To all the ladies watching this, let's learn from abo Samke, wandi, cyan, doromongy, inno morolong etc...this "life" doesn't pay. Prostitution is not as rozy as they make it to be. Sleeping with different men for money generally degrades a women and she loses value overtime. I feel for Samke and I don't wish anyone to go through what she's going through. Let's go to school, get educated, build our selves and our future, pray for right men and stop making babies with all these niggas. Prostitution is not the way guys
It’s a tough one with Samke because she is a qualified teacher and was studying economics before falling pregnant and switching courses. She is smart and knows better she just made poor choices. She choose prostitution for the fun of it and for the “easy, quick money” I think she was influenced and sold a scam by a role model, which she now realises she’s 26, she can turn it all around. Wishing her the best.
Let me tell you a story. My husband he gives me money, we have baby legit together said to me, you should be cheating with men that give you money 😊🤭. I was like, are you selling me?? 😳 or telling me to go sell? I was saved by my background and mother she would never allow me to do that. She would rather I go back home cause I’m already a woman that works for herself Let me tell you these men that give you money(some) they teach you to sell your pussy to other guys. They pass you on( wandi said it). They become pimps.
She’s so broken 💔😭. Came here after watching the clip about her mother wishing her death 😭. Seven minutes in I’m unable to continue watching. I speak healing in Jesus name.
Samke is the perfect example of someone intellectualizing their feelings. She knows what is happening but isnt letting her feelings free, the day she does that will be the day she gains power to release herself from whatever has her in bondage. Wishing her love and light.
I need to make sense of this comment as I think I suffer from the same thing. I do the same thing with my feelings, I'm good at expressing, talking but I've never dealt with anything. Highly emotionally intelligent, however never in a mode to tackle my pain
When i Was young, I thought my parents were annoying. But as I grew older, I realised how much they loved me. Right now I could never trade them for anyone. Love them to bits.
@@ZinhleSibeko-ed5jm absolutely and the type of hug she needs is prayer which I guarantee you if we all can do that for her it will reach her and be evident in her life.
I pray samke has an encounter with Jesus Christ it is only him that can help her🤞🏾 no human being can 🤷🏾♀️ it’s to deep a lot of alters and covenants need to be broken, she needs healing, she needs a source of belonging aswell as joy and peace that flows from within. May she encounter the mercy of the Lord before it’s to late ❤️ 🥺🙏
10min in and thats the only thing I could say. Only Jesus can make her whole, only Him can heal her. I pray God reveals himself to her. She’s a good reminder of why Jesus needed to die for us.
Ka nnete... This is sad indeed..We all need help but we just don't know how much help we need.. It's sad cause her mom introduced her to this as said in her previous interview with Gigi ko "Point of View"!
It doesn't sound like she's clear about what she wants. She contradicts herself a lot. Like she's more interested in saying the right things more than being honest.
Before I judge someone I always pull back and think "how did they grow up, how has their childhood contributed to how they think and what they do?" and then I take my judgement and throw it out the window because I'm not in their shoes. Her responses and her views are based on HER life. I wish her genuine happiness in whatever form it comes in ❤
Very confident in her confusion. Spiritual soul ties will mess you up, different spirits are taking over....just by listening to her you can tell ukuthi she is all over and kukhuluma abantu abaningi kuye.
Speak for yourself Samke, We are 3girls at home and were raised by a single mother. We are very healthy, never toxic and have a good relationship within ourselves and our mother too. Danko!! I wish you make use of that Degree and change your life. #Love&Light
She's glued up, she's smart. Talking about wanting to escape the matrix, she's aware of what she wants. I just get the sense she doesn't know where to start, she's lost direction yet she still knows where she wants to go. I pray for her to find light 🕯️ she's still young and can re-write her book ❤️
Lol mentioning escaping the matrix doesn't mean one is smart, she is clearly delusional. Not smart at all she talks about wanting a bmw and mansions but choose the worst industry to achieve that. Not even the number 1 xoli has a car or house.
As long as esaphefumula... there's life yet...we just need places to educate and shape young black minds. We need to accommodate the changes in society our black kids are lost.😢
I just love Samke.She lived and continues to live her life.Its her journey,its her life.I feel like she is going through an awakening season and it's pretty good to watch.I wish her the best and I cant wait to hear more of what the Lord is going to do with her life.Jesus came for people like her. As for Hazel,your voice is soothing.it has so much grace. I enjoyed this interview.
Her biggest mistake is looking down on Teachers who are driving expensive cars, owning beautiful houses and she chose prostitution lane😲😲.... No ways she's not normal. How can she talk about accountability in a relationship but she's not taking accountability of her life, mistakes, bad choices she made and her relationship with mama wakhe.
I feel so sad for her just by looking at her. Even if she doesn't say much, you can tell life is not good for her & it's throwing hands😢. Hope she gets back on her feet again. Uyadabukisa ngempela uSamke💔!
@@mphozamahlangu4371exactly. The ones who are not doing well are those who want to live a king life on a teachers salary. Teachers do a lot and more within their means. People are so ignorant no wonder these kids get pressured into meaningless lifestyles.
She is suffering from personality disorder, dependent personality disorder and addiction disorder 😢😢 she still needs more therapy. Love and light sweetheart ❤
Big up Hazel. So calm and actually letting the guest speak. The overall podcast is so chilled and mature. Not a lot going on and no distractions. You deserve to be on tv🎉
This girl contradicts herself. Nobody can save her. It's outrageous to be bashing teachers whilst looking like that. She can redeem herself if she stops blaming other people.
