Hey folks! Quick note: My bad on the old man dying in a hospital/nurse makeup joke - I hoped it’d be seen as a far-fetched and ridiculous scenario (being without her makeup leading to someone dying) - I was trying to think of a high-stakes consequence of the boyfriends incompetence, but watching back it just puts the nurse in a “servicing the male gaze” situation, which is kinda lazy comedy-wise, and a misfire on my part. I’m removing it from the vid just in case it perpetuates an unsavory point of view.
All good! It’s just a silly mistake that doesn’t attest to your character as a whole. However, noticing your mistake & not only publicly taking responsibility but also taking the necessary actions to fix it is a true testament to who you are as a person. As someone who is known to be funny & always making jokes I can 100% relate to intending to make someone laugh only for the string of words coming out of your mouth to be way worse than what was in your head. Once in class I was talking to a friend who I’d only really known for a month & he convinced me to take a political quiz since I was a 15 year old girl who’s only knowledge on politics was “trump be like bad & stuff”. It was sparking some really interesting topics & all was good until there was a question somewhat along the lines of “do you think your race is superior to others?”. I cannot emphasise more on my own dumbassery. Somewhere in the pea sized brain that rattles in my skull, in between the several likely concussions I must’ve received to reach this conclusion, I interpreted that as if humans as a species were superior to animals. I spent a whole 10 minutes verbally contemplating the ethics of humanity being more deserving of life than animals & if intelligence of a species equates to its value. Oh & OBVIOUSLY I was sprinkling in an array of relevant jokes & quips in every sentence. After 10 minutes my tidal wave of word vomit settled into a ripple & he finally had the auditory space to interject that THE QUESTION WAS ABOUT RACISM. I am white. He is white. I did not talk for the rest of class though thankfully it was already the end. My pure embarrassment was so overwhelming I could not bring myself to go to school for the rest of that week. I can only imagine how racist I sounded for those 10 minutes. If I had a Time Machine & was only allowed to make one trip without any hesitation I would travel back to the start of those 10 minutes to give myself the hardest slap in the face.
My guess is that he doesn’t know that you can’t take something out of resin and though he could make places for her to put her makeup in the spinny thing and hehe it didn’t work out he just tried to be confident when he had fucked up. Honestly if he hadn’t put her makeup in it and just used colour dyes instead it would have been a perfect gift
@Taxi-cab-to-Slowtown yeah. His reaction after he fucked up is what is bothering me more than the rest. She told him her makeup was now ruined, and his response was basically the "oh no! Anyway" meme
@@arnavreddy443no it’s not because he should have ASKED? Who tf just sees a whole plate of cooked, assumed they’re for them, and eats *all of them??* That is such selfish inexcusable behaviour
@@ThatHawksSimp Fair enough, I'm just saying atleast it's a mistake that could be forgiven and improved upon. He could have gotten to the nearest store and brought some cookies to make up to her. Not justifying his behavior, definitely wrong. Just saying that we don't know his reaction or what he did afterwards. The resin guy doesn't even seem to care about or understand what he did wrong. He doesn't understand what the makeup means to his girlfriend.
@@arnavreddy443the poster said that they didn’t have any more cookie dough and most people wouldn’t post about a situation that was quickly resolved. It’s far more likely that the boyfriend told her that he thought the cookies were for him and maybe he’s sorry, but he almost definitely didn’t offer to go get more cookies or dough for her because she felt the need to post about it. I do totally agree that the cookie thing is way more forgivable than the makeup thing, but it’s still disrespectful to immediately consume ALL the food you see even though you didn’t make it. It’s super entitled too because it doesn’t seem like they have an agreement that when she bakes he can have as much as he wants. He just decided that the cookies were for him and that he could eat all of them. It seems like some weaponized incompetence too if he didn’t even think to ask. People should be able to walk away from their food for 5 minutes without worrying about their partner deciding that the food was actually for them and eating it all.
@@bleh1368 Fair enough, he could have also just left half or just texted her to ask. Having a sibling, this is common occurrence for me, so I might be a little bit more chill about this. We steal each others food all the time, even if I baked it myself or bought it specifically for that day. This situation is different though.
Regarding the nurse: shes also gonna have to deal with people saying "oh, are you ok ? You look tired.” for WEEKS. Dude needs to get her a gift card, STAT.
What irritates me about make up guy is that he almost refuse to understand what he did wrong even tho OP explained it tens of times. He's really acting like he doesn't care he even upset her in the first place. 💀
Honestly, that resin guy was a major a-hole to me. Not just the fact that he ruined so much make-up that can cost THOUSANDS of dollars depending on her collection, but more so his reaction afterwards. He literally dismissed her feelings, which I think is a pretty good indicator to how he is as a partner and as a person. I would seriously be reconsidering my relationship if I was her. EDIT: she's considering leaving him, GOOD.
Good be MILLIONS of dollars! Or dozens! We don't know, no point to assume. He doesn't seem like a good SO though. It's weird he would do something thoughtful and then be so shitty when she shared her feelings and asked him to buy the makeup again.
It's possible he was very insecure and jealous of her - because she makes more than him or he thinks that she uses makeup to look better than him (from his perspective, not necessarily objectively). I think this was a toxic passive aggressive way to express his bottled up feelings of resentment towards her. Especially, when he still acted like he didn't get it and dismissed her feelings and valid concerns afterwards. Huge red flag in my book.
She's a nurse and he works for his dad. The makeup probably wasn't top-of-the-line. Still, there would’ve been a better outcome if he had owned up to his mistakes and apologized. I'm hoping it was just a big misunderstanding and that they can move past this, since divorce can have a substantial impact on everyone involved. If it is part of a bigger toxic relationship, though, that's a big no-no.
The resin story is so weird to me. It sounds like the initial nice thought was there (making something for his girlfriend), but he just stopped thinking after that. The bigger red flag is his reaction and dismissal of her feelings. The way he doesn't see an issue with destroying something someone else cares about just because he personally doesn't care about it. It's like empathy 101 kindergarten. Don't do to someone else what you wouldn't want done to you.
I wonder if she considered dumping his shoes into resin see how he likes it. Although it's probably not worth the price of resin just to get back at him.
Yeah I bet someone saw that diwhy post doing that and saw all the comments saying the wife would be angry and got inspired to fictionalize a post for r/confessions to rake in some upvotes
Wdym Resin Guy was just being "guy stupid?!" There is no way in hell that he didn't understand that her makeup would no longer be accessible if he put it in resin! He may as well have just thrown it all in a bonfire. She obviously didn't want the turntable thingy so she could just look at her makeup and admire it - it's a functionality thing. Idk if it's divorce-worthy, but maybe. It's only partially about the makeup itself. It's about the fact that he cares nothing for her belongings, even for ones that mean a lot to her, nor does he care for her feelings because he dismissed her right away when she was upset about his idiocy.
Sometimes people just make really stupid mistakes, I think giving him the benefit of the doubt, and not assuming he started out acting maliciously. But when he doubles down and refuses fault and treats it like it's no big deal, that's when he's just an a-hole. I don't know if divorce is the only option, however it is something I would advise her to think about, while still trying to see if they could work through it.
@@nicjoy4407 Yeah, I think he maybe thought it was a funny prank, like "Be careful what you wish for cuz you just might get it!" And I agree that his dismissiveness is the biggest problem pertaining to their relationship. She's clearly very upset and he's just like whatever.
thank you for this comment, i was listening to this being like "why are we making excuses for a grown man's incompetence?" like women arent put on this earth to teach men things.. i thought i was going crazy
I mean, he didn't think they'd be accessible. He thought it'd be a makeup based turntable, handmade, out of his thoughtfulness and something she likes. That might be all there was to it. He may not have thought any further. That's not the alarming part, the alarming part is how he rejected her feelings. It's absolutely possible he didn't think about having to replace the makeup, and a TON of dudes don't ever know how much makeup costs. I can't afford makeup because I have a mast cell condition, and constantly putting expensive stuff on my face that comes in tiny bottles isn't affordable, and trying to do skin checks isn't feasible at the cost so much makeup is at. But tons of guys don't know that. That's not an excuse, but it does mean he may have genuinely been thinking of her, and wanting to make her happy without thinking beyond his initial idea. The only part that for sure makes him an ahole is that after he was told, he rejected her feelings and the notion of replacing her items.
@@SomeoneIusedtoknow-s1f Yes exactly! So many people just assume that this guy is evil from the beginning, if you assume the worst in everyone then you'll only find the worst. Once he disregards her feelings and refuses to take actions to help alleviate his mistakes, that's when he's in the wrong.
Could you imagine if resin guy did that with her expensive jewelry? I wonder if this is weaponised incompetence because he's embarrassed OR, maybe if he hates how much value she puts in her makeup and KNEW it would bother her. Because I've seen cases of people throwing out their partners' or kids' important things because they 'aren't important, and they should get over it'
My god you’re right. Especially because of his reaction afterwards regarding replacing it!! He must have know what he was doing. There’s no way he didn’t.
