Peb cov niam cov txiv lub neej qub qub thaum ub ces cov laus yeej coj tsis zoo rau cov tub cov ntxhais os vim lawb xav kom lawv zoo siab os yog leej twg tau 1 tug txiv phem li koj tus ko mas dhuav kawg li os cov neej es muab lo sib yuam yuav ces yeej ua neej tsis sib hlub os cov sib hlub muaj tsawg kawg li os tau hom txiv neej nyaum nyaum nruj tsiv li no mas tsis xav hlub tsis xav yuav li os
Ua cas cov laus no es lawv yuav siab phem ua luaj li os. Li no es puas yog kev hlub niam txiv tsim nyog muab rau me nyuam. Mloog mas ua cas zoo li ua yus mob siab nrog nws ua luaj li os. Lub neej no es tsuas muaj ib zaug xwb los tseem los nyob ua tsis tau li yus txoj kev ntshaw thiab. Tu siab nrog koj kawg os tus niam tsev aw. 😥
You as a parents.... you love ur children, you protected ur children, you should NOT force ur children, your children need ur love, and they need the freedom like everyone else.
So sad how the older generation made this lady marry her own cousin and how he abused her. Change this style, and the fault of silencing of our Hmong women.
Pab koj tu siab kawg os tus niam tsev Aw....😥 koj txhob tu2 siab heev thiab tej zaum txawm neb sib tau los xyov puas yuav zoo li siab xav vim ib txhia ua nkauj ua nraug zoo mam sib tau los Tsi txog twg neej twb puas tag lawm thiab ces txhob khuv2 xim heev tsam tau stroke ces hab yam yuav txom nyem os
So sad!!! What a horrible way to live her life. She should've just left, but I know it'salways easier said than done. My heart aches for you dear sister. I hope that you have found some peace in your life.
Yog tias nws raug quab yuam tabsis tsis tsim tus poj niam raug quab yuam li nws mas thiaj yog.. Luag txawm cog lus rau peb ris los peb sib tau taub es txhob sib tsim, yus 2 leeg sib pab, sib khoom siab kom yias tau lub neej li nyias ntshaws ntshaws tau ma. Kuj yog pretending ua li lawv ntshaws kom dim, 3-4 lub hli muab nrauj kiag xwb. Txivneej hmoob yeej ncaj tsis taus, ncaj tsis tom thawj li, yog yuav siv li no na.
Kuv los phauj tus tub los yuav yuav muaj ib tug niag ntsej muag duam hmoob xyooj los nws niam nws txiv lawv yuav tuaj hais kuv no tab sis ua kuv txiv tsaug uas kuv txiv tsis yuam kuv os kuv txiv tsuas hais tias muaj taw tuaj ces muaj taw rov xwb vim tub ntxais tsis yeem no es kuv thiaj tau tus neeg kuv hlub lawm tsis li ntawv mas ntshe twb dai tuag lawm thiab os lawv aw!!!
Let it go, wont help you keeping all these memories inside ur heart. Cherish it but let it go for he has a wife n family now. Be good to him n let him live in peace if u really love him. It was very sad they the parents kept you both away from one another.
If I was force to married someone I don't love because of my parents. I will never visit them no matter what even if it's my parents funeral( not going). I will consider them dead to me.
Hmoob os hmoob aw cas mloog tej kev hlub sib yuam yuav no tag mas kuv hlub nej cov phaum laus no ua luaj cuag li nws yug tau yus ces nws yog tus nrhiav lub neej 6 yus xwb
Qhov zoo ces cov neej neeg zoo li no koj txhob tham xwb zoo dua na may yog koj kam muab tham ces zoo li koj yog tus nyob nruab nrab ntawm nkawv tshum kom nkawv 2 tsev neeg muaj kev kub ntxhov tsis yog xa nkawv txoj kev sib plam es sib2 tshua na los
Tus niam tsev, nrog koj chim kawg li thiab os, es nco ntsoov cim cov ntsej muag dev ua phem rau koj, es hnub twg mus txog Pem Txoov Nyuj Vag Tuam Teem mam mus qhia es coj cov ntsej muag dev ntawv mus txiav caj dab
Uacas kuv yuav ntxub peb cov niag txiv thiab niam no ua luaj, I really hate those words they says ua siabntev sick of it, tus me vivncaus cas pab koj tusiab ua luaj.
