I don't usually comment, but I came here to say to please audition for the musical theatre course! I think the regret of not trying will be far greater than the pain of not getting in. Here's what you can do: find an accountability buddy, take small steps and let them help you with them (like hitting the apply button together). I'm in my mid-twenties and planning to audition for a 4-year music degree, so you're not alone in the whole creative career shenanigans. And you're never too old to chase a dream. Good luck!!
Also, record yourself while you’re preparing so you can better work on things you need to work on and so you get well used to hearing your voice singing 😅 It’s really hard but helps SO MUCH
I watch another British TH-camr who refers to his girlfriend as "the missus". Daniel could try that if he likes it. Here in the US, it's common for guys to refer to their girlfriends as "my better half" to be sweet, or "my other half" when they're not feeling it. Lol
It always makes me so happy to see that you've posted. You're my comfort TH-camr. Honestly when my mental health has been at its worse, I've put on one of your videos and feel better. I remember when I went to SitC and I met you. I couldn't describe to you how healing it was to be able to thank you in person. Keep being you!!
I've realised I'm often a 'lurker' with channels i love- liking videos and feeling feelings but never leaving comments - so the parasocial relationship is wholly one-sided. this + a lot of creators I love saying similar things- there isn't anyone listening, the hate is terrible, they're burnt out, etc, has made me think maybe the kind people all need to speak up a bit! I've always felt your content was so comforting, like having a cuppa with an understanding friend. While I also loved the 2017-18 era of the flat musical chairs and chaotic collabs, it was because I so wanted a friendship group like that, to be your age and have your jobs and make things with my friends. and now i am! it's great, but also exhausting, and impermanent. and I find myself wishing to be older and more stable because my 20's are scary! oh the irony. we always want what we can't have. Dan, your videos are just my favourite. Everyone else in these comments uses the same comfort-watch-warm-and-snuggly metaphors because they're true. Your content is totally un-judgmental and very human, in the best way. the kind people will stick around through whatever evolutions there are. Congrats on Her Indoors (love that, might I suggest a term from my Aussie boyfriend: The Missus), and please go for the masters. I said it to my boyfriend yesterday and I'm saying it here too: the time will pass anyway! I'm applying for postgrad for the same reason! Happy Holidays, it's always good to see you xx
I seldomly leave comments, but I want you to know that you're the only creator from your old group who I'm still subscribed to AND have notifications on for. This is not a diss to the others, I just don't feel connected to their content anymore. Watching your videos is exactly like what you said. It feels like sitting down in a cosy corner with a coffee and catching up with an old friend. I'm 30 now and watching your videos is still a comfort for me.
I'm not usually a comment guy but if it helps at all, the vibes definitely feel like catching up with an old friend. I think whatever you're honest to in life, you'll attract like-minded individuals. Years of being real with us has cultivated the exact right audience, I should think. You said it yourself - everyone still here is here for you - in whatever form that takes. Best of luck, Dan.
there are lots of actors who's careers didn't start, or take off, until they were older, and its so easy to feel like it's too late when we're brought up idealising the child prodigy. sometimes we need time to become the person who can take on the stories we need to tell, and it might seem wishy-washy to say it, but if your passion is guiding you then there is more to that story... our dreams can change too... holding ourselves up to expectations of our younger selves can hold us back from seeing the potential right in front of us. the only way we can fail is by never trying :)
The old friend thing hits perfectly. That’s how it feels in that weird comfort content way. Especially since we’re from the same place, there also a bit of inspiration I get from you. Even the idea for my career came from you. Loved the update
I think it’s lovely how your content has changed and matured. I was 15 in 2015 and you mentioned about the chaos of Baking with Layton and that was absolutely the content I was looking for as a teenager. But I’m 23 now and also going through the stresses of work and life and now living by myself and videos like this are so much more comforting and relatable than the videos I was watching 8/9 years ago. I think your audience has matured with you and anyone who doesn’t like this content probably isn’t your audience. But I know that I am absolutely here for videos like this☺️
I watched this crocheting and knowing full well that I do the exact same with wool as your person that you are in love with and live with - she is simply correct
In Swedish we have the word “sambo”, which means a partner you are living with but you aren’t engaged! I like that word! I also liked this video, thank you for making it
The constant feeling you could loose everything tomorrow and the subsequent worry is too relatable for me. That's been me for too long now. The last 8 years basicall? Ever since an unexpected vet bill took out what little savings I had and put me in debt while knowing not doing it would mean my cat would with 100% certainty die and we could be right back at that vet at anytime even with the meds I would be paying for the rest of his life. Before that, the worry was there but not constant. After that, things iust worked out for it to be something I feel and deal with every freakin day. I think its so ingrained at this point that even if my situation completely changed and universal income became a thing to have as a safetynet, I'd still worry all the time for the rest of my life unless I got years of therapy to work on it. The last couple days have been particularly bad. Having the fact that one improperly filed bit of paper could ruin your life hanging over head, and not hearing back from the bureaucratic that called to yell at you for something that is at least half their fault and is now the one to decide your fate is no fun. None. Sadly even Dan's lovely video style and humor could help distract me once these feeling were kicked up. I think Im gonna have to come back and rewatch another day so I can properly appreciate it.
Whether it'll mean anything coming from a complete stranger, you really do feel like an old friend. I honestly rarely watch videos on TH-cam anymore, but I always get a lil smile on my face when I see you've uploaded and I make my way over to watch. You have such grace with your words, you're talented, entertaining, and mate, you're funny as fuck!! I started watching you when I was doing my GCSEs and I'm 24 now- you've been there through a lot, and I really really can't thank you enough for just doing what you do. I really hope you go for that course, because I'm desperate to see you on stage- we all believe you can do it, and I know you know you can too 💜
"I know all of you knitting at home will be like, 'Yeah Dan, get used to it, that's how it works'" 😂 It's true, the yarn/wool multiplies! For some of us, though, that slows down once the yarn stash reaches a critical mass...
Those friends who can go months and months without talking and then get together and it's like no time at all has passed because they make you feel exactly as they always have- that's your channel and your videos. Thank you.
Audition for the course. I joined a musical theatre class this semester and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made, especially as someone who’s terrified of putting themself out there. Because of that class I’m now part of a theatre company that’s doing wonders for my self-confidence. Please please audition, you won’t regret it, you know it’s where you need to be!!!
As someone who’s gone through drama school, it’s absolutely possible to have a part time job at the same time as training, lots of people do it. It is a lot, weekend work is really the main vibe but it’s entirely possible, especially if you do a job like teaching at stagecoach or something similar that pays better than something like a hospitality job. It can be tough but it’s 100% possible. As for the anxiety of auditioning, auditioning for drama school is one of the hardest forms of auditioning you ever do in the industry, I did it for three years before I got into my BA course. You just have to have confidence that you are good enough, most of the time if you don’t get through/ get in it’s nothing to do with your talent at all, it’s more to do with whether you’re a good fit for the people they’ve already got, whether they think you’re ready etc etc. It’s basically all down to things you can’t control, same as auditions in the industry. We get taught to not think about whether we’re ‘good enough’ and more whether you’re ‘right enough’ which has nothing to do with talent and is all to do with what they’re looking for. If you know you’re good enough, you absolutely will be, you just have to go in with material you feel confident with, knowing you’re good enough to be there, and if it’s the right place and the right time it’ll work out. I’m thinking about starting up some kind of coaching for drama school auditionees so would be happy to offer any advice or point you in the direction of others who can assist if you feel like you need some guidance. Best of luck with it all, never give up on your dreams!!
