Definitely ALWAYS be mad at the cheating partner, not the person who - in front of you at your request - tests their loyalty. Loyalty isn't a virtue - it's the bare minimum.
Loyalty means shit, there's plenty reasons to step out on relationships. What is important is that you tell the other person and don't do this double dipping bullshit. Cheating is an issue. Ending a relationship that doesn't work is not.
I feel bad for the people who don't want to swap phones, not because they're cheating, but for a variety of other reasons. Especially for people who have been in abusive relationships and/or dealt with trauma before, it can be really hard to relinquish that control and let yourself be vulnerable. Loyalty tests are funny to watch sometimes, but unless you actually suspect the person of cheating, it just seems toxic and controlling.
@Raggadux Jones it's less about having something to hide and more about trust/wanting control over your space. Maybe you have something on your phone that's a little bit embarrassing and you feel self conscious about it. Maybe you've dealt with controlling partners before, and someone forcing you to hand over your phone lest you be accused of cheating triggers the lingering pain from that. Maybe it stings that your partner can't just trust you when you've given them no reason to believe you're unfaithful. There's a lot of reasons why someone might be uncomfortable handing over their phone, even if they're honest and don't have anything to hide.
Can confirm. As someone whos safety absolutely depended on shielding my online activities from psycho family (making friends and connections so i could get out when I hit legal age) - its definitely something that sticks with you for life. Its kind of an involuntary discomfort you get everytime someone looks into your phone/pc, even if you have nothing opened and no one is talking to you. Nevermind people picking up your phone, even if its turned off. It really sucks, like..really sucks. But its a thing for too many. Though for the record Id never look through someone eles phone either. I dont think it would be fair of me to demand someones device, if I myself feel uncomfortable about it
@@raggaduxjones Also another possible point: a conversation always has 2 people minimum. Imagine confiding to your best friend about something horrible, telling them you're worried about a very embarrassing medical issue, worrying about money trouble, etc.... only to find out that the thing got out because their partner saw your text conversation. That's the reason I first think of when it comes to showing someone your conversations.
My fiance disappeared with a gorgeous blonde during his bachelor party in Vegas. The best man started freaking out when he realized that fiance was no longer in the club. With the amount of money he (best man) was dropping for the vip table and bottle service he even had a security member looking. After 45 minutes of the best man panicking while muttering "Kelly is going to kill me!" they finally located my fiance. They had stepped outside the club to chat because of the noise and he was drunkenly telling the beautiful woman how excited he was to be marrying me and how I was the love of his life. This was the story the best man told in his speech at our wedding... It was also where I first heard it. All the others on the trip confirmed it happened. It has been 12 years and we are still together.
My girlfriends fiancé dropped her. She moved on. He then claimed she had failed a loyalty test because she should have begged him to take her back. She kept going.
Lol my ex breaking up with me was similar. Man I have so much dignity and like why tf would I beg if you are breaking up with me? Since when does a trap hunt for the mouse?
If he broke it off without any legitimate reason, I would have moved on, too. There is no reason for a person to have to beg to be taken back. I hope she has a much better life now. She got to see his character flaw before it was too late.
My husband said he would :test" girls and break up with them to see how they acted. He considered doing it to me but didn't. I said "Good, because I wouldn't have stuck around". F that shit.
The guy with the mike said you’d have to walk away, so walk away saying I’ll call you later to come get your stuff. Then make up later with 30 grand in your pocket.
I agree that's true, however it goes both ways. I used to think the same thing and it turned out I was being cheated on constantly behind my back. Still wouldn't look through my SO's phone without consent, but I've been taken advantage of in the past because of it. Putting my heart out on the line... You don't always know the other person is loyal, you just take a chance for the sake of love. I have yet to meet someone I can trust as much as they can trust me. Still, I haven't given up hope because I know a person like that does exist because it exists within me. With as many people as there are in the world, I can't be the only one.
About to start a 14 Hour drive to Florida to see my father who has dementia before he forgets who we are. Thank you for keeping your content consistent and daily because I definitely needed this right now. You’re like my little anti-depressant lol
I'm here in Tampa, welcome under the circumstances, I hope you can still enjoy your time down here in weirdo land. Prayers for your dad and family, really sad condition. 💕
Well, good for _him._ His woman needs to work on herself though. Even after shooting the catfishy down a couple times, guy’s gf told her to keep going.
My "friend" made me test her boyfriend in middle school and I literally still feel so bad for him. It was so embarrassing. Like he was loyal but I think it's disrespectful to test your partner like that if you don't really think they're cheating
@@rosieweaselby naaaw thank you for saying that 🥺❤️ Yeah I was a kid and I was very depressed so I was kinda like not present in my head. At least I never did anything to hurt anyone. Helping my friend test her boyfriends loyalty is probably the worst thing I've ever done
I would never participate in this kind of test, the whole thing just feels toxic. It does such to worry about your partner cheating, but still wouldn't go this route.
Amen to being madder at the partner than the person they cheat with. Because they are the one CHEATING. and especially if you don't know the other person or your partner lied and said they were broken up/single...
@@dulapeep5604 I feel like that's a different story. Sorry that I didn't make it clear in the original, I was more referring to random people or people you don't know well> If it's like your bestie then heck yes, be furious at both of them. I sometimes see though that even in that scenario some people will act like the partner had no choice in the matter and take all the anger out on the other person.
@@crystalh450 I mean in that specific situation they ALL were up for it? Bestie literally stood next to her and KNEW her bf was tested. If she was not comfortable she could have backed out before. So no, in this situation it is on the bf
There no way I’d let my husband have my phone for 45 seconds this time of year. That sneaky shit would be in my Amazon purchases so damn fast 🤣🤣 but for real, we use each other’s phones interchangeably and have nothing to hide.
Haha that’s me, only I’d be looking at what Christmas presents my husband got me!! 😆😆 Other than that, our phones are almost identical, so we use each other’s phones if they’re closer than our own.
My husband and I are like that too. We actually have to tell each other at Christmas time "don't check the bank account this week because I bought your present. Ask me and I'll tell you the balance."
As a guy I’m being honest when I say I’ve been through this and I’ve passed, she did it not once but twice, I passed both times, we eventually broke up because she had trust issues even though I passed the “tests” Even if you’re loyal sometimes girls just have too many trust issues because of pos guys who cheat 😤
This was an issue for me. Suddenly finding chat logging programs on the computer, emails opened by them, finding out they'd been searching down and interviewing my exes and old roommates, getting upset if I spoke to women or interacted with them... All while not wanting me to know where they were or when they'd be home, not wanting me to meet any of their new college friends from them going back to school, only meting them elsewhere or getting picked up in the driveway rather than having them come to the door... That whole... controlling atmosphere just got too much. The later revelations of cheating were one thing, but that lack of trust and affection can kill a relationship in and of itself, for sure.
If I got it right, thou, his girl states she has anxiety, so he's probably already been through a few of those tests, so it's very likely that he can recognize/expects one...
@@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 Or his girl is a psycho who physically and mentally abuses him to the point where if a female just says "hey" he's like I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND GET AWAY FROM ME SHES THE BESTED EVER AND I WANT NOBODY ELSE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!!" That's hot a healthy relationship.