Mloog tau khib siab heev li. Cov niam txiv nas. Tsis saib xyab twb pom dab lawm Ua cas tseem yuam me nyuam li no thiab. Cov laus thauv mas siab zoo thiab phem heev li
Tus niam tsev txua txua yam no tim.koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv xwb os koj tus txiv niam.thiab txiv tsis txawj xav thiaj li yuam tub yuam ntxhais lo sib yuav os txhob tu siab os koj tus txiv ko siab phem npaum ko txhob khes txog nws hlub li koj hlub tau xwb txhob hlub luag tag tag os vim tau lub neej tsis raws siab xav os
Txhob tu siab vim cov niag laus ruam ruam hlwb rwj taub hau ntim quav xwb es thiaj li xav muab tej tub btxhais yuam sib yuav thaum luag muab ncaws cuag ncaws dev ces ho hais tsis tau...yog kuv mas puas xeeb muab tau rau nws yuav yog nws tsis hlub kuv yeej muaj peev xwm thau kuv tu ntxhais rov qab ntag ho
im so pist off @ these old ppl & how they treat girls/force them to married someone else regardless if they're related or an old man etc... & than if you died you get punish inthe after life for taking ur own life too.. how is that justice? & if their parents even love them
Ntuj aw ua cas hmong thaum ub yuav siab phem thiab lim hiam ua luaj li tsis yuav tau yuav npam ua phem xwb os poj Niam tag lawm lo cas es yuav npav qhov nqis tsev hais xwb os quav dev dhau lawm
Ntxub Hmoob tus yamntxwv vim tias Hmoob pheej xav xav tau ntsejmuag kawg li. Tus kws xav tau ntsejmuag ces yuav poob ntsejmuag thiab hwjchim loj heev thaum kawg ntag. Hmoob tsis txhob kuabyuam tej tub tej ntxhais yuav tus kws lawv tsis nyiam hlo li. Tus kws lawv tsis nyiam es raug kuabyuam ces ua neej tsis kawg tsig nawb.
Cas yuav pab hlub koj kawg li os tus niam tsev aw. Niam thiab txiv cas yuav siab phem ua luaj rau koj. Cas twb ua nkauj nraug tau 2 lub xyoo diam es ho tsis sib yuav ntxov mas?
May, koj puas kam hais txoj dab neeg hu tias txhob xav tias koj yuav tsis txawj tuag tsis hnov koj lub suab hais lus ntshiag to xwb. Ntshe txoj ntawv koj twb hais tau li 2-3 hli los lawm sub os. Ua tsaug
Hmoob mas cas yuav phem caij phem tuag li lau. Yus tus minyuam nyiam tsis nyiam los muag tuag nrho es twb yog tus nus paws thiab xwb ntxim ntxub tshaj Hmoob txoj cai no na
Sim neej no mas peb cov hmoob yav thaud mas ruam thiab phem tshaj plaws qab ntuj no , cov laus ntawd mas evil tshaj txaus ntxub txaus hate tiag tiag li.😡
Hmoob Txojcai nov mas yog ib txojcai uas RUAM tshaj plaws nyob ntiajteb no. Tos tsis nrog luag ua nom ua tswv, muaj teb muaj chaw. Tej lub hlwb ruam lino. Lubsiab li-hiam tshaj plaws. Yus tus minyuam twb tsis tau tau xeeb es twb xaiv luag txojkev uaneej tom-ntej rau luag lawm.....Lub hlwb no mas yog ib lub uas RUAM tshaj plaws. Nej twb txawj txawj haistias mintub minyuam mas yus nim yug tau cev xwb yus tsis tau siab no nev?
This is not a sad story this is a stupid story. If you love and miss that person so then why she go marry the person never give her any love from the person that you are depend on what a wise time she should gonna go with the person who's loving her....
