I'm proud of my wife, she have all those points that you said. My wife is a very hard working women, independent , beautiful and I don't have to worry about home when I'm at work because I know she can handle it. We stay in Australia before but now we settled in Malaysia, so me & wife learn a lot through our marriage life, especially when you travel to other country.
The dilemma of our society is: a woman wants her bahooo as a servant of her family but she wants to c her daughter as a queen of family..... that creates misbalance....
Assalamualaikum, you seem to be a very disciplined person. You definitely inspire a lot of us. Please share about your salat and tilawat schedule as well, how do you ensure that you wakeup for fajr on time, and how to inculcate the habit of praying on time in our children from young age.
I salute you for this video...soo good ma'sha'allah I really needed this...please share some more of your routines with us..it inspires us alot...may Allah bless you alot..ameen..
Apki ye baten sunkar mujhy apna ap bhot Acha feel hota hay esa feel hota hay k mai b ek achi wife ek achi maa ban sakti hu meri age 21 hai meri shadi ko 5sal horahe hay mujy kisi bat ki samj nhi thi jab mari shadi hovi but mere husband NY bhot mohabbat or care Di mujhy bhot time diya but abi b mai ek wo mujsy 4 sal bare hayn but mujhy bhot chahty hain or apki video issi liye daikti hu k apny kuch seekny ko miljaye jis se mai apna farz dil sy pura karon na k majboori samj kar or bhot kuch seekny ko mil raha hay Alhumdulillah
Mjy apki sari btein bhhhhhhht achi lgti hain i hv two kids... mra dil krta ma b apki tra bn jaon ALLAH APKO HAMESHA KHUSH RKHY SEHTOTANDRUSTI WALI ZINDGI dy Ameen
Dear Bajias, I adore the way you analysed Marriage life in our culture. My father was a very thoughtful person to have educated us to face the world. There r husbands who are iblees by nature. 😀😀, because it's all about upbringing, family background... But education and financial capabilities can be a real game changer. Patience gives good results. Education is a must for everyone. Men must know they have to lead the family. The responsibility factor has shifted to women's side more. We have forgotten that Islam teaches us how to lead life, peacefully, contented....It's life, we r not going to live forever. So make the best out of it!!!
Jzklhk Khala for the beneficial video again. Aameen to all the duas. I usually listen to your videos couple of times for the ocean of advices to sink in. Thanks again
Salm bajia again wounderful information.plz kuch info de k kese hum bachon ko video games or bot ziyda internet se bachin kia alternative option hin.koi is topik p b bat krin
Asak. Bajias. I am vasically fm india but settled in oman. I hv viewed all your video. I mean all yr recipes and other...i realy admire u and like u so much. I love the way u explain ...keep posting the recipes and your advises.aisha
M sana Bht sahi kaha apny ..mai apki ek ek bat se agree krti hun ..ma b pak khi se hun ..or ab dubai me hun shadi k bad sy ..apki baten bht achi lagti hyn thanks k apny bht kuch smjhaya ..
Kis qader apki bataien achi or haqiqi hoti hain or kuinkay sachai say behud qareeb hoti hain is liey dill per asar karti hain mujhay tou herat hoti hay kay Masha Allah say aik aik cheez k barey main kis qader apki knowledge h or kitna acha aap bolti hain dilli duaien
Truly amazing how Bajia put out this complexed & delicate topic of marriage. Meine aur merey husband, hum dono ne milke suna yeh. We both loved it and understood everything that Bajia had to say. Waqaee bohat behtareen tareeqay se explaon kiya sab kuch. Alhamdullilah mujhey khushi hai k mein inmein se bohat saari cheezein apnay gher aur apni zindagi mein shamil kiye huye hun. But a good reminder of how to practice good habits is always a plus. Thank u Bajia 😊👍🏻
wow this was really insightful! As a young Pakistani woman living in the West.. hearing your opinion really helped me better understand and mentally be prepared for the Pakistani culture that I'll get married into. I'm sorry to hear your marriage didn't last but har kaam me maslayhat hoti hai. Allah ke har kaam mein behtaree hotee hai. I hope you're in a much better place now :)
AA and Jazaak Allah khair for your talk. I discovered your channel a couple days back via a suggestion in my news feed. I'm truly impressed by your genuine approach and maturity and intellect. Learning a lot from you. I hope I can share this with my daughter one day. Thanks & best regards💗
Thanks a lot aunty for giving a true depiction of our culture. My question is k as a girl jis ne ghar main maids dekhi hon hamesha har kaam k liye aur usay bahir a k khud saab kuch karna pare to kya us se expect karna sahi hai k wo har roz time pe khana tyar kare? Sath main bachay ki bhe zeemaydari ho to!
