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I think it will be really good for me to get more comfortable about approaching women but it seems like you have to do it a lot more than other methods before you get anything out of it and most women in public don’t want to be approached. I am super in favor of equality and feminism and this is an aspect of traditional society where men have a disadvantage. We should not expect that only men have to initiate everything and win over the woman
Some great points, Alex. I can only imagine how uncomfortable it is for a man to approach a woman knowing that it's very likely that you may be rejected. I think we can all do better and treat each other with more recpect. Take women down the pedestal. They're just as confused and clueless as you 😉
I've seen trash videos on this topic but this one I saw is actually real, and they don't see the real ones (only 2k views) on such a genuine and true video
Thank you so much for saying that. I often wonder if I should keep making them as I don't seem to get that much traction. What did you like about it? :)
I’m much more likely to approach a beautiful woman that is by herself than an average looking woman in a group, not for fear of rejection, but for fear of interfering and disrupting their conversation which would seem rude and annoying to them, particularly if they are not interested in me.
I been cold approaching since 1996. I never used online dating. Cold approach is the best way to meet women. Most women who are goings to reject are nice about it. Very few bad rejection 2%. Very few. Most women are polite and respectful. Cold approach is not harrassment as long the person is respectful and takes no for answer. Back in the 90s everybody was Cold approaching. Now in 2024 maybe 5% of men cold approach. Technology changed the world
Why do you think so many men complain that every woman has been so rude to them and mean, when you have never experienced that? Do you think they are doing something wrong in the approach?
@@Emmm-ii6tx I experienced rudeness , not alot. Most personal are decent human beings. Who ever is saying women are mean they never approached ever. They are projecting fear
If a woman wants a man to approach her, try to be by yourself at some point in the night when you’re out! At least try to stand around by yourself and I’ll assure you guys are 10 times more likely to approach you. I find that when women are in groups, a guy will feel they’re disrupting their conversation and it also gives the impression the women just want talk to each with no interest in meeting new people.
These are some great points. It is 10x times more intimidating for a man to approach a woman when she's surrounded by a tribe of girlfriends. Do you think men still approach in real life or that's just online these days?
I’m the kind of guy that prefers to approach in person. I don’t do it often, but the online dating is too passive. Frankly I think it’s emasculating and weak for men to use apps to meet women. Men need to sack up and talk to women they find attractive. I can care less if a woman rejects me. I just move on to the next one. They’re soooo many attractive women out there that there’s no reason to get upset. You just need one to say yes.
The beginning and ending of it is that women think men only have the emotional capacity of a golden retriever dog. That rejection, hurt, pain don't effect us, that we're this stoic granite block of toughness. We have the same capacity to feel the same highs and lows, the only difference is men have to wear a body armour of ease, indifference and calm. If we display certain emotions you could be seen as erratic and even unhinged. This is why we resort to alcohol to get out of this body armour as this starts to become who you are. The moment women respect that men have the same array of emotions we might have some success.
Men need a clear signal from the girl to approach. If a man looks at you often, he finds you attractive. For the women: the ball is yours to kick if you like him too. Not just a glance in his direction or a vague signal. Men need a strong, clear signal to approach you because we often assume you don't like us. It's that simple!
I'm a guy who somehow came across your video. Imma give my piece and head off: A lot of us men may look and all that and still won't approach because a number of us have had atrocious and awful experiences with women. I've been massively burned a number of times by members of your gender. I've been lied to, manipulated, and have been attacked dozens of times by your fellow women because I don't fit the mold of what those women expect in a man. So I personally dont give enough a shit to bother approaching anymore. I'm done being burnt and emotionally harmed.