After hearing some of your honesty in this, I must say, of all of that original group that I was first introduced to when you all made videos together, you are the only one I still follow and watch, as times changed I just found less connection to most, but this channel was always a nice comfort, and I've always appreciated your perspective and enthusiasm for your passions. Seeing part of your journey, certainly helped me find some of my own path. A few years ago I refreshed my look, and it was all born from a few of your videos, inspiring me to paint my nails and finally start dressing for myself. I do hope whatever the future brings, you find the path that works for you
Dan, I was shocked when you said someone publicly unsubbed because you didn't live with Dodie anymore. Reason being, I forgot you EVER lived with Dodie. Love both your videos of course, but I think I speak for most of us viewers here when I say we're here for *you*, either as fellow theater/actor aspiring people wanting to support you, or just lovers of your content here for a good laugh, a recipe (yay chill Baking with Layton!), a vlog, or a bit of introspection. Excited to see you back again
Suggestion for improvements to the hamper: make it multi-functional. Buy some butter flavoured candies and store them in there as well. So if she wants to knit, or you get a little peckish, then you can pop down to the Wool/Werther's
I've missed you, Dan! Always so good to see your face and have you catch us up on your life in your usual snarky yet heartfelt and honest manner. I would love to see you actually try your hand at musical theatre. I completely understand that you're afraid of having them dream shatter once you give it a try and potentially fail, but not trying at all will hurt far more in the long run. I love musicals so it would be super interesting and lovely to follow you along on that journey, no matter where it leads :)
Been watching your stuff since the long hair days, and it's been (sometimes a chaotic) comfort the whole time. Also meeting you at comic con was real lovely - we love a little wrestling chat
I think I've said it before, but watching you is like sitting down with a pot of tea and a new old friend. Smart and funny people talking about things they love is the absolute best thing in the world. Onwards and upwards!
I'm a sound designer/audio engineer for theatre in France but I've worked in the UK a bunch and have worked with a lot of people from Mountview and they are all amazing, this school really seems like a great place to learn everything you need to to make it in this industry. The school I did was kinda the French version of Mountview and the network I got from doing this master was game-changing, I never had to look for work after that (I know it's easier for us tech people than for actors but having a network is EVERYTHING in this business)
Your content, especially Baking with Layton, is brilliant because of the way you play off the guests you have baking with you. When you cooked by yourself, it was lacking. Not because you aren't good, but because nearly every comedy act is a duo ..... You and the chosen side-kick. Thats just the make up of it, just like your personal vlogs and monologues are great too, because the expectations of the style are completely different.
I love videos like this. I am struggling with life right now and tend to feel like I'm alone with my problems. I mostly am, but there is comfort in knowing that most people struggle with stuff.
Daniel out here looking like a Wiggly's human form (from Starkid) having a casual day at home. I don't think Daniel has watched the Hatchettfield trilogy, but I still love it! 💚
As much as I love seeing you with your friends/friend group, I follow you for you. You baking reminds me that I also love baking, your media insights always make me rethink aspects of my own media literacy, and your PMS videos make me feel so connected with the human experience. I’ll still be here watching 😊
the old friend thing hits so hard, in a world dominated by tiktok and short dompanie hit videos, I will always sit through one of your videos in full, no matter what it is because your content if comfort content, its nice to just sit down and listen to a stream of your thoughts at the end of a busy chaotic day
It feels weirdly parasocial to say, but Yeah, every time you upload a video and I hit play, it feels like a visit with an old friend. I've been following you for probably over 10 years now, and I don't think I'll ever lose interest in hearing what you've got to say about whatever you decide to natter about. I 100% feel the struggle of the stressed-anxious-busy cycle, but I'm so glad that you can find the joys and happiness that come in life despite that. I truly appreciate the honesty that you bring to your videos, and I'm so excited to stay on with you through this journey of life, however much you decide to share with us!
I've been watching about 8 years now. Enjoy his videos and am rooting for his success. Glad he's found someone to share his life with at the moment; wish them both well.
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Barely watch anything on here these days, but I see one from you on my feed and it's like you've popped your head around the door for a chat and that's really nice
"A cosplayer and a hoarder is a difficult combination for a one bedroom flat" Semi relatable since I don't really CONSIDER myself a hoarder (but I am) and I'm moving into a one bedroom apartment (from a two bedroom) at the end of the month. Congratulations Daniel! ❤
oh Dan, if you need to hear it from one more person: you are absolutely one of the most comforting presences on this platform. you've been a favourite of mine for the last 8 years (which feels like an absurd amount of time but i digress), and you're one of few from all of those years ago that i still come back to for every video. i may not spend hours every week watching content on youtube anymore, but it's always a no-brainer to find the time to sit down for a chat with my good ol (parasocial) pal, Daniel J.
You’re so real, honestly. This is why I return to you, and why I resonate with you. There’s a polish that TH-camrs scrub themselves with when they vlog which is reminiscent of the perfect IG curated feed that sometimes makes them feel like The It Girl With Everything Sorted. And power to them, honestly but I prefer this kind of sincerity. I’m a few years younger than you and I feel the tension of life intensely these days. Living is a messy, often difficult and painful ordeal, but it is equally beautiful. I’ve been watching you many years and every time I see you I wish you well. As I’ve said sometime many years ago, I look forward to hearing news of your “big break” as they say.
I love seeing you on No Rolls Barred, and great job in Lord of the Board. Hopefully you can balance that with your education goals, but if you have to step away from that to pursue the Master's, I say go for it. You can do it. Way to go, Dan!
lovely to see you again and thank you so much for the update :) that sentence "i don't wanna feel this way this time next year" actually really helped me bc it gave me a perspective and a goal to work towards feeling better in the future instead of this anxious panic to feel better right now which just doesn't work
Love you Dan ❤ I subscribed to you for you (4 years ago now, which is wild), and it's why I'm still here I'm interested in following whatever you want to do
I loved the chaos of the group videos but it was never about who it was with I think it’s just fun to see genuine friendship on screen like I still love the lovely board game series sammy did but obviously friendship dynamics change and it becomes less fun to broadcast your times together when they become more infrequent as life happens and no one is owed that. but honestly I’ve always just loved your videos because they feel like comfort style old TH-cam whilst never being fake in the way that old TH-cam often was and you’re one of the few people I’ve watched consistently from then because you just come across very authentically and it’s fun to watch!
I'm a lonely little bean and this video felt like a deep chat with someone I hadn't seen for a while. Thank you for that 💜 (Also your girlfriend / partner / person you love and live with is totally right about the yarn thing. If you can't see it then it's time to get more!)
You are such a sweetheart. Yeah, these videos do feel like a casual little catch-up with an old friend, very comforting, very homely. I remember commenting a while ago saying that I watch your videos despite not being familiar with/interested in lots of their topics (make-up, celebrity gossip, movies - sorry!) but you really do radiate this comfortable "this is me, this is us, let's share this moment of relief together" energy that I always come back to. Glad to know things went decently smooth for you this year. Let's hope you find the strength to push through the anxieties towards your larger acting goals. 💙
All i can say is ive only been watching for ten years for one reason daniel, YOU. You are all of us, you express feelings we all have with an honesty thats like a reassuring hug from my closest friend.
i feel similar to you in that im struggling with stress etc and yes some folk have it worse but doesnt stop us being stressed. the tldr of it is: got dream job out of uni, made redundant after a few weeks (thanks budget cuts), got job at cafe thats vv busy and understaffed, job hunting for a literal year and getting no where, wanting job in the city so i can move in finally with my partner of 2years. been stressing daily about it all and all my parents keep saying back is "at least you have a job!", like yesss but my hard work and effort is going towards nothing at the moment and its stressful😅 glad to know im not alone in this! sending good vibes!
