There's a difference between someone who's never kissed a girl because he actually hasn't had the opportunity to do so, or someone who hasn't done it because he fears Allah.
Not that true, If the guy fears allah, he would prevent himself from haram relationship and may be this is the reason why allah didnt gave him such opportunity, Anyways, ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST😁😁
When there is a strong trust on someone. For instance like on your creator. Then it doesn't matter my brother that u have had an opportunity or not. you heart stops you from committing the sin. You won't even go near to it. It's the fear that lies in there. ❤️
@@alfaizshaikh4212 you are totally wrong my brother. When you have a strong trust upon your Lord. He will send those fitnaah towards to test you. To test your faith (emaan).
Oh my brother, why not embrace Islam now? You already praised Allah for this. This is the time for you! Don't wait because you will never know when your life gonna end :/
no pressure but you should look into Islam , it's the most peaceful religion . do not believe what the media show u . pick up the quaran and find out for yourself my brother . good luck
As much as I respect the two brothers opinions above me I do have to say that you should look into it but don't feel pressured to do so. I was a Catholic of Mexican descent and now embracing Islam. Still till this day I have my own troubles that nobody in my family would understand if I explained them to them through Islamic perspective since out here in L.A and even in the motherland the custom was always to find a woman that you liked and vice versa, and get married eventually. This might have worked for many people back then but in the latter this alternative has become one of the worst since there is no restrictions to it besides eye contact, exchanging numbers, and taking it from there. Which causes many problems in the future with what the shaykh mentioned. My point was that if you are to embrace Islam feel free to read the Qu'ran, question, and ponder how it relates to your personal life. Thats part of the reason how I came to believe in it. Seeking knowledge, world music and literature. Although music can be a distraction after. Peace and Blessings to you and yours. To all my akhi's Ramadan Kareem.
Alhamdulilah. I am nearly 19 (female) never dated a boy, kissed or had a haram relationship. Well, alot of men have asked me out or have told me that they love or have a crush on me but I just tell them nicely thank u and no sorry I can't. I am only going to marry one man that God has chosen for me so only this man deserves my love(wife love). I always say to my friends if a guy truly loves u then he should ask you for marriage(or to get engaged(following the proper and right way) to get to know each other more then get married) not to be his girlfriend or something.
Al Hamdulillah, Great sister i wish you many good on your way but remeber that ther isn`t a "perfekt" man... you have to geid him and he has to geid you together in Marriage to Allah. Insha'allah you understand what i mean, and will find your deservt lovt one.
When a guy truly loves a woman and promises her to get to married at tat time women does't need tat type of guys. They say u r serious buddy I can't be wid u..!!! This hurts the most...!! 💔
I am actually really proud to say I have stayed away from all these temptations, even in high school and university while living in the UK. Only Allah SWT has been my Protector, and He is sufficient. It's something to be proud of brothers and sisters. No good can come from haraam relationships Wallahi.
SuperShafster mashaAllah.. very proud of you brother.. I just moved to uk this year and many tempations came but Alhamdulillah ALLAH always protected me from syaithan cz always read dzikr Al Matsurat in the morning and afternoon. inshaAllah ALLAH will be protects us everytime. May ALLAH always protect us whereever we are. Aameen
No. I am 20 living in Germany and not to be cocky or something I dont look that bad (tall, good body etc.) which im proud of and never had a girlfriend. I mean I could but I know that it will only have negative consequences
Ya Allah !!! What a reminder !! Being Mexican from L.A and born into a whole different culture I have seen many examples of these problems growing up as a teen and now as a young adult. Its getting worse as time passes by with all this technology and open mindedness. Which is why I believe in Islam and it is clear to me and even people who are non-muslims can agree with this video because these are certainly problems that arise the more you do it and the more you get yourself deep into a hole that it get very difficult with time to get out of.. Which even though I have a lot of self control from time to time I fall for these desires that mislead me further away from the faith. Allah forgive me. I also would like to know who is the akhi that is reciting those ayas in the middle of the video ?? I had to close my eyes just to meditate on it and feel it going through my mind and body. So lovely.
If you don´t believe that Jesus is god then you are not a christian because christians believe jesus is a god. Jesus is a prophet sent by God Allah the true and only God who has sent jesus and the rest of the prophets and the messanger to the world. To teach them worshipping the one god Allah.
"You want to become a man. I dare you to get married. I dare you to get married." Brother this opened my eyes up so much and now I feel so much less pressured about women :) thank you brother may Allah bless you and grant you Jannah ameen
Real Men marry the women the love, not make them their girlfriends, using them for their own pleasures abusing them and reducing them to a mere commodity, fear Allah my Brothers, respects women and sister please be cautious! Obviously there are many brothers who understand the worth of a woman! May Allah keep us all guided! Ameen
Alhumdulilah. Thank you so much for your videos. I am a recent new convert, and I actually broke down in tears after one of your videos and cried... Your message was so powerful, I just cried. Immediately after I took my shahada.
long time ago I met a guy he was 3 years older then I, we kept on having an eye contact I felt extremely shy because I liked him his eyes appeared pure and kind,and every time he looked at me my heart would skip a bit for some reason I felt that he liked me alot.. I would blush most of the time being with him,I would avoid looking straight into his eyes cuz I was afraid that I would fall in love and then something will go wrong ... one day during our conversation I told him that I was Muslim (then I immidiatly thought that I shouldnt have told him that) but I was shocked what I heard next.. looking straight into my eyes he said "MashaAllah" he began to recite surah Al-fatiha and I recited along with him,from that day we fell in love .. but we never told each other.. we were too shy .. after some time I left the country .. I cried every night .. we had no contact.. after a year I came to meet him but was not there .. our story ended but I couldnt forget him .. i still love him the way I did for the first time ya Allah sooth my heart for it cannot find peace
Uthman Hanif hatred is also a strong emotion. Someone once said that vengeance is like drinking poison thinking the other person to die. If you don’t let go the hatred it’ll ruin u mentally.