Oh no it is Weaponized incompetence and anyone who says otherwise has never had to deal with it lucky you. And you kind of contradicted yourself because people who use their intelligence level against people and act like they didn't do anything wrong they also are intentionally doing those things to hide their hate so both is correct
@@Atlasintokyo actually looking back I just think it's regular manipulation feigning ignorance. Weaponized incompetence is typically used to get out of doing something, refusing to get better at something, with this he did what she asked in an incompetent way but I don't think it was to get out of doing this kind of thing in the future, I think it was just to get rid of her makeup. And I've been a victim of just. All of it. It kind of bleeds together but this is just gaslighting with a hint of feigning stupidity.
Um, this story sounds awfully similar to a post on r/diwhy. If this was the same guy, then that was a whole lot of makeup he wasted. Some of that stuff looked nearly brand new.
@@JoULove This is what I was gonna say! The weaponized incompetence. WTF possessed this dude to take her make-up and make it unusable? It really can't be that he was "doing something nice and didn't think" because come on! You'd have to be high level stupid to really do something like that with good intentions in mind. He KNEW she wasn't going to be able to access her make-up and then the immediate dismissal...yea she needs to go.
The story of the boyfriend eating all the cookies makes my blood boil. I get horrible cramps and am super emotional when I have my period, like sob at nothing kind of emotional. One time when I had my period my mom made homemade chocolate chip cookies, my boyfriend was over that day. I was sitting on the couch with my heating pad and I asked my boyfriend if he could grab me a cookie from the kitchen because moving hurt too much. He got up and got one and went to hand it to me, and at the last moment ripped it away from my hand and shoved it into his own mouth. I just started crying immediately. It wasn't even like it was the last cookie, he immediately got me another one and apologized and I forgave him even though I was still upset at the joke. But if he has literally eaten them ALL??? Jail.
I wish I had the energy to prep a relaxation thing for myself with a homemade cookie, but if my boyfriend did something like this to me, don't talk to me unless you wanna get screamed at incoherently
Even if I wasn't on my period, if I made an entire batch of cookies and someone ate them all my blood would be BOILING. I mean how hard is it to eat a single cookie now, and wait until the person gets back to ask if you could eat the rest?!
I would say the prank and him apologizing and giving you a cookie cancel each other out. The prank was probably a last-minute thing that he didn't put much thought into and he probably learned his lesson.
@@ellag3265 Like yes it's an extremely frustrating situation to be in, but most adults would be able to cope with it. The period brain does not allow you to cope! Why does the slightest thing feel like the end of the world?
Resin thing: Not only did it not occur to him that he's ruining her makeup by encasing it in resin (collecting the empties over time would have been much better) but WTF is she supposed to do with a block of resin big enough to encase all her makeup? Sounds like a waste of a space and a huge eyesore to me.
Based on her description in some comments on the post it's more like a big plate than a block, with a spinny thing on the bottom. Imagine a big cake stand/lazy Susan.
The "gift" was basically just destruction of her property. Expensive property at that. It's one thing to be dumb enough to not realize that encasing cosmetics in resin will make that stuff UNUASABLE when she clearly uses it. It's another to not only NOT own up to that but to try and dismiss how that affects someone. How inconsiderate can you be? I'd say divorce that guy. He clearly doesn't care for or respect his partner. If you're in a relationship with someone you should respect their feelings and the stuff they care about!
People who eat the entirety of ANYTHING without asking if anyone would like some always just seem like they weren't raised properly. Unless I live alone, I'm not consuming things like I'm the only one who exists. It's just rude and inconsiderate.
I think in most cases, I agree with you. However, I was once in a relationship with someone who really enjoyed baking. I would get home from work and most days she would surprise me with something new. I would always ask if I could have some for about the first 2 months of living together. But, at some point, it just became a kinda assumed thing that it was for me. I will say though, either way, it's insane to eat all of them especially right away. Even if they are made for you; always leave plenty over for them or in case you might want some more later.
She was in the next room, too. It's not like he had to hike up a mountain to ask her if the cookies were for him and if she was cool with him eating them all at once. I usually don't wish bad things upon people, but I hope he had a monster tummy ache.
My hubby does this occasionally. He's not malicious, he's just a mindless eater and LOVES cookies. Once he gets out of the haze of it, he goes OH GOD, WHAT HAVE I DONE???? We've had a few talks about it, he's gotten a lot better. We all have our faults and issues, you just gotta communicate and keep trying to better yourself. Lord knows he's forgiven plenty of my whoopsies!
And even if he didn't, his reaction after the fact shows a complete lack of care and respect for her feelings. What else will he tell her is stupod and to get over? I'd be seriously considering divorce, too.
I know everyone is saying the makeup guy just made a mistake, but my take was he did it on purpose. He ruined ALL her makeup and did it in a way that makes her seem in the wrong. Look , I made you that thing you want! What, you wanted to use your makeup? Oops, stupid guy moment, but I made the thing and it was an accident so you cant be ungrateful I destroyed hundreds of dollars of your possessions. If he was sorry he'd act like it. He'd give a real apology and do his best to replace her stuff when he could. But what did he do? He said she didn't need it! Dismissed her, refused to listen. So my take is he either did it on purpose, either cuz he didn't want her wearing makeup or just a power play. If it really was an accident he is 1) too literal to function and it should show in other parts of his life and 2) has no respect for her or her stuff. Edit: the thread on reddit bring up a good point of him being a useless sack of potatoes and that he may be trying to sabotage her from having any better options. Especially when she is around doctors all day who get paid a lot more than him and actually have a job. 👀
I personally imagine it's so she never asks for a homemade or expensive gift again. Either that or he's playing it off as "not a big deal" because he doesn't want to admit to how monumentally stupid he was being (because honestly you do have to be pretty stupid to do this on accident)
@@ellag3265 Yeah, I doubt it was done without malice, but if it was truly a mistake idk if I'd be able to get past it anyway. I don't know if I could have a partner who just turns their brain off to this point and destroys my stuff, especially if kids were ever involved.
Unpopular opinion: I can't understand why someone would spend hundreds of dollars on makeup. People can spend their money on what they want, but if I was a guy that would be a big red flag for me. Not defending ruining anyone's possessions of course.
@@sarahberkner I understand that, but it does sort of depend how expensive you go but generally the amount spent is spread over months or year. A lipstick or eyeshadow palette can last a long time. Pricewise, even the drugstore stuff isn't as cheap as it used to be, it may still be $50-$100 if you bought one foundation, mascara, lipstick, blush, eyeshadow, etc. all at once.
Ruining all her makeup to make a make up holder is like melting down someone's figurine collection to make them a new figurine stand, or taking apart someone's video game console to make a controller stand. How is he surprised when she gets upset?
Dude… my makeup collection is around $2,000 and it’s a VERY small collection. I also enjoy and look forward to doing my makeup every day, matching it to my outfits or jewelry, it’s just a little thing that makes me happy. … IN RESIN!? I don’t get how he didn’t understand what he was doing. If I take my ps controller and put it in resin, YOU CANT USE THE CONTROLLER. Like ???? I don’t understand
I'm not judging, and you can spend your money however you want, but I don't get spending hundreds of dollars on makeup, much less $2000. Moreso because I'm thrifty; I understand the idea of wanting to look good.
@@sarahberknerthe price of make-up was said just to make a point. Regardless, the point still stands. Even if it only cost $200, that's still $200 worth of daily-use stuff that now you'll have to rebuy (and probably spend days without).
Yeah, I don’t wear much makeup but I do have an extensive skin care collection that cost around that, probably closer to 3k if I do include my makeup. I’d be so upset. Especially if I was with a man that couldn’t afford to replace those items. I dated a broke pos man in my early 20’s and his dog destroyed half of my furniture and clothes. He couldn’t afford to replace those items and didn’t have anything nice himself. It almost felt like he didn’t want me to have nice things either because he ended up totaling my car. (He didn’t have one) I guess this story was a little triggering lmao.
@@sarahberkner Spending more money often means getting higher quality makeup, which is better for your skin. Possibly more environmentally friendly. Etc. Etc. If you are a person who loves makeup and wears it a lot, it makes perfect sense to spend on it.
@@Lari-lc3zq though it's totally up to the person how they spend their money, I know that there's a lot of predatory marketing and sales tactics within the makeup industry. Makeup is generally known for intense green-washing, use of slave labor, child labor, manufacturing insecurities, misleading or fake before and after pictures, lack of consumer data to support their claims, directly marketing to children, selling cheaper brands but changing the label for more expensive brands, etc. The FDA does not pre-approve any product for sale, and they are generally just lying to you anyway. Most vegan brands came back testing positive for animal DNA, almost every company who claims to be child/slave labor free were found to be buying products that used that kind of labor. I could go on all day. Basically, if it isn't from the dollar store, the cheaper mass bought store brands tend to be safer at the very least for your health and skin (less likely to contain high levels of lead, mercury, and arsenic than more expensive brands) Additionally, many of the compounds that these products use to help with application and duration have been shown to be concerningly carcinogenic. The makeup industry has a crazy lack of oversight, and that leads to high incentives to lie about how ethical, healthy, and effective any product is. Throwing someones belongings in resin is unacceptable regardless.
