@@sofialaura5219 it's not always easy. For example I tend to overthink all the time and 1 million scenarios can go through my mind about it so it's not that easy
It really hurts when you're that cold type of person who doesn't like to open up their heart. But when you do, you become the most vulnerable person in the world and everything hurts a thousand times more.
Lyrics You promised the world and I fell for it I put you first and you adored it Set fires to my forest And you let it burn Sang off key in my chorus 'Cause it wasn't yours I saw the signs and I ignored it Rose colored glasses all distorted Set fire to my purpose And I let it burn You got off on the hurtin' When it wasn't yours, yeah We'd always go into it blindly I needed to lose you to find me This dance, it was killing me softly I needed to hate you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me I gave my all and they all know it Then you tore me down and now it's showing In two months, you replaced us Like it was easy Made me think I deserved it In the thick of healing, yeah We'd always go into it blindly I needed to lose you to find me This dance, it was killing me softly I needed to hate you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me You promised the world and I fell for it I put you first and you adored it Set fires to my forest And you let it burn Sang off key in my chorus To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to hate you to love me, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah I needed to lose you to love me To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah And now the chapter is closed and done To love, love, yeah To love, love, yeah To love, yeah And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us
i came here to hurt myself, but i couldn't feel anymore. once i thought it was a gift not to be able to feel pain or hurt, but right now i would give everything i have just to get my senses back, to be able to feel a sliver of emotion, even if it means getting hurt again
@@gothcheese oh my goodness god wtf r u ok? no that’s a dumb question i’m so dumbfounded right now. i hope ur ok. u deserve so much better baby cakes. i love u. ur so strong. nothing was ur fault. and i’m proud of u for making it this far.❤️ i. am. proud. of. u.
This lovely boi is from the anime neon evangelion genesis he suffered from depression throughout the show I guess he took it out on controlling a war machine thingy killing monsters.
shinji, my baby, was forced into something much bigger than him when he just wanted to see his father... he even killed the one and only love in his life Koawru...
This was my breakup song when he broke me. He completely shattered me, and he didn't even care. He broke me so much to where I almost had to go to the mental hospital and I couldn't sleep in my own room cause I didn't trust myself to be alone. I almost attempted 3 times while I was alone. Worst pain of my life. To anyone who is going through the same thing, it does get better. It may not be today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, but it will get better. Pick up the pieces they broke off of you bb. You are SOOOO much stronger than you think. You have to let them go though, and do not, and I repeat DO NOT go back to them. Cause if they hurt you once, there's a good chance they'll hurt you the same way if not more. You cry okay? Cry all you need to, and do what you have to do (that does not involve self harm). But, don't you dare stay there too long. Don't let them win. You will come out of this. Don't let them break you down that much. Just know that you are an AMAZING human being, and there IS definitely way more people out there. Don't look for them, let them look for you. Keep your head up, and if no one has said this to you today. You are AMAZING, you are WORTH every breath, I LOVE YOU, and I hope you had an AMAZING day, and if not, there's always tomorrow. Head up king/queen. You will make it. Everything will be okay in the end, if it's not okay, it's not the end.
@@athenakeziah5195 i know its hard. its been 8 months now and im still healing from him breaking me. but. im almost completely healed, the sun shines brighter, the days are completely bearable, and im in love again. finally. you may not heal completely for a very long time. you may not be okay ever again. but one day. the sun will shine brighter, the days will be bearable, and you will fall in love again. you just have to trust the process. and believe itll happen again. its been 8 months, i dont even remember his middle or last name anymore. hes irrelevant. hes gone for good. i havent seen or heard from him in over 3 months. he was reaching out. he was trying to come back in my life but i didnt let him. and now i am a better person and will always be a better person. cause i experienced pain. i experienced loss. and i couldnt be any more confident and powerful now. he lost someone good bc he was too dumb. too blind. and now hes stuck crying over me bc i wont acknowledge his existence anymore. itll happen. you just have to be patient. and you have to believe. i promise bby. dont give up.