I'm 21 and Alhamdulillah I've never been in haram relationships nor even kissed not even holds someones hands. People may think I'm a loser around myself but inshaAllah I'm waiting for the halal one. Pray for me that I might get a pious wife.
So true, but its not easy getting married for me atleast. I'm required to get my career first and then my Mom wants me to have an arranged marriage to a person of the same nationality. An Imam said the prophet pbuh came to make the haram hard and the halal easy, now a days its the other way around.
+Hamza Ahmed It's difficult nowadays for many Muslims because our parents are attached to culture. Desi parents care so much about what other people think and if you don't get married to someone of the same ethnicity then they will think it's humiliation. Worst of all, sometimes they scare you and say that questioning your parents can lead you to Jahannam or that Allah says you have to treat your parents well. Children have a duty to respect their parents, however so do parents. Parents need to understand their children and respect their thoughts and feelings. The best thing to do is speak to your parents and tell them that you should marry who you think is suitable for yourself since you are the one that is going to be living with them for the rest of your life. Its best to talk to your parents and in Sha Allah, they'll understand. Tell them everything that you feel and tell them to desert cultural expectations and follow Prophet Muhammad's way of marriage.
+Hamza Ahmed yea so true, but you have the right to marry any person you want. I also have to get a career etc bla bla, but i just do what i want and what is according to the shari'ah.
+True Raps what if I got to university, get a good degree, but I don't get a job after graduation. Wasn't that a waste? Waste of money and time. Allah is the one who gives us rizq, not a phony job or a career that only Allah knows how long it's going to last
Just want to get this off my chest. Parents please open up your hearts and allow your children to marry who they want (unless that person has bad character or no faith) Don't let your culture get in the way of Deen. This will cause your children to do harram stuff which YOU (parents) will be asked for. ( Correct me if i have been mistaken)
+M say Agree. The only condition is they put goodness above all. Meaning, they don't blind themselves by thinking if their children marry from this caste, race, nation, their children will be better off. That being said, children need the input of their parents because they might not see the whole picture when love comes to the picture.
Mashallah the beginning part fit me excatly. I’m in my late 20s now and have never gone to a club or kissed a women. People do look at you weird once they ask you. Even Muslim brothers look at you pitifully. Inshallah it will get better.
I am 37 yo am moslem from Indonesia. Please pray to Allah may he brings me a husband for me that good for dunia and ahirah amen. I am not ugly people always said am beautiful and also smart but often i felt stupid when i made mistake n trust wrong men. Pls brothers n sister pray for me. I want to find a good husband and marry for the sake of Allah inshaallah
I remember in my freshmen year in high school, There was this Muslim girl I liked- or she said she was Muslim. And I had a crush on this girl.(Take it easy, I was 14 at the time, I didn't know any better, I thought dating was halal so long as you only met your partner to get to know her and not touch each other until marriage.) So I started exercising and putting on cologne every mourning before school to try to impress her. But then I started seeing her flirting with nearly every boy in the 9th grade and soon found out that she dated 3 guys,none of which were even Muslim. Needless to say I stopped loving this girl(I didn't hate her, I just stopped crushing on her) but I was in shock and mind boggled. I knew some Muslim kids that didn't follow Islam very well, but that, that was like seeing someone go to Dunkin Donuts every mourning and hearing them say they're diabetic.
I am shocked I have a similar history as you my brother! But yes, for my case, the girl has a partner instead; hopefully she will be happy till end of life with him.
There's nothing wrong with having a crush. It's a natural tendency. I'm young, and I have waaay too many crushes. Since I go to a school where there is only 2 other Muslims out of roughly 600 students, it's hard. I cover and I don't wear makeup but there is still people who are attracted to you and they think I act strange because whenever they approach me and talk to me, I'm quite harsh because I don't want them to develop feelings. Even if I do for them I know that Allah is always watching and All knowing and that He is putting me to a test. He expects me to choose the right path because He expects to see me in Jannah. Our Lord loves His creations. When you make decisions think about whether or not Allah will approve of them. Remember we should be planning for our Hereafter.
SubhanAllah! This is truly amazing. He's sooooooo right Wallahi sisters need to wake up. I've seen all that he was talking about with my own eyes. May Allah protect us and guide us ameen sometimes you think there's no man in this world all are like the ones this brother is talking about but no there are good ones like this brother and they're real men and heroes those pigs with rotten heart are there just to destroy other sisters life especially the innocent ones that are aware of their plans.
And there are women who play on men's lusts and wear all the tight or revealing clothing, which men like, which makes the women feel good about herself. And so the cycle repeats.
