Failing at University | Academic Exclusion | Changing Degrees | Mental Health

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  • @leratom5890
    @leratom5890 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I relate to this so much. I blamed myself for so long and I can finally say I have healed

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy that you are in a good place 💛

  • @tla091
    @tla091 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I can relate to your story so much. I experienced a similar situation in college. One semester I did not show up for my finals. That time was so hard.

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      I can only imagine how hard that was for you. I hope you are doing better now

  • @mpumeleloskhosana2922
    @mpumeleloskhosana2922 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I just wanna say you continue to inspire me, thank you for sharing your story❤️, your resilience is truly amazing!
    I had a similar experience in my first year, the adjustment from high school to varsity was overwhelming, and online learning made things worse. I checked out in the second semester and all I used to do was watch shows or sit by myself in the dark, that carried on for the entire semester and I had to drop FRK101 cos there was no way I was gonna write that exam, I knew nothing. Came back, thought 2021 would be better but it wasn't, I got worse, and my escape mechanism was alcohol abuse, always had wine in the fridge, I'd party after every inconvenience, at one point I started partying mid week and about 3 months later I got tired of it all, decided to call the up counselling line cos I was at the verge of jumping out of a window but I knew I had people counting on me back home and I couldn't let them down, then I started attending counselling from the SCU and it was really helpful, and with God's grace, I was able to save my academics, I am currently doing my second year and it's going quite well, yes everyday is different, but I guess that's the beauty of it.

    • @karabonkwana
      @karabonkwana ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️🫂

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yoh Mpumi I didn't know that you went through all this. I'm glad you found help. Please send me a text if you need anything

  • @Melissa-zf6sw
    @Melissa-zf6sw ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Neglecting my health to take exams and keep going to school to study when I was ill was the worse decision I've made.

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      Having to make that decision is so hard but I've learned that health comes first.

  • @karabonkwana
    @karabonkwana ปีที่แล้ว +4

    what a heartfelt bittersweet testimony 🥺❤️ i’m so proud of you for not giving up.

  • @karabonkwana
    @karabonkwana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love and light ❤️✨ trust that God has/had better plans for you.

  • @noluthandosibeko2174
    @noluthandosibeko2174 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are me and I am you ❤. 100% relate to your story ❤

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      As much as it makes me happy that you've found someone to relate to, I know you've been through a lot of challenges as well. I hope you are okay ❤️

  • @im_a_messy_kid
    @im_a_messy_kid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went through exactly what you went through I'm currently processing my appeal, fingers crossed

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All the best 🫶🏼

  • @JourneywithLettecia
    @JourneywithLettecia ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even though it's the second listening to ur story, it gets better everytime!! I am so proud u 🫂 🤗 ❤

  • @Vanessa_TK
    @Vanessa_TK ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
    I’m in my second year and I can totally relate to calling the SADAG number. They are so helpful.
    So glad to have found your channel. Keep going sis. We are routing for you ✨❤️

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you much Vanessa. I hope you are doing well 🫶

  • @anitanotico9397
    @anitanotico9397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang! An installation I’ve been waiting for ❤

  • @walnut1069
    @walnut1069 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great content💯 i would like see more of this

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay tuned! There's more content on your way

  • @buhlekhathide3921
    @buhlekhathide3921 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i still cry every day i failed my modules first,second like its hard for me balance everything

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Take it one day at a time. You will get there. Failing is part of the journey. It's about how you choose to get up. Dont give up

  • @비싼고양이-d8k
    @비싼고양이-d8k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PROUD OF YOU

  • @Melissa-zf6sw
    @Melissa-zf6sw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @tjnotico
    @tjnotico ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @anitanotico9397
    @anitanotico9397 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re so pretty 😍

  • @Xxr-cq1ff
    @Xxr-cq1ff ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had the same story and I am working fix this issue but pain took short time maybe for one week.

  • @hleketanikubayi5010
    @hleketanikubayi5010 ปีที่แล้ว

    🔥🔥🔥great video

  • @Favored___38
    @Favored___38 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vedio…I used to watch you on tik tok. Super proud of you!!🫶

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh that's awesome. Glad to see you over this side as well

  • @LeonKgahliso
    @LeonKgahliso ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @lindokuhlemposula8257
    @lindokuhlemposula8257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you a lot and am really dying

  • @rose-xb1gr
    @rose-xb1gr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are most welcome ❤️

  • @nomaswazi21
    @nomaswazi21 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sound is too loud😢

  • @mpumelelomabhozo9166
    @mpumelelomabhozo9166 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for this it really hives me hope that i will bounce back.
    Can you advice me, i got excluded mid year and i applied at UJ for two degrees one of the two being the degree i failed at Wits.. so i am not sure whether i should tell UJ that i was previously studying, i am scared that they may see my results and not give me space...they already "Prov selected" me for these two degrees...but now i am scared what will happen when i get a space for these two degrees....can you help if you have that advice...
    Thank you ❤

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello. You will bounce back. Dont give up. I am not about the question you asked. Wait for them to tell you and if they accept you then hit the ground running and give it your all

    • @LuthandoNdaba-w3x
      @LuthandoNdaba-w3x 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi @mpumelelomabhozo I'm facing the same situation did you tell them about your previous studies or not??

    • @simbabalwesodumo7410
      @simbabalwesodumo7410 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi , I'm facing the same situation, did you tell UJ?

    • @mercymsezeni838
      @mercymsezeni838 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't tell them.​@@simbabalwesodumo7410

    • @Babotaart
      @Babotaart หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you must tell them otherwise it's a crime I think​@@simbabalwesodumo7410

  • @LesegoMolale-w2v
    @LesegoMolale-w2v ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you assist me with writing an appeal?

    • @Jurisdiva2005
      @Jurisdiva2005 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did u manage to submit your appeal...did you get a response 😊

  • @brr-s3b
    @brr-s3b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what happened to your funding

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost it because of the academic exclusion

  • @karabonkwana
    @karabonkwana ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i don’t mean to spam your comments, but look at you standing still despite it all 🥹❤️ yoh.

    • @preciousnotico
      @preciousnotico  ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not spamming 😊 I truly appreciate all your the comments

  • @LesegoMolale-w2v
    @LesegoMolale-w2v ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you assist me with writing an appeal?