- Jazmine Sullivan's weapon is her voice, and she wields it efficaciously. She's a vocal treasure, and the value is immeasurable. Jazmine's ascension is inevitable, as she's already one of the greatest of all time. - Gabriella's (aka H.E.R.) weapon is her musical efficiency. She's a versatile musical prodigy, and her contribution is vital to the continuity of the Music culture (overall). With that being said, this song reveals the intricacy of our (current) relationship environment. A traumatic one (for example) can lead to a negative causal chain. Great job Jazmine and Gabriella.
So if she has the talent to be amongst the great of singers why has she still not impacted the music industry like a Mariah Carey, Whitney Houston or Artheha Franklin?
When she sang, "Y'all niggas be makin' us sad (Makin' us sad) Then say y'all don't know why we mad (Know why we mad) So we start actin' like we don't care 'Cause y'all niggas be takin' us there" .... I was done. Like the gaslighting of it all. Jazmine is a QUEEN!
U don’t hear men saying they want a good girl but only date the street walker... they leave stability for ass all the time, blessing u don’t participate
Same brodie!!! I’m so glad my father, grandfather, and uncles taught and showed me and my brothers how to respect, love, and honor women. Black Women are Everything!!!😍😍
One of the most painful things in life is to wonder why someone doesn’t love you no more! 💔 It’s that type of pain you pray for God to take away. I’ve learned that God will end relationships you wanted to have forever and it may take several years to understand why it ended. Sometimes God be protecting us from people we don’t even know we need protection from. If someone walked out of your life consider it a blessing. The last thing you want is to be with someone who doesn’t truly want to be with you. We’re worth so much more!! True love is out there and doesn’t have to hurt. If your heart is hurting right now I pray for your complete healing. ❤️❤️❤️
Mannnn as a dude this song hits my heart for all the “Good girls” or the girls that think their not “Good enough” I promise mamas you are loved and WINNING!!!! I think my lost my “Good girl” due to my OWN DUMB insecurities! Crazy thing about this song;Jazmine Sullivan is a reason her and I were soooo attached to each other,she can also sing and favors Jazmine😍❤️❤️
Couldn't have siad it better. Want y'all girls to remember or realize dat there are some guys who go threw the same type love loss. All y'all gotta do is fine someone who doesn't want you to lose anymore love and respects ya mind in life. Dat should be your starting base.
Man I said the same exact thing and my wife asked me y do I listen to this song everytime I get with her,I'm like cause I love the way they sound together...
It will pass! You're young and beautiful! Heal through learning to love yourself and when you do you'll wonder why you ever loved him! Sending an Auntie hug!❤
Jazmine just keeps writing soundtracks to little phases in my life! This song feels like my early twenties when I was lost and heartbroken and the guy chose someone else over me had me feeling like I needed to switch up. Whew! can’t wait to hear the whole album!!!
Wow! "little phases in my life," I get that. That's deep. As a writer, she's found a place for everyone or different aspects of womanhood to relate to.
@@freebernard3473 you came to the right place for these questions because I have answers! See thats why I need to do story times on my channel lbs, comings soon... Anywaydoe what I did next was switch up and I hurt myself more than i did him. I didn’t have a kid at the time so I started stripping, taking all the money from all the guys thinking it was validation. My life started to crash, FAST AF I started to drink and just feel into a depression. Don’t be me! Here is how I came out of it: 1. I learned about myself, confronted my real issues and realized I was trying to make someone love me when I didn’t even love myself. 2. I started to take better care of me, bossed up actually and not by the standard that society set for “bad bitches”. Did I stop dancing? Subscribe to my channel I’ll go ahead and open up about it all soon!
Once I listened at this, without judgemental ears, I understood so much. She's basically saying you didn't appreciate my beauty, so I'm turning into the ugly that you love so much... whheeeeww deep. I hear the hurt in this.
@@5995Jiol I feel like I’ve never heard anyone ask for a Jaz & HER collab. 😩 and Ive heard ppl ask for Jazmine to collab with ALOT of ppl but never HER. But I’m grateful that they mad this happen! Whew!🔥
Jazmine is the greatest of our generation. Shout out to H.E.R., she is also already legendary. I thought we would never have another Lauryn Hill but.....
@@CoCoRaEl LOUDER for the ladies in back, with low self esteem & self doubt... you sis, yassss You are enough, it's his loss if he didn't realize it!!! Self love is crucial!!💖💯
As a man, this song breaks my heart every time. I’m sorry you haven’t felt the love you deserve. Please hold on until our paths cross, I have enough genuine love for the both of us. I love you, and stay strong Queens 🤞🏾
End of a 4 year relationship! Listened to this song everyday on repeat .My heart was hurting so bad and it hurt to get out of the bed in the morning. It seemed like it even hurt to breath after my breakup . I never thought that my situation would’ve played out like it did after all I had given everything I had literally ! I was a good girl but a year later I’m a better women on my own 😭🙏🏽the growth is real ! Keep pushing forward ladies even when it hurt to exist ! Love y’all ❤️🔥
Hugs. I did 7 years 7 years and it broke me. I felt so embarrassed a loser especially having his child living like a wife for him ending up looking like a clown arse baby mother. No one knew what he was doing because he looked good I didn't want the world to see his faults. I lost it by hearing this song.