I would never humiliate my husband by subjecting him to such a test... And yes, he would pass, but that is not the point. If you feel so insecure that you need to actually put on a stunt like this, maybe it's time to go, no matter how that "test" works out for you... 🤷♀️
But, is he loyal?! If my husband wanted to find out if I was loyal and do a test like this I really don’t care if it makes him sleep better at night. Just think of the relationships where the people think they’re in a loyal relationship and in reality they aren’t?! That would be absolutely humiliating if other people knew and you didn’t. Don’t they always say the spouse of the cheater is the last to know?!
@@tammiep9628 I have no reason to question his loyalty and that thought would never even cross my mind. And neither would his, dare I say. You're touching upon the very gist of my previous comment: If there is even the slightest doubt in your relationship and you feel the need to subject your partner to such a test, then something is just not right and I personally would leave. Neither of the partners is a school kid needed to be tested. Problems are solved by talking, your partner should be the one to know about your insecurities first, not your friends. So I don't really care what they say, to me, this is outright humiliating.
@@peps1943 Oh, I'm so glad then that I have all these internet experts to explain what life is all about. Lucky me, whew! I wish you that one day, you too will find a partner whose phone you won't have to go through in order to see if they want or do not want to be with you. Until then... 🤷♀️
Imagine being in a situation when someone dares you to swap your phone for x seconds, but although you are loyal, you have been exchanging messages with your friends about something you don't want your gf/bf to find out - like plans for a proposal or a birthday party. 😬
Or someone has taken you in their confidence with a very delicate, very personal matter. Not cheating, nothing like that, but also not something that is anybody else's business and that you have promised not to say a word about to anybody else. Including your SO.
Found out my buddy who I knew over 20 years was hitting on my wife while I was having surgery. My wife was loyal my buddy betrayed me. 1 year later I beat the hell out of him.
I found out a guy I was going out with for about 3-4 mos we were just starting to get serious when I found out he’d been having an affair with his “bf” wife for over a year. I saw an email he sent to break it off with her for me. I dumped his ass!
@@pattyslater514 I enjoyed every second of the beating I put on him. I expect my friends to be as loyal to me as I am to them. My friends are like family to me.
I got pissed when the 2nd to last girl kept saying “give me my phone” and asking and grabbing at it. And he just strongarmed her and kept looking. And this is after he physically pulled his phone off of her. So she just has to stand there and say “please give me my phone” ? No I don’t think so. He either needs to hand his phone over to her, or give hers back. That was the deal.
So you are really confused to why he didn't hand her the phone back when he found SEVERAL intriguing texts from other dudes??? I am already sorry for your BF (if there is one)
Exactly. He took his phone back & then refused to give hers back, dude it doesn’t belong to you. You’ve seen she’s messaging other lads, you know she isn’t loyal, so give her back her property & leave. Keeping hold of someone property after they say to give it back, that’s then classed as theft btw, as you’re withholding their property. I get the man is annoyed/hurt/betrayed, but that doesn’t give him any rights to still keep hold of her phone, especially when he snatched his back, yet was getting aggressive to keep something that didn’t belong to him. Withholding someone’s belongs from them is toxic & controlling, regardless of what they’ve done that doesn’t entitled you to keep things that aren’t yours. Give her the phone back & end the relationship. You can’t keep someone’s phone just coz you’re mad. When I found out my ex cheated, I made sure they packed all their belongings up & got the fuck out my house. I didn’t want any of their stuff around, or any reason for them to come around or even try to get me into trouble.
My question is: how the hell do these people organise this? With a full time job you normally have barely enough time for one relationship, let alone another secret one.
Was asking myself the same thing. I don't know how I could possibly fit another partner in my life without either of them noticing. I barely have enough time to get my own stuff done xD
@BrLL From personal experience: If the two of you work different shifts, it's super easy for the cheater, especially if you work days and they're in restaurant management, which means "closing" takes as long as it takes and the hours aren't fixed. Also, he was a charming, good looking guy in great shape who'd stocked his wait staff with cute college girls.
I'm really glad there were a few people who passed the test but I'm surprised by some of these people's reactions, not really but it's such a headache to see what some people do when caught double dipping
If I'd swap phones with my boyfriend, I think the only thing we would find is immeasurable confusion with each others profession.😂 He is a mathematician, i am a linguist.
Charlotte: Hey girl, what's your name? Darian? Come on stage. Hey everyone this is Darian. Give her a clap. Darian, let's do a loyalty test on your boyfriend.
My best friends are in their relationships at the opposite ends of the spektrum. Our group hat should be read with caution, I got dirtyminded men blushing by reading small portions of interactions to them. . . Friend number one is engaged to another girl and her fiancee is super chill. They have no secrets, we get along great while I spent a day cuddled up and onto friend number one or sleep in the same bad while she is nude. No jalousy, compleat trust I would be the last person on earth my friend would be attracted too. The fiancee often reads our chat and finds it hilarious. Friend number twos boyfriend is insecure as hell and would probably get a heartfailure. . . I am aro ace the other is in the most healthy and happy relationship I have ever witnessed, but he always feels threatened by us. . .
3:04 I'm more worried the phone WON'T make it into his pocket. With my butterfingers, that thing would have missed, hit the fencing, and knocked into that body of water. Phones near water stress me TF out.
I’ve been in the hospital going on 2 and a half weeks. It’s been one of the hardest things I’ve gone through, I had to have my leg amputated. My biggest fear is to not be able to walk again, but everyone is telling me how far prosthetics have come so I’m trying to be positive. Your videos everyday are something to cheer me up and make me laugh , your the best charlotte!
My ex used to hide their phone when not using it. For years. Once when I was holding their phone during an emergency their "best friend" texted some suggestive messages. Took about two weeks to hack into their phone. They were unfaithful for years with tons of people. They got the boot ASAP.
First guy I ever dated was angry at his father for cheating on his mother. He regularly got angry about it and did malicious things like destroy his father's phone to prevent him texting and calling the woman he had broken up his family for. I was super stunned when he ended up cheating on me repeatedly. Whole thing left me that traumatised, I didn't date anyone else for a couple of years, and it really skewed my view on relationships for over a decade.
My Dad's cheating (in my 50s so this was 40 years ago-no technology lol) helped make ME very loyal-never cheated nor could I ever conceive of doing so. He was drinking then, got sober, spent MANY years doing Step 12 (Making Amends), including being a good judge of guys for me (also was an NYPD Lieut so that quick ability to judge is part of the job).
Thank you for making such amazing content and being as awesome as you are. I love how you embrace your weird and crazy and you are an inspiration to girls who are crazy but don't know how to embrace it yet. I'm also happy you're Canadian.
This makes me appreciate my sweet husband even more. I've had some traumatic relationships in the past and sometimes I get insecure. But he's patient w me and does his best to reassure me that he's loyal. Ladies and gents, the good ones are out there. If you're lucky enough to find one hold for dear life and treat that man/woman like gold! Big love!
