Also I want to say both of you seems like a very nice persons, and I am sure you will find one day a person in your love life who will give you all the nice things you deserve.
As an older woman I’m so glad you ladies have figured some of this out. Men are wonderful, I’ve been with my husband for over 45+ years now but it took me a long time to find one that actually loved me for me.
Speaking from a mans perspective I actually really appreciate this episode. You two do a well job of not hating on men but just speaking from your perspective.
yes, that doesn’t mean physical things you get. It means support, care, their time. A relationship is two sided and when you give those attributes you expect them in return.
Can I have a take on this as a man? 🙂 I think the biggest problem is that right now is created huge gap between attractive men and unattractive. Really big gap between those two groups. And attractive men are way lesser in percent. Way lesser. And that is showed by various studies. Now society, especially in last decade, pushed women to the limitlles standards and expectations. Since society being already superficial, everything is based on money and looks. And those standards for women, especially younger, became unbearable. So women in majority went only for that minority of attractive men. Since women are pushed to be sexual liberated and do with their bodies what they feel they should do and not taking accountability for anything hookup culture progressed to the highest level. And with that minority of men started getting sex from huge pool of women. And what happened then? Well those men get used to it and started to behave reckless, careless, rude, disrespectful, controling, manipulative to women. Cause they know what situation is right now and they will get some almost whenever they want from various girls. You see the funny thing is that society invented some terms for various conditions of casual dating such as situationships, one night stands, casual hookups, flings... and literally every of those goes in favor of that minority of men. But for some reason that is described as one way of the women empowerment. Attractive men, known in sleng as "Chads", just embrace all of that. Lastly because majority of men, let's say, suffering "Red Pill" community flew off, became more and more vocal and created all these controversial takes which became welcomed by not just majority of men but also Chads, even if nothing of this effects their sex life. But because "Red Pill" became more and more popular everyone now hop in into their trendy train. Social medias just helped to spread their voice and went viral and created havoc between men and women.
*men cheat because sex is a unique experience with every woman and they don't want to miss out on something unique...but there's a 10 billion women on earth, you can't fuk em all 😂 every moment of life, we miss 1000 opportunities and that's how it's supposed to be. make your choices and dedicate to them 🌈 Personally, I'm like you...when I'm with a woman, I laugh at any other woman who thinks they have a chance with me 😭 like I'm invested here babe, find another man's time to waste 💃 off topic but I gotta add that I've learned to appreciate the women who live a completely different lifestyle and culture than me 👌 accepting a person for who and what they are is the true definition of love and it's the experience that life meant for us* 💜
Also I want to say both of you seems like a very nice persons, and I am sure you will find one day a person in your love life who will give you all the nice things you deserve.
As an older woman I’m so glad you ladies have figured some of this out. Men are wonderful, I’ve been with my husband for over 45+ years now but it took me a long time to find one that actually loved me for me.
Well I love you guys. That's all
Speaking from a mans perspective I actually really appreciate this episode. You two do a well job of not hating on men but just speaking from your perspective.
I just came across your podcast and I really enjoyed this. I would like if you could talk about selfcare and how to gain self respect and love.
We can definitely touch on that topic
@@livinourcrazylifee thank you
Great podcast
first thing yall say is "A BOY is someone who doesn't give me anything" damn right off the bat its what do I GET from the relationship... lol
yes, that doesn’t mean physical things you get. It means support, care, their time. A relationship is two sided and when you give those attributes you expect them in return.
Can I have a take on this as a man? 🙂
I think the biggest problem is that right now is created huge gap between attractive men and unattractive. Really big gap between those two groups. And attractive men are way lesser in percent. Way lesser. And that is showed by various studies.
Now society, especially in last decade, pushed women to the limitlles standards and expectations. Since society being already superficial, everything is based on money and looks. And those standards for women, especially younger, became unbearable. So women in majority went only for that minority of attractive men.
Since women are pushed to be sexual liberated and do with their bodies what they feel they should do and not taking accountability for anything hookup culture progressed to the highest level. And with that minority of men started getting sex from huge pool of women.
And what happened then? Well those men get used to it and started to behave reckless, careless, rude, disrespectful, controling, manipulative to women. Cause they know what situation is right now and they will get some almost whenever they want from various girls.
You see the funny thing is that society invented some terms for various conditions of casual dating such as situationships, one night stands, casual hookups, flings... and literally every of those goes in favor of that minority of men. But for some reason that is described as one way of the women empowerment. Attractive men, known in sleng as "Chads", just embrace all of that.
Lastly because majority of men, let's say, suffering "Red Pill" community flew off, became more and more vocal and created all these controversial takes which became welcomed by not just majority of men but also Chads, even if nothing of this effects their sex life. But because "Red Pill" became more and more popular everyone now hop in into their trendy train. Social medias just helped to spread their voice and went viral and created havoc between men and women.
hmm this is a really interesting take, definitely something to consider thanks for sharing!
*men cheat because sex is a unique experience with every woman and they don't want to miss out on something unique...but there's a 10 billion women on earth, you can't fuk em all 😂 every moment of life, we miss 1000 opportunities and that's how it's supposed to be. make your choices and dedicate to them 🌈 Personally, I'm like you...when I'm with a woman, I laugh at any other woman who thinks they have a chance with me 😭 like I'm invested here babe, find another man's time to waste 💃 off topic but I gotta add that I've learned to appreciate the women who live a completely different lifestyle and culture than me 👌 accepting a person for who and what they are is the true definition of love and it's the experience that life meant for us* 💜
I’ll take you girls for steak and mashed potatoes😅