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I am so sad for all of the people who are yearning to be connected to someone else in love, but are afraid of failing at it or of being rejected. The way of the world has us so messed up💔💔💔
45:38 Men pull away because they lack the communication skills and emotional maturity necessary for a healthy relationship. So it seems like it’s a pretty good screening tool. They pull away because they can’t or won’t give you the kind of relationship you want. Re-absorb whatever fantasies you’ve projected onto him and walk away. He’s looking for a mommy.
I need him. He's amazing. My kids aren't his biologically, but he loves them. So one day I could see he was worried that he wouldn't be able to fully enjoy the football game he really wanted to pay attention to, so I started leaving with the kids and made him some yummy snacks, and he said "where you going?" And I said "I want you to enjoy the football game so I'm taking kids to the park." He watched the game with his friend and texted me that he missed me. The kids and I came back before it was fully over and we all got to watch the pivotal moment in the game in overtime and we all celebrated together. Jumping, shouting, etc. he said he was so happy we came back to see that with him. And next game he made snacks and asked us to stay and watch with him. Now we all love football. Especially my boys
Sometimes men just need a little space because they start feeling like a caged animal so he pulls away. Let him if it’s love he’ll be back but do not pursue.
Reason #1: he’s a player only out for the conquest. Avoid this kind of guy. Reason #2: 4:52 he noticed something that made him think you two weren’t compatible and didn’t have the maturity to discuss the issue with you Reason #3: 10:42 (occurs less often)he is having authentic loving feelings that he’s not used to because he’s never experienced it as strongly as he does with you (especially if he’s avoidant). If you can identify and talk about it, it can deepen the relationship. Or-if he’s used to playing the feminine role and suddenly the polarities are reversed, he may freak because he doesn’t know how to or doesn’t want to step into the masculine role, he may want to stay a little boy and be taken care of & live a life of pleasure. Run in the other direction. Give your man an opportunity to step up and be your hero. Ask for advice or come to him with a problem (ex: my car is making a noise). Masculine energy thrives in having meaning and purpose, in making you happy. Reason #5: 38:19 fear of losing independence or making the wrong choice
Im an older woman 50, im not wanting to get married or make a family,..my kids are adults now. It is so hard to find men around my age bracket...they just want to play the field too ... whether they've been through divorce and dislike all women, or they are so set in their ways that it is too much for them to think of something developing slowly. I dont bother with dating apps,..i only see what is handed out to me through work or friends. Its a sad dating world out there im afraid...
Going through a divorce now, after realizing my husband prefers to be in his feminine and won’t change. I have been through burnout twice due to being in my masculine energy too much
Girl, same. Thankfully he was just a boyfriend. He wants me to chase and cater to him. I snapped when I couldn’t even get him to buy me a sandwich without him wanting to look into my bank account. Told him to fucking leave after I paid my rent and bills. A friend let me borrow 20 bucks so I could buy food before I got paid and he asked me to buy him a sandwich even though he has money. He needs to hurry up and get the rest of his shit out before I throw it out.
A divorce is so final. How about a separation? You need to know this upswing in feminization of men is a spiritual issue. I don't know if you are a believer but the Bible says the devil is trying to destroy humanity. He attacks all areas but especially relationships. Especially marriage because marriage is a God given covenant. Read Ephesians 6:12 & you'll get the picture.
You know, I've decided to not try and figure men out or understand stuff like this. Let's face it, if a man is worth putting in this much effort for then he'll also be doing the research....which means he wouldn't be pulling away in the first place. So my most basic rule now is to not give anything away until I've established where the guy is as and what he wants. Most men I come across these days are unfortunately expecting fun up front and actually get angry when you don't play along. So silly. I'm also exhausted from analysing myself all the time. I'm a single mom and I have to look after stuff on my own. If that pushes men away then what on earth am i supposed to do. The right guy will see through all of that. It's really beyond exhausting x appreciate your content through but I'm so tired of all this. X
I agree. At some point you do have to give it up to a higher power because we are doing everything we think we should do right, except just being ourselves. And I believe that you can simply just be yourself with the right person, warts and “needy behavior” and all🩷
Anything can become tiring.. it’s a sign you’re putting out to much effort.. education will help you make decisions without having a boatload of feelings. If you understand and know when to engage or pull away, then you have more control over how you feel and not turn into a crazybitch because you don’t know why, When you know why they acting a way,you can make sound decisions that don’t hurt yourself..