Zaj neej neeg no zoo li tsi muaj tseeb nyob hauv peb hmong culture. Tej zaum tus niam tsev no made up the story and asked niam ntshuab teev to put out on media for fun. Maybe it was to talk easily to people but in general it was never this easy.
I dont know why you didn't leave your husband. He is so abusive, it doesn't matter if your boyfriend got married. You can go find somewhere else, we are in America you should put his ass in jail. I dont understand our old G hmong women. They let their husband abuse them even in America.
Sorry but u should try to ruined someone else’s life. Y can’t u just watch and not ask to contact. I’m sure his wife would not approve of u wanting contact him
For the parents, stupid way of ruining your child's life. For the wife, you should have left that abusive cousin/husband of yours long time ago. I Feel sorry for you cause your life was a total waste.
Ntuj e....peb cov ntxhais Hmoob lub neej yav thaud mas tu siab tshaj. Hlub koj os tus vivncaus.
Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd ntshe zoo siab heev lawm. Tim nkawd ua niam ua txiv xwb koj lub neej thiaj lwj siab txom nyem ntsuav los laus li no. Tu siab tshaj plaws tus neeg yug yus Tab sis tsis hlub yus tseem muab yus laub rau txoj kev txom nyem.
Koj niag txiv dev ntawd yav laus no mus tsis txhob hlub. Yus hlub yus tus kheej mog vivncaus.
Tu siab heev zaj no 😢😢😢
Niam ntsuab teev koj cov neej neeg koj hai tau zoo kawg, peb mloog rawv koj tej neej neeg txhua2 txoj.
Tus siab tiag li os niam luas aw kj zaj neej neeg 😭😭😭😭
Koj hais yeej yog tshaj li os mloog txog koj cov neej neeg mas poj niam muab kuv tav npaws npaws ntsuab tag
Pab koj tu siab os, yog tau tus yus hlub lawm ces txawm yuav zoo thiab tsis zoo Los yeej txaus siab lawm
nrog koj tu siab kawg tu sister.
Koj nam koj txiv tsi hlub koj le os. Lam tug tau koj xwb yeej tsi hlub koj.
I blame the parents!! Poor daughter, your life was a waste of love and endurance. I hope we as a new generation learn from this.
Peb cov niam cov txiv lub neej qub qub thaum ub ces cov laus yeej coj tsis zoo rau cov tub cov ntxhais os vim lawb xav kom lawv zoo siab os yog leej twg tau 1 tug txiv phem li koj tus ko mas dhuav kawg li os cov neej es muab lo sib yuam yuav ces yeej ua neej tsis sib hlub os cov sib hlub muaj tsawg kawg li os tau hom txiv neej nyaum nyaum nruj tsiv li no mas tsis xav hlub tsis xav yuav li os
Hais tau kho siab heev li ho lawv aw
Tu siab kawg os Viv ncaus, kuv tus los kuj ua ua hluas thiab ntau ntau kuv kawg. Ntau kuv ib tug hniav lov thiab thaum kuv tseem muaj 17 xyoo xwb. Kuv nrog nws nyob txog thaum kuv muaj 30 xyoo qub neeg ces yeej yog qub siab. Kuv thiaj ua ib muab tus neeg uas kuv hlub nws tshaj tso tseg, mus ua dua neej tshiab lawm.
Peb cov muaj qub kiav roj ces yeej nco ntsoov hauv siab tsis ploj.
Very sad story, I understand your parents view but they have to understand the kids too. Very very sad story!!!
Ua cas cov laus no es lawv yuav siab phem ua luaj li os. Li no es puas yog kev hlub niam txiv tsim nyog muab rau me nyuam. Mloog mas ua cas zoo li ua yus mob siab nrog nws ua luaj li os. Lub neej no es tsuas muaj ib zaug xwb los tseem los nyob ua tsis tau li yus txoj kev ntshaw thiab. Tu siab nrog koj kawg os tus niam tsev aw. 😥
You as a parents.... you love ur children, you protected ur children, you should NOT force ur children, your children need ur love, and they need the freedom like everyone else.