I loved this one!! It was uncomfortable but so entertaining. It’s crazy tho that in most of the tests it was the girl that failed and had something to hide. Shows a major contrast in generations because in my generation I am sure it would have been the guys failing. Girls these days just don’t seem to have the same standards of loyalty. And maybe that’s because they have seen from past generations that the men couldn’t be trusted so now they have a whole team sitting on the bench waiting to be called up so they don’t get hurt and they aren’t lonely. Ladies, don’t do this, it’s ok not to have a man in your life at all times. It’s good to be single and take time to figure out who you are as a person and love yourself. Charlotte, I want more content like this, I’m hooked 😆 Hope you are having a fabulous day!!!
Let's be honest though cheating was still done back then it was just kept quiet. I'm just going to say both sides cheated it's always been like that. If someone is going to cheat they're going to cheat. It doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man.
@@Jason2425able No, it was far less prevalent way back in the dino age (in my 50s now). Nobody in my circle of friends-all very pretty, educated ladies with good jobs, many in male-dominated fields like on Wall St., would do it. However, all of us experienced it at one time or another.
I've been married to my soul mate for almost 9 years. When I watch videos like these or hear people's dating stories, I thank the gods I don't have to do that shit anymore. It sounds rough as fuck to be apart of the dating scene these days.
Thank you for this! I normally can’t watch these due to how awkward they are lol. Awkward gets me for some reason. But you make it so much more enjoyable.
My grandad fell in love with my granny when she started working at the factory he was working in. He was engaged to the factory owner's daughter at the time and he broke things off with her to be with my granny. He hated telling the story because he was reminded of how he hurt his fiancée. The last time I ever saw him he said that to me, but I think it's got a romantic ring to it. He was the loveliest man and my granny was the loveliest woman and their love was really genuine, and I love telling that story. ❤
with that $30,000 one i would agree to break up with them, circle round and just go "hey i've been thinking about what happened and i miss you, but ive recently come into some money and hope you'll take me back" lol (i mean technically i wouldve broken up with tjem for the money but he failed specificy for how long the breakup had to be)
It is only dangerous if you are the type to stay with the person anyway so for those ppl, better not to know. For the rest, better to find out sooner rather than later
That first girl is going to lose everyone in her life for a guy that is playing her for a fool because she is getting mad at the wrong people. That girl with the money being sent....I think that's an Only Fans girl. It definitely gives off OF vibes! My phone swap with my partner would be so boring. My recent messages are all from the school about open hours with storms and bad weather and from him and I know his phone is all girls, but they are all the vet nurses or other vets asking him on his days off what meds to give his clients and to scope what another one of the vet nurses would like for their secret Santa :D
Lol. I died laughing hearing about marrying someone just because they lived on the same street as you. But I got to say that I found my best husband online. He’s much better for me than the first two that I met in more conventional ways. But I guess if they were my only options, I might have put up with their nonsense and stuck it out.
I agree if you are not exclusive with each other you can do whatever you want but I feel like you should talk about it at least so that there's no confusion and nobody gets hurt!
@@crystalh450 well I grew up in a different time I guess cuz that guy was obviously shocked to know he wasn't the only 1 and I'd want to prevent any misunderstanding from the gate as not to hurt anyone.I can see if it's your 1st.maybe 2nd.date..I only ever dated 1 man at a time.Married now.
@@crystalh450 Your right I didn't think about it that way , iv personally never dated online , just happened for me I always chose to focus on 1 guy at a time but your right there is nothing wrong with dating to find someone that works for you and you for them.
@@crystalh450 That is how I operated (in my 50s). Just broke up a 5 year relationship so when I am ready, will do the same. I have NEVER cheated in my life, never crossed my mind, but UNTIL we have "the talk" a couple of dates in, or after one date where it was one of those super amazing long ones where the connection is so clear, I can do what I want.
I would not switch the phone with my partner, not that I have anything to hide, it just not something I would be comfortable with and it would not be fair for my friends who did not consent to have their messages read by someone other than me.
Plot twist:that guy didn't refused her, he just said"get outta here", as in"Am I dreaming or something?".Jokes aside, I really hope that wasn't the case tho lol
From a legal standpoint, these loyalty tests would never stand up in court; they constitute entrapment. But from a common sense standpoint, the people who fail these tests are jerks.
Most of the time deep down you know if they're not loyal/faithful, but some refuse to believe it,which is why you "test" them, I think if one person is more into the other person,they miss or actually ignore the red flags.
Had a roommate that was seeing a bunch of women at once all the time. Usually he wasn't explicitly "exclusive" with any of them, but sometimes he was. The ones he wasn't "official" with at least thought he was their boyfriend, and I always felt complicit especially as a woman around their ages. I told some of them if I could mange to, but I wish I'd done more.
'When my circle got smaller, my vision got clearer, there is strength in loyalty, not in numbers' a quote that I believe in :) That is why I don't understand the people who have lots of 'friends' on their social media, they aren't really people you know, it seems that people have this need to be seen by strangers, so to me that means that these people don't love or like themselves very much, a few loyal friends aren't enough?? I have 14 friends, and I know them all :)
Thank you for the mood boost!! Been having some bad brain days and trying to help my kid with some mental health struggles. Your videos are so helpful. 🖤
I knew a couple who got married very young after he had to sleep overnight in the the barn. Very different times. He road a mule to her house, across the creek on a very rainy night, spent too much time with her and her parents, and by the time he tried to go home the creek was too high to cross. Her parents had them marry the next day! She always said, "I just love the rain." 😂
@@omegasage777 It really was cute. Charlotte reminded me of them when she was saying she "missed the old days" haha That couple was from the old, old days! Just him staying at the barn was enough to get her parents to say they needed to marry so no one thought bad of them. But they were both really happy about the result, to the point she "love[d] the rain" since it gave her a husband of 70 plus, almost 80, years. He passed a few years before her and when you asked how she was doing she would say it was just "long days and nights. I just want to be where he is." He loved her the same way, he just didn't say it to everyone. But he would always hold out is arm for her when they walked, hold her hand if they were sitting, and as they aged she became his eyes and he became her ears. One of the purest loves I ever saw.
0:40 I literally hate those ride or die people that know they have cheating exes, but would rather lose a limb over breaking up with them. I've worked with one before at a Domino's and they're just as crazy as they sound 😂
I adore you so much and I hate everyone lmfao the end "subscribe!" Yell is my favorite part though lol and your super pretty btw, don't stress being single, your just marinating for the perfect guy lol 😆
If men need some hope today: the same week I met my partner who wasn't in a good financial situation and was going through a few hardships, someone tried to set me up on a blind date with a well-off guy who even booked a fancy restaurant for our 1st date. But since my partner already made it clear he likes me, he kissed me and I knew I liked him; I declined the date, told the 2nd fella he needs to cancel that fancy reservation and apologized to him. I'll be moving in with my partner soon. So, women don't always go for "the better" man.
So glad I’m in a committed relationship. I have absolute trust in my husband. No settling on either side. We aren’t perfect in any means. We have our disagreements and stuff but we can always count on each-other when it’s real. I can’t put into words what I want to everyone to know what we feel for each-other. Super frustrating. Hope y’all find that one special someone that makes you feel like you are the only person on the planet with them.