NGL, as someone who has been cheated on over a dozen different times, I'm enjoying some immense schadenfreude hearing about that girl in the first story breaking down so hard. Just sittin here like Palpatine all "gooooooooooood. gooooooooooooood."
@@topasu9454whoooaaaa whoa whoa let's not insinuate that people who cheat ever do it for good reason, or any valid reason, and let's dEfinitely not insinuate that the one cheated on is at fault 😭😭 victim blaming is not ok bruh, some people just have terrible luck and fall for someone that seems good at first until bam they suck
The cookies thing reminds me of a viral thread years ago when a woman made fat balls for the birds with her kids and left them in the fridge to set. Her husband thought she had made gourmet snacks for him to eat while he watched the football. He ate one. He ate bird seed in lard. And then complained to her that it was "a bit greasy".
That's kind of understandable, if he's focused on the game is probably not paying that much attention to what he's eating, and if I were her I would have said, "Don't eat these".
To be honest, I feel like resin guy is performing weaponised incompetence. He probably knows this is a big deal but is trying to convince her it's not because he can't deal with the responsibility so he's making it out that she's in the wrong and he's just stupid and kind. This is a thing many men do. They'll perform a task badly so their partner doesn't make them do that task again. And if they realise they've messed up, they pretend it's not something that can be improved upon or made up for because they're just that stupid. It's a very common manipulation tactic and I feel like giving him the benefit of the doubt leads to such absurd conclusions that the fact he's just putting on a himbo act feels more probable.
I’m genuinely concerned about him. How incompetent do you have to be do render someone’s expensive makeup unusable and then not offer to fix it. Even if he does like her, or lust after her, I can’t imagine he loves her. He doesn’t prove it anyway.
I doubt this was a case of doing something badly so she'd never ask such things of him again. I'd sooner guess he had a problem with her use of makeup and wanted an excuse to ruin it for her.
The makeup story - that guy was 100% malicious about that gift, I'm convinced. He brushed off her telling him what the problem was with the gift. He refused to buy new make up to replace what he ruined. He does not give a shit about her and if in some ungodly way he was sincerely trying to make her something he thought she would like, he is actively punishing her for not just rolling over and accepting his DIWhy project. Dude sucks and I hope she left him.
The guy throwing his gf's makeup in resin was trying to control her because he's insecure about not being the breadwinner and wanted to knock her down several pegs to make himself feel better. He knew she wouldn't be able to use it anymore and didn't care when she expressed her feelings about it. It was a bid to take back the "power" he thinks he doesn't have.
Putting her makeup in resin? Beyond stupid. The way he treated her afterwards? Insulting, cruel, and I think she probably SHOULD divorce anyone who has that little respect for both her feelings and what it costs her to support them. She'd be better off without someone dragging her down emotionally AND financially.
Yeah, I think everything just points to him being just not worth it. This is a little red flag or an orange flag or whatever, but I think the question has to be, "What is he bringing to the table?" It's not about "how much money he's making" it's that he doesn't appear to have managed to get work or a career or even a hobby that is fulfilling or separate from what his parents can offer him, presumably not requiring him to prove anything to anyone. She didn't tell us about any amazing things he's up to in what sounds like free time, and attitude to this error is just careless and uninterested in her feelings. Is this really someone you want to be tethered to your whole life?
Re: Resin Guy's comment "You can live without it (Makeup)" It's not about whether you require it to live. You require only a few bare necessities to live. That's an absurd defense to his complete and utter lack of respect for your possessions. He needs to understand that his actions, no matter how well-intentioned, have seriously affected your *happiness.* Your *satisfaction.* Your *ability to enjoy life.* It's not about whether it was necessary. It's about whether it was *yours.* And if he can't understand that, pawn some of his power tools to replace your makeup. *He can live without them.*
boys can be dumb and it's okay, but the more important fact is that he genuinely did not care his wife was upset. he could've easily realized he screwed up and apologized. it wouldn't have saved the makeup and it may not have had, or needed to, make her less upset. but a sincere apology is worth its own value. but he couldn't even do that much. he just didn't care. he probably wanted praise for doing this 'fun' little self-satisfying surprise and nothing more. when he didn't get it, he moved on.
Re: Resin guy. Ooof, uh, bad look framing her upset about makeup through the lens of how it affects some hypothetical dude. To be honest, if she had a considerable amount of quality makeup, that could run into the low thousands of dollars. This is equivalent to hearing he wants a new coffee table for a gaming room and you make him a resin table containing all his current console games, sealed in resin. Like, the actual price of that "homemade gift" is just breathtaking.
I'm thinking about that hypothetical coffee table and it looks really cool in my mind. HOWEVER. If I were to do something like this for my bf, I would go to ebay or something and buy used and/or damaged copies of the games he likes for it. That's what someone who isn't trying to knock their significant other down a few pegs would do.
She explained 10 times. Unfortunately I don't think he's going to. And I don't think "he's going to learn" but that's me. Maybe you can still be hopeful but I don't know how many times one needs to be forgiven before it's considered "abuse and 'why did you stay so long'"
@LeadrynMcKrotch yeah, freaking sucks. I would march my man into the store and make him swipe his card if it were me, but I know it's not that easy for people actually in these situations.
The cookie one is the one that gets me the most. All he had to do was ask if those were for him, and not only that but ask if she wanted him to save some or something. Ask something. Don't assume. Him assuming that they were for him and just eating them without checking or anything is what makes him particularly assholeish
Having been in a relationship with a dummy a long time ago, herein lies the problem as a woman regardless of why someone does something the reason they did what they did... it's a lose, lose, lose situation. Either you are living with someone malicious, which sucks, you're living with someone who is a thoughtless a-hole, which sucks, or you're living with someone who is so damn stupid and you have to come to terms with the fact that you're in a relationship with someone who might need a legal guardian. It's really hard to reconcile and be like "Yeah this is FINE!" You're like either they're the a-hole or I'm the a-hole in this relationship and it can't go on. If they are sabotaging and don't mean well shame on them. If they mean well and are just that freakin' dumb, shame on you. There's no winning. The second someone dumps resin on your stuff and is like "Oh welp!" There's just really no turning back time.
When I heard the title of the resin I thought he took some eyeshadow powder and mixed it in for pigment, not encasing what sounds like multiple prouducts in resin! If he didn’t know, his reaction is still not good enough, it doesn’t matter the intentions if you do something unintentional hurtful you should feel guilty, admit fault, and makeup (pun intended) for your mistakes.
dude single handedly put himself in a gift of the magi situation. Hi honey, I made you a lazy susan for your makeup out of all your makeup! Man is a parable
"It really is the thought that counts" It is, it is. Most of mine and my girlfriend's dates are at my place, we just hangout, watch movies, play video games. That's about it. A couple days ago she came over, and spent like a solid hour just chopping down trees for me in my Minecraft One Block world, because I was basically out of wood, needed more, and hate chopping wood. 😆So simple, but so cute.
I love doing stuff like that. Not sure if you were part of the big ACNH boom during 2020 but I loved that time and how many people I got to hang out with through that game.
5:55 No. Do not ever hit on your Uber Eats, DoorDash, whatever, delivery driver. It’s bad enough hitting on a restaurant employee in a restaurant setting; but at least there they have their coworkers and there are probably other customers around. Most delivery drivers drive alone, so not only are you making someone who is paid to be nice to you and relies on positive ratings to be able to keep doing what they do uncomfortable, but they are in an unfamiliar location, have no back up nearby, and will be wondering if they have to rely on whatever safety features their driver app has at the time, or possibly if they have a friend tracking their location at all times. No. Do not hit on people while they are working, and leave delivery drivers alone
Your girlfriend is so sweet! I'm so happy you have someone who understands the assignment! ❤ She seems like such a sweetheart, and genuinely a good person! That makes me happy for you! I'm also happy for her, because she has you. You two are perfect for each other!
resin guy was absolutely malicious and not dumb. for many reasons but the main one is pretending to not understand why she would be upset even after an explanation
With the makeup one, it's one thing that he did in the first place. Like I would be pissed, and also, that is extremely stupid, and I would be shocked my partner would be dumb enough to do something like that. But the part where he refuses to pay for replacing it and calls it stupid that she even cares about it is where I would really be considering breaking up because insulting my interests and being completely unwilling to take responsibility for it is where it is a serious problem.
I felt a tiny annoyed when the take on the destroyed makeup was “think of the man in the hospital who loved looking at the pretty nurse” because like she is already the victim of her property being destroyed and that’s bad enough without bringing in the loss of some random male gaze but like… as it is already my belief that the husband WAS acting with malice… this little tale made me realize precisely why he targeted her makeup, specifically. This man works part time for his daddy and how else is he gonna keep a hot nurse wife if he can’t manipulate her emotions into making her think she’s “wrong” for expecting herself and her possessions to be respected, unless he also makes sure “she’s ugly” or at least “her appearance, and the time and energy she invests in herself every day is ruined.” I’ll believe that sabotage was “unintentional” about as soon as we humans will get all the garbage out of the oceans man. I hope she leaves that marriage long before either of those other two things happen. Good luck, sis.