I think what it does is it helps us women who are emotionally charged, to understand and be able to safely be with someone or not be with someone.. If you don’t know, then you simply will not know how.. how to love or how to leave. It becomes overwhelming.. Feeding the woman brain with knowledge and understanding, allowing her to make decisions that are logical.. Just knowing some of this stuff makes you a higher value, because you are not getting worked up over things that would normally bother us.. Listen lady’s you don’t have to make it hard, just make yourself aware and emotionally tolerant ..
My boyfriend of 6 months ended our relationship to focus on his sobriety. He’s not ready for relationship, I get it we’ve been together since he went to rehab. Also first year relationship is t good idea I get it. He told me he doesn’t know what the future brings but right now we will be friends. I’m moving to his town and we will probably be together even as friends a lot if the time. I’m hoping as I get myself on a structured stabilized path he does same and we can rebuild from that. I love him so much and am willing to take it day by day.
A man says he loves to be pursued by women and they need to earn his attention, time with him, to go on dates together etc. He says it lets him know how invested she is in him and if they don’t want him that bad, they can move on. What do you think of that?
Imagine, if you did peruse and you guys had a relationship… or even marriage. He would need constant validation and attention. If you didn’t give it to him (he’d take it as a sign you’re giving it to someone else and he’d be entertaining any woman who did give it to him). Walk away now, unless you want to waste energy and time in constantly perusing and validating this guy.
This was such a beneficial discussion. ❤ May I ask a Question ?if i ask him to do something like check my car to see his masculine tendencies….isn’t that going against my feminine where im looking for an ‘outcome’ by testing him ?
Good question, the best thing (to operate from your feminine) is to share authentically something that you need help with or a problem and let him offer to solve it while being detached from if he actually does or not
you can try...but what i've seeing and studying is that men want to be specially masculine and fix things for the women he is attracted to! if you're not his type he will make an excuse or do it just because its the right thing to do, but not be happy about it. you can read his body language.
That’s the problem. He already has a purpose and is in his masculine. So I’m lower on the list of priorities and he’ll never step up no matter how feminine I am and masculine he is :/
@@Paoulait was a pretext as it opened up quickly enough. There are deeper reasons. The guy was actually married and was cheating with me. I ended it with him. There were signes. I ignored them. Will be wiser next time.
Super random but if everything was going well and he kept mentioning my birthday and the day of doesn’t wish happy birthday but likes photos… how does one stay in their feminine/ or decide to walk away. When asked in a graceful way if there was something going on he just said he’s been out of it but it’s nothing personal and wishing me a happy birthday weekend…
You have to make things fun for men to do it maybe even at times motivate him by saying baby help Me with the groceries and well shower together after so they have something to look forward to
I work with this man that showed me he was interested in me since I started working there. It’s been a slow progression since he seems a little backwards when it comes to relationships. I have used my feminine vulnerability skills to give him the opportunity to step up his game and he has. However, he gives me mixed signals, as sometimes he just doesn’t get it and he chooses to completely ignore me some days. Which makes me wonder if he’s lost interest and I end up more confused and frustrated than when we began our interactions, and he still hasn’t made the move. Any suggestions….? Thank you 🙏
I don’t mean to be rude. I have suggestions for you both coming from a retired speaker and training coordinator. Brody: I counted every time you said the work “like” in an incorrect manner. I quit counting at 50 times and the video was not even half way finished. My suggestion is for you to go back and listen to yourself. It is very distracting for your listeners. Yes, I am older (68 yrs old), but that is not a good habit to continue as a speaker. Anthony: I much prefer your individual videos. This duo video seemed kind of haphazard. You do a fantastic job with your individual videos because of your knowledge and the video is well organized. My intention is not to hurt or complain but to make your videos gain more diverse followers. Thank you 🦊.
Glib response isn't going to engage your audience. Some people actually post a question in the thread for real feedback, & readers who haven't yet subscribed are interested in your response.
@@violetdesmond-barrett5874 If he has trust issues then using feminine communication is going to be even more important to help him open up and come closer to you
Most women leave relationship first. Don't forget that often times these things are biase. A lot of women leave good men for bad men then wonder why. I have left more men than they have left me. Most divorced are initiated by women. And often times, when a man comes back a woman will have already moved on. Grow up and learn. Next 💯🙏
I think what it does is it helps us women who are emotionally charged, to understand and be able to safely be with someone or not be with someone.. If you don’t know, then you simply will not know how.. how to love or how to leave. It becomes overwhelming.. Feeding the woman brain with knowledge and understanding, allowing her to make decisions that are logical.. Just knowing some of this stuff makes you a higher value, because you are not getting worked up over things that would normally bother us.. Listen lady’s you don’t have to make it hard, just make yourself aware and emotionally tolerant ..