@@toscatattertail9813 damn. Already been 14 yrs. Can’t imagine I’ll get tired of him or vice versa. If it hasn’t happened already…. Pretty sure we are stuck with each-other lol
Hell, during my senior year in high school i baited my own bf because i suspected he was cheating. Made up a fake FB account with tons of pics and what not, put the location as close to him. DM'd him for about 2 weeks as this girl (who said we had been to the same party and had some mutual friends). He was soooo into her, telling her (me) all kinds of stuff including a "no-no" pic. It was after that that i showed him everything and we broke up. Honestly, now as an adult (happily married now), i should have never played that game and just broke up with him when i suspected. There's always something legit when you feel that suspicion. Can't have trust, can't have love.
Gotta be honest, this one hurts a little. My dreams of a loyal, faithful, life-long love that grows over the years and nourishes generations of our family have been crushed and I am feeling as though life is passing me by. If one person thinks they are in a relationship, then both need to be honest. It may hurt a little but it will save you from a huge heartache later on. And for the love of dessert, don’t lie! Selfishness never did improve any relationship and just makes people feel used.
Even if I wasn't faithful (which i have never not been): HOW DO Y'ALL HAVE ENERGY FOR MORE THAN ONE PARTNER?! One is enough, urghh. Couldn't get the energy and put up with more people.
6:00 dude already had a full plan in his head to break up with her for the $30,000 and then come by next week with $10,000 worth of gifts and jewelry for her and she would take him back no problem
Definitely ALWAYS be mad at the cheating partner, not the person who - in front of you at your request - tests their loyalty. Loyalty isn't a virtue - it's the bare minimum.
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@@CharlotteDobre YES
people will chose to preserve the relationship that means the most to them.
It's a requirement. Other boxes ticked except for morals and loyalty? Step back!
Loyalty means shit, there's plenty reasons to step out on relationships.
What is important is that you tell the other person and don't do this double dipping bullshit.
Cheating is an issue.
Ending a relationship that doesn't work is not.
I feel bad for the people who don't want to swap phones, not because they're cheating, but for a variety of other reasons. Especially for people who have been in abusive relationships and/or dealt with trauma before, it can be really hard to relinquish that control and let yourself be vulnerable. Loyalty tests are funny to watch sometimes, but unless you actually suspect the person of cheating, it just seems toxic and controlling.
If you have nothing to hide, I don’t see the problem in swapping phones. But maybe that’s just because I’m an honest, up- front kind of person.
@Raggadux Jones it's less about having something to hide and more about trust/wanting control over your space. Maybe you have something on your phone that's a little bit embarrassing and you feel self conscious about it.
Maybe you've dealt with controlling partners before, and someone forcing you to hand over your phone lest you be accused of cheating triggers the lingering pain from that. Maybe it stings that your partner can't just trust you when you've given them no reason to believe you're unfaithful.
There's a lot of reasons why someone might be uncomfortable handing over their phone, even if they're honest and don't have anything to hide.
@@MossyBallerina Fair enough. You’ve made very valid points. I stand corrected and enlightened.
Can confirm. As someone whos safety absolutely depended on shielding my online activities from psycho family (making friends and connections so i could get out when I hit legal age) - its definitely something that sticks with you for life. Its kind of an involuntary discomfort you get everytime someone looks into your phone/pc, even if you have nothing opened and no one is talking to you. Nevermind people picking up your phone, even if its turned off. It really sucks, like..really sucks. But its a thing for too many. Though for the record Id never look through someone eles phone either. I dont think it would be fair of me to demand someones device, if I myself feel uncomfortable about it
@@raggaduxjones Also another possible point: a conversation always has 2 people minimum. Imagine confiding to your best friend about something horrible, telling them you're worried about a very embarrassing medical issue, worrying about money trouble, etc.... only to find out that the thing got out because their partner saw your text conversation. That's the reason I first think of when it comes to showing someone your conversations.
My fiance disappeared with a gorgeous blonde during his bachelor party in Vegas. The best man started freaking out when he realized that fiance was no longer in the club. With the amount of money he (best man) was dropping for the vip table and bottle service he even had a security member looking. After 45 minutes of the best man panicking while muttering "Kelly is going to kill me!" they finally located my fiance.
They had stepped outside the club to chat because of the noise and he was drunkenly telling the beautiful woman how excited he was to be marrying me and how I was the love of his life.
This was the story the best man told in his speech at our wedding... It was also where I first heard it. All the others on the trip confirmed it happened. It has been 12 years and we are still together.
That. Is SO CUTE!
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!
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@@levithorstone2876 lol right
@@CharlotteDobre thank you!
Also, thank you for making me laugh everyday. It is something you have in common with my husband.
My girlfriends fiancé dropped her. She moved on. He then claimed she had failed a loyalty test because she should have begged him to take her back. She kept going.
Lol my ex breaking up with me was similar. Man I have so much dignity and like why tf would I beg if you are breaking up with me? Since when does a trap hunt for the mouse?
If he broke it off without any legitimate reason, I would have moved on, too. There is no reason for a person to have to beg to be taken back. I hope she has a much better life now. She got to see his character flaw before it was too late.
Lol that's no loyalty test. That's textbook emotional manipulation.
The only real loyalty test is the one that comes unexpected and unscripted.
My husband said he would :test" girls and break up with them to see how they acted. He considered doing it to me but didn't. I said "Good, because I wouldn't have stuck around". F that shit.
Narcissist move.
I'd totally break up with my man for 30 Gran. They never said anything about getting back together after.
Exactly, take the money and get straight back with them
Without hesitation. See you tomorrow, babe, but today I'm single.
The guy with the mike said you’d have to walk away, so walk away saying I’ll call you later to come get your stuff. Then make up later with 30 grand in your pocket.
That's...what I was thinking - how does he know they actually broke up? XD
Absolutely! Then give him $15k as to say sorry, and the two of you go on a cruise!
Loyalty and trust is being able to unlock the other's phone for convenience but not even wanting to snoop around
I agree that's true, however it goes both ways. I used to think the same thing and it turned out I was being cheated on constantly behind my back. Still wouldn't look through my SO's phone without consent, but I've been taken advantage of in the past because of it. Putting my heart out on the line... You don't always know the other person is loyal, you just take a chance for the sake of love. I have yet to meet someone I can trust as much as they can trust me. Still, I haven't given up hope because I know a person like that does exist because it exists within me. With as many people as there are in the world, I can't be the only one.
@@rebe4066 my husband and I switch phones whenever. I just don't want him to play my games and beat my scores lol
@@parsnips366 my bf has a better phone and I kept downloading games on his 😈
My boyfriend takes my phone all the time, And I even tell everyone my password since everyone wants to use my things so much 💀
@@rebe4066 I felt that
If you feel the need to test your person's loyalty, it's time to ditch the relationship.
I heard THAT.
Exactly
1000%
Word.
Thanks, I couldn't really put it into words, but that's what annoys me about loyalty tests...
I love how defensive the women get when they get caught cheating.
Him: "Who's Jacob?"
Her: "Are you serious? Are you serious right now?" 😂
Gaslighting right away 😂 always a bad sign
The automatic switch is stunning thats not the first time something like that happened!toxic!
They handed the phone over like 'whatever'
And so many of these men were giving her money. I'm like are these her sugar daddies or is she a sex worker?