@@kxy.mxrieee8461 omg, thank you. I needed this. Thanks for reminding me to trust the process. Everything will be okay soon. It hurts so much bc he got back with his ex. I never realized what we had was a borrowed time. We were together for 2 years but in the end, he came back to where he belonged. I guess I wasn't really his home. I'm in the process of finding my self-worth again. Someday, I will be happy again :)
I loved every word you said to where I cried you're so emotional and strong at the same time ! Keep going I wish I could have the same strength you had ❤
They hold you in the middle of the dance floor, whispering threats into your ear. They buy you gifts, but the moment you show a hint of ‘ingratitude’ they turn on you. If you ever disagree with them, they wait until the party’s over to strike you. To others, they look like delectable wine. *To you, they look like poison.*
I remember listening to this song but not the slower version on the radio, it was late like 12 a.m I think and the driver left the car so it was just me and I was crying screaming out his name. That night was the time it hurt cause I found out I was depressed and I just wanted to let out all of my emotions at once and tbh I don’t think I will be the same. If you read all of this thank you for listening to what I was saying, but if you don’t care about my comment then it’s alright not all people like to read trashy useless comments like mine. Update: omg guys I didn’t think this would get noticed, but I’m fine now. I got over the dude, I’ve also met someone that makes me happy(friends though😅) but yeah I’m glad to have him😂👍
This is seriously Selena‘s best song! Even my Mom loves it so much and feels the pain 😢 i think we all can relate to this! Let‘s don’t forget our value and love ourselves and get out of a toxic relationship! We all need a Prince Charming ladies not an abusive ass!
Normally I don't write comments, but this character really fits this song so well, it hurts. This may apply to his father, who never cared for him, and it left a big mark on him. And the fact that this boy goes through depression is when everyone he loves or wants to love dies and suffers, and he has to do things that destroy him too much. And the only man who loved him, and whom he loved in return, turned out to be his enemy, but died at his hands to not fulfill his "duties"... This anime is such big heartbreak i can't
I loved him. I put him first no matter what. He said he loved me. It’s been 3 years of us together and today he left. He cheated on me with my best friend. I came to him that I was suicidal and he said I should do it. Maybe I’ll love myself now that you aren’t here to tell me I’m worthless. But the worst part, I miss him and love him.
you will never know that feeling of wanting life so much until you are on the coast, about to lose it. One Saturday, I was in that position, and of so many times that I wanted to die, at that precise moment, I wanted to live it until I grew old. Now I love my life very much. It doesn't have much to do with the song, but I wanted to share a piece of my life here
*cries in slowed n reverb*
*m o o d*
I wanted to be sad but this comment made me laugh
I'm sad laughing I don't know how but it somehow happened
M 0 0 d
HAHSHSHS POTANGINA
I’m here crying about a breakup that has never happened to me.
Kaycie meee
Vea Pfirter That might be true but for some reason I still want someone so that I will know that someone is able to love someone like me.
(if that makes sense)
Same
Me to sis🥺. Try your bet to stay happy no matter what ever happens,🥺❤️
“in two months, you replaced us...” :(
Como se llama el anime que muestra??
alma lezcano fernandez evangelion
Replaced you before you even broke up.
Mine took a day to do that... Nice to know she was always there...
Alexa Moreno u know u deserve better
"I saw the signs and I ignored it.." wow.. so deep, wtf..
Lmaooo
i literally saw this comment right when she said it HAHSHSA
@@peanut.buhtur me too
@cherryeong same
@@peanut.buhtur same
This hits differently 😓🎶
I felt that to...please be my friend 🥺
Frrrr
Frrrr
fr tho 😢
The scene + the song = meltdown
what scene?
The scene in the video from The End of Evangelion
Shinji had to lose Kaoru to love himself.
“i saw the signs and i ignored it” literally how i feel in my relationship 😔
Me too😔
then stop ignoring it.
@@sofialaura5219 it's not always easy. For example I tend to overthink all the time and 1 million scenarios can go through my mind about it so it's not that easy
Sending you a hug. Be safe, strong, and hopefully you find your happiness. 💜 here for you
Same I never thought anyone else would ever relate
It really hurts when you're that cold type of person who doesn't like to open up their heart. But when you do, you become the most vulnerable person in the world and everything hurts a thousand times more.