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Sometimes they just use you for an emotional boost.
I am so sad for all of the people who are yearning to be connected to someone else in love, but are afraid of failing at it or of being rejected. The way of the world has us so messed up💔💔💔
I agree. Social media made it even worse.
Yeah I’m a very stable normal girl and it’s impossible to find someone who I’m attracted to who is also a good man…
45:38 Men pull away because they lack the communication skills and emotional maturity necessary for a healthy relationship.
So it seems like it’s a pretty good screening tool.
They pull away because they can’t or won’t give you the kind of relationship you want.
Re-absorb whatever fantasies you’ve projected onto him and walk away. He’s looking for a mommy.
I need him. He's amazing. My kids aren't his biologically, but he loves them. So one day I could see he was worried that he wouldn't be able to fully enjoy the football game he really wanted to pay attention to, so I started leaving with the kids and made him some yummy snacks, and he said "where you going?" And I said "I want you to enjoy the football game so I'm taking kids to the park." He watched the game with his friend and texted me that he missed me. The kids and I came back before it was fully over and we all got to watch the pivotal moment in the game in overtime and we all celebrated together. Jumping, shouting, etc. he said he was so happy we came back to see that with him. And next game he made snacks and asked us to stay and watch with him. Now we all love football. Especially my boys
Sometimes men just need a little space because they start feeling like a caged animal so he pulls away. Let him if it’s love he’ll be back but do not pursue.
And that period should be of how many days?
Reason #1: he’s a player only out for the conquest. Avoid this kind of guy.
Reason #2: 4:52 he noticed something that made him think you two weren’t compatible and didn’t have the maturity to discuss the issue with you
Reason #3: 10:42 (occurs less often)he is having authentic loving feelings that he’s not used to because he’s never experienced it as strongly as he does with you (especially if he’s avoidant). If you can identify and talk about it, it can deepen the relationship. Or-if he’s used to playing the feminine role and suddenly the polarities are reversed, he may freak because he doesn’t know how to or doesn’t want to step into the masculine role, he may want to stay a little boy and be taken care of & live a life of pleasure. Run in the other direction.
Give your man an opportunity to step up and be your hero. Ask for advice or come to him with a problem (ex: my car is making a noise). Masculine energy thrives in having meaning and purpose, in making you happy.
Reason #5: 38:19 fear of losing independence or making the wrong choice
What's reason 4?
Im an older woman 50, im not wanting to get married or make a family,..my kids are adults now. It is so hard to find men around my age bracket...they just want to play the field too ... whether they've been through divorce and dislike all women, or they are so set in their ways that it is too much for them to think of something developing slowly. I dont bother with dating apps,..i only see what is handed out to me through work or friends. Its a sad dating world out there im afraid...
Younger men like older women…
@secondchancehomestead I'd be afraid it's cause they're looking for mother energy not a queen. Hard pass lol
Going through a divorce now, after realizing my husband prefers to be in his feminine and won’t change. I have been through burnout twice due to being in my masculine energy too much
Girl, same. Thankfully he was just a boyfriend. He wants me to chase and cater to him. I snapped when I couldn’t even get him to buy me a sandwich without him wanting to look into my bank account. Told him to fucking leave after I paid my rent and bills. A friend let me borrow 20 bucks so I could buy food before I got paid and he asked me to buy him a sandwich even though he has money. He needs to hurry up and get the rest of his shit out before I throw it out.
A divorce is so final. How about a separation? You need to know this upswing in feminization of men is a spiritual issue. I don't know if you are a believer but the Bible says the devil is trying to destroy humanity. He attacks all areas but especially relationships. Especially marriage because marriage is a God given covenant. Read Ephesians 6:12 & you'll get the picture.
Sometimes i think you are better off by yourself if it takes ALL that drama to attract them. There is more to life than men.
Polarity is life ☯️
@@pdhun6347 I might have to agree 🤷🏻♀️
Last 2 men I’ve dated have stayed in touch with me … I can’t understand why …. when they’ve called it a day 💁♀️
Fabulous info thanks guys 🙏
Welcome!