@@HERmusic OMG I LOVE YOU AND YOUR MUSIC YOU LITERALLY HAVE MADE MY NIGHT IM IN TEARS😂😂😂😂 YAS QUEEN! Your music is literally the soundtrack of my life 🥰🥰 excuse me for fangirling but omg you really replied to my comment.....like in actual reality 🥴🤯
Please don’t let yourself go because it’s someone out their trying too hold on too you, but please let the old self go because that special someone can love you the way you want love you ❤️.
this song takes me back to a place in my life im not quite proud of, but it reminds me of how far i have come.. heartbreak is not fun, but the one thing its good for is growth... if youre hurting, it will get better, if youre lost youll find yourself. hang in there
Same. Have spent the last 6 yrs working on healing from all the damage done during my lifetime. Im finally at peace with myself and have forgiven myself for doing all the stupid shit I done because I was hurt by careless men. Trying to get back at them did nothing but damage me further. I just didnt realize it at the time.
This song brings me to tears because it’s exactly how i felt. No one should have to feel like they’re not enough. I am enough, it took me time to realize that but it’s been the greatest blessing since ❤️ Love you first
Typing this thru blurry eyes because I BEEN THERE. IT HURTS. But it gets better. To hav two of my fav artists collab on a song like this......I can’t get enough ❤️
"What you asked I would have given" is the saddest part of the song to me bc it expresses the need to please regardless... and as women we already give so much in relationships to men who will never commit so to say you'll give more is sad bc no matter how much you give some men just "don't love you no more " bc they never did This song hit different
Agreed and that right there is the recipe of destruction of the “good girl”. It’s mentally taxing to be so considered that you really put someone before yourself. I’ve done it and it was only to my detriment. I was raised to be nice and kind, respectful not to be hoeing and it got me no where🤷🏾♀️. Good girls don’t win. Women who put themselves first however, they win regardless. It took me years to learn that.
@@Lastdayone you said it perfectly and is right on point. Been experiencing this to the point of self harm because it’s no way to be so emotionally and physically invested in anything or anyone more than you are to yourself. Definitely a hard lesson learned. All I gave to others I’m putting in myself now. I really like the part you wrote about putting yourself first bc your damn right you’ll always win that way💕👑
@Jay Chris First of all, HAppy New year Hope your well In this pandemic, Secondly I’m a singer/ Songwriter not in my youth, Brandy is a vocal bible, to be able to harmonize at the level she does ,you would need to know all the notes musically, to do that efficiently,which Her father taught her very well, your opinion is so appreciated, but facts are facts. Be good to yourself.
Exactly and both are big fans of one another. They keep saying that they're going to do a song together soon so we're still waiting. Will be epic and a beatiful day.
Song hits different when someone walks out of your life & you get no closure. Sending love to those who need to heal. It does get better, they just weren’t the one & you are worthy of the love you desire 💕
This song is scripture, I’ve felt like this before, on more than one occasion. It’s like she knows me personally, not just with this song, with most of what she puts out. H.E.R. was the perfect collaboration for this song, those runs are divine!
The melody, the vibe, the truth...chills. Awesome work ladies, I think we have all been there at one point in our lives. So glad that pain does not last always.
First it was “Lost One”. Then it was “Pick Up Your Feelings”. Now it’s “Girls Like Me”. At this point, I’m pressing charges Jazmine. 🤬 The harmonies at 2:29 and beyond, I literally screamed 😂‼️ At this rate, Heaux Tales will have me in jail for screaming in public places 😳
Omg this is life on everything Jasmine done done it again and H.E.R. just keep bringing the fire baby they carries that torch together babby yeeeeeeees
I’m ready for this album!! Love youuu girl!!!!! I thought it just be me thinking like this,ladies please don’t lose yourself over no guy. I know it’s easy said than done!!
This song doesn’t get nearly as much recognition as it should! This is truly one of the most powerful songs I’ve ever heard praise to Jazmine & H.E.R ❤️❤️
This song hit my soul. I been saying this when I first started dating, men really don’t give af about no good girl. Might as well be a stripper or city girl.
Jazmine sullivan ft H.E.R. it can't better than this all who is listening with me right now jump a like right here am showing love all the way from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹
I can't imagine how much pain women go through dealing with men that treats them wrong in a sense. To all my beautiful black queens, you are loved and we love you. You should be treated with respect and be appreciated.
Ok this is my last time listening to this today. Damn. Much love to Blk Woman, I appreciate y’all, hope all the ladies who are feeling this way can love themselves the way you deserve until the day you find a person who loves you just the way you are.
Maaaan…. This song right here 🎶🎼🎵 I was thinking about how Good Girls get no love … I’m considered the total package but some of these men be on some other ish!
LADIES WE ARE THE PRIZE!! Y’all give men to much power and that’s why they do what they want, I absolutely love this song but the message I’m not feeling...
We really don't fall for guys expecting to get hurt. There are women who will give them all the power for the wrong reasons and they think they can do it to women who deserve real love
So powerful. I have been here and its a dark place. I'm so glad I've grown into myself. It hurts like a mutha. I'm sending love and positive vibes to any ladies still in that place. It does get better.
