Grandma vs. Baby’s Birth Mom
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.พ. 2023
- The plaintiff says the defendant had a child with her son, but the child was taken away at birth because there was cocaine in her system. The plaintiff has since adopted the girl, and she’s suing the defendant for stolen cash, lost wages, and emotional distress. The defendant admits she was unstable when the baby was born, but she’s sober now. She claims she only gave up the child because she had four other kids. She’s countersuing for emotional distress.
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No way in Heaven, Hell & anywhere in between this lady is 100% clean. 🙄😒🤦🏽♀️
It’s sad that the defendant never said a word of gratitude to the plaintiff for adopting and taking care of her child
That part smh 🤦🏾♀️
She doesn't care about the child at All ❗
That's humanity these days.
She does not believe she is wrong
@@blackout9519 wrong and strong. Sad.
I had 4 other kids to think about. Trifling af. Ugh
Frfr
Right!!! I had to rewind this to make sure I heard what I thought I heard. how pitiful😩
The last case I saw on here the mother told her adult daughter when she was molested at 4 years old by one of hee mothers boyfriends...the mom said " she must've like it "
@@kayamen2021 Omg noooo. That’s horrible and sick!
That was disgusting of her to say. Horrible
That lady ain’t clean 😂
At AWL
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@@cantgetbettathanthis 🤣😂😂
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Not at all
I was surprised JM didn’t call the defendant a crackhead. She still exhibited crackish ways as JM would say.
That is so not funny. Is crack still around? The news is all about this Fentanyl. He is so not comical....
Can you imagine how that child must feel knowing your mother wouldnt take a parent class to get you back into her care 😢 oh and you care about your 4 other children more!. 💔
I wouldn’t be concerned. I’m sure the little girl is better off
@@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini I agree but there isnt nothing or no one that can take the place of your mother. You have to learn to accept that loss, just like not having a father. It can be a loss that some cant get over.
Meh my real mom wasn’t on any drugs or anything and she signed over rights with the quickness to my grandmother. Technically twice but the 2nd time to eventually adopt me. I’m very glad my real mom did that because I’d have hated being raised by her. She has two other kids so I’ve seen her in real time being a crappy parent.
I hope this video can never be found by the child when older. Too painful. Just remove the video.
@Leola that's YOUR experience. Just bc you were ok with your mom not being there and being a healthy parent. That's doesn't necessarily mean others won't crave the love and relationship with their mother. Your experience is not others. Where was your father? Always blaming yall mama for everything.
It’s sad to hear how much the defendant detached herself from her own daughter aside physically. She kept shouting “my kids” or “my own kids” but kept bring up her daughter by her name never included her as one of her children . So sad but thankfully she’s with her grandmother her seems to love and protect her to the fullest . Blessings to the child 🖤
i know them and her daughter lives with her now. This is old. She's in school with my daughter and my baby will be 11 next week.
@@TrapTech wow congratulations to hear the great news
I don't think SOME people realize how this causes rejection and abandonment issues/seeds. When a child sees all the other children being raised under ONE roof and they were the ONLY ONE sent off to be raised by other family members...develops alot of issues. I'm not blaming anyone because BOTH parents are at fault...I'm speaking in regards to seeds that are planted early on....
@@TrapTech Wait, how did that happen?
@@dragastarr2926 That’s my question as well!
Ain’t no way she 5 years clean unless she has permanent damage
Facts!
It baffles me how individuals (men and women) can bring children to this is world and simply not to care for them. Unbelievable.
Lbh. Many of us are born in this world bc dad's pullout game was weak & mom didn't want or couldn't afford an abortion. Many of us WERE NOT planned births at all.
honestly! I know how I am about my dog...there's no way I could do or say certain things when it comes to my child when I have one.
Clean is not what one in their right mind would describe her as. She is definitely indulging in something regularly.
Im over here like 5 years where...as soon as she started talking ibwas like Lawd lol
Facts
Right!!!
She not going through withdrawals but maybe she did so much that she has that fast talking permanently.
@@lynchsc420 I agree
I feel incredibly sorry for the 4 children with her. The odds are really not in their favor.
Well prepare yourself because we share this world...
unfortunately
I’m still stuck on the defendant saying she didn’t disrespect the adopted daughter but the MIL disrespected her kids as if the girl isn’t ALSO her child. 🤔
The defendant is outrageous, ungrateful, and just a sad case. I hope the child succeeds in life.
She down played her sorry son's, irresponsible behavior. Both of these ladies kids are irresponsible bums
Sad that little girl will grow up and see this episode and hear her mother say "Oh I just let her keep her....I had other kids to think about..."!!!!