😡🤬😢😭😭😭🤔🤬 it's so sad this lady had to suffer for many years.
Hai tau zoo heev li os
So sad how the older generation made this lady marry her own cousin and how he abused her. Change this style, and the fault of silencing of our Hmong women.
Pab koj tu siab kawg os tus niam tsev Aw....😥 koj txhob tu2 siab heev thiab tej zaum txawm neb sib tau los xyov puas yuav zoo li siab xav vim ib txhia ua nkauj ua nraug zoo mam sib tau los Tsi txog twg neej twb puas tag lawm thiab ces txhob khuv2 xim heev tsam tau stroke ces hab yam yuav txom nyem os
So sad!!! What a horrible way to live her life. She should've just left, but I know it'salways easier said than done. My heart aches for you dear sister. I hope that you have found some peace in your life.
Ca kuv yuav.pabntxub tutxivthiabtuniam.ntawm.koj.ua.luaj.li.Niamtsiab.Teev.Aw..
Tus tswv ntawm zaj neej neeg no koj txhob ntxub koj tus txiv nawb yeej yog li nws hais lawm cov neeg koj yuav ntxub ces yog koj niam koj txiv niab Koj dab laug xwb mog vim peb cov laus txheej thaud.mas koj ntsia lub ntsej muag kuj yog neeg tab mas lawv lub siab yog tsiaj xwb tsis yog siab neeg.txhob tusiab mog kuv yog ib leeg tub Los twb raug tsim li koj thiab.tab mas tej zaum koj twb tseem tsuj tsis tau txog kuv tus hneev taw thiab mog.
Yog tias nws raug quab yuam tabsis tsis tsim tus poj niam raug quab yuam li nws mas thiaj yog..
Luag txawm cog lus rau peb ris los peb sib tau taub es txhob sib tsim, yus 2 leeg sib pab, sib khoom siab kom yias tau lub neej li nyias ntshaws ntshaws tau ma.
Kuj yog pretending ua li lawv ntshaws kom dim, 3-4 lub hli muab nrauj kiag xwb.
Txivneej hmoob yeej ncaj tsis taus, ncaj tsis tom thawj li, yog yuav siv li no na.
OMG.....koj niam nkawv mas phem tiag2 li os me viv ncaus. Pab hlub koj tiag tiag.
Kuv los phauj tus tub los yuav yuav muaj ib tug niag ntsej muag duam hmoob xyooj los nws niam nws txiv lawv yuav tuaj hais kuv no tab sis ua kuv txiv tsaug uas kuv txiv tsis yuam kuv os kuv txiv tsuas hais tias muaj taw tuaj ces muaj taw rov xwb vim tub ntxais tsis yeem no es kuv thiaj tau tus neeg kuv hlub lawm tsis li ntawv mas ntshe twb dai tuag lawm thiab os lawv aw!!!
Let it go, wont help you keeping all these memories inside ur heart. Cherish it but let it go for he has a wife n family now. Be good to him n let him live in peace if u really love him. It was very sad they the parents kept you both away from one another.
This is the old Hmong way back in Laos. Both parents made arraignment son and daughter marry. Now tiam 21 does not work anymore.
😭😭😭 I swear I hate the way Hmong people think. This is one of the reason why we don't have a country.
Kuv tsis paub tias xyov cas nej cov pojniam tuaj hauv nov es yuav mus nrhiav tau tib co txiv lim lim hiam xwb ned....txiv neej Hmoob puas lim hiam npaum li nej piav ntawd tiag maj! Kuv tsis khoi pom cov txiv neej siab li hiam npaum li nej piav no thiab laiv. Cov txiv neej Hmoob lim hiam tej zaum nyaj yuav tsuas yog li 5-10% xwb dua li yeej yog cov hlub hlub pojniam thiab siab zoo zoo.
If I was force to married someone I don't love because of my parents. I will never visit them no matter what even if it's my parents funeral( not going). I will consider them dead to me.
Mloog koj zaj no mas koj yeej nyiam koj niag txiv tshaj li koj thiaj li ua dev quj qhov taub Nyob tiv qws....5555.