Man this hurts as a man I feel for anyone thats hurt like this. I've been hurt b4 and know the feeling of trying to find yourself again. Thx for real RnB again Jasmine
I recently just deleted my socials for this very reason. Sometimes you have to take yourself away from validation and consider who and what you would be without their influence.
*lyrics* Yeah, I made a profile on Tinder Since you left me to be with her I think that means I’m gettin’ desperate Wish I could return to sender But you don’t love me no more And I don’t even know what for (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah) Knew it was real when you blocked me Now I sit at home judgin’ my body Wondering what I did to lose you (What I did to lose you) Why in the hell you ain’t choose me? Why you don’t love me no more? (Yeah) And I don’t even know what for (Nah, ah-ah) You must’ve wanted somethin’ different Still don’t know what I was missin’ What you asked I would’ve given It ain’t right how these hoes be winnin’ Why they be winnin’? Yeah (Why they be? Why they be?) No hope for a girl like me, how come they be winnin’? Yeah (Why they be? Why they be?) And I ain’t wanna be But you gon’ make a hoe out of me Yeah, you gon’ make me a gold digger (Gold digger) Maybe I should look like a stripper Wearin’ Fashion Nova dresses All these dudes be so pressed and impressed with it You, leave me with no choice (Oh, oh) I can’t do this good girl shit no more Oh-oh, oh-oh, I just wanted somethin’ different Still don’t know what I was missin’ What you asked I would’ve given, yeah It ain’t right, how these hoes be winnin’ Yeah, they be winnin’ (Why they be? Why they be?) No hope for a girl like me, how come they be winnin’? (How come they?) (Why they be? Why they be?) And I ain’t wanna be But you gon’ make a hoe out of me Y’all niggas be makin’ us sad (Makin’ us mad) Then say y’all don’t know why we mad (Know why we mad) So we start actin’ like we don’t care ‘Cause y’all niggas be takin’ us there (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) ‘Cause you don’t want us no more (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) It breaks us to the core, woah, woah, ooh Boy, you must wanted somethin’ different Still don’t know what you was missin’ What you asked I would’ve given It ain’t right how these hoes be winnin’ Why they be winnin’? (How they be? Why they be? Why they be?) A oh-oh, no hope for a girl like me (Why they be?) How come they be winnin’? (Why they be? Why they be?) I ain’t wanna be But you gon’ make a hoe out of me, ee-ee, ee-ee, ee-ee A hoe I’ll be, yeah (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) Yeah, ayy That’s what you wanted, that’s what you get (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) A hoe I’ll be (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) Look what you did, kid (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) Yeah, a hoe I’ll be, hmm-hmm, hmm (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) See what you did to me? (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh) Ooh Ooh-ooh, ooh Ooh-ooh Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh
Jazmine’s harmonies and the background vocals set this track apart from what she’s already released! The bridge sent me when she started belting!!!! She is coming for the Grammy!
I’m a good girl & been dealing with things I shouldn’t have. . .makes me think was it worth even being good? Here’s the thing, be with someone who values you. Who sees the good in you, even when you don’t see it & never give up on you. 💔 I hope everyone can find that love that’ll heal wounds.
What black woman hasn't felt this way at some point in her life? We are worthy of love & to be loved genuinely. I'm sad for us as a whole. Our daughters have to be taught better & learn that no one can love you more than you. Don't allow a man to change you into someone you don't want to be. Keep uplifting each other, keep praying, keep moving, & keep doing whats right. Continue doing the good girl sh. It will pay off... Gods got us!!!
- Jazmine Sullivan's weapon is her voice, and she wields it efficaciously. She's a vocal treasure, and the value is immeasurable. Jazmine's ascension is inevitable, as she's already one of the greatest of all time.
- Gabriella's (aka H.E.R.) weapon is her musical efficiency. She's a versatile musical prodigy, and her contribution is vital to the continuity of the Music culture (overall).
With that being said, this song reveals the intricacy of our (current) relationship environment. A traumatic one (for example) can lead to a negative causal chain.
Great job Jazmine and Gabriella.
So you’re saying this song is 🔥🔥😂😂
@@johnathanmt8042 lmao I'm sayin! 😅😅😅
@@nmbr4lizard524 😂😂😂😂 cause ALLLL DAT.....
Well said👏🏾💯
So if she has the talent to be amongst the great of singers why has she still not impacted the music industry like a Mariah Carey, Whitney Houston or Artheha Franklin?
When she sang,
"Y'all niggas be makin' us sad (Makin' us sad)
Then say y'all don't know why we mad (Know why we mad)
So we start actin' like we don't care
'Cause y'all niggas be takin' us there"
....
I was done. Like the gaslighting of it all. Jazmine is a QUEEN!
I SWEAR!