I am 21 but never kissed a girl though I liked one. Thanks to Allah it did not work out because nowadays I would have feel sorry for myself if I was in that relationship. Anyways the point is I never kissed a girl or went to night club and I am happy to admit that to my friends to everyone. My friends invited me for alcohol but I refused here's why first thing is Allah created you. You're value is not as a human but the creation of Allah. If you do stuffs like you're value drops(You become shytans puppet). I believe that you should really admit that you have not went to night club or kissed a girl before and you should be happy about that because among you're friend at least someone is different that is you. Be happy about it don't be sad when you are in the right path be sad when you are in the wrong path(and please repent to Allah, Allah will forgive because Allah is merciful and kind). P.S:Stay away from Zina please it's a humble request if you see this reply.
I think ignorance is a bliss, until the guy and girl learns more. Like what comes next, walk in the park is what’s going on, and maybe hugs and kisses. But it escalates. I think the speaker is talking about females not exposed to such other things....
IDK about other women but this is actually very true for women living in country like India and other muslim countries this is basic nature a woman's mind want love and romance while a man's brain doesn't work like that it is the nature and you can't change it
you're definitely not a loser or a whimp, you're strong because you have contol over your own body. Allah is proud of you!! keep it going and stay strong! may allah give us protection
Evil always attracts my brother and sister be aware from this attraction stay strong stay real then no one can stop you. You will be the example in you home, society, area, city, country that this person is real fighter he fights against his own nafs and he won may Allah give us the power the ability to fight against evil and may Allah choose us to spread the massage of Allah around all the world to those people who dont know about islam this is our purpose of life.
I m Hindu & I respect all cultures. This video is all about women should not fall for such men who deceive her for his own malicious intention. Alhumdulilah.
A hadith narrated by Abu Huraira, Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ ) said, “Whoever says, Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi (Glory and praise is to Allah) one hundred times a day, will have all of their sins forgiven, even if they were as much as the foam of the sea. (Bukhari) Abu Hurairah also reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "He who utters a hundred times in a day these words: La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli sha'in Qadir (there is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner with Him; His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent),' he will have a reward equivalent to that of freeing ten slaves, a hundred good deeds will be recorded to his credit, hundred of his sins will be forgiven, and he will be safeguarded against the devil on that day till the evening; and no one will exceed him in doing more excellent good deeds except someone who has recited these words more often than him. [Al- Bukhari and Muslim].
I watched this video before love....and I watched this video when I am in love...and now I am watching after love failure....now only I find the real meaning of this video...
May ALLAH bless you all. This channel always puts a new perspective to my life and I believe for all of us. Jazak ALLAH khairun and salam/ peace to all my beautiful brothers and sisters in islam.
Many men want only one thing from girls but few of em are willing to marry their girls and this type of men is RARE nowadays..... Thank you for this video, it hits me really deep :'(
Lol... when I first watched this video on yaseen channel i was very happy that the channel has uploaded after a long time and that to with super beneficial video... Now i see bruv... it's 3 years since they uploaded this video ......MAN...... Time flys quickly nowadays
I've never used makeup in my life and I've never worn shorts and all my life I've been taunted by everyone like i was a backward person. Alhamdulillah i never cared about what they say. Alhamdulillah Allah has blessed me with beautiful looking and thought ppl say these things about me...most of them envy me.
This is absolutely true, I'm converting to Islam, slowly but surely, learning about it, and trying to follow it, but my sister is doing the opposite, she does whatever she wants, I won't enter into detail since now writing this might make me commit backbite, may Allah forgive me, but the point is that she is constantly trying to argue against my values, telling me that they are bad and stuff... My fathers also kinda do that but the one who does it more is precisely the person who sins the most/is more distant from Allah (swt)... Remember that brothers and sisters when someone tries to weaken your iman... Be strong and humble, may Allah bless you all who are reading this, and I hope we do well and Allah allows us in Jannah! Alhamdulillah!
May Allah guide you, don't try soo hard to change their mind, don't feel that it is your responsibilty to convince them that Islam is true. If they are always attacking you and Islam whenever the topic is brought or they try to make sins pleasant and easy to commit , just end the conversation there and get up and pray God to help you and guide you and your family
@@lamis-fp1 Salam, thanks for your comment, indeed you are right, actually I'm focusing on my fathers, and they are ready in sha Allah to start questioning stuff, my sister probably for now not... May Allah give me strength to deal with it, May Allah bless you and us all and forgive our sins so we are of the people of Jannah and of the ones who follow the path here in the Dunya also!
This kills me to even hear it everything that hes saying is so true! Its all around us even our wn families are like this nieces nephews sisters brothers. Its so bad so bad i cant even say anything to them or even if i do they look down on you like your some wierdo. May Allah safeguard our families the Ummati from this lust 😥
I like this boy for two years and he said that he likes me back and I said that my situation is complicated and that I will tell him my answer later and idk what to do he didn’t come to school for a week because his aunt died anyways idk what to do fr I love him to death....
@@alisheikh4698 Many long-term relationships are started with a casual fling. Lust should not be the only reason you are in a relationship, but *it is a good thing.* Plus, often love is only temporary.
Wow this is one of the first videos spoken the truth! Subhan Allah! This is the truth happening in this world. May Allah protect us and save us and our children and generations after them. Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen! May Allah reward you with the best in both worlds Brother Bilal Assad. May many young people come back to Allah, after watching this video. Ameen!
+Mehdi Alzghoul akhi i don't tthink u should talk about intimate relations with ur wife on youtube - the dayooth (man with no gheerah/jealousy for his women) will be in the fire
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There's a difference between someone who's never kissed a girl because he actually hasn't had the opportunity to do so, or someone who hasn't done it because he fears Allah.