She ddnt bash teachers though, she just said she doesn't want to have a steady monthly income, if she would be a teacher her financial situation would be steady and not grow, she doesn't wanna live under a tight budget, how is that bashing?
@@nomangwevubooi9964well it doesn’t look like her current profession is doing anything for her. Teachers definitely look better than her with their small salaries
Pure proof that Introspection,Acknowledging and Seeking help isn't easy 😭😭...I love her, nkarii she could start acting and not speak fela!Of course when she's ready ❤Love and light upon her life.
Teachers have houses and beautiful cars. They have benefits too. On top of that, they don't work during school holidays😂. Kante why are we glamourizing sex work so much?
The enemy comes not but to steal, to kill and to destroy. Jesus comes to give life in abundance. I pray our faithful Jesus restores my sister Samke and give her a new life in abundance. May the enemy not win with her life in the name of Jesus. May she understand how loved and valued she is by our heavenly Father ❤ you are beautiful. We love you and praying for you as your sisters in the Lord.
Brutal honesty is very much necessary. This lady is 26. However, She speaks in future tense. At 26 years you can’t be speaking like that esp if she wants to retire at 35 years 🤦🏽♀️.
She's in denial with how her choices turned out bad and destroyed her bright future 😢... She doesn't want to take accountability on what she's doing her kids yet she can put the blame on her upbringing... She doesn't even look like she's doing great her physic has deteriorated, her dress code also says alot for someone that is making money they was she makes it
something is just off with this child. Like a her spirit is not at rest. its like she is trying too hard to convince herself that she loves sexwork but a part of her doesnt want that life. So its like 2 opposites are fighting. l cant explain it. And you can tell that she is not in a good financial space by her dressing. she looks like shes lost weight a lot. l pray she gets better and gets a light bulb moment to change her lifes direction
I’m not understanding Samke I find so hard to believe that a woman who grew up in rural KZN and went through tertiary can just choose to do prostitution. Most times she’s not even making sense, I believe she lacks parental guidance. I hope she recovers before it’s too late.
Hazel is good with the question 🥹😩but I feel like she didn’t want to cross question Samke .She needs to stop acting and feeling like a victim🚮Otherwise she won’t grow mentally. It’s easy to understand someone’s feelings and problems but when you comfort yourself about your stupid actions?!? You’ll never grow mentally
First time here and I just want to give around of applause to the host. Beautiful interview and love how empathetic you were towards Samke and how you allowed us as the viewers to experience and hear her story. Big up to you and the team. 👏🏾👏🏾❤
For some reason i have soft spot for her, but she is soo ill informed, teachers are doing well for themselves and she is here wishing for a bmw thinking paying R4000 for rent is doing well.
Thithis girl is broken, I feel like she is trying hard to believe her own delusions. She is definitely not what or whoever she thinks she is. Good luck to her thou.
Yhuu lapho I wish I was a teacher cos hunnie my mama built 2 huge houses, has 3 cars all paid up and lives a Hella good life. UNkulunkulu akangenelele kuSamke she's so sweet ukuthi usalahlekile empilweni but nginethemba uzosizakala ekugcineni , I love her shame
Shes indeed lost so much weight . There's so much going on with this lady and the biggest problem here is drugs . I suspect her losing weight is drug abuse.
She did say she is not generallizing. You are proving to be exactly that, because awu laleli. You are just quick to bash her. And not actually listen and chew on what she said.
To be fair, she did add that she is just generalizing (I got the sense that she was speaking based on personal experience but she is just not good at expressing her thoughts).
The girl has not learnee at all how can she aspire to run the sex agency..haayi u r a waste...de is no positivity in sex work u even contradict yourselt
Heh heh she's lost, she's this, she's that... We are not in this life for the same reason. Her soul came to do what it needs to do in this world and it does not have to conform to what we think is "right". Honest. Articulate. Humored. Respectful. She's a nice human being.
@@certifieddoeboy1746 Yes she had a tough upbringing but she has a teaching degree that change her life but she chose sex work which is making her miserable.
I like how she made it clear that she choose that industry, despite being able to do it the long way through the degree. Cause influencers don’t want to say that, they either want to hide it or make it seem like there was only one choice.
Ndiyagowa on her behalf. A reality check will do for this one. Uhamba nomoya, no sense of direction or whatsoever. Teachers are living a very comfortable life, she can have side hustles as a teacher. Who are her children looking up to?. This is really heart breaking
Just watched her mom’s interview, thereafter came here. This girl is very smart, she can be anything in life. She got high emotional intelligence such that she’s able to hide her internal pain by playing smart and being vocal. I think she can still do better, change her life for better and God will surely help her through her healing journey. I wish God may help her so are viewers who are having expertise in psychology field. There’s a lot of work in helping her to see life in different aspect.
Samke has convinced herself that she knows it all and she's okay. There's a lot going on in that head, she's in turmoil no matter how much she's out here convincing herself to be good. This is very sad but what can one do for someone who believes there's nothing wrong? She will grow up one day.
@@weirdos5243 I think because she was still a student and couldn't take care of them financially. Like it seems like she was just having these kids for fun. That's what my comment meant. Otherwise if you're financially stable e.t.c then it's all good
I like samke and I believe she is a smart woman but truth be told, teachers are living a much comfortable life compared to her. On the show she was always homeless and broke. I really pray she re-evaluates her life. Teachers at least qualify for a bond, a car and afford to live an average life.
@@BohlokoaMokakethis girl samke is talking nonsense. She is in denial all of them are forced to pretend like they love it. Only one who iss honest is wandi. She tell you straight. This is not the life you want, she wishes she could restart. Don't lie and be delusional. Change starts when you accept your truth and problems face them head on so you can restart.
