You shouldn't let us know when the video is starting what will happen at the end of the video or have a clue on who cheated. Leave us in suspense. Who is with me?
This channel has been the most educative of all times Big up Stivoo its through you that people find what they dont know for years but you bring it to light within 30 minutes I dont know how to thank you but ever since I started watching comrade flavour its like you've opened my eyes whenever people see a red flag in their relationship they act accordingly n that saves so many relationships from falling apart...Kudos bro
Let me be clear here as well if my spouse has a well paying job my work is wake early prepare as well for him or her to work place I can not afford big money from shame,,ishindwe
Bullshit....better basi ufanye wash wash but kujianika huko unakuliwa na watu ka six Hahaha wacha nikae single. Some women are just snakes...eaten outside proper alafu anakuja kwa nyumba ati I love you. Nkt
What is there to be understand....wacha ujinga ww........u ladies mnapenda sana kujifanya.........sasa ulale na watu yet uko na bwana na usaidie siblings thats bullshit
I really feel for this lady, being with all this pressure to provide and at the same time the reality is soo piercing to this guy's heart, Hope all will be well
the lady was shocked when you said ya kudelete ndio rahisi kupata,alikua anastroll mbaya na anaangilia mr Stevo na bebs wake hadi na huyu wa video,wawawawa
The lady? The guy keeps asking 'Why didn't you tell me?'. Clearly he loves her. I think he would have understood. He even says 'your problems are mine'. It's been happening till 2 months ago. This man's heart is broken. You love someone that much but you are being played. What is he supposed to do now?
Delilah pretended to be in love with Samson, while she was on a mission to destroy him. May God expose every pretender in your life in the mighty name of Jesus.
No one has seen how composed and calm that dude is?? Mad respect, most of us wouldnt be that calm, thats a wise Guy. Halafu that last look he gave the wife, thats a goodbye look...Damn Dude needs prayers
At times in life, in this very life..when you stop doing the wrong and decide to change for a better person than the past toment you and betrays you publicly..this girl needs to be listened to...
This is sad. Sending my thoughts and prayers to both as they handle this. Her past is just that and each one of us has theirs. Nobody wants to open up about such rest your partner takes off and that can explain why she'd never tell him. However, how we solve the challenges in our life speaks volumes about the type of decisions we make. And that is something they must look into if he forgives her. What if she stops this lifestyle and they experience major financial setbacks in future? What kind of solutions is she going to have? So even if she is remorseful, sincere, and changes the lifestyle, there's also work that she needs to do on herself. And is she willing to do the work? Finding sustainable solutions to the challenges we encounter is not easy. But the easy way out is usually not a solution but a trap which can destroy your life.
Point on. And the way she was handling her phone while going BM was going through the guys phone. Halafu the shaky voice The evidence is always floating around. Only that the eyes to see it are rare
Mature confession, to a mature here. I salute her for that. Very hard topic indeed. To forgive is possible but to forget and move on while together is very difficult.
Counselling for this couple is very necessary.The lady is genuinely sorry.parents should stop loading their children with responsibilities.A follow up would be nice.
Please Steve just make sure you help this guys. This is too much and hard to take bro. Help them realise themselves and make sound decisions. The pressure is already getting so real on both of them. Make sure you reach out to them and let it not take time. This ain't just a normal loyalty test. It alot in it. Kuwa chap bro on this one. Otherwise thumbs up. KWELI NGOMA YA KITOTO HAIKESHI
This lady sounds like she really cares about her family and is doing whatever it takes to support them. Being a first born ( maybe she is) makes one have a great desire to help your siblings especially if you are from a single parent family that is struggling. However, doing prostitution even when married to support them is not justified. She has a kind heart for helping and maybe this exposure is God sent for her to have a turn around and change her ways. If she repents, gives her life to Jesus Christ, God will not disappoint her and will open other decent avenues of earning money to support herself and her family.
Am in love with honesty in this girl. It's so sad that your fiance might not be able to forgive you but you have opened your heart and you are remorseful and apologetic. If he forgives you, your relationship can be one of the best because there will be no secrets but if he doesn't move on girl you will indeed find love from someone else and if not keep doing you girl. By the end of the day mind your own happiness and keep doing you! Personally I never judge nobody everyone got a story to tell
May God remember those young ladies who are firstborns it's not easy to be the breadwinner of the whole family.Am one and I know how we have to struggle to make end meets
The problem is if you cheat during courtship, more so just a few days to your wedding,it is likely that you will cheat even in marriage not once but many times over. Often times, it all boils down to the character of an individual....
What if she wasn't busted by Steve?? She could have continued with her "business " The young man needs to know that God loves him and he has decided to rescue him from this entangled relationship before it is too late. He will get some one who will honor their marriage.
There is an obtuse situation I deduce which is trickier to juxtapose. The lady gave/lended money to her husband to secure a job. And now the guy has a job which now fends both of them. Well here on earth,somebody who doesn't love you can't give you that amount of money to bail you out of a situation. This is not defense but rather I am terming it "hard to place"....The guy has a job courtesy of the woman. Explaining the source of the cash is another nightmare.
