My 12 Months Journey As A First Time Mom (Storytime) |

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  • Hey guys,
    In this video I share my 12 months experience as a first time mommy, my first longest video ☺️ I did not know I could talk for 30 minutes non-stop! 😅
    The video is not only intended for mommies, so anyone is welcome to share their thoughts 😘
    I hope you guys will enjoy it, xoxo...

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  • @paulinaiitope2745
    @paulinaiitope2745 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That last part about God being in control, such a great perspective. Love, love your videos

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paulina Iitope Im glad you enjoyed it babe, thank you very much. Its appreciated 🙏🏾😘♥️

  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aaaaw, congratulations mommy 🎀. Happy 12 months to your cute lil Miss, may you see many more milestones and happier days with her 🌻🍃🍃.
    My mom was in varsity when she had me, so I was born mid-December and went to crèche early January the following year, I was barely a month old. But like you say, God has got this and only He knows how to raise and take care of his His children 🌻🍃🍃

  • @dimphothamaga4682
    @dimphothamaga4682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My partner didn't look happy as well but I guess we react differently towards certain thing plus him being chilled and calm all the time. It's all good at the end.. looking forward to seeing your videos 💕

  • @noluthandotwala8223
    @noluthandotwala8223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your labour story is so similar to mine 🙈i was induced, and also was on the as natural as possible 😊. Hooray to the first 12 months 🎉🎉🎉

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noluthando Twala we are so strong mommy, we can handle anything !

  • @LatelyMrsC
    @LatelyMrsC ปีที่แล้ว

    i have been looking for fellow mom youtubers to binge on and support,glad i found you, new subbie

  • @NthabisengEuMokoena
    @NthabisengEuMokoena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well done, mommy! You’re doing great!

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nthabiseng Eunice Mokoena thank you so much hun ♥️

  • @Charlottengcobo
    @Charlottengcobo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved your storytime, my baby is 9months and im yet to share my story. Thank yoh for sharing i looved it🥰

  • @refilwesehlake
    @refilwesehlake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoy the journey, you are doing more done fine! Bana ba Gola, stru! God, above anything shem! Magical things happen with things! God's blessings
    Happy new year and all the best with crèche /nanny your daughter will adjust and be fine 😘😘😘

  • @lindiwemarwarwa7238
    @lindiwemarwarwa7238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had a live in nanny, she was overall good with the cleaning and she was also good with my son... But the moods man 😔😥 she eventually left and I took my son to daycare (the best decision ever 😊) and I just have a helper who comes in 3 times a week. With my daughter I don't know what am I going to do because I don't want to take her to daycare early. Labour pains? We deserve an entire planet for going through that 😩😅

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lindiwe Marwarwa still weighing our options, we wanted to take her to DayCare when she turned 2 atleast, but at this stage ...😩. All the best with your little girl I am certain you will come up with a solution that best suits her and you too. 😘

  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Video request:
    I am getting married later this year and I am feeling sooooo overwhelmed and don’t know what is reasonable in terms of prices and what is not. We would appreciate a wedding video/breakdown please (ball figures, as far as you are comfortable).
    Thank you for the lovely content 🌻🍃🍃

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wandile Hlabangane hey love, I am definetely going to do a wedding video, I will do it as soon as possible! 😘 thank you for your positive feedback ♥️

  • @naadiamatsau5587
    @naadiamatsau5587 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay I loved this video! I love you! You’re so cute and real and chill. ❤️

  • @cwengakenqa6602
    @cwengakenqa6602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great story teller😍🧡

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not sure why YT suggested this video again😂❤maybe it's a sign.I'm so happy Rui and I share a birthday except I wasn't born in 2018.

  • @leratorasenyalo
    @leratorasenyalo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ousi Nthabiseng Mathole ❤❤❤ I'm actually catching up because I'm back on Campus and you know what it means , (back to WiFi😂😂😂 ) a day doesn't pass by without me viewing your instagram latests stories and posts 🌼🌼🌼 all I have is nothing but love for you and baby Rui .💫

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Better late than never hun, thank you so much ♥️

  • @thatomaitin1242
    @thatomaitin1242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There’s been SO much growth since this video 😂🥺♥️

    • @RemofilwekmNgcobo
      @RemofilwekmNgcobo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also saying same thing as I watch this. It popped up onto my feeds and decided to watch

  • @naledipetuniamaruping5741
    @naledipetuniamaruping5741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for reminding us that God had a plan when he decided to allow our children on this earth.😍😍

  • @mantitilefalatsa6944
    @mantitilefalatsa6944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this ♥️🙏

  • @athiathalia8844
    @athiathalia8844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you already 😘😘binge watching

  • @dimphomaponyane
    @dimphomaponyane 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great story time, the labour pains neh😂😂. I decided against the stwetsi situation and I'm so glad I did, I'm a loner too and absolutely love my space and making my own decisions. Hooray to 12 months🎉, mine will turn 1 on the 25th😀.

