Yup absolutely I’m the exact same way and could care “less” about, what others think or say.👎🏽😑🏳️🌈 Love is love, you don’t like it, don’t look! Keke and Garcelle said it best!!💜✊🏽
Black women have been getting heavily harassed for dating outside of our race lately. Black men talked down on Black women for a long time and have the audacity to police our dating lives.
And the same Afro American Woman will say nothing when her Black Male friend dates a white Female. Ladies...respect yourself and other AFRO AMERICAN WOMEN.
@@sherreafaison6422 Double Standards that unfortunately Black Women make. Black male friends with non Black Women. No problem. Their girlfriends wit White guys. Nooo. Let's learn to be one Race. The Human race.
its not a big deal to date outside your race, thats normal. but its abt if ur 'preferences' to who u want to date and if they are racist or colorist. specifically in the blk community thats what it comes down to for a lot of blk men🤷🏽♀️ theres no reason to get mad or something if someone of any race dates outside of their circle but for those who say entirely "i dont date this specific group of ppl" its the reasons behind that
I love and adore Jeannie's honesty about the anti-blackness in the Asian community. I cannot wait until they have that honest conversation. And I love her response. Poor thing gets it really really bad on all of the blogs. Jeezy gets it bad from black women. I always say his music is for the culture but his wife is for him. Don't get it confused.
@@Cloudfive55 Oh I definitely agree. It's all in the shade room comments. The hatred is all over youtube under videos pertaining to Jeannie and her relationship. If you don't like her personality just say that but when you start to come for her because she's Asian and thinks it's okay to make Asian jokes that needs to be addressed. Hopefully once she address her own community first then she may feel a lot more comfortable speaking on it across the board.
@james harm 'look in the mirror' 1st off dont speak on the culture of our 'community' and tell us what we're guilty of doing😂 because you saw 3 comments on the shade room or something.
Well let’s keep this thing real ... There is anti-blackness within all communities and even within the black community aka colorism and other physical attributes.
I noticed this myself ( a Hispanic person with a black man in a predominantly black community)...and it is heartbreaking to see. How can people bring down their own people? It is not ok....
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
It's more of the older generation that are like that like the parents and grandparents etc, the newer younger generation doesn't really care all that much, now you do have some younger generation that are racist don't get me wrong, but for the most part we really don't care about interracial dating cuz we do it ourselves, so it's more of the older generation that's like that
Tamera was being “black-shamed” last week on the shaderoom as the twin who married a white man, and being made fun of as being Caucasian. And people find it funny. I will never understand such double standards.
I just think Tamera brings up too much attention towards it. Like she addressed it once so just leave it at that. Also Adam just doesn’t seem to be one of those people culturally flexible. Like he doesn’t understand black struggles Both Kim K and Kendra Wilkinson both got tons of hate for their relationships but they don’t feed into it. Those people are not worth your tears
People really need to get a life..and the black community SHOULD NOT SHAME OTHER BLACK WOMEN FOR THAT..THERE ARE PLENTY OF PEOPLE PUT THERE DPING THE SHAMING FOR THEM..SPECIALLY TO BLACK WOMEN..I WISH WE COULD LOVE EACH OTHER MORE
@@babybree175 I don’t think it’s that they want to shame Tamera. But it is very irritating to have a partner completely tone deaf and ill educated on the racial backdrop of Black Americans. So when Tamera stays silent for race related issues she’s perpetuating those points by staying quiet for Adams sake. When in reality she needs to be educating him.
Nothing wrong with dating outside your race as long as you aren't putting your race down while putting others on a pedestal - a classic sign of self hate. Other than that, everyone should mind their own business and keep it moving. Also, I would love to hear a segment about antiblackness in the asian community with Jeannie. It's been long overdue and someone has to talk about it!
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
@@alexanderbecker2264 Lol, white men and Asian women date outside the race more than blacks! If you are racist why did you gravitate towards a channel about interracial dating? Stop trolling.
My only problem with this is when people bash the other race. Like for a black guy to say “Black women are bossy” “or black women are crazy” instead of saying I’m attracted to my partner not because their race because they are attractive to me. Love whomever stop putting other people down and just celebrate love.
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
Black men date out all of the time and are never questioned about their blackness. Anyway I’m glad that Jeanie wants to discuss the racism towards black people from a lot of the Asian community, looking forward to that episode if it airs.
Are you serious? So black women never bash black men for dating out of there race? You women really think that you don't spit venom when you see a black man with another race. Black men are more open, but they are not less bashed. Matter of fact some are called coons.
Garcelle saying “I don’t have to prove anything to anyone” is so true and everyone should feel this way about their love life! It’s nobody else’s business!
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
@@craigsims1189 BTW, it's 86% of the black men that actually matter. Only about 25% of black men are married and within that 25% they are mostly married to black women. Learn math!
@@williesartsdesignscuisines That’s a damn lie. BW in interracial relationships still be on the front lines fighting for Black men’s lives. When it’s Black men? They go out of their way to show off their white or “exotic” ex while tearing down the Black women. We see it all the time in real life & on social media so I’m not even about to back & forth with you. Take that bullshit elsewhere.
I feel like dating outside of your race helps you better understand another culture and be more open and accepting rather than closed off and non inclusive, however no matter who you date you should always be accepting of others.
Agreed, but I also feel like both people in the relationship need to be culturally flexible. I feel like that’s why Tamera and Adam gets so much flack. He doesn’t understand black issues and argues that All lives matter etc. that’s why Tamera ends up looking like a clown
Why don’t they address that black women (most of us anyway) don’t have a problem with black men dating outside our race, but it’s when black men talk down on black women or put other races on a pedestal over black women. That’s when black women have a problem with it. You don’t have to put us down.
That’s why I think this panel needs a younger black woman (20s-30s) to address this perspective. I love Garcelle as the new co-host but there’s a void because there’s no one to speak for younger Black women.
If that's the case then why did black women attack Jeezy. Even using the Gucci Mane Vs Jeezy, talking about Jeezy already loss because Gucci married a black woman. And please do not attempt to make it personal and say it wasn't me.
People don't have a problem with interracial dating. Black men just have a problem with black women interracially dating. Its pathetic. For the record, BW are sick of the disrespect they get from BM who "prefer" IR dating. We don't care !
It makes sense. At the end of the day you like who you like. The problem is that women are bashed for dating outside their race and made to feel like they are disloyal. I have had friends shame me for having crushes on men of other races. It is sad!! But black men have the privilege to date whomever they want and it is not novelty
@@juliamyron7347 Unfortunately yes especially when women just have a type but a lot of black men actually bash black women while going for other races which is so much worse tbh
@@juliamyron7347 But why is that? Is it seen that Black women have to hold up the Black community and culture and Black men do not? I really think that Black women have it the worst because I don't even think Black gay men have to deal with as much as Black women do, I see this as a gay white male who dates outside of my race.
I remember my (white) boyfriend and I were waiting for the bus (before covid) and were just minding our business, talking about what we planned to do today, laughing, etc. An older black man comes up to us and is accusing him of being a racist since I am black. He even asked me,”do you think he’s innocent?!” And I said,”yes, because he respects me and his race does not matter.” The man was upset and he had an intimidating vibe that made it feel like he might attack my boyfriend. He mentioned how it isn’t fair for me to be with a white man when during his time, he would’ve been murdered for being with a white woman. We tried to let him know how those situations back then were not and never will be okay, and how not all white people are like that. There were other people, even a bus driver near by who just watched and didn’t say anything. When the bus came the man was getting on the same one, I was worried he would become loud and upset again by our relationship. His stop was before ours, and when we exited he came out the front, passing us, and he said,”I’m sorry for what I said.” My boyfriend accepted his apology and let him know to have a great day. I asked my boyfriend how he felt after the situation and for him never being in a really big altercation with race, he said it made him upset because we knew he was not racist and how being accused of that or me being questioned was messed up. It reminded me how interracial relationships are still seen as an issue. My boyfriend’s mom treats me differently than her other daughters in law and I feel it’s either because I’m younger or because I’m Black and Mexican. Who knows. My boyfriend told me once she told her kids to never marry a black person, so he and I are sure we know where her heart is. Regardless, we have each other. We’ve been through so much that we know we don’t need to defend our relationship to anyone, and seeing people like what we’ve experienced just shows that racism still exists and hatred exists and we’ve got a lot of work to do.