i think you are right that TIME definitely needs to be given to children. But i have seen many mothers who work at home and their children do awful things. I think quality time given to children is very important whether you are a working mother or not.
btw, I love your voice and Urdu.. you sound so much like my mom. I started watching your videos for recipes but I kept listening to this cus I liked the way you talk and enjoyed the content as well. You should have your own radio show! lol my dad was asking which radio programme this was! lol I look forward to more talks like this.. I was listening to this talk as I was cooking :)
اسلام و علیکم کیسی ہیں باجی آپ اللہ تعالی آپ کو اپنی حفظ و امان میں رکھے بہت ہی متوازن اور معتدل گفتگو کی ہے آپ نے میں تو شروع میں ڈرا ہوا تھا کہ شاید آپ بھی اوروں کی طرح ہمارے معاشرے کے مردوں کو کوسیں گی اور عورت کو نہایت ہی مظلوم کہیں گی جو کہ اکثر مغربی معاشرہ سمجھتا ہے اور اکثر جگہ پر ایسے ہے بھی اس سے انکار نہیں کیا جاسکتا لیکن اس کا مطلب یہ تو نہیں کہ ہم ہمیشہ مرد کو غلط قرار دیں خامیاں ہر کسی میں ہوتی ہیں اچھی اور خوش گوار زندگی گزارنے کے لیے ضروری ہے کہ ہم ایک دوسرے کی خامیوں کو تہہ دل سے تسلیم کر کے ایک دوسرے کی طاقت بنیں آپ نے باہر رہتے ہوئے بھی ہمارے معاشرے کی صحیح ترجمانی کی ہے جو آپ الفاظ بول رہی تھیں سچے تھے بناوٹی نہیں ❤ اللہ تعالی آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش و خرم رکھے آمین
behtreen baaten bajia... har baar sach kahi ap ne... aik baat ye b k aurat sirf beti ki nahi bete ki b maa hoti hai.. bete ki tarbiyat b karay.. usay sirf maa ki hi nahi behen aur anay wali biwi ki b izzat aur us k ehsasaat ki qadar karna sikhaye... aur khud b bahu k anay pr sirf saas hi nahi aurat bn kr anay wali bahu k masayel smjhay...
Assalamualaikum Aunty I m teacher 100% true wht u told about children I also requesting Parents to please give ur time to kids only Money not important
AP KI ZINDAGHE ME JO DARD HA JO DUKH HA JO TANHAHE HA WO BEBASI OR LACHARGHE MUJY APNI ZINDAGHE KI MUFLASI OR BEBASI KI YAAD DELATA HA.OR ME B AP K JESY YAADO SY JUR JATI HON..
Many r impressed by u...plz deliver a speech in whch u elaborate hw women nwadays neglect thr children n do not bother to give dem proper terbiah.n dese neglected complexed broken children esp girls ruin da lives of gentle men n thr families.these grlz only knw hw to spend thousands daily but thy hv nt been taught by thr mothers hw to mannage home affairs n relationships.
I'm proud of my wife, she have all those points that you said. My wife is a very hard working women, independent , beautiful and I don't have to worry about home when I'm at work because I know she can handle it. We stay in Australia before but now we settled in Malaysia, so me & wife learn a lot through our marriage life, especially when you travel to other country.
you are a good man, you see :) Jite raho
Bhai ap pe proud to apki wife ko b hona chayie qk bohat kam shohar hote hain jo biwi pe proud karte hain
I agree with you ❤ you spoke from every other women's heart & mind . God bless you 💕❤
Asma Zarash ..j&h;
Awesome points ,no words to praise u ,MashaAllah
The dilemma of our society is: a woman wants her bahooo as a servant of her family but she wants to c her daughter as a queen of family.....
that creates misbalance....
bus yeh hai keh hamare gharon main yoon na ho
naina tariq
Sorry mistake
Assalamualaikum, you seem to be a very disciplined person. You definitely inspire a lot of us. Please share about your salat and tilawat schedule as well, how do you ensure that you wakeup for fajr on time, and how to inculcate the habit of praying on time in our children from young age.
I salute you for this video...soo good ma'sha'allah I really needed this...please share some more of your routines with us..it inspires us alot...may Allah bless you alot..ameen..