Yessss she SANG THAT.....#DatPart
I lost my composure after she said this
🌻✨
yess and the faint background choir-sounding vocals did it for me yo😵😵
As A BLACK MAN, this song broke my heart and I would hate A woman to feel this way from my actions..... MAAAAANNN
Same bro, same....
this how we really be feeling tho
U don’t hear men saying they want a good girl but only date the street walker... they leave stability for ass all the time, blessing u don’t participate
@@patresaplus3274 who hurt u ma'am, cause no sane male ik wants what u just described💯
Same brodie!!! I’m so glad my father, grandfather, and uncles taught and showed me and my brothers how to respect, love, and honor women. Black Women are Everything!!!😍😍
Jazmine and H.E.R just casually slaying again. I ain't surprised but I am all here for it
Oml I’m beyond exited to see them on some more song together
❤️
Love this song
@@HERmusic ❤️❤️❤️
I smell a Grammy
2021 with Jazmine Sullivan is going to be EPIC!
Yes!
this album gonna be our thriving support 😭
Day one with Jamine Sullivan, EPIC defined!!!💯💖
Honestly.
Yessssssssssss
One of the most painful things in life is to wonder why someone doesn’t love you no more! 💔 It’s that type of pain you pray for God to take away. I’ve learned that God will end relationships you wanted to have forever and it may take several years to understand why it ended. Sometimes God be protecting us from people we don’t even know we need protection from.
If someone walked out of your life consider it a blessing. The last thing you want is to be with someone who doesn’t truly want to be with you.
We’re worth so much more!! True love is out there and doesn’t have to hurt.
If your heart is hurting right now I pray for your complete healing. ❤️❤️❤️
That is nothing but the Absolute truth!!
Im in my 50's and still remember how that felt all those years ago.
@@Kim-427 wow, that’s powerful. The pain of a broken-heart really runs deep!
Yes we should never love anyone more than God.
Life happens. Sometimes our actions push the person that loves you out of love with you.
When I saw this notification I was like JAZMINE AND H.E.R I was so happy
❤️
Same here❤ both my favourite
literally
Girl, you? I almost snatched my wig off and threw both of my shoes! 😂
Me to. That's 2 of my favorites
Mannnn as a dude this song hits my heart for all the “Good girls” or the girls that think their not “Good enough” I promise mamas you are loved and WINNING!!!! I think my lost my “Good girl” due to my OWN DUMB insecurities! Crazy thing about this song;Jazmine Sullivan is a reason her and I were soooo attached to each other,she can also sing and favors Jazmine😍❤️❤️
M a a a a a d r e s p e c t.
This means a lot respect
Kudos to you for being a real Man
Thank you KING🙏🏿❤️💐👑
How can you promise they are loved and winning!? This is not a logical comment!
JAZMINE IS NOT PLAYING 😭 - this is SO GOOD!!!! 🔥🔥
Jazmine is just on a level that’s out of this world. Bless her pen game, and shoutout to HER, she added to this track!
❤️
You’re cute 🥰
Pen is ridiculous 😩😩😩😩
@@jarelanderson1787 thank you thank you, IG badguylos
@@HERmusic ❤️❤️
CANT DO THIS “GOOD GIRL SHIT NO MORE” hittt😩
This song doesn’t apply to goo dudes. Some ladies pass up the good guys and pick the wrong guys and end up heartbroken.
“I can’t do this good girl shit no more” 🙌🏾
“What you asked I would have given, it ain’t right how these heauxs be winning!” Lawwwwddd flames!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yesssssss!!!!!!
She looks Great!!!!!
Jazmine cannot make a bad song...same with HER shout ut to the women of R&B carrying the genre grateful to be alive at this time
Jazmine and hit records are best friends because every song she releases always hits
It breaks my heart tht there are women like this tht feel this way. If only u knew how deserving you are. This song is life
Some men feel this way about other men truth be told
❤💯
@@morganjcoxmusic your right I’m one of them 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏽♂️
Well said 💜
Couldn't have siad it better. Want y'all girls to remember or realize dat there are some guys who go threw the same type love loss. All y'all gotta do is fine someone who doesn't want you to lose anymore love and respects ya mind in life. Dat should be your starting base.
To all my Brothers....We HAVE to take care of our Sisters.
I got you!
✌🏾✌🏾💯💯💯♥♥♥
❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Brothers I pray yall serious.....so many single young, gifted and black sisters out here. Please take care of the SISTERS
@@rhondamallatd5938 Yes ma'am...It's time
Jazmine & H.E.R.'s voices blend so well together. 👑👑👑👑
of course they should na. they are r n b lasses
been lookin for this comment
Mannnn I swear because I had to rewind to see when she came on 😭♥️
Man I said the same exact thing and my wife asked me y do I listen to this song everytime I get with her,I'm like cause I love the way they sound together...
I can't tell who's who
Damn this song hit every string in my heart. Being a good girl really hasn't paid off. #girllikeme
It will sis keep your head up Good Girls always win 💯 patience is 🔑 God got a special one for us Good Girls InshaAllah
@@kalykween 🙏🏽 Facts 🙏🏽
You gorgeous and I can treat you right forsure 🙏🙏
Getting my attention.......is a payoff?
That's the way the devil want you to think...trust honey you winning
Crying rn. 3 years later and shit still hurts.
It will pass! You're young and beautiful! Heal through learning to love yourself and when you do you'll wonder why you ever loved him! Sending an Auntie hug!❤
sorry sis x
Over 12 years and this song tears down all the band aids and Gauze pads on my heart
Find a therapist, my friendly advice.