Keke’s Concern --------------- It really weirds me out the way people are upset about other people being in certain kind of relationships or lifestyles! If somebody is dating outside their race... that is their business !!! Why does it bother you , how does it affect you , where is this any sort of reason to be considered a worrisome thing upon on your personal life! Let people live... let people love... and let love be! I’m a person who has been raised to be AWARE of color but not let it be the only thing that defines a person as a whole or else it sets up a bias of what I could feel that may end up having me miss out on my blessing! Also ... I’m just glad we have this show... because the way these ladies always used to have conversations and talk about their cultures season 1 up til now... season 1 we used to talk about the positive and funny and relatable “ were we all raised in the same household “ kind of questions that no matter what race you are... you just understand and smile and have that relatability factor! But now we’re in season 7 where we don’t only show the bright side... but we also get to hear the dark and very unfortunate news and stories and get to listen and be empathetic to other cultures stories and figure out how to be better allies to those apart of communities that aren’t necessarily our own cultures! Who Run the World? ---------------- Look at Biden & Kamala giving us a preview of how promising these next four years will be once they’re sworn into Office... this is MAJOR !!! To see so many beautiful black and brown faces and FEMALES on top of that... this is gonna be one hell of s turnaround for our court... especially after the bastardized dumpster fire we know as Trump’s presidential term the last four years
@@jojoc326 unfortunately black people do have to deal with racism/bigotry from Hispanics, so it was probably hard to advocate for a group that didn't treat him well. My husband is black and I don't expect him to advocate for hispanics/Latinos. I see how Hispanics treat him. Instead I check my own people for being bigoted and treating him bad because he is black.
As a white person I dated a black girl for 2 years and we had a wonderful relationship. Only my parents knew because I only cared about their opinion more than anybody else and they were cool with it. I agree with Garcelle love who you want to love and tune out all the negativity that is thrown at you
I am glad you had a wonderful relationship. A - would you do it again? B - why didn’t you tell anyone else? Especially if you didn’t care what they thought.
@@4daluvofnikki I absolutely would date a black girl again. I've been single for 5 years. I didn't want to bother with having to justify my relationship to certain people in my family who I knew would be judgmental
@@adamgranger5653 I'm glad you chose to be accepting of everyone. I also sorta wish that you had challenged your families opinions and opened their eyes to the beauty of all people
@@killa2flyy I definitely will the next time. When I was with my ex I was only 19 and was new to dating. I'm going to be 25 soon so I have more self awareness about bringing up issues to my family
I am attracted to Black men and haven’t had a serious relationship with anyone who isn’t Black. However, I am not angry at anyone for dating who they are attracted to. Be with and LOVE who you fall in love with.
My grandfather who is a Black and Native American man who served in Vietnam fell in love with my grandma while he was there. When he brought her home, there were Black women who would make comments walking by such as “oh we’re not good enough?” He would respond with where we’re you when I was looking. It’s crazy because this was the 60’s. Unfortunately not much has changed. They’re still married to this day. I’m happy to be a multicultural women of color.
do you think it is a gay thing or a race thing? I am gay and date outside my race and I may think it is more of a gay thing than a race thing but he may not see it as that. How does the community and culture come into play with the two of ya'll? Do you think some of the pressure is off because ya'll are gay?
@Adarose what do you mean “ she can’t find a Vietnamese “ so are you saying you HAVE to be with the same race... cuz last time I checked that’s not how preferences and attraction works... she has dated all kinds of men of all different races but has always even when she was younger dated black men... hell her prom date was a black guy , her first childhood crush in her class was black... so Jeezy is not a surprise nor anything to be up in arms about when it comes to who she’s dating... stop thinking that if you date outside your race it is an issue... cuz it’s not... a black man or black woman dating outside their race does not make them sell out , it doesn’t mean they don’t care for black women , it doesn’t mean they are anti black , it just means they have a preference and THATS OK !!! Grow up!
@Adarose it’s because he’s successful ?!?! So what is she ?!?! She’s been in the game for stleast 20 damn years... and so has he.... both in their own respective lanes and have come together to make change in more ways than one.... and you’re talking about who can father black children ?!?! Jeezy has not one but THREE Kids and she is aware of that and he takes care of them and she’s ok with that and is grown and mature enough to be able to put herself out of the equation and respect what came before her
If Caucasian and Asian men would be more open minded to dating black women, I think more black women would date outside of their race. I've dated Caucasian, Dominican, Ghanaian, and Trinidadian. Yes, taste the rainbow, lol.
@@raic3283 You're correct. I omitted a couple of words such as ethnicity, Latinos, Italians, Indians, etc. I just want women to be open to date men outside of their norm.
@Adarose You will have to ask them. Maybe more Caucasian women date more outside of their races more than other races of women(I don't have statistics just going on assumption). I only had a serious relationship with one Caucasian man but I did miss things about being with someone of African descent.
When it comes to black people, our men in particular i think its important to distinguish between love and racial trauma. Are you in love, or do you consistantly date people that dont look like you because you think they're better.
You should have taken the time to read my comment and the context in which it was meant instead of poppin off with your brain dead remark. Breaking down what i meant to you wouldnt be worth any effort further than this.
I'm living in Italy and me other Afro American Women are Dating outside our Race, Nationality and sometimes Religion. Who CARES?? It's so hard to find LOVE. Please don't judge or criticize someone for not their same race. It's RIDICULOUS! 💕
Tbh these topics are so dry and surface level without Amanda. I used to like how she would challenge the ladies on the things they would say. It caused them to have more REAL and in-depth conversations .
She shined in those racial topics but any other topic she did not. In my opinion, she was not suited to be a full-time co-host. She was better as a guest.
Amanda was racist and constantly trying to overcompensate for being light skinned with curly hair and looking mixed. Like she has to be more black than everyone in the room and finds racism in everything and can’t possibly ever see fault in how black ppl behave. She even defended Jussie Smollet’s hate crime hoax saying it was noble! She’s absolutely disgusting and ignorant.
I was in a relationship with a white guy and my mom was making jokes about jungle fever and if he's down for the swirl. I'm open to dating whoever black, white, Latinos, middle eastern whoever.
Jeannie’s reaction at 2:16 when Garcelle asks if anyone had an issue with her dating Jeezy is soooo classic!! 😂😂😂 Also, these ladies are truly the perfect ones to be talking about this since they are all in or have been in interracial relationships ❤️❤️❤️
Love is love and let's respect other people. We are all human beings, no one owns nobody. Don't let other people's comments keep you from being happy. Ignore negativity always.
As a black gay man with a disability, I’m dreading the day that I get a relationship. I’m attracted to multiple races and I don’t necessarily want to date another man with a physical disability. I can’t even describe this dread of being judged in every way possible. People who are shouting equality the most are excluding romantic relationships. I hate it. Honestly, gay black men still judge other same sex interracial relationships and it’s hilarious how they are the same bitter, single people.
I also don’t like the idea that ppl who choose to date within their race/culture are limiting themselves and that they are more likely to miss out on true love bc of that. If your culture is important to you then marrying someone who also loves your culture can enhance your connection and the love you have for eachother. The judgment goes both ways.
I dated a black man (and I am hispanic)... I got SOOOO MANY SIDE-EYES from his side of the camp and strangers. It was so sad to experience. I never felt accepted. Women shamed and disrespected me because they felt like I took 'one of theirs'.... 😔
All I got to say is that all people who's intent to date interracially are not based on true/ pure intentions. Some will date x based on superficial reasons (stereotypes, fetishizing etc...). ***** I'M NOT SAYING TO NOT DATE INTERACIALLY. DO YOU AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE. YOU HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE*** I recommend that if you want to explore this, to ensure to be cognizant of a person's true intent. Coming from personal experience, it's a new level of hurt for someone to use/fetisize you based on your color.