Your videos are definitely a comfort to me and have been since i was a teenager in the peak sitc days. I could listen to you talking for hours and it doesn’t matter what it’s about, i will always enjoy it! Keep making content you enjoy because we will always show up to watch you enjoying your life and what you’re making 🫶🏻
I have to say I relate a lot with what you said about "I don't want feel this way this time next year". That is so on the target. That's pretty much how I feel about ends of years in the last 2 years. It's been a weird ride where I see myself not being able to find a place to feel good. In work mainly, because I know everything else will eventually happen (relationships and all of that). But the work part... It's been rough. And unfortunately without money we can't do much nowadays, which sucks. Which leads to the next point you said on the career part that you are thinking about the Masters degree but end up postponing it because of the "what will I do if I'm rejected". All I can say is don't think about it. Just do it (easy to say right?). Again by experience, I've already lost tons of time thinking about that. Sometimes I have that big drive to sort my life and plan everything, then comes those thoughts creeping in... "What if I apply and I'm rejected?", "What if I'm not good enough?". That fear of the unknown and the safety of that one thing you dream about that "it's always there" because you don't go for it and so it's a door that you don't either open or close is the worse we can to ourselves. And I'm 42. Time has gone even more on my end (which is the thing that scares me the most considering the situation I'm in and how unmotivated I've been feeling). So... Do it Dan. If you feel you want it, then go for it. Don't wait. Don't think. And also, the sooner you see what's behind that door the better. Because if it happens, awesome. If it doesn't happen, you will start looking elsewhere and better sooner than later. I took ages to understand that and now I'm living the consequences. Go for it.
Absolutely love this little insight in your life. I feel that we, as viewers, are doing life as well, and we don’t want to know all details (must say I did a little happy clap when you told us your girlfriend moved in). We’re all busy and stressed and anxious as well, i bet a lot of us ‘adults’ still need and want a ‘real’ adult bc we don’t know how to adult. I do feel a lot with the comment about catching up with an old friend, watching your vids makes me want to have a nice long chat. It brings me comfort to watch and hear you speak about everyday things. Proud of you Dan, and truly hope you get your ass to do the auditions. Don’t have a ‘what if’.
really like that reflection at the end, realising how your content has and will evolve with who you are. a very admirable trait to be able to look back and realise how you’ve changed is for good and see it in a positive light. big love for you
I’ll be honest and say that I have watched your videos less since around the 2019 mark, partially from the reasons you stated involving your friendship group and me being so comforted by you all together, but also just in general watching less youtube. but having this video on in the background whilst doing my uni work has felt like a ‘check in’ with a friend that i needed, to talk about the normalities of life, whilst also being able to sit complete silence and do the work i need to do. this video has drawn me back in, and i’ll be taking the time to do this with your content more often. aka. potentially a channel binge whilst i work at my project deadline. i can't wait to watch you more again :)
Hi Dan, It was lovely to exchange a few words with you at MCM! It's always lovely to see you pop up in my Subs! The openess and honesesty of this video is really refreshing and inspiring for someone who is trying to do the same for myself. You said it perfectly. It feels like a catch-up with an old friend!
I started watching your channel through baking with Layton many years ago, and I just want to say that you were not merely a facilitator to watch other people. In fact, for me, those people were facilitators to watch you. That’s not to say that they aren’t all lovely, but you are also very lovely and endlessly entertaining, and I stuck around for you xx
this is such a raw and heartfelt video Dan, I really felt like I should comment here, if nothing else to say that in my opinion? you would be the main attraction in my eyes, you have done so much for me by just existing; by being a role model without realising it. it probably sounds silly, but I found you incredibly inspiring the first time I saw you because you always seemed to be so unapologetically yourself, and I think that that is incredibly comforting. it's like you were giving your audience (and by extension me) to do the same. before TH-camrs like yourself, I had not really seen many good male role models that were not incredibly masculine and stuff, I was surrounded by it. and seeing people like you who are just happy doing whatever makes you happy really helped me to slowly evolve into the person I am today, to move forward in a direction that I wanted to move in, and to say bye to stereotypes. So, it saddens me to hear you say that you're only as good as your friends. because, just by existing, you've changed a lot of lives, I can only speak for me, but I don't think I'd be nearly as confident without you! Thanks Dan
I’m watching this from my covid sick bed and it’s made me feel so much better. It feels exactly like a cosy catch up with an old friend (the type of friend where it doesn’t matter how long you go without seeing each other you just slip back into feeling natural). Always here for whatever you’re up to. (PS can you please do a full break down of your sunset thoughts because I saw it in October and can’t stop consuming reviews etc)
definitely audition for the masters, i didn't go to drama school in the end but even knowing that i tried, several places considered me & one offered me a (very expensive) place that i had to turn down does really bring me comfort because at least i have my answer. also to echo so many other comments, you're absolutely a comfort watch for me & i would be so happy to see any form of baking with layton if you want to bring it back!
I will never not be delighted when I see you pop-up on my feed!! And I need you to know: your videos with your friends back then were the reason I found your channel, but YOU are the reason I stayed! I've always and will always enjoy just hearing you talk. You're humour gets me everytime! Don't forget that!
I agree with many of the comments, the Old Friend feeling is very real. I'd also like to add that I hear all my inner thoughts when you talk about wanting to do theatre. There is nothing like it, I love acting, I know I'm a great singer and theatre is such a huge passion of mine. Yet, all my life I've been too scared to pursue it in actuality (despite my mum even having studied theatre! Which honestly made it harder for reasons). Hearing you talk with such confidence on trying to go for it for real this time gives me hope that one day I will fidn the courage as well to jump into the deep end.
So excited to see you posting again! I’ve watched your content since 2016 and honestly hearing that you’re going back to school for acting is so exciting! You’ve always been such a talent!
Dan. I honestly watch you for you and your real reality. I've watched your stuff since forever! I still watch a few other people who you collaborated with in the past. I love watching how not only does my life change but so do the people I watch online. It helps me feel validated in how I feel about myself and my life. And it's all okay. I love how you're from Maidstone (my home town too). I love how human you are! Do what you need to do. I am always here if you upload, post or anything.
How lovely it was to hear from you again - chiming in that this wholly feels like catching up with an old friend! Complete with the fact that it took me 10 days to get back to this... Dan, your videos have always made me feel warm inside, and likewise caused the loudest of snorts of laughter. I feel this is because of your honesty and kindheartedness, and that is something rare in these times of short-attention-span-aggressive-content-making youtube, and heck, even in 2015 youtube! And as time goes by and we're finding and re-discovering our place in a confusing new life stage, it's comforting to hear that you, too, have changed, and yet you still have the qualities that made you stand out for us in the first place. So even if I make my way out of the depths of odd adulting and back to you way late, it's so great to know that you're there, in your own terms, as a ray of sunshine. Just like an old friend 🤍
this was definitely a nice chat with an old friend, absolutely loved it! here to see whatever you might want to throw at us, just like you'd listen to a friend tell you about anything they're excited about atm if you were to catch up with them over coffee or tea.
I really love coming here for your chill videos and for talks and learning a bit more about fun things like wrestling and movies that I would've probably never considered otherwise. It does feel like the comfort of catching up with an old friend in the best possible way!
I will be over the moon to watch anything you post. I was talking with a friend recently about how much has changed in our lives and how everyone is going in different directions, and its honestly very comforting to see one of my favorite content creators continue to share parts of his life as it continues to grow and change. Thank you for everything you do, and for just being you
I've been watching you ever since I was in highschool, right around the Baking with Layton era, and even back then, I loved watching those videos for you! Of course Dodie, Jack, Tom and the others being there too was nice, but even back then, I always loved the videos for the personality you gave to them. Over the years, I stayed subscribed, and watched one of your videos ever so often when I came out, especially the vlogs, because I sincerely wanted to know how you were doing - it was really like those others already described it, it was like sitting down for a talk with an old friend. I moved to a new city during lockdown to do my bachelors and after lockdown was over, I got into boardgames again, and found a group I could play them with, and stubled over NRB looking for some boardgame content online. When I first saw you on Board Game Club, I was so extatic. You are such a great addition to the cast, and I am so happy that you have made friends there. I was so immensly rooting for you to win Lord of the Board on Friday! I can only encourage you to apply for the musical theater course, you'd ace it I'm sure, and facing rejection is something that will hurt but can heal, while regrets can stay forever (I unfortunately speak from experience). You're amazing for the person you are, and I wish you the best for the future.