Twenty years an na it's over so this song here life.......
Legend has it that no crumbs were ever found
These queens ATE✨
X WYNTER....they licked tha plate too💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥
Song hits different when you’re going through it.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Man..... sitting here in full on tears
Every part😔😔😔😔
Cried so much ,,revealed to me how much pain I am still holding onto
damn,
I can’t take this good girl shitt no moooore 🥺
‼️💜🧘🏽♀️💜🤞🏽
Jazmine just keeps writing soundtracks to little phases in my life! This song feels like my early twenties when I was lost and heartbroken and the guy chose someone else over me had me feeling like I needed to switch up. Whew! can’t wait to hear the whole album!!!
Wow! "little phases in my life," I get that. That's deep. As a writer, she's found a place for everyone or different aspects of womanhood to relate to.
okay but what u do next girl? switch up orr..? cause I'm right there right now.
@@freebernard3473 Lol I'm also at that point. I wanna know what she did.
What advice would you give to someone who currently feels like this?
@@freebernard3473 you came to the right place for these questions because I have answers! See thats why I need to do story times on my channel lbs, comings soon... Anywaydoe what I did next was switch up and I hurt myself more than i did him. I didn’t have a kid at the time so I started stripping, taking all the money from all the guys thinking it was validation. My life started to crash, FAST AF I started to drink and just feel into a depression. Don’t be me! Here is how I came out of it:
1. I learned about myself, confronted my real issues and realized I was trying to make someone love me when I didn’t even love myself.
2. I started to take better care of me, bossed up actually and not by the standard that society set for “bad bitches”.
Did I stop dancing? Subscribe to my channel I’ll go ahead and open up about it all soon!
Everyone crying... I'm crying because I cant sing like Jazmine 😭😭.. Her voice brings my soul to life
I’ll sing for you!😂🤦🏾♀️ after some Chardonnay ❤️🤷🏾♀️
@@greenmika2889 couple shots of the Dusse I can sing my ass off. That liquor will give you super powers 😂
@@ashleytrober226 Hello!!😂😂😂 next karaoke party your invited!!
Once I listened at this, without judgemental ears, I understood so much. She's basically saying you didn't appreciate my beauty, so I'm turning into the ugly that you love so much... whheeeeww deep. I hear the hurt in this.
When it first came out I was not tryna hear her singing about this. But I’m listening now like REALLY listening & I still can’t relate but I FEEL her
Yall ate Nd left no crumbs
Period.
None at all
Locked the plate - head ass!
"What you asked for i would have given" DAMNNNNNNNNN literally shoketh😭😭😭😭😭❤❤🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Broke down
Humiliation at it’s best.
@@radalacic mannnn words can't explain the hurt but that word comes so close!
The most heartbreaking question to ask yourself is why someone doesn’t love you anymore.
or at all
Or did they ever love you? 🥺
Or to make one ponder if Love even exists…
@@pauldorsett6951 it definitely exists. its actually our true nature
Unfortunately, some people aren’t even capable of giving love 😞
This is 🔥 jazmine and her is the best
their harmonies just wrap around each other, oh my God. I need them to do a whole album or EP together!!
❤️
Sometimes our pain 💔 produces the most beautiful master pieces ✨.
It’s the vocals for me...a collab we didn’t know we needed.🙌🏾🔥
They are slaying the vocals🔥🔥🔥🔥
Oh no we been beggin for this collab hun we been waitin😊😊
@@5995Jiol I feel like I’ve never heard anyone ask for a Jaz & HER collab. 😩 and Ive heard ppl ask for Jazmine to collab with ALOT of ppl but never HER. But I’m grateful that they mad this happen! Whew!🔥
@@zamanxumalo4725 yess there voices go great together 🙌🏾
@@jayintuitive7717 🤞🏾If I could sing like that I def wouldn't be in the profession I'm in.
Jazmine is the greatest of our generation. Shout out to H.E.R., she is also already legendary. I thought we would never have another Lauryn Hill but.....
Our future grammy winner ♥️♥️ jazmine
Damage turns into Heaux Tales 💥💯
Underrated comment💯💯💯💯💯😑
Ur soooo rightttt
YOU ARE ENOUGH QUEEN‼️ The loss is his, NOT yours! straighten that crown & step over that hurt..🗣🗣2021 NOTHING OR NO ONE IS BREAKING US‼️‼️💪🏼💯
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Facts sis. They give these dudes too much control not even realizing they are the catch and not him.
🗣THIS!!!!💖💯💯💯💯
@@CoCoRaEl LOUDER for the ladies in back, with low self esteem & self doubt... you sis, yassss You are enough, it's his loss if he didn't realize it!!! Self love is crucial!!💖💯
HEAVY on the “ Stepping Over” 💪🏾🤞🏾
As a man, this song breaks my heart every time. I’m sorry you haven’t felt the love you deserve. Please hold on until our paths cross, I have enough genuine love for the both of us. I love you, and stay strong Queens 🤞🏾
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Jazmine could sing th phone book and make it a Classic - She is a Goddess
And I will damn sure purchase it 🤷🏽♀️
“Wearing Fashion Nova Dresses, all these dudes be SO pressed and impressed with it.” 🙄TELL EM GABBY! 😩
I was looking for your comment lmbooo 😂🤣
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Cheap Chinese made clothes😂😂😂😂😂
@@mizcooleyfbt2601 bruh what
@@ron8090 Idk what bruh means to you however...move around.