It's also fine if you date, and are only attracted to men of your own race. I don't judge people who date outside of their race. I love who I love, and who I'm attracted to. There's nothing wrong with that! 🥰
Loni’s neutral speak kinda irritates me..... she’s right to say that we shouldn’t care about who anyone dates... but she doesn’t speak much in the name of BLACK PEOPLE.... I’m not 100 % sure I understand where she stands
Beautiful black women, date men who truly appreciate your beauty and I find that a lot of other race men celebrate you more than your own a lot of the times.
I’m glad Jeannie brought up the anti blackness. I’ve heard an East Asian lady say she would only let her kids date white or Asian men. Like girl please. We both minorities don’t act like you are better. The validation that people seek from white people is insane and disgusting. Who made white people the rulers over everything haha.
I understand where loni is coming from, but I’m gonna marry a black man. I just am. I don’t understand what the problem is with wanting that for your life. If that person is willing to wait, let them wait.
black men dont want black women and are not really conditioned to marry. There is nothing wrong with waiting for that black man.I know many 70 something year old single woman still waiting for that black man and kids. IJS
@@LisaLisaCJ that not true it's a lot us black men is prefer BLK women and u just saying that because hurt and I'm a black men I prefer BLK women and u making your self look dumb when u saying that.💯
I grew up seeing interracial couples and associated with a mix of friends so this conversation always bewilders me. I am aware of it, however it's just fear projection. So I've learned to not attend to those projecting fear. What that looks like is that they've conjured up fears about dating interracially for themselves and don't want you to experience what irrational fear they've conjured up....and more than likely they want to try someone else but are beholden to fear of hypocrisy.
I’m one who finds it difficult to see myself in an interracial relationship. BUT I do not shame or speak against those who do. Including my two children who are Both in interracial love stories.
my family had a problem with my white husband. they talked badly behind my back about us and the fact that he supports me financially. I find that part the most crazy bcz isn't that what husbands do, support their wives?
People especially BW can date whoever they want. Why do some BM felt the need confront BW for no reason and rub their preferences in BW’s faces by telling them “I don’t like BW.” BW honestly don’t care who you date! Like really don’t care. They just took their insecurities out on BW by making some BW hate their skin tone and everything about themselves. I know in society, BW supposed to stay “loyal” for these BM by staying single and waiting for these BM to pop up but like Loni said, life is too damn short to be waiting.
@@jaquaveonandress649 let's keep real reason because most BLK women stereotype all black men and one category and bash BLK men when y'all date outside y'all race.💯
Black Males seem to have more of a preference for non Black females. While Black Females seem to have more of a preference for Black Males. I definitely think more Black Females should be open to dating others.
they're gonna post dis on da shaderoom, or whatever blog, and ppl gonna definitely talk about jeannie and what she said 5 yrs ago, like she didn't go thru a whole journey before meeting jeezy after her divorce, like she hasn't matured, evolved, grown, and learned from her bad decisions, but most likely, every1 will look over that, they will pretend that growth doesn't exist when it comes to certain things, im not saying dat just because it was 5yrs ago, that means she changed, but im saying that ppl can grow and change drastically in 5yrs, its not impossible, and ppl didn't even get the whole background of the what she said, because if u got watch the actual video, she has repeatedly said what she meant by dat comment, and i think she was genuine, and she apologized for that comment. but lets say 20 yrs in da future, ppl still gone hold onto dis. and its just like yall, ik it wasn't the right words, and we shouldn't forget what she said, but we should allow her to to be the change person she is also, ppl aint gone stay da same way forever, ppl are gonna grow. and lets say she meant exactly what she said at dat time, ppl can still grow. like my momma told me a story of how she used to be racist towards white ppl, she would call em crackas and everything, but she said one day , God spoke to her, and said stop saying that, those are ur white brothers and sisters, and it was hard for her to accept that, cuz of the past of blacks and whites, and what she went thru with them personally, but she had to, and God cleaned her up of that. so u can change and grow if u want to, and if u give it to God, its not impossible. and its specifically my people, black ppl, that will not let her be, like didn't yall have to grow from certain things u did or said, rather it was racist, fetishes, homophobia, cursing, whatever, u had to grow didn't u? ik its hard to believe ppl can grow from racism or saying inappropriate things when it comes to us, because of what we've been thru wit white ppl or other races, but we have to accept the truth, ppl can GROW FROM ANYTHING. and jeannie had to grow too, and she has, so for ppl to not let her be better as a person, its honestly ridiculous, cuz its not what God told his children to do 🙏🏽❤️💯🤷🏽♀️
Would you rather she address the comment then say that's it, I'm never speaking on this again. Or do you think she's doing the right thing by not addressing it because she owes no one anything? Honest question. Because I always wondered if her and Jay had discussed either her speaking on it or leaving it alone. What do you think? Btw, I'm a Jeannie fan always coming to get defense but I've often wondered if she should just address it.
@@djm2985she already has addressed, she did it when she said, actually more than once. dats my point, ppl aint gone never let her be changed, and if in another world she never addressed it, yes then i would want her to. and im pretty sure ppl have told jay about what she said, theres a lot of ppl that want to see them fail, so im pretty sure he's gotten dms or messages about that, he may have confronted her about, and they probably have had to have a deep conversation about that situation. we dont know, but most likely it came up at some point in their relationship, dats all ppl talk about when their the topic ❤️🙏🏽
@@cupcakesmi1014 I didn't know she spoke on it. I feel like I've seen every one of her interviews I don't recall. Nevermind you're talking about the original video yes, you're right. However, Jay addressed it as well on his interview. I'll have to look up the title and tell you. He said she brought it up to him on their first date. He appreciated it and said she's solid and her family is solid. He took up for her. ❤️ Absolutely people want to see them fail. It's actually weird and sad.
This part I think that as long as a black man is with a woman that’s not black or the other way around people are going to talk I have dealt with it in my family and I thank God that my in-laws were not like this and are very excepting.
@@niawilkerson-aviles1701 exactly, i mean ik blk women get it bad too, and my mother has always expressed to me that its okay to date outside ur race, she told me to never feel like i have to date a blk man cuz im blk. but blk men get it bad too tho, but understand because they have a history if degrading blk women, but what i feel blk women dont realize is that not all blk men are like that. thats why i don't understand the hate jeannie's fiancé, jeezy, gets because he has never talked down on blk women. he has love for his sisters and still for his ppl, he just happened to fall in love wit someone who is asian, and thats okay. so yea, i despise that almost majority of my community is against seeing blk women or blk men date outside their race, or look at them as sellouts, there are blk men and women who degrade each other, but not all are like that, its sad❤️🙏🏽
I’ve dated outside my race before and experienced the same type of backlash from black men who felt I shouldn’t be with a White man. I don’t care what people say. I am absolutely open to dating outside of my race.
A lot of black men date outside their race due to colorism.... But you guys really are making this conversation extremely fluffy. And I don't know about Jeannie. I am still in my feelings about how she said she looked at black men as treats. In the end, I feel like who cares about who you date. As long as your intentions are good and you don't put other races/ethnicities or your own race/ethnicity down, let love lead.
I agree with the ladies. It shouldn’t matter what race you date. As long as the person respects you, your people and your culture and makes you happy. Also, as long as you aren’t being fetishized because that is a thing as well. Just do what makes you happy 😊
I come from a family of interracial marriages. My mother is biracial and my father is white/Scottish. My grandmother is a German woman and my grandfather (may he rest in peace) was a black man. It was just normal for me, of course growing up in that family of course. But they didn't care if they were being judged. They loved each other, and that's what mattered.
My only question is why do we as humans have to be in a full committed relationship with other humans of a different background to finally understand that someone is being treated inhumanly?!
I think is too easy to say everyone should be for interracial dating. The US has a dark history, where a lot of black people have a white european slave owner on their paternal lineage and an African on their maternal lineage AND LETS NOT FORGET SOME OF THAT WAS RECENT !
The same way Loni points out all black people not being allies to black people, I want to point out that not all and most of all politicians/officials who share the same faces are not your allies when they’re in high places. 3% of congress is made up of working class individuals. Though there’s racial and gender diversity within the administration, there isn’t socioeconomic or ideological diversity. Be aware of these things so we can hold leaders accountable. Be not fooled by identity politics.