I'll be honest, a part of me watched your videos Dan because I enjoyed watching your interactions with Chloe, and vice versa. Your friendship is just so beautiful. However, I also just enjoy watching and listening to YOU. Congrats on the "ball and chain" as it were, and I hope the stress/anxiety slowly goes away. ALSO, please more Baking With Leighton ❤
I've been watching your content for as long as youve been making it. I remember you from the early Jack & Dean - sketches with that incredible Jennifer Aniston hairdo. The whole content creator group that ended up forming through those videos ended up being an incredible, heart warming time sink for me back in the 2010's. Seeing it change and coming to an end over the years was a little bittersweet but I also noticed distancing myself from the whole youtube scene as real life was taking place (school, relationships, existential crisis...etc). But the one exception is your channel...and Hazel's as well, even though she's no longer making as many videos on here. I don't know what it is exactly but there is something truly comforting and joyful in the content that you make. I love these honest chats that you're capable of having because not many people are comfortable enough to talk about these "heavier" topics regaring life, career goals or deep self reflection. And while I do miss the time you were making frequent content with your other social media (and real life) friends, I still prefer the newer stuff. It's much more personal and relatable. And whilst I don't know you as a person at all in real life, I do hope that you keep making more conent in the future. I do believe you can achieve all the goals you mentioned in the video. You are a talented person and I don't think you give yourself enough credit.
If I remember correctly I subscribed to you originally because your old friendgroup's videos led me to Baking with Layton, which I loved. From that time until now I myself have been a part of two different friendgroups that were both lifesavers and all of my heart at the time. Now... people have moved on and moved away but that's how it goes, we're all settling into a life we've chosen and that means seeing each other less. There's always that one or two people that you keep steady contact with, and it's always so nice to see them. And that's how I feel about this channel. Like other people have said, this feels like catching up with an old friend. Your updates are a comfort watch that also gives me space to reflect on my own life, and I think that comes from how honest you are about yours. Thank you for giving us that.
I said it when I met you at MCM a few years ago and I'll say it again now, your videos have never brought me anything but joy, it feels like a chat with a mate in a cozy coffee house somewhere. I was a young teenager when I first started watching and now I'm in my late 20s, I also "just want chill" and that's what these videos are to me ❤
watching this video after work was such a comfort! thanks for the content dan and thank you for giving me and the flour stannies the teenage years/young twenties we had!
I've been a Wrestle Talk/PFK/NRB subscriber for a while now and it's been an absolute joy to see you pop up and establish yourself on those channels and I'm so happy you're enjoying it!
you have one of the few channels that i will immediately click on as soon as i spot a new video. it really cracked me up because when i saw this video on my feed i exclaimed "oh hello!" before clicking on the video for you to respond "oh hello" back
I bumped into you once in fuerteventura and that vibe of “hello, how are you? Good thanks you” and this video are very similar. Just a catch up and off you go, you to your life, me to mine. I don’t know know you, you don’t know me. But these 20 mins now and then are a little chill coming together for a breath before the day keeps on going. Thanks for this one, well done you on getting it out
My husband and I love watching you and your slice of life - please know that it’s a priority for us to watch your new content and we often rewatch your older videos when you haven’t posted in a while
for all the years i’ve watched you, in my mind you have always been the epitome of “lovely”. i know that i’m going to enjoy every single video because the way you are in them is so friendly, so delightful, like you said it feels like having a catch up with an old friend genuinely broke my heart a bit hearing you talking about that comment someone left behind. the videos with old friends were fun but the joy, at least to me, was seeing the laughter and fun that You were having from being with them. it saddens me that there were people watching those who could not see what a delight you are i remember getting to meet you at an mcm a few years back (i was a very beaten and bruised riddler!) and hearing you were going to be there had me so excited, and getting to chat with you for a while and finally snagging a copy of baking with layton was such a highlight! again, i walked away thinking “he really is such a lovely person” i’ve rambled away here but i hope that this, and the rest of these comments help to ease some of your anxieties. you’re a very unique person on this platform and we are all excited to see what comes next for you! go chase those dreams!
I wholly agree with whoever said it feels like talking to an old friend, I am so here for cosy, chill vibes because it's kind of exactly what we all need. Really love the idea of starting your new year in advance too, I hope you find the push to do what you want. Biggest thing I've learnt in life so far is that you will never be truly ready, you have to do it afraid or you really will only ever wait. Bloody uncomfortable but maybe it will work out or maybe there'll be something better, there's always hope, even if a fools hope.
It really is like catching up with an old friend watching your videos! Also, its so lovely to see the community you've found with Wrestle talk/ No Rolls Barred etc. I absolutely love seeing you all have the best time
At the risk of sounding parasocial or something but I've always been attracted to your content because of the energy it gives off. I always feel like I'm watching a friend I don't actually know. I started watching NRB and was delighted to see you again in a new context. You're a great asset to the channel and I look forward to more content with you on this channel and NRB moving forward 😊
I don't understand how you don't have well over 100k. I've subscribed for I'm not even sure how many years now, and while I did find you through the group you spent time with at that time, I stayed for you. I love your humor, I love the style of video you make, I find your opinions and deep dives into various topics fascinating. I'm always excited and curious, "what is Dan going to say about XYZ". I hope this next year brings you success, and growth, and peace of mind; and I'm excited to be along for the journey. ❤️
Dan, your videos have been so important to me for so long. I don’t think anyone on this app has made a space as comforting, as welcoming and as real as yours. I really don’t have anything to say but thank you. ❤❤❤
I started watching NRB because you were in the Say Anything! Video and my god it’s really helped me in a terrible time and I’m so glad I followed you over there
dan!! long time viewer (since 2016!), extremely infrequent commenter here. just wanted to say that i’ve enjoyed your content in all the forms it’s taken over the years, but i especially appreciate your chatty content like this. i’m a bit younger than you, but also trying to turn a “hobby” (theater/stage management) into a full time career and feeling all kinds of ways about it. i’ve also been spending a lot of time reflecting on how my life/dreams/goals have changed. all this to say, i truly appreciate your honesty and willingness to share, it makes me feel less alone and helps me remember that exciting times are still ahead of me, and things will happen that i can’t possibly expect or predict. and that’s ok!! sending lots of love, and can’t wait to see where you go next!
You absolutely hit the nail on the head when you said the value of your videos is your authenticity! It's why it feels like having a chat with a friend :) I don't really watch anyone from 'that era' of TH-cam these days - absolutely no hate, life just changes - but I always seem to find my way to your channel for these catch up videos. It's like curling up on the sofa with a mate and having a gossip about what's been going on for us. Your vlogs feel really genuine and true to life, security and money troubles and the like, and it's so comforting to watch as someone having the very similar dilemmas! I hope 2024 brings you more security, less anxiety, and the exciting steps forward in your career that we all know you are capable of :)
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I don't usually comment, but I came here to say to please audition for the musical theatre course! I think the regret of not trying will be far greater than the pain of not getting in. Here's what you can do: find an accountability buddy, take small steps and let them help you with them (like hitting the apply button together). I'm in my mid-twenties and planning to audition for a 4-year music degree, so you're not alone in the whole creative career shenanigans. And you're never too old to chase a dream. Good luck!!
Agreed
Also, record yourself while you’re preparing so you can better work on things you need to work on and so you get well used to hearing your voice singing 😅 It’s really hard but helps SO MUCH
dan when I tell you my first words upon seeing this notification were "Oh, hello"
We all know that if it's not real, it's not right
100%.
My sister and I still frequently say this to each other.
Lovely chatty video 💕
Turns out all I needed to feel alive again was hearing Daniel is now living with his 'ball and chain' , congratulations Daniel ❤
I watch another British TH-camr who refers to his girlfriend as "the missus". Daniel could try that if he likes it. Here in the US, it's common for guys to refer to their girlfriends as "my better half" to be sweet, or "my other half" when they're not feeling it. Lol
It always makes me so happy to see that you've posted. You're my comfort TH-camr. Honestly when my mental health has been at its worse, I've put on one of your videos and feel better. I remember when I went to SitC and I met you. I couldn't describe to you how healing it was to be able to thank you in person. Keep being you!!