Apki ye baten sunkar mujhy apna ap bhot Acha feel hota hay esa feel hota hay k mai b ek achi wife ek achi maa ban sakti hu meri age 21 hai meri shadi ko 5sal horahe hay mujy kisi bat ki samj nhi thi jab mari shadi hovi but mere husband NY bhot mohabbat or care Di mujhy bhot time diya but abi b mai ek wo mujsy 4 sal bare hayn but mujhy bhot chahty hain or apki video issi liye daikti hu k apny kuch seekny ko miljaye jis se mai apna farz dil sy pura karon na k majboori samj kar or bhot kuch seekny ko mil raha hay Alhumdulillah
Ma shaa Allah v nice api thx 4 advices
Bajia please write an autobiography of yours. I would love to read it.
Bohat khoob bajiya very Weldon thanks a lot very inspired speech Allah bless you always
very nice MashAllah bajia api salamt rahay !!!!
Wah...mashallah...really nice talk.
Please share about your married life...do a part 2 so that we can learn from your experiences
Salam bajia
Verey good topic
Jazaak Allah khair
Well said baji learnt something thank you so much for wonderful advice. 👌👌👌👍👍👍
Thank you Bajiaji, You are not only a great cook but aapka soch bhi bahoot khubsoorat hai.
Mjy apki sari btein bhhhhhhht achi lgti hain i hv two kids... mra dil krta ma b apki tra bn jaon ALLAH APKO HAMESHA KHUSH RKHY SEHTOTANDRUSTI WALI ZINDGI dy Ameen
Dear Bajias, I adore the way you analysed Marriage life in our culture. My father was a very thoughtful person to have educated us to face the world. There r husbands who are iblees by nature. 😀😀, because it's all about upbringing, family background... But education and financial capabilities can be a real game changer. Patience gives good results. Education is a must for everyone. Men must know they have to lead the family. The responsibility factor has shifted to women's side more. We have forgotten that Islam teaches us how to lead life, peacefully, contented....It's life, we r not going to live forever. So make the best out of it!!!
Myra Mohammed so damn rigth am so illlll doin on my own looking after everything 💔💔💔
Outstanding proformance ♥️♥️♥️❣️❣️❣️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟❣️❣️🌟🌟❣️
Thank you so much for the video Bajia!
Jzklhk Khala for the beneficial video again. Aameen to all the duas. I usually listen to your videos couple of times for the ocean of advices to sink in. Thanks again
Salm bajia again wounderful information.plz kuch info de k kese hum bachon ko video games or bot ziyda internet se bachin kia alternative option hin.koi is topik p b bat krin
boht achi baatain ki hain Allah Apko Humesha khush rakhay oar apko sehat si bhari zindagi de.Ameen
Very good videos learning so much from them! Love you forever and always! May Allah bless you with everything you desire! 😊
Assalaamualaikum bajia aap ki bahu waqai main bohat khismat waali hai.jiski saas itni samajhdaar hai .lucky u are.may u always be blessed
I feel like listening to you whole day
Love you baji
I salute you🤝🤝🤝🤝
Very very nice topic ... I love ur way of thinking ...
Thanks bajias
Asak. Bajias. I am vasically fm india but settled in oman. I hv viewed all your video. I mean all yr recipes and other...i realy admire u and like u so much. I love the way u explain ...keep posting the recipes and your advises.aisha
Mashaallah excellent lecture... may Allah bless u Bajia😘
M sana
Bht sahi kaha apny ..mai apki ek ek bat se agree krti hun ..ma b pak khi se hun ..or ab dubai me hun shadi k bad sy ..apki baten bht achi lagti hyn thanks k apny bht kuch smjhaya ..
U r just perfect.... mashallah... I'm so inspired
Thank you for the video, you are wise beyond your years....
thankyou good msg👌👌
Bilkul Sahi kaha aapne bajia Dil Ko ese chuu gai yeh baaten k aansu Nikal aaye😭😭😭😭..... AAP bilkul meri maa jesi ho.
Real wisdom..Thank you so much for sharing
Very beautiful description !!
So true dear.God bless you and all dear womenkind !!! Respect !!!
Bajia I have got married last week. Thanks for uploading this relevant topic...
Umbreen Qaiser
MashaAllah mubarak ho,
Mere liye Dua karna ki meri shadi hojaaye ...InshaAllah
Islam is way of life , may Allah give us hadayat Ameen
Bajia , buhat ghor se suna Maine aapko , Dil kiya k aapko bta sakoon ,k aap kitni betiyoun ki tarbiyat kar deti Hain video clips se
excellent mentoring of girls , women and society as a whole. great lady mashah allaha
Couldn't agree more.. your insight to relationships is too good mashAllah.. i have learnt much from you
Well said you are so amazing the way you explained every word is true
Thank u for sharing again informative clip bajias baji
Great bajia. Amazing talk. But sometimes I felt u were about to break down.. but gathered urself up.