Man Stevo, I have come to realize that your channel is like a dose to me because I must watch two uploads of your videos that is for 10.00am and 2.00pm. This Video made me to start fearing my relationship with my wife. A marriage for two months old and the guy never realized a miss in his marriage. Fear Kanairo women very much...............
I am a man and if i was in the shoes of this dude I would take in this lady. why? coz she is honest. Honesty is rare nowadays and the fact that she ''hustled her body'' out to have this dude get a job by spending 150K on him was a good indication she loves the dude. I feel the issue is something they talk out. The lady is caring and responsible. Only she was doing a wrong thing for right reasons No one has a good past.
Ooh My God! This is damn sad and painful. When you get the right person please ladies and gentlemen stick to them and be loyal. My wish is that they can resolve this amicably. The lady is remorseful and feels genuine.
As a partner being wronged once please take heart however hard it is to forgive that girl. So many People have their hidden dark past, nobody is 100% clean.
This girl has broken my heart with her honesty about her life’s struggles. She is just coming clean the man needs to put himself in her place. I would forgive her for her confession.
Apart from that she is also very beautiful,the only lapse is that she seems not have decided to let go of her " job" now that she is married,she ought also to have shared with her hubby about her baggage(dependants) so that he was prepared for it financially
That can't justify evilness...'better angemushow while in courtship the guy could decide to love him the way she is ama akanyage kubwa kubwa ....honesty kwa marriage ndio muhimu
She deserves forgiveness, Poverty is an enemy and it made her make the wrong choice. But again I say, "Whoever has never sinned to be the first one to throw a stone on her."
The gentleness, inquisitiveness, patience, pauses, .......how that guy has handled this situation has struck my heart!! May he find strength to heal from this awkwardness.
I love that lady for sure .She is honest and she does everything for the family ....Everyone has a story and everyone has a past .Those are the things that we need to understand ...I don't Judge anyone because i dont know the choices that they had at that time or those momments.
Single people pray n pray hard sio maombi ya chai na mkate maombi mzito before any commitment Kwa rlshp marriage is for destiny plead for God's mercy if you r serious with your life this episodes zinafaa kuwa funzo kwenu it's not just 4fun fungukeni macho Big man God bless the work of your hands
Away from the scandal, this lady can really write a nice composition. She knows how to arrange her statements, building her background well. Who else noticed this?
@@brendahkukunda8445Compensation I was Dangerous 😂😂Prefect too all the way but stevo is aking the Lay have you ever been aschool prefect?the lady said no.::Stevo..Don't wory yo will become the prefect of the Streets😂😂🎉Comrade is a Legend!! +44
I don't care what others are going to say, but please give this girl a chance. There are a lot of things in life we may never understand, but I know this Lady is genuinely in love, she is honest, and she really wants this marriage to work no matter what. She has a dark past, who doesn't?, Many will judge her negatively, but the genuinity in her soul is melting my heart.
@@denisoodhiambo2533 You don't (for now), remember life isn't perfect always, you don't know what tomorrow has in store for you either. Me I don't judge. If you have to, make it quick, at your own will.
Mbona watu wanatetea huyu dame....she could have shared her story to the guy......am a woman and I will never support any lady cheating......ati I was afraid of loosing you she has become prisoner of love
As a man, I've never encouraged a man to forgive a cheating lady....but this one is an exception. This lady was between a rock 🪨 and the deep rough sea 🌊 😳. She came out clean and confessed. Other fools will continue denying even the obvious....I hope they undergo deep and thorough counseling. Families should stop pressuring their adult children to carry their financial burdens....this pushes young people into vices....and illegal stuff 🙄 She was opening her legs to finance their sustenance.
I wouldn't forgive, do you know what a gang bang is? she hardcore and seems to enjoy doing it and would have continued behind his back if she wasnt exposed. This is how men end up raising kids that aren't theirs. Some women have a warped sense of logic and to her this wasnt cheating but fending for her family. He needs to drop her Asap go for STDs check and thank God for exposing the truth. Once a hoe always a whore. She belongs to the streets.
Hakuna cha forgiveness....haijawai watokea so hamuezi elewa......wakipatikana excuses hutoka left right centre but after forgiving unapata message inasema "c nilikushow huyu fala hawezi enda mahali nililia akaniforgive" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣mjinga mimi
Ready to change my foot. Anajua anaenda kuolewa na bado anaenda kugang bangiwa... Yaani ata ameshatombwa sana..ata habakishi bwanake hiyo kitu... Yaani anataka ampatiye kama ni imetoboka hadi mavi inapitia punany...fistula
Hahaaa, unafikiria anaweza change? Pole, she's used to these men and big man. When she started dating, she should have stopped but now analia tu ili asiachwe. Tanguy lini umalaya ikakuwa the only option, and again, nani in life hajawahi kuwa na mashida ya pesa but they didn't go that road? It's a choice, but particularly I blame her for not stopping when she got a serious guy. There is always a way to earn decent money but it takes time and perseverance..