It's the first time watching this channel and I like how the host handled Samke.. Honest questions to her posed with a level of respect and none judgement, despite the confusion of the answers.
I love Samke for taking accountability for the choices she's made in life. That's big of her. I was a bit confused when she'd contradict herself with some of the things she was saying and she strikes me as someone who's still figuring life. Which is understandable given she's still young and has a lot of growing up to do. Love and light to her. Wish her and her kids nothing but clarity and happiness.
Wishing Samke all the best. Big ups to the change you are making in your life. Keep up the strength and positive attitude. You are an awesome beautiful woman, and I hope people in general take a 'leaf out of your book.' May the next chapter be filled with peace and happiness and like you've mentioned; you'll definitely rise like a Phoenix. Thrive Samke, I'm definitely routing for you.
Hazel carried this interview with so much kindness & made Samke feel safe. Samke is saying alot of contradictory statements. She doesn’t sound 100% okay, I hope things work out for her.
The way Samke is reasoning, are we even sure she has a degree? And if she does have it, how can we be certain that its actually authentic? From wanting a BMW, teachers not earning enough, and her not wanting to depend on a "constant" salary to those shoes she's wearing? Yoh kuningi straight
The calmness, the intelligence, the professionalism , the understanding the host has is amazing. I’d feel safe being interviewed by her too. A job well done🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯
Samke if u read this, you're your worst enemy and you're biggest cheerleader always remember that!ama Drugs angeke ekuyise ndawo sis, ungaphiki nabangani they use u most of the time especially here in jozi people are not genuine. Kudliwa umuntu kudliwe imali.Phaphama! You're so smart but u antogonise your self and put urself down so much.. your childhood trauma and the trauma u went through usukhulile doesn't have to shape u! Its okay to be at an experimental age but always think about the outcome of those experiments. Phaphama samke!
Sonke skhule kanzima and si ryt empilweni..asizange sibheme amadrugs and asizange saba ama prostitute...yonke into oyenzayo empilweni uyenza ngoba uthanda.
She's always looking for pity, she doesn't want to acknowledge the parts she played towards destroying her life. Many of us come from difficult backgrounds, we have experienced abuse through childhood and even in our adulthood. We have childhood traumas but even with all of that we still chose to give ourselves better lives, we didn't allow our backgrounds to affect our entire lives negatively. So she needs to stop and start working on herself and fixing her life. We all have a CHOICE and are responsible for the decisions we make that affect our lives.
She literally repeated so many times that sex work is a CHOICE for her. She said she was a naughty child, she said she abused her baby daddy. Is that not taking accountability . Hayi niyamsukela kodwa.
@@Lungelo911 The problem is not her being a sex worker. Her opening up about abusing her baby daddy and saying she was naughty as a child is not taking accountability for the way her life is right now. If she was accountable the way you say she is she wouldn't be constantly bringing up her childhood traumas and upbringing for the way she turned out. She needs go get help and work on herself. She must remind herself that she is a mother to two innocent souls that will always need her. Once she stops blaming her CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS and gets help then we'll say she's taking accountability.
She’s at odds with herself. High vibrational thoughts, low vibrational actions. It’s like opening your third eye while having a clogged up root chakra.
@@NomfundoV8 meditation, positive affirmations, breathing exercises and incorporating red in your life. From red food to using red wallpaper on your phone, try see and eat red. The path will become clearer, one step at a time. No pressure.
You are such a great listener Hazel, one of the greatest qualities required to be a great interviewer. I enjoyed watching, podcasters and interviewers in SA could learn a thing or two from you!
I like Samke yaz. I watched my body works for me and I did feel that being with her mother triggered some child hood traumas and I just wanted to give her a hug man. I hope she is able to pick herself up. I believe she would be living a better life as a teacher than as a sex worker. (not shaming sex work) I don't feel she's being completely honest about some things during the interview but that's just what I'm feeling.
Yeah she needs to be honest with herself and take accountability, that’s when she’ll start healing. I feel like she’s either naive or choosing to ignore some aspects of her life. I hope she works on herself and find healing!❤️
I pray she finds God so she gets the help she needs. She just needs to kneel down and pray for wisdom so that God helps her cause sometimes all you need is God to lead you and remove you from your own world 😢😢 may she finds her true self and forget about the past ❤
This girl just brings me tears yo my eyes, even on twitter I would mention stop glorifying someone's brokenness. Samke has been needing help... This is just painful 💔
@@amandanyandeni9179 I feel like she’s struggling from the very same thing she says her mom is struggling from, being a victim in every situation. Her healing will start once she starts being honest with herself and taking accountability for her actions.
We all here after watching the mothers interview right? 🤞🏻
Yeah eish
Yep and honestly i have no words yazi...
Yes 😢
Yes😢
Yep
There is a guy who gave us a word of the day and he said ‘’MONEY CAN TAKE YOU TO PLACES,WHERE MONEY CAN’T SAVE YOU’’😭😭😭😭
Money is like a submarine …..