Not that true,
If the guy fears allah, he would prevent himself from haram relationship and may be this is the reason why allah didnt gave him such opportunity,
Anyways, ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST😁😁
@Siddik Momin More than you
When there is a strong trust on someone. For instance like on your creator. Then it doesn't matter my brother that u have had an opportunity or not. you heart stops you from committing the sin. You won't even go near to it. It's the fear that lies in there. ❤️
@@alfaizshaikh4212 you are totally wrong my brother. When you have a strong trust upon your Lord. He will send those fitnaah towards to test you. To test your faith (emaan).
He is right, and you should not talk to people like that .@Siddik Momin
I'm a Christian, but this still rings very true. Much love from America.
No you are batman...
Brdr it ll b best 4 u if u become MUSLIM😊
😊
11 months later.. Are you already Muslim? XD
God is one ☝🏻
I am Catholic and agree with this message, Mashallah!
Oh my brother, why not embrace Islam now? You already praised Allah for this. This is the time for you! Don't wait because you will never know when your life gonna end :/
no pressure but you should look into Islam , it's the most peaceful religion . do not believe what the media show u . pick up the quaran and find out for yourself my brother . good luck
As much as I respect the two brothers opinions above me I do have to say that you should look into it but don't feel pressured to do so. I was a Catholic of Mexican descent and now embracing Islam. Still till this day I have my own troubles that nobody in my family would understand if I explained them to them through Islamic perspective since out here in L.A and even in the motherland the custom was always to find a woman that you liked and vice versa, and get married eventually. This might have worked for many people back then but in the latter this alternative has become one of the worst since there is no restrictions to it besides eye contact, exchanging numbers, and taking it from there. Which causes many problems in the future with what the shaykh mentioned.
My point was that if you are to embrace Islam feel free to read the Qu'ran, question, and ponder how it relates to your personal life. Thats part of the reason how I came to believe in it. Seeking knowledge, world music and literature. Although music can be a distraction after. Peace and Blessings to you and yours. To all my akhi's Ramadan Kareem.
+Mr Peace Keeper only Allah guides whom He wills
proud^
Alhamdulilah. I am nearly 19 (female) never dated a boy, kissed or had a haram relationship. Well, alot of men have asked me out or have told me that they love or have a crush on me but I just tell them nicely thank u and no sorry I can't. I am only going to marry one man that God has chosen for me so only this man deserves my love(wife love). I always say to my friends if a guy truly loves u then he should ask you for marriage(or to get engaged(following the proper and right way) to get to know each other more then get married) not to be his girlfriend or something.
Al Hamdulillah,
Great sister i wish you many good on your way but remeber that ther isn`t a "perfekt" man... you have to geid him and he has to geid you together in Marriage to Allah.
Insha'allah you understand what i mean, and will find your deservt lovt one.
May Allah almighty save you and all our sisters....
May Allah guide you.
Make duas that everyone succeeds and overcome their temptations.
When a guy truly loves a woman and promises her to get to married at tat time women does't need tat type of guys. They say u r serious buddy I can't be wid u..!!! This hurts the most...!! 💔
May Allah bless you
Stay beautiful
I am actually really proud to say I have stayed away from all these temptations, even in high school and university while living in the UK. Only Allah SWT has been my Protector, and He is sufficient. It's something to be proud of brothers and sisters. No good can come from haraam relationships Wallahi.
Mashaallah and may Allah always protect and preserve you.Ameen
Yasmin Mohamed Ameen u too sister
SuperShafster mashaAllah.. very proud of you brother.. I just moved to uk this year and many tempations came but Alhamdulillah ALLAH always protected me from syaithan cz always read dzikr Al Matsurat in the morning and afternoon. inshaAllah ALLAH will be protects us everytime.
May ALLAH always protect us whereever we are. Aameen
Hilya Jae-hee dont be proud,proud of anything is not good,we can say we r happy of this but not proud,proud is like arrogance and its not good.
good for you brother! may Allah grant you Jannatul Firdaus inshallah
Every time I'm going through something there's a video identical to my situation published, Allahu Akbar
be blessed always!
I can relate
SAME subhannalah 😃
alhamdulillah
Islam is way of life....
This video is worth more than every diamond in the world.
I doubt that. Diamonds are worth a lot and this video is practically useless.
@@c.nasser12 This video may be useless but the message in the video is priceless.
@@murdockm3405 I dare say the message is precisely what makes it useless!
@@c.nasser12 Then unfortunately your interpretation of the message is useless.
@@murdockm3405 Then how do you interpret it?
I hope I'll one day meet a good Muslim man who will love me.
Where are you from. I am grom morocco
lol, all men's are nowadays impure. probably having affairs.
No. I am 20 living in Germany and not to be cocky or something I dont look that bad (tall, good body etc.) which im proud of and never had a girlfriend. I mean I could but I know that it will only have negative consequences
InShaAllah you will, my sister
Look at the dogs here😉😉😉
MAY ALLAH PROTECT US😭💔
+Halal TH-camr When is your next video? After you become a Hafiz? How many Juz' have you learnt so far? ^_^
Ameen
Halal TH-camr
Halal TH-camr chck my youtube
Ameen
This fits perfectly with today.
salam can you check out my channel?