Feel for both of them....the lady being a victim of life's circumstances. She didn't do it out of a bad heart. Hid it as she was afraid of losing yet another loved one....the guy for feeling betrayed and lied to. Hope he could find a compromise the lady deserves a chance, however the trust has been shaken it may never be the same.
Let me make this clear, your family is not your responsibility but ukibarikiwa please assist where you can. You don’t have to sell your body and lose your integrity in the name of “I’m taking care of my family” naukigonjeka si utaambukiza bwanako🤷🏽 that lady belongs to the streets
Big Man yu are doing great work,, sensitization is next to curatives and you are giving it in the right doses. You ahve really openened my eyes on how to look at real issues about relationships. KUDOS
This channel really inspires a lot..please take your time to watch from the start of BMS's videos,you might think he wastes time asking people questions before checking their phones,some of us are after drama at the end..but there's always a great lesson when comparing notes on the interview before checking phones and afterwards...
Some deep conversations need to be done here. It is easy to say leave the girl alone but at the end of the day everyone has their skeletons. I wish they can have this conversation with a professional before making a decision. All the best to them.
Men and women look for opposite qualities in one another. There's a reason why women date experience (older men) ,Men date inexperience (young women) Women look for tall guys, Men look for women shorter than them. Women want a Guy who has a future (purpose, self growth and wealth) Men want a lady who has no past ( sexual purity). Honestly I felt every ounce of pain in this guy's heart, damn! To make it worse, Gang bang and they we already engaged 😬
I totally disagree with you, prostitution is in ones blood it's a spirit thas why we have hustling out there to make a living but not prostituting bcz it is not in them.
I've watched almost every loyalty test. This one really hit me hard. From this loyalty test the man seems faithful he has given it all to the lady he loves her genuinely. There's question we normally ask very simple but most ladies misunderstand us probably they think either we want there money, we seduce them because maybe they have a well paying job or we will marry them because of there jobs but inside us we think differently, us men getting a lady to marry we think around on so many things other your there careers. If this lady could be open from day one and say this is what i do because of this reasons am 1000% sure the guy angemkubali but on conditions maybe one of it promise to leave such kind of job and change. You walk to shop ,mpesa, or wherever you get a lady lets say amesoma but hajabahatika kupata job you decide to take her unona vile anajicommit kuwa hata mpesa attendant you tell yourself she hardworking and blah blah blah only to realize such awkward business she been doing. How do you feel us a man unapita na dem wako alafu uniskia kumbe ule malaya aliolewa????? have seen a lawyer such kind of a lady even they did a wedding but i tell you hakuwacha hizo tabia till they divorced. For huyu msee apewe time ajiite mkutano aamue peke yake. Polite reminder ladies; men don't forgive a cheating woman. If you cheat on your man make sure he never finds out. If he does find out, kindly walk out of his life voluntarily
So the mpesa was just for the cover up, but the real deal was the other one, godd dammmn ..and chances are even though she was remorseful she might end up going back to such coz ya pesa na majukumu ni most even she had given the husband 150k. But she really did love the guy..ama?,,
@@jimmomanyi why do yu say that??? Coz even she got married and yet the real job was getting her alot of cash 💸 or maybe it was away of quitting that kind of work 🤔
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Hello bro
Hello there, how are you
Am a christian but i cannt judge her ..you 2 are good together...please forgive this girl...woiye..give her 2nd chance
Ooh
Help me with her number
I would love a follow up on this couple aki….. who’s with me!?😢
thats a good idea
You shouldn't let us know when the video is starting what will happen at the end of the video or have a clue on who cheated. Leave us in suspense. Who is with me?
True
Well said ,,ju coming up next inatuma wasee mob wasianzie kuwatch from the start... BMS toa hio coming up next
Hell no. Then why should one watch if you don’t know what will happen???
Exactly,I always want to enjoy not knowing will happen next not begining with the end in mind
Wee hio ni yako lazma tujue kuli enda aje
One lesson learnt from this clip, get enough time to know someone before you settle with them. Thanks Big Man Stivo
I love this guy's composure & maturity!
The lady doesn't differentiate between love and pleasure
Single is good, marriage is good, divorce is good. The only bad thing is to be with a wrong partner. Choose wisely.
Choosing wisely ..,. Only murife don't run can tell🤣🤣
What do you mean???..
Very true
Very true
My friend divorce is not good,,
This channel has been the most educative of all times Big up Stivoo its through you that people find what they dont know for years but you bring it to light within 30 minutes I dont know how to thank you but ever since I started watching comrade flavour its like you've opened my eyes whenever people see a red flag in their relationship they act accordingly n that saves so many relationships from falling apart...Kudos bro
Pp
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Haha lady laughing the inoccent the cheater mwazo mwazo wa cinema
I will share this video to all my contacts, the TITLE tu will add more subscribers.