@nellyabotseng6096 😭😭😭why submarine!?🤣🤣🤣
😂😂 Submarine is ending me😂😂😂😂💀💀😭😭😭
That’s so deep
@@Nelly_Bontle😂😂 mfethu
To all the ladies watching this, let's learn from abo Samke, wandi, cyan, doromongy, inno morolong etc...this "life" doesn't pay. Prostitution is not as rozy as they make it to be. Sleeping with different men for money generally degrades a women and she loses value overtime. I feel for Samke and I don't wish anyone to go through what she's going through. Let's go to school, get educated, build our selves and our future, pray for right men and stop making babies with all these niggas. Prostitution is not the way guys
❤
It’s a tough one with Samke because she is a qualified teacher and was studying economics before falling pregnant and switching courses. She is smart and knows better she just made poor choices. She choose prostitution for the fun of it and for the “easy, quick money” I think she was influenced and sold a scam by a role model, which she now realises she’s 26, she can turn it all around. Wishing her the best.
Let me tell you a story. My husband he gives me money, we have baby legit together said to me, you should be cheating with men that give you money 😊🤭. I was like, are you selling me?? 😳 or telling me to go sell? I was saved by my background and mother she would never allow me to do that. She would rather I go back home cause I’m already a woman that works for herself
Let me tell you these men that give you money(some) they teach you to sell your pussy to other guys. They pass you on( wandi said it). They become pimps.
you forgot dineo moloisane.
Well said sis
She’s so broken 💔😭. Came here after watching the clip about her mother wishing her death 😭. Seven minutes in I’m unable to continue watching. I speak healing in Jesus name.
Hazel deserves to be on the big screens!! She's so good at this, asks the right questions, professional and her aura too.❤
Very True
I second you 💯
Thank you for this Wendy
Ke first time Waka ke mmona but damn, ke hooked..
Ausi Hazel is so genuine!
True 🤞🏾
Samke is the perfect example of someone intellectualizing their feelings. She knows what is happening but isnt letting her feelings free, the day she does that will be the day she gains power to release herself from whatever has her in bondage. Wishing her love and light.
I need to make sense of this comment as I think I suffer from the same thing. I do the same thing with my feelings, I'm good at expressing, talking but I've never dealt with anything. Highly emotionally intelligent, however never in a mode to tackle my pain
@@mbalenhlendimande6176same
When i Was young, I thought my parents were annoying. But as I grew older, I realised how much they loved me. Right now I could never trade them for anyone. Love them to bits.
Wish you could infest those words to my child
Same here
I thought my mom was annoying, but later I understood that she did what she has to do to protect us as her kids .
Just look what a clever girl who was supposed to teach our children but...😢
I have never listened to someone who contradicts herself like Samke,hope she heals and finally sees the light.
She is confusing
She's so broken. Lost potential.
Ayy nami angimuzwa😢
10 mins in and I can't carry on watching. I see a very broken young lady💔😭 sending prayers of deliverance and healing to you Samke.❤🙏🏾
She needs a hug
@@ZinhleSibeko-ed5jm absolutely and the type of hug she needs is prayer which I guarantee you if we all can do that for her it will reach her and be evident in her life.
We are so broken in this generation 😢......young woman....Please pray for all of us😭😭😭
Very broken indeed
This child needs a healing,pls may all of us as mothers pray for our children tirelessly
I love Hazel's questioning skill,she is so calm and sensitive towards Samke.Well done😊
Thank you for watching, happy that you enjoyed the episode
I pray samke has an encounter with Jesus Christ it is only him that can help her🤞🏾 no human being can 🤷🏾♀️ it’s to deep a lot of alters and covenants need to be broken, she needs healing, she needs a source of belonging aswell as joy and peace that flows from within. May she encounter the mercy of the Lord before it’s to late ❤️ 🥺🙏
Well said she needs someone who can stand in the gap for her spiritually and align her with the creator - Intercession .
10min in and thats the only thing I could say. Only Jesus can make her whole, only Him can heal her. I pray God reveals himself to her. She’s a good reminder of why Jesus needed to die for us.
Only the love of God can fill that gap ❤❤
True
Ka nnete...
This is sad indeed..We all need help but we just don't know how much help we need.. It's sad cause her mom introduced her to this as said in her previous interview with Gigi ko "Point of View"!
She is here proud and talkative , she thinks she is entertaining us but thina we feel bad for her. Even the Host is feeling sorry for her
Akana ngqondo
It doesn't sound like she's clear about what she wants. She contradicts herself a lot. Like she's more interested in saying the right things more than being honest.
So true
True
I agree
Bruh? 😭😭😭😭
Dude ?!!!🙌
She talks about her mom’s traumas yet she also has her own traumas to deal with and then re traumatising her kids. A cycle of generational trauma 😢
Eish true😢
Eix😭
😢
Before I judge someone I always pull back and think "how did they grow up, how has their childhood contributed to how they think and what they do?" and then I take my judgement and throw it out the window because I'm not in their shoes. Her responses and her views are based on HER life. I wish her genuine happiness in whatever form it comes in ❤
Very true
This is my favourite comment in this entire comment section.❤
Fathers - STEP UP!
An entire generation is slipping through our fingers!
It's unfortunate that in this one she was failed by the mother, the biological father passed away.
U said it 💯
what happened before he passed away?
Please pray for us😭😭....sibaningi....not just her😢
People are pitted out there....eish
Very confident in her confusion. Spiritual soul ties will mess you up, different spirits are taking over....just by listening to her you can tell ukuthi she is all over and kukhuluma abantu abaningi kuye.
So true
this got me thinking how you cut ties? how does one gain control of their full spirit? @nonhlanhlamaphumulo980
Speak for yourself Samke, We are 3girls at home and were raised by a single mother. We are very healthy, never toxic and have a good relationship within ourselves and our mother too. Danko!! I wish you make use of that Degree and change your life. #Love&Light
She's glued up, she's smart. Talking about wanting to escape the matrix, she's aware of what she wants. I just get the sense she doesn't know where to start, she's lost direction yet she still knows where she wants to go. I pray for her to find light 🕯️ she's still young and can re-write her book ❤️
Lol mentioning escaping the matrix doesn't mean one is smart, she is clearly delusional. Not smart at all she talks about wanting a bmw and mansions but choose the worst industry to achieve that. Not even the number 1 xoli has a car or house.