About to start a 14 Hour drive to Florida to see my father who has dementia before he forgets who we are. Thank you for keeping your content consistent and daily because I definitely needed this right now. You’re like my little anti-depressant lol
Aww I’m sorry I bet that’s super hard. Best wishes to you!
I'm here in Tampa, welcome under the circumstances, I hope you can still enjoy your time down here in weirdo land. Prayers for your dad and family, really sad condition. 💕
Have a safe drive and iam sorry about your dad… wishing you the best time with your dad 🙏🙏🙏
I hope you enjoy your precious time with your dad. My grandpa had Alzheimer’s. Miss him every day.
Have a safe drive, have only good thoughts. ❤
I love how the one dude was just like "nah, bye". Good for him and his woman.
Well, good for _him._ His woman needs to work on herself though. Even after shooting the catfishy down a couple times, guy’s gf told her to keep going.
My "friend" made me test her boyfriend in middle school and I literally still feel so bad for him. It was so embarrassing. Like he was loyal but I think it's disrespectful to test your partner like that if you don't really think they're cheating
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@@georgiasam8045 😭
It’s hard not to feel bad about stuff done in middle school, but you were just a child. Kids make mistakes
@@rosieweaselby naaaw thank you for saying that 🥺❤️ Yeah I was a kid and I was very depressed so I was kinda like not present in my head. At least I never did anything to hurt anyone. Helping my friend test her boyfriends loyalty is probably the worst thing I've ever done
Middle School, he’s not a “partner” not at that age.
I would never participate in this kind of test, the whole thing just feels toxic. It does such to worry about your partner cheating, but still wouldn't go this route.
Amen to being madder at the partner than the person they cheat with. Because they are the one CHEATING. and especially if you don't know the other person or your partner lied and said they were broken up/single...
Yeah I've never understood this.
well your friend of all people should know who you're dating so if your partner cheats with a friend of yours its ok to be mad at both
@@dulapeep5604 I feel like that's a different story. Sorry that I didn't make it clear in the original, I was more referring to random people or people you don't know well> If it's like your bestie then heck yes, be furious at both of them. I sometimes see though that even in that scenario some people will act like the partner had no choice in the matter and take all the anger out on the other person.
@@crystalh450 100% agree if it's someone who is a friend or close to you. I think in that case totally be angry at both!
@@crystalh450 I mean in that specific situation they ALL were up for it? Bestie literally stood next to her and KNEW her bf was tested. If she was not comfortable she could have backed out before. So no, in this situation it is on the bf
There no way I’d let my husband have my phone for 45 seconds this time of year. That sneaky shit would be in my Amazon purchases so damn fast 🤣🤣 but for real, we use each other’s phones interchangeably and have nothing to hide.
Haha that’s me, only I’d be looking at what Christmas presents my husband got me!! 😆😆 Other than that, our phones are almost identical, so we use each other’s phones if they’re closer than our own.
My purchases are the only thing I would be worried about too😂
My husband and I are like that too. We actually have to tell each other at Christmas time "don't check the bank account this week because I bought your present. Ask me and I'll tell you the balance."
That mut be very confusing for your contacts, if they never know who their messages reach
Same in my marriage, trust hast never been an issue. And we just celebrated 12 years of marriage on the 21st of December too. :)
"Loyalty is like being honest" 😂😂😂.... Um yeah girl it is and it's something we should all be!
I agree 100 !
I would take the $30 grand, meet my SO at the car, and use the money for our wedding.
Hell ya
I would absolutely take the money being offered and then call my SO once the cameras are off.
Yeah like I'd try to somehow hint that I want to get the money for us both, but I wouldn't wanna cause any insecurity lol
Same. I know exactly what to say so a stranger would think we were breaking up, but my partner would know I was just saying it for the money.
No one would ever give 30k for something this dumb when you can just pretend you broke up. It's for likes & follows.
Yarp! Like "byeeee, buy ya a fancy meal for our new first daaate"
Exactly. That's why it's just fake. You can just say okay we're over. Right after ask to get back together.
As a guy I’m being honest when I say I’ve been through this and I’ve passed, she did it not once but twice, I passed both times, we eventually broke up because she had trust issues even though I passed the “tests”
Even if you’re loyal sometimes girls just have too many trust issues because of pos guys who cheat 😤
If she had that much insecurity, she was probably the one cheating and needed to justify it by thinking you were cheating too.
That sucks, man. I'm sorry.
This was an issue for me. Suddenly finding chat logging programs on the computer, emails opened by them, finding out they'd been searching down and interviewing my exes and old roommates, getting upset if I spoke to women or interacted with them... All while not wanting me to know where they were or when they'd be home, not wanting me to meet any of their new college friends from them going back to school, only meting them elsewhere or getting picked up in the driveway rather than having them come to the door... That whole... controlling atmosphere just got too much. The later revelations of cheating were one thing, but that lack of trust and affection can kill a relationship in and of itself, for sure.
A partner doing a loyalty test on me would give me trust issues. If they mistrusted me enough to feel like they needed to do that, . . .
Men are like this too🙄it gets annoying
Dude that passed the cheating test ALL RESPECT TO YOU, WE NEED TO CLONE YOU!😁💐
If I got it right, thou, his girl states she has anxiety, so he's probably already been through a few of those tests, so it's very likely that he can recognize/expects one...
@@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 Or his girl is a psycho who physically and mentally abuses him to the point where if a female just says "hey" he's like I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND GET AWAY FROM ME SHES THE BESTED EVER AND I WANT NOBODY ELSE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!!" That's hot a healthy relationship.
The bar is in hell lol
@@SonOfBaldo Lmfao
Sure bc it's just dudes that cheat...
I would never humiliate my husband by subjecting him to such a test... And yes, he would pass, but that is not the point. If you feel so insecure that you need to actually put on a stunt like this, maybe it's time to go, no matter how that "test" works out for you... 🤷♀️
Very good point and well said
But, is he loyal?! If my husband wanted to find out if I was loyal and do a test like this I really don’t care if it makes him sleep better at night. Just think of the relationships where the people think they’re in a loyal relationship and in reality they aren’t?! That would be absolutely humiliating if other people knew and you didn’t. Don’t they always say the spouse of the cheater is the last to know?!
@@tammiep9628 I have no reason to question his loyalty and that thought would never even cross my mind. And neither would his, dare I say.
You're touching upon the very gist of my previous comment: If there is even the slightest doubt in your relationship and you feel the need to subject your partner to such a test, then something is just not right and I personally would leave. Neither of the partners is a school kid needed to be tested. Problems are solved by talking, your partner should be the one to know about your insecurities first, not your friends.
So I don't really care what they say, to me, this is outright humiliating.
@@crystalh450 Those last two girls did not realize that their boyfriends were with each other when they called them.
@@peps1943 Oh, I'm so glad then that I have all these internet experts to explain what life is all about. Lucky me, whew!
I wish you that one day, you too will find a partner whose phone you won't have to go through in order to see if they want or do not want to be with you. Until then... 🤷♀️
It's her being mad at her friends for me
Lol fr the lack of self awareness hurt my brain
It made me slightly depressed for humanity.
