, gets free box and is the winner, but the man she doesn’t pays for her time and dinner.
These women are in business while the men are hoping for the Disney dream.
Free box bro. Hes got abs so hes getting bjs and skeeting on her face and chest. You Capitol grill and ruth chris bros cant even get a kiss on the cheek!!!! Im hollering out in pain because I was that brotha!
@@billfortune1978 This is why I say, the decent dudes need not clean up. They're just a tool to provide experiences to a recycled bird.
Neither are a flex
I said the same thing. Me being guilty alot of men were boys thinking we have to be like the Disney movies.... Whole time we were being programmed
As a man in my 50s who's made many mistakes involving them, I just have so much disdain for them. I don't want to be around them. I don't open doors. I don't ever let them catch me looking at them. If they drop a personal item by accident I would just step over it. I don't try to make small talk. Nothing. I feel for them the same way they feel about me. Just disgusting, immature, evil, and manipulative FeFails.
Facts. But don't have disdain for them what thats doing is living in your head rent-free. It's a creature you must understand, not hate.
Wmn will disappoint you they only hurt you when your expectations are high and your emotions are in the driver's seat of your decision-making. If you've been bitten by a couple of dogs in the neighborhood, that means you have a disdain for all dogs or understand it?
@@alsimmons1650 Thank you Brother. I will heed your advice and make adjustments. You're correct.
Same here,, I stay far away from them like a disease.. I can't stand them at all,, I don't even look at them because they are the ENEMY..
@@baruch12dta-xt2gp Brother I don't have any relationship with the FeFails that are "related" to me. This includes the males in that family with effiminate/ b*tchy behavior.
@@MyDk2009 same here,, my family can go to he'll..I was the black sheep.
I've never taken a woman out on a coffee date. But this has always worked for me, take a woman to a pool hall and you pay for the drinks. Beat her in a few games of pool and maybe darts. Flirt, crack jokes, competitive trash talk her...Have her play music on the jukebox of the place. I guarantee you are going to clap the first or second night. This worked for me at least 10 times.
I don't want any woman who consumes drugs
Nothing wrong with a coffee date. If you are dating, it's up to you. Especially if you're inviting her and getting to know her. It's not her pursuing you, she doesn't get to say what gets done. And if she makes it through the 1st date then MAYBE you'll consider something for her next time.
You're a simp for buying drinks.
and you're probably a tall and handsome pause guy 😭
You sounds like you’re looking for love and deep connections 😂😂😂
The irony is women will shame a man they know has checked out of the dating scene...or relationships in general.
Some dudes as well, "ahh you can't puss" "you're scared to get woman " blah blah
It’s because there are less simps to use. It’s a silent rejection to their so-called queanhood.
Women need men like a fish needs water. But they play all these foolish games which is all a projection of insecurity
Don't worry about it. It's no difference from highschool when the girls would have their any women meetings in class, trying to persuade the masses that theyre somehow victims. Just keep it moving.
😅 that's funny they would say that he's p-whooped.😂
When you fall in love you become emotionally weak.
I took my woman on a coffee,I even let her pay for her own coffee…still going strong 7 years later
My man💪🏾
That’s how you do it
Good woman 🫱🔥🔥🔥
Everybody just needs to turn down the volume on these delusional blk women. There is nothing appealing about them at all
The 90's r&b was the delusion that set us up for the pain of the reality
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👍
Straight facts
Exactly 💯🎯
💯 put that woman 1st, when a woman's fed up, ect.. Big simpin
I don't give a damn what women think nor want. 💯 " I don't even invite women to my house with they bad spirit . " 🤷🏿♂️ #Hotelwilldo
FACTS
I invited a girl over she bleeed in my bed I think she did it on purpose but anyhow she need everything she even took my favorite cup, I feel they are here to take break & shake shake that booty and shake and move 😂
Yeah I don't bring women to my apartment . They get smashed in the back seat of my toyota.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
What's up Opinion Seeker's,I notice that a lot to of guy's don't even consider what type of spiritual atmosphere he really want to be in taking on all female demons because because he want to be laid easily he'll sacrifice his soul.a woman of a good spiritual nature she'll know when a man of God would sit his butt down once he get the woman that wants to see him with his crown. only ignorant female try to tear a good man down.