That’s very, very sweet of you 💚
First of all, wearing the crown so casually is 100% a vibe. Second of all, LIVING for the green sweater.
"I tend to call her 'her indoors' "
That is the most northern british thing ive ever heard and i love it 😭
I've realised I'm often a 'lurker' with channels i love- liking videos and feeling feelings but never leaving comments - so the parasocial relationship is wholly one-sided. this + a lot of creators I love saying similar things- there isn't anyone listening, the hate is terrible, they're burnt out, etc, has made me think maybe the kind people all need to speak up a bit!
I've always felt your content was so comforting, like having a cuppa with an understanding friend. While I also loved the 2017-18 era of the flat musical chairs and chaotic collabs, it was because I so wanted a friendship group like that, to be your age and have your jobs and make things with my friends. and now i am! it's great, but also exhausting, and impermanent. and I find myself wishing to be older and more stable because my 20's are scary! oh the irony. we always want what we can't have.
Dan, your videos are just my favourite. Everyone else in these comments uses the same comfort-watch-warm-and-snuggly metaphors because they're true. Your content is totally un-judgmental and very human, in the best way. the kind people will stick around through whatever evolutions there are.
Congrats on Her Indoors (love that, might I suggest a term from my Aussie boyfriend: The Missus), and please go for the masters. I said it to my boyfriend yesterday and I'm saying it here too: the time will pass anyway! I'm applying for postgrad for the same reason!
Happy Holidays, it's always good to see you xx
I seldomly leave comments, but I want you to know that you're the only creator from your old group who I'm still subscribed to AND have notifications on for. This is not a diss to the others, I just don't feel connected to their content anymore. Watching your videos is exactly like what you said. It feels like sitting down in a cosy corner with a coffee and catching up with an old friend. I'm 30 now and watching your videos is still a comfort for me.
I'm not usually a comment guy but if it helps at all, the vibes definitely feel like catching up with an old friend. I think whatever you're honest to in life, you'll attract like-minded individuals. Years of being real with us has cultivated the exact right audience, I should think. You said it yourself - everyone still here is here for you - in whatever form that takes.
Best of luck, Dan.
I have the same exact sentiments. Much love to Dan for being so real.
there are lots of actors who's careers didn't start, or take off, until they were older, and its so easy to feel like it's too late when we're brought up idealising the child prodigy. sometimes we need time to become the person who can take on the stories we need to tell, and it might seem wishy-washy to say it, but if your passion is guiding you then there is more to that story... our dreams can change too... holding ourselves up to expectations of our younger selves can hold us back from seeing the potential right in front of us. the only way we can fail is by never trying :)
The old friend thing hits perfectly. That’s how it feels in that weird comfort content way. Especially since we’re from the same place, there also a bit of inspiration I get from you. Even the idea for my career came from you. Loved the update
I think it’s lovely how your content has changed and matured. I was 15 in 2015 and you mentioned about the chaos of Baking with Layton and that was absolutely the content I was looking for as a teenager. But I’m 23 now and also going through the stresses of work and life and now living by myself and videos like this are so much more comforting and relatable than the videos I was watching 8/9 years ago. I think your audience has matured with you and anyone who doesn’t like this content probably isn’t your audience. But I know that I am absolutely here for videos like this☺️
I watched this crocheting and knowing full well that I do the exact same with wool as your person that you are in love with and live with - she is simply correct
This is deeply unfortunate and I refuse to tell her
In Swedish we have the word “sambo”, which means a partner you are living with but you aren’t engaged! I like that word! I also liked this video, thank you for making it
The constant feeling you could loose everything tomorrow and the subsequent worry is too relatable for me. That's been me for too long now. The last 8 years basicall? Ever since an unexpected vet bill took out what little savings I had and put me in debt while knowing not doing it would mean my cat would with 100% certainty die and we could be right back at that vet at anytime even with the meds I would be paying for the rest of his life. Before that, the worry was there but not constant. After that, things iust worked out for it to be something I feel and deal with every freakin day. I think its so ingrained at this point that even if my situation completely changed and universal income became a thing to have as a safetynet, I'd still worry all the time for the rest of my life unless I got years of therapy to work on it. The last couple days have been particularly bad. Having the fact that one improperly filed bit of paper could ruin your life hanging over head, and not hearing back from the bureaucratic that called to yell at you for something that is at least half their fault and is now the one to decide your fate is no fun. None. Sadly even Dan's lovely video style and humor could help distract me once these feeling were kicked up. I think Im gonna have to come back and rewatch another day so I can properly appreciate it.
As soon as you insinuated keeping her yarn in one hamper, I went 'Oh Dan, there's yarn all over the flat isn't there?' -- a knitter
Whether it'll mean anything coming from a complete stranger, you really do feel like an old friend. I honestly rarely watch videos on TH-cam anymore, but I always get a lil smile on my face when I see you've uploaded and I make my way over to watch. You have such grace with your words, you're talented, entertaining, and mate, you're funny as fuck!! I started watching you when I was doing my GCSEs and I'm 24 now- you've been there through a lot, and I really really can't thank you enough for just doing what you do. I really hope you go for that course, because I'm desperate to see you on stage- we all believe you can do it, and I know you know you can too 💜
"I know all of you knitting at home will be like, 'Yeah Dan, get used to it, that's how it works'" 😂 It's true, the yarn/wool multiplies! For some of us, though, that slows down once the yarn stash reaches a critical mass...
Those friends who can go months and months without talking and then get together and it's like no time at all has passed because they make you feel exactly as they always have- that's your channel and your videos. Thank you.
Audition for the course. I joined a musical theatre class this semester and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made, especially as someone who’s terrified of putting themself out there. Because of that class I’m now part of a theatre company that’s doing wonders for my self-confidence. Please please audition, you won’t regret it, you know it’s where you need to be!!!
Categorically and consistently my favourite creator on TH-cam.
As someone who’s gone through drama school, it’s absolutely possible to have a part time job at the same time as training, lots of people do it. It is a lot, weekend work is really the main vibe but it’s entirely possible, especially if you do a job like teaching at stagecoach or something similar that pays better than something like a hospitality job. It can be tough but it’s 100% possible.
As for the anxiety of auditioning, auditioning for drama school is one of the hardest forms of auditioning you ever do in the industry, I did it for three years before I got into my BA course. You just have to have confidence that you are good enough, most of the time if you don’t get through/ get in it’s nothing to do with your talent at all, it’s more to do with whether you’re a good fit for the people they’ve already got, whether they think you’re ready etc etc. It’s basically all down to things you can’t control, same as auditions in the industry. We get taught to not think about whether we’re ‘good enough’ and more whether you’re ‘right enough’ which has nothing to do with talent and is all to do with what they’re looking for. If you know you’re good enough, you absolutely will be, you just have to go in with material you feel confident with, knowing you’re good enough to be there, and if it’s the right place and the right time it’ll work out.
I’m thinking about starting up some kind of coaching for drama school auditionees so would be happy to offer any advice or point you in the direction of others who can assist if you feel like you need some guidance. Best of luck with it all, never give up on your dreams!!
Also have always loved your videos, keep doing what you’re doing gurl
After hearing some of your honesty in this, I must say, of all of that original group that I was first introduced to when you all made videos together, you are the only one I still follow and watch, as times changed I just found less connection to most, but this channel was always a nice comfort, and I've always appreciated your perspective and enthusiasm for your passions.
Seeing part of your journey, certainly helped me find some of my own path. A few years ago I refreshed my look, and it was all born from a few of your videos, inspiring me to paint my nails and finally start dressing for myself.
I do hope whatever the future brings, you find the path that works for you
Not me knitting while watching this video 5 years after I moved from tiny-town-South-Wales to the big US of A for love 😅
I was so overjoyed to see you become a bit more regular on no rolls barred. You're a joy to spend a few minutes with when you chose to make a video.
I'm still here Dan, we can have a chat. Lets face it, you were and still are real.
Also love the continuity detail of the green jumper. Classic.