Reality! 😭
a much needed video for today....Allah save us all...
Ameen! 💪
Ameen
I am a warrior ! Alhamdulillah :D
+AlwaysBePositive BeGratefull Haha! me too Alhamdulillah!
Alhamdulilaah!
+AlwaysBePositive BeGratefull hello :)!
So am I!
+Halal TH-camr yoo wat u sayin akh
It's pretty blunt, but in a world like this, bluntness is required. Allah save us all from this disease of the heart. Ameen
Fahim Ahmed
Fahim Ahmed does Islam use fear to gain followers ?
@@dgrdst5810 Many religions do, Islam included. Not always, but often.
Ya Allah !!! What a reminder !! Being Mexican from L.A and born into a whole different culture I have seen many examples of these problems growing up as a teen and now as a young adult. Its getting worse as time passes by with all this technology and open mindedness. Which is why I believe in Islam and it is clear to me and even people who are non-muslims can agree with this video because these are certainly problems that arise the more you do it and the more you get yourself deep into a hole that it get very difficult with time to get out of..
Which even though I have a lot of self control from time to time I fall for these desires that mislead me further away from the faith.
Allah forgive me.
I also would like to know who is the akhi that is reciting those ayas in the middle of the video ?? I had to close my eyes just to meditate on it and feel it going through my mind and body. So lovely.
***** Thank You for your words. May Allah Bless You akhti. Regards from CA, L.A. Mashala !
The akhi you were asking his name is Belal Assaad he is the one who give the lecture on this video, too .
great video! From a Christian who doesn't believe Jesus was God... but our savor
He was Shepard that was sent by God to save his people from Hell and being lost.
spencer study you're practically a muslim
Hisoka Joka yh a muslim means a person who submits his will to God
spencer study only religion accepted to God is Islam.
If you don´t believe that Jesus is god then you are not a christian because christians believe jesus is a god.
Jesus is a prophet sent by God Allah the true and only God who has sent jesus and the rest of the prophets and the messanger to the world. To teach them worshipping the one god Allah.
"You want to become a man. I dare you to get married. I dare you to get married."
Brother this opened my eyes up so much and now I feel so much less pressured about women :) thank you brother may Allah bless you and grant you Jannah ameen
Real Men marry the women the love, not make them their girlfriends, using them for their own pleasures abusing them and reducing them to a mere commodity, fear Allah my Brothers, respects women and sister please be cautious! Obviously there are many brothers who understand the worth of a woman! May Allah keep us all guided! Ameen
UndercoverHijabi Amin.
UndercoverHijabi doesn't Islam use fear to get people. In other perspectives . No hate. ?
+Da Greatest wym care to explain further so I can fully understand your question
yasmean yazzy Scares people into following religion . No one can leave because no one wants to die of apostasy or being looked at as a disbeliver.
yasmean yazzy how would younger teens feel thinking they'd go to hell.
Alhumdulilah. Thank you so much for your videos. I am a recent new convert, and I actually broke down in tears after one of your videos and cried... Your message was so powerful, I just cried. Immediately after I took my shahada.
Honestly the most powerful thing I heard all day. I love that sheikh and his Aussie accent☺
long time ago I met a guy he was 3 years older then I, we kept on having an eye contact I felt extremely shy because I liked him his eyes appeared pure and kind,and every time he looked at me my heart would skip a bit for some reason I felt that he liked me alot.. I would blush most of the time being with him,I would avoid looking straight into his eyes cuz I was afraid that I would fall in love and then something will go wrong ... one day during our conversation I told him that I was Muslim (then I immidiatly thought that I shouldnt have told him that) but I was shocked what I heard next.. looking straight into my eyes he said "MashaAllah"
he began to recite surah Al-fatiha and I recited along with him,from that day we fell in love .. but we never told each other.. we were too shy .. after some time I left the country .. I cried every night .. we had no contact.. after a year I came to meet him but was not there .. our story ended
but I couldnt forget him .. i still love him the way I did for the first time
ya Allah sooth my heart for it cannot find peace
I personally think love is one of the dangerous thing in the word , if you fell in love and something go wrong you'll fucked up.
Uthman Hanif hatred is also a strong emotion. Someone once said that vengeance is like drinking poison thinking the other person to die. If you don’t let go the hatred it’ll ruin u mentally.
Should've asked to marry if that was the case
Asked your parents and such
Ask allah for help and be patient, he'll make your path easy
Make dua for you to meet him
inshallah you can get islamically married ameen if you meet again
sharing it with my little cousins :) Ya Rabb i wish i had such beautiful channel in my youth :) .....
That's a beautiful thing to say! may Allah bring you happiness!
May Rabb brings you more :) Assalaamu-Alaikum
same
I was just about to fall for this!!! So thankful for this reminder, please pray for me so I stay strong...
I'm 21 and Alhamdulillah I've never been in haram relationships nor even kissed not even holds someones hands. People may think I'm a loser around myself but inshaAllah I'm waiting for the halal one. Pray for me that I might get a pious wife.
Is that the case with ur mind as well brother?
May Allah Swt Protect you Ameen.
So true, but its not easy getting married for me atleast. I'm required to get my career first and then my Mom wants me to have an arranged marriage to a person of the same nationality. An Imam said the prophet pbuh came to make the haram hard and the halal easy, now a days its the other way around.
You couldn't be more accurate 😐😩
true how do u expect to live today without steady income, like taking caring of family requires $$$..