I loved this episode so much and Loni was giving me Janelle Monae vibes! 😍😍 looking good Loni!! I’m happy for Kiki Palmer. I don’t understand why ppl always have to have a problem with someone when they don’t see them with someone who’s their race. We are in 2020 not 1945. Things are different and as long as you’re happy and that person treats you with respect and loves you, that’s all that matters.
black people, white people or brown people doesn’t matter what skin color it is important that you are happy with this person we are all human beings God created us this way and God makes no mistakes, why always these hate comments do something positive in your life
I am mixed with black and white and my husband is black. We were walking into a store. A black woman yells out "There you go stealing our men!?" Who says they are yours!,?!? They aren't property!! I didn't fall in love with him because of the color of his skin. I fell in love with him for who he was as a person 😃
Different cultures mixing have existed since the beginning of history. This is why as a globe we are a mixed race. A certain % of this, a certain % of that. What I did want to say that in the North Americas and some parts of Europe, at least from what I know, interracial is completely ok. Is normal. But when immigrants from other countries come into democratic and multicultural societies, I sometimes feel they think their job is to recreate their own race in their new surroundings, and when they see an interracial couple, it's like, my mind has been blown! It can't be possible!
This is so funny! They all dated outside their race so of course they wont find an issue with it lol. Date who you wanna date but personally Black Love is what I prefer!
Never said there was an issue! And I’m tired of black ppl having to defend why they only want to date inside their race! No other race has to defend why the prefer their own but black ppl!
Last year, My boyfriend and I ate at a restaurant for Valentines Day and a black woman was like, “y’all are so beautiful together”. I wanted to cry because that was the first time I’ve heard anything positive from somebody else. I have been bullied by some Black women that I “stole” another one of their men and that I need to stick with my race because they can’t find a good Black man anymore like....?
trust me girl you didn't steal nothing from us if his money don't look like Michael B Jordans chile. This black girl is happy to see interracial relationships regardless the race.
@@baby_shii1263 omg thank you so much!😭❤️ that really means a lot to hear. Honestly people’s opinions should never phase me but it’s hard to ignore when it’s constant. But I appreciate you for this❤️
Congratulations ladies for your great show.i would say that differently let people live their life the way they want.come on haters leave people alone and let them be happy whoever they chosen to love.its because of people like you the world is so bad miserable hateful and shaken.grow and learn to be a better human being if you want people treat you well.do something positive and constructive to make the kids appreciate you in case of being so negative destructive and inhumane.i am so happy for keke palmer.be safe.peace and be smart.
I'm sorry for cutting off like that, so let me go back to where i cut off from my comment above right what i was saying oh yeah the thing i was getting at about this particular person being the one who always stands out head and shoulders way above the rest be it in music/acting/reality TV/or day time TV she's got nothing but the very best qualities in a human being, she just comes across in the most beautiful kind-hearted way the world has gotta love a person like her, Adrienne bailon really is that beautiful saying ( Beautiful on the outside Beautiful on the inside ) other women should follow her example as a genuine person.
The food, the cookouts, the dance, the music, the talk, the walk, the head nod, the telepathy, the history, the clothing, the hair, and the strength. Culture is pretty easy to see. Defining it in clear words is something else.
"the customs, arts, social institutions, and achievements of a particular nation, people, or other social group." Food, music, fashion, language variations, social practices... the same things that make any culture.
You can't help who you fall in love with........ The heart doesn't see what color people are....... 🙄 I'm black girl and dated African, white, indian, islander... Isian And I actually dated others cultures way before men from my continent😊
I honestly date whoever I wanna date ... asian, black, white, indian, arab, latino, polynesian, blue alien ... as long as we vibe WE VIBE
Same!!!!
Yup absolutely I’m the exact same way and could care “less” about, what others think or say.👎🏽😑🏳️🌈 Love is love, you don’t like it, don’t look! Keke and Garcelle said it best!!💜✊🏽
EXACTLY!!!
Avarus sound like a mammy.
Amen 🙏🏾
Black women have been getting heavily harassed for dating outside of our race lately. Black men talked down on Black women for a long time and have the audacity to police our dating lives.
Listen...you could be single for 10 years and then get with a white guy and then they're talking about selling out.
Black women are expected to be “loyal” to the black race but the standard isn’t held the same for black men.
And the same Afro American Woman will say nothing when her Black Male friend dates a white Female. Ladies...respect yourself and other AFRO AMERICAN WOMEN.
Yeah I never understood that black men can date outside their race but not us and they have the nerve to say we too dark or spicy what is that
@@sherreafaison6422 Double Standards that unfortunately Black Women make. Black male friends with non Black Women. No problem. Their girlfriends wit White guys. Nooo. Let's learn to be one Race. The Human race.
Mind Your Business Ministries is still accepting members. 🙌🏿
Amen to that!
Amen
THAT!
I'm weak absolutely 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes we are!
You’ll never find me dragging any black men for dating out.. waste of energy.. he doesn’t want to date a black woman.. ok? And so what?
its not a big deal to date outside your race, thats normal. but its abt if ur 'preferences' to who u want to date and if they are racist or colorist. specifically in the blk community thats what it comes down to for a lot of blk men🤷🏽♀️ theres no reason to get mad or something if someone of any race dates outside of their circle but for those who say entirely "i dont date this specific group of ppl" its the reasons behind that
If it was the other way around..people would b so mad...if a white man was condemned for dating a black woman...they would all be so mad
Exactly. I don't have the time or the energy. Lol. I love men in general so there is a wide pool of men out there for me. Lol
@@zoriahfrancis2270 Half these people wouldn’t say it to Jeezy face.
So black women are dating out because they do it. That's not really logical.
I love and adore Jeannie's honesty about the anti-blackness in the Asian community. I cannot wait until they have that honest conversation. And I love her response. Poor thing gets it really really bad on all of the blogs. Jeezy gets it bad from black women. I always say his music is for the culture but his wife is for him. Don't get it confused.
But no one EVER talks about anti-Asian bias in the black community. It exists and I've experienced it myself.
@@Cloudfive55 Oh I definitely agree. It's all in the shade room comments. The hatred is all over youtube under videos pertaining to Jeannie and her relationship. If you don't like her personality just say that but when you start to come for her because she's Asian and thinks it's okay to make Asian jokes that needs to be addressed. Hopefully once she address her own community first then she may feel a lot more comfortable speaking on it across the board.
yesss. it very much goes both ways... both need to change...
trust me. blk women ain worried abt jeezy and jeannie.
@james harm 'look in the mirror' 1st off dont speak on the culture of our 'community' and tell us what we're guilty of doing😂 because you saw 3 comments on the shade room or something.
Well let’s keep this thing real ... There is anti-blackness within all communities and even within the black community aka colorism and other physical attributes.
I noticed this myself ( a Hispanic person with a black man in a predominantly black community)...and it is heartbreaking to see. How can people bring down their own people? It is not ok....
Exactly, Loni. Not all black people stand for and with black people. Sometimes our own are the biggest haters.
💯Facts!
BW please go where your celebrated not tolerated
This is it!
Black people coming the undercover racist people in America. Do white people ever say can u speak white and sleep black? Lol black people 💀 🤣
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
I can’t believe it’s 2020 and ppl still frown on interracial couples like ???
It's more of the older generation that are like that like the parents and grandparents etc, the newer younger generation doesn't really care all that much, now you do have some younger generation that are racist don't get me wrong, but for the most part we really don't care about interracial dating cuz we do it ourselves, so it's more of the older generation that's like that
I think people accepts same sex relationships more the interracial couples. Especially black and white.
Yeah and it's 2020 and black men are still being killed in the streets and black women assassinated in their own homes so what's your point?!!
@S J Police shootings are rare!! Are you serious? Your level of delusion is out of the charts...your wake up call is gonna be very harsh 🙂
Exactly
Tamera was being “black-shamed” last week on the shaderoom as the twin who married a white man, and being made fun of as being Caucasian. And people find it funny. I will never understand such double standards.