I am sorry this has been your experience. Yes, there are all kinds of women out there. However, some men also let women walk all over them. You have to stand up for yourself and tell a woman when she's out of line, dont let her treat you like a doormat. However, there are some good ones out there as well. I hope you meet one
You allowed your self to be lied to. Your a grown adult male no one forced you do things you didn't want to do. You allowed people to manipulate you and disrespect you. So instead you become bitter instead of taking ownership of your own mistakes. The mistake was all your. You allowed bad people in to your life, allowed them to take advantage of you, allowed them to walk all over you. So blame yourself and learn from your mistakes that's how you grow 💯
Hi 😊 I think it makes a massive difference when you change your focus. Instead of thinking how can you come across as less awkward or more interesting, focus on the person in front of you. Their likes, dislikes, their eye colour? Anything you can think of that will get you out of your head. I have a video on where you can meet people. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/lzgxLn2lrTc/w-d-xo.html
Don't waste your breath. If you want a man, tell him. Problem solved. Don't wait to be asked. That bloom won't last forever and it's already half-gone.
@@IevaKambarovaite Lol the point that I need to go out more alone, not be on my phone, be more approachable. I have been single for a long time now but I am terrified of going out alone and I still expect to meet people that way. I need to change my ways first in order for men to be able to approach me more easily!
@@mariana-camargo that's right! Date yourself. Start with small coffee dates alone, then book a dinner somewhere nice. Wear your best dress 👗😍 and don't use your phone. Allow yourself to just be even if it feels extremely uncomfortable to begin with
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I think it will be really good for me to get more comfortable about approaching women but it seems like you have to do it a lot more than other methods before you get anything out of it and most women in public don’t want to be approached.
I am super in favor of equality and feminism and this is an aspect of traditional society where men have a disadvantage. We should not expect that only men have to initiate everything and win over the woman
Some great points, Alex. I can only imagine how uncomfortable it is for a man to approach a woman knowing that it's very likely that you may be rejected.
I think we can all do better and treat each other with more recpect. Take women down the pedestal. They're just as confused and clueless as you 😉
I am not. I want men to approach me. I don’t want to initiate. It feels unnatural to me.
@@WhenAphroditeSpeaks same, but I guess we could drop a handkerchief to give that green light
@@IevaKambarovaite yes, that we can do!
I've seen trash videos on this topic but this one I saw is actually real, and they don't see the real ones (only 2k views) on such a genuine and true video
Thank you so much for saying that. I often wonder if I should keep making them as I don't seem to get that much traction. What did you like about it? :)
I’m much more likely to approach a beautiful woman that is by herself than an average looking woman in a group, not for fear of rejection, but for fear of interfering and disrupting their conversation which would seem rude and annoying to them, particularly if they are not interested in me.
I been cold approaching since 1996. I never used online dating. Cold approach is the best way to meet women. Most women who are goings to reject are nice about it. Very few bad rejection 2%. Very few. Most women are polite and respectful. Cold approach is not harrassment as long the person is respectful and takes no for answer. Back in the 90s everybody was Cold approaching. Now in 2024 maybe 5% of men cold approach. Technology changed the world
Why do you think so many men complain that every woman has been so rude to them and mean, when you have never experienced that? Do you think they are doing something wrong in the approach?
@@Emmm-ii6tx I experienced rudeness , not alot. Most personal are decent human beings. Who ever is saying women are mean they never approached ever. They are projecting fear
@@lalosalamanca8574that makes sense thanks!
Makes sense to give men opportunities to approach women by going out by themselves.
If a woman wants a man to approach her, try to be by yourself at some point in the night when you’re out! At least try to stand around by yourself and I’ll assure you guys are 10 times more likely to approach you.
I find that when women are in groups, a guy will feel they’re disrupting their conversation and it also gives the impression the women just want talk to each with no interest in meeting new people.
These are some great points. It is 10x times more intimidating for a man to approach a woman when she's surrounded by a tribe of girlfriends. Do you think men still approach in real life or that's just online these days?
I’m the kind of guy that prefers to approach in person. I don’t do it often, but the online dating is too passive. Frankly I think it’s emasculating and weak for men to use apps to meet women. Men need to sack up and talk to women they find attractive. I can care less if a woman rejects me. I just move on to the next one. They’re soooo many attractive women out there that there’s no reason to get upset. You just need one to say yes.