Ok but 30,000$ is like the down payment on a house. They could just do it for the video and get back together later...
watch the $30,000 be fake money lol
I will do it personally will call them later babe 30000$ we can go to vacation buy highs
I told my man if we ever ever on the slim chance get stopped by one of these people we getting the money and then meeting up after lol
The background looks way better, editing looks way sharper and you look wayyyyy happier... ❤️... Happy to see you like this girlie 🔥🔥
Thank you so much!
Imagine being in a situation when someone dares you to swap your phone for x seconds, but although you are loyal, you have been exchanging messages with your friends about something you don't want your gf/bf to find out - like plans for a proposal or a birthday party. 😬
Imagine if you have previously been with someone super-controlling, so even tho you're loyal, when asked for your phone you just freeze up.
I don't want other people to see my messages with my best friend. They are sometimes far too stupid for the world to see ;)
Or someone has taken you in their confidence with a very delicate, very personal matter. Not cheating, nothing like that, but also not something that is anybody else's business and that you have promised not to say a word about to anybody else. Including your SO.
Found out my buddy who I knew over 20 years was hitting on my wife while I was having surgery. My wife was loyal my buddy betrayed me. 1 year later I beat the hell out of him.
I found out a guy I was going out with for about 3-4 mos we were just starting to get serious when I found out he’d been having an affair with his “bf” wife for over a year. I saw an email he sent to break it off with her for me. I dumped his ass!
I'm so sorry, but.... I also hope you enjoyed it!
@@pattyslater514 I enjoyed every second of the beating I put on him. I expect my friends to be as loyal to me as I am to them. My friends are like family to me.
Yes because beating people up is the way to handle things in life! Smh
@@TheRealMrBibbs violence is not the answer. But who cares? He really deserve it. So.
I got pissed when the 2nd to last girl kept saying “give me my phone” and asking and grabbing at it. And he just strongarmed her and kept looking. And this is after he physically pulled his phone off of her. So she just has to stand there and say “please give me my phone” ? No I don’t think so. He either needs to hand his phone over to her, or give hers back. That was the deal.
I agree, it was disturbing to watch. It was not fair and felt like a harassment with the host supporting the boyfriend.
Dam it’s almost like if she didn’t cheat that shit wouldn’t have happened?
Maybe she was a sex worker? Doin only fans or something? The way she kept saying “are you serious?” Made me think he knew and was just being a jerk.
So you are really confused to why he didn't hand her the phone back when he found SEVERAL intriguing texts from other dudes??? I am already sorry for your BF (if there is one)
Exactly. He took his phone back & then refused to give hers back, dude it doesn’t belong to you. You’ve seen she’s messaging other lads, you know she isn’t loyal, so give her back her property & leave. Keeping hold of someone property after they say to give it back, that’s then classed as theft btw, as you’re withholding their property. I get the man is annoyed/hurt/betrayed, but that doesn’t give him any rights to still keep hold of her phone, especially when he snatched his back, yet was getting aggressive to keep something that didn’t belong to him. Withholding someone’s belongs from them is toxic & controlling, regardless of what they’ve done that doesn’t entitled you to keep things that aren’t yours. Give her the phone back & end the relationship. You can’t keep someone’s phone just coz you’re mad. When I found out my ex cheated, I made sure they packed all their belongings up & got the fuck out my house. I didn’t want any of their stuff around, or any reason for them to come around or even try to get me into trouble.
Newer here and I’m addicted! Thank you for making me laugh, I love it. I always hear your lawl when I’m reading that and it makes me laugh!
I laugh at the lawl too;)
Makes it so much funnier than lol
My question is: how the hell do these people organise this? With a full time job you normally have barely enough time for one relationship, let alone another secret one.
Was asking myself the same thing. I don't know how I could possibly fit another partner in my life without either of them noticing. I barely have enough time to get my own stuff done xD
My parents have been married for 35+ years and my mum has always said she could never be bothered going out with a younger man 😂
@BrLL From personal experience: If the two of you work different shifts, it's super easy for the cheater, especially if you work days and they're in restaurant management, which means "closing" takes as long as it takes and the hours aren't fixed. Also, he was a charming, good looking guy in great shape who'd stocked his wait staff with cute college girls.
With the right motivation, you can do anything.
The side one is only seen when convenient.
I'm really glad there were a few people who passed the test but I'm surprised by some of these people's reactions, not really but it's such a headache to see what some people do when caught double dipping
If I'd swap phones with my boyfriend, I think the only thing we would find is immeasurable confusion with each others profession.😂
He is a mathematician, i am a linguist.
Underrated comment 🙌
Honestly would totally go and see Charlotte do a standup show, I would love to see it ! Shes so funny 😂 🥰💕
Charlotte: Hey girl, what's your name? Darian? Come on stage. Hey everyone this is Darian. Give her a clap. Darian, let's do a loyalty test on your boyfriend.
@@da96103 I mean in general, if Charlotte did a show, about anything I’d go see it if I could because I think she’s a good comedian 😑
@@darianmatz7895 no you wouldn't
@@base21 thanks for the assumption but in fact I would enjoy a show of miss Charlotte, ya sad potatoe
"Loyalty is being honest." No... that's honesty.
🤣 Its amazing that that needs to be clarified.
My husband always tries handing me his phone when we see these "loyalty tests". Lol...after 26 years, there's nothing to hide😂
Now that's a man worth keeping. Good job, you've found one of the rare specimens of men who don't cheat. At this point I wish I even had a boyfriend.
My best friends are in their relationships at the opposite ends of the spektrum. Our group hat should be read with caution, I got dirtyminded men blushing by reading small portions of interactions to them. . .
Friend number one is engaged to another girl and her fiancee is super chill. They have no secrets, we get along great while I spent a day cuddled up and onto friend number one or sleep in the same bad while she is nude. No jalousy, compleat trust I would be the last person on earth my friend would be attracted too. The fiancee often reads our chat and finds it hilarious.
Friend number twos boyfriend is insecure as hell and would probably get a heartfailure. . . I am aro ace the other is in the most healthy and happy relationship I have ever witnessed, but he always feels threatened by us. . .
I feel like seeing so many ppl caught online makes me have trust issues more than ever.
It makes you paranoid, huh? Me too.
@@angieemm Yes it does. I feel like i see it more and more often
I just have to remind myself that I didn't ever cheat either, but it definitely causes some anxiety right?
3:04 I'm more worried the phone WON'T make it into his pocket. With my butterfingers, that thing would have missed, hit the fencing, and knocked into that body of water. Phones near water stress me TF out.
I know. That's all I could focus on! One of them getting mad and throwing the phone or accidentally dropping it in the water.
me too
I’ve been in the hospital going on 2 and a half weeks. It’s been one of the hardest things I’ve gone through, I had to have my leg amputated. My biggest fear is to not be able to walk again, but everyone is telling me how far prosthetics have come so I’m trying to be positive. Your videos everyday are something to cheer me up and make me laugh , your the best charlotte!
My favorite part of the day!!! When Charlotte uploads and I am off work and can watch right away.
My ex used to hide their phone when not using it. For years. Once when I was holding their phone during an emergency their "best friend" texted some suggestive messages. Took about two weeks to hack into their phone. They were unfaithful for years with tons of people. They got the boot ASAP.