Partly what I don't like is that it implies she's not pretty without makeup. However, sometimes these Reddit stories are made up so you never know ("made up" heh heh)
20:37 The anger that burst out of me after reading this comment frightened me. I would be crying for HOURS also every time Daniel reached over to the side I thought he was about to create a song and he kinda did so I'm happy again
16:42 just get those oil absorbtion pads. Your lady love will know what I'm talking about. They're basically slips of cloth paper, that absorbs the excess oil on your skin.
Sometimes, when I'm going about my daily life, emptying the dishwasher, showering, sometimes when having trouble sleeping, the words come to me like a reminder; YOU'RE NOT INVITED
I was with someone for 6 yrs (engaged for 3), found out he was cheating and doing drugs again so I packed his stuff and any couples gifts we'd received, left it outside and changed the locks while he was at her place for 2 days. Honestly it felt great after all I'd been through but therapy was definitely a big part as well. Hope he gets the help he needs and finds someone who really deserves that ring.
I kinda wanted to see the comments from the last one and if OP responded. I'm not sure it was break up worthy but it would be close! I think about it every day when my husband takes my food or snacks because he eats all of his and figures if I don't finish mine right away, I must not want it. smh men!
Loved the soft launch of the podcast! I watched/listened to it while at work. Didn’t even realize you and Jack were friends, your energy was great together!
There's no way the resin thing was an accident. Imagine if she said to him "I wanted to give your PS5 a cool case as a gift so I put it in resin!" There's NO WAY he wouldn't be furious
If I went to court under those circumstances and I was the one getting cheated on, I would say I used our shared resources to move. And I would point out that I did not seek to take half the deposit or other gains for emotional damage, costs of moving, etc.
I actually happened to watch the podcast video and despite it being an hour long thing it felt like it was a much shorter video and I could have honestly listened to it if it were longer and in my opinion, you did great. It was a very good video and I found you both very entertaining. Oh and just a side note... I even enjoyed your girlfriends input from off camera. It was all just well done. Congratulations on the new set up and may you continue to have success with it.
His game console would not only be in resin the next day, I would make a little plaque for it, "Best Husband Ever". And only that would be in the house. I would clear out everything I bought. He can rebuy all of it so he learns the value of money.
youre my fav youtuber rn thank you so much for uploading omg ive been rewatching your videos all week, ive been strugglin and your videos just make me smile and i love to sing along esp "shORTS !! im wearing shORTS "
19:10 I'd divorce him because along with him not caring about her feelings, I wouldn't want to pass that level of stupid onto any kids Also you never know when it's weaponized incompetence especially given his reaction
The way you reconcile with being cheated on is realizing that nobody is responsible for the sins of someone else. People are different. Cheaters cheat. Not everyone is a cheater. The next thing is realizing that being cheated on is a flaw with the person cheating, not BECAUSE OF a flaw within the person who was cheated on. You weren't cheated on because you did something wrong. The next person you're with likely won't cheat on you, and if they do, it's because they're a cheater. It's (almost) never the person who gets cheated on who is to blame for it.
I already watched the Jacksfilm podcast with you 😂 keep these reaction videos up because it’s my depression cure each week. Also, just your personality is enough without the music for many of us I’m sure! Tho the music parts is your thing but just reacting is great too!!! ❤❤
You’re being way too kind about resin guy, and so is she. The gap in thinking has to be bigger than the Grand Canyon to use the *actual makeup* to make the makeup container. That’s a lapse in logic unlike anything I’ve ever seen. (To say nothing of the fact that the actual object was almost certainly hideous. How could that possibly look nice?)
Can agree btw. Was cheated on by a dozen plus people. Attracted to the wrong type. Took many years for my current relationship to win me over. But there is a moment you finally trust again. If anything I doubt myself more than them now. Gotta always remind myself they won't hurt me and don't mess it up.
there's simply no way resin guy didn't realize what he was doing. she said she wanted something to put all of her makeup in SO THAT IT'S EASIER TO ACCESS and he thinks its a good idea to ruin all of her makeup instead?? nope, not buying it, a CHILD would not be that stupid. he ruined her makeup on purpose and she should leave his ass homeless
Can we please stop calling weaponized incompetence "just a guy being stupid" because how are guys all smart and logical in every other aspect of life but stupid when it comes to the most basic shit related to women and relationships and COMMON SENSE?????
Dude's boss: Can you clean up this area and put the tools away? Dude: Sure, boss. Boss: Do you know how to fix this broken thing? Dude: No, but I can figure it out. Dude's wife: Can you clean your plate? Dude: I'm so dumb. :( I don't know how to wash dishes. :( I guess I'll never learn.
Resin guy is legit such an asshole tbh. Putting the makeup in resin is one thing, but the fact that he repeatedly dismisses his wife’s feelings, refuses to like, properly apologize, appears to experience no remorse, and refuses to reimburse her in any way, makes him absolutely the asshole.
My ex cheated on me and played house with a woman, who's teen was the one who told me that he was with her mom. I stayed cause I was young and dumb. He cheated many times and now, happily married and 8 yrs separated from it, I still have some trust issues. It's brutal
I'm so confused about the resin story. Did he *cover* the makeup in resin? Like, it's *encased* in the resin? That's what's coming to mind if she's saying her makeup is "unusable," now. How is sealing her makeup in an inaccessible block a gift? That' *can't* be what he did, right? No grown man is *that* stupid... right?
I'm confused about that too. and also if it's just bottles/containers encased in resin, then it's not entirely ruined because they could get cut out of it right?
Hey folks! Quick note: My bad on the old man dying in a hospital/nurse makeup joke - I hoped it’d be seen as a far-fetched and ridiculous scenario (being without her makeup leading to someone dying) - I was trying to think of a high-stakes consequence of the boyfriends incompetence, but watching back it just puts the nurse in a “servicing the male gaze” situation, which is kinda lazy comedy-wise, and a misfire on my part. I’m removing it from the vid just in case it perpetuates an unsavory point of view.
Daniel apologizing for something before it became a big scandal proves he's a great comedian and person. props to you bud 🙌
Sometimes you fire and you miss, good on you for owning up to it
This comment gets a like from me
All good! It’s just a silly mistake that doesn’t attest to your character as a whole. However, noticing your mistake & not only publicly taking responsibility but also taking the necessary actions to fix it is a true testament to who you are as a person. As someone who is known to be funny & always making jokes I can 100% relate to intending to make someone laugh only for the string of words coming out of your mouth to be way worse than what was in your head. Once in class I was talking to a friend who I’d only really known for a month & he convinced me to take a political quiz since I was a 15 year old girl who’s only knowledge on politics was “trump be like bad & stuff”. It was sparking some really interesting topics & all was good until there was a question somewhat along the lines of “do you think your race is superior to others?”. I cannot emphasise more on my own dumbassery. Somewhere in the pea sized brain that rattles in my skull, in between the several likely concussions I must’ve received to reach this conclusion, I interpreted that as if humans as a species were superior to animals. I spent a whole 10 minutes verbally contemplating the ethics of humanity being more deserving of life than animals & if intelligence of a species equates to its value. Oh & OBVIOUSLY I was sprinkling in an array of relevant jokes & quips in every sentence. After 10 minutes my tidal wave of word vomit settled into a ripple & he finally had the auditory space to interject that THE QUESTION WAS ABOUT RACISM. I am white. He is white.
I did not talk for the rest of class though thankfully it was already the end. My pure embarrassment was so overwhelming I could not bring myself to go to school for the rest of that week. I can only imagine how racist I sounded for those 10 minutes. If I had a Time Machine & was only allowed to make one trip without any hesitation I would travel back to the start of those 10 minutes to give myself the hardest slap in the face.
Man, the world would be a much better place if everybody was as self-aware as you are! What a 👑
Typically when I make home made gifts, I don't steal materials from the person getting the gift. I go buy what I don't have. Durr
My guess is that he doesn’t know that you can’t take something out of resin and though he could make places for her to put her makeup in the spinny thing and hehe it didn’t work out he just tried to be confident when he had fucked up. Honestly if he hadn’t put her makeup in it and just used colour dyes instead it would have been a perfect gift
@Taxi-cab-to-Slowtown yeah. His reaction after he fucked up is what is bothering me more than the rest. She told him her makeup was now ruined, and his response was basically the "oh no! Anyway" meme
Unus Annus pfp? 🤨
@@CrazyMuffinKid momento mori
@@Taxi-cab-to-Slowtownif he doesn't know how resin works then that's a mighty ambitious project for somebody working with resin for the first time
Cookie and resin guy were 100% mommy's favorite little boy, and they carried that entitlement into their grown-ass manhood.
Well the cookie guy is excusable, if he reacted nicely and apologized later. The resin guy was just... weird.
@@arnavreddy443no it’s not because he should have ASKED? Who tf just sees a whole plate of cooked, assumed they’re for them, and eats *all of them??* That is such selfish inexcusable behaviour
@@ThatHawksSimp Fair enough, I'm just saying atleast it's a mistake that could be forgiven and improved upon. He could have gotten to the nearest store and brought some cookies to make up to her. Not justifying his behavior, definitely wrong. Just saying that we don't know his reaction or what he did afterwards.