So we don't know each other "well enough" for you to invite me to your place or you to mine, but DO know each other enough for me to part with my time and money enough to feed you well? The hamster wheel never stops gentlemen.....
Imagine marrying them. All she'll do is sit on the couch all day and zap through channels, suck up all the air and run up your amex business card while she saves her money
Ram, I'm 45. 1978 like you bro. It's like we are echoing each other. They're beasts.
Bums.
All my first dates are coffee dates. If she declines, I keep it pushing. Some of these broads aren't worth more than a cup of coffee...
As high as Starbucks is...most aren't worth that
Some aren't worth more than a bottle of water
FACTS
NO DINNER DATES!
I drink gas station coffee so
How dare he even CONSIDER splitting the bill with a strong empowered woman who makes the same amount of money as he does!
HA ha ha
😂😂
When I flew to bogota Colombian to meet my black Colombian la dy for the first time, (we met via a reputable romance agency) she arrived at el dorado intl airport 2 hours before I arrived and in the taxi she said to me. We both like coffee, yes? Let’s get to know each over delicious Colombian coffee at juan Valdez coffee shop. And that was our first date and it lasted 3 hours and many cups of coffee. Did you notice that she suggested coffee? This is the difference between the “in your pocket modern American hyena “ nand a sweet and modest Latina. Get your passports and leave these hyenas to deal with the Ps and Rs! They are meant for each other!!!
I checked out about 3 years ago after my last relationship. It aint no love out here its gone forever.
I agree bro. I'm done too
Let’s not spend any money on dates! Let’s not waste our money on tricks fellas
Yes. A $5 coffee is worth more than anything the creature has to give.
Men should be prudent with how they spend their money. If you give a woman too much in the beginning, she's going to expect you to spend as much or more each time. Better to deal only with women who can deal with you not spending too much on them.
Brother Black Ram, and the Brethren! These Broads continue to believe they are entitled to a man’s resources no matter how entitled and repugnant her behavior. The absolute nerve of these female 🥷! 💪🏾👊🏾👍🏾
They're not entitled to anything but d and bubble gum. And I'm all out of bubble gum.
It's true most women don't prioritize love over what you are willing to spend on them and the amount of attention you can offer them.
That’s because love is a hope strategy. It’s a word that means many emotional things that can be used to manipulate men
they took busy sleeping with Pokey being an independent hot girl" I offer this girl a ride she said im not pressed I can call a Uber ' I said okay Ms independent 😭🤣 she took it a compliment Lol
The coffee date is a part of the vetting process and they don't want you to vet them. They want you chasing and spending wild and declaring undying love with wild gestures, then you're a stalker and a creep to the others ladies at their job, so their self esteem is built at your expense. Don't let their demands take you down that road. Oh and BlackRam, I'm just waiting on that next episode of "No wife, no kids, no problems" 👍👍
THANK YOU. Was about to type the same thing. Men have adapted. We've heard stories about being used for "foodie dates" and have adapted. I don't understand why they don't have the men they truly "desire" ie sexually attracted to - take them out on expensive dates.
No coffee dates
Certified Hood Classic
Now I know why women always saying "If love ain't like 90s RnB I don't want it "
They only wanted to receive...
Those 304s use " love" to get what they can outta you
They always leave something out as to why it's best for men to do things that way...they don't listen
The funny thing is that a lot of chicks want dudes to be a "tabula rasa" ...........just sitting around waiting for the next person to use him as she sees fit.
This is unbelievable 😂😂😂 boy these women feel ENTITLED to these gestures now!
Why does he owe you something for a conversation. Thats all it is. We dont know each other why am I buying you food.