The defendant looks worse off than the plaintiffs. Combined with the fast talk and the skinny body frame makes me believe she is still doing drugs. And the fact that she didn’t have a coherent reason for attempting to regain custody.
I get what you are saying, but I take issue with the "skinny body frame!" Perhaps that's her body size? I state that, because I have ALWAYS been skinny and never done drugs. Even after having kids...I can't maintain extra weight!
I have 2 relatives, via marriage, who do cocaine, and you'd never know it by looking at them (i.e. body size)!
@@mommabear8260 I agree. I believe she may be on drugs still just based on her actions and what she's saying.
I never once thought that because she's skinny she's on drugs. She is not THAT skinny to the point where she looks sickly.
I'm confused as hell as to why the plaintiff had the defendant book the reservation anyway. If the defendant's cousin really had stolen the money, I would think that she would be mad about it. Instead, she acted like it's no biggie, and most people who work hard for their money would have already handled that situation and done their best to get their money back, even if it wasn't her money to begin with, it was something special for her daughter.
@@augustmoon9973 because clearly she doesn’t care about her daughter she’s a drug addict she is only loyal to the drugs that she does.
Have the nerve to say she takes very good care of her kids and she don't even have them all together.. Bye Felisha 👋
I hope the grandmother (adopter) throws some of that disdain over to her son, the father.
I believe she did because not now time did she standing there and say her son was a saint expose his wrongdoing as well
Exactly!!
the truth
Exactly I bet she don't say shit to him because she raised him like that.
She can’t. She admitted she was in drugs… she’s likely the reason why he’s doing what he’s doing and she’s making up for it by raising the granddaughter properly.
Drugs are horrible. I feel for this young lady. What a sad life. Glad granny stepped up.
“I don’t disrespect your child, don’t disrespect my children.”The defendant really is a POS
How is she gonna bad mouth the person who has YOUR kid. Grandmom needs to be living her life, not taking care of a child full time.
Eeeggzackly
Seriously. She raised her children.
@@austinbarry8978 But her son is the father and a addict to.. It’s always put the blame fully on the mother he coulda took a drug treatment and parenting classes too smh
@@cocobernard6634 Whether or not he is the father the grandmother should not be responsible which is what my point is. The grandmother has already raised her own children so she should not have to raise her own grandchild.
@@austinbarry8978 Absolutely agreed …
That woman has NOT been clean for 5 years -she is still struggling with drugs. She and the cousin scammed that woman and she know it. God bless both grandmothers for covering the kids on behalf of their no account parents.
it was probally no cousin involved..that was just a cover up
Absolutely! She’s so irritable, agitated & aggravated…. Lord have mercy…😒😒 No appreciation whatsoever!
The audacity and lack of self awareness of the defendant to call someone "sorry" while sitting up here with 4 kids by 3 different men and abandoning one just so she can lighten the load on herself. Wow!
The plaintiff needs to have that same energy towards her son. The child belongs to him too!
Exactly, why does a deadbeat claim a child knowing he will be held accountable for the child and the mom questions the child?
Did she give him money, from the sound of it she don't deal with his junkie self either
No her energy is directed at the right person. This is a case about the mother stealing her money. Wasting time talking about the son isn’t going to get her money back.
“ 2 BY HER SORRY ASS SON” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Miss Booker served no purpose in this case 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You had other kids to think about so why did you have another one that you didn’t want to care for
Thank you
I mean who was watching the others each time she got knocked up - or did she just listen for them in the hallway
I always side-eye a mother who doesn’t take care of her children. I do understand that everyone doesn’t have that maternal instinct, but if you can’t be loyal to your child, your literal blood, I could never deal with you as a woman 🤷🏾♀️
Men too. I never understood how deadbeats have friends 🙄how do they trust him, if he's a deadbeat to his own (child)ren?
Then you should side eye fathers also and I don't deal with them either.
I hear you. The more I learn about addiction and watching these ppl I don’t judge and sometimes we don’t know ppls motives. I find it weird the gma only wants the granddaughter and not the grandson.
@@neisci Oh I definitely do but this isn’t about them. This is about a trifling mother who continued to have children knowing she wasn’t equipped to handle them. Period.
@@Tee2DaWhy we can also say that this is about trifling people who continue to have children knowing they are not prepared. She is just an example of the collective. Irresponsibility and triflingness knows no gender.
This is embarrassing. Bless those poor babies 🙏
I was about to comment the same thing. Some of us melanated people need to get themselves together
The defendants mom know her daughter is wrong, hence why she was quiet at the end. I would agree grandma can be something else but she’s the one raising a child and has to explain to her why her mom is xyz.