I just think Tamera brings up too much attention towards it. Like she addressed it once so just leave it at that. Also Adam just doesn’t seem to be one of those people culturally flexible. Like he doesn’t understand black struggles
Both Kim K and Kendra Wilkinson both got tons of hate for their relationships but they don’t feed into it. Those people are not worth your tears
Sadly Adam is just not culturally aware and he comes across racist. Tamera seems to not speak on her black culture just to keep Adam happy
People really need to get a life..and the black community SHOULD NOT SHAME OTHER BLACK WOMEN FOR THAT..THERE ARE PLENTY OF PEOPLE PUT THERE DPING THE SHAMING FOR THEM..SPECIALLY TO BLACK WOMEN..I WISH WE COULD LOVE EACH OTHER MORE
@@babybree175 I don’t think it’s that they want to shame Tamera. But it is very irritating to have a partner completely tone deaf and ill educated on the racial backdrop of Black Americans. So when Tamera stays silent for race related issues she’s perpetuating those points by staying quiet for Adams sake. When in reality she needs to be educating him.
@bsbgirl85 where you at?
Nothing wrong with dating outside your race as long as you aren't putting your race down while putting others on a pedestal - a classic sign of self hate. Other than that, everyone should mind their own business and keep it moving. Also, I would love to hear a segment about antiblackness in the asian community with Jeannie. It's been long overdue and someone has to talk about it!
Stop that self hate bs 😒🤦🏾♂️
Adrienne said it well. You can be with someone of another race and still not love and support their culture.
That definitely reminds of Adam
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
@@MaishaOnTop Adam is not racist. He just doesn't coddle people.
@@alexanderbecker2264 Lol, white men and Asian women date outside the race more than blacks! If you are racist why did you gravitate towards a channel about interracial dating? Stop trolling.
@@ms.bubs4fun506 you can date black and be rasict
My only problem with this is when people bash the other race. Like for a black guy to say “Black women are bossy” “or black women are crazy” instead of saying I’m attracted to my partner not because their race because they are attractive to me. Love whomever stop putting other people down and just celebrate love.
@Aalyha Giles that part
Yes yes yes ...exactly my problem
@@bsbgirl85
Right they were trying to push it down Amanda and Tisha Campbell's throat. Love who you want.
And making tiktok videos, no other race of men does this smh
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
"Love who loves you" absolutely Garcell and Lonnie was hitting every single nail on the head!!! Great discussion Lonnie!!!
Black men date out all of the time and are never questioned about their blackness. Anyway I’m glad that Jeanie wants to discuss the racism towards black people from a lot of the Asian community, looking forward to that episode if it airs.
Please! Yes black men are
@Amor Marie good point
Are you serious? So black women never bash black men for dating out of there race? You women really think that you don't spit venom when you see a black man with another race. Black men are more open, but they are not less bashed. Matter of fact some are called coons.
@o g Can definitely see that
@Amor Marie which is really sad
Garcelle saying “I don’t have to prove anything to anyone” is so true and everyone should feel this way about their love life! It’s nobody else’s business!
People should date who enhances them mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, whatever colour of the rainbow they may be.
WORD!
I am white but I have always been interested in knowing why you are the race that most dates people of other races while we in the other races prefer our own race. Besides that you are the race considered the least desired.
Black Women are still the least likely to date outside their race.
@@alexanderbecker2264 your wrong
They’re all in interracial relationships
86 % of us have black wives
So really
@@craigsims1189 She's talking about the hosts of the show. lol
@@craigsims1189 BTW, it's 86% of the black men that actually matter. Only about 25% of black men are married and within that 25% they are mostly married to black women. Learn math!
When black women date white men alot times their attitudes change towards black men in a negative way.
@@williesartsdesignscuisines That’s a damn lie. BW in interracial relationships still be on the front lines fighting for Black men’s lives. When it’s Black men? They go out of their way to show off their white or “exotic” ex while tearing down the Black women. We see it all the time in real life & on social media so I’m not even about to back & forth with you. Take that bullshit elsewhere.
I feel like dating outside of your race helps you better understand another culture and be more open and accepting rather than closed off and non inclusive, however no matter who you date you should always be accepting of others.
Agreed, but I also feel like both people in the relationship need to be culturally flexible. I feel like that’s why Tamera and Adam gets so much flack. He doesn’t understand black issues and argues that All lives matter etc. that’s why Tamera ends up looking like a clown
I agree
Agreed
I will never date someone outside of my race..
@@roka2031
Good for you... 🙄
Why don’t they address that black women (most of us anyway) don’t have a problem with black men dating outside our race, but it’s when black men talk down on black women or put other races on a pedestal over black women. That’s when black women have a problem with it. You don’t have to put us down.
That’s why I think this panel needs a younger black woman (20s-30s) to address this perspective. I love Garcelle as the new co-host but there’s a void because there’s no one to speak for younger Black women.
Lies
If that's the case then why did black women attack Jeezy. Even using the Gucci Mane Vs Jeezy, talking about Jeezy already loss because Gucci married a black woman. And please do not attempt to make it personal and say it wasn't me.
@@maurice9293 reread what i put in parentheses.
Raven
You are so right, we don't care who you date but don't put down black woman, cause guess what? You came from a black woman 🤔
People don't have a problem with interracial dating. Black men just have a problem with black women interracially dating. Its pathetic. For the record, BW are sick of the disrespect they get from BM who "prefer" IR dating. We don't care !
I feel like it’s different when people have fetishes with certain races idk if that makes sense
It makes sense. At the end of the day you like who you like. The problem is that women are bashed for dating outside their race and made to feel like they are disloyal. I have had friends shame me for having crushes on men of other races. It is sad!! But black men have the privilege to date whomever they want and it is not novelty
@@juliamyron7347 Unfortunately yes especially when women just have a type but a lot of black men actually bash black women while going for other races which is so much worse tbh
@@juliamyron7347 But why is that? Is it seen that Black women have to hold up the Black community and culture and Black men do not? I really think that Black women have it the worst because I don't even think Black gay men have to deal with as much as Black women do, I see this as a gay white male who dates outside of my race.
yeah some people like mixed babies and get into interracial relationships because of that. it’s weird
@@juliamyron7347 you need new friends
I remember my (white) boyfriend and I were waiting for the bus (before covid) and were just minding our business, talking about what we planned to do today, laughing, etc. An older black man comes up to us and is accusing him of being a racist since I am black. He even asked me,”do you think he’s innocent?!” And I said,”yes, because he respects me and his race does not matter.” The man was upset and he had an intimidating vibe that made it feel like he might attack my boyfriend. He mentioned how it isn’t fair for me to be with a white man when during his time, he would’ve been murdered for being with a white woman. We tried to let him know how those situations back then were not and never will be okay, and how not all white people are like that. There were other people, even a bus driver near by who just watched and didn’t say anything. When the bus came the man was getting on the same one, I was worried he would become loud and upset again by our relationship. His stop was before ours, and when we exited he came out the front, passing us, and he said,”I’m sorry for what I said.” My boyfriend accepted his apology and let him know to have a great day. I asked my boyfriend how he felt after the situation and for him never being in a really big altercation with race, he said it made him upset because we knew he was not racist and how being accused of that or me being questioned was messed up. It reminded me how interracial relationships are still seen as an issue. My boyfriend’s mom treats me differently than her other daughters in law and I feel it’s either because I’m younger or because I’m Black and Mexican. Who knows. My boyfriend told me once she told her kids to never marry a black person, so he and I are sure we know where her heart is. Regardless, we have each other. We’ve been through so much that we know we don’t need to defend our relationship to anyone, and seeing people like what we’ve experienced just shows that racism still exists and hatred exists and we’ve got a lot of work to do.
You're not black gtfoh
Please stop making black men always look like the villain please
Everyone is carrying their own weight, his path and beliefs is not the same as others
Keke’s Concern
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It really weirds me out the way people are upset about other people being in certain kind of relationships or lifestyles! If somebody is dating outside their race... that is their business !!! Why does it bother you , how does it affect you , where is this any sort of reason to be considered a worrisome thing upon on your personal life! Let people live... let people love... and let love be! I’m a person who has been raised to be AWARE of color but not let it be the only thing that defines a person as a whole or else it sets up a bias of what I could feel that may end up having me miss out on my blessing!
Also ... I’m just glad we have this show... because the way these ladies always used to have conversations and talk about their cultures season 1 up til now... season 1 we used to talk about the positive and funny and relatable “ were we all raised in the same household “ kind of questions that no matter what race you are... you just understand and smile and have that relatability factor! But now we’re in season 7 where we don’t only show the bright side... but we also get to hear the dark and very unfortunate news and stories and get to listen and be empathetic to other cultures stories and figure out how to be better allies to those apart of communities that aren’t necessarily our own cultures!