Most of them are worth nun more than fun a night drinking chilling and monkey dancing til we ready to do it again
If you go back 75 years you’ll barely find a song performed by a woman declaring her love for a man, however you’ll find hundreds if not thousands of songs where men profess their deep love for a woman.
Thats because vvomen date for survival.. we love them for them
@@Dreweybabyand they love what we do for them.
@@TheeGemstone bingo
Mama Thorpe was making songs about love and others but you have a great point sir.
@@mateaukalua4426 Momma Thorpe🤔 What century was this?
In the last days the LOVE of many will wax cold...
I’m 56 years old. My family members try to shame me for not wanting to get married. Men should either be celibate or smash multiple fefails. Fefails are a liability, not an asset.
They tease n shame you because its possible that you might have figured out what's going on. It threatens their business of slavery.
Same here bruh! Don't let their words get to you. I prefer you happy and sane than sprung and mentally unstable.
They just keep running they mouth. 😂😂😂
Wining and dining on the first date is the “I’m not really into you tax”. It’s a charge for their time.
Love is a thing of the past #RealPill
What's love got to do with it? Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken??
It never existed. Its always been just a dream.
Buying her some Rally's or Popeyes, a dime bag and her alcoholic beverage of choice is about as romantic as I'm gonna get when I'm coming through for the Friday or Saturday night bussdown session 😅😅
Oh,shit lol
😂😂 yeah standard cost of doing business. Excellent return on investment 💯
they know they becomes a man property they want to be free"
DATE WOMEN ON A 🌧 RAINY DAY AND THEY CANT SAY SHT ABOUT WERE THE DATE ENDS UP AT.
As CGA says: "it's a wrapski"
They just want a free meal out of men 😂😂
or they'll call u cheap
Even worse, they essentially want a free *existence* out of men & others. It's pure parasitism.
“Don’t know you well enough to come over” well sweetheart I don’t know you well enough to buy you coffee bye ✌🏾. Don’t spend a penny on these jezebels, stay cold brothers
Definitely! NO DINNER DATES!
our gender built the world they live in, comfortability ...WE OWE THEM NOTHING.
EL DEBARGE for me.
Why does it need to be expensive to date? If women were made to pay for all 1st dates the free public parks would be full.
All brothers of all ages need to hear this!I would love my widowed father to hear this but he won't listen to this.he still listens to 70s R&B and still tries to teach me how to date these "creatures" and I'm 46 yo😅.been telling him since mom passed in 2020 the dating game is completely different than those days.Watched him make a fool of himself for them for 2 yrs but I have noticed he doesn't go out anymore for the last few months.I think he threw in the towel but won't admit it due to his pride.i support him either way but he needs to hear and understand this for his own sanity.I've accepted it and have never been happier!SYSBM!!!
Not my girl Ram she's different 😂😂😂
Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds. The king of simpin’ R&B
On another note, why don’t they realize how stupid them hair hats look
'I feel like' women are children with breasts😅
I’m surprise men still date in the US lol.. just date overseas for relationships and marriage and in the US just keep it transactional and everyone gets what they want
Exactly
Brothers keep your heart in your chest and your money in your wallet. Work on yourself love yourself brother. Endgame this shit a wrap Just let them be. To Black Ram keep bringing the heat.
Getting a coffee is a step toward an actual date. However, I agree he could at least (in good gesture) pay for the coffee.
Next= "Butta Love,"
Keith Sweat= "I'm not ready"
Avant= "Don't say No"
Jodeci= "You and I"
BBD= "I Want U, I Need U"
R. Kelly= "Half on a B..."
Although I love my Greats; I've grown pass.the Delusion of heart & soul, and been accepted Reality for what it is. "Real Pill!"😎
Facts bro!