I felt that. ouch.
you don't have to attack me like that!!!
Mhm
So baddielicous
𝓎ℴ𝓊 𝓅𝓇ℴ𝓂𝒾𝓈ℯ𝒹 𝓉𝒽ℯ 𝓌ℴ𝓇𝓁𝒹 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒾 𝒻ℯ𝓁𝓁 𝒻ℴ𝓇 𝒾𝓉
This is a beautiful and slowed it’s just wow gives chills
To him, freedom was greater than love.
She hated that.
Because she had always thought that love was freedom.
omg im cryingg
This is so depressing wtf
Where is this from??
So true
Why ithis reminds me of aot? Eren... Crying rn
Lyrics
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
'Cause it wasn't yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
Set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin'
When it wasn't yours, yeah
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dance, it was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
Then you tore me down and now it's showing
In two months, you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing, yeah
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dance, it was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us
MY GOD
Thank you
“i needed to lose you to find me” 💔
❤️🩹
i came here to hurt myself, but i couldn't feel anymore. once i thought it was a gift not to be able to feel pain or hurt, but right now i would give everything i have just to get my senses back, to be able to feel a sliver of emotion, even if it means getting hurt again
That's a really dangerous way of thinking, if you want someone to talk to add me on snap @Marchtwentith I'm here for you
I relate to this so much I can't even describe it. I'm so numb and I wish that I could lie awake and just cry but I don't have the ability anymore
Me too
I used to be like that for so long and I promise it gets better.
Lia N but what if it doesn’t?
"made me think I deserved it"
I came to your comment at the same time she said it
:(
My ex raped me and now all I can think is that I lead him on... my god I hate boys
@@gothcheese oh my goodness god wtf r u ok? no that’s a dumb question i’m so dumbfounded right now. i hope ur ok. u deserve so much better baby cakes. i love u. ur so strong. nothing was ur fault. and i’m proud of u for making it this far.❤️ i. am. proud. of. u.
I needed to hate you to love me....
This lovely boi is from the anime neon evangelion genesis he suffered from depression throughout the show I guess he took it out on controlling a war machine thingy killing monsters.
so cultured
shinji, my baby, was forced into something much bigger than him when he just wanted to see his father... he even killed the one and only love in his life Koawru...
@@multi-millionp7107 kaworu is my child 😭
Multi-Million :p *SPOILERS* shit dude in the end of Evangelion when they reunite for a minute the happiness in Shinji’s eyes fucking broke me wth
TYSFM I WAS NEEDING THE NAME OF THE ANIME
This... hits the spot... 😞🥺
This is the most beautiful song Selena has ever done ! Thank youuu 🙏💛 Sel, love will come to you I promise 💛😊😭
my boyfriend just cheated , he still managed to get an F on that exam.
i-
he gets an F in the chat as well
you had us in the first half ngl
XD
gurl i-💀
this dancing is killing me softly
Sbh // 😭😭😭
@@AllYellowJoshua holy fuck it's been 3 months and it's still killing me
it's been 6 months. it's not killing me anymore. i am finally clean. :)
@@sabihak9730 hope your doing well now :)
You promises the world and i fell for it....😢
This was my breakup song when he broke me. He completely shattered me, and he didn't even care. He broke me so much to where I almost had to go to the mental hospital and I couldn't sleep in my own room cause I didn't trust myself to be alone. I almost attempted 3 times while I was alone. Worst pain of my life. To anyone who is going through the same thing, it does get better. It may not be today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, but it will get better. Pick up the pieces they broke off of you bb. You are SOOOO much stronger than you think. You have to let them go though, and do not, and I repeat DO NOT go back to them. Cause if they hurt you once, there's a good chance they'll hurt you the same way if not more. You cry okay? Cry all you need to, and do what you have to do (that does not involve self harm). But, don't you dare stay there too long. Don't let them win. You will come out of this. Don't let them break you down that much. Just know that you are an AMAZING human being, and there IS definitely way more people out there. Don't look for them, let them look for you. Keep your head up, and if no one has said this to you today. You are AMAZING, you are WORTH every breath, I LOVE YOU, and I hope you had an AMAZING day, and if not, there's always tomorrow. Head up king/queen. You will make it. Everything will be okay in the end, if it's not okay, it's not the end.