Who Run the World?
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Look at Biden & Kamala giving us a preview of how promising these next four years will be once they’re sworn into Office... this is MAJOR !!! To see so many beautiful black and brown faces and FEMALES on top of that... this is gonna be one hell of s turnaround for our court... especially after the bastardized dumpster fire we know as Trump’s presidential term the last four years
You always leave amazing comments on videos. Thanks for sharing your wisdom
Agreed💯💯💯
Nobody:
Adrienne: What a concept!
😂😂😂
As a mixed person, I will always be in an interracial relationship, so looks like I will receive judgement no matter what. Oh well!
@@Lacey424 Hard to find someone with the same exact mix
Advocating for your significant other is SUPER important! Come through Jennie. I love her!
Agree!!! My partner (black) never advocated for me (Hispanic) when I did for them, unfortunately. But it is definitely important!
@@jojoc326 unfortunately black people do have to deal with racism/bigotry from Hispanics, so it was probably hard to advocate for a group that didn't treat him well. My husband is black and I don't expect him to advocate for hispanics/Latinos. I see how Hispanics treat him. Instead I check my own people for being bigoted and treating him bad because he is black.
As a white person I dated a black girl for 2 years and we had a wonderful relationship. Only my parents knew because I only cared about their opinion more than anybody else and they were cool with it. I agree with Garcelle love who you want to love and tune out all the negativity that is thrown at you
I am glad you had a wonderful relationship. A - would you do it again? B - why didn’t you tell anyone else? Especially if you didn’t care what they thought.
@@4daluvofnikki I absolutely would date a black girl again. I've been single for 5 years. I didn't want to bother with having to justify my relationship to certain people in my family who I knew would be judgmental
@@adamgranger5653 I'm glad you chose to be accepting of everyone. I also sorta wish that you had challenged your families opinions and opened their eyes to the beauty of all people
@@killa2flyy I definitely will the next time. When I was with my ex I was only 19 and was new to dating. I'm going to be 25 soon so I have more self awareness about bringing up issues to my family
I’ve met so many guys who say they liked black girls but wouldn’t date one Bc of the judgement. So good for you :)
I am attracted to Black men and haven’t had a serious relationship with anyone who isn’t Black. However, I am not angry at anyone for dating who they are attracted to. Be with and LOVE who you fall in love with.
Expand your options!
omgg y’all look soooo flawless!!
My grandfather who is a Black and Native American man who served in Vietnam fell in love with my grandma while he was there. When he brought her home, there were Black women who would make comments walking by such as “oh we’re not good enough?” He would respond with where we’re you when I was looking. It’s crazy because this was the 60’s. Unfortunately not much has changed. They’re still married to this day. I’m happy to be a multicultural women of color.
Aww 🥺🥺 this is so cute! I hardly see or hear about any elderly interracial couples
Love u who love but also love who loves you. I as a black man have a problem with other black men getting successful and leaving their black women!!!
Thank you. I can respect that!
A group of women in interracial relationships defending interracial relationships 😂😂😂😂😭😭
Who better than them.
@@noreenperez8666 exactly, perfect examples🙌🏾
So?????
It is funny! 😂😂😂
That’s what I said
My husband and I are gay and interracial, and society has already given two strikes and it’s hard at times, but love rules all.
Keep being you.
do you think it is a gay thing or a race thing? I am gay and date outside my race and I may think it is more of a gay thing than a race thing but he may not see it as that. How does the community and culture come into play with the two of ya'll? Do you think some of the pressure is off because ya'll are gay?
every time jeezy posts a pic with jeannie a lot of black women are under his posts hating and saying that he should be with a black woman instead
Facts
@Adarose what do you mean “ she can’t find a Vietnamese “ so are you saying you HAVE to be with the same race... cuz last time I checked that’s not how preferences and attraction works... she has dated all kinds of men of all different races but has always even when she was younger dated black men... hell her prom date was a black guy , her first childhood crush in her class was black... so Jeezy is not a surprise nor anything to be up in arms about when it comes to who she’s dating... stop thinking that if you date outside your race it is an issue... cuz it’s not... a black man or black woman dating outside their race does not make them sell out , it doesn’t mean they don’t care for black women , it doesn’t mean they are anti black , it just means they have a preference and THATS OK !!! Grow up!
@Adarose it’s because he’s successful ?!?! So what is she ?!?! She’s been in the game for stleast 20 damn years... and so has he.... both in their own respective lanes and have come together to make change in more ways than one.... and you’re talking about who can father black children ?!?! Jeezy has not one but THREE Kids and she is aware of that and he takes care of them and she’s ok with that and is grown and mature enough to be able to put herself out of the equation and respect what came before her
Exactly
Bc why tf are you dating out for
I really really really don't care..as long as the chemistry is there
If Caucasian and Asian men would be more open minded to dating black women, I think more black women would date outside of their race. I've dated Caucasian, Dominican, Ghanaian, and Trinidadian. Yes, taste the rainbow, lol.
Some of those are not race but ethnicities.
@@raic3283 You're correct. I omitted a couple of words such as ethnicity, Latinos, Italians, Indians, etc. I just want women to be open to date men outside of their norm.
@Adarose You will have to ask them. Maybe more Caucasian women date more outside of their races more than other races of women(I don't have statistics just going on assumption). I only had a serious relationship with one Caucasian man but I did miss things about being with someone of African descent.
When it comes to black people, our men in particular i think its important to distinguish between love and racial trauma. Are you in love, or do you consistantly date people that dont look like you because you think they're better.
Black men are not "our men" let it go. If Jeezy wanted a Black Woman he would of found one.
You should have taken the time to read my comment and the context in which it was meant instead of poppin off with your brain dead remark. Breaking down what i meant to you wouldnt be worth any effort further than this.
I'm living in Italy and me other Afro American Women are Dating outside our Race, Nationality and sometimes Religion. Who CARES?? It's so hard to find LOVE. Please don't judge or criticize someone for not their same race. It's RIDICULOUS! 💕
Tbh these topics are so dry and surface level without Amanda. I used to like how she would challenge the ladies on the things they would say. It caused them to have more REAL and in-depth conversations .
Yes!
She shined in those racial topics but any other topic she did not. In my opinion, she was not suited to be a full-time co-host. She was better as a guest.
She would probably be a bigot about it.
Amanda was racist and constantly trying to overcompensate for being light skinned with curly hair and looking mixed. Like she has to be more black than everyone in the room and finds racism in everything and can’t possibly ever see fault in how black ppl behave. She even defended Jussie Smollet’s hate crime hoax saying it was noble! She’s absolutely disgusting and ignorant.
LOVE doesn't have a race !! Period!! Be open-minded to learning something different!
Exactly
No one:
Adrienne: What a concept!
I was in a relationship with a white guy and my mom was making jokes about jungle fever and if he's down for the swirl. I'm open to dating whoever black, white, Latinos, middle eastern whoever.
Jeannie’s reaction at 2:16 when Garcelle asks if anyone had an issue with her dating Jeezy is soooo classic!! 😂😂😂
Also, these ladies are truly the perfect ones to be talking about this since they are all in or have been in interracial relationships ❤️❤️❤️
Love is love and let's respect other people. We are all human beings, no one owns nobody. Don't let other people's comments keep you from being happy. Ignore negativity always.
LOL Loni's face on 4:45 when she begins to speak and Adrienne tried to ask Jeanie a question. LOL
Adrienne makeup is on point
I said the same. She was looking flawless.
As a black gay man with a disability, I’m dreading the day that I get a relationship. I’m attracted to multiple races and I don’t necessarily want to date another man with a physical disability. I can’t even describe this dread of being judged in every way possible. People who are shouting equality the most are excluding romantic relationships. I hate it. Honestly, gay black men still judge other same sex interracial relationships and it’s hilarious how they are the same bitter, single people.
@@iamseanhenry2392 that too
You’ll find love dont worry 💗
I also don’t like the idea that ppl who choose to date within their race/culture are limiting themselves and that they are more likely to miss out on true love bc of that. If your culture is important to you then marrying someone who also loves your culture can enhance your connection and the love you have for eachother. The judgment goes both ways.