You know, I've decided to not try and figure men out or understand stuff like this. Let's face it, if a man is worth putting in this much effort for then he'll also be doing the research....which means he wouldn't be pulling away in the first place. So my most basic rule now is to not give anything away until I've established where the guy is as and what he wants. Most men I come across these days are unfortunately expecting fun up front and actually get angry when you don't play along. So silly. I'm also exhausted from analysing myself all the time. I'm a single mom and I have to look after stuff on my own. If that pushes men away then what on earth am i supposed to do. The right guy will see through all of that. It's really beyond exhausting x appreciate your content through but I'm so tired of all this. X
I agree. At some point you do have to give it up to a higher power because we are doing everything we think we should do right, except just being ourselves. And I believe that you can simply just be yourself with the right person, warts and “needy behavior” and all🩷
Agree. Me too. But if you like the guy, you start caring and researchig this stuff, trying to follow it anyways...
Me too
Agreed it's exhausting trying to figure this stuff out. It makes you analyze everything any future person does or says.
Anything can become tiring.. it’s a sign you’re putting out to much effort.. education will help you make decisions without having a boatload of feelings. If you understand and know when to engage or pull away, then you have more control over how you feel and not turn into a crazybitch because you don’t know why, When you know why they acting a way,you can make sound decisions that don’t hurt yourself..
I wish you two were mandatory education for all teens on up. You have helped me so much and our newer generationS NEED you and your teachings.
Wow I was married to a provider but that’s all everything else was on my shoulders.
Alot of old school men were brought up this way. I wouldn't have divorced for this reason alone.
I think what it does is it helps us women who are emotionally charged, to understand and be able to safely be with someone or not be with someone..
If you don’t know, then you simply will not know how.. how to love or how to leave. It becomes overwhelming..
Feeding the woman brain with knowledge and understanding, allowing her to make decisions that are logical..
Just knowing some of this stuff makes you a higher value, because you are not getting worked up over things that would normally bother us..
Listen lady’s you don’t have to make it hard, just make yourself aware and emotionally tolerant ..
I believe that a loving relationship is worth all the effort .
My boyfriend of 6 months ended our relationship to focus on his sobriety. He’s not ready for relationship, I get it we’ve been together since he went to rehab. Also first year relationship is t good idea I get it. He told me he doesn’t know what the future brings but right now we will be friends. I’m moving to his town and we will probably be together even as friends a lot if the time. I’m hoping as I get myself on a structured stabilized path he does same and we can rebuild from that. I love him so much and am willing to take it day by day.
Thank you both for your amazing advice.
Welcome!
Say if i like a guy and he doesn't know i like him, what do and how do you get his attention?
Great video ❤
Glad you liked it!!
A man says he loves to be pursued by women and they need to earn his attention, time with him, to go on dates together etc. He says it lets him know how invested she is in him and if they don’t want him that bad, they can move on. What do you think of that?
EWWW! SOUNDS LIKE A WEAK MAMA'S BOY!
Feminine and insecure
He’s co-dependant. He needs her to be super invested because he’s insecure and needs the reinforcement in order to feel fulfilled.
Imagine, if you did peruse and you guys had a relationship… or even marriage. He would need constant validation and attention. If you didn’t give it to him (he’d take it as a sign you’re giving it to someone else and he’d be entertaining any woman who did give it to him). Walk away now, unless you want to waste energy and time in constantly perusing and validating this guy.
Stop caring
Great advice!!
Glad it was helpful!
Idk if avoidant is fixable as you say...
No they get tired of 1 relationship, then they try relationship with other 😢
This was such a beneficial discussion. ❤
May I ask a Question ?if i ask him to do something like check my car to see his masculine tendencies….isn’t that going against my feminine where im looking for an ‘outcome’ by testing him ?
Good question, the best thing (to operate from your feminine) is to share authentically something that you need help with or a problem and let him offer to solve it while being detached from if he actually does or not
@@MagnetizeYourMan that makes sense, thank you for clarifying ❤️🙏
you can try...but what i've seeing and studying is that men want to be specially masculine and fix things for the women he is attracted to! if you're not his type he will make an excuse or do it just because its the right thing to do, but not be happy about it. you can read his body language.
What if he is hopeless with cars
Your overthinking it. That's not testing him. I have a Bible proverb for you. " Unless the Lord builds the house, they that labor, labor in vain".
So good !!! 💕
what does it mean if they say you're my priority ?
Devotion if he follows through with it
That sounds like he has other options
Thx guys, good stuff.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I want to be claimed🎉
My question is how do you deal with selfish men and being distance with you and you give him his space . What do you do ?
You leave
Ask the Lord. A little space is healthy. If he's not intentional & serious to commit...go.