Her silence at the end spoke volumes!
Jj
Did anyone catch that the defendent said the Grandma disrespected her kids but she wouldnt dare disrespect Jatoya, as if Jatoya wasn't her child as well?
Woowee I definitely caught that! I was screaming at my phone! I mean how cruel can she be? Her mom is defending her triflin tail too...unbelievable
@MrsCampbell Soup talking about "i ain't gnna let no one touch my daughter" ...but you let your daughter be a dope fiend and get pregnant by an even bigger dope fiend
Caught it but she doesn’t even own her child 😡
Yup, I caught that as well. I knew from the moment of when she gave that weak ass excuse of why she didn’t get her daughter back, that she didn’t really want her and didn’t have any motherly attachments to that baby.
I caught at the beginning when she said she has other kids to think about. 😮 ma’am that is your kid as well
She act like Jatoria isn't her daughter, she was like I never disrespected Jatoria, so don't disrespect my kids!!
At the end the mother didn't dispute any of those claims
The son is also a sad case and trifling for having at least 2 kids and on drugs and nowhere to be found.
The defendant has disconnected herself emotionally from that child. She even had a son afterwards but never bothered to try to get her back. I think she made a good decision to let grandma keep the child but I also think it will affect the child when she realizes she’s the only one that was “given away”. She’s going to want to know why her mom didn’t want her but kept the others. 😔
If that child grows up and has a better life than her siblings ...she may come to understand, it was for the best.
She's upset with the father of the little girl, the father also didn't like her so both parents decided to take their hatred out on their innocent child. I pray for the baby girl 😢.
Well if mom has several children by several men, I’m thinking this is the only baby that was made with this particular man and grandma stepped up. I know some shitty parents that would probably let the kid just go into foster care than care for it. I think she’ll resent her mother a lot but have so much love for her grandmother
@@LissyVee She said that she had another child with the plaintiffs son, so they (allegedly) have two children together.
“Your house has a stench in it” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭 she couldn’t do nothing but walk away cuz she know it’s true 😂😂😂
Unbelievable...grandparents having to raise children all over again..
And she better figure out why she didn't get her back because the child is Definitely going to find her and ask her one day. She will surely ask "Why did you keep 4 but not me?"
Maybe or maybe not. My real mom signed away rights and literally there was nothing wrong with her, I assume she just hated girls. Anyways I’m very grateful she signed away her rights.
" I was a crack head" will be the answer
If the child ask, the truthful direct answer is...Your Grandmother could raise your better, because I was f***ed up and had no money to raise you.
My lady was rising her 4 out of 10 grandkids with major issues 1 greatgrand until she died.
Well she raised a piece of shit son drug addict son who picked up a drug addiction from her. These are a result of her actions
Plaintiff has a smile like comedian Adele Givens. I was waiting for her to start cussing.
She didn't want to put her son out there.
She said he was on drugs and not in his kid life what else she suppose to say? It’s not like she was praising him
I'm glad that the baby was adopted by a family member
The plaintiff CLEARED HER at the end… “your house has a STENCH in it!”
Omg I’d be on my way to bath and body works IMMEDIATELY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That girl's mom had nothing to say when the plaintiff said the daughter was a bad mother. She knew it was true. She takes care of those kids, not the daughter.
Not a STENCH!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LMFAOO THAT TOOK ME OUT
Lmaooooo ! The comment I was looking for! 😂
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I came to the comment section to look for this comment alone!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I dieddd🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Idk why but I truly believe the house DOES, IN FACT, have a stench in it😂😂😂😂
The walk off in that wig got me crying LMFAOOO
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Its wild how she blasted the defendants drug use. Her son is an addict too. She didn’t want to talk ab it . When JM asked she said “he’s out of the picture too”
As a mother of males I’ll say it. We have too hold our sons accountable for their actions as children. Or they’ll grow up to be irresponsible and self involved adults
She ain’t bring it up cause she’s not suing the son
Facts💯
The judge asked her if her son was on drugs and she said yes. What more is there to talk about?
@KCole Bc sons aren't expected 2 b responsible fathers who could have done what it takes 2 get clean & get his daughter out of foster care or 2 prevent grandma from giving up her retirement years 2 raise son's child. Sons are just sperm donors that MAKE BABIES NOT CARE 4 THEM
It's the SOLE responsibility of the mother to do that & we will shame mom when she doesn't. That's what the comments 4 this episode r really saying.
Give the woman a break it’s not like she made him off like a stand up guy or anything
Plaintiff: 🗣️ And your house has a stinch in it"!