+Hamza Ahmed
It's difficult nowadays for many Muslims because our parents are attached to culture. Desi parents care so much about what other people think and if you don't get married to someone of the same ethnicity then they will think it's humiliation. Worst of all, sometimes they scare you and say that questioning your parents can lead you to Jahannam or that Allah says you have to treat your parents well. Children have a duty to respect their parents, however so do parents. Parents need to understand their children and respect their thoughts and feelings. The best thing to do is speak to your parents and tell them that you should marry who you think is suitable for yourself since you are the one that is going to be living with them for the rest of your life. Its best to talk to your parents and in Sha Allah, they'll understand. Tell them everything that you feel and tell them to desert cultural expectations and follow Prophet Muhammad's way of marriage.
+Hamza Ahmed yea so true, but you have the right to marry any person you want. I also have to get a career etc bla bla, but i just do what i want and what is according to the shari'ah.
+True Raps what if I got to university, get a good degree, but I don't get a job after graduation. Wasn't that a waste? Waste of money and time. Allah is the one who gives us rizq, not a phony job or a career that only Allah knows how long it's going to last
"Man deceiving women" that is something I've seen with my eyes and is undeniable
Just want to get this off my chest. Parents please open up your hearts and allow your children to marry who they want (unless that person has bad character or no faith) Don't let your culture get in the way of Deen. This will cause your children to do harram stuff which YOU (parents) will be asked for. ( Correct me if i have been mistaken)
+M say Agree. The only condition is they put goodness above all. Meaning, they don't blind themselves by thinking if their children marry from this caste, race, nation, their children will be better off. That being said, children need the input of their parents because they might not see the whole picture when love comes to the picture.
I know it frustrates me how they are but i have to forgive them cuz u dont want them being questioned on yamul qiyamah cuz of u
Yes...
AGREE!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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I never kissed
Never went to clubs
Never touched a girl
Keep it physically & mentally as well
I too but it is too difficult to control my mind
I did all and i m empty from inside ..
@@beckhamdavid9608 What a comment
The hell we care
Mashallah the beginning part fit me excatly. I’m in my late 20s now and have never gone to a club or kissed a women. People do look at you weird once they ask you. Even Muslim brothers look at you pitifully. Inshallah it will get better.
I am 37 yo am moslem from Indonesia. Please pray to Allah may he brings me a husband for me that good for dunia and ahirah amen. I am not ugly people always said am beautiful and also smart but often i felt stupid when i made mistake n trust wrong men. Pls brothers n sister pray for me. I want to find a good husband and marry for the sake of Allah inshaallah
Ameen. I hope by now you have been blessed by a wonderful husband. Who will love, respect and cherish you. Ameen
Insha' allah Ameen sister.
اللهم أرزقها بزوج صالح يقر عينها به و يعيشوا بسعادة
Love the background music so soothing and calm.
Best channel ever i have come across so far...👌👌
Very powerful and very heartfelt reminder...indeed "reminder benefits the believer"
What a calm speaker
No good can come from haram relationships, think about it.
Tell me why the person who is talking sounds so good
Bbygurl .aliya i guess you listened it from your heart ☺
Bbygurl .aliya bilal Assad is amazing
because he is telling the truth, and keep us from the harms way
Truthfully
@Zohal A flirt here also
Can I like this video a 1000 times??
This was heart touching.... May Allah reward you for this video..
I remember in my freshmen year in high school, There was this Muslim girl I liked- or she said she was Muslim. And I had a crush on this girl.(Take it easy, I was 14 at the time, I didn't know any better, I thought dating was halal so long as you only met your partner to get to know her and not touch each other until marriage.) So I started exercising and putting on cologne every mourning before school to try to impress her. But then I started seeing her flirting with nearly every boy in the 9th grade and soon found out that she dated 3 guys,none of which were even Muslim.
Needless to say I stopped loving this girl(I didn't hate her, I just stopped crushing on her) but I was in shock and mind boggled. I knew some Muslim kids that didn't follow Islam very well, but that, that was like seeing someone go to Dunkin Donuts every mourning and hearing them say they're diabetic.
I am shocked I have a similar history as you my brother! But yes, for my case, the girl has a partner instead; hopefully she will be happy till end of life with him.
There's nothing wrong with having a crush. It's a natural tendency. I'm young, and I have waaay too many crushes. Since I go to a school where there is only 2 other Muslims out of roughly 600 students, it's hard. I cover and I don't wear makeup but there is still people who are attracted to you and they think I act strange because whenever they approach me and talk to me, I'm quite harsh because I don't want them to develop feelings. Even if I do for them I know that Allah is always watching and All knowing and that He is putting me to a test. He expects me to choose the right path because He expects to see me in Jannah. Our Lord loves His creations. When you make decisions think about whether or not Allah will approve of them. Remember we should be planning for our Hereafter.
* morning
SubhanAllah! This is truly amazing. He's sooooooo right Wallahi sisters need to wake up. I've seen all that he was talking about with my own eyes. May Allah protect us and guide us ameen sometimes you think there's no man in this world all are like the ones this brother is talking about but no there are good ones like this brother and they're real men and heroes those pigs with rotten heart are there just to destroy other sisters life especially the innocent ones that are aware of their plans.