The resin guy doesn't even seem to care about or understand what he did wrong. He doesn't understand what the makeup means to his girlfriend.
@@arnavreddy443the poster said that they didn’t have any more cookie dough and most people wouldn’t post about a situation that was quickly resolved. It’s far more likely that the boyfriend told her that he thought the cookies were for him and maybe he’s sorry, but he almost definitely didn’t offer to go get more cookies or dough for her because she felt the need to post about it.
I do totally agree that the cookie thing is way more forgivable than the makeup thing, but it’s still disrespectful to immediately consume ALL the food you see even though you didn’t make it. It’s super entitled too because it doesn’t seem like they have an agreement that when she bakes he can have as much as he wants. He just decided that the cookies were for him and that he could eat all of them. It seems like some weaponized incompetence too if he didn’t even think to ask. People should be able to walk away from their food for 5 minutes without worrying about their partner deciding that the food was actually for them and eating it all.
@@bleh1368 Fair enough, he could have also just left half or just texted her to ask. Having a sibling, this is common occurrence for me, so I might be a little bit more chill about this. We steal each others food all the time, even if I baked it myself or bought it specifically for that day. This situation is different though.
Regarding the nurse: shes also gonna have to deal with people saying "oh, are you ok ? You look tired.” for WEEKS.
Dude needs to get her a gift card, STAT.
What irritates me about make up guy is that he almost refuse to understand what he did wrong even tho OP explained it tens of times. He's really acting like he doesn't care he even upset her in the first place. 💀
Yeah. Don't try and act like you know how someone feels about something better than they do especially when they're actively feeling it.
He really doesn't care. He hates her
Honestly, that resin guy was a major a-hole to me. Not just the fact that he ruined so much make-up that can cost THOUSANDS of dollars depending on her collection, but more so his reaction afterwards. He literally dismissed her feelings, which I think is a pretty good indicator to how he is as a partner and as a person. I would seriously be reconsidering my relationship if I was her.
EDIT: she's considering leaving him, GOOD.
Good be MILLIONS of dollars! Or dozens! We don't know, no point to assume. He doesn't seem like a good SO though. It's weird he would do something thoughtful and then be so shitty when she shared her feelings and asked him to buy the makeup again.
She needs to leave for sure. I do stupid shit, but I try to make it right when I do. This guy needs to have some of his favorite things destroyed
It's possible he was very insecure and jealous of her - because she makes more than him or he thinks that she uses makeup to look better than him (from his perspective, not necessarily objectively). I think this was a toxic passive aggressive way to express his bottled up feelings of resentment towards her. Especially, when he still acted like he didn't get it and dismissed her feelings and valid concerns afterwards. Huge red flag in my book.
@@nyxnova5425 resin-tment
She's a nurse and he works for his dad. The makeup probably wasn't top-of-the-line. Still, there would’ve been a better outcome if he had owned up to his mistakes and apologized. I'm hoping it was just a big misunderstanding and that they can move past this, since divorce can have a substantial impact on everyone involved. If it is part of a bigger toxic relationship, though, that's a big no-no.
The resin story is so weird to me. It sounds like the initial nice thought was there (making something for his girlfriend), but he just stopped thinking after that. The bigger red flag is his reaction and dismissal of her feelings. The way he doesn't see an issue with destroying something someone else cares about just because he personally doesn't care about it. It's like empathy 101 kindergarten. Don't do to someone else what you wouldn't want done to you.
Seriously! He didn't care!
not girlfriend. his WIFE. because she mentioned wanting to divorce him at the end of the story.
I wonder if she considered dumping his shoes into resin see how he likes it. Although it's probably not worth the price of resin just to get back at him.
Well said.
Yeah I bet someone saw that diwhy post doing that and saw all the comments saying the wife would be angry and got inspired to fictionalize a post for r/confessions to rake in some upvotes
Wdym Resin Guy was just being "guy stupid?!" There is no way in hell that he didn't understand that her makeup would no longer be accessible if he put it in resin! He may as well have just thrown it all in a bonfire. She obviously didn't want the turntable thingy so she could just look at her makeup and admire it - it's a functionality thing. Idk if it's divorce-worthy, but maybe. It's only partially about the makeup itself. It's about the fact that he cares nothing for her belongings, even for ones that mean a lot to her, nor does he care for her feelings because he dismissed her right away when she was upset about his idiocy.
Sometimes people just make really stupid mistakes, I think giving him the benefit of the doubt, and not assuming he started out acting maliciously.
But when he doubles down and refuses fault and treats it like it's no big deal, that's when he's just an a-hole. I don't know if divorce is the only option, however it is something I would advise her to think about, while still trying to see if they could work through it.
@@nicjoy4407 Yeah, I think he maybe thought it was a funny prank, like "Be careful what you wish for cuz you just might get it!" And I agree that his dismissiveness is the biggest problem pertaining to their relationship. She's clearly very upset and he's just like whatever.
thank you for this comment, i was listening to this being like "why are we making excuses for a grown man's incompetence?" like women arent put on this earth to teach men things.. i thought i was going crazy
I mean, he didn't think they'd be accessible. He thought it'd be a makeup based turntable, handmade, out of his thoughtfulness and something she likes. That might be all there was to it. He may not have thought any further. That's not the alarming part, the alarming part is how he rejected her feelings.
It's absolutely possible he didn't think about having to replace the makeup, and a TON of dudes don't ever know how much makeup costs. I can't afford makeup because I have a mast cell condition, and constantly putting expensive stuff on my face that comes in tiny bottles isn't affordable, and trying to do skin checks isn't feasible at the cost so much makeup is at. But tons of guys don't know that. That's not an excuse, but it does mean he may have genuinely been thinking of her, and wanting to make her happy without thinking beyond his initial idea. The only part that for sure makes him an ahole is that after he was told, he rejected her feelings and the notion of replacing her items.
@@SomeoneIusedtoknow-s1f Yes exactly! So many people just assume that this guy is evil from the beginning, if you assume the worst in everyone then you'll only find the worst.
Once he disregards her feelings and refuses to take actions to help alleviate his mistakes, that's when he's in the wrong.
5 seconds in, and he already has the surprise microphone. I think that's world record time.
no suprise microphone for me :(
Spoilers XD
Let's gi
I didn't expect it to come out so fast
I like that you used the word ‘the’ instead of ‘a,’ because it’s basically a universal thing by now.
Could you imagine if resin guy did that with her expensive jewelry? I wonder if this is weaponised incompetence because he's embarrassed OR, maybe if he hates how much value she puts in her makeup and KNEW it would bother her. Because I've seen cases of people throwing out their partners' or kids' important things because they 'aren't important, and they should get over it'
I think it's the second
My god you’re right. Especially because of his reaction afterwards regarding replacing it!!
He must have know what he was doing. There’s no way he didn’t.
Oh no it is Weaponized incompetence and anyone who says otherwise has never had to deal with it lucky you. And you kind of contradicted yourself because people who use their intelligence level against people and act like they didn't do anything wrong they also are intentionally doing those things to hide their hate so both is correct
@@meliss1123it's not.
@@Atlasintokyo actually looking back I just think it's regular manipulation feigning ignorance. Weaponized incompetence is typically used to get out of doing something, refusing to get better at something, with this he did what she asked in an incompetent way but I don't think it was to get out of doing this kind of thing in the future, I think it was just to get rid of her makeup. And I've been a victim of just. All of it. It kind of bleeds together but this is just gaslighting with a hint of feigning stupidity.
Resin guy is the weirdest misunderstanding I’ve ever seen.
She has a right to be mad because her stuff was ruined. But the gears that turned in that guy’s head went in an interesting direction.
@@shinygarbador really if he wanted to add a makeup aesthetic, he should've bought some random cheap makeup things from Walmart or whatever lol
Um, this story sounds awfully similar to a post on r/diwhy. If this was the same guy, then that was a whole lot of makeup he wasted. Some of that stuff looked nearly brand new.
Misunderstanding bordering on weaponized incompetence. Girl can't trust him with her stuff anymore
@@JoULove This is what I was gonna say! The weaponized incompetence. WTF possessed this dude to take her make-up and make it unusable? It really can't be that he was "doing something nice and didn't think" because come on! You'd have to be high level stupid to really do something like that with good intentions in mind. He KNEW she wasn't going to be able to access her make-up and then the immediate dismissal...yea she needs to go.
The story of the boyfriend eating all the cookies makes my blood boil. I get horrible cramps and am super emotional when I have my period, like sob at nothing kind of emotional. One time when I had my period my mom made homemade chocolate chip cookies, my boyfriend was over that day. I was sitting on the couch with my heating pad and I asked my boyfriend if he could grab me a cookie from the kitchen because moving hurt too much. He got up and got one and went to hand it to me, and at the last moment ripped it away from my hand and shoved it into his own mouth. I just started crying immediately. It wasn't even like it was the last cookie, he immediately got me another one and apologized and I forgave him even though I was still upset at the joke. But if he has literally eaten them ALL??? Jail.