She should write a book
As long as esaphefumula... there's life yet...we just need places to educate and shape young black minds. We need to accommodate the changes in society our black kids are lost.😢
This gal she's narcissist. She can not keep friends
First time i watch podcasts without screaming n interrupting the guest 🎉❤
I just love Samke.She lived and continues to live her life.Its her journey,its her life.I feel like she is going through an awakening season and it's pretty good to watch.I wish her the best and I cant wait to hear more of what the Lord is going to do with her life.Jesus came for people like her.
As for Hazel,your voice is soothing.it has so much grace.
I enjoyed this interview.
Her biggest mistake is looking down on Teachers who are driving expensive cars, owning beautiful houses and she chose prostitution lane😲😲.... No ways she's not normal.
How can she talk about accountability in a relationship but she's not taking accountability of her life, mistakes, bad choices she made and her relationship with mama wakhe.
I feel like she is either having mental disability, or someone bewitched her this girl
The worst part she's been offered jobs while sitting at home but to no avail.Even as a junior lecturer
Exactly and we making a lot of money abroad, bad mentality!!!!!
I feel so sad for her just by looking at her. Even if she doesn't say much, you can tell life is not good for her & it's throwing hands😢. Hope she gets back on her feet again. Uyadabukisa ngempela uSamke💔!
It’s heavy for anyone with a conscious.
Teachers are living a very decent life.
Her reasoning is weak
To think my mom gave me the best with an educator salary
Believe me we are doing so well...thou the salary its not enough but we manage
@@mphozamahlangu4371exactly. The ones who are not doing well are those who want to live a king life on a teachers salary. Teachers do a lot and more within their means. People are so ignorant no wonder these kids get pressured into meaningless lifestyles.
She said she wants to be able to buy her things cash teaching won’t give her that, ok, what has she bought cash ie that bmw - from the prostitution?
Hazel o buwa monate, sounds so soft spoken 😍. I can listen to her all day.
She is suffering from personality disorder, dependent personality disorder and addiction disorder 😢😢 she still needs more therapy. Love and light sweetheart ❤
I had to come back here after watching her mothers episode
Same, it's my first time here as well. The host knows exactly what she is doing! 👌🏽
I’m watching for the first time to watch her mother afterwards. All families have problems.
Me too... After watching both shows, I stand with her mother.
@muzih.ngwenya9768 me too hy
As much as she cursed her daughter I understand her hurt n disappointment.
I just did that
Big up Hazel. So calm and actually letting the guest speak. The overall podcast is so chilled and mature. Not a lot going on and no distractions. You deserve to be on tv🎉
Thank you chomi 🤗🤗🤗
This girl contradicts herself. Nobody can save her. It's outrageous to be bashing teachers whilst looking like that. She can redeem herself if she stops blaming other people.
THANK YOU IVE BEEN SAYING THAT
Where I am seated I would appreciate that teaching degree she has shame
She ddnt bash teachers though, she just said she doesn't want to have a steady monthly income, if she would be a teacher her financial situation would be steady and not grow, she doesn't wanna live under a tight budget, how is that bashing?
@@tsulofelobelinda448she is delusional this one 😂😂😂
@@nomangwevubooi9964well it doesn’t look like her current profession is doing anything for her. Teachers definitely look better than her with their small salaries
As a Teacher and a Spiritual healer, I wish uSamke a complete healing ❤
how does one find complete healing?
To be honest, listening to her, I see why many bash her. She keeps overexplaining, contradicting herself and trying to justify all these actions.
And she lies.
I think she’s starting to be crazy
@@666oracle A LOT!
@@malwandethando4108 She's been crazy.
@@malwandethando4108im with you
Samke was mumbling the whole time and boom she woke up at 45:00 & came to her senses...🙌 All the best on your new journey Samke ✊✊
There’s always a second chance Samke❤ ❤️you can do this ma, keep fighting.
there’s this thing about Hazel’s voice.. , it calms one’s soul for sure 🙏🏽
I love Samke ..i hope she gets well and get her life back on track, she can work as a teacher & make a living for her & kids
I’d have lost my mind ngo Samke, I really appreciate how not judgmental the host is.
Pure proof that Introspection,Acknowledging and Seeking help isn't easy 😭😭...I love her, nkarii she could start acting and not speak fela!Of course when she's ready ❤Love and light upon her life.
What a beautiful episode,Samke okare Ntate Modimo akao yetsa kago loka❤❤
Hazel is such a lady. They way she flinches everytime Samke uses profanity.
Lol the lady who broke the internet with that D-ickle duckle😅😅😅
Teachers have houses and beautiful cars. They have benefits too. On top of that, they don't work during school holidays😂. Kante why are we glamourizing sex work so much?
Right now we are resting. Right after getting our moputsonyana, and when we go back we will get it after 2 days.
I can’t believe she said that😂😂. I earn more 80k per month and living comfortable.
Exactly, it's so weird to me. I'm all for people doing what they want. But what the hell is this? People are lost.
She is lieng she probably didnt finish the degree
@@tlotley exactly, and your mental health is probably intact, your health isn't compromised, your bank balance is on par AND guess what?? 0 soul ties!