Lots of love. Shifa
Wow very nice clip baji...pleass also make a clip about photography....would love to learn.... all your photos are so beautiful such a treat to eyes
Kis qader apki bataien achi or haqiqi hoti hain or kuinkay sachai say behud qareeb hoti hain is liey dill per asar karti hain mujhay tou herat hoti hay kay Masha Allah say aik aik cheez k barey main kis qader apki knowledge h or kitna acha aap bolti hain dilli duaien
Bajiya you are great
Truly amazing how Bajia put out this complexed & delicate topic of marriage. Meine aur merey husband, hum dono ne milke suna yeh. We both loved it and understood everything that Bajia had to say. Waqaee bohat behtareen tareeqay se explaon kiya sab kuch. Alhamdullilah mujhey khushi hai k mein inmein se bohat saari cheezein apnay gher aur apni zindagi mein shamil kiye huye hun. But a good reminder of how to practice good habits is always a plus. Thank u Bajia 😊👍🏻
بہت خوب صورت انداز کتنااچھا بولتی ہیں 💖💖💙💜🧡🧡💛💛🧡💚💙💚💙💜🧡💛💚💙
wow this was really insightful! As a young Pakistani woman living in the West.. hearing your opinion really helped me better understand and mentally be prepared for the Pakistani culture that I'll get married into. I'm sorry to hear your marriage didn't last but har kaam me maslayhat hoti hai. Allah ke har kaam mein behtaree hotee hai. I hope you're in a much better place now :)
Ji bahot samajhdari sikhati hain aap.
Allah aap ko sehat de
Such a beautiful lady
You are so wise... love your videos and your advice 💕
AA and Jazaak Allah khair for your talk. I discovered your channel a couple days back via a suggestion in my news feed. I'm truly impressed by your genuine approach and maturity and intellect. Learning a lot from you. I hope I can share this with my daughter one day. Thanks & best regards💗
MashAllah...awesome speech bajia. U explained each n every topic beautifully.. May Allah bless u with long life n health. Ameen
M very thankful 2 u for this clips and cooking receipes .....so helpful 4 me
Bahtareen bajia golden worlds bus admio ko samaj nai ate yea batain...
Always love to hear whatever you have to say about life ...
I'm big fan of u .........apki her video ka be chaini se wait krti hn.may Allah bless u more and more
Mashallha your very beautiful person may bless your family members ameen
Thanks a lot aunty for giving a true depiction of our culture.
My question is k as a girl jis ne ghar main maids dekhi hon hamesha har kaam k liye aur usay bahir a k khud saab kuch karna pare to kya us se expect karna sahi hai k wo har roz time pe khana tyar kare? Sath main bachay ki bhe zeemaydari ho to!
han :)
Bajiascooking 😀okay 👍🏻
I learned a lot from your cooking by the way! 😍
Thanks a ton aunty g!
Hats off to you Bajia you spoke so nicely very honest words
i think you are right that TIME definitely needs to be given to children. But i have seen many mothers who work at home and their children do awful things. I think quality time given to children is very important whether you are a working mother or not.
Waiting for this bajia happy to see a long talking of urs bilkul free ho k suno gi raat mein
Bajia could you please put subtitles in English, so i can understand your story.
btw, I love your voice and Urdu.. you sound so much like my mom. I started watching your videos for recipes but I kept listening to this cus I liked the way you talk and enjoyed the content as well. You should have your own radio show! lol my dad was asking which radio programme this was! lol I look forward to more talks like this.. I was listening to this talk as I was cooking :)
اسلام و علیکم
کیسی ہیں باجی آپ
اللہ تعالی آپ کو اپنی حفظ و امان میں رکھے
بہت ہی متوازن اور معتدل گفتگو کی ہے آپ نے
میں تو شروع میں ڈرا ہوا تھا
کہ شاید آپ بھی اوروں کی طرح ہمارے معاشرے کے مردوں کو کوسیں گی
اور عورت کو نہایت ہی مظلوم کہیں گی
جو کہ اکثر مغربی معاشرہ سمجھتا ہے
اور اکثر جگہ پر ایسے ہے بھی
اس سے انکار نہیں کیا جاسکتا
لیکن اس کا مطلب یہ تو نہیں کہ ہم ہمیشہ مرد کو غلط قرار دیں
خامیاں ہر کسی میں ہوتی ہیں
اچھی اور خوش گوار زندگی گزارنے کے لیے ضروری ہے کہ ہم ایک دوسرے کی خامیوں کو تہہ دل سے تسلیم کر کے ایک دوسرے کی طاقت بنیں
آپ نے باہر رہتے ہوئے بھی ہمارے معاشرے کی صحیح ترجمانی کی ہے
جو آپ الفاظ بول رہی تھیں سچے تھے بناوٹی نہیں ❤
اللہ تعالی آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش و خرم رکھے
آمین
WS aapne apne waqt per chahe woh aurat ho to chahe woh mrd donon he ghalti kerte rahe hain
I love all your bangles. Wow....