Let me be clear here as well if my spouse has a well paying job my work is wake early prepare as well for him or her to work place I can not afford big money from shame,,ishindwe
parents wabebe mizigo yao sikusukumia watoto responsibility zao....i feel sorry for her
I feel for this lady. At times people have to do what they have to do. Some cannot understand.
Economy, hii Economy bana.
Let the other person know and choose if they want to be a part of that
Bullshit....better basi ufanye wash wash but kujianika huko unakuliwa na watu ka six Hahaha wacha nikae single. Some women are just snakes...eaten outside proper alafu anakuja kwa nyumba ati I love you. Nkt
What is there to be understand....wacha ujinga ww........u ladies mnapenda sana kujifanya.........sasa ulale na watu yet uko na bwana na usaidie siblings thats bullshit
Lakini, gang bang bana!!! Tulifika huku lini?
I really feel for this lady, being with all this pressure to provide and at the same time the reality is soo piercing to this guy's heart, Hope all will be well
the lady was shocked when you said ya kudelete ndio rahisi kupata,alikua anastroll mbaya na anaangilia mr Stevo na bebs wake hadi na huyu wa video,wawawawa
Sure. I feel for this lady
The lady? The guy keeps asking 'Why didn't you tell me?'. Clearly he loves her. I think he would have understood. He even says 'your problems are mine'. It's been happening till 2 months ago. This man's heart is broken. You love someone that much but you are being played. What is he supposed to do now?
Delilah pretended to be in love with Samson, while she was on a mission to destroy him. May God expose every pretender in your life in the mighty name of Jesus.
Amen
Ameen 🙏🙏
Amen
Amen Amen Amen!!
Amen
This guy is a jewel ! Be strong bro and move forward !
Who noticed he removed the ring and gave it to her?
True
@@francisnjane3912 yeah
Starting once again is no joke weeh!!!
No one has seen how composed and calm that dude is?? Mad respect, most of us wouldnt be that calm, thats a wise Guy.
Halafu that last look he gave the wife, thats a goodbye look...Damn
Dude needs prayers
At times in life, in this very life..when you stop doing the wrong and decide to change for a better person than the past toment you and betrays you publicly..this girl needs to be listened to...
I would if it was past but if it happen while still together then that a done story
Forgive yes, forget no.
There is no way she can convince it won't happen again. All in all, wish them the best.
This was a hard one
This is sad. Sending my thoughts and prayers to both as they handle this.
Her past is just that and each one of us has theirs. Nobody wants to open up about such rest your partner takes off and that can explain why she'd never tell him.
However, how we solve the challenges in our life speaks volumes about the type of decisions we make. And that is something they must look into if he forgives her. What if she stops this lifestyle and they experience major financial setbacks in future? What kind of solutions is she going to have? So even if she is remorseful, sincere, and changes the lifestyle, there's also work that she needs to do on herself. And is she willing to do the work?
Finding sustainable solutions to the challenges we encounter is not easy. But the easy way out is usually not a solution but a trap which can destroy your life.
Very true,wise words
Real shit
fty brother 💥💥uyo jamaa ni gentle walaii 👊👊💥👊 iwafikie kijamo manze
i felt for this guy cause weuh ,,,,stevo singing at the end got me 💔💔
Huyo pesh mwingine sasa,Mambo na arusi ashieni Yesu he is de only faithful 😭😭😭
The ladies excitement from the start can tell something is wrong , body language never lies
🥺🥺kindly pitia uniongeze subscription 🙏
Point on. And the way she was handling her phone while going BM was going through the guys phone. Halafu the shaky voice
The evidence is always floating around. Only that the eyes to see it are rare
True mkuu.I noted that too
True 💯
"Let me ask a question. In August were we together? (Yes) Were we not engaged by then? (Yes we were)" This line of argument killed their future
In any relationship trust is the key once the trust is broken it will never be gotten back
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Not with African girl
That's true
'This guy here wants you to be a bachelor like him'. That line finished me😂😂😂🤣🙌
Nimedie😂😂 Steve kaa single pekee yako!
@@sallymwasi 🤣🤣🤣🙌
Laiti angelijua kua stivo ni Yakuza ako na watatu
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@@talishawambua6392
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Mature confession, to a mature here. I salute her for that. Very hard topic indeed. To forgive is possible but to forget and move on while together is very difficult.
😂🤣😂😂😂😂
I love the maturity and soberness in this dude when handling such, wow he’s so calm and composed
Ni unyonge
People out here go through alot to be honest like children without parents are suffering,she deserves another chance
Exatly, and point well taken
Counselling for this couple is very necessary.The lady is genuinely sorry.parents should stop loading their children with responsibilities.A follow up would be nice.
Have been following your clips since 1 one honestly you have saved so much men and women out here Be blessed Man and keep up the #Good job...