For a new podcast you're doing so well Hazel. I see this going far. Loving it ❤
i love that. She's doing so well
The enemy comes not but to steal, to kill and to destroy. Jesus comes to give life in abundance. I pray our faithful Jesus restores my sister Samke and give her a new life in abundance. May the enemy not win with her life in the name of Jesus. May she understand how loved and valued she is by our heavenly Father ❤ you are beautiful. We love you and praying for you as your sisters in the Lord.
Somebody needs to be brutally honest with this girl... but keh we will be called names 🤐
Brutal honesty is very much necessary.
This lady is 26. However, She speaks in future tense. At 26 years you can’t be speaking like that esp if she wants to retire at 35 years 🤦🏽♀️.
😂😂honesty will get you enemies
She’s just a lost confused girl😢 painful to watch.
Hazel❤👌 what a calm lady🥰
@@thelazysnappersadly, I don't see her living passed 35😥😞God forbid!
Samke eeey i have no words! I was raised by a single father... ngi right
She's in denial with how her choices turned out bad and destroyed her bright future 😢... She doesn't want to take accountability on what she's doing her kids yet she can put the blame on her upbringing... She doesn't even look like she's doing great her physic has deteriorated, her dress code also says alot for someone that is making money they was she makes it
something is just off with this child. Like a her spirit is not at rest. its like she is trying too hard to convince herself that she loves sexwork but a part of her doesnt want that life. So its like 2 opposites are fighting. l cant explain it. And you can tell that she is not in a good financial space by her dressing. she looks like shes lost weight a lot. l pray she gets better and gets a light bulb moment to change her lifes direction
She lost a lot of weight shame ,May God guide her
I don’t know if it’s past traumas or drugs that made her delusional but I really hope she heals 😭 she has lost so much weight even
I’m not understanding Samke I find so hard to believe that a woman who grew up in rural KZN and went through tertiary can just choose to do prostitution. Most times she’s not even making sense, I believe she lacks parental guidance. I hope she recovers before it’s too late.
Hazel is good with the question 🥹😩but I feel like she didn’t want to cross question Samke .She needs to stop acting and feeling like a victim🚮Otherwise she won’t grow mentally. It’s easy to understand someone’s feelings and problems but when you comfort yourself about your stupid actions?!? You’ll never grow mentally
The mom contributed a lot to her childhood traumas.
She lacks parental guidance.
You can say that again! I don't understand a word she says. she's still a child she needs to grow up honestly
And she got distinctions but she can’t say 🤷🏻♀️hai guys
Hazel is beyond perfect with the short hair 🥺😍
Ariana what are you doing here 😅😂❤❤
Too Beautiful 😍
Samke is living in lala land 💔 she's talking about not chasing the rat race but look at her wanting a big house and car EVENTUALLY. Yoh guys 💔
Yazin uyaphupha
@@sbongilemgiba3979Kukhona okungahambi kahle ngalengane uyagula lona
First time here and I just want to give around of applause to the host. Beautiful interview and love how empathetic you were towards Samke and how you allowed us as the viewers to experience and hear her story. Big up to you and the team. 👏🏾👏🏾❤
For some reason i have soft spot for her, but she is soo ill informed, teachers are doing well for themselves and she is here wishing for a bmw thinking paying R4000 for rent is doing well.
Thithis girl is broken, I feel like she is trying hard to believe her own delusions. She is definitely not what or whoever she thinks she is. Good luck to her thou.
@@SihleMlamboexactly, she still in denial 🤞🏿
Yhuu lapho I wish I was a teacher cos hunnie my mama built 2 huge houses, has 3 cars all paid up and lives a Hella good life. UNkulunkulu akangenelele kuSamke she's so sweet ukuthi usalahlekile empilweni but nginethemba uzosizakala ekugcineni , I love her shame
She's still in denial, I bet she can see that teachers are doing well for themselves out there.
And she doesn't have constant salary you can see she is struggling
She’s very unstable, she moves with the wind… I hope she gets to a place where she can stand firm and even on her beliefs
My heart aches when I look at Samke. She looks like she's going through the most. She even lost weight.
One can’t help but feel pain, especially when you realise the potential that otherwise would’ve been.
Thinking of where her life could be had she just went for teaching 😢
My heart aches for her..
She lost so much of weight😢 I couldn't even recognise her.
Shes indeed lost so much weight . There's so much going on with this lady and the biggest problem here is drugs . I suspect her losing weight is drug abuse.
Not samke saying that ppl who were raised by single mothers are toxic😭😭haibo speak for yourself girl. Not all of us are toxic
Yey I was just like girl please
She did say she is not generallizing. You are proving to be exactly that, because awu laleli. You are just quick to bash her. And not actually listen and chew on what she said.
She is probably speaking from observation.
To be fair, she did add that she is just generalizing (I got the sense that she was speaking based on personal experience but she is just not good at expressing her thoughts).
The girl has not learnee at all how can she aspire to run the sex agency..haayi u r a waste...de is no positivity in sex work u even contradict yourselt
I might be wrong but i think she's still on drugs😢😢
My thoughts exactly. Umuntu odla izinyobisi umuzwa ngenkulumo shiya ke umzimba
She is‼️ nothing coming out of her mouth adds up
One thing: Samke won't change anytime soon. She's lost and delusional. And Hazel is confused at her responses
Sad reality.
Kikikiki she is so confused.
Nami I'm confused by her responses shem 😢😢😂😂😂😂 she's not being real I think she's shying away from the truth
Exactly my thoughts after engaging her on twitter spaces before seeing this interview
She's just lying to herself. She really needs to calm down
Heh heh she's lost, she's this, she's that... We are not in this life for the same reason. Her soul came to do what it needs to do in this world and it does not have to conform to what we think is "right".
