Wat leg je het ontzettend goed uit. Zo dapper dat je dit doet. In 2013 zette ik zelf die stap. Het heeft me zoveel gebracht; me zoveel geleerd in mijn eigen twijfelproces. Dat gun ik jou ook. Maar ik besef ook hoe spannend het is. Weet dat veel vrouwen hier ook steun aan hebben en kracht uit halen.
I think, because you matured over the years which strengthened your personality and formed you , will be the first step for toleration. You found your comfort zone which is very safe and reassuring but you still havent discovered the other side (in case you be a mother) of you which may be very surprising and satisfying too! You never know how you will act unless you go through it. But you know, at least you are pretty aware of all aspects of motherhood. Your past experience will guide you how to avoid all negative things and let you focus on how to get the best out of yourself and pass it to your child. I think your words are very real and the fear of the past repeating itself in the future is only a negative thought. I really encourage you to talk more about that and talk to your inner self and be satisfied and sure about any decision you make because your happiness lies beyond you. Xxx
Wat ontzettend fijn dat je dit met ons durft te delen! Bedankt :-)
Dapper dat je dit deelt en hopelijk helpt het je bij je proces.
Wat leg je het ontzettend goed uit. Zo dapper dat je dit doet. In 2013 zette ik zelf die stap. Het heeft me zoveel gebracht; me zoveel geleerd in mijn eigen twijfelproces. Dat gun ik jou ook. Maar ik besef ook hoe spannend het is. Weet dat veel vrouwen hier ook steun aan hebben en kracht uit halen.
I think, because you matured over the years which strengthened your personality and formed you , will be the first step for toleration.
You found your comfort zone which is very safe and reassuring but you still havent discovered the other side (in case you be a mother) of you which may be very surprising and satisfying too! You never know how you will act unless you go through it. But you know, at least you are pretty aware of all aspects of motherhood. Your past experience will guide you how to avoid all negative things and let you focus on how to get the best out of yourself and pass it to your child.
I think your words are very real and the fear of the past repeating itself in the future is only a negative thought.
I really encourage you to talk more about that and talk to your inner self and be satisfied and sure about any decision you make because your happiness lies beyond you.
Xxx
Thanks Amina, super lieve en krachtige reactie