It’s part continuity detail, partly that it’s just the most cosy jumper in the whole wide world
Not me watching this while knitting 👁👄👁
In her defense, buying craft supplies and knitting are two different hobbies!! 😂
Dan, I was shocked when you said someone publicly unsubbed because you didn't live with Dodie anymore. Reason being, I forgot you EVER lived with Dodie. Love both your videos of course, but I think I speak for most of us viewers here when I say we're here for *you*, either as fellow theater/actor aspiring people wanting to support you, or just lovers of your content here for a good laugh, a recipe (yay chill Baking with Layton!), a vlog, or a bit of introspection. Excited to see you back again
Suggestion for improvements to the hamper: make it multi-functional. Buy some butter flavoured candies and store them in there as well. So if she wants to knit, or you get a little peckish, then you can pop down to the Wool/Werther's
I've missed you, Dan! Always so good to see your face and have you catch us up on your life in your usual snarky yet heartfelt and honest manner. I would love to see you actually try your hand at musical theatre. I completely understand that you're afraid of having them dream shatter once you give it a try and potentially fail, but not trying at all will hurt far more in the long run. I love musicals so it would be super interesting and lovely to follow you along on that journey, no matter where it leads :)
Been watching your stuff since the long hair days, and it's been (sometimes a chaotic) comfort the whole time. Also meeting you at comic con was real lovely - we love a little wrestling chat
I think I've said it before, but watching you is like sitting down with a pot of tea and a new old friend. Smart and funny people talking about things they love is the absolute best thing in the world. Onwards and upwards!
I'm a sound designer/audio engineer for theatre in France but I've worked in the UK a bunch and have worked with a lot of people from Mountview and they are all amazing, this school really seems like a great place to learn everything you need to to make it in this industry. The school I did was kinda the French version of Mountview and the network I got from doing this master was game-changing, I never had to look for work after that (I know it's easier for us tech people than for actors but having a network is EVERYTHING in this business)
Your content, especially Baking with Layton, is brilliant because of the way you play off the guests you have baking with you. When you cooked by yourself, it was lacking. Not because you aren't good, but because nearly every comedy act is a duo ..... You and the chosen side-kick. Thats just the make up of it, just like your personal vlogs and monologues are great too, because the expectations of the style are completely different.
I love videos like this. I am struggling with life right now and tend to feel like I'm alone with my problems. I mostly am, but there is comfort in knowing that most people struggle with stuff.
You’re not alone!
Daniel out here looking like a Wiggly's human form (from Starkid) having a casual day at home. I don't think Daniel has watched the Hatchettfield trilogy, but I still love it! 💚
That is the display wool, Dan
But it is not ON DISPLAY. I do not understand this subculture.
As much as I love seeing you with your friends/friend group, I follow you for you. You baking reminds me that I also love baking, your media insights always make me rethink aspects of my own media literacy, and your PMS videos make me feel so connected with the human experience. I’ll still be here watching 😊
the old friend thing hits so hard, in a world dominated by tiktok and short dompanie hit videos, I will always sit through one of your videos in full, no matter what it is because your content if comfort content, its nice to just sit down and listen to a stream of your thoughts at the end of a busy chaotic day
It feels weirdly parasocial to say, but Yeah, every time you upload a video and I hit play, it feels like a visit with an old friend. I've been following you for probably over 10 years now, and I don't think I'll ever lose interest in hearing what you've got to say about whatever you decide to natter about. I 100% feel the struggle of the stressed-anxious-busy cycle, but I'm so glad that you can find the joys and happiness that come in life despite that. I truly appreciate the honesty that you bring to your videos, and I'm so excited to stay on with you through this journey of life, however much you decide to share with us!
I've been watching about 8 years now. Enjoy his videos and am rooting for his success. Glad he's found someone to share his life with at the moment; wish them both well.
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Barely watch anything on here these days, but I see one from you on my feed and it's like you've popped your head around the door for a chat and that's really nice
"A cosplayer and a hoarder is a difficult combination for a one bedroom flat"
Semi relatable since I don't really CONSIDER myself a hoarder (but I am) and I'm moving into a one bedroom apartment (from a two bedroom) at the end of the month.
Congratulations Daniel!
❤
oh Dan, if you need to hear it from one more person: you are absolutely one of the most comforting presences on this platform. you've been a favourite of mine for the last 8 years (which feels like an absurd amount of time but i digress), and you're one of few from all of those years ago that i still come back to for every video. i may not spend hours every week watching content on youtube anymore, but it's always a no-brainer to find the time to sit down for a chat with my good ol (parasocial) pal, Daniel J.
You’re so real, honestly. This is why I return to you, and why I resonate with you. There’s a polish that TH-camrs scrub themselves with when they vlog which is reminiscent of the perfect IG curated feed that sometimes makes them feel like The It Girl With Everything Sorted. And power to them, honestly but I prefer this kind of sincerity. I’m a few years younger than you and I feel the tension of life intensely these days. Living is a messy, often difficult and painful ordeal, but it is equally beautiful. I’ve been watching you many years and every time I see you I wish you well. As I’ve said sometime many years ago, I look forward to hearing news of your “big break” as they say.
Also, love, I truly never cared about who you lived with or filmed with!!! Bless them but I am and have been here for Daniel J!
I love seeing you on No Rolls Barred, and great job in Lord of the Board. Hopefully you can balance that with your education goals, but if you have to step away from that to pursue the Master's, I say go for it. You can do it. Way to go, Dan!
I need to win the sceptre next year, so…
lovely to see you again and thank you so much for the update :) that sentence "i don't wanna feel this way this time next year" actually really helped me bc it gave me a perspective and a goal to work towards feeling better in the future instead of this anxious panic to feel better right now which just doesn't work
As you said “I could be better but I’m alright” I was like that’s such a northern trait 🤣
Love you Dan ❤
I subscribed to you for you (4 years ago now, which is wild), and it's why I'm still here
I'm interested in following whatever you want to do
I loved the chaos of the group videos but it was never about who it was with I think it’s just fun to see genuine friendship on screen like I still love the lovely board game series sammy did but obviously friendship dynamics change and it becomes less fun to broadcast your times together when they become more infrequent as life happens and no one is owed that. but honestly I’ve always just loved your videos because they feel like comfort style old TH-cam whilst never being fake in the way that old TH-cam often was and you’re one of the few people I’ve watched consistently from then because you just come across very authentically and it’s fun to watch!
I'm a lonely little bean and this video felt like a deep chat with someone I hadn't seen for a while. Thank you for that 💜 (Also your girlfriend / partner / person you love and live with is totally right about the yarn thing. If you can't see it then it's time to get more!)
You are such a sweetheart. Yeah, these videos do feel like a casual little catch-up with an old friend, very comforting, very homely. I remember commenting a while ago saying that I watch your videos despite not being familiar with/interested in lots of their topics (make-up, celebrity gossip, movies - sorry!) but you really do radiate this comfortable "this is me, this is us, let's share this moment of relief together" energy that I always come back to. Glad to know things went decently smooth for you this year. Let's hope you find the strength to push through the anxieties towards your larger acting goals. 💙
All i can say is ive only been watching for ten years for one reason daniel, YOU.
You are all of us, you express feelings we all have with an honesty thats like a reassuring hug from my closest friend.
94.1k subscribers as of now (approaching your 100k goal), and the massive massive win of starting your masters - congrats dan!!! 🎉
i feel similar to you in that im struggling with stress etc and yes some folk have it worse but doesnt stop us being stressed.
the tldr of it is: got dream job out of uni, made redundant after a few weeks (thanks budget cuts), got job at cafe thats vv busy and understaffed, job hunting for a literal year and getting no where, wanting job in the city so i can move in finally with my partner of 2years. been stressing daily about it all and all my parents keep saying back is "at least you have a job!", like yesss but my hard work and effort is going towards nothing at the moment and its stressful😅
glad to know im not alone in this! sending good vibes!