"A girl has to what she has to do" those words touched me 😥😥😥
Please Steve just make sure you help this guys. This is too much and hard to take bro. Help them realise themselves and make sound decisions.
The pressure is already getting so real on both of them. Make sure you reach out to them and let it not take time. This ain't just a normal loyalty test. It alot in it.
Kuwa chap bro on this one.
Otherwise thumbs up. KWELI NGOMA YA KITOTO HAIKESHI
Ur correct
This lady sounds like she really cares about her family and is doing whatever it takes to support them.
Being a first born ( maybe she is) makes one have a great desire to help your siblings especially if you are from a single parent family that is struggling.
However, doing prostitution even when married to support them is not justified.
She has a kind heart for helping and maybe this exposure is God sent for her to have a turn around and change her ways. If she repents, gives her life to Jesus Christ, God will not disappoint her and will open other decent avenues of earning money to support herself and her family.
I agree with you
I really feel her pain ! oh God
And a simp will get to settle with a war veteran
Lol... she's lying
it's just sad that the guy is hurt and doesn't understand her tough situation
Inakaaa Moto Sana it's confirmed kesho lazima Dem arudi kwao 🥰🥰🥰
😂😂😂confirmed
Gang bang is a biz where we import cars!!!!😂😂 How she said it with a straight face, I have no Idea
😂😂😂 uongo serious
Your videos BMS are lifetime lessons 🙌
May God heal these two.. I really feel for these two. This is so sad considering it's a very young couple.
Am in love with honesty in this girl. It's so sad that your fiance might not be able to forgive you but you have opened your heart and you are remorseful and apologetic. If he forgives you, your relationship can be one of the best because there will be no secrets but if he doesn't move on girl you will indeed find love from someone else and if not keep doing you girl. By the end of the day mind your own happiness and keep doing you! Personally I never judge nobody everyone got a story to tell
Wee kwani umechiziii nn😂😂…….wewe ni kama uliachwa juzi
🙏🙏🙏☺️
this is soo heart breaking, I feel for the lady in this life no one is lucky to have a silver plate.
Runda, Kilimani and Karen wababas when they see vijanas marrying these girls wanacheka tu 😅
It will follow their children
Ambao hatujaoa...tuna zaidi ya kuvumbua,Mrembo atakuwa kutumika, abortion countless,p2 ni Norm...wameshika all kinds of cash...wazee,kutesa😢
@@mosestiti9801they arrange marriage for their kids.
May God remember those young ladies who are firstborns it's not easy to be the breadwinner of the whole family.Am one and I know how we have to struggle to make end meets
Sure 😗kindly pitia uniongeze subscription 🙏
Kukua firstborn is hell
@@dorothysenani8671 am the third born na kila kitu ni Mimi😢😢😢
😢😢😢 Ni hard sana..
Very true!
This man is the greatest of all times. His composure and calmness is on another level.
Aki this couple looks so good together wish she was loyal to him....they would have had a happy family
The problem is if you cheat during courtship, more so just a few days to your wedding,it is likely that you will cheat even in marriage not once but many times over. Often times, it all boils down to the character of an individual....
Unanimously agree with you.
True
True.What it takes to resist temptations to cheat is character which unfortunately many haven't developed it.
There are many things that the lady likes about the guy but the few she doesnt like is enough to make her cheat..and that is how alot of them operate.
What if she wasn't busted by Steve?? She could have continued with her "business "
The young man needs to know that God loves him and he has decided to rescue him from this entangled relationship before it is too late.
He will get some one who will honor their marriage.
I love this girl,she's genuine,she loves this guy for real
Which love, if it was not BMS, do u think she could have said
Then why cheating some days to wedding,,💔
@@paulkirongosi939 imagine, not even wedding, she have been cheating the one year they have dated
Genuine?Would have been better if she confessed before sanitization infact she tried to cover it that it a car business up to last minute.
Mungu akubariki man stivoo...nilisanitize phone ya mamaa after watching one of your shows but bro what i got ni God..maze ni God tu atuokoe😂
11k views in one hour big up bro 💪I'm your big fan I never miss any of your episodes.
You can meet somebody tomorrow who has better intentions for you than someone you've known forever, time means nothing, character does 😢✌
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Well said!!!🍻
True spoken girlfriend 👏
I like that
You need to be in the russian committee 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
I feel for the parents of this son it's beyond pain
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Same the guy is so calm n ooh achatuu
The guy should let the industry thrive. 60k for a weekend
There is an obtuse situation I deduce which is trickier to juxtapose.
The lady gave/lended money to her husband to secure a job. And now the guy has a job which now fends both of them. Well here on earth,somebody who doesn't love you can't give you that amount of money to bail you out of a situation. This is not defense but rather I am terming it "hard to place"....The guy has a job courtesy of the woman.
Explaining the source of the cash is another nightmare.
parents or the guy himself? wueh!! ,so sad
The gentleman is so calm and cool headed.