Lady, your life story is so sad!! Hopefully in your next life you will and can find someone to love you and you love him.
Hmoob os hmoob aw cas mloog tej kev hlub sib yuam yuav no tag mas kuv hlub nej cov phaum laus no ua luaj cuag li nws yug tau yus ces nws yog tus nrhiav lub neej 6 yus xwb
Qhov zoo ces cov neej neeg zoo li no koj txhob tham xwb zoo dua na may yog koj kam muab tham ces zoo li koj yog tus nyob nruab nrab ntawm nkawv tshum kom nkawv 2 tsev neeg muaj kev kub ntxhov tsis yog xa nkawv txoj kev sib plam es sib2 tshua na los
You told this one so well!
Cov ntsej muag laus no mas tsim nyog yav laus muab quav dev thiab quav qaib pub rau noj xwb.
So sad
Peb hmoob yeej tsis muab kev ncaj ncee rau cov ntxhais, li no lawm tiag... kev txij kev nkawm nyia muaj cai xaiv...
Niam ntsuab teev kv tsee to kj tshua222 hmo li o
Tus niam tsev, nrog koj chim kawg li thiab os, es nco ntsoov cim cov ntsej muag dev ua phem rau koj, es hnub twg mus txog Pem Txoov Nyuj Vag Tuam Teem mam mus qhia es coj cov ntsej muag dev ntawv mus txiav caj dab
Oh ntuj es..........tus yus tsis tau ces txhob khuv xim os. Ruam los ntse es yuav nrog hluas Nkauj hluas nraug haus ntshav tes😜😜😜😜🤪🤪🤪
Peb kawm tau tias_txhob cog lus es quab yuam rau lwm tug ris.
Yog yus tsim tau ib txoj kev txhaum rau yus tus me nyuam es nws ris rawv rau yus saib ntshe yus yuav uv ntoog tsis nyog..
Peb cov laus mas thiaj txawj tsis hlub tshaj plaws tiag tiag..
Uacas kuv yuav ntxub peb cov niag txiv thiab niam no ua luaj, I really hate those words they says ua siabntev sick of it, tus me vivncaus cas pab koj tusiab ua luaj.
Koj niam thiab txiv tsis yog neeg siab zoo.
Koj niam lawv ntshaw cov niag xuab xuab hwv ne koj thiaj mag peg
Paj hu kuv
Mloog tau khib siab heev li. Cov niam txiv nas. Tsis saib xyab twb pom dab lawm Ua cas tseem yuam me nyuam li no thiab. Cov laus thauv mas siab zoo thiab phem heev li
Tus niam tsev txua txua yam no tim.koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv xwb os koj tus txiv niam.thiab txiv tsis txawj xav thiaj li yuam tub yuam ntxhais lo sib yuav os txhob tu siab os koj tus txiv ko siab phem npaum ko txhob khes txog nws hlub li koj hlub tau xwb txhob hlub luag tag tag os vim tau lub neej tsis raws siab xav os
Me niam Ntsuab Teev koj Thaij li Daim no tsis tshua zoo os....
Txhob tu siab vim cov niag laus ruam ruam hlwb rwj taub hau ntim quav xwb es thiaj li xav muab tej tub btxhais yuam sib yuav thaum luag muab ncaws cuag ncaws dev ces ho hais tsis tau...yog kuv mas puas xeeb muab tau rau nws yuav yog nws tsis hlub kuv yeej muaj peev xwm thau kuv tu ntxhais rov qab ntag ho
Thov kom hmoob txhob muab tej Kev phooj kev ywg ntawm tej laus no coj los yuam tej hluas sib yuav tsis sib hlub ntxiv li lawm nawb
What a wasted life of sadness and emptiness. Parents shouldn't force their kids into marriage. They ruin lives forever. So sad for you.
im so pist off @ these old ppl & how they treat girls/force them to married someone else regardless if they're related or an old man etc... & than if you died you get punish inthe after life for taking ur own life too.. how is that justice? & if their parents even love them
Ntuj aw ua cas hmong thaum ub yuav siab phem thiab lim hiam ua luaj li tsis yuav tau yuav npam ua phem xwb os poj Niam tag lawm lo cas es yuav npav qhov nqis tsev hais xwb os quav dev dhau lawm
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Ntxub Hmoob tus yamntxwv vim tias Hmoob pheej xav xav tau ntsejmuag kawg li. Tus kws xav tau ntsejmuag ces yuav poob ntsejmuag thiab hwjchim loj heev thaum kawg ntag.