What about jodeci- freakin u LOL that was my jam mane
Black street= "Blow my mind"
It's a glutton for punishment dealing with these dysfunctional and corrupted 304s and defeats the purpose of be more peaceful and dealing with no f*ckery & foolery. The end
7:51 - from a moralistic standpoint, it is not evolution but de-evolution. By taking the aspect of romanticism, you remove the part of the relationship in which both the man and the woman live for the union. By caring only about the superficiality, a woman is nothing more than a 1980’s corporate raider who buys a company, pockets the pension funds, sells of a company into little pieces then parties with the money in the DR. As a matter of practicality then, if a man evokes or devolves along those same lines, then he just pumps and dumps. As a result, relationships are dead and sex becomes nothing more than a bowel movement.
great sum up"' bro'
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
If you're a working woman then you don't qualify for a provider. You ARE a provider. Some women still don't realize that working for money is the modern version of hunting and gathering, bartering, and every preceding form of procuring resources. It's not just some self-indulgent hobby meant to bring you mental fulfilment. It's meant to be used to generate the means to trade, first and foremost.
The 20-80 rule is always in effect.
Those 304s don't care about you , they care about what you can bring , you are safy net and retired plan
Men need to STOP interacting with these broads completely. As long as men continue to entertain these creatures, nothing will change. They should be grateful a man invites them anywhere today. The entitlement is off the charts. They expect the most, just for existing. I'm completely turned off by the mindset of today's women.
I am not 50/50. The modern woman is not even worth the coffee or tea.
I agree
BW truly have an issue with anything regarding frugality. It stands to reason that they have the highest consumer debt when measured against other groups
Unfortunately...I have to agree...damned shame.
Facts
RAM...I was just thinking a couple of weeks ago...I can't name NOT ONE female Music Composer, who write music talking about their LOVE for Men. but you can find infinite male Composers talking about their love for a woman/or women.
Whitney Houston
Toni Braxton
Anita Baker
Janet Jackson............lol I mean wtf are we talking about here??? But yet again these female artists were runner ups in the 90s scene.
You women better get y'all mind right for being single. Most men ain't going for no bs. Men love unconditionally, and learn from failed ones.
My vow to myself when I was 17 " Love doesn't exist in this world so metaphorical I will turn what I keep precious into greed" Now that Im 31 the only thing that changed is my patients to deal with this bs.
You still want to protect and provide like it's the 1960's for a fefail that's built like a Dodge Ram 1500 in 2023? you got to be nuts.
Every time I hear big bro say,” the creature “! 🤭😭😭😭😭😭
Love the title Ram and have been saying this!! Us as men shouldn't already moved past all this lovey dovey stuff. More hos than housewives out here, IF any. Im not sure why men are even still looking and talking about it. You hit 🎯 today, it's NOTHING there. A walking talking empty endless hole. Fye convo today!🔥🔥🔥
Uncomfortable truth than a comfortable lie all day long bruva, this s#*t is cold to the bone make no mistake.👊🏽
I think this was always how women were and the romantic stuff was essentially pushed onto them. They care about looks, resources, and status. They never cared about matters of the heart.
As soon as she says a provider...do not bother
Ain't trying to be yall provider !
No more coffees, no wives in America
Man these women are sooo mad!!😂😂😂 They messed the game up and now they're upset lol
Imagine calling a man broke or cheap for expecting you to buy your own coffee
She's looking for a provider and don't want a man to tell her what to do. What a great deal.
"Youre My Everything"
"I Could Never Love Another"
"I Wish it Would Rain"
"Save Me From This Misery"
All written by Rodger Penzabene. The record (I Wish It Would Rain) was released in late December of 1967. A week later, on New Year’s Eve, Rodger Penzabene committed suicide at the age of 22 over a woman who cheated on him and left him.
Wow
God danggg
@@Dreweybaby He was only 22 years old.
@@fortunateson2 thats so wild to me..i never felt that way about a vvoman at that age.. fvck em they not worth it
@@Dreweybaby they are def aren't worth it. I've been heart broken before but never suicidal. So many men past and present have deleted themselves over 304 but not too many cases like that on flip. In fact they would off the man instead of themselves. Just think this guy and several others gave us some of the most beautiful music ever written due to heart break. In contrast they give us "Before He Cheats" -Carrie Underwood, "These Boots are Made For Walking"-Nancy Sinatra, "Bust Your Windows"-Jazzy Sullivan, "Irreplaceable" - Beyonce, "Bad Blood"-Taylor Swift, "I Should of Cheated"-Keisha Cole. The majority are violent or about getting revenge not so much about love.