End of a 4 year relationship! Listened to this song everyday on repeat .My heart was hurting so bad and it hurt to get out of the bed in the morning. It seemed like it even hurt to breath after my breakup . I never thought that my situation would’ve played out like it did after all I had given everything I had literally ! I was a good girl but a year later I’m a better women on my own 😭🙏🏽the growth is real ! Keep pushing forward ladies even when it hurt to exist ! Love y’all ❤️🔥
Thank you 😣💕
You got this Sis...🙏🏾❤️
@@toniaduncan567 thank you sis 💗
@@KT-pw1cq your welcome 🌹💗📌
Hugs. I did 7 years 7 years and it broke me. I felt so embarrassed a loser especially having his child living like a wife for him ending up looking like a clown arse baby mother. No one knew what he was doing because he looked good I didn't want the world to see his faults. I lost it by hearing this song.
When H.E.R saaaang "I cant do this good girl SHH...... NO MOOORRREEE." I felt that..go ahead Jazmine!
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@@HERmusic OMG I LOVE YOU AND YOUR MUSIC YOU LITERALLY HAVE MADE MY NIGHT IM IN TEARS😂😂😂😂 YAS QUEEN! Your music is literally the soundtrack of my life 🥰🥰 excuse me for fangirling but omg you really replied to my comment.....like in actual reality 🥴🤯
@@HERmusic I love your music 🙂
Me too
My spirit jumped when she (HER) said that and I just burst in tears!
Please don’t let yourself go because it’s someone out their trying too hold on too you, but please let the old self go because that special someone can love you the way you want love you ❤️.
It's so hard to say goodbye...
YASSSSSSS
@@carliebee9214 it is but baby when it consumes your health it's a big dose of reality it took for me to have a stroke🤧. Let goooo please
It’s so fucking hard
:)
The vocal olympics on this song are insane
VOCALS ! BODY ! ✨PERIOD✨
this song takes me back to a place in my life im not quite proud of, but it reminds me of how far i have come.. heartbreak is not fun, but the one thing its good for is growth... if youre hurting, it will get better, if youre lost youll find yourself. hang in there
Same. Have spent the last 6 yrs working on healing from all the damage done during my lifetime. Im finally at peace with myself and have forgiven myself for doing all the stupid shit I done because I was hurt by careless men. Trying to get back at them did nothing but damage me further. I just didnt realize it at the time.
Nice words :)
This song brings me to tears because it’s exactly how i felt. No one should have to feel like they’re not enough. I am enough, it took me time to realize that but it’s been the greatest blessing since ❤️ Love you first
@@blackman3686 if i knew what you looked like you’d probably get it
@@blackman3686 but are you the man of my dreams ?
@@blackman3686 what’s your ig ?
@@blackman3686 you’re ig is a spam account and obviously a catfish.
@@blackman3686 I’m not interested, I’m not disclosing my social media. Thanks but no thanks
Typing this thru blurry eyes because I BEEN THERE. IT HURTS. But it gets better. To hav two of my fav artists collab on a song like this......I can’t get enough ❤️
Jazmine and H.E.R. enough said 🔥
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"What you asked I would have given" is the saddest part of the song to me bc it expresses the need to please regardless... and as women we already give so much in relationships to men who will never commit so to say you'll give more is sad bc no matter how much you give some men just "don't love you no more " bc they never did
This song hit different
Great analysis...always felt it when that line is uttered. Huge fan of this track.
Agreed and that right there is the recipe of destruction of the “good girl”. It’s mentally taxing to be so considered that you really put someone before yourself. I’ve done it and it was only to my detriment. I was raised to be nice and kind, respectful not to be hoeing and it got me no where🤷🏾♀️.
Good girls don’t win. Women who put themselves first however, they win regardless. It took me years to learn that.
That part broke me down😭😭
@@Lastdayone you said it perfectly and is right on point. Been experiencing this to the point of self harm because it’s no way to be so emotionally and physically invested in anything or anyone more than you are to yourself. Definitely a hard lesson learned. All I gave to others I’m putting in myself now. I really like the part you wrote about putting yourself first bc your damn right you’ll always win that way💕👑
Its true Brandy is our vocal bible, Jasmine S is also our Vocal bible (King James Version) I've been waiting patently for your return!!
LOL not the King James😭😭😩
@Jay Chris First of all, HAppy New year Hope your well In this pandemic, Secondly I’m a singer/ Songwriter not in my youth, Brandy is a vocal bible, to be able to harmonize at the level she does ,you would need to know all the notes musically, to do that efficiently,which Her father taught her very well, your opinion is so appreciated, but facts are facts. Be good to yourself.
Im Gaggin At King James Version
Exactly and both are big fans of one another. They keep saying that they're going to do a song together soon so we're still waiting. Will be epic and a beatiful day.
Maaaannn, Jaz was KILLING me with them runs in the last stretch!