Your videos are definitely a comfort to me and have been since i was a teenager in the peak sitc days. I could listen to you talking for hours and it doesn’t matter what it’s about, i will always enjoy it! Keep making content you enjoy because we will always show up to watch you enjoying your life and what you’re making 🫶🏻
Thankyou for this honest chit chat. Please please fight through the fear and audition. That much passion needs to be honoured.
I have to say I relate a lot with what you said about "I don't want feel this way this time next year". That is so on the target. That's pretty much how I feel about ends of years in the last 2 years. It's been a weird ride where I see myself not being able to find a place to feel good. In work mainly, because I know everything else will eventually happen (relationships and all of that). But the work part... It's been rough. And unfortunately without money we can't do much nowadays, which sucks.
Which leads to the next point you said on the career part that you are thinking about the Masters degree but end up postponing it because of the "what will I do if I'm rejected". All I can say is don't think about it. Just do it (easy to say right?). Again by experience, I've already lost tons of time thinking about that. Sometimes I have that big drive to sort my life and plan everything, then comes those thoughts creeping in... "What if I apply and I'm rejected?", "What if I'm not good enough?". That fear of the unknown and the safety of that one thing you dream about that "it's always there" because you don't go for it and so it's a door that you don't either open or close is the worse we can to ourselves. And I'm 42. Time has gone even more on my end (which is the thing that scares me the most considering the situation I'm in and how unmotivated I've been feeling).
So... Do it Dan. If you feel you want it, then go for it. Don't wait. Don't think. And also, the sooner you see what's behind that door the better. Because if it happens, awesome. If it doesn't happen, you will start looking elsewhere and better sooner than later. I took ages to understand that and now I'm living the consequences. Go for it.
Absolutely love this little insight in your life. I feel that we, as viewers, are doing life as well, and we don’t want to know all details (must say I did a little happy clap when you told us your girlfriend moved in). We’re all busy and stressed and anxious as well, i bet a lot of us ‘adults’ still need and want a ‘real’ adult bc we don’t know how to adult. I do feel a lot with the comment about catching up with an old friend, watching your vids makes me want to have a nice long chat. It brings me comfort to watch and hear you speak about everyday things. Proud of you Dan, and truly hope you get your ass to do the auditions. Don’t have a ‘what if’.
really like that reflection at the end, realising how your content has and will evolve with who you are. a very admirable trait to be able to look back and realise how you’ve changed is for good and see it in a positive light. big love for you
I’ll be honest and say that I have watched your videos less since around the 2019 mark, partially from the reasons you stated involving your friendship group and me being so comforted by you all together, but also just in general watching less youtube. but having this video on in the background whilst doing my uni work has felt like a ‘check in’ with a friend that i needed, to talk about the normalities of life, whilst also being able to sit complete silence and do the work i need to do. this video has drawn me back in, and i’ll be taking the time to do this with your content more often. aka. potentially a channel binge whilst i work at my project deadline. i can't wait to watch you more again :)
Hi Dan, It was lovely to exchange a few words with you at MCM!
It's always lovely to see you pop up in my Subs! The openess and honesesty of this video is really refreshing and inspiring for someone who is trying to do the same for myself.
You said it perfectly. It feels like a catch-up with an old friend!
I started watching your channel through baking with Layton many years ago, and I just want to say that you were not merely a facilitator to watch other people. In fact, for me, those people were facilitators to watch you. That’s not to say that they aren’t all lovely, but you are also very lovely and endlessly entertaining, and I stuck around for you xx
this is such a raw and heartfelt video Dan, I really felt like I should comment here, if nothing else to say that in my opinion?
you would be the main attraction in my eyes, you have done so much for me by just existing; by being a role model without realising it.
it probably sounds silly, but I found you incredibly inspiring the first time I saw you because you always seemed to be so unapologetically yourself, and I think that that is incredibly comforting. it's like you were giving your audience (and by extension me) to do the same.
before TH-camrs like yourself, I had not really seen many good male role models that were not incredibly masculine and stuff, I was surrounded by it. and seeing people like you who are just happy doing whatever makes you happy really helped me to slowly evolve into the person I am today, to move forward in a direction that I wanted to move in, and to say bye to stereotypes.
So, it saddens me to hear you say that you're only as good as your friends. because, just by existing, you've changed a lot of lives, I can only speak for me, but I don't think I'd be nearly as confident without you!
Thanks Dan
I’m watching this from my covid sick bed and it’s made me feel so much better.
It feels exactly like a cosy catch up with an old friend (the type of friend where it doesn’t matter how long you go without seeing each other you just slip back into feeling natural). Always here for whatever you’re up to.
(PS can you please do a full break down of your sunset thoughts because I saw it in October and can’t stop consuming reviews etc)
I will once I’ve seen it two and then maybe three more times
definitely audition for the masters, i didn't go to drama school in the end but even knowing that i tried, several
places considered me & one offered me a (very expensive) place that i had to turn down does really bring me comfort because at least i have my answer.
also to echo so many other comments, you're absolutely a comfort watch for me & i would be so happy to see any form of baking with layton if you want to bring it back!
You are the only TH-camr I still watch, all these years later. Wherever you're at, whenever you upload next, we'll be waiting and cheering you on
I will never not be delighted when I see you pop-up on my feed!!
And I need you to know: your videos with your friends back then were the reason I found your channel, but YOU are the reason I stayed! I've always and will always enjoy just hearing you talk. You're humour gets me everytime! Don't forget that!
thanks for hanging out, Dan. always lovely to have a chat with you💖 wishing all of this and more for you in the new year!
I agree with many of the comments, the Old Friend feeling is very real.
I'd also like to add that I hear all my inner thoughts when you talk about wanting to do theatre. There is nothing like it, I love acting, I know I'm a great singer and theatre is such a huge passion of mine. Yet, all my life I've been too scared to pursue it in actuality (despite my mum even having studied theatre! Which honestly made it harder for reasons). Hearing you talk with such confidence on trying to go for it for real this time gives me hope that one day I will fidn the courage as well to jump into the deep end.
So excited to see you posting again! I’ve watched your content since 2016 and honestly hearing that you’re going back to school for acting is so exciting! You’ve always been such a talent!
Dan. I honestly watch you for you and your real reality. I've watched your stuff since forever! I still watch a few other people who you collaborated with in the past. I love watching how not only does my life change but so do the people I watch online. It helps me feel validated in how I feel about myself and my life. And it's all okay. I love how you're from Maidstone (my home town too). I love how human you are! Do what you need to do. I am always here if you upload, post or anything.
Thank you loads 😊
How lovely it was to hear from you again - chiming in that this wholly feels like catching up with an old friend! Complete with the fact that it took me 10 days to get back to this...
Dan, your videos have always made me feel warm inside, and likewise caused the loudest of snorts of laughter. I feel this is because of your honesty and kindheartedness, and that is something rare in these times of short-attention-span-aggressive-content-making youtube, and heck, even in 2015 youtube! And as time goes by and we're finding and re-discovering our place in a confusing new life stage, it's comforting to hear that you, too, have changed, and yet you still have the qualities that made you stand out for us in the first place. So even if I make my way out of the depths of odd adulting and back to you way late, it's so great to know that you're there, in your own terms, as a ray of sunshine. Just like an old friend 🤍
this was definitely a nice chat with an old friend, absolutely loved it! here to see whatever you might want to throw at us, just like you'd listen to a friend tell you about anything they're excited about atm if you were to catch up with them over coffee or tea.
I really love coming here for your chill videos and for talks and learning a bit more about fun things like wrestling and movies that I would've probably never considered otherwise. It does feel like the comfort of catching up with an old friend in the best possible way!