Love it ... Love it.... Ammeennnnn
Such a cute video.....very very wise u are.
behtreen baaten bajia... har baar sach kahi ap ne... aik baat ye b k aurat sirf beti ki nahi bete ki b maa hoti hai.. bete ki tarbiyat b karay.. usay sirf maa ki hi nahi behen aur anay wali biwi ki b izzat aur us k ehsasaat ki qadar karna sikhaye... aur khud b bahu k anay pr sirf saas hi nahi aurat bn kr anay wali bahu k masayel smjhay...
hum mayen suno
So practical.very well said
Apki ue 31 minutes ki batein agr koi zehnasheen karle to ..,,! Zindgiya sudhar sakti hai
Bajia u r so good!! Respect from India !!!
I like your each n every video
You are very nice
Very nice
Asalamu alaikum bajia,kitni sukoon milti hai aap ki baaten sunkar.Allah aap ki Zindagi Khushi se bhare rakhe
WS aameen jazakallah
Wow bajia.. fabulous
Well done Allah aapko jaza_e_ khair ata karay
Our main problem is hypocrisy ... If U do than very wrong .. If I do than its actually quite ok🤔
Assalamualaikum Aunty I m teacher 100% true wht u told about children I also requesting Parents to please give ur time to kids only Money not important
Bajia apnay ye discussion kar kay bohat say married couples pe ehsaan kia hai. JazakAllah
So true bajia ...... straight from heart ap ney to woh batein ker deingay jo log kehtey hoey durtey hein
thankyou thankyou so much. I have tears in my eyes
Subhan Allah kya qub such hai or us baat ko bayan karnay ka tareqa bhi bahuth qub mashallah bahut achi hidayath de aap nay jazakallahu khsiren kasera
I love all yr recipes. Its fantastic. Keep posting.pl
MashaAllah sachi sachi pyyari pyyari batain.Allah Pak aap ko iss ka ajar dy.
Mashallah aap ki soch bohat gehri hai
Thank you so much, all you said is 100% true, may Allah bless you.
Absolutely right boht khoob masha Allah hahahahaha sahi aameen beshak 👍👍👍👍👌👌👌💕💕💕💕😊
Assalam Alaikum , aap ki aik aik baat dil per aser karty hai. Aap nay bhut achchi tara hamaray mashray ki mishandled sahib ki.
Very very well said! You are very wise!
Zindagi Mai pehli dafa bilkul sachi baat sunnay ko mili
Main khuli huye is sachai mujhey janne wale jante hain.....
Excellent talk Bajia
Mashallah bohot acha bolo aap , allah aap ko kush rakhe aur sehat de ..ameen
Very good
good morning bajia appi.I love u u r a grt woman of the world
I love ur talks.Allah app ko ajre e azeem aataa kry
ameen
masha Allah bahot achi nasihat hai baji jazakalla
Baaji. Aap ko bhagwaan ne gazab ki talents de kar bheja hai. .. itni attractive aawaz, itni pure., itna effective thoughts ..!!! I am your fan
Boht boht boht he achi baatain ki hn aap ny allah pak sub ki bachion ko aap jaisi samjh aur sleeka dy.ameen
Very nice ma'am you talks very true every single words is true, youre husband is very lucky i like your Thoughts n your all Videos, Allah hafiz
wow jazakAllah khair Bajia 🌷🌷
AP KI ZINDAGHE ME JO DARD HA JO DUKH HA JO TANHAHE HA WO BEBASI OR LACHARGHE MUJY APNI ZINDAGHE KI MUFLASI OR BEBASI KI YAAD DELATA HA.OR ME B AP K JESY YAADO SY JUR JATI HON..
Very good points bajia
Many r impressed by u...plz deliver a speech in whch u elaborate hw women nwadays neglect thr children n do not bother to give dem proper terbiah.n dese neglected complexed broken children esp girls ruin da lives of gentle men n thr families.these grlz only knw hw to spend thousands daily but thy hv nt been taught by thr mothers hw to mannage home affairs n relationships.