The 6-year wait for a new Jazmine album was fucking worth it. Holy shit, this is magical.
Song hits different when someone walks out of your life & you get no closure. Sending love to those who need to heal. It does get better, they just weren’t the one & you are worthy of the love you desire 💕
That’s what happen to me
Oh I know this pain.. hurt deep..especially when you know u didn't do nothing wrong
I can't do this "GOOD GIRL" shit no more ...Tired of being broken to the CORE! ❤🤞🏾💔
We can be good to men, that's what it is.
@@Ourown311girl what
This song is scripture, I’ve felt like this before, on more than one occasion. It’s like she knows me personally, not just with this song, with most of what she puts out. H.E.R. was the perfect collaboration for this song, those runs are divine!
The melody, the vibe, the truth...chills. Awesome work ladies, I think we have all been there at one point in our lives. So glad that pain does not last always.
This song is written so well, it tells the story of so many women who see themselves as the problem when a man doesn't want them. Such a tune 🔥
But we’re NOT!
They Are the problem. The problem is that those dudes don't want them.
Yep and women need to normalize that men choices have nothing to do with them.
So this is what magic 🪄 sounds like when H.E.R. and Jazmine come thru with the come thru
Gives me chills. I can relate. They wait until it’s 2 late. Now you want to come back after all that!!!! We give our heart. Well I do.
First it was “Lost One”. Then it was “Pick Up Your Feelings”. Now it’s “Girls Like Me”. At this point, I’m pressing charges Jazmine. 🤬 The harmonies at 2:29 and beyond, I literally screamed 😂‼️ At this rate, Heaux Tales will have me in jail for screaming in public places 😳
Yes Pick up Your feelings had me playing it out, but I Love H.E.R as well best collab...
Baybeh I’m screaming man my sister thought sum was wrong with me🙄😂😂😂 but fr tho u right
No bullshit lmfaooooooo
That what I said. She killing it
Omg this is life on everything Jasmine done done it again and H.E.R. just keep bringing the fire baby they carries that torch together babby yeeeeeeees
yasss ive been waiting for this collab 🔥🔥🔥❤️
It’s the way Jazmine always puts her all into every song she makes, not to mention this HER feature was just 🤌🏾 *brilliant*
Her ALL! She never misses.
@@musicjunkie2764 neverrrrr
Done some of my best healing to HER and Jazmine.......... ASE🧡💛💚
❤️
1:32 “Wearin’ Fashinova dresses”…that line hit hard!!
Here extremely early 😂💙
Jan 8th seems so far away.... I’m so ready! Jazmine 🙌🏾 Congratulations in advance on the Grammys and many more blessings sis !!!! #teamaries
Is her album dropping Jan 8th?
@@janae412 yes ma’am , the Heaux Tales Project is scheduled to drop this Friyaaaay❤️
Right before I start my new era with my job on 1/11. Why am I more excited for this album tho lol.
Yessssssss I’m suffering 😩
@@acarroll1714 Congratulations ... I bet you’ll be jammin Heaux Tales while you’re otw to work!!!’
I remember the first time a woman broke my heart and what felt... created the savage I became until I met that angel that taught me how to love again.
ain't even listened to it yet, but Y'ALL ALREADY GOT MY "LIKE" 😩
Jazmine and H.E.R.?? Baby I know this is gonna be good!
I just left the same comment lol
😫😩 I love you Jazmine!!!...This is a lethal combination
Literal chills everytime it plays and it’s on repea😭
I’m ready for this album!! Love youuu girl!!!!! I thought it just be me thinking like this,ladies please don’t lose yourself over no guy. I know it’s easy said than done!!
My soul has been touched in ways I didn’t know were possible 🥺
This song doesn’t get nearly as much recognition as it should! This is truly one of the most powerful songs I’ve ever heard praise to Jazmine & H.E.R ❤️❤️
This song hit my soul. I been saying this when I first started dating, men really don’t give af about no good girl. Might as well be a stripper or city girl.
Facts!
Jazmine sullivan ft H.E.R. it can't better than this all who is listening with me right now jump a like right here am showing love all the way from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹
This song made me cry the 1st time I heard it. This was me for a lot of years.. thanking God for pulling me thru and teaching me my worth❤️
I'm crying in 2023 every time I hear it 😔
A shame we go through this shit wanting validation from a broken and insecure person. Not knowing our worth is costly! This song speaks truth
Finally Jasmine Sullivan and HER 💯💯💯 The lyrics deep AF Wow
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I can't imagine how much pain women go through dealing with men that treats them wrong in a sense. To all my beautiful black queens, you are loved and we love you. You should be treated with respect and be appreciated.
Don’t need sleep I need more of this
JESUS They Sound So Good together and the Song Is Effortless They Did that I love Y'all 😙
Ok this is my last time listening to this today. Damn. Much love to Blk Woman, I appreciate y’all, hope all the ladies who are feeling this way can love themselves the way you deserve until the day you find a person who loves you just the way you are.
The lows and the blends😍😍😍
Yes!!! their low registers are soooo rich
Black women we goin be alright.
And this is facts.. sometimes you gotta loose to win again
Yasss! We’re going to be just fine. We will have true love and happiness.