😭💖
It's so hard to eat and sleep, really lost my will to live.
@@athenakeziah5195 i know its hard. its been 8 months now and im still healing from him breaking me. but. im almost completely healed, the sun shines brighter, the days are completely bearable, and im in love again. finally. you may not heal completely for a very long time. you may not be okay ever again. but one day. the sun will shine brighter, the days will be bearable, and you will fall in love again. you just have to trust the process. and believe itll happen again. its been 8 months, i dont even remember his middle or last name anymore. hes irrelevant. hes gone for good. i havent seen or heard from him in over 3 months. he was reaching out. he was trying to come back in my life but i didnt let him. and now i am a better person and will always be a better person. cause i experienced pain. i experienced loss. and i couldnt be any more confident and powerful now. he lost someone good bc he was too dumb. too blind. and now hes stuck crying over me bc i wont acknowledge his existence anymore. itll happen. you just have to be patient. and you have to believe. i promise bby. dont give up.
@@kxy.mxrieee8461 omg, thank you. I needed this. Thanks for reminding me to trust the process. Everything will be okay soon. It hurts so much bc he got back with his ex. I never realized what we had was a borrowed time. We were together for 2 years but in the end, he came back to where he belonged. I guess I wasn't really his home. I'm in the process of finding my self-worth again. Someday, I will be happy again :)
I loved every word you said to where I cried you're so emotional and strong at the same time ! Keep going I wish I could have the same strength you had ❤
this is beautiful
“In two months you replaced us, like it was easy, made me think I deserved it” hits hard 🥺😔
it doessss and i love your pfp
"made me think i deserved it" ... damn
I never get tired, this song is perfect
I put you first and you adored it 🤕
the guy in the pic looks lovely 🥺💕💕
shinji crying hits harder then the song ngl
What is the name of that anime?
@@spaceranger its neon genesis evangelion and im surprised you dont know
@@mengasyiqkan Thanks! I've actually seen a couple of episodes, don't know why I couldn't remember.
@@mengasyiqkan i watched it yet i was so confused at the end. anyway, this song brings me to my feels
They hold you in the middle of the dance floor, whispering threats into your ear. They buy you gifts, but the moment you show a hint of ‘ingratitude’ they turn on you. If you ever disagree with them, they wait until the party’s over to strike you.
To others, they look like delectable wine.
*To you, they look like poison.*
damn :(
That's some toxic shit you got there.
i always hated this song until i realized i hated myself because of him. i needed to hate him to love me.
he made you feel bad things nobody wants to feel :) if you ever see him in person again rub in his face what he is missing out on :)
i just realized why i hate it now because of your comment i- 🥺😭
me too. and that’s okay. self love is the most important. focus on you boo❤️
screaming this after you’re finally over that person who absolutely destroyed you is fucking beautiful
this video deserve more views likes and comments its just sooo good makes me depressed yet happy.
I really love that shade of depession that surrounds you when listening to this
When he said "it's goodbye, goodbye for us"
I just-closed my eyes,let out the breath that I'd been holdin'
This gave me goosebumps ❤
“I needed to lose you to find me” that hits different
I remember listening to this song but not the slower version on the radio, it was late like 12 a.m I think and the driver left the car so it was just me and I was crying screaming out his name. That night was the time it hurt cause I found out I was depressed and I just wanted to let out all of my emotions at once and tbh I don’t think I will be the same. If you read all of this thank you for listening to what I was saying, but if you don’t care about my comment then it’s alright not all people like to read trashy useless comments like mine.
Update: omg guys I didn’t think this would get noticed, but I’m fine now. I got over the dude, I’ve also met someone that makes me happy(friends though😅) but yeah I’m glad to have him😂👍
this one comment made me realize im also depressed
i hope everythings ok ):
ally faye I hope so too😊
Malia Piutu I hope you fight through your depression 💔
Just_ Someone you’re not alone, look 4 help ❤️
slow songs hit different at sunset🥺
*You promised the world and I fell for it*
This is seriously Selena‘s best song! Even my Mom loves it so much and feels the pain 😢 i think we all can relate to this! Let‘s don’t forget our value and love ourselves and get out of a toxic relationship! We all need a Prince Charming ladies not an abusive ass!