WAMAMA WA STREETS NI WA STREETS....NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO, THEY WILL NEVER QUIT ...TRUST ME
Man Stevo, I have come to realize that your channel is like a dose to me because I must watch two uploads of your videos that is for 10.00am and 2.00pm. This Video made me to start fearing my relationship with my wife. A marriage for two months old and the guy never realized a miss in his marriage. Fear Kanairo women very much...............
i believe its knowing someone , what they do and what makes then do it
I am a man and if i was in the shoes of this dude I would take in this lady. why? coz she is honest. Honesty is rare nowadays and the fact that she ''hustled her body'' out to have this dude get a job by spending 150K on him was a good indication she loves the dude. I feel the issue is something they talk out. The lady is caring and responsible. Only she was doing a wrong thing for right reasons No one has a good past.
Even if she was to be forgiven it can never be the same again. The trust is gone and she she will always be under his mercy weeee
True
True,under his armpits
And if values her peace of mind, let her just let this go.
It depends on how they work at it, it can either break them or make them even stronger than before as a team.
if I was him would hang the picture of the men whom she cheated with in our bedroom forgive her under condition it's not removed and we make babies
I feel for both
It's a hard situation
May our good God give them peace of mind
We import cars took me out😂😂
Steve..I like the way you take time to get to the bomb😂😂😂..then the Chocha😂😂😂..I like this.
This made me cry...pls follow up hope they get back together...this lady deserves forgiveness.. from the way she is explaining it's making some sense
once a cheater , always a cheater. unaskia vile anasema it's her job. hata akiforgive the lady waremain friends to support the lady emotionally
Ooh My God! This is damn sad and painful. When you get the right person please ladies and gentlemen stick to them and be loyal. My wish is that they can resolve this amicably. The lady is remorseful and feels genuine.
As a partner being wronged once please take heart however hard it is to forgive that girl. So many People have their hidden dark past, nobody is 100% clean.
This girl has broken my heart with her honesty about her life’s struggles. She is just coming clean the man needs to put himself in her place. I would forgive her for her confession.
I concur with you....She even paid for him to get a job....this is life
Apart from that she is also very beautiful,the only lapse is that she seems not have decided to let go of her " job" now that she is married,she ought also to have shared with her hubby about her baggage(dependants) so that he was prepared for it financially
Some things are deeper than you think ..she will continue escorting Wababas in Runda .
I would also forgive her and love her from a distance.
That can't justify evilness...'better angemushow while in courtship the guy could decide to love him the way she is ama akanyage kubwa kubwa ....honesty kwa marriage ndio muhimu
She deserves forgiveness, Poverty is an enemy and it made her make the wrong choice. But again I say, "Whoever has never sinned to be the first one to throw a stone on her."
She us acheater
Enyewe
Fuck that atasamehewa na Mungu
The gentleness, inquisitiveness, patience, pauses, .......how that guy has handled this situation has struck my heart!! May he find strength to heal from this awkwardness.
Umeanza tena 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He is totally weak!! Needs whips
Kizungu kubwa🙆🙆🤜🤛
I feel the love was not based on trust... The gal has trust issues
Boss huoni hii ni kitu acted
I love that lady for sure .She is honest and she does everything for the family ....Everyone has a story and everyone has a past .Those are the things that we need to understand ...I don't Judge anyone because i dont know the choices that they had at that time or those momments.
Single people pray n pray hard sio maombi ya chai na mkate maombi mzito before any commitment Kwa rlshp marriage is for destiny plead for God's mercy if you r serious with your life this episodes zinafaa kuwa funzo kwenu it's not just 4fun fungukeni macho Big man God bless the work of your hands
Yeah very true💯
But hizi za church ziko na mambo afadhali ya AG
@john prayer is not about church it's about you alone learn to pray for your life without involving even pastor
Women take much concentration on bodycount.thats value is priceless.men value is to provide and protect.
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Away from the scandal, this lady can really write a nice composition. She knows how to arrange her statements, building her background well. Who else noticed this?
That's how cheaters are they can arrange them as possible
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😂 me too
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@@brendahkukunda8445Compensation I was Dangerous 😂😂Prefect too all the way but stevo is aking the Lay have you ever been aschool prefect?the lady said no.::Stevo..Don't wory yo will become the prefect of the Streets😂😂🎉Comrade is a Legend!! +44
For the guy i wish he keep that lady and love her so much she did what it takes to better their life
i feel for this lady Aki, sitting here thinking where to find just 600 for my kids to do exam's may GOD bless us financially
You mean 600 type your number nikutumie for real
Amen 🙏
I think she deserve second chance...she needs a therapists .
@@marktoo1363 Amen
Enda uza pia wewe upate doo
I don't care what others are going to say, but please give this girl a chance. There are a lot of things in life we may never understand, but I know this Lady is genuinely in love, she is honest, and she really wants this marriage to work no matter what. She has a dark past, who doesn't?, Many will judge her negatively, but the genuinity in her soul is melting my heart.