I will be over the moon to watch anything you post. I was talking with a friend recently about how much has changed in our lives and how everyone is going in different directions, and its honestly very comforting to see one of my favorite content creators continue to share parts of his life as it continues to grow and change. Thank you for everything you do, and for just being you
I've been watching you ever since I was in highschool, right around the Baking with Layton era, and even back then, I loved watching those videos for you! Of course Dodie, Jack, Tom and the others being there too was nice, but even back then, I always loved the videos for the personality you gave to them. Over the years, I stayed subscribed, and watched one of your videos ever so often when I came out, especially the vlogs, because I sincerely wanted to know how you were doing - it was really like those others already described it, it was like sitting down for a talk with an old friend. I moved to a new city during lockdown to do my bachelors and after lockdown was over, I got into boardgames again, and found a group I could play them with, and stubled over NRB looking for some boardgame content online. When I first saw you on Board Game Club, I was so extatic. You are such a great addition to the cast, and I am so happy that you have made friends there. I was so immensly rooting for you to win Lord of the Board on Friday! I can only encourage you to apply for the musical theater course, you'd ace it I'm sure, and facing rejection is something that will hurt but can heal, while regrets can stay forever (I unfortunately speak from experience). You're amazing for the person you are, and I wish you the best for the future.
I'll be honest, a part of me watched your videos Dan because I enjoyed watching your interactions with Chloe, and vice versa. Your friendship is just so beautiful. However, I also just enjoy watching and listening to YOU. Congrats on the "ball and chain" as it were, and I hope the stress/anxiety slowly goes away.
ALSO, please more Baking With Leighton ❤
I've been watching your content for as long as youve been making it. I remember you from the early Jack & Dean - sketches with that incredible Jennifer Aniston hairdo. The whole content creator group that ended up forming through those videos ended up being an incredible, heart warming time sink for me back in the 2010's. Seeing it change and coming to an end over the years was a little bittersweet but I also noticed distancing myself from the whole youtube scene as real life was taking place (school, relationships, existential crisis...etc). But the one exception is your channel...and Hazel's as well, even though she's no longer making as many videos on here. I don't know what it is exactly but there is something truly comforting and joyful in the content that you make. I love these honest chats that you're capable of having because not many people are comfortable enough to talk about these "heavier" topics regaring life, career goals or deep self reflection. And while I do miss the time you were making frequent content with your other social media (and real life) friends, I still prefer the newer stuff. It's much more personal and relatable. And whilst I don't know you as a person at all in real life, I do hope that you keep making more conent in the future. I do believe you can achieve all the goals you mentioned in the video. You are a talented person and I don't think you give yourself enough credit.
If I remember correctly I subscribed to you originally because your old friendgroup's videos led me to Baking with Layton, which I loved. From that time until now I myself have been a part of two different friendgroups that were both lifesavers and all of my heart at the time. Now... people have moved on and moved away but that's how it goes, we're all settling into a life we've chosen and that means seeing each other less. There's always that one or two people that you keep steady contact with, and it's always so nice to see them.
And that's how I feel about this channel. Like other people have said, this feels like catching up with an old friend. Your updates are a comfort watch that also gives me space to reflect on my own life, and I think that comes from how honest you are about yours. Thank you for giving us that.
I said it when I met you at MCM a few years ago and I'll say it again now, your videos have never brought me anything but joy, it feels like a chat with a mate in a cozy coffee house somewhere. I was a young teenager when I first started watching and now I'm in my late 20s, I also "just want chill" and that's what these videos are to me ❤
watching this video after work was such a comfort! thanks for the content dan and thank you for giving me and the flour stannies the teenage years/young twenties we had!
Shame you’re all COVERED in flour to this day
@@DanLayton iconic times truly.
I've been a Wrestle Talk/PFK/NRB subscriber for a while now and it's been an absolute joy to see you pop up and establish yourself on those channels and I'm so happy you're enjoying it!
you have one of the few channels that i will immediately click on as soon as i spot a new video. it really cracked me up because when i saw this video on my feed i exclaimed "oh hello!" before clicking on the video for you to respond "oh hello" back
I bumped into you once in fuerteventura and that vibe of “hello, how are you? Good thanks you” and this video are very similar. Just a catch up and off you go, you to your life, me to mine.
I don’t know know you, you don’t know me. But these 20 mins now and then are a little chill coming together for a breath before the day keeps on going.
Thanks for this one, well done you on getting it out
your videos are always like a nice cup of tea at the end of the day
My husband and I love watching you and your slice of life - please know that it’s a priority for us to watch your new content and we often rewatch your older videos when you haven’t posted in a while
for all the years i’ve watched you, in my mind you have always been the epitome of “lovely”. i know that i’m going to enjoy every single video because the way you are in them is so friendly, so delightful, like you said it feels like having a catch up with an old friend
genuinely broke my heart a bit hearing you talking about that comment someone left behind. the videos with old friends were fun but the joy, at least to me, was seeing the laughter and fun that You were having from being with them. it saddens me that there were people watching those who could not see what a delight you are
i remember getting to meet you at an mcm a few years back (i was a very beaten and bruised riddler!) and hearing you were going to be there had me so excited, and getting to chat with you for a while and finally snagging a copy of baking with layton was such a highlight! again, i walked away thinking “he really is such a lovely person”
i’ve rambled away here but i hope that this, and the rest of these comments help to ease some of your anxieties. you’re a very unique person on this platform and we are all excited to see what comes next for you! go chase those dreams!
Please take us on your journey! Love your videos, always. Never skip it when it pops up in my subscription box!
I wholly agree with whoever said it feels like talking to an old friend, I am so here for cosy, chill vibes because it's kind of exactly what we all need.
Really love the idea of starting your new year in advance too, I hope you find the push to do what you want. Biggest thing I've learnt in life so far is that you will never be truly ready, you have to do it afraid or you really will only ever wait. Bloody uncomfortable but maybe it will work out or maybe there'll be something better, there's always hope, even if a fools hope.
It really is like catching up with an old friend watching your videos! Also, its so lovely to see the community you've found with Wrestle talk/ No Rolls Barred etc. I absolutely love seeing you all have the best time
At the risk of sounding parasocial or something but I've always been attracted to your content because of the energy it gives off. I always feel like I'm watching a friend I don't actually know. I started watching NRB and was delighted to see you again in a new context. You're a great asset to the channel and I look forward to more content with you on this channel and NRB moving forward 😊
I don't understand how you don't have well over 100k. I've subscribed for I'm not even sure how many years now, and while I did find you through the group you spent time with at that time, I stayed for you. I love your humor, I love the style of video you make, I find your opinions and deep dives into various topics fascinating. I'm always excited and curious, "what is Dan going to say about XYZ". I hope this next year brings you success, and growth, and peace of mind; and I'm excited to be along for the journey. ❤️
Dan, your videos have been so important to me for so long. I don’t think anyone on this app has made a space as comforting, as welcoming and as real as yours. I really don’t have anything to say but thank you. ❤❤❤
I started watching NRB because you were in the Say Anything! Video and my god it’s really helped me in a terrible time and I’m so glad I followed you over there
dan!! long time viewer (since 2016!), extremely infrequent commenter here. just wanted to say that i’ve enjoyed your content in all the forms it’s taken over the years, but i especially appreciate your chatty content like this. i’m a bit younger than you, but also trying to turn a “hobby” (theater/stage management) into a full time career and feeling all kinds of ways about it. i’ve also been spending a lot of time reflecting on how my life/dreams/goals have changed. all this to say, i truly appreciate your honesty and willingness to share, it makes me feel less alone and helps me remember that exciting times are still ahead of me, and things will happen that i can’t possibly expect or predict. and that’s ok!! sending lots of love, and can’t wait to see where you go next!
You absolutely hit the nail on the head when you said the value of your videos is your authenticity! It's why it feels like having a chat with a friend :) I don't really watch anyone from 'that era' of TH-cam these days - absolutely no hate, life just changes - but I always seem to find my way to your channel for these catch up videos. It's like curling up on the sofa with a mate and having a gossip about what's been going on for us. Your vlogs feel really genuine and true to life, security and money troubles and the like, and it's so comforting to watch as someone having the very similar dilemmas! I hope 2024 brings you more security, less anxiety, and the exciting steps forward in your career that we all know you are capable of :)
You're lovely.
You're calming. You're real. You're interesting. You're worthy.
You make people happy. You provide comfort. Be damn proud Daniel ❤ xxx