I wish I had the energy to prep a relaxation thing for myself with a homemade cookie, but if my boyfriend did something like this to me, don't talk to me unless you wanna get screamed at incoherently
Even if I wasn't on my period, if I made an entire batch of cookies and someone ate them all my blood would be BOILING. I mean how hard is it to eat a single cookie now, and wait until the person gets back to ask if you could eat the rest?!
I would say the prank and him apologizing and giving you a cookie cancel each other out. The prank was probably a last-minute thing that he didn't put much thought into and he probably learned his lesson.
@@ellag3265 Like yes it's an extremely frustrating situation to be in, but most adults would be able to cope with it. The period brain does not allow you to cope! Why does the slightest thing feel like the end of the world?
Resin thing: Not only did it not occur to him that he's ruining her makeup by encasing it in resin (collecting the empties over time would have been much better) but WTF is she supposed to do with a block of resin big enough to encase all her makeup? Sounds like a waste of a space and a huge eyesore to me.
Based on her description in some comments on the post it's more like a big plate than a block, with a spinny thing on the bottom. Imagine a big cake stand/lazy Susan.
The "gift" was basically just destruction of her property. Expensive property at that.
It's one thing to be dumb enough to not realize that encasing cosmetics in resin will make that stuff UNUASABLE when she clearly uses it. It's another to not only NOT own up to that but to try and dismiss how that affects someone.
How inconsiderate can you be?
I'd say divorce that guy. He clearly doesn't care for or respect his partner. If you're in a relationship with someone you should respect their feelings and the stuff they care about!
People who eat the entirety of ANYTHING without asking if anyone would like some always just seem like they weren't raised properly. Unless I live alone, I'm not consuming things like I'm the only one who exists. It's just rude and inconsiderate.
I think in most cases, I agree with you. However, I was once in a relationship with someone who really enjoyed baking. I would get home from work and most days she would surprise me with something new. I would always ask if I could have some for about the first 2 months of living together. But, at some point, it just became a kinda assumed thing that it was for me. I will say though, either way, it's insane to eat all of them especially right away. Even if they are made for you; always leave plenty over for them or in case you might want some more later.
100%
She was in the next room, too. It's not like he had to hike up a mountain to ask her if the cookies were for him and if she was cool with him eating them all at once.
I usually don't wish bad things upon people, but I hope he had a monster tummy ache.
My hubby does this occasionally. He's not malicious, he's just a mindless eater and LOVES cookies. Once he gets out of the haze of it, he goes OH GOD, WHAT HAVE I DONE???? We've had a few talks about it, he's gotten a lot better. We all have our faults and issues, you just gotta communicate and keep trying to better yourself. Lord knows he's forgiven plenty of my whoopsies!
I deleted my comment because I thought you were talking about when it's their own food, I hadn't gotten to that part of the video yet.
19:15 he knew what he was doing. I fully believe he knew what he was doing.
And even if he didn't, his reaction after the fact shows a complete lack of care and respect for her feelings. What else will he tell her is stupod and to get over? I'd be seriously considering divorce, too.
I know everyone is saying the makeup guy just made a mistake, but my take was he did it on purpose. He ruined ALL her makeup and did it in a way that makes her seem in the wrong. Look , I made you that thing you want! What, you wanted to use your makeup? Oops, stupid guy moment, but I made the thing and it was an accident so you cant be ungrateful I destroyed hundreds of dollars of your possessions.
If he was sorry he'd act like it. He'd give a real apology and do his best to replace her stuff when he could. But what did he do? He said she didn't need it! Dismissed her, refused to listen. So my take is he either did it on purpose, either cuz he didn't want her wearing makeup or just a power play. If it really was an accident he is 1) too literal to function and it should show in other parts of his life and 2) has no respect for her or her stuff.
Edit: the thread on reddit bring up a good point of him being a useless sack of potatoes and that he may be trying to sabotage her from having any better options. Especially when she is around doctors all day who get paid a lot more than him and actually have a job. 👀
Yes, I thought so, too. I think it’s some sort of manipulation tactic/petty revenge thing.
I personally imagine it's so she never asks for a homemade or expensive gift again. Either that or he's playing it off as "not a big deal" because he doesn't want to admit to how monumentally stupid he was being (because honestly you do have to be pretty stupid to do this on accident)
@@ellag3265 Yeah, I doubt it was done without malice, but if it was truly a mistake idk if I'd be able to get past it anyway. I don't know if I could have a partner who just turns their brain off to this point and destroys my stuff, especially if kids were ever involved.
Unpopular opinion: I can't understand why someone would spend hundreds of dollars on makeup. People can spend their money on what they want, but if I was a guy that would be a big red flag for me.
Not defending ruining anyone's possessions of course.
@@sarahberkner I understand that, but it does sort of depend how expensive you go but generally the amount spent is spread over months or year. A lipstick or eyeshadow palette can last a long time. Pricewise, even the drugstore stuff isn't as cheap as it used to be, it may still be $50-$100 if you bought one foundation, mascara, lipstick, blush, eyeshadow, etc. all at once.
Ruining all her makeup to make a make up holder is like melting down someone's figurine collection to make them a new figurine stand, or taking apart someone's video game console to make a controller stand. How is he surprised when she gets upset?
Dude… my makeup collection is around $2,000 and it’s a VERY small collection. I also enjoy and look forward to doing my makeup every day, matching it to my outfits or jewelry, it’s just a little thing that makes me happy. … IN RESIN!? I don’t get how he didn’t understand what he was doing. If I take my ps controller and put it in resin, YOU CANT USE THE CONTROLLER. Like ???? I don’t understand
I'm not judging, and you can spend your money however you want, but I don't get spending hundreds of dollars on makeup, much less $2000. Moreso because I'm thrifty; I understand the idea of wanting to look good.
@@sarahberknerthe price of make-up was said just to make a point. Regardless, the point still stands. Even if it only cost $200, that's still $200 worth of daily-use stuff that now you'll have to rebuy (and probably spend days without).
Yeah, I don’t wear much makeup but I do have an extensive skin care collection that cost around that, probably closer to 3k if I do include my makeup. I’d be so upset. Especially if I was with a man that couldn’t afford to replace those items. I dated a broke pos man in my early 20’s and his dog destroyed half of my furniture and clothes. He couldn’t afford to replace those items and didn’t have anything nice himself. It almost felt like he didn’t want me to have nice things either because he ended up totaling my car. (He didn’t have one)
I guess this story was a little triggering lmao.
@@sarahberkner Spending more money often means getting higher quality makeup, which is better for your skin. Possibly more environmentally friendly. Etc. Etc. If you are a person who loves makeup and wears it a lot, it makes perfect sense to spend on it.
@@Lari-lc3zq though it's totally up to the person how they spend their money, I know that there's a lot of predatory marketing and sales tactics within the makeup industry.
Makeup is generally known for intense green-washing, use of slave labor, child labor, manufacturing insecurities, misleading or fake before and after pictures, lack of consumer data to support their claims, directly marketing to children, selling cheaper brands but changing the label for more expensive brands, etc. The FDA does not pre-approve any product for sale, and they are generally just lying to you anyway. Most vegan brands came back testing positive for animal DNA, almost every company who claims to be child/slave labor free were found to be buying products that used that kind of labor. I could go on all day.
Basically, if it isn't from the dollar store, the cheaper mass bought store brands tend to be safer at the very least for your health and skin (less likely to contain high levels of lead, mercury, and arsenic than more expensive brands) Additionally, many of the compounds that these products use to help with application and duration have been shown to be concerningly carcinogenic.
The makeup industry has a crazy lack of oversight, and that leads to high incentives to lie about how ethical, healthy, and effective any product is.
Throwing someones belongings in resin is unacceptable regardless.
NGL, as someone who has been cheated on over a dozen different times, I'm enjoying some immense schadenfreude hearing about that girl in the first story breaking down so hard.
Just sittin here like Palpatine all "gooooooooooood. gooooooooooooood."
@@epichoagie5999 OMG SO TRUE
a dozen? and you've gotten this far without thinking even once 'hey. maybe i'm the problem'?
@@topasu9454 true lol
@@topasu9454whoooaaaa whoa whoa let's not insinuate that people who cheat ever do it for good reason, or any valid reason, and let's dEfinitely not insinuate that the one cheated on is at fault 😭😭 victim blaming is not ok bruh, some people just have terrible luck and fall for someone that seems good at first until bam they suck
@@topasu9454Blaming someone for things other people do to them is pretty douchey
If somehow my bf was being idiotic enough to put daily use items in resin, I am handing him a tiny hammer and walking out the room😂
would a hammer even do the trick tho? im not aware of any good way to separate items from resin, he would probably just further damage the contents
@@ShadowFlame420It’s not about the practicality, it’s about the principle. Putting stuff in resin = tiny hammer.
Put his ps5 in resin :)
The cookies thing reminds me of a viral thread years ago when a woman made fat balls for the birds with her kids and left them in the fridge to set. Her husband thought she had made gourmet snacks for him to eat while he watched the football. He ate one. He ate bird seed in lard. And then complained to her that it was "a bit greasy".