I love this!! Good for you! Have you always found it easy approaching women?
@@IevaKambarovaite It’s not easy at all! That’s why few men do it. It takes courage, confidence and social skills.
The beginning and ending of it is that women think men only have the emotional capacity of a golden retriever dog. That rejection, hurt, pain don't effect us, that we're this stoic granite block of toughness. We have the same capacity to feel the same highs and lows, the only difference is men have to wear a body armour of ease, indifference and calm. If we display certain emotions you could be seen as erratic and even unhinged. This is why we resort to alcohol to get out of this body armour as this starts to become who you are. The moment women respect that men have the same array of emotions we might have some success.
Men need a clear signal from the girl to approach. If a man looks at you often, he finds you attractive. For the women: the ball is yours to kick if you like him too. Not just a glance in his direction or a vague signal. Men need a strong, clear signal to approach you because we often assume you don't like us. It's that simple!
I'm a guy who somehow came across your video. Imma give my piece and head off:
A lot of us men may look and all that and still won't approach because a number of us have had atrocious and awful experiences with women. I've been massively burned a number of times by members of your gender. I've been lied to, manipulated, and have been attacked dozens of times by your fellow women because I don't fit the mold of what those women expect in a man.
So I personally dont give enough a shit to bother approaching anymore. I'm done being burnt and emotionally harmed.
I am sorry this has been your experience. Yes, there are all kinds of women out there. However, some men also let women walk all over them. You have to stand up for yourself and tell a woman when she's out of line, dont let her treat you like a doormat. However, there are some good ones out there as well. I hope you meet one
You allowed your self to be lied to. Your a grown adult male no one forced you do things you didn't want to do. You allowed people to manipulate you and disrespect you. So instead you become bitter instead of taking ownership of your own mistakes. The mistake was all your. You allowed bad people in to your life, allowed them to take advantage of you, allowed them to walk all over you. So blame yourself and learn from your mistakes that's how you grow 💯
You've put it way better than I could. I'm less direct 😊
@@lalosalamanca8574 you’re blaming the victim…..
@@Rosie82333 the victim is stupid it's his fault
Small steps, right? Not a whole second, just a split second.
Yes, darling.. We know about baby steps
Do you have any advice or knowledge for socially awkward women??
Hi 😊 I think it makes a massive difference when you change your focus. Instead of thinking how can you come across as less awkward or more interesting, focus on the person in front of you. Their likes, dislikes, their eye colour?
Anything you can think of that will get you out of your head.
I have a video on where you can meet people. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/lzgxLn2lrTc/w-d-xo.html
Yes, and I know first, how often men approach on the street. Yes, people. Men approach’s her all the time!!!
It must be florals.. Who knew?? 😉🌺
Don't waste your breath. If you want a man, tell him. Problem solved. Don't wait to be asked. That bloom won't last forever and it's already half-gone.
So funny… Uhu… that one
I'm just preparing for my monetisation one day 😁😂😂
Beautiful insideout! Whether in a floral dress or fluffy jumper 🙏❤
That's so very kind of you. Thank you so much 💕
Awesome video never thought about it that way but its very true! Thank you!
I wonder which point you mean 😉
@@IevaKambarovaite Lol the point that I need to go out more alone, not be on my phone, be more approachable. I have been single for a long time now but I am terrified of going out alone and I still expect to meet people that way. I need to change my ways first in order for men to be able to approach me more easily!
@@mariana-camargo that's right! Date yourself. Start with small coffee dates alone, then book a dinner somewhere nice. Wear your best dress 👗😍 and don't use your phone. Allow yourself to just be even if it feels extremely uncomfortable to begin with
@@IevaKambarovaite thank you so much!
I know why I'm not approached, because I'm not good enough for men... :(
I'm very sorry this is how you fell. What makes you think you're not enough?
Maybe you have a rb.f