We’re going to be so loved
I hope so 🤧🥺
@BH Motion stfu
Maaaan…. This song right here 🎶🎼🎵 I was thinking about how Good Girls get no love … I’m considered the total package but some of these men be on some other ish!
Damn Jazmine why you gotta hit us that hard,these lyrics hold volume I be feeling like I’m talking 😫😭
This is what I've been waiting to hear I'm excited is anyone else excited to just me!!!!!??¿??
I feel this from the depts of my soul.. look what u did kid 😞
LADIES WE ARE THE PRIZE!! Y’all give men to much power and that’s why they do what they want, I absolutely love this song but the message I’m not feeling...
We really don't fall for guys expecting to get hurt. There are women who will give them all the power for the wrong reasons and they think they can do it to women who deserve real love
Period !!!!!
Stfu
So powerful. I have been here and its a dark place. I'm so glad I've grown into myself. It hurts like a mutha. I'm sending love and positive vibes to any ladies still in that place. It does get better.
Man this hurts as a man I feel for anyone thats hurt like this. I've been hurt b4 and know the feeling of trying to find yourself again. Thx for real RnB again Jasmine
I recently just deleted my socials for this very reason. Sometimes you have to take yourself away from validation and consider who and what you would be without their influence.
🥺same, so much peace of mind now and I'm finding myself, learning to love myself and doing me sis
💙💙💙
Same!
Yesss sisss!!!
Same 🤷🏾♀️ and don’t feel bad about it either. No FOMO on social media content.
Jasmine Sullivan’s voice is something so damn special
Don't stop being a GOOD girl, that good man is coming Queen.
*lyrics*
Yeah, I made a profile on Tinder
Since you left me to be with her
I think that means I’m gettin’ desperate
Wish I could return to sender
But you don’t love me no more
And I don’t even know what for (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
Knew it was real when you blocked me
Now I sit at home judgin’ my body
Wondering what I did to lose you (What I did to lose you)
Why in the hell you ain’t choose me?
Why you don’t love me no more? (Yeah)
And I don’t even know what for (Nah, ah-ah)
You must’ve wanted somethin’ different
Still don’t know what I was missin’
What you asked I would’ve given
It ain’t right how these hoes be winnin’
Why they be winnin’? Yeah (Why they be? Why they be?)
No hope for a girl like me, how come they be winnin’? Yeah
(Why they be? Why they be?)
And I ain’t wanna be
But you gon’ make a hoe out of me
Yeah, you gon’ make me a gold digger (Gold digger)
Maybe I should look like a stripper
Wearin’ Fashion Nova dresses
All these dudes be so pressed and impressed with it
You, leave me with no choice (Oh, oh)
I can’t do this good girl shit no more
Oh-oh, oh-oh, I just wanted somethin’ different
Still don’t know what I was missin’
What you asked I would’ve given, yeah
It ain’t right, how these hoes be winnin’
Yeah, they be winnin’ (Why they be? Why they be?)
No hope for a girl like me, how come they be winnin’? (How come they?)
(Why they be? Why they be?)
And I ain’t wanna be
But you gon’ make a hoe out of me
Y’all niggas be makin’ us sad (Makin’ us mad)
Then say y’all don’t know why we mad (Know why we mad)
So we start actin’ like we don’t care
‘Cause y’all niggas be takin’ us there (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
‘Cause you don’t want us no more (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
It breaks us to the core, woah, woah, ooh
Boy, you must wanted somethin’ different
Still don’t know what you was missin’
What you asked I would’ve given
It ain’t right how these hoes be winnin’
Why they be winnin’? (How they be? Why they be? Why they be?)
A oh-oh, no hope for a girl like me (Why they be?)
How come they be winnin’? (Why they be? Why they be?)
I ain’t wanna be
But you gon’ make a hoe out of me, ee-ee, ee-ee, ee-ee
A hoe I’ll be, yeah (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
Yeah, ayy
That’s what you wanted, that’s what you get (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
A hoe I’ll be (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
Look what you did, kid (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
Yeah, a hoe I’ll be, hmm-hmm, hmm (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
See what you did to me? (Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh)
Ooh
Ooh-ooh, ooh
Ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh
You are the people I live to see here 🥰
Thanks!
💯
💓
The greatest!!!
Jazmine’s harmonies and the background vocals set this track apart from what she’s already released! The bridge sent me when she started belting!!!! She is coming for the Grammy!
I’m a good girl & been dealing with things I shouldn’t have. . .makes me think was it worth even being good? Here’s the thing, be with someone who values you. Who sees the good in you, even when you don’t see it & never give up on you. 💔 I hope everyone can find that love that’ll heal wounds.
Heaux Tales said seatbelt or none, we going for a ride...
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 sir
My heart is beating so fast!!! Jaz makes my soul smile!!! (Yall heard the run at 2:32?). 😯
What black woman hasn't felt this way at some point in her life? We are worthy of love & to be loved genuinely. I'm sad for us as a whole. Our daughters have to be taught better & learn that no one can love you more than you. Don't allow a man to change you into someone you don't want to be. Keep uplifting each other, keep praying, keep moving, & keep doing whats right. Continue doing the good girl sh. It will pay off... Gods got us!!!