Marvin Gaye! I'm 63 in two days.And after going around the world in 1981I said I would never Chase a American woman in my life.Even now I still haven't.
These creatures love to project on to men what they do!
don't listen to women, they didn't build this world
i am 71 a widower after 49 years of marrage / having big problems finding a good american black woman my age 50 -70s to re marry FACT
Thanks to spaces like yours Brotha Ram,and other's I'm down 75lbs bringing in over 100k and now looking to get the investment game on point
Index funds are 👏. Congratulations on dropping the weight
@markswift thanks brotha
Stoic life baby!
"feel"
"feel"
"feeeeeeel"
Never "think" you dont have to reason with feelings, you do have to reason with thoughts.
Why should a man be a provider for a grown @$$ Woman in America where a Woman has all the opportunity to make as much money as a man?
Well Said, Family!!!
Salute big bro
In some countries, offering coffee is a romantic gesture ... there are better women without hood dramatizations (that won't try to twist everything men do into malice) in other countries. Passports are important. Black women are only entitled to what they physically earn, everything else deserves gratitude from them (which is something they are devoid of) ...
Men have to evolve to understand we were trained back in the day to chase the Box. We gave them value of the BOX. They want the Pipe just like we chased the Box. Once we flip the script to valuing our Pipe like they value their Box. That's the only way things will change. Self Discipline is the Key. After you hit a few Boxes. Stop Chasin and work on your Personal Goals for the Future. Small Business, ect. Believe me they want the Pipe more than you Think.
You can't even meet women in person any more it's like there in a relationship with each other.
I am cheap while also very generous, you (ladies) have to be vetted and or put through your paces, "do or do not there is no try " master yoda 👍🏿 these new millennium women get new millennium rules. I do not actively date, i also have a modest stable that knows me, what im about that i do not mind counseling and coupling with, wasnt easy I'm who i am with everyone, not just someone. 👍🏿🍻
Damn ram u must be in shape to be able to walk and not be sweating out there in this heat
The Walk and Talks are #CLASSIC 🔥🔥🔥Ram!!! Keep em going! ✌
Her: “we don’t even know each other why would I come into your home?”
Umm ma’am, that same attitude you have about coming over is the same attitude I have about your hand in my pocket
If you notice, all the great 70s 80s 90s soul/rnb music wasnt about how much money or flashy things one had..It was situational, relatable and realistic. Rnb artist now sing like trap rappers..
Brother speaking gospel
Proverbs 31:3
“Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.”
Bro that’s a fact. I never thought about it that way. I have slept with over 100 women based on my looks. I’m only 5’9 and have a bald head, but I have a handsome face and dress well. So that’s what got me the ladies.
But even with me being a player I always wanted that deep connection. I thought women wanted that too. Back in the days they just dealt with it because of the attention and mainly because they needed us to survive. Now that they can support themselves, is when they are showing their true colors. I’m glad I dogged out most of them when I was doing me
Went on a date and we met at the gym. We had the best workout together. Pushed it beyond the limits together. Best date ever!
Last note my current women bought my flowers as to say in her words. "NO one appreciates black men and gives them flowers until they are gone and i wanted to say thank you and give you these tears in her eyes. She also got some flower for her father and told him the same thing. Get out of America fellas. Its over for them.
Thanks! Facts Ram
Thank you. I appreciate that bro
YHWH is using this brother tremendously, thank you brother Ram, acceptance is the road to peace 🕊️🙏🏾
Stay blessed family
NO DINNER DATES!
Lol black ram broke the 4th wall at 19:37 next times you do a video can you do one with the dog ear filter 🤣 thanks in advance
And those lashes scream I don't have good sense or enough vision to see that ish looks a fool and I don't finish anything