What people don't understand is that spontaneous behavior is a sign of a lack of stability and structure. Being spontaneous takes away more of what you can control.
Immature schoolgirl who never grew up. The way she treated Mark it was just a matter of time until she cheated on him. A VERY selfish person who only cares about herself. The sad part? So many women nowadays have these traits :(
Don't waste a year. Hell, don't waste a month or day. When they show you disrespect, show them the door and lock it. It's a character flaw and it will never change. It's not what they do or don't do. It's who they are.
Firstly, she had different priorities, didn't really care for him at all, and simply wanted him to be her fall-back. Secondly, her behaviour and attitude towards him was initially being validated by her friends. However, even they started to see her mistreatment of him, which shows just how bad it had gotten. This relationship was never going to work, and he waited far too long to stop being her doormat. Fortunately, his reaction in the end was highly spontaneous, which she obviously loved. 😆 Her conclusion that she is, "young and free," will quickly catch up with her. It almost always does when women like this hit their late 30's / early 40's, and realize they are being passed-over for younger women.
The fact Mark put up with all her wishy-washy BS for so long demonstrated just how much of a doormat he is. Obviously, her red flags should have shown him she was not wife or girlfriend worthy but he continued to simp after her. He should listen more to his friend Dave’s advice…
Be a Man: 1. Never accept disrespect 2. Set boundaries from the onset 3. Be prepared to walk away immediately after either of the above aren't respected With that said, work on yourself, mind body and soul to become the best man you can become. Integrity is the key. You don't cheat, lie or bully because of your morals, not society's standards.
Spontaneous actions are OK if your on your own .but in a relationship it's called selfishness when what you want is more important then when your in a equal partnership. Definitely a future cat lover
I hate people like Lucy🙄 these people never grow up and are so unreliable 🤦🏼♀️ It’s fun when you’re a teen or in your early 20s, but as an adult… damn… 👎 😢
Mark should have stopped making plans and wait and see for her reaction. Then lucy would complain that he doesn't spend any time with her but she does that to him on a whim.
Extremely immature, irresponsible child who lets others lead her by the nose. Single/ divorced women HATE HATE HATE other women in relationships and have kids AND will do ANYTHING to bust them up.
Once again a conflict that could have been solved way earlier if they had really talked once in a while. This thing with Lucy always cancelling last minute and prioritizing fun and life style over her relationship must have been going on for years and must have been a point of contention for Mark for about that long. So they really should have had a conversation about it and the foundation and values of their relationship long before the time the story takes place. He mentions, she has alwas brushed him off? Well, don't let her! You can only be brushed off of you don't insist on the conversation. By not persisting, Mark in a way trained Lucy, that her behaviour is okay and that ditching their plans is no big deal. Furthermore, since the relationship has to be going on for years, it should have occured for both of them, that they probably have different values and life goals, which begs the question what future they really have as a couple. That too is soomething that they should have discussed long ago.
No, this is not the kind of woman to marry or make plans with. Why is Mark even bothering to plan anything with her? And he’s already set his goal: marriage. 😆 If it were me, I’d just enjoy my time with her with no expectations. I wouldn’t make any plans with this woman. Sometimes men get way too emotional. Better to leave the bed empty. 😂
I knew people who got caught up in some ish because they just did things in a spontaneous way and things went left. Plan out what you want to do and then act accordingly
stop with this bullshit about live language. theres something called basic request. maybe if she actually gave two shits about him, he'd be more inclined to give a fuck about her. all those cancelled plans, so that she can have spontaneous fun at his expense. no. this is not difference in love languages. its one being an adult in a relationship and the other one being a petulant child.
Mark needs to demonstrate sudden spontaneity by going to her place unannounced and ending it then and there.
What a stupid person
What people don't understand is that spontaneous behavior is a sign of a lack of stability and structure. Being spontaneous takes away more of what you can control.
Show's lack of responsibility, & maturity aswell
Immature schoolgirl who never grew up. The way she treated Mark it was just a matter of time until she cheated on him. A VERY selfish person who only cares about herself. The sad part? So many women nowadays have these traits :(
You are too nice it's toddler's behavior
Isn’t it amazing that she couldn't just drop her plans to go see her boyfriend 1 time, but she expected him to drop everything for her every whim?
This wasn’t spontaneity, this is chaos. She is an agent of chaos, that he must remove from his life.
Accountability is Women’s Kryptonite.
Next she'll be saying "Where have all the good men gone"!
Then she'll see him get married and have kids.
& living a great life😎🤘
Don't waste a year. Hell, don't waste a month or day. When they show you disrespect, show them the door and lock it. It's a character flaw and it will never change. It's not what they do or don't do. It's who they are.
Maybe her roommate would like a reliable man. I hear there's one available, courtesy of her friend.
Dodged a bullet with that one! She not fit to be in a relationship.
She's not spontaneous, she's flaky!!! Spontaneity is not ditching when you give your word.
Good for mark to dump her. She the type who’s gonna just up an leave a relationship out of nowhere without a reason.
AND take half his stuff. Believing she's the victim.