Defendant: 🗣️ And you have one"!
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Some people shouldn't be allowed to have children.
License required!!!
What would your comment be if Judge Milian spoke to black litigants the way Judge Mathis did in this case Adrian? I'm genuinely curious, yet don't expect any response....
Defendant said she had 4 other kids to think about. But will not sign the papers for her to adopt. 🤦🏾♀️
“I have an invention for shoes” I could have went my whole life without hearing that sentence.
What is the defendent mom talking about..😂
She might've been on drugs
That grandma had a lot to say about the baby mama but got real hush hush when the question turned to her son.. smh...she didn't have the same energy for her son
Wow! The defendant is wrong for she did to her child. This is just sad! Grandparents raising grandchildren! The defendant is still using!
Did anyone catch the pull up to the house part when the mama said I don't disrespect the child so she shouldn't be disrespecting mines.. she said that as if the little girl isn't her daughter... Smh
16:12
Plaintiff: “Your house has a stench in it”
Defendant: “You have one!” *walks away*
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When I tell you I am laughing so hard because wth
@@jaiblack2002I screamed☠️😂
one thing i cannot stand is when a woman has a child taken away. and then turns around and gets pregnant immediately after that. instead of fighting to regain they lost. how is that baby supposed to feel? won't she wonder why she "wasn't worth" fighting for? and so easily replaced?
also, ms. booker going so hard for "her baby." where is that energy for her other grand baby? or for her daughter not doing what she needed to do to get her life together and get the baby back?
i feel like the baby in the best place, and i honestly wonder how the other 4 kids are faring w/her as a mama b/c she's clearly still using. the mother and father(s) should be ashamed.
Wow. That’s a sad momma. Because she got other kids how will that child feel. I’m disgusted. I had a child at 15 and took care of him very well and I have no sympathy for women like this.
The child will feel resentful and hurt when he/she is older. I'm in that same position of feeling s but was adopted outside the family.
If the grandmother raising her teaching her better it might be a blessing
I commend you mama….
Plaintiff: “And her house has a stench in it”
Defendant: “you have one”. 😮😂😂😂
“And your house has a stench in it “ “and u have one “ 😂😂😂😂
Im not planning a trip with a former crackhead especially if I can’t confirm everything through a professional 3rd party. I’d have never trusted them in the first place though, I’d have said well I’ll meet up with you.
Exactly!!
Correct
Right...that was crazy of her 😂
if you a mama.. and you ain't got ya baby, and your mama got ya baby, then you not the mama, yo grandma is the baby
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 funnyyyyyy
Thank you. Been through that. Mothers sister and husband got me from the hospital. To keep me from going into foster care. Adopted me at what age I’m not sure. Never lived with the other lady- she lived up the street though, but still down street at my house all the time, and as far back 7 years old remember her wanting me to call her my mother. But you’re not ma’am- you live up the street with the other two. I live with these people who feed me, and gave me their last name- take me to school, taught me to read, etc- so Imma call them my parents
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No type of incomes! It is called income
Curious as to why JM wasn’t much more harder on the defendant in this case…
She’s terrible
That girl is still on dope. Her mother knows it, but a mother's (any real mother) love has her looking thru rose colored glasses. I hope she fully recovers and live up to her FULL potential 🙏
She's not still on drugs
@@flow3rgurll yeah okay, if you believe that, You're not paying attention 🤔🤷🏽🙏🏽
@@flow3rgurll Her and her mom obviously still smoke cracktogether.
So much for not passing judgment! 😂
sometimes you just can’t help yourself.
Right she gave it to her at the end
@@Po0pii1
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Cracking up! At the end when she said your house has a stench in it 🤣🤣🤣
Alot of our Brorhers are so damn reckless.
This is so sad. The plaintiff raised her kids & now she’s picking up the slack for 2 irresponsible adults. Damn shame.
Thank God for this grandmother stepping up.
At the end Doyle thought he was going to have to fight. 😩😂
Ms. Booker walked into court like she's about to be on all BULLSH*T!! Sad that Grandma has custody. Where's the Dad at? 😒
The mom said he's on drugs too...
Did you watch the case
@@CS48293 I'm watching now
Poor baby... Mom and Dad discombobulated. God Bless This Granny and Her Granddaughter.
@@mrshappilymarried1 a lot of black mothers be on crack and coke smh
I hope everyone has a wonderful Monday night and or day ✌🏻
She giving me Halle berry “losing Isaiah” vibes 😂😂
Run away now 😂 I’m screaming!