Ohhhh my God
This legit made me cry😭
I cry, omg this is so beautiful 🥺
Jillian Alaimo 😭😭😭
I went through the same thing Selena did. But losing him was a blessing in disguise. I found myself and a better man. Stay strong.
the fact that this song didn't get a grammy hurts my soul
*the song hits hard also the anime make me cry :(*
Goosebumps 😔
i loved her , i really did .
I really love the sound of the voice here ❤
To love love yeah i love it!!
This is so pure wth
Normally I don't write comments, but this character really fits this song so well, it hurts. This may apply to his father, who never cared for him, and it left a big mark on him. And the fact that this boy goes through depression is when everyone he loves or wants to love dies and suffers, and he has to do things that destroy him too much. And the only man who loved him, and whom he loved in return, turned out to be his enemy, but died at his hands to not fulfill his "duties"...
This anime is such big heartbreak i can't
wow makes me cry thanks for this one I like that❤️😭
this will be stuck with my soul now
"...you promised the world and i fell for it"
wow-hits different...
wow, here is me trying not to cry cuz im in class GREATTTT ( this is BEAUTIFUL btw ) -w-
1:46 had such a pleasing lineup
No one:
Me: *imagining me and my imaginary boyfriend breaking up*
pain
“we’d always go into it blindly”🥺
Your voice just hits in an another way.......🤩
I loved him. I put him first no matter what. He said he loved me. It’s been 3 years of us together and today he left. He cheated on me with my best friend. I came to him that I was suicidal and he said I should do it. Maybe I’ll love myself now that you aren’t here to tell me I’m worthless. But the worst part, I miss him and love him.
It’s okay girl push though you got this💜💙
Dont do it.
You deserve better, I hope you find a another man😕
i love it
i love it
i love it
i love it
!!!!!!!!!!!
Listening to this and crying mid anxiety attack yay !
this song makes me cry. i clicked on this video knowing that, i literally started sobbing when this vid started-
Bruh I never realized how mentally unstable I was I just randomly started crying whiles looking at the wall
I love this, thank you ❤️
made a whole fanfic while listening to this.
Never had more goosebumps when listening to Slowed versions
I don’t know why but I listen to this song when I’m sad or depressed. But I also listen to it just to listen to it.
this hit home oof🥺✌️
This is sooooooooooooo good❤️😭
Idk why sad songs make me happy sad🥺
🥀 So beautiful 🥀
I really like this music🥺🤧❤️
Damn... IM IN LOVE WITH U.
This version is on a différent level o_O
More mature, deep ans painful.... amazing job here 👌🏾
This is literally my brain singing to my heart
this version hit diff
"you promised the wrld and I fell for it"..hit diff😔
So sad but i love this
Remembering the days we used to be happy^_^
Shinjiiii dont cry :(
This got me hitting out extra sets at the gym! 😥
Getting deeper on the dark sea than before. I like that.
Hahaha:) I’m emotionless now and I come here to cry thank you🙃
"In 2 months you replaced us " no in 2 days :/
Its ok bb u deserve so much more 💖
You promised the world and I fell for it...😔
you will never know that feeling of wanting life so much until you are on the coast, about to lose it. One Saturday, I was in that position, and of so many times that I wanted to die, at that precise moment, I wanted to live it until I grew old. Now I love my life very much. It doesn't have much to do with the song, but I wanted to share a piece of my life here
Shinji:((( This anime may be old but it's one of the best things I've watched
When she started to break down, I felt that..
hits different when you're high
This song is a bop
seen this and was like “ oouu ik it’ll hit”😭❤️
When music is the one who has your back
3:00 The best
This dance was killing me softly
No matter how sad this song is or how depressing my life will be, I’m too broken for tears to escape my eyes.
Instead of “two months, you replaced us..” it was “two weeks, you replaced us..” for me 🙃
me too me too😭
omg same...after 1 year...
every time i see shinji in these sad slowed songs i cry ten times harder...that boy deserves the world