That’s the problem. He already has a purpose and is in his masculine. So I’m lower on the list of priorities and he’ll never step up no matter how feminine I am and masculine he is :/
My bf asked if he was the best sex. I didnt say yes, i said how i loved it and how it is different and not comparable. He pulled away... 😢
lol loved your response
@@Paoulait was a pretext as it opened up quickly enough. There are deeper reasons. The guy was actually married and was cheating with me. I ended it with him.
There were signes. I ignored them. Will be wiser next time.
Put yourself in his shoes-how would you feel if he did that to you? Wake up and get out of yourself
@@lisan8007um good call.
Are you serious? She's probably hurting. I say DON'T have sex with a boyfriend. Have sex with a husband. No commitment..no cookie.
No sex in two years and he just left me for his girlfriend that just dumped him?
Super random but if everything was going well and he kept mentioning my birthday and the day of doesn’t wish happy birthday but likes photos… how does one stay in their feminine/ or decide to walk away. When asked in a graceful way if there was something going on he just said he’s been out of it but it’s nothing personal and wishing me a happy birthday weekend…
Will you please put the groceries away for me? His response... Have the kids do it. 😐
Not the end of the world.
Girl they are little boys say come out the groceries away don’t ask them anything
You have to make things fun for men to do it maybe even at times motivate him by saying baby help
Me with the groceries and well shower together after so they have something to look forward to
I work with this man that showed me he was interested in me since I started working there. It’s been a slow progression since he seems a little backwards when it comes to relationships. I have used my feminine vulnerability skills to give him the opportunity to step up his game and he has. However, he gives me mixed signals, as sometimes he just doesn’t get it and he chooses to completely ignore me some days. Which makes me wonder if he’s lost interest and I end up more confused and frustrated than when we began our interactions, and he still hasn’t made the move. Any suggestions….?
Thank you 🙏
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Get out! Next
Move on, tl this behavior will effect more than you realize
He either doesn’t know what he wants OR he is using mind games. Either way, be polite but stay away as much as possible.
Curiosity died.
So a man has to like you more..got it
Yeah that took me a bit to figure out.
I don’t mean to be rude. I have suggestions for you both coming from a retired speaker and training coordinator.
Brody: I counted every time you said the work “like” in an incorrect manner. I quit counting at 50 times and the video was not even half way finished. My suggestion is for you to go back and listen to yourself. It is very distracting for your listeners. Yes, I am older (68 yrs old), but that is not a good habit to continue as a speaker.
Anthony: I much prefer your individual videos. This duo video seemed kind of haphazard. You do a fantastic job with your individual videos because of your knowledge and the video is well organized.
My intention is not to hurt or complain but to make your videos gain more diverse followers. Thank you 🦊.
What does it mean when the man says he needs to go out and spend some time with other women?
Doesn't love you deeply
Means he doesn’t want you. No man would tell that to a woman he wanted any relationship with.
He wants to spend time with other women. What's to analyze? Sorry!
It was sarcasm. I knew what I meant
Thanks!
Welcome and thanks so much for the superchat! :)
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Selena? Kevin said his wife is named, no , Celine
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I see, He has to level up and elevate higher and his high is very low I’m seeing…with his very real ability to not show up in reality. Boy Bye
Im triggered -whatever that means
Because he got what he wanted with little effort. They moved on.
Not necessarily. My last 2 exes left because they wanted sex without commitment & I wouldn't do that.
What about if the MALE has trust issues?
Yeah that can be a big one too
Glib response isn't going to engage your audience. Some people actually post a question in the thread for real feedback, & readers who haven't yet subscribed are interested in your response.
@@violetdesmond-barrett5874 If he has trust issues then using feminine communication is going to be even more important to help him open up and come closer to you
Most women leave relationship first. Don't forget that often times these things are biase. A lot of women leave good men for bad men then wonder why.
I have left more men than they have left me. Most divorced are initiated by women. And often times, when a man comes back a woman will have already moved on.
Grow up and learn. Next 💯🙏
True
I have heard when a man deeply loves a woman they go in their cave to sort out their feelings.
I think what it does is it helps us women who are emotionally charged, to understand and be able to safely be with someone or not be with someone..
If you don’t know, then you simply will not know how.. how to love or how to leave. It becomes overwhelming..
Feeding the woman brain with knowledge and understanding, allowing her to make decisions that are logical..
Just knowing some of this stuff makes you a higher value, because you are not getting worked up over things that would normally bother us..
Listen lady’s you don’t have to make it hard, just make yourself aware and emotionally tolerant ..