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dimpho Maponyane oh, they are just a few days apart! Well done mommy, you deserve a bottle 🎊

  • @AmandaMlambo
    @AmandaMlambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your last words🥺❤️

  • @lifewithwendy5766
    @lifewithwendy5766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love what you do

  • @felicity_kn
    @felicity_kn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May you please do any Q/A?😁

  • @refilwesehlake
    @refilwesehlake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂 Nanny, had one for 2 months then when my boy was 5 months old, I took him to crèche, 6 years later, nanny free! Healthy child no drama!

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Refilwe Sehlake highly considering creche at this stage 😫

    • @refilwesehlake
      @refilwesehlake 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      And Thank you, loved and enjoyed your Content, how you pushed ka 3.something kgs yhooo loved your doctor. Mine discouraged natural birth due to my height 😭

  • @JabulileMathenjwa
    @JabulileMathenjwa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My daughter started at creche at 8 months and its been the best decision ever. My helper quit on a Thursday night saying she cant stand me, im disrespectful. She was 50 and felt there's no way i could teach her about raising kids- meanwhile i just wanted to do things my way. LOL the balance is crazy, i use the sweepsouth app for cleaning but the downside is, we dont have a night life anymore. A nannny allowed us our quality time.

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      jabulile dube eish these helpers and their dramas, dont you have any family nearby who could be with baby when you and Papa want some quality time?

    • @JabulileMathenjwa
      @JabulileMathenjwa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NthabisengMathole we moved to CT this in 2018, so no family at all. Im jhb we could atleast get someone to babysit. But our solution for now is we take leave, take nana to creche and have our dates during the day- lol It works for now

  • @Lifewith_charlotte_
    @Lifewith_charlotte_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey love, which app are you using to edit your vids? 😘 and by the way, I love your voice hle🥰🥰

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charlotte April hey hey, thank you so much love.
      I am using imovie to edit my videos 😘 hope that helps.

    • @Lifewith_charlotte_
      @Lifewith_charlotte_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 😊

  • @gamenthubekhimakondo1366
    @gamenthubekhimakondo1366 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! Nathabi. I didn't get the epidural part, did you use it or not? How many days did you take to travel after giving birth. And how long was the distance from where you were to your mum? And was your body ok from traveling. I had after one has a baby they are stitches so I was wondering if the traveling didn't make it uncomfortable. Please answer if u are comfortable if you are not I would understand. I don't have Instagram or Twitter otherwise I would send you a direct message. Thanks

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey hun. I did not take the epidural, I went as natural as possible. So I travelled to my moms place immediately after being discharged from the hospital, which was after 3 days. Its an hours drive from where we travelled from. My body was okay from the travelling. Your doctor can tell you if you can travel or not, unfortunately I cannot say. However for me personally, it was not an issue.

    • @gamenthubekhimakondo1366
      @gamenthubekhimakondo1366 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NthabisengMathole thanks

  • @nomvulairene4177
    @nomvulairene4177 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nthabi wen is junior K coming so dat de Dr give u painkiller during labour pain 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣m dead 💖💖

  • @keamogetswebaloyi3417
    @keamogetswebaloyi3417 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Nthabi...how was the postpartum process and healing?

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey hun, I took long to recover from my episiotomy, and a few days after giving birth, I experienced postpartum psychosis. But, I had support and luckily recovered. Please don't let my experience scare you.

  • @karabonhlengetwa1108
    @karabonhlengetwa1108 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That labour story got me scared to have a baby X_X
    Good luck with finding a helper.
    PS (Pls do a video on your skincare routine, your skin is amazing)

    • @NthabisengMathole
      @NthabisengMathole  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karabo Nhlengetwa hahaha, dont be scared. Theres other options like ceasarean.
      Skincare routine is definetely part of the list 😘♥️

  • @Unathi9
    @Unathi9 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    God knew you before you were formed... By the way, Nthabi which editing software are you using?

  • @sandisiwehlengwa9788
    @sandisiwehlengwa9788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣WTF do u know about remaining calm in this situation 😂😂😂