I dated a black man (and I am hispanic)... I got SOOOO MANY SIDE-EYES from his side of the camp and strangers. It was so sad to experience. I never felt accepted. Women shamed and disrespected me because they felt like I took 'one of theirs'.... 😔
I'm black and my woman is Vietnamese and she's beautiful!!! We're all people what's the big deal?
Wish you and you woman well in 2021 and beyond. 👍🏿
@@C2G2 exactly that is what I'm thinking 🤔 we are all just people why do people make big deals over nothing 🤔🤔🤔🤔
So true at the end of the day ..we are all just people ..period 🙂
All I got to say is that all people who's intent to date interracially are not based on true/ pure intentions. Some will date x based on superficial reasons (stereotypes, fetishizing etc...). ***** I'M NOT SAYING TO NOT DATE INTERACIALLY. DO YOU AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE. YOU HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE*** I recommend that if you want to explore this, to ensure to be cognizant of a person's true intent. Coming from personal experience, it's a new level of hurt for someone to use/fetisize you based on your color.
What’s wrong with people, love should know no colour! 🖤🤍🤎💛
It's also fine if you date, and are only attracted to men of your own race. I don't judge people who date outside of their race. I love who I love, and who I'm attracted to. There's nothing wrong with that! 🥰
That is racist.
Loni’s neutral speak kinda irritates me..... she’s right to say that we shouldn’t care about who anyone dates... but she doesn’t speak much in the name of BLACK PEOPLE.... I’m not 100 % sure I understand where she stands
“Advocacy.” I love that. 💕
Beautiful black women, date men who truly appreciate your beauty and I find that a lot of other race men celebrate you more than your own a lot of the times.
I’m glad Jeannie brought up the anti blackness. I’ve heard an East Asian lady say she would only let her kids date white or Asian men. Like girl please. We both minorities don’t act like you are better. The validation that people seek from white people is insane and disgusting. Who made white people the rulers over everything haha.
I believe in interracial dating. I just wish I would've expressed my thoughts on it clearer to my friends. 😉😊👍🏽
I understand where loni is coming from, but I’m gonna marry a black man. I just am. I don’t understand what the problem is with wanting that for your life. If that person is willing to wait, let them wait.
black men dont want black women and are not really conditioned to marry. There is nothing wrong with waiting for that black man.I know many 70 something year old single woman still waiting for that black man and kids. IJS
I don't see the problem with dating a white man.
Good luck!
@@LisaLisaCJ that not true it's a lot us black men is prefer BLK women and u just saying that because hurt and I'm a black men I prefer BLK women and u making your self look dumb when u saying that.💯
I grew up seeing interracial couples and associated with a mix of friends so this conversation always bewilders me. I am aware of it, however it's just fear projection. So I've learned to not attend to those projecting fear. What that looks like is that they've conjured up fears about dating interracially for themselves and don't want you to experience what irrational fear they've conjured up....and more than likely they want to try someone else but are beholden to fear of hypocrisy.
Agreed. 💯💯💯
I’m one who finds it difficult to see myself in an interracial relationship. BUT I do not shame or speak against those who do. Including my two children who are Both in interracial love stories.
I really will never understand why some take issue with people dating outside their race we're all human I really don't get it
As long as he loves God, love, respect, and honor me....I don't care what "wrapping" the Lord presents him in. lol Character over Color.
I like that 😊
Ahaha amen!
Garcelle said exactly what I am facing right now . My family had a problem with my white boyfriend.
my family had a problem with my white husband. they talked badly behind my back about us and the fact that he supports me financially. I find that part the most crazy bcz isn't that what husbands do, support their wives?
I'm just loving Garcelle on the show.
Can't express that enough.
People especially BW can date whoever they want. Why do some BM felt the need confront BW for no reason and rub their preferences in BW’s faces by telling them “I don’t like BW.” BW honestly don’t care who you date! Like really don’t care. They just took their insecurities out on BW by making some BW hate their skin tone and everything about themselves. I know in society, BW supposed to stay “loyal” for these BM by staying single and waiting for these BM to pop up but like Loni said, life is too damn short to be waiting.
Y’all ain’t supposed to stay “loyal” to us, that’s sounds like your own insecurities 💯🤨
@@jaquaveonandress649 let's keep real reason because most BLK women stereotype all black men and one category and bash BLK men when y'all date outside y'all race.💯
Black Males seem to have more of a preference for non Black females. While Black Females seem to have more of a preference for Black Males. I definitely think more Black Females should be open to dating others.
they're gonna post dis on da shaderoom, or whatever blog, and ppl gonna definitely talk about jeannie and what she said 5 yrs ago, like she didn't go thru a whole journey before meeting jeezy after her divorce, like she hasn't matured, evolved, grown, and learned from her bad decisions, but most likely, every1 will look over that, they will pretend that growth doesn't exist when it comes to certain things, im not saying dat just because it was 5yrs ago, that means she changed, but im saying that ppl can grow and change drastically in 5yrs, its not impossible, and ppl didn't even get the whole background of the what she said, because if u got watch the actual video, she has repeatedly said what she meant by dat comment, and i think she was genuine, and she apologized for that comment. but lets say 20 yrs in da future, ppl still gone hold onto dis. and its just like yall, ik it wasn't the right words, and we shouldn't forget what she said, but we should allow her to to be the change person she is also, ppl aint gone stay da same way forever, ppl are gonna grow. and lets say she meant exactly what she said at dat time, ppl can still grow. like my momma told me a story of how she used to be racist towards white ppl, she would call em crackas and everything, but she said one day , God spoke to her, and said stop saying that, those are ur white brothers and sisters, and it was hard for her to accept that, cuz of the past of blacks and whites, and what she went thru with them personally, but she had to, and God cleaned her up of that. so u can change and grow if u want to, and if u give it to God, its not impossible. and its specifically my people, black ppl, that will not let her be, like didn't yall have to grow from certain things u did or said, rather it was racist, fetishes, homophobia, cursing, whatever, u had to grow didn't u? ik its hard to believe ppl can grow from racism or saying inappropriate things when it comes to us, because of what we've been thru wit white ppl or other races, but we have to accept the truth, ppl can GROW FROM ANYTHING. and jeannie had to grow too, and she has, so for ppl to not let her be better as a person, its honestly ridiculous, cuz its not what God told his children to do 🙏🏽❤️💯🤷🏽♀️
Would you rather she address the comment then say that's it, I'm never speaking on this again. Or do you think she's doing the right thing by not addressing it because she owes no one anything? Honest question. Because I always wondered if her and Jay had discussed either her speaking on it or leaving it alone. What do you think? Btw, I'm a Jeannie fan always coming to get defense but I've often wondered if she should just address it.
@@djm2985she already has addressed, she did it when she said, actually more than once. dats my point, ppl aint gone never let her be changed, and if in another world she never addressed it, yes then i would want her to. and im pretty sure ppl have told jay about what she said, theres a lot of ppl that want to see them fail, so im pretty sure he's gotten dms or messages about that, he may have confronted her about, and they probably have had to have a deep conversation about that situation. we dont know, but most likely it came up at some point in their relationship, dats all ppl talk about when their the topic ❤️🙏🏽
@@cupcakesmi1014 I didn't know she spoke on it. I feel like I've seen every one of her interviews I don't recall. Nevermind you're talking about the original video yes, you're right. However, Jay addressed it as well on his interview. I'll have to look up the title and tell you. He said she brought it up to him on their first date. He appreciated it and said she's solid and her family is solid. He took up for her. ❤️
Absolutely people want to see them fail. It's actually weird and sad.
This part I think that as long as a black man is with a woman that’s not black or the other way around people are going to talk I have dealt with it in my family and I thank God that my in-laws were not like this and are very excepting.