And there are women who play on men's lusts and wear all the tight or revealing clothing, which men like, which makes the women feel good about herself. And so the cycle repeats.
precisely
I am 21 but never kissed a girl though I liked one. Thanks to Allah it did not work out because nowadays I would have feel sorry for myself if I was in that relationship. Anyways the point is I never kissed a girl or went to night club and I am happy to admit that to my friends to everyone. My friends invited me for alcohol but I refused here's why first thing is Allah created you. You're value is not as a human but the creation of Allah. If you do stuffs like you're value drops(You become shytans puppet). I believe that you should really admit that you have not went to night club or kissed a girl before and you should be happy about that because among you're friend at least someone is different that is you. Be happy about it don't be sad when you are in the right path be sad when you are in the wrong path(and please repent to Allah, Allah will forgive because Allah is merciful and kind).
P.S:Stay away from Zina please it's a humble request if you see this reply.
I'm hindu, still these messages are so valuable for all religions. God give me strength to stay away from these.
Read the Quran and you will find peace and beauty like you never saw
I invite you to do research about islam 😊
Sheikh Bilal Assad his voice comes from heaven,this Guy is one of the few real Muslims on TH-cam.may Alah keep you on that path Billal
And that's why we have to reduce the amount of Hollywood movies we watch
this channel changed my life upside down thank you!
"Women just want to hold hands and walk in the park"??? Are you kidding???
May Allah guide men AND women. Ameen.
Ameen!
I am Learning
Lol yeah, why?
Dilyssa Sisters
Remember one night stand thing? It's not about rose and walk
I think ignorance is a bliss, until the guy and girl learns more. Like what comes next, walk in the park is what’s going on, and maybe hugs and kisses. But it escalates. I think the speaker is talking about females not exposed to such other things....
IDK about other women but this is actually very true for women living in country like India and other muslim countries this is basic nature a woman's mind want love and romance while a man's brain doesn't work like that it is the nature and you can't change it
Wallah! Your videos have brought so much change in me
I haven't done either :D
if that makes me a looser or a coward as they say then so be it. 😔
+Kazi Altaf that's the spirit 👌
Dw same here. I really don't care at all what people think.
you're definitely not a loser or a whimp, you're strong because you have contol over your own body. Allah is proud of you!! keep it going and stay strong! may allah give us protection
chocolade Pinguin well said brother :)
abdirahman osman so lucky to be you! you're a true hero! stay like that brother till you get married. wish i was strong as you :')
Ma sha Allah
Wisely spoken.
May Allah protect our brothers and sisters from all these kind of shameful acts .
Evil always attracts my brother and sister be aware from this attraction stay strong stay real then no one can stop you. You will be the example in you home, society, area, city, country that this person is real fighter he fights against his own nafs and he won may Allah give us the power the ability to fight against evil and may Allah choose us to spread the massage of Allah around all the world to those people who dont know about islam this is our purpose of life.
Bilal asad, he is an amazing speaker. The way he speaks, he's got style.
May we be guided on the straight path.
Very touching teaching. May Allah protect our dignity and Imaan
O ALLAH REMOVE THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING WHAT YOU DON'T LOVE 💜
Who is this amazing brother, it seems like he is speaking to me. Every words sounds like splashing icy water in my face. Our era is unpleasant
He is saying the truth
He spoke nothing but facts 👏🏼
I m Hindu & I respect all cultures. This video is all about women should not fall for such men who deceive her for his own malicious intention. Alhumdulilah.
The message..
The fact..
And the background music.
They are perfect!
This is very learn full also for Christians like me
good to know fam!! :-D
Faisal Thabit cristian fellow can you please tell to the other cristians about islam so they dont hate
Faisal Ubayda Thabit but your name is Islamic I think you are lying
LEGEND WOLF may be he converted to Islam
LEGEND WOLF
maybe he is Arab Christian
So true for our current society. So sad that a lot of people have lost their value. Powerful video. Thank you.
A hadith narrated by Abu Huraira, Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ ) said, “Whoever says, Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi (Glory and praise is to Allah) one hundred times a day, will have all of their sins forgiven, even if they were as much as the foam of the sea. (Bukhari)
Abu Hurairah also reported:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "He who utters a hundred times in a day these words: La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli sha'in Qadir (there is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner with Him; His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent),' he will have a reward equivalent to that of freeing ten slaves, a hundred good deeds will be recorded to his credit, hundred of his sins will be forgiven, and he will be safeguarded against the devil on that day till the evening; and no one will exceed him in doing more excellent good deeds except someone who has recited these words more often than him.
[Al- Bukhari and Muslim].
We need this kind of speeches in every corner
I watched this video before love....and I watched this video when I am in love...and now I am watching after love failure....now only I find the real meaning of this video...
May ALLAH bless you all. This channel always puts a new perspective to my life and I believe for all of us. Jazak ALLAH khairun and salam/ peace to all my beautiful brothers and sisters in islam.
Many men want only one thing from girls but few of em are willing to marry their girls and this type of men is RARE nowadays..... Thank you for this video, it hits me really deep :'(
Lol... when I first watched this video on yaseen channel i was very happy that the channel has uploaded after a long time and that to with super beneficial video... Now i see bruv... it's 3 years since they uploaded this video ......MAN...... Time flys quickly nowadays
This is the real reason why I wish to stay single until I married. Marriage is the most purest form of a relationship.