Honest. Articulate. Humored. Respectful. She's a nice human being.
Samke blames everyone and everything but herself...
Victims of circumstances
So much victim mentality.
What if she's really a victim?
@@certifieddoeboy1746 Yes she had a tough upbringing but she has a teaching degree that change her life but she chose sex work which is making her miserable.
I like how she made it clear that she choose that industry, despite being able to do it the long way through the degree. Cause influencers don’t want to say that, they either want to hide it or make it seem like there was only one choice.
They do these days even Wandi said the same thing…
The more I listen to her the more I get concerned about her life something is off, reality is far from reaching her.
I feel like the drugs messed her mind even more. She's no longer in her right mind.
Still on drugs talking about infusions and all.
Ndiyagowa on her behalf. A reality check will do for this one. Uhamba nomoya, no sense of direction or whatsoever. Teachers are living a very comfortable life, she can have side hustles as a teacher. Who are her children looking up to?. This is really heart breaking
Yhoo kuGowa mna 😢I love her but izivunguvungu zihamba naye shame , she's lost and I wish angasizakala ngokomnqondo cos inkinga is her mind set
It's definitely umoya omubi.
Just watched her mom’s interview, thereafter came here. This girl is very smart, she can be anything in life. She got high emotional intelligence such that she’s able to hide her internal pain by playing smart and being vocal. I think she can still do better, change her life for better and God will surely help her through her healing journey. I wish God may help her so are viewers who are having expertise in psychology field. There’s a lot of work in helping her to see life in different aspect.
She is so well spoken tho 🥺 may the Lord guide her on her new journey man ❤
Samke has convinced herself that she knows it all and she's okay. There's a lot going on in that head, she's in turmoil no matter how much she's out here convincing herself to be good. This is very sad but what can one do for someone who believes there's nothing wrong? She will grow up one day.
i can't help but feel sorry for her.
I dont even feel sorry for her at this point. 2 kids in 3 years?😂😂
@@tondaniraluswinga2590lol what's wrong with that
@@weirdos5243 I think because she was still a student and couldn't take care of them financially. Like it seems like she was just having these kids for fun. That's what my comment meant. Otherwise if you're financially stable e.t.c then it's all good
She will eventually get there..She is still going to turn 21 etc...
I like samke and I believe she is a smart woman but truth be told, teachers are living a much comfortable life compared to her. On the show she was always homeless and broke. I really pray she re-evaluates her life.
Teachers at least qualify for a bond, a car and afford to live an average life.
She says she’s escaping the rat race.
I’m a teacher & I agree with the above comment. Own house, own car and a stable job.
Teachers tap in. I'm one. I'm fine. I don't go to bed without papa. Chai
@@BohlokoaMokakethis girl samke is talking nonsense. She is in denial all of them are forced to pretend like they love it. Only one who iss honest is wandi. She tell you straight. This is not the life you want, she wishes she could restart. Don't lie and be delusional. Change starts when you accept your truth and problems face them head on so you can restart.
For a pure mathematician ,to sound so confused 😢😢😢 All the best Samke.I just dont know why my heart breaks for this young lady 💔
Eish bruh😩🥺
It's the first time watching this channel and I like how the host handled Samke.. Honest questions to her posed with a level of respect and none judgement, despite the confusion of the answers.
She sounds young talking about things we all know is impossible especially for her having kids....even after 35 years...she's gonna be hustling.
Apology accepted ❤ I wish you all the best Samke ❤❤
Ulapha nawe 😂😂😂
@DarkBerry101 That’s very nice of you ❤God bless you
I love Samke for taking accountability for the choices she's made in life. That's big of her. I was a bit confused when she'd contradict herself with some of the things she was saying and she strikes me as someone who's still figuring life. Which is understandable given she's still young and has a lot of growing up to do. Love and light to her. Wish her and her kids nothing but clarity and happiness.
Oh no she lives in a fantasy 😩 with this mentality she's definitely not retiring at 35.
Definitely not😏
This one was bewitched
Eish she's so naïve...its actually sad 😢
It’s a disaster 😭
Retire at 35 then where is the money going to come from when she retires? I see a suicide person here.
Am I the only one who didn’t get the positive side of sex work😭😭😂
😂 I’m with you on that one
No you are not
Haibo same i thought i wasn't listening 😢
Its not there‼️it doesn’t exist ‼️ no positive side
I tried so hard to follow. Gave up and turned around 👩🏾🦯
Kids, don’t do drugs.
This child is so clever what happened why didn't she be in entertainment industry???
Wishing Samke all the best. Big ups to the change you are making in your life. Keep up the strength and positive attitude. You are an awesome beautiful woman, and I hope people in general take a 'leaf out of your book.' May the next chapter be filled with peace and happiness and like you've mentioned; you'll definitely rise like a Phoenix. Thrive Samke, I'm definitely routing for you.
Hazel carried this interview with so much kindness & made Samke feel safe. Samke is saying alot of contradictory statements. She doesn’t sound 100% okay, I hope things work out for her.
Even the way she is dressed speaks volumes. Who wishes bad on their kids.I mean her reasoning is questionable
She definitely needs help 😭😭😭
Must be hard interviewing someone that goes off on every tangent possible
Well done Hazel
Nicely put😂
Honestly I give her props👏🏽 angikho make sure about Samkes answers.