She did what she did. She has to take whatever comes
I don't remember anything bad back in my past
@@denisoodhiambo2533 You don't (for now), remember life isn't perfect always, you don't know what tomorrow has in store for you either. Me I don't judge. If you have to, make it quick, at your own will.
The past can never define one .Forgive the lady and fix your issues together.Everyone has a narrative about the past
Hot air
Whatever happens in darkness will one day come to light. Pole sana boychild. We move on regardless.
Mbona watu wanatetea huyu dame....she could have shared her story to the guy......am a woman and I will never support any lady cheating......ati I was afraid of loosing you she has become prisoner of love
One thing I love about BMS's show is that it's not just about entertainment. There's always an eye-opening key takeaway.
Word
They are loyal....Karen gang is not part of our agenda... BMS has disappointed again
@Hawkins I totally agreed with you bro
true my first time to know meaning of gang bang
Forgive this girl so sad
As a man, I've never encouraged a man to forgive a cheating lady....but this one is an exception. This lady was between a rock 🪨 and the deep rough sea 🌊 😳. She came out clean and confessed. Other fools will continue denying even the obvious....I hope they undergo deep and thorough counseling. Families should stop pressuring their adult children
to carry their financial burdens....this pushes young people into vices....and illegal stuff 🙄
She was opening her legs to finance their sustenance.
I love your reasoning..she truly deserves a second chance.
I wouldn't forgive, do you know what a gang bang is? she hardcore and seems to enjoy doing it and would have continued behind his back if she wasnt exposed. This is how men end up raising kids that aren't theirs.
Some women have a warped sense of logic and to her this wasnt cheating but fending for her family. He needs to drop her Asap go for STDs check and thank God for exposing the truth. Once a hoe always a whore. She belongs to the streets.
Woie, she has a weird belief,ati doing what a girl should do?Really? I hope the guy understands her as a deputy parent and forgives her.
Very true though it's sad but she deserves forgiveness .
Hakuna cha forgiveness....haijawai watokea so hamuezi elewa......wakipatikana excuses hutoka left right centre but after forgiving unapata message inasema "c nilikushow huyu fala hawezi enda mahali nililia akaniforgive" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣mjinga mimi
She is genuine. If it was me, i would forgive her. People do change and i believe she is ready to change.
True. She's even giving reasons why she had to do it. Sometimes overdependance can lead to this.
Ready to change my foot. Anajua anaenda kuolewa na bado anaenda kugang bangiwa... Yaani ata ameshatombwa sana..ata habakishi bwanake hiyo kitu... Yaani anataka ampatiye kama ni imetoboka hadi mavi inapitia punany...fistula
Hahaaa, unafikiria anaweza change? Pole, she's used to these men and big man. When she started dating, she should have stopped but now analia tu ili asiachwe. Tanguy lini umalaya ikakuwa the only option, and again, nani in life hajawahi kuwa na mashida ya pesa but they didn't go that road? It's a choice, but particularly I blame her for not stopping when she got a serious guy. There is always a way to earn decent money but it takes time and perseverance..
Sure
Mazee uyo Dem anakupenda wewe sana amini na uwamini kwakweli na nimwanamke poa ucjaribu kumuacha plz
May today these morning ,may 🙏 you receive 🙏 what you have been asking for
Amen
Feel for both of them....the lady being a victim of life's circumstances. She didn't do it out of a bad heart. Hid it as she was afraid of losing yet another loved one....the guy for feeling betrayed and lied to. Hope he could find a compromise the lady deserves a chance, however the trust has been shaken it may never be the same.
Let me make this clear, your family is not your responsibility but ukibarikiwa please assist where you can. You don’t have to sell your body and lose your integrity in the name of “I’m taking care of my family” naukigonjeka si utaambukiza bwanako🤷🏽 that lady belongs to the streets
I hope the girl is forgiven! I hope there will be healing!
Woiyee stevo she deserves a second chance.....I can relate its hard when we are the only dependant in our families aki😪😪😪.....
Are you in that business?
2 months ago no second chance
@@acquinasgitahi6084 yes
Same case I can do anything for my family 👪
@@marynjoki6520 exactly instead niende nipee kijana ya wenyewe majukumu isiomuhusu let me do what it takes soo long as am not depending on anyone
I feel this lady🥺🥺 family burdens can really put someone into unbearable situations
But that doesn't guarantee someone to do such things
mmmh! in that case it’s better to be single and do the life than to involve an innocent person ….
No family burden should lead to cheating
She had an option of being single do her business than hurting that man
NOPE. It's a choice. Morals have no measure.
Big Man yu are doing great work,, sensitization is next to curatives and you are giving it in the right doses. You ahve really openened my eyes on how to look at real issues about relationships. KUDOS
Umeiva ama bado😂
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" A girl has to do what a girl has to do, am not cheating on you, it's job." God bless Africa.
Hahaa.
Sarcastic.
Imagine
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Wueeeh .