@@niawilkerson-aviles1701 exactly, i mean ik blk women get it bad too, and my mother has always expressed to me that its okay to date outside ur race, she told me to never feel like i have to date a blk man cuz im blk. but blk men get it bad too tho, but understand because they have a history if degrading blk women, but what i feel blk women dont realize is that not all blk men are like that. thats why i don't understand the hate jeannie's fiancé, jeezy, gets because he has never talked down on blk women. he has love for his sisters and still for his ppl, he just happened to fall in love wit someone who is asian, and thats okay. so yea, i despise that almost majority of my community is against seeing blk women or blk men date outside their race, or look at them as sellouts, there are blk men and women who degrade each other, but not all are like that, its sad❤️🙏🏽
Lmao is the part where adrienne tried to cut Lonnie off while she was speaking lonnies face had me rolling 😂😂
Lol, I dont remember that part, will have to find it. Darn it..wish u could've time stamped it😁
Is right after jeannie stopped talking at 12:25
And also at 4:45 😂😂😂
I’ve dated outside my race before and experienced the same type of backlash from black men who felt I shouldn’t be with a White man. I don’t care what people say. I am absolutely open to dating outside of my race.
Bring back OOTD 😫 you ladies are killing it 😍😍😍
A lot of black men date outside their race due to colorism.... But you guys really are making this conversation extremely fluffy. And I don't know about Jeannie. I am still in my feelings about how she said she looked at black men as treats.
In the end, I feel like who cares about who you date. As long as your intentions are good and you don't put other races/ethnicities or your own race/ethnicity down, let love lead.
@KnineATheart ` I didn't say a majority. I said a lot? I'm not lying. There are literally statistics... Simmer down
I feel like black women get more backlash for dating interracial while black men or praised
I agree with the ladies. It shouldn’t matter what race you date. As long as the person respects you, your people and your culture and makes you happy. Also, as long as you aren’t being fetishized because that is a thing as well. Just do what makes you happy 😊
I come from a family of interracial marriages.
My mother is biracial and my father is white/Scottish.
My grandmother is a German woman and my grandfather (may he rest in peace) was a black man.
It was just normal for me, of course growing up in that family of course. But they didn't care if they were being judged. They loved each other, and that's what mattered.
Bless you and your family
Everyone’s hair looks SO GOOD!!
Nah. This convo is WEAK. Where's Amanda when you need her.
Amanda said it was too racist behind the scenes with the producers and studio. One executive called The Real, “The Ghetto View”.
@@gabelogan5877 lollll. Without her, the Real... is more like, the STALE.
What would you have liked to see?
Karabo Khwiane well Amanda has moved on and so should you. Go watch her podcast if you need to get your fill.
@@iacobus4227 I do both, don't worry
My only question is why do we as humans have to be in a full committed relationship with other humans of a different background to finally understand that someone is being treated inhumanly?!
This conversation is more complicated than the way they discussed it. This discussion could have used Amanda Seales.
What is so complicated about it?
@@s.m6605 google is free my friend.
@@briannadunkers-brown5072 great answer! 👍🏾
Black People Should Be Happy Courage Of Interracial Dating Relationships And Marriages For The First Time.
I think is too easy to say everyone should be for interracial dating. The US has a dark history, where a lot of black people have a white european slave owner on their paternal lineage and an African on their maternal lineage AND LETS NOT FORGET SOME OF THAT WAS RECENT !
Thank you! Idk why this so hard to comprehend! People have their reasons for not dating outside their race
Exactly
Folk say date who you love, so what's wrong with only dating within your race..That's what you love....such hypocrisy
Whaaat a concept is the new AB-so-LUTELY
The same way Loni points out all black people not being allies to black people, I want to point out that not all and most of all politicians/officials who share the same faces are not your allies when they’re in high places.
3% of congress is made up of working class individuals. Though there’s racial and gender diversity within the administration, there isn’t socioeconomic or ideological diversity. Be aware of these things so we can hold leaders accountable. Be not fooled by identity politics.
I think it isn’t a big deal. For the most part as long as their families are not racist.
I loved this episode so much and Loni was giving me Janelle Monae vibes! 😍😍 looking good Loni!! I’m happy for Kiki Palmer. I don’t understand why ppl always have to have a problem with someone when they don’t see them with someone who’s their race. We are in 2020 not 1945. Things are different and as long as you’re happy and that person treats you with respect and loves you, that’s all that matters.
Too many people think the grass is greener on the other side and learn quickly that it is not.
black people, white people or brown people doesn’t matter what skin color it is important that you are happy with this person we are all human beings God created us this way and God makes no mistakes, why always these hate comments do something positive in your life
I am mixed with black and white and my husband is black. We were walking into a store. A black woman yells out "There you go stealing our men!?" Who says they are yours!,?!? They aren't property!! I didn't fall in love with him because of the color of his skin. I fell in love with him for who he was as a person 😃
I’m sorry that you had to experience that sis, it’s really werid for her to say when you’re half black yourself.
@@prettyz133 Thank you! Most people are shocked when I tell them I'm half black. A lot of people think I'm Hispanic or Italian 😃
Different cultures mixing have existed since the beginning of history. This is why as a globe we are a mixed race. A certain % of this, a certain % of that. What I did want to say that in the North Americas and some parts of Europe, at least from what I know, interracial is completely ok. Is normal. But when immigrants from other countries come into democratic and multicultural societies, I sometimes feel they think their job is to recreate their own race in their new surroundings, and when they see an interracial couple, it's like, my mind has been blown! It can't be possible!
This is so funny! They all dated outside their race so of course they wont find an issue with it lol. Date who you wanna date but personally Black Love is what I prefer!
Okay. Keep it personal then lol. There isn’t an issue with interracial relationships.
Never said there was an issue! And I’m tired of black ppl having to defend why they only want to date inside their race! No other race has to defend why the prefer their own but black ppl!
@@courtcourt1704 🥱 No one is asking you to defend anything. Stop victimising yourself.
@@courtcourt1704 right like GuRL, didn't nobody ask nor cared for what you like.
Black men were congratulating Jezzy for dating Jeannie
Jeannie you betta speak girl 👏🏽👏🏽
Last year, My boyfriend and I ate at a restaurant for Valentines Day and a black woman was like, “y’all are so beautiful together”. I wanted to cry because that was the first time I’ve heard anything positive from somebody else. I have been bullied by some Black women that I “stole” another one of their men and that I need to stick with my race because they can’t find a good Black man anymore like....?
trust me girl you didn't steal nothing from us if his money don't look like Michael B Jordans chile. This black girl is happy to see interracial relationships regardless the race.
@@baby_shii1263 omg thank you so much!😭❤️ that really means a lot to hear. Honestly people’s opinions should never phase me but it’s hard to ignore when it’s constant. But I appreciate you for this❤️
Congratulations ladies for your great show.i would say that differently let people live their life the way they want.come on haters leave people alone and let them be happy whoever they chosen to love.its because of people like you the world is so bad miserable hateful and shaken.grow and learn to be a better human being if you want people treat you well.do something positive and constructive to make the kids appreciate you in case of being so negative destructive and inhumane.i am so happy for keke palmer.be safe.peace and be smart.
I'm sorry for cutting off like that, so let me go back to where i cut off from my comment above right what i was saying oh yeah the thing i was getting at about this particular person being the one who always stands out head and shoulders way above the rest be it in music/acting/reality TV/or day time TV she's got nothing but the very best qualities in a human being, she just comes across in the most beautiful kind-hearted way the world has gotta love a person like her, Adrienne bailon really is that beautiful saying ( Beautiful on the outside Beautiful on the inside ) other women should follow her example as a genuine person.
I'm not American, but I've always wondered what Black/African American culture is.... can someone please help me learn
It’s all the great things everyone else loves and want to copy from American culture
The food, the cookouts, the dance, the music, the talk, the walk, the head nod, the telepathy, the history, the clothing, the hair, and the strength. Culture is pretty easy to see. Defining it in clear words is something else.
"the customs, arts, social institutions, and achievements of a particular nation, people, or other social group." Food, music, fashion, language variations, social practices... the same things that make any culture.
Thanks!!
You can't help who you fall in love with........ The heart doesn't see what color people are....... 🙄
I'm black girl and dated African, white, indian, islander... Isian
And I actually dated others cultures way before men from my continent😊
Everybody is doing it!! Just do it!
"How we bring our brands together..." saying that feeds into everything I hear people say about Jeezy and Jeanie.
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Been dating outside my race for 5 yrs never been better