First guy I ever dated was angry at his father for cheating on his mother. He regularly got angry about it and did malicious things like destroy his father's phone to prevent him texting and calling the woman he had broken up his family for. I was super stunned when he ended up cheating on me repeatedly. Whole thing left me that traumatised, I didn't date anyone else for a couple of years, and it really skewed my view on relationships for over a decade.
My Dad's cheating (in my 50s so this was 40 years ago-no technology lol) helped make ME very loyal-never cheated nor could I ever conceive of doing so. He was drinking then, got sober, spent MANY years doing Step 12 (Making Amends), including being a good judge of guys for me (also was an NYPD Lieut so that quick ability to judge is part of the job).
I’ve been married over 30 years. We still love and respect each other. It can be done but it’s a lot of work.
Thank you for making such amazing content and being as awesome as you are. I love how you embrace your weird and crazy and you are an inspiration to girls who are crazy but don't know how to embrace it yet. I'm also happy you're Canadian.
So am I 🇨🇦
This makes me appreciate my sweet husband even more. I've had some traumatic relationships in the past and sometimes I get insecure. But he's patient w me and does his best to reassure me that he's loyal. Ladies and gents, the good ones are out there. If you're lucky enough to find one hold for dear life and treat that man/woman like gold! Big love!
I loved this one!! It was uncomfortable but so entertaining. It’s crazy tho that in most of the tests it was the girl that failed and had something to hide. Shows a major contrast in generations because in my generation I am sure it would have been the guys failing. Girls these days just don’t seem to have the same standards of loyalty. And maybe that’s because they have seen from past generations that the men couldn’t be trusted so now they have a whole team sitting on the bench waiting to be called up so they don’t get hurt and they aren’t lonely. Ladies, don’t do this, it’s ok not to have a man in your life at all times. It’s good to be single and take time to figure out who you are as a person and love yourself. Charlotte, I want more content like this, I’m hooked 😆 Hope you are having a fabulous day!!!
Let's be honest though cheating was still done back then it was just kept quiet. I'm just going to say both sides cheated it's always been like that. If someone is going to cheat they're going to cheat. It doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man.
@@Jason2425able No, it was far less prevalent way back in the dino age (in my 50s now). Nobody in my circle of friends-all very pretty, educated ladies with good jobs, many in male-dominated fields like on Wall St., would do it. However, all of us experienced it at one time or another.
I've been married to my soul mate for almost 9 years. When I watch videos like these or hear people's dating stories, I thank the gods I don't have to do that shit anymore. It sounds rough as fuck to be apart of the dating scene these days.
I wouldn't let my hubby have my phone for 45 seconds because he would use that time to swap up all the names in my contacts... he thinks he's funny
That's so wholesome thoooo
@@Em-kw4uo Yeah, it's all fun and games til you send a tit pic to your sibling!🥴
Thank you for this! I normally can’t watch these due to how awkward they are lol. Awkward gets me for some reason. But you make it so much more enjoyable.
Been waiting for this to brighten my day as I clean! Spring cleaning in the winter ...blah. ty Charlotte
Oh wow, I can wait til Spring! Thanks
Honesty, respect and trust are out the window these days...
Love ya Charlotte. Your expressions crack me the hell up!
My grandad fell in love with my granny when she started working at the factory he was working in. He was engaged to the factory owner's daughter at the time and he broke things off with her to be with my granny. He hated telling the story because he was reminded of how he hurt his fiancée. The last time I ever saw him he said that to me, but I think it's got a romantic ring to it. He was the loveliest man and my granny was the loveliest woman and their love was really genuine, and I love telling that story. ❤
🥺🥺🥺🥺
with that $30,000 one i would agree to break up with them, circle round and just go "hey i've been thinking about what happened and i miss you, but ive recently come into some money and hope you'll take me back" lol
(i mean technically i wouldve broken up with tjem for the money but he failed specificy for how long the breakup had to be)
This loyalty check is dangerous... 😳 Thanks for such great content!😋🌺
half of them are fake anyway
It is only dangerous if you are the type to stay with the person anyway so for those ppl, better not to know. For the rest, better to find out sooner rather than later
I LUUUV THE LOOKS ON YOUR FACE WHEN TEA IS BEING SPILLED. ALWAYS ENTERTAINING.
That first girl is going to lose everyone in her life for a guy that is playing her for a fool because she is getting mad at the wrong people. That girl with the money being sent....I think that's an Only Fans girl. It definitely gives off OF vibes!
My phone swap with my partner would be so boring. My recent messages are all from the school about open hours with storms and bad weather and from him and I know his phone is all girls, but they are all the vet nurses or other vets asking him on his days off what meds to give his clients and to scope what another one of the vet nurses would like for their secret Santa :D
And a veterinarian too! I am an animal rescuer-would love to find and marry a nice vet (and 'nice' includes single, not attached, etc.)
If you need to "test" the loyalty of your partner, you need to breakup right away. If there's no trust
there is no point in being together.
“He says his teammates don’t want to cuddle.”
He was being charming. That would have worked on me.
I just love your videos. You popped up as a suggestion and now I am binge watching them. I can't get enough.
I'm LOVING the NEW Studio Charlotte. So chic. 💖😍
When cheaters get caught “are you serious??” Is all they can say lol
Lol. I died laughing hearing about marrying someone just because they lived on the same street as you. But I got to say that I found my best husband online. He’s much better for me than the first two that I met in more conventional ways. But I guess if they were my only options, I might have put up with their nonsense and stuck it out.
It's true. We used to marry people that lived near to each other. It's a real thing.
The "switch phone for 45 seconds" has me scared that my hsb is going to see just how many Amazon purchases I actually made. 😶😂
Haha same. I think those who don't cheat still have something to hide like lots of online shopping 🤣.
They get delivered to a pickup point for a reason....
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I agree if you are not exclusive with each other you can do whatever you want but I feel like you should talk about it at least so that there's no confusion and nobody gets hurt!
@@crystalh450 well I grew up in a different time I guess cuz that guy was obviously shocked to know he wasn't the only 1 and I'd want to prevent any misunderstanding from the gate as not to hurt anyone.I can see if it's your 1st.maybe 2nd.date..I only ever dated 1 man at a time.Married now.
@@crystalh450 Your right I didn't think about it that way , iv personally never dated online , just happened for me I always chose to focus on 1 guy at a time but your right there is nothing wrong with dating to find someone that works for you and you for them.
@@crystalh450 That is how I operated (in my 50s). Just broke up a 5 year relationship so when I am ready, will do the same. I have NEVER cheated in my life, never crossed my mind, but UNTIL we have "the talk" a couple of dates in, or after one date where it was one of those super amazing long ones where the connection is so clear, I can do what I want.
Music (listening, singing) and sharing food helps them. Love is the answer.🧡
I'd totally break up with someone for 30k then take a couples trip! Yes Charlotte we think the same! 💖
I would not switch the phone with my partner, not that I have anything to hide, it just not something I would be comfortable with and it would not be fair for my friends who did not consent to have their messages read by someone other than me.
this was certainly a roller coaster of emotions. i need a nap.
😂 I always need a nap.