I see that too💯
@@ladyroyalsupremest Fits the case perfectly 🤣
Judge know she is high, he laughed🤣🤣she couldn't tell him whether or not this imaginary cousin was issuing her a refund 🤣
When I saw the thumbnail, I thought the defendant was the grandmother
I had to go back & look at the thumbnail 😆 I thought the same thing 🤣 It's that wig & her posture 🤣🤣🤣
She called her a liar and the woman said, "So." She was honest that time! Shame. This is what that girl's mom created...a woman who became a bad mom and drug head. Bless them.
The defendant can't pay for a bus ride.
The plaintiff hasn't been on drugs for 16 years, the granddaughter is 6.
This is a messed up situation....DRUG GENERATIONAL CURSE.
This is a sad case. I feel bad for the kids
All I can think about is one day that daughter will see this video 😢😢😢
The poor baby will feel rejection issues because of the mama
This ep reminds me of my nieces Mom. My brother has been raising her since she was 3. She doesn’t have any of the 7 besides 1. She just had number 7 at 24 weeks old and I feel so bad for the baby. He’s fighting as a premie and for that I thank GOD! 🤲🏾😊
He sounds like a very strong little baby....
Your brother should have picked better. That woman just ain’t get like that. He knew
Doyle was ready when the defendant walked in front of the plaintiff 🤣
READY!
Doyle said AHT AHT, not on my watch! Baby when I tell you he does exactly everything his job description entails him to🤞🏼🫡🤝
45 sec in I know JM is not going to be nice to the defendant.
But he wasn’t rude at all to her!
@Monique Brown he wasn't but I did say I was 45 sec in 🥴
😂you’re right
He was worse towards the plaintiff
@@moniquebrown7738 sadly a lot of black mothers be on cocaine and crack
I see that a lot of people are saying that the plaintive needs to give that same energy to her son but she is. This case was not about her son, this case was about the child’s mother stealing $400… I’m pretty sure that the plaintive is holding her son responsible because she’s not in court defending her son. How long do we want the show to really be?
She spent that money on drugs and took the other kids to McDonald's with that money
When the child get old enough to understand she will resent her biological mother, I'm glad her grandmother adopted her
I pray that she forgives her; GOD requires it!
The other child that needs the DNA test will hurt too
The defendant momma know her daughter ain’t shit
Doyle was like now look don't you even do it.. now keep walking... at the end... Doyle be on it with click clack shoes on...😄
😂😂😂😂
Listen those click clack shoes never disappoint.😂😂
"You might be the next Michael Jordon" everybody faced look awkward 😂😂😂
Catering? I wouldn’t eat a stick of bubble gum from her 🤦🏾♀️ With a devilish spirt 🙊 Does hair? Yet has a synthetic piece of wig sitting stiff and extra layered on her head? So… no income? But had 2 side hustles? I’m assuming she means consistent income. How is she catering with no license 🪪 to do so so? Whew Chile!
I’m screaming🤣🤣🤣 Lawd!!
The mom came in looking like a MAN😭😭😭😭😭i had to double back😂😂😂😂
Not your house has a stench in it😩🤣
Raising a baby is scary, and if you're alone, it can be terrifying. You are now responsible for a human being who is completely dependent on you, who'll copy you to learn language, behavior, values. You see the problem here?
That is very selfish of her. What about your daughter? Raise all of your children.
Judge Mathis is too busy Protecting his ego, I don't even think he heard what she said when he said does hes she's smoke, She said no because she doesn't smoke she snorts. He always goes into his own feelings . It starts attacking people
Seriously. I will not miss his show. Lol.
He's so soft! He's always been emotional and in his feelings. He's worse than every female that I know.
Soooooo when y'all keep popping out kids, you don't take care of the younger ones, because you have others to think about? Wow🤣
It’s disappointing how JM doesn’t come down on these horrible mothers the way he comes down on a bad father. There could be a man with one kid who has an issue and he’ll call him a deadbeat and berate him the whole show, but this woman comes on with five kids, custody of 4, 1 born with cocaine in her system, on welfare, doing nothing at all and stealing money from the woman who adopted her child, & he acts like there is no problem! I respect JM but this type of bias irks me!
The plantiff wasnt being messy enough when he got to them crack smoke jokes, almost lost her case 😂😂😂
15:11 🤣🤣 "ima go sue hur, so go sue hur"
🤣😂😂he said so what happened to your good name ma’am
Five kids and feel sorry for all of them to have a mother like that
She was hesitant to speak about how her SON was out of the picture in the beginning. 🤔
that post interview was exactly the laugh I needed. I truly hope everyone involved is doing very well today. whew, Stashana and her momma are wrong however that's just how it is...............