Hmoob tsis txhob kuabyuam tej tub tej ntxhais yuav tus kws lawv tsis nyiam hlo li. Tus kws lawv tsis nyiam es raug kuabyuam ces ua neej tsis kawg tsig nawb.
Cas yuav pab hlub koj kawg li os tus niam tsev aw. Niam thiab txiv cas yuav siab phem ua luaj rau koj. Cas twb ua nkauj nraug tau 2 lub xyoo diam es ho tsis sib yuav ntxov mas?
Tsis work os txhob yuav yus tus first cousin i see it heard bout it...
May, koj puas kam hais txoj dab neeg hu tias txhob xav tias koj yuav tsis txawj tuag tsis hnov koj lub suab hais lus ntshiag to xwb. Ntshe txoj ntawv koj twb hais tau li 2-3 hli los lawm sub os. Ua tsaug
Hmoob mas cas yuav phem caij phem tuag li lau. Yus tus minyuam nyiam tsis nyiam los muag tuag nrho es twb yog tus nus paws thiab xwb ntxim ntxub tshaj Hmoob txoj cai no na
Sim neej no mas peb cov hmoob yav thaud mas ruam thiab phem tshaj plaws qab ntuj no , cov laus ntawd mas evil tshaj txaus ntxub txaus hate tiag tiag li.😡
Too close to get married! Relatives should not married each other, Hmong people!!!
Tej niag lau ntawv ce phem tshaj li cov txheej thaum i o yom
Hmoob Txojcai nov mas yog ib txojcai uas RUAM tshaj plaws nyob ntiajteb no. Tos tsis nrog luag ua nom ua tswv, muaj teb muaj chaw. Tej lub hlwb ruam lino. Lubsiab li-hiam tshaj plaws. Yus tus minyuam twb tsis tau tau xeeb es twb xaiv luag txojkev uaneej tom-ntej rau luag lawm.....Lub hlwb no mas yog ib lub uas RUAM tshaj plaws. Nej twb txawj txawj haistias mintub minyuam mas yus nim yug tau cev xwb yus tsis tau siab no nev?
Zaj no zoo li koj twb hai tag sab
This is not a sad story this is a stupid story. If you love and miss that person so then why she go marry the person never give her any love from the person that you are depend on what a wise time she should gonna go with the person who's loving her....
Lady, you do have a choice, put his ass in jail and divorce him! You don't need all these abuses and stresses in your old age.
Sad that you were force to married your first cousin.
Zaj neej neeg no zoo li tsi muaj tseeb nyob hauv peb hmong culture. Tej zaum tus niam tsev no made up the story and asked niam ntshuab teev to put out on media for fun. Maybe it was to talk easily to people but in general it was never this easy.
zaj no twb hais tag lawm sub as muab zaj qub los hais xwb os
I dont know why you didn't leave your husband. He is so abusive, it doesn't matter if your boyfriend got married. You can go find somewhere else, we are in America you should put his ass in jail. I dont understand our old G hmong women. They let their husband abuse them even in America.
Koj tus txiv ntawv yog dab tswj nyug xwb os tsis ntev no ces nws yuav mus nyob dab teb es koj twb yuav muab nws tso plig os
Mis c if I was u I die long time forgive love y y y u still lie to peaple
Sorry but u should try to ruined someone else’s life. Y can’t u just watch and not ask to contact. I’m sure his wife would not approve of u wanting contact him
For the parents, stupid way of ruining your child's life. For the wife, you should have left that abusive cousin/husband of yours long time ago. I Feel sorry for you cause your life was a total waste.
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So sad
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