I hope you get the best in your life..👍
May Allah bless you guys. Definitely one of my favorite channels
I've never used makeup in my life and I've never worn shorts and all my life I've been taunted by everyone like i was a backward person. Alhamdulillah i never cared about what they say. Alhamdulillah Allah has blessed me with beautiful looking and thought ppl say these things about me...most of them envy me.
how can you possibly dislike this amazing message?!
May allah forgive us all who have sinned
Allah may give u jannah brother. Such a powerful speech
I am a warrior
Alhumdullilah..
I m a virgin despite i was married. Because i knew that unless ur partner becomes muslim its haram to indulge in intimacy.
why did u marry him as it's also haram??
This is absolutely true, I'm converting to Islam, slowly but surely, learning about it, and trying to follow it, but my sister is doing the opposite, she does whatever she wants, I won't enter into detail since now writing this might make me commit backbite, may Allah forgive me, but the point is that she is constantly trying to argue against my values, telling me that they are bad and stuff... My fathers also kinda do that but the one who does it more is precisely the person who sins the most/is more distant from Allah (swt)... Remember that brothers and sisters when someone tries to weaken your iman... Be strong and humble, may Allah bless you all who are reading this, and I hope we do well and Allah allows us in Jannah! Alhamdulillah!
May Allah guide you, don't try soo hard to change their mind, don't feel that it is your responsibilty to convince them that Islam is true. If they are always attacking you and Islam whenever the topic is brought or they try to make sins pleasant and easy to commit , just end the conversation there and get up and pray God to help you and guide you and your family
@@lamis-fp1 Salam, thanks for your comment, indeed you are right, actually I'm focusing on my fathers, and they are ready in sha Allah to start questioning stuff, my sister probably for now not... May Allah give me strength to deal with it, May Allah bless you and us all and forgive our sins so we are of the people of Jannah and of the ones who follow the path here in the Dunya also!
This kills me to even hear it everything that hes saying is so true! Its all around us even our wn families are like this nieces nephews sisters brothers. Its so bad so bad i cant even say anything to them or even if i do they look down on you like your some wierdo. May Allah safeguard our families the Ummati from this lust 😥
Alhamdulilah the best lecture I heard. ❤🎉
I want Allah protect me from committing from any sort of Zina. Everyone pray for me so that Allah gives me more control over myself
This is definitely a beaurfl reminder. Jazzakillah kheyr
I like this boy for two years and he said that he likes me back and I said that my situation is complicated and that I will tell him my answer later and idk what to do he didn’t come to school for a week because his aunt died anyways idk what to do fr I love him to death....
This video changed my life
May Allah forgive our sins and save from hell fire
Ameen
Ameen
Wallahi hamw qsakan zor tawawa xwa padashty xertan bdatawa in sha allah ❤
do a video about the universe please.
Islam is the most amazing thing you will ever come across.
who is the speaker in this vid? i've heard his voice in a lot of good lectures.
it's Bilaal Assad!
Yasir qadhi...
Wallahi his voice as he read the quran is Mansha Allah😊
Ive been to clubs and did drugs also dealt with girls. I regret it please pray so Allah forgives me
Keep your sins between you and Allah
Dont promote it even regretfully
A reminder for you brother
amazing reminder by shayakh Bilal Assad... subhanallah.. this video should have uploaded 3 to 4 days prior to valentine's day...
2:30 , please tell me who is the recitor?? He reads beautiful!
Muhammad Taha Al Junaid
what a great speaker. MashAllah...
love no lust love is right lust is wrong
But lust is always necessary for the survival of any species.
@@c.nasser12 Lust is only temporary... If it came first then love will never come second... boredom will.
@@alisheikh4698 Many long-term relationships are started with a casual fling. Lust should not be the only reason you are in a relationship, but *it is a good thing.* Plus, often love is only temporary.
true, Jazak-Allaho khaira
Can someone plz plz tell me the reciter of Surah an Nisa in this video.
Jazakallahu Khair
SuperShafster Nouman Ali Khan
Muhammad Thaha Al Junaid
Wow this is one of the first videos spoken the truth! Subhan Allah! This is the truth happening in this world. May Allah protect us and save us and our children and generations after them. Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen!
May Allah reward you with the best in both worlds Brother Bilal Assad. May many young people come back to Allah, after watching this video. Ameen!
Whose the reciter at 2:12 in the video?
Same Question! 😭
+Halal TH-camr Asalam Alaikum, The recitor is Muhammad Taha Al Junaid.
Same here
Subhan Allah, May Allah protect us all. Ya rab 🤲
I have actully never kissed a girl and im not ashamed im proud becouse my wife gets more hahaha
+Mehdi Alzghoul akhi i don't tthink u should talk about intimate relations with ur wife on youtube - the dayooth (man with no gheerah/jealousy for his women) will be in the fire
+Esa Khan it was a joke
Esa Khan look who's giving Islamic advice 🤣
@@a_bone_in_the_ocean2276 Finally . Someone who has the ability to joke about this things.
tonki tonki torinom wow this was a long time ago lmao
Beautiful reminder. In'sha'allah it will guide those who are caught up in their lusts, and inspire those who used to, towards repentance.
I'm young man and i don't now how much time i can wait anymore before commiting the forbidden :/
too much temptation nowadays
+Paul Bernard When ever you have that temptation, get a subway. Should divert your temptations from women to food.
+Paul Bernard
Allah give you the right choice.
+Paul Bernard
Allah give you the right choice.
stay straight pendejo
+Novembers VeryBest haha