What’s wrong with people?!!!! Ugh 😑
"Rachel's not around, do you want to Netflix and chill" who really talks like that? He wasn't being loyal he was being cautious
I think these days teenagers talk like this… I know it’s weird for us…
@@Viv-no-pain-no-gain bruh how old are you'all??
Exactly what I thought.
Plot twist:that guy didn't refused her, he just said"get outta here", as in"Am I dreaming or something?".Jokes aside, I really hope that wasn't the case tho lol
Yeah, it was so obvious, he undoubtedly suspected a prank or something
From a legal standpoint, these loyalty tests would never stand up in court; they constitute entrapment.
But from a common sense standpoint, the people who fail these tests are jerks.
Most of the time deep down you know if they're not loyal/faithful, but some refuse to believe it,which is why you "test" them, I think if one person is more into the other person,they miss or actually ignore the red flags.
I missed the red flags but I finally dropped my rose colored glasses
Had a roommate that was seeing a bunch of women at once all the time. Usually he wasn't explicitly "exclusive" with any of them, but sometimes he was. The ones he wasn't "official" with at least thought he was their boyfriend, and I always felt complicit especially as a woman around their ages. I told some of them if I could mange to, but I wish I'd done more.
'When my circle got smaller, my vision got clearer, there is strength in loyalty, not in numbers' a quote that I believe in :) That is why I don't understand the people who have lots of 'friends' on their social media, they aren't really people you know, it seems that people have this need to be seen by strangers, so to me that means that these people don't love or like themselves very much, a few loyal friends aren't enough?? I have 14 friends, and I know them all :)
Thank you for the mood boost!! Been having some bad brain days and trying to help my kid with some mental health struggles. Your videos are so helpful. 🖤
I knew a couple who got married very young after he had to sleep overnight in the the barn. Very different times. He road a mule to her house, across the creek on a very rainy night, spent too much time with her and her parents, and by the time he tried to go home the creek was too high to cross. Her parents had them marry the next day! She always said, "I just love the rain." 😂
Wait that's kinda cute LOL
@@omegasage777 It really was cute. Charlotte reminded me of them when she was saying she "missed the old days" haha That couple was from the old, old days! Just him staying at the barn was enough to get her parents to say they needed to marry so no one thought bad of them. But they were both really happy about the result, to the point she "love[d] the rain" since it gave her a husband of 70 plus, almost 80, years. He passed a few years before her and when you asked how she was doing she would say it was just "long days and nights. I just want to be where he is." He loved her the same way, he just didn't say it to everyone. But he would always hold out is arm for her when they walked, hold her hand if they were sitting, and as they aged she became his eyes and he became her ears. One of the purest loves I ever saw.
Thankfully there are still faithful people out there
Imagine getting caught cheating while wearing crocs 😂
Love your new studio! Happy for you on the new place! And your hair is just killing it🙌 Love your videos 😁
0:40 I literally hate those ride or die people that know they have cheating exes, but would rather lose a limb over breaking up with them. I've worked with one before at a Domino's and they're just as crazy as they sound 😂
They 'hey everybody' never gets old
The one where the guy was like I'm seeing someone, but ended up being engaged to another woman! 🥺 That's some messy tiktok rt there
I adore you so much and I hate everyone lmfao the end "subscribe!" Yell is my favorite part though lol and your super pretty btw, don't stress being single, your just marinating for the perfect guy lol 😆
If men need some hope today: the same week I met my partner who wasn't in a good financial situation and was going through a few hardships, someone tried to set me up on a blind date with a well-off guy who even booked a fancy restaurant for our 1st date. But since my partner already made it clear he likes me, he kissed me and I knew I liked him; I declined the date, told the 2nd fella he needs to cancel that fancy reservation and apologized to him. I'll be moving in with my partner soon. So, women don't always go for "the better" man.
Is Loyalty a virtue? Of course it is! It always has been, and even though those who are loyal may get hurt from time to time, they the better people.
For the breakup one, tell your gf you’re gonna break up with her, get the money, and then get right back together. He never said you couldn’t 🤷🏻♂️
I love that they included loyal ones toooo!!!
I hope that guy who " broke up" with his girl for mone didn't actually do it ,and just pretended as Charlotte suggested!!
The first one made my head hurt. The denial is strong with that gurl. Cuz bro wth?!
Guy:"Thanks, but I'm seeing someone right now"
*Everyone liked that*
Guy:"I have a fiance but I also date other girl"
*Everyone disliked that*
Your videos have become part of my evening winding down--a cheerful way to relax and go to sleep with a smile.
So glad I’m in a committed relationship. I have absolute trust in my husband. No settling on either side. We aren’t perfect in any means. We have our disagreements and stuff but we can always count on each-other when it’s real. I can’t put into words what I want to everyone to know what we feel for each-other. Super frustrating. Hope y’all find that one special someone that makes you feel like you are the only person on the planet with them.
wait til you have been with him for 30+ years, your opinion might change.
@@toscatattertail9813 damn. Already been 14 yrs. Can’t imagine I’ll get tired of him or vice versa. If it hasn’t happened already…. Pretty sure we are stuck with each-other lol
"You can do a lot of damage in 45 seconds".
She did all the damage in the time it took her to say no to the phone swap.
Hell, during my senior year in high school i baited my own bf because i suspected he was cheating. Made up a fake FB account with tons of pics and what not, put the location as close to him. DM'd him for about 2 weeks as this girl (who said we had been to the same party and had some mutual friends). He was soooo into her, telling her (me) all kinds of stuff including a "no-no" pic. It was after that that i showed him everything and we broke up. Honestly, now as an adult (happily married now), i should have never played that game and just broke up with him when i suspected. There's always something legit when you feel that suspicion. Can't have trust, can't have love.
I have never seen the plot of "Babooshka" explained so thoroughly
@Don't be fatuous, Jeffrey
Had to look it up and gotta agree
@@Stranger_Strange_Land LOL
Absolutely love your content, you really brighten my day much love from the UK ❤❤❤❤❤
This makes me so happy that I have a boring life 😂
A wise youtuber once said "you're not boring, you're just not complicated". Being a good person is so undervalued these days
I really enjoy your videos. They make me laugh. You have a great personality.
Gotta be honest, this one hurts a little. My dreams of a loyal, faithful, life-long love that grows over the years and nourishes generations of our family have been crushed and I am feeling as though life is passing me by.
If one person thinks they are in a relationship, then both need to be honest. It may hurt a little but it will save you from a huge heartache later on. And for the love of dessert, don’t lie! Selfishness never did improve any relationship and just makes people feel used.
Millennials are gonna be the first generation to initiate human extinction bc of these trust issues that has been very common nowadays
Girl that lighting is perfect congratz on the house ...cant wait to see it !!!!
Even if I wasn't faithful (which i have never not been): HOW DO Y'ALL HAVE ENERGY FOR MORE THAN ONE PARTNER?!
One is enough, urghh. Couldn't get the energy and put up with more people.
9:00 is the ultimate mood in this video
6:00 dude already had a full plan in his head to break up with her for the $30,000 and then come by next week with $10,000 worth of gifts and jewelry for her and she would take him back no problem
Haha I absolutely love all your accents you do in your videos, especially the old southern ones 😄👌🏻