The way Samke is reasoning, are we even sure she has a degree? And if she does have it, how can we be certain that its actually authentic? From wanting a BMW, teachers not earning enough, and her not wanting to depend on a "constant" salary to those shoes she's wearing? Yoh kuningi straight
Hahahaha
She's a mental case !!!!!!
😂😂😂😂 am thinking gal. Shut up😂😂😂
I thought Samke doing these interviews was because she is done with that life, Kanti?
Lol why shoes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love her accountability, her accepting that she was in the wrong and rectifying her mistakes
The calmness, the intelligence, the professionalism , the understanding the host has is amazing. I’d feel safe being interviewed by her too.
A job well done🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯
She is a brave young lady, not everyone is as honest and open about their lives as Samke
Samke if u read this, you're your worst enemy and you're biggest cheerleader always remember that!ama Drugs angeke ekuyise ndawo sis, ungaphiki nabangani they use u most of the time especially here in jozi people are not genuine. Kudliwa umuntu kudliwe imali.Phaphama! You're so smart but u antogonise your self and put urself down so much.. your childhood trauma and the trauma u went through usukhulile doesn't have to shape u! Its okay to be at an experimental age but always think about the outcome of those experiments. Phaphama samke!
We all had childhood traumas but angeke ubone sizilahlela phansi 🤦🏾♂️
Well said
Sonke skhule kanzima and si ryt empilweni..asizange sibheme amadrugs and asizange saba ama prostitute...yonke into oyenzayo empilweni uyenza ngoba uthanda.
This is a whole graduate, oh my God have mercy, heal our hearts. The brokenness that is in this child only you can heal. Eyyy I'm shattered.
She cannot be bashing teachers looking like this 😢😢
😂😂😂😂
Exactly 😢
Sizalwa othisha abanye sebewo principal manje and they stil working Nathi sesize sasebenza 🤷🏿♂️ udidiswe yiGoli uSis ulizele ngobuso
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 She's making me so angry
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Lets pray for this young girl to get back to one piece she is broken.
She's always looking for pity, she doesn't want to acknowledge the parts she played towards destroying her life. Many of us come from difficult backgrounds, we have experienced abuse through childhood and even in our adulthood. We have childhood traumas but even with all of that we still chose to give ourselves better lives, we didn't allow our backgrounds to affect our entire lives negatively. So she needs to stop and start working on herself and fixing her life. We all have a CHOICE and are responsible for the decisions we make that affect our lives.
She literally repeated so many times that sex work is a CHOICE for her. She said she was a naughty child, she said she abused her baby daddy. Is that not taking accountability .
Hayi niyamsukela kodwa.
THIS❤
@@Lungelo911 The problem is not her being a sex worker. Her opening up about abusing her baby daddy and saying she was naughty as a child is not taking accountability for the way her life is right now. If she was accountable the way you say she is she wouldn't be constantly bringing up her childhood traumas and upbringing for the way she turned out. She needs go get help and work on herself. She must remind herself that she is a mother to two innocent souls that will always need her. Once she stops blaming her CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS and gets help then we'll say she's taking accountability.
She’s at odds with herself. High vibrational thoughts, low vibrational actions. It’s like opening your third eye while having a clogged up root chakra.
Well said 👌👌👌
Makes so much sense, well put! I’m at that stage in my life, how does one clear the blockage in order to put my thoughts in action?
@@NomfundoV8 meditation, positive affirmations, breathing exercises and incorporating red in your life. From red food to using red wallpaper on your phone, try see and eat red. The path will become clearer, one step at a time. No pressure.
@@danielmahlayeye4218 damn you gpod!!
Hazel, your podcast is pure gold.❤
This was beautiful to watch and listen to❤️❤️❤️. I am happy for Samke, I find her very interesting.
This was like a therapy session 😭
Exactly what I thought
You are such a great listener Hazel, one of the greatest qualities required to be a great interviewer. I enjoyed watching, podcasters and interviewers in SA could learn a thing or two from you!
Samke is a bit delusional 😂😂😂
Yho this lady is saying a lot of nothing. Host is so patient
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I love how Mahazad can ask the uncomfortable questions in a calm and respectful way... Such a great interviewer🙌... Bigups to her!👌👌👌
I like Samke yaz. I watched my body works for me and I did feel that being with her mother triggered some child hood traumas and I just wanted to give her a hug man.
I hope she is able to pick herself up. I believe she would be living a better life as a teacher than as a sex worker. (not shaming sex work)
I don't feel she's being completely honest about some things during the interview but that's just what I'm feeling.
Yeah she needs to be honest with herself and take accountability, that’s when she’ll start healing.
I feel like she’s either naive or choosing to ignore some aspects of her life.
I hope she works on herself and find healing!❤️
big ups to the host, you handle this interview very well coz hay sheim Samnke uthetha phaaa na phayaaaaaaaaaaaa
I pray she finds God so she gets the help she needs. She just needs to kneel down and pray for wisdom so that God helps her cause sometimes all you need is God to lead you and remove you from your own world 😢😢 may she finds her true self and forget about the past ❤
This girl just brings me tears yo my eyes, even on twitter I would mention stop glorifying someone's brokenness. Samke has been needing help... This is just painful 💔
Ow bakith Samke, wat a beautiful young soul, my heart breaks for her. I'm worried about her hleh😔
Uzofa lo nasi🤞🏽
My heart breaks from just looking at Samke 🥺 I don't even understand what she's saying 💔
She isn’t making sense, she’s not being honest with herself.
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@@amandanyandeni9179 I feel like she’s struggling from the very same thing she says her mom is struggling from, being a victim in every situation.
Her healing will start once she starts being honest with herself and taking accountability for her actions.
I don't trust her