I am from the follow up series and what I am learning is that, always speak the truth to the people that matter.
Woiye I really feel for the girl she did everything to support her siblings 😔😔
I know the pain of loosing who you love,and nobody knows the pain of love until you loose it
Exactly as a first born pass throu hell to provide for ma younger siblings
It's true...
I really felt for this lady. It's not easy to own up to such a conversation with deep honesty. Let her be forgiven. She is one in a number
I agree with you bro
@@traivy6417 I agree
I like her courage to gal don't beg again u will go far
As much as i hate infidelity i felt for the girl
I agree but only by God
Loved how this guy is Humble mahn...... Loved ya Patience
Big man Steve thanks for saving this young man
This channel really inspires a lot..please take your time to watch from the start of BMS's videos,you might think he wastes time asking people questions before checking their phones,some of us are after drama at the end..but there's always a great lesson when comparing notes on the interview before checking phones and afterwards...
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Very true. Getting to know there story and making them comfortable enough to open up
It got so intense, for a moment I forgot Stevo was standing there .
Brathe wapige viboko kabisa,this shows should be endorsed by ministry of health like a 💯
Some deep conversations need to be done here. It is easy to say leave the girl alone but at the end of the day everyone has their skeletons. I wish they can have this conversation with a professional before making a decision. All the best to them.
If it was a man, people in this TL would be issuing opposite comment, asking the lady to leave. Right?
@@captain0324 it’s easier for a man to be forgiven than a woman 😂😂😂so miss me with that bs
@@SO-xi6vm Yes, the society will forgive the man, but this gender would propagate a different ideas and comments.
@@captain0324 but the woman would still end up forgiving the man at the end of the day …..
@@SO-xi6vm If she does not have options.
This has Left Me Speechless🥲🥲.... Shit in Life happens and leave us with no options.... It hurts, but i wont judge the lady...
Men and women look for opposite qualities in one another. There's a reason why women date experience (older men) ,Men date inexperience (young women) Women look for tall guys, Men look for women shorter than them. Women want a Guy who has a future (purpose, self growth and wealth) Men want a lady who has no past ( sexual purity). Honestly I felt every ounce of pain in this guy's heart, damn! To make it worse, Gang bang and they we already engaged 😬
This gal the way she carried herself,,,haha culprit from the start,,,,alafu shiro aone hii clip
I feel for both of them. Sometimes we don’t do things because we want to but the situations force us to do this. May they find peace of mind. So sad.
I totally disagree with you, prostitution is in ones blood it's a spirit thas why we have hustling out there to make a living but not prostituting bcz it is not in them.
Cheating is not a mistake but a choice
@@edwardwairimu6717 thank you
True... I felt for that lady😭
@@naominjeri9699 I concur…. I disagree
Everyone has a past, some good while others bad. I hope they find time to talk this out when they are both calm.
It happened in the past but it has been still going on while still married.
@@DaviesMatep They got married in September, messages were sent in August
@@peterodhiambo9695 there were engaged in August🙄🙄🙄
How sure are that it has not been going on
Mi sina past
😥😥😥so sad, i feel her bc she did for her and her siblings tho she exposed her hubby to diseases but who can judge her who is so clean?
This lady is honest. It's really a tricky situation for both parties . I would advise the gentleman to forgive this lady . She is truly honest
I've watched almost every loyalty test. This one really hit me hard. From this loyalty test the man seems faithful he has given it all to the lady he loves her genuinely. There's question we normally ask very simple but most ladies misunderstand us probably they think either we want there money, we seduce them because maybe they have a well paying job or we will marry them because of there jobs but inside us we think differently, us men getting a lady to marry we think around on so many things other your there careers. If this lady could be open from day one and say this is what i do because of this reasons am 1000% sure the guy angemkubali but on conditions maybe one of it promise to leave such kind of job and change. You walk to shop ,mpesa, or wherever you get a lady lets say amesoma but hajabahatika kupata job you decide to take her unona vile anajicommit kuwa hata mpesa attendant you tell yourself she hardworking and blah blah blah only to realize such awkward business she been doing. How do you feel us a man unapita na dem wako alafu uniskia kumbe ule malaya aliolewa????? have seen a lawyer such kind of a lady even they did a wedding but i tell you hakuwacha hizo tabia till they divorced. For huyu msee apewe time ajiite mkutano aamue peke yake.
Polite reminder ladies; men don't forgive a cheating woman. If you cheat on your man make sure he never finds out. If he does find out, kindly walk out of his life voluntarily
So the mpesa was just for the cover up, but the real deal was the other one, godd dammmn ..and chances are even though she was remorseful she might end up going back to such coz ya pesa na majukumu ni most even she had given the husband 150k. But she really did love the guy..ama?,,
@@johnkush920 she doesnt love that guy she has hidden agenda
@@jimmomanyi why do yu say that??? Coz even she got married and yet the real job was getting her alot of cash 💸 or maybe it was away of quitting that kind of work 🤔