That's kind of understandable, if he's focused on the game is probably not paying that much attention to what he's eating, and if I were her I would have said, "Don't eat these".
@sarahberkner Automatically assuming something you didn't make and don't know anything about is food made specially for you? Sure common sense /s
@@sarahberkner I believe she wasn't around when he ate it. They also had twigs and garden twine sticking out of them 😆
To be honest, I feel like resin guy is performing weaponised incompetence.
He probably knows this is a big deal but is trying to convince her it's not because he can't deal with the responsibility so he's making it out that she's in the wrong and he's just stupid and kind.
This is a thing many men do. They'll perform a task badly so their partner doesn't make them do that task again. And if they realise they've messed up, they pretend it's not something that can be improved upon or made up for because they're just that stupid.
It's a very common manipulation tactic and I feel like giving him the benefit of the doubt leads to such absurd conclusions that the fact he's just putting on a himbo act feels more probable.
Damn I didn't think about that. That's so messed up, but also so plausible. Disturbing!
I’m genuinely concerned about him. How incompetent do you have to be do render someone’s expensive makeup unusable and then not offer to fix it. Even if he does like her, or lust after her, I can’t imagine he loves her. He doesn’t prove it anyway.
yeah, this feels like he's trying to get her to divorce him because he's afraid of doing it himself or something like that
I doubt this was a case of doing something badly so she'd never ask such things of him again. I'd sooner guess he had a problem with her use of makeup and wanted an excuse to ruin it for her.
The makeup story - that guy was 100% malicious about that gift, I'm convinced. He brushed off her telling him what the problem was with the gift. He refused to buy new make up to replace what he ruined. He does not give a shit about her and if in some ungodly way he was sincerely trying to make her something he thought she would like, he is actively punishing her for not just rolling over and accepting his DIWhy project. Dude sucks and I hope she left him.
The guy throwing his gf's makeup in resin was trying to control her because he's insecure about not being the breadwinner and wanted to knock her down several pegs to make himself feel better. He knew she wouldn't be able to use it anymore and didn't care when she expressed her feelings about it. It was a bid to take back the "power" he thinks he doesn't have.
Agreed !
Putting her makeup in resin? Beyond stupid. The way he treated her afterwards? Insulting, cruel, and I think she probably SHOULD divorce anyone who has that little respect for both her feelings and what it costs her to support them. She'd be better off without someone dragging her down emotionally AND financially.
Yeah, I think everything just points to him being just not worth it. This is a little red flag or an orange flag or whatever, but I think the question has to be, "What is he bringing to the table?" It's not about "how much money he's making" it's that he doesn't appear to have managed to get work or a career or even a hobby that is fulfilling or separate from what his parents can offer him, presumably not requiring him to prove anything to anyone. She didn't tell us about any amazing things he's up to in what sounds like free time, and attitude to this error is just careless and uninterested in her feelings. Is this really someone you want to be tethered to your whole life?
Re: Resin Guy's comment "You can live without it (Makeup)"
It's not about whether you require it to live. You require only a few bare necessities to live. That's an absurd defense to his complete and utter lack of respect for your possessions. He needs to understand that his actions, no matter how well-intentioned, have seriously affected your *happiness.* Your *satisfaction.* Your *ability to enjoy life.* It's not about whether it was necessary. It's about whether it was *yours.*
And if he can't understand that, pawn some of his power tools to replace your makeup. *He can live without them.*
boys can be dumb and it's okay, but the more important fact is that he genuinely did not care his wife was upset. he could've easily realized he screwed up and apologized. it wouldn't have saved the makeup and it may not have had, or needed to, make her less upset. but a sincere apology is worth its own value.
but he couldn't even do that much. he just didn't care. he probably wanted praise for doing this 'fun' little self-satisfying surprise and nothing more. when he didn't get it, he moved on.
Re: Resin guy. Ooof, uh, bad look framing her upset about makeup through the lens of how it affects some hypothetical dude. To be honest, if she had a considerable amount of quality makeup, that could run into the low thousands of dollars. This is equivalent to hearing he wants a new coffee table for a gaming room and you make him a resin table containing all his current console games, sealed in resin. Like, the actual price of that "homemade gift" is just breathtaking.
I'm thinking about that hypothetical coffee table and it looks really cool in my mind. HOWEVER. If I were to do something like this for my bf, I would go to ebay or something and buy used and/or damaged copies of the games he likes for it. That's what someone who isn't trying to knock their significant other down a few pegs would do.
17:20 Resin guy needs to pay for the replacement makeup, imo!!
She explained 10 times. Unfortunately I don't think he's going to. And I don't think "he's going to learn" but that's me. Maybe you can still be hopeful but I don't know how many times one needs to be forgiven before it's considered "abuse and 'why did you stay so long'"
@LeadrynMcKrotch yeah, freaking sucks. I would march my man into the store and make him swipe his card if it were me, but I know it's not that easy for people actually in these situations.
The cookie one is the one that gets me the most. All he had to do was ask if those were for him, and not only that but ask if she wanted him to save some or something. Ask something. Don't assume. Him assuming that they were for him and just eating them without checking or anything is what makes him particularly assholeish
That was the lightest surprise microphone ever
That makes it the best one yet.
@@Warriormon87 I agree
How many pool chemicals has resin guy been huffing jfc what kinda GIFT-
The real surprise microphone was the friends we made along the way.
Having been in a relationship with a dummy a long time ago, herein lies the problem as a woman regardless of why someone does something the reason they did what they did... it's a lose, lose, lose situation. Either you are living with someone malicious, which sucks, you're living with someone who is a thoughtless a-hole, which sucks, or you're living with someone who is so damn stupid and you have to come to terms with the fact that you're in a relationship with someone who might need a legal guardian. It's really hard to reconcile and be like "Yeah this is FINE!" You're like either they're the a-hole or I'm the a-hole in this relationship and it can't go on. If they are sabotaging and don't mean well shame on them. If they mean well and are just that freakin' dumb, shame on you. There's no winning.
The second someone dumps resin on your stuff and is like "Oh welp!" There's just really no turning back time.
When I heard the title of the resin I thought he took some eyeshadow powder and mixed it in for pigment, not encasing what sounds like multiple prouducts in resin!
If he didn’t know, his reaction is still not good enough, it doesn’t matter the intentions if you do something unintentional hurtful you should feel guilty, admit fault, and makeup (pun intended) for your mistakes.
dude single handedly put himself in a gift of the magi situation.
Hi honey, I made you a lazy susan for your makeup out of all your makeup!
Man is a parable
what the cookie guy did is some single child behavior
I feel attacked... but yes
Hey now... we don't claim him
hey, some of us have manners and sense ok
"It really is the thought that counts" It is, it is. Most of mine and my girlfriend's dates are at my place, we just hangout, watch movies, play video games. That's about it. A couple days ago she came over, and spent like a solid hour just chopping down trees for me in my Minecraft One Block world, because I was basically out of wood, needed more, and hate chopping wood. 😆So simple, but so cute.
I do this too. A date really is just time set aside to be with your partner at the end of the day.
She's a keeper.
I love doing stuff like that. Not sure if you were part of the big ACNH boom during 2020 but I loved that time and how many people I got to hang out with through that game.
@@jijitters Yeah. I got a switch specifically for ACNH and played over 400 hours of it. It was fun.
Relationship goal fr
5:55 No. Do not ever hit on your Uber Eats, DoorDash, whatever, delivery driver. It’s bad enough hitting on a restaurant employee in a restaurant setting; but at least there they have their coworkers and there are probably other customers around. Most delivery drivers drive alone, so not only are you making someone who is paid to be nice to you and relies on positive ratings to be able to keep doing what they do uncomfortable, but they are in an unfamiliar location, have no back up nearby, and will be wondering if they have to rely on whatever safety features their driver app has at the time, or possibly if they have a friend tracking their location at all times.
No. Do not hit on people while they are working, and leave delivery drivers alone
this is becoming my fave video series, pls never stop Daniel
6:52 that feeling when the comedian that never talks about serious things ends up having good morals is just too good
That surprise microphone was too fast! I wasn't ready!
Your girlfriend is so sweet! I'm so happy you have someone who understands the assignment! ❤ She seems like such a sweetheart, and genuinely a good person! That makes me happy for you! I'm also happy for her, because she has you. You two are perfect for each other!
Surprise microphones don’t exist, they can’t hurt you
Daniel:
resin guy was absolutely malicious and not dumb. for many reasons but the main one is pretending to not understand why she would be upset even after an explanation
i read the resin story when it dropped on reddit. her makeup was worth OVER $400. he absolutely fucked up. why would he think that’s okay.
I’m really sick of men’s thoughtless or selfish behavior being excused and laughed off with “boy being dumb, teehee!”
With the makeup one, it's one thing that he did in the first place. Like I would be pissed, and also, that is extremely stupid, and I would be shocked my partner would be dumb enough to do something like that. But the part where he refuses to pay for replacing it and calls it stupid that she even cares about it is where I would really be considering breaking up because insulting my interests and being completely unwilling to take responsibility for it is where it is a serious problem.