@@snidecommenter7117 They always are, aren't they 😊
Firstly, she had different priorities, didn't really care for him at all, and simply wanted him to be her fall-back. Secondly, her behaviour and attitude towards him was initially being validated by her friends. However, even they started to see her mistreatment of him, which shows just how bad it had gotten. This relationship was never going to work, and he waited far too long to stop being her doormat. Fortunately, his reaction in the end was highly spontaneous, which she obviously loved. 😆 Her conclusion that she is, "young and free," will quickly catch up with her. It almost always does when women like this hit their late 30's / early 40's, and realize they are being passed-over for younger women.
The fact Mark put up with all her wishy-washy BS for so long demonstrated just how much of a doormat he is. Obviously, her red flags should have shown him she was not wife or girlfriend worthy but he continued to simp after her.
He should listen more to his friend Dave’s advice…
Be a Man:
1. Never accept disrespect
2. Set boundaries from the onset
3. Be prepared to walk away immediately after either of the above aren't respected
With that said, work on yourself, mind body and soul to become the best man you can become. Integrity is the key. You don't cheat, lie or bully because of your morals, not society's standards.
I'm just living my best life is code for I'm just doing what I selfishly want with no regards to anyone else.
And what happens a month later. This woman's girlfriend is now dating Mark. She can't believe it and is pissed at both of them.
I'm with that.
Anyone who says "living my best life" is not serious enough to be relationship material.
You have more control over things you plan for than things you dont know are coming.
Spontaneous actions are OK if your on your own .but in a relationship it's called selfishness when what you want is more important then when your in a equal partnership. Definitely a future cat lover
This is what happens when you act like a doormat. He bent over backward for a selfish woman who would never be there for him.
I hate people like Lucy🙄 these people never grow up and are so unreliable 🤦🏼♀️
It’s fun when you’re a teen or in your early 20s, but as an adult… damn… 👎 😢
When they turn 30, they start making tiktok videos crying. Where are all the good men? 😂
Opposites attract... But only when you're talking about physics.
Mark should have stopped making plans and wait and see for her reaction. Then lucy would complain that he doesn't spend any time with her but she does that to him on a whim.
She craves CHAOS. She even says it herself.
Lucy is going to regret tsking mark for granted and when she realizes it it will be too late
Planning is how relationships work. It's part of getting to know one another. She must be a 'Gemini'.
This the only story I think needs a Part 2
I don't think these once in a lifetime opportunities were likely to be all that great,
Extremely immature, irresponsible child who lets others lead her by the nose. Single/ divorced women HATE HATE HATE other women in relationships and have kids AND will do ANYTHING to bust them up.
Between these two it's clear that Mark will be the one living his best life.
Once again a conflict that could have been solved way earlier if they had really talked once in a while.
This thing with Lucy always cancelling last minute and prioritizing fun and life style over her relationship must have been going on for years and must have been a point of contention for Mark for about that long. So they really should have had a conversation about it and the foundation and values of their relationship long before the time the story takes place. He mentions, she has alwas brushed him off? Well, don't let her! You can only be brushed off of you don't insist on the conversation.
By not persisting, Mark in a way trained Lucy, that her behaviour is okay and that ditching their plans is no big deal.
Furthermore, since the relationship has to be going on for years, it should have occured for both of them, that they probably have different values and life goals, which begs the question what future they really have as a couple. That too is soomething that they should have discussed long ago.
No, this is not the kind of woman to marry or make plans with. Why is Mark even bothering to plan anything with her? And he’s already set his goal: marriage. 😆 If it were me, I’d just enjoy my time with her with no expectations. I wouldn’t make any plans with this woman. Sometimes men get way too emotional. Better to leave the bed empty. 😂
Yes, it makes no sense to always be there for someone like her.
I knew people who got caught up in some ish because they just did things in a spontaneous way and things went left. Plan out what you want to do and then act accordingly
This made me think of the I LOVE LUCY show. Ricky: “Lucy, you got a lotta ‘splainin’ ya do!”
Lucy is a typical narcissist always only thinking about herself. It's always about her
That's his job lady you didn't enjoy his time and company
He should have left A LOT SOONER.
Forreals
Those two were about as incompatible as is possible.
And the best experiences are those shared with those special to you or something that cant be tagged with a price
Run mark run SLIME SNAIL SLIME
Nope your friend sabotage your relationship 😅😅😅😅
Living her best life 😅😅😅😅 yea sure lady
I hate last minute changes.
10:19 if only she’d followed her own words
I have liked the last 3 Uploads on this channel, although I wanted a bit more aftermath in each.
Na lady your destroying your relationship 😅😅😅😅😅
Enjoy cat lady status 😅😅😅
Two different love languages and outlooks no wonder they break up
only one has no respect for the others time and effort
stop with this bullshit about live language. theres something called basic request. maybe if she actually gave two shits about him, he'd be more inclined to give a fuck about her. all those cancelled plans, so that she can have spontaneous fun at his expense.
no. this is not difference in love languages. its one being an adult in a relationship and the other one being a petulant child.
@kabirsardana1282 well it's true it's not some new age crap people have legit love languages 🤷♂️
You don’t balance each other. You are fundamentally incompatible. Get out.
Lmmao 😅😅😅😅😅 she did it to herself what do you expect him to be lady
Lucy another goofball 😅😅😅listening to her friends
He dodged a bullet
Inconpatible.
Did not lack the lack of a conclusive ending.
Funny how the biggest posers like to say they're keeping it real.