SURPRISE MICROPHONE 0:14
I felt a tiny annoyed when the take on the destroyed makeup was “think of the man in the hospital who loved looking at the pretty nurse” because like she is already the victim of her property being destroyed and that’s bad enough without bringing in the loss of some random male gaze but like… as it is already my belief that the husband WAS acting with malice… this little tale made me realize precisely why he targeted her makeup, specifically. This man works part time for his daddy and how else is he gonna keep a hot nurse wife if he can’t manipulate her emotions into making her think she’s “wrong” for expecting herself and her possessions to be respected, unless he also makes sure “she’s ugly” or at least “her appearance, and the time and energy she invests in herself every day is ruined.”
I’ll believe that sabotage was “unintentional” about as soon as we humans will get all the garbage out of the oceans man. I hope she leaves that marriage long before either of those other two things happen. Good luck, sis.
Babe, it was a joke about an old guy reminiscing about his wife(?) and then he dies because he's so sad.
Partly what I don't like is that it implies she's not pretty without makeup. However, sometimes these Reddit stories are made up so you never know ("made up" heh heh)
I don't think that's a real moral argument, I think it's a joke. Still a bit wierd and male gazey but meant as a joke and not his real belief
he's taken it out now - there's a pinned comment about it.
Whenever I see the surprise microphone, my heart gets so happy ☺
20:37 The anger that burst out of me after reading this comment frightened me. I would be crying for HOURS
also every time Daniel reached over to the side I thought he was about to create a song and he kinda did so I'm happy again
16:42 just get those oil absorbtion pads. Your lady love will know what I'm talking about. They're basically slips of cloth paper, that absorbs the excess oil on your skin.
Sometimes, when I'm going about my daily life, emptying the dishwasher, showering, sometimes when having trouble sleeping, the words come to me like a reminder; YOU'RE NOT INVITED
I was with someone for 6 yrs (engaged for 3), found out he was cheating and doing drugs again so I packed his stuff and any couples gifts we'd received, left it outside and changed the locks while he was at her place for 2 days. Honestly it felt great after all I'd been through but therapy was definitely a big part as well. Hope he gets the help he needs and finds someone who really deserves that ring.
I kinda wanted to see the comments from the last one and if OP responded. I'm not sure it was break up worthy but it would be close! I think about it every day when my husband takes my food or snacks because he eats all of his and figures if I don't finish mine right away, I must not want it. smh men!
Loved the soft launch of the podcast! I watched/listened to it while at work. Didn’t even realize you and Jack were friends, your energy was great together!
the fact that resin guy was not the tiniest bit sorry is a huge red flag. This sounds a bit to close to "weaponized incompetence" to me personally.
20:05 OMG same "Checks Notes" is one of my favorite bits to do
There's no way the resin thing was an accident. Imagine if she said to him "I wanted to give your PS5 a cool case as a gift so I put it in resin!" There's NO WAY he wouldn't be furious
No way I literally had the exact same thought and just wrote a comment
Omg, that second camera angle is great. Great lens choice, fantastic color grading. I would love to see an entire episode with that camera!
If I went to court under those circumstances and I was the one getting cheated on, I would say I used our shared resources to move. And I would point out that I did not seek to take half the deposit or other gains for emotional damage, costs of moving, etc.
Can you get money for "Emotional Damage"? Better ask Steven He. It's not like they were actually married.
15:46 It's such a man thing for him to put all her makeup in resin but if she put his PS5 in resin I think he'd suddenly understand.
me personally, i could never have a bad confession
I actually happened to watch the podcast video and despite it being an hour long thing it felt like it was a much shorter video and I could have honestly listened to it if it were longer and in my opinion, you did great. It was a very good video and I found you both very entertaining. Oh and just a side note... I even enjoyed your girlfriends input from off camera. It was all just well done. Congratulations on the new set up and may you continue to have success with it.
His game console would not only be in resin the next day, I would make a little plaque for it, "Best Husband Ever". And only that would be in the house. I would clear out everything I bought. He can rebuy all of it so he learns the value of money.
No way anyone’s eating my cookies. I’ll keep those under lock and key if necessary 😂
youre my fav youtuber rn thank you so much for uploading omg ive been rewatching your videos all week, ive been strugglin and your videos just make me smile and i love to sing along esp "shORTS !! im wearing shORTS "
19:10 I'd divorce him because along with him not caring about her feelings, I wouldn't want to pass that level of stupid onto any kids
Also you never know when it's weaponized incompetence especially given his reaction
Curse you youtube for keeping me from this video for 26 seconds 😢
lmao
Sounds like an Internet issue
pfft, 1hr
beat that
@@jontyjoyce4816 sounds like 2 unskippable adds
@@NotKong-M
Sounds.
I don’t even know if it’s a surprise anymore I’m just confused 💀
The way you reconcile with being cheated on is realizing that nobody is responsible for the sins of someone else. People are different. Cheaters cheat. Not everyone is a cheater. The next thing is realizing that being cheated on is a flaw with the person cheating, not BECAUSE OF a flaw within the person who was cheated on. You weren't cheated on because you did something wrong. The next person you're with likely won't cheat on you, and if they do, it's because they're a cheater. It's (almost) never the person who gets cheated on who is to blame for it.
I already watched the Jacksfilm podcast with you 😂 keep these reaction videos up because it’s my depression cure each week. Also, just your personality is enough without the music for many of us I’m sure! Tho the music parts is your thing but just reacting is great too!!! ❤❤
You’re being way too kind about resin guy, and so is she. The gap in thinking has to be bigger than the Grand Canyon to use the *actual makeup* to make the makeup container. That’s a lapse in logic unlike anything I’ve ever seen. (To say nothing of the fact that the actual object was almost certainly hideous. How could that possibly look nice?)
Can agree btw. Was cheated on by a dozen plus people. Attracted to the wrong type. Took many years for my current relationship to win me over. But there is a moment you finally trust again.
If anything I doubt myself more than them now. Gotta always remind myself they won't hurt me and don't mess it up.
"Hey, I made you this art by destroying your expensive possessions" is such a toddler move
there's simply no way resin guy didn't realize what he was doing. she said she wanted something to put all of her makeup in SO THAT IT'S EASIER TO ACCESS and he thinks its a good idea to ruin all of her makeup instead?? nope, not buying it, a CHILD would not be that stupid. he ruined her makeup on purpose and she should leave his ass homeless
HE GETS ME WITH THE SURPRISE MICROPHONE EVERY TIME! HELP ME!!
I haven’t watched the video yet , but that title is crazy.
5:22 it’s 16.6% mans was CLOSE
She wanted something to make her makeup more accessible and he make it completely unaccessible
All these stories demonstrating how inconsiderate guys can be... girls are trained to always think of others.
Can we please stop calling weaponized incompetence "just a guy being stupid" because how are guys all smart and logical in every other aspect of life but stupid when it comes to the most basic shit related to women and relationships and COMMON SENSE?????
This!
They're not "just being stupid" and even if he was, he still screwed up and should feel empathy for his wife.
Dude's boss: Can you clean up this area and put the tools away?
Dude: Sure, boss.
Boss: Do you know how to fix this broken thing?
Dude: No, but I can figure it out.
Dude's wife: Can you clean your plate?
Dude: I'm so dumb. :( I don't know how to wash dishes. :( I guess I'll never learn.
5:31 that Better Call Saul quote genuinely goes so hard. I love it.
It blows my mind that people have to be told that if someone says something is important to them, it is.
7:42. Banger i need this on all streaming services
Resin guy is legit such an asshole tbh. Putting the makeup in resin is one thing, but the fact that he repeatedly dismisses his wife’s feelings, refuses to like, properly apologize, appears to experience no remorse, and refuses to reimburse her in any way, makes him absolutely the asshole.
Resin guy, wtf. You started off doing so good, and then... well...
Daniel- 'those lil cookies slap so hard'
also Daniel- proceeds to happily attack the keyboard to show JUST how hard those lil cookies slap
My ex cheated on me and played house with a woman, who's teen was the one who told me that he was with her mom. I stayed cause I was young and dumb. He cheated many times and now, happily married and 8 yrs separated from it, I still have some trust issues. It's brutal
12:48 Attempted shenanigan…
I saw you in the Rhett and link video in honor of their friend, you played a very believable squirrel. Loved it.
Surprise camera got me
I am indeed going to the gym on a Sunday whilst watching this 🫡
I need this guy as my therapist
The show with Jacksfilms was great, do more of those please! Also, nice job in the latest episode of Wonderhole!
I'm so confused about the resin story. Did he *cover* the makeup in resin? Like, it's *encased* in the resin? That's what's coming to mind if she's saying her makeup is "unusable," now. How is sealing her makeup in an inaccessible block a gift? That' *can't* be what he did, right? No grown man is *that* stupid... right?
I'm confused about that too. and also if it's just bottles/containers encased in resin, then it's not entirely ruined because they could get cut out of it right?
5:37 was not expecting a better call saul quote here lmao
